Mother-In-Law demands HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS from MY WIFE as REPAYMENT for years of "HELP"
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0:00 Entitled Mother-in-law demands my wife hands over hundreds of dollars to her, as debt repayment for all the times she has “helped” my wife over the years. (u/Nel_Nugget)
6:15 Am I the Jerk for laughing at my cousin after she had an absolute meltdown over her boss seeing her buy toilet paper at Costco? (u/Putesfhk)
9:57 Am I the Jerk for stringing my family along in believing that I would go on vacation with them, to help take care of their children. (u/Kindly-Common8527)
13:20 Would I be the jerk if I bought my own designer handbag that would cost me upwards of $3,000? (u/GiraffeAcceptable114)
16:07 Am I the Jerk for refusing to share my huge inheritance that I am receiving from my dad? (u/Beginning_Jaguar9693)
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“YOU’RE LAUGHING AT ME?!?!”
Well, you are laughable.
*Story 1:* Assuming the story is true, talk about crazy mother in law and sister. They don't deserve any money after the way they treat OP's wife. It's worse than awful. I would've not only cut off contact with controlling mother and sister-in-law, but I would've flat-out refused to give them any money. They deserve no such things.
If the wife is concerned about having outstanding debt and being cut off from the extended family due to the mother's claims, OP and their wife could request that the mother send them a copy of the tax invoice the mother paid off, then go over every bank transfer or cash transfer the wife has given the mother to pay off said debt. Whatever is outstanding (possibly far less than the $900 claimed) they should send an email or text stating clearly that the debt for the tax invoice - including all details regarding the tax invoice - is now paid in full, as per X payments over this period (state the date of each payment and the amount). Then state clearly that since this debt is now paid in full there should be no further discussions regarding said former debt needed. Then go low to no contact, and make it clear to the extended family before the mother has a chance to spin the story with lies and half-truths. It's not because OP's wife is upset she paid a bill but because of the mother and sister's manipulative, abusive, and increasingly aggressive and unhinged behaviour.
Story 3: NTA. The OP didn’t ask to be born, and shouldn’t be an unpaid babysitter for the nieces and nephews. And yes, the parents and siblings DO mistreat OP. “Old”, “Different Generation”, no excuses for domestic slavery.
Say it with me: parentification.
Story 1: Okay, why is the OP and the wife even remotely in contact with this awful MIL? She clearly favors the sister here and doesn't give a crap about the wife at all. Just because they are "family" does not mean you need to be in contact with them, especially when she refers to your child as 'work'. That alone should've been an eye-opener for the wife here. OP and the wife have no reason to apologize for anything here and definitely do not need to give her a single penny. Keeping that phone line is just a really sad and pathetic attempt to both control her life and a way to basically extort money from here in the future.
Story 2: No way is the OP a jerk here, and the cousin here is a major drama queen.... good grief. Its only toilet paper.... seriously, what the heck is wrong with her? I would've laughed at her too.
Story 3: OP isnt a jerk here, though they shouldn't be stringing them alone. Just re-inforce the fact that you aren't going to do anymore unpaid babysitting for anybody here. Set those boundaries and be very strict about them. You are not obligated to be taking care of your siblings kids, no matter where or how old they are. Once the OP is 18, i would consider going low contact with some of the people in this family.
Story 4: If this your money or joint money, then no, not the jerk at all. If this is his money and only his money, then yes you'd be the jerk. My opinions on a $3000 bag aside, if this is your money, then you can buy whatever you want. Just make sure you are able to pay your debts and mortgages and dont live outside your means.
Story 5: OP is not a jerk at all, and frankly, he needs to get a seperate lawyer here too. I can almost be sure that the mom, stepdad and step-siblings are going to try and do something underhanded to make sure that they get something out of the trust. I get that the mom and stedad struggled with money and the one step-sibling had medical issues, this shouldnt fall on the OPs shoulders. If he wants to help the step-siblings, then thats totally up to him here. If they keep up with the guilt tripping, i would consider cutting contact.
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Story 2: What kind of mental gymnastics do you have to go through in order to conclude that your boss will fire you if he ever realizes that sometimes you have to poop? Like... Do you honestly assume that unless you see that someone has indoor plumbing in their home, it evident that they go through life while never having a bowel movement? You're not Kim Jung Un.
Story 2: I seriously have to wonder if the cousin in that story isn't at all suffering from some form of mental illness because frankly there is really no good or justifiable reason to be acting the way she did. Because what she said and how she reacted simply doesn't make any logical sense whatsoever.
No doubt she has a clinical mental illness.
It's absolutely some mental issue, either for attention or an anxiety disorder.
Either way, her reaction is far beyond what's a normal, and it was completely unjustified. NTA
The mom just asking for money for life.
Story 2 WTF is wrong with the person buying toilet paper? 😮
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The mother in wanting money, sounds like my parents. Once myself and my siblings reached 18, we got a bill for everything that considered extra while we were growing up.
Instead of paying the mother in law, he should make a list of everything his wife did for her. Chores, etc. Then send the mother in law a bill and tell her 'this is what you owe my wife, plus whatever you paid for her sisters college as you refused to help my wife, minus the 900 we apparently owe you. Please psy it promptly.' If it were me, i'd have a lawyer deliver it and smirk at the interaction from my car.
Story two, is this lady crazy for buying toilet paper in Costco? i would have been laughing as well. You're no jerk. Story 3,as the youngest sibling, don't mean you're a built in babysitter.go enjoy your vacation with your friends. If you have the money and really want the hand bag buy it.
I lived that first story to the point I almost got a cold sweat from the memories…
Yeah i'm with the boyfriend in the story about the purse. Narrator brought how people spend that kind of money on computers and car parts but those are all things with a practical value. A woman who would spend three grand on an accessory is either a gold digger or a snob. Neither of which is something a guy wants to be associated with.
I'm sorry, how is spending 3 grand on a purse a gold digger in any way? It's only a gold digger if the OP was using the BF money in any sort of way, which she isn't. She's using her own money to pay for this purse (which yes, I agree is stupid). I think you're using the term "gold digger" in the wrong situation here friend.
On the first story again, block them ALL
Turok: Dinosaur Hunter playing in the background
Me: I AM TUROK!!!!!
The kid in the last story. Because parents pay 50/50, and your mother struggled so much. Although it is not your responsibility, you could calculate what it cost to raise you, to the age of 18. Divided by 3 and put that in a college fund for your stepsisters. While in the interim telling your family that you will help them with their college fund in part.
I mean I can't have kids, can't biologically have kids. And I'm leaving my money not to my siblings but, to their kids and a couple charities, that I already donate to. Skipping over my siblings.
So if he took the money, that his dad would have contributed, if his parents were divorced. 50% although it is not in any way his responsibility as the child. It might relieve some strain on his current situation, assuming he doesn't hate, his stepsisters. And a college fund cannot be used to take a trip across the backcountry. You could set it up so the money would revert back to you if they didn't use it for college or vocational training.
Now he's not obligated to do this at all, Eddie shouldn't give anything to his stepdad. But since the money comes from his dad and his bomb struggle to raise him without, any help from his dad. He could put what she put into his upbringing, torrid's what she said she would have spend the money on if she had had child support. Knowing full well she would use that money to improve the family's overall financial situation, while she was raising you. And this is only if it wouldn't greatly impact, him.
And it sounds like his mother & stepdad didn't put too much into raising him. Of course when he receives the money he could always renege, he can't sign a contract like that until he's 18, and since mother would be pushing for him to sign something now, it would not be illegal for her to co-sign. Any two-bit lawyer could get him out of any promises he makes now. But again if he doesn't like his siblings, just plan on backing out.
Story 2: the people at Costco don't care what you buy or what the other employees buy. The only time employees care about other employees buying stuff is if you pay for non-essential items when you should be working so that cousin would be insane or have a mental illness of some kind
*《INHERITANCE STORY》*
. I actually have a legality question here... _Is that money_ actually _100% OP's, like, legally speaking?_ OP definitely said her parents were separated *but still married* when her father died. _Soooo, wouldn't she be legally entitled to half his money, as his wife?_ Perhaps they had a prenup, or were _legally_ separated before his death?
. Either way, I think OP may need to contact an attorney. _Preferably the same one that helped her father set up that trust for her._ Because she needs to cover her bases.
And family dose not stick to gether.
“Family is a sinkhole. You should get out while you still can.”
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.
Story 4: .. its OPs money.. if she has the extra; then its her choice.... But.. $3k for a purse is kinda ridiculous
for 3k that bag better have a personal teleporter in it
Yeah I agree with both of your points here. It's OP's money here, so she can spend it however she likes. Also yeah, 3k for a purse is stupid. I'd rather spend that much on video games or fast food that could last me for a decade lol
Story 5: I get where OP's coming from and I wish I'd gad the courage to step away from being the family babysitter. I'm 31 and i still gravitate to my nieces and nephews at family gatherings cause I both have so much more in common with them at this point and because its basically trained into me to be with the kids and not the adults
Last story: I have to assume that since OP was living with their mum before their dad passed, that means that the dad was paying child support? That means he WAS looking after OP's raising needs and the mum wnd stepdad have absolutely zero ground to stand on about trying to take any of OP's money. OP's dad left it for OP, it belongs to OP, and OP deserves the better start in life their father left them
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Story about the handbag, sounds like the husband is just trying to build up as much cash as possible before he steals it all and disappears
Im glad i have good family
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Story 2: I'm sorry but I find this story to be hilarious. OBVIOUSLY, the OP isn't the jerk. This cousin is acting out of line. Like, why would you get fired for buying toilet paper? We all need toilet paper. If I was the boss, of course I wouldn't fire someone over something EVERYONE needs. If she DOES get fired, the people working there are just plain stupid lol
Final Story: yeah OP here isn't a jerk. His inheritance, his choice. The narrator also hit the nail on the head when he repeated his lottery/inheritance quote. They don't actually care about this original poster. They just want his money from him.
Story 3 sounds made up. Kid is only 17 and has a long history of looking after his nieces and nephews? How many vacations do they go on?
In regards to the last post.
I don't know why people bring up the money issue when they find that family member has money coming to them from a parent(s) or grandparent(s).
It makes it a lot worse and pushes the recipient to say no.
When, if they just left issue alone, they would have given the idea a second thought.
Did the video uploaded before this get taken down? On my lunch break at work, I was watching a vid about how a nephew tricked his uncle into paying a lot more for a repair to his bow than he was supposed to. Was going to finish but now that vid is gone.
I think it was a mistake its probably tomorrow video
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Last story I'd figure out a plan now to get the hell out now or when I turn 18 and tell my mom and stepdad peace out cub scout I'm not sharing my money with them and their future sounds like step-dad's problem not mine. If you divorce him would you care about them then? Last i checked they weren't my family just because you got married.
Time to go no contact, this will work for all op i did that years ago and i'm better for it.
For the one with the purse, i don't really see the point of buying a designer bag but what's the point of working so hard to make good money and be more than financially stable if you can't spend it on something you like once in a while. If the money is not his, then i don't see why his making such a huge deal it's not like she's going to buy 20 purses
I would get that crazy cousin an everybody poops book
On the first story, op you and your wife needs to put your alls foot down and put a stop to the crap. I would get another phone and EVERYTHING off of the old phone and ship it to your CRAZY mil.
Story 2. Oh, get the he11 over it. Dang
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$3,000 for a bag, how?
Same reason for buying a Rolex, Ferrari, Laborghini, Armani, etc: to show off like a peacock attracting a mate.
I am going to just give them the 1000 she gave us for the wedding and cut contact, but I don't know what to do!
Oh, another examination of the basic alignment chart.
Giving part of your inheritance to step siblings who will not have an easy time of it is good.
Not giving money to the less fortunate is neutral.
Being a dick about having money when they don't is evil.
Just don't be a dick and you're fine. Not great, not a saint, not even a good person, but fine.
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His mother-in- law just playing favourite because paying one college daughter over the other daughter. Just this mother just want slave to look her op wife sister. Why she one daughter is dum?
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