“Why Men Shut Down: Pastor Keion Explains 🚪💔

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  • čas přidán 20. 05. 2024
  • “Watch as Pastor Keion Henderson delivers a powerful message about male vulnerability and the dangers of misusing intimate disclosures in this latest video on Boldbelievers. Discover the critical importance of creating a safe space for men to express their emotions without fear of retribution. Pastor Henderson explains how using a man’s openness against him can lead to shutdown and silence, impacting relationships deeply. This video is a must-watch for anyone looking to foster deeper connections and understanding. Subscribe to Boldbelievers for more enlightening content that challenges and inspires.”
    #PastorKeionHenderson #MaleVulnerability #Boldbelievers #EmotionalSafety #CommunicationInRelationships #MenAndEmotions #relationships #OpenUp #TrustInRelationships #HealingConversations #love #shortsfeed

Komentáře • 35

  • @Papal_Sword
    @Papal_Sword Před měsícem +8

    Great speech

  • @Dontcareanymore76
    @Dontcareanymore76 Před 23 dny +1

    He's 100% right. 😮‍💨

  • @StunningMeDesigns
    @StunningMeDesigns Před měsícem +6

    Goes both ways. But we don’t hear pastors talking bout it’s mutual

    • @BoldBelievers
      @BoldBelievers  Před měsícem +1

      I believe it can be a two way thing but I think it especially applies to a man

    • @yugimuto2404
      @yugimuto2404 Před měsícem +1

      It's not two ways. Because females biologically are more emotional. While men have deep emotions meaning they are buried. While women are emotional. Men rarely ever bring up your traumas in a argument because he, himself have trauma he won't talk about so we rarely ever pick at women emotions

  • @gonzilla10721
    @gonzilla10721 Před měsícem +5

    FACTS!!!!!

  • @robertbaker1675
    @robertbaker1675 Před 11 dny

    True

  • @michelelupo3207
    @michelelupo3207 Před měsícem +2

    More
    Need to hear more. Spread the love!

  • @kjelsmaa
    @kjelsmaa Před 27 dny

    At the moment... 835 likes and NO dislikes

  • @mr.wilson9178
    @mr.wilson9178 Před měsícem +2

    True.

  • @kbedel1982
    @kbedel1982 Před 29 dny

    Speechless

  • @ewan3900
    @ewan3900 Před měsícem +1

    True true true

  • @user-ii9qc9fd4v
    @user-ii9qc9fd4v Před měsícem +3

    💯

  • @LeslieSierra-kl3sz
    @LeslieSierra-kl3sz Před měsícem +2

    ❤❤

  • @ceddi18394
    @ceddi18394 Před 8 dny

    Where can I find the whole speech in a video please?

  • @AshleySzczukowski
    @AshleySzczukowski Před 14 dny

    What about the reverse? I’ve been tormented by my man for things I shared in private and vulnerably

  • @__rachel___
    @__rachel___ Před 28 dny

    ‼️‼️‼️

  • @dawnbanks3060
    @dawnbanks3060 Před měsícem +5

    That’s right for men and women.

    • @BoldBelievers
      @BoldBelievers  Před měsícem +1

      I do agree it can both way but I think it especially applies to men

    • @AirForceCJ
      @AirForceCJ Před 29 dny

      @@BoldBelieversExactly. Men are impacted so much more, especially because we don’t trust people because of this! I don’t know if you’re going to stab me in the back, so I don’t tell you about anything. Even with a close group of friends, my classmates at school, I don’t tell them things. I don’t tell them the highs, and I don’t tell them the lows. You will use my lowest moments against me, no matter of what my highs look like. And for that reason I don’t trust or open up.

    • @georgeprecious1036
      @georgeprecious1036 Před 29 dny +4

      Let men have this one, stop always trying to make it an equality thing. let the men have this one.

  • @AboriginalWoman_
    @AboriginalWoman_ Před měsícem +2

    Preach to the Men who do it all the time

    • @GlamVogueDiaries
      @GlamVogueDiaries Před měsícem

      Why do women always deflect are you a child ffs

    • @georgeprecious1036
      @georgeprecious1036 Před měsícem

      Because he has been hurt before by the experience and he suspects you would do the same, because there are times you show the trait. Why not listen instead of trying to find a way to be defensive.

    • @AboriginalWoman_
      @AboriginalWoman_ Před měsícem

      ​@@georgeprecious1036women open up all the time and he will then use what she told him an use it against her to win a argument. U upset cause u probably done it too ! So No !!! Talk to Men check Men ... Women talk to women

    • @joopdesmit
      @joopdesmit Před 29 dny

      For once this isn't about what men do to women. Which is, admittedly way way too much. For this one time, this is about one thing that women do to men. And there are more, but this is one.
      Thank you for your comment, immediately proving Pastors' point.

    • @georgeprecious1036
      @georgeprecious1036 Před 29 dny

      @@AboriginalWoman_ Men do are not petty enough to use what a woman told them in an argument, it's women that do that. Also this is a men's discussion, why did you feel the need to butt in? Secondly only men raised by y'all women would ever be so petty to mention when you explained to them as a 1 up on an argument. Men typically don't care, we try logic and when it fails we become silent. The most complaint i have heard from women, is why don't men speak? So stop dating women you assume are men because the act like men(studs) and assume men and what you refer to as studs are alike.

  • @mreverstrucked23
    @mreverstrucked23 Před měsícem +1

    Mmmmm

  • @georgeprecious1036
    @georgeprecious1036 Před měsícem

    Women; insert self - anytime they talk about men

  • @zigzag-xx2yd
    @zigzag-xx2yd Před měsícem +5

    And let me guess, this teaching came from Jesus?!!!! No, it comes from actually thinking and realizing real truth!!! But the same thing goes when a woman opens up!!! Most men shut down when their women try to open up to them! Goes both ways!!! We all express our emotions in different ways, regardless of being a man or a woman. When someone we love and want to respect doesn't accept our feelings and respect them, then this significant other isn't really significant!

    • @Altimeter496
      @Altimeter496 Před měsícem

      >it goes both ways.
      Where do men weaponize the emotions of their female partners without provocation? I can't give you a handful of examples where I've seen guys weaponize the emotions of females in their life unprovoked, but I can think of thousands of personal examples of women weaponizing the emotions of males.
      Stop trying to equalize this suffering and issue cause it's not.

    • @Michael-bh8dj
      @Michael-bh8dj Před měsícem +1

      Ok not arguing with you but try to follow me for a moment. When you hear black lives matter. It doesn't mean all lives don't matter. Just want to talk about this for a min. Woman please just hear it and think. Is what he said true or not.

  • @Goggans
    @Goggans Před měsícem

    But men get mad when women do the same. Where are the men who follow after Christ and not egos?