Ben needs years of substance support with out Garner she has her own partner unless..she wants to loose that to..she is nice but you have your own family can't save both Jlo has ADHD...she thinks by acting crazy she is getting into heaven..girl you gone be dancing the pole for Satan... sorry to be graphic but is fact...I feel sorry for the kids first Alex .now Ben and their dad am not even going there.. one more tattoo and I won't recognize him..went to one of his concerts it was crap ..sorry fact your voice was not there..left mid concert.
What do the ladies see in him? He always seems in a bad mood and pissed off all the time. He couldn’t even get along with Jennifer Garner for heavens sake.
Nice guy... his crappy attitude was due to living with & dealing with jlow. All men turn that way after being with her. *Ben Affleck *ARod *Marc Anthony.
@@janetbishop9713Don't you remember that he said about Garner that he started drinking because he felt miserable in his marriage with her. He also continued dating Shookus, one of the many women he was having an affair with during his marriage with Garner, right after his divorce with Garner was finalized. This says that he deeply loves humiliating his women. He is a partner from Hell! Your comment also says that you really hate accomplished women.
@@user-iq4ow3fn1the will be a lonely man inside, nanny to nanny type til who knows what..male friends, counseling, shrink he needs your help now before he gets out of control!! I hope the best for both
I can see why you would say that I can see from your perspective which very well could be true…… I also, think he wanted some Hollywood’s attention his movie acting career seems to be cold 🥶 marrying Jlo he received boatloads of attention spiced up his career so he thought so the chase wasn’t worth it showing him being a clout chaser….. where is the love ? They never appeared to be in ❤.
You’re blaming a man who is a recovering alcoholic whose wife is too selfish and self centered to respect his need for privacy? The woman who shared his intimate, personal notes and letters to her with the crew, friends, family. JLo trotted Affleck around in public like a show pony and expected him to jump and do tricks as her arm candy. Lopez is on divorce number four; he returned back to her hoping that they could rekindle what they had 20+ years ago with maturity. They were both foolish to think that it would work. Affleck needs to focus on his sobriety; JLo needs to learn how to be happy independently and focus on what’s left of her career.
@arkeldien What you’re describing is exactly what narcissists do - they objectify people and literally treat people the way kids treat toys. They put people on shelves (aka neglect them emotionally and lose interest in them) the way you get bored of a toy and put it on the shelf and only use people when it serves them. You guys defending him should listen to his Howard stern interview - he was basically blaming his alcoholism on Jennifer garner and his marriage to her. Now suddenly all he wants to do is constantly hang out with garner when he kept saying being stuck in his marriage with her made him want to drink til he blacked out. He’s also doing a narcissistic manipulation tactic called triangulation - it’s when a narc brings in a 3rd party into their relationship bc it allows the narc to control and manipulate both people by pitting them against each other as they vie for the narcs attention, affection, loyalty and thus will do things like appease the narc, not call the narc out for abusive or bad behavior, etc all in the hopes the narc “picks” them over the other person. He always triangulated JLo and Garner by claiming he started falling in love with Jen garner since they acted in Pearl Harbor together (which was a year before he proposed to JLo for the first time) and immediately after he ended his relationship with JLo, he got married to Garner. Now he’s doing it again - he got married to JLo but he keeps excluding her from all the family trips and going with only Garner (unlike JLo who includes Ben in her kids’ events) and has been photographed just hanging out having long talks with garner and even being weirdly touchy feely with garner a few times. So he’s did it again - triangulating the 2 Jens. This guy needs serious help - addiction is not his only issue, it’s his narcissistic tendencies that makes him miserable and narcissists often use substances to cope with their feelings of emptiness and worthlessness. Idk if JLo and Garner are toxic people but cmon - let’s not forget how Ben Affleck decided to end his marriage to Garner: he deliberately f*cked their nanny while all of them were under the same roof and while Jennifer garner was desperately trying to save her marriage and keep their family together. This guy is a menace - can you comprehend how much that messes with a kids mind on a subconscious level to know that your dad was f*cking the lady taking care of you whenever your mom would go to sleep at night or leave the house? The reason we know he was screwing the nanny was bc he didn’t even bother to hide it. This guy is a menace. He’s beyond just a pitiful innocent little addict - he’s caused so much heartbreak - his kids hearts, Jennifer garners heart, JLo and her kids hearts, etc. being an addict doesn’t mean you’re not also a crappy person with bad morals and no empathy and narcissistic tendencies.
Why is everyone blaming her alone? Why did he marry her? He KNEW what he was getting into. HE came back and got into this situation on his own. He knew who she was and what she was like and still went ahead and married her. Cry me a river, Ben. 🙄
The biggest mistake of JLO is marrying the man who once left her and Ben's biggest mistake was divorcing (eventually he regret) the mother of his 3kids
Wow really? She needs to quit being a control freak obviously thought she snap'd outta all about me issue. I can see why he likes being around his ex Garner she is awesome plus he has children with her. Run Ben
@@Judy-ns6eq yes i agree with you Ben even regretted divorcing Garner and maybe has a chance of getting back together after all they have 3kids to consider and obviously they still love each other..Ben admitted he married jlo due to temporary insanity ouch! Poor JLO that is why i said Jlo's mistake is marrying the man who once left her...well things happens for a reason Hoping the best for all of them esp for the kids
@@anavoodoo7122not necessarily. Sometimes men stay out of obligation to their families/children, or for financial reasons. I see a lot of men in unhappy marriages who are afraid to leave. Some don't think they can do better. It's sad
He has stopped drinking. But then his new wife decided to start her own alcohol brand. She’s a narcissist who only cares about herself. A nasty human being 🤮
I’m not saying he does not do that but let’s look a JLOs way of marriage she goes after married guys enjoys the chase never a relationship. She’s one who loves butterflies not actually married life. Even her kids once they stopped being fun do we hear about them or see her ever being mom. I mean she’s got so much money but we never see her happy she’s always chasing more and more. Her life is never enough.
He’s been sober and he always looks miserable. I’d start drinking again if I were him…why go through life being miserable just so you can say your “sober”
He was a broken man when J Lo got back with him. Ladies, we can’t fix broken men leave them where they’re at J Lo don’t ever get married again stay single, and free and live your life beautifully.!
@@yolied2745 Yes I agree ! We don't have to spend our life trying to fix a man ! It's a choice and I choose to stay single b cause I haven't met a man in all my 65 years that has what it takes and well the compromises are to much and some woman are willing to go through that but not this one !
Mmm honestly as much as I like Ben I believe he is the problem. He keeps going back and forth between her and garner and I don’t know why 💀🫠 also he behaved the same way with garner smh
I think ppl can still make mistakes when they're older, after all one way we learn and evolve is through suffering and mistakes so I believe we shouldn't be to judgemental.
Jennifer is a snobby and arrogant woman! She treats everyone around her as if they’re trash that she can just throw out! I used to think she was this kind, loving, and warm person but after I saw a few clips of how she was talking to the people that work for her and the way she would talk to Ben and treat him in public, I saw exactly why he drinks! I’d need to stay wasted too if I had to deal with her all the time. If I was him I’d be like, “Do I have to go home”😭😭😭 But I’m not gonna pretend like he’s not an a-hole too bc he definitely is! He should’ve never had left his wife. He thought the grass was greener on the other side but he quickly found out it’s just dirt! And I say dirt bc Jennifer Lopez was playing with people’s marriages like it was a little game. I don’t think she really wanted to be with him, she just liked all the attention it brought to her and she flaunted that relationship all in his wife’s face to taunt her; like, “I can have him back whenever I want”.
@@debrajones4010you are 100% right in ALL that you said! I’ve always felt the exact same about both of these arrogant a*sholes. After seeing her on a special that MTV did of her whenever she was with Diddy in the early ‘00’s, I have never liked her, and it backs up these same claims that you saw. She’s trash, and finally ended up with someone just as filthy. I don’t feel bad for either one, just the people they hurt.
Listen, if he couldn't get along with Jennifer Garner what made Lopez think that she would be able to please him. Jen Garner is like the sweetest lady ever. 🤪 Seems to me that Ben is the problem.
How do you know she’s not focused on her children? We have no idea what has gone on behind closed doors. He might be needed, she might be a control freak, he might be a drunk… or the love they once had just isn’t there anymore because they grew apart. Maybe Marc Anthony butts in, maybe J.Gar butts in. We dont know. All i know is, i feel bad that their marriage is all or there for people to judge on.
Take a break Jennifer and be happy with your children. We all need to feel loved. But at what cost? Take time to relearn who you are and what your dreams were and live J.
Oui, prenez le temps... Un petit temps pour "recharger vos batteries"... Et foncer à nouveau sur une énième relation amoureuse !! Le compte va être énorme en fin du compte... Quelle forme et quelle énergie pour épuiser autant d'hommes ! 😅
Well let's be honest you don't know how he feels about his children and that is nothing but an empty assumption on your part .Stick to what you actually know is fact .
Ben is boring and wants to live the smoking and alcoholic life!! He complains about his EXs all the time. He blamed his miserable life on Garner now he’s doing the same with Jlo 🤦🏻♀️
@@Cin-p6g If his next gf or wife supports him staying sober then he already won. JLo is a controlling diva who wants to be in charge of everything. He should be glad that he got rid of her. Should have listened to Matt Damon.
Do NOT marry people with addictions, it will always turn out this way! They need love too - yes - but unless you want a rollercoaster lifestyle, plagued with abuse, do not do it! It takes a “special” kind of person willing to put with with an addicts’ mindset, one that they have to manage for the rest of their lives.
JLow’s addition to attention doesn’t help. She is a Narcissist & neeeds all the attention on her. At least Ben is getting better. Can’t say the same about her.
Damn that's worse than what he said about his first wife. Talking about how he was miserable with her. If he had stayed in their marriage anymore, he would have gone crazy. If you said that about her, what do you think he was going to say about you.😱😱🤣🤣
This guy is a problem any girl who date him will have hard time … he seems not be the husband material type.. the way he treats both wives said more about him than them..
We are so quick to vilify women. You ever been in a relationship with someone who refuses to grow up and you end up being forced to mother them? No woman WANTS that role and eventually it breaks down. He thinks she’s no longer fun because she doesn’t just enable him. She gets tired of carrying all the responsibilities. Lopez is hard working, accomplished, and disciplined. Ben looks like he fell into his roles by accident. Meanwhile Ben still hasn’t taken accountability for his poor decisions and actions, or how they affect others. HE is a grown man who made a grown-up decision but then didn’t do the work to be a grown-up. So he blamed her. So typical.
Everyone taking sides is delusional. They both have horrible track records and circled back to one another out of desperation. At least Ben has less divorces under his belt. If you go through that amount of failed marriages, it’s time to take accountability and realize you’re the problem. They deserved each other.
And she will only find true love and happiness within herself...not by going in and out of relationships. She's seems very Needy and can't live without a man.
You don't even know her???? You sound like a projecting projectile????? When you don't feel sorry for others, others won't feel sorry for you. You get what you put out. Law of cause and effect. We all have problems, circumstances, situations, etc. Who are you? Judge Judy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She wouldn't have divorced Marc Anthony. Two Puerto Ricans, just 1 year apart in age , both singers and actors and 2 babies together. What more do you want. He loved her, too. Nothing is enough for some people.
@@pamelaknecht441 I've never heard that. Nevertheless , divorce sucks. 50% divorce rate is way too high. That's not normal. Something is fundamentally wrong.
@@villaespesa1I’m older and was married for 38 years before my husband passed. Today it’s so easy to ‘just get a divorce’. I took my vows seriously. 🙏🏼♥️🪽
@@pamelaknecht441 I dont blame him for feeling that way one bit. She is so overly obsessed with herself...it has to be all about her. She has to be the center of attention, if not - she throws a fit. That woman looks and talks down on other musicians and actresses... she just thinks in her delusional mind that she is the hardest working, most deserving, best actress, dancer, singer and that she is above all the others. Never heard her give other entertainers their flowers, she never praises anyone and its been said by not just a few but by MANY MANY MANY... that JLo treats her assistants and others around her like crap. Who wouldnt get sick and tired of trying to please or keep someone like JLo happy 247. Nothing and no one is ever good enough for her... collecting engagment and weddings rings seem to be a hobby of hers. She is so needy and cant seem to just focus on herself and her children for a minute... she has to constantly have a man - jumping in and out of one relationship only to jump into a new one with days. She's an unstable nutcase who cant sing, act or dance. Shes got a nice body and good looks - but thats about it. Beyond that shes probably as boring as a brown Crayola crayon.
🤣😂Love it! Narcissist actually thinks she’s going to sell out a World Tour? Even people of the Bronx wouldn’t buy tickets at Pelham Bay Park to watch her lip sync her 2 greatest hits!
She got a big head after her Las Vegas residency. I took my daughter. It was a very small venue and she only was on stage two nights a week so of course she’s going to sell out. definitely not world tour.
Yep she likes the honeymoon phase...that's all. She has also been around the block many many times she lives up to her name Jenny from block who did the entire block! Plus....Jenny is not innocent either with that P. Diddy scandal she was Jenny with the Glock...they will investigate her as well ...she will do anything for fame.
@@Maria-n6t2d no it actually isn’t quite high and if you look at how many celebrities have been married more than three times or have been in countless relationships, you would be pretty shocked. Do your research before you just assume shes the only one
Don't feel bad for her. She's nasty to almost everyone. She had a good run. She's got all that money to keep her company. Being an entitled jerk backfires on you when you're in Hollywood and have a shelf life.
I am so sad to have seen what i have and i knoow everyone deserves to let loose & feel safe in their own space to do so but man those clips people showed from her whatever? Documentary thing for her wedding… id day thats when ppl became so aware. Sad sad.
In the Holy Bible it is said: "Cursed is the man who trusts in man (Jeremiah 17:5) means that no one should put his trust in another person above the trust he should have in God, that is, no one should trust more in himself or in another person. than in God." ... These two Need to Take this Into Consideration!!!
He fell in love with the surface. He's never had anything good to say about her as a person,his positive comments towards her ,have only been him objectifying her ,period.
All these positive remarks on Ben affleck, isn’t this the same jerk who cheated on Jennifer garner. I highly doubt Jennifer garner would stay with him.And these remarks calling Jlo old but complimenting Cher who is literally in her 70s. ( do not know what age has to do with it) Make it make sense.
People's comments are hilarious hating on people they don't even know. When you love yourself you want nothing but the best for everyone because bottom line WE ARE ALL ONE and if I hate you I am hating myself. Blessings to all and know that when you see beauty in everyone, it's just a reflection of your own beauty.
Sami swoje życie wystawiają na pokaz. Są głupi i próżni. Affleka tak nie lubię że nie oglądam z nim filmów. Wizerunki człowieka jest ważny. Gnojek a ona nie lepsza
What has that to do with each other? You know that alcoholism is a disease, right? To release your own alcohol brand, advertise it and DRINK IT AT HOME, where your sober husband lives, shows you what kind of person you are. JLo is a narcissist who wants everything to be about her and wants to be in charge of everything. He is better without her. Should have listened to Matt Damon.
She does like to control, and Ben doesn't like that. She also needs to quit putting her hair up in a bun on top of her head, one of her favorite hairstyles, which looks unattractive!
Not hating on her , if it's truth she's been involved 💯 way all this puffy diddy . In my opinion if it's truth it's totally sick I can see how he would behave like that way having 3 of his own in herself but don't care about all this missing kids stuff don't want to write to much . But how COULD YOU BE MOTHER IN KNOW EXCALTY WHAT GOING ON IN HOLLYWERIDOS IS TOTALLY SICK . SO I CAN UNDERSTAND BEN SAYING THAT
That’s a very incentive and rude thing to say ! His temp insanity last years !! Well it’s more like his insane …. Period sad thing is she truly adored him
Why does she like to post their fake relationship images throughout too much media info? If you closely see into their eyes, it is apparent that 'fake n fake luv!!!
This is all fake news! People make the is crap up to boost their ratings and make more money. Cant believe everything you see and hear, especially on social media. Use your common sense people!
I think JLo was the one who was temporarily insane to falling for Ben’s charades again. Let it go and good riddance. You deserve a stable man who will worship you for the beautiful person you are. The truth always comes out babygirl, stay strong. This too shall pass. Learn the lessons and keep moving forward. I love you JLo. 💜 May God bless you and give you both healing 🙏🏽
@@ABeeSees. goddesses must be worshipped😘 What’s wrong in wanting what you want. You want things a different way. Why should either have a judgement. God told me: Be HAPPY Don’t hurt anyone Not even yourself, Babygirl. “
@@sehmina Worshipping ANYONE is a Sin. Even yourself! “Thou shall have No Other gods before Me” If you are putting yourself above all others, we call that a Narcissist. Stepping on others to get what YOU Want is exactly what the devil Wants You to do. Babygirl 🙄 JLo sold her soul like many others in the entertainment industry. She put herself on a pedestal to worship herself even before her children. She worships herself more than enough for everyone. Maybe you should learn what God really says before you go preaching to others. JLo & Diddy are NOT to be Worshipped!
People don't marry the one they love or insanely attracted too. They marry people who they find attractive and understanding. Marriage is a serious commitment. They thought being old now will help, it is okay not to marry the one you love to avoid going insane.
SEEMS HE'S ANGRY & GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS. AS AN ALCOLHOLIC, TEMPER TANTRUMS MAY NOT BE TOO FAR AWAY. IT'S ALWAYS EASIER TO BLAME SOMEONE ELSE FOR YOUR PROBLEMS. I HOPE THEY WORK THINGS OUT. LIFE IS TOO SHORT.
This is all fake news! People make the is crap up to boost their ratings and make more money. Cant believe everything you see and hear, especially on social media. Use your common sense people!
When you get to a certain age and have been there and done that and your children are older, there is no reason to get married. I think she has a big ego and constantly wants the bs fairytale crap. Truthfully, if you love one another, you don't need to marry them to prove it. You both are just together mutually and agreeably.
Please, don't feel bad for her She is a Strong working Women. She is not missing Nothing, who was wants all that DRUNK drama Queen. That's why Jennifer Garland, got tried, left him to begin with.
Jealous? You just pulled that out of your arse. That’s ridiculous. The main problem is that she constantly has to be in the spotlight. Ben is more private. Narcissists can Never get enough attention.
Think he is the crazy one myself. She should have stayed away from him. He can't handle her and what all she has. He needs help. He wants control and he can't control her.
They are both toxic and into themselves and selfish.I don't feel sorry for them.They knew what they were getting into.And they are both explosive.They can't control their anger
I’ve noticed this from the beginning with them when they first got together; that relationship was always toxic. I’d even go as far as saying there was a sex addiction too. They’re just not compatible when it comes to lifestyles. She loves attention & being in the public eye & he’s totally opposite… that’s why you never saw him with a smile on his face when he was out with her. I think whatever they were doing to try to make it work, attempting to get married again & then following through with it this time, was NOT going to change the fact that they’re not compatible for a real love connection. I definitely think for both of them, they had fantasies about each other, but sex makes you feel things about people that aren’t actually based on a genuine LOVE emotion; that’s why you need to learn to get to know someone for awhile, before you hop into bed with them. Then you won’t be thinking you’re in love, just because the sex was great… & Jen; she really needs to address whatever is going on inside of her that leads her to jump into marriage so often. There’s something she’s not confronting about herself deep down & I feel like if she doesn’t, she’s really going to start having people questioning her sanity & her integrity & ticket sales suffering are going to be the LEAST of her problems … because people who hop from relationship to relationship & marriage to marriage have much DEEPER issues going on & unhealthy patterns that, if they actually confronted the root of their behavior, it would shift their perspective & have them making the changes needed to be paying more attention to what they’re doing & why they’re doing it… NOT doing so, is a major sign of self sabotage! Jen’s also still singing about being in the club & she’s how old? Need to fix that narrative, because people in the club aren’t looking for serious commitments; they care more about casual sex, getting drunk & having a good time & she’s not sending the best message with her choices to her audience. I feel like Jen has a fascinating aura about her that came together to create her success, but she’s definitely NOT someone I would go to for relationship advice.
Seems like Jen and Ben thought love was enough, but once the honey moon was over. Ben realize they are not align at all. He needs to focus on himself and work on self love and figure out what he wants and what makes Ben happy.. Jen needs to learn how to be alone and focus on self and heal and realize jumping from relationship to relationship and not doing the inner work she will continue getting in relationships that is a repeating cycle until she learn the lesson. Wish them both all the best and hopefully they finally got closure.
Ben was miserable with JLo? She's a showpiece gal.That's all she is a showpiece is her thing, not really a wife material. She has been divorced so many times. It's time for her to pack it up now. Her attention should be towards her children. at this point🎉🎉🎉
There isn't anything these women could do to make this man happy! Something is not right within himself. Even Jennifer always seemed unhappy while being married to him.
looks like he thought "Jlo is a wealthy woman, so I don't need to worry about money if I'm her partner". but then her fans realised they don't need her concerts. and to be honest, she wasn't supposed to become a singer. because she has no talents for music industry
@@dawnmarshall2945 , if dumb, then why did he leave her after she couldn't have concert (because tickets weren't sold)? The time matches. And who pays him now when he has no roles?
Ben always looks depressed before and after he got with Jlo. He was so disrespectful to Jen Garner (even though she helped him so much) that I could never like him. He's a Debbie Downer. He hates the pace of her lifestyle. Jlo is a workaholic so those two addictions are never going to work together. It's too bad Ben cant beat his addictions. He's a classic dry drunk. He doesn't function well either way and still needs help.
@@CP-nl1uo he was in plenty of movies and is only 51 and for actors that isn't too old for movie roles 😂 the timeline matches up bc he clearly told her he didn't want her to do thia project and warned her not to bc he's a very private man and she knew this plus he's an award winning director and knew it would flop n she did it anyway n put all this bad press their way. I'd leave her too ya know
He’s not a bum anymore, that was years ago when he drank, Garner helped him a lot and that’s why Jlo don’t like her, she tolerates her but she doesn’t really like her. Ben’s oldest daughter Violet gets along with Jlo and they even spend time together. Both Jen and Ben approve of them .spending time together. Violet will be going to college soon.
Ben should just stay single and work on himself.
JLO needs to do the same
Ben needs years of substance support with out Garner she has her own partner unless..she wants to loose that to..she is nice but you have your own family can't save both
Jlo has ADHD...she thinks by acting crazy she is getting into heaven..girl you gone be dancing the pole for Satan... sorry to be graphic but is fact...I feel sorry for the kids first Alex .now Ben and their dad am not even going there.. one more tattoo and I won't recognize him..went to one of his concerts it was crap ..sorry fact your voice was not there..left mid concert.
BEN CAN GET WHOEVER HE WANTS
I HOPE SHE DONT BET ELEZABETH TAYLOR"S RECORD
@@guadalupelazar2384 I was just saying the same thing
@@guadalupelazar2384😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What do the ladies see in him? He always seems in a bad mood and pissed off all the time. He couldn’t even get along with Jennifer Garner for heavens sake.
LOL . I know, always has a face like thunder!
Well, he is an alcoholic. Seems like he needs to go into recovery or something before he can make anyone else happy.
@@hola1195one can "never" make another happy. Any peace or joy "always" comes from within.
He's the problem.
@@janecochran521Yes, you're right it does. We do know that a unhappy person can make a happy person, unhappy.
Affleck isn't a catch either. Crappy attitude.
Nice guy... his crappy attitude was due to living with & dealing with jlow. All men turn that way after being with her.
*Ben Affleck *ARod *Marc Anthony.
@@janetbishop9713Don't you remember that he said about Garner that he started drinking because he felt miserable in his marriage with her. He also continued dating Shookus, one of the many women he was having an affair with during his marriage with Garner, right after his divorce with Garner was finalized. This says that he deeply loves humiliating his women. He is a partner from Hell! Your comment also says that you really hate accomplished women.
@@janetbishop9713I'd consider P.Diddy in a separate category. He clearly is a piece of work!
@@user-iq4ow3fn1the will be a lonely man inside, nanny to nanny type til who knows what..male friends, counseling, shrink he needs your help now before he gets out of control!! I hope the best for both
They both seem kind of bossy. I do like JoLo music regardless of their marriage.
He's the type of person who always wants what he can't have, gets it, then doesn't want it. Nothing will ever be enough for him.
That's so true..like a kid...wants all the toys even other pples toys...n when they had enuf of it they dump it. Something wrong with him!
I can see why you would say that I can see from your perspective which very well could be true…… I also, think he wanted some Hollywood’s attention his movie acting career seems to be cold 🥶 marrying Jlo he received boatloads of attention spiced up his career so he thought so the chase wasn’t worth it showing him being a clout chaser….. where is the love ? They never appeared to be in ❤.
You’re blaming a man who is a recovering alcoholic whose wife is too selfish and self centered to respect his need for privacy? The woman who shared his intimate, personal notes and letters to her with the crew, friends, family. JLo trotted Affleck around in public like a show pony and expected him to jump and do tricks as her arm candy. Lopez is on divorce number four; he returned back to her hoping that they could rekindle what they had 20+ years ago with maturity. They were both foolish to think that it would work. Affleck needs to focus on his sobriety; JLo needs to learn how to be happy independently and focus on what’s left of her career.
@apocalypse_frau I didn't read anything past the first sentence. Thanks for wasting your time tho. 🥴🫠
@arkeldien What you’re describing is exactly what narcissists do - they objectify people and literally treat people the way kids treat toys. They put people on shelves (aka neglect them emotionally and lose interest in them) the way you get bored of a toy and put it on the shelf and only use people when it serves them.
You guys defending him should listen to his Howard stern interview - he was basically blaming his alcoholism on Jennifer garner and his marriage to her. Now suddenly all he wants to do is constantly hang out with garner when he kept saying being stuck in his marriage with her made him want to drink til he blacked out.
He’s also doing a narcissistic manipulation tactic called triangulation - it’s when a narc brings in a 3rd party into their relationship bc it allows the narc to control and manipulate both people by pitting them against each other as they vie for the narcs attention, affection, loyalty and thus will do things like appease the narc, not call the narc out for abusive or bad behavior, etc all in the hopes the narc “picks” them over the other person.
He always triangulated JLo and Garner by claiming he started falling in love with Jen garner since they acted in Pearl Harbor together (which was a year before he proposed to JLo for the first time) and immediately after he ended his relationship with JLo, he got married to Garner.
Now he’s doing it again - he got married to JLo but he keeps excluding her from all the family trips and going with only Garner (unlike JLo who includes Ben in her kids’ events) and has been photographed just hanging out having long talks with garner and even being weirdly touchy feely with garner a few times. So he’s did it again - triangulating the 2 Jens.
This guy needs serious help - addiction is not his only issue, it’s his narcissistic tendencies that makes him miserable and narcissists often use substances to cope with their feelings of emptiness and worthlessness. Idk if JLo and Garner are toxic people but cmon - let’s not forget how Ben Affleck decided to end his marriage to Garner: he deliberately f*cked their nanny while all of them were under the same roof and while Jennifer garner was desperately trying to save her marriage and keep their family together. This guy is a menace - can you comprehend how much that messes with a kids mind on a subconscious level to know that your dad was f*cking the lady taking care of you whenever your mom would go to sleep at night or leave the house? The reason we know he was screwing the nanny was bc he didn’t even bother to hide it. This guy is a menace.
He’s beyond just a pitiful innocent little addict - he’s caused so much heartbreak - his kids hearts, Jennifer garners heart, JLo and her kids hearts, etc. being an addict doesn’t mean you’re not also a crappy person with bad morals and no empathy and narcissistic tendencies.
Ben is a narcissist. Did we not realize that after the way he spoke about Jennifer Garner? He blames everyone but himself. What a jerk.
Why is everyone blaming her alone? Why did he marry her? He KNEW what he was getting into. HE came back and got into this situation on his own. He knew who she was and what she was like and still went ahead and married her. Cry me a river, Ben. 🙄
Let's hope HE has learned his lesson with her.
Hollywood men & Athletes... BEWARE, JLOW's an evil homewrecker.
She uses "spiritual stuff."
When you do that, it never lasts. The person always wants to leave because they NATURALLY don't want to be there.
@@janetbishop9713MEAN GIRL
Ben wasn't in a good place at the time
The biggest mistake of JLO is marrying the man who once left her and Ben's biggest mistake was divorcing (eventually he regret) the mother of his 3kids
Wow really? She needs to quit being a control freak obviously thought she snap'd outta all about me issue.
I can see why he likes being around his ex Garner she is awesome plus he has children with her. Run Ben
@@Judy-ns6eq yes i agree with you Ben even regretted divorcing Garner and maybe has a chance of getting back together after all they have 3kids to consider and obviously they still love each other..Ben admitted he married jlo due to temporary insanity ouch! Poor JLO that is why i said Jlo's mistake is marrying the man who once left her...well things happens for a reason
Hoping the best for all of them esp for the kids
Yes, never marry a man who left you for another. No matter the reason he left, you were not his first choice and will not be the second time around.
@@anavoodoo7122not necessarily. Sometimes men stay out of obligation to their families/children, or for financial reasons. I see a lot of men in unhappy marriages who are afraid to leave. Some don't think they can do better. It's sad
Doesn’t she think she’s the smartest woman on the planet ?
Ben seems to blame the women in life for his problems. Maybe stop the drinking to help make better choices in the future.
He has stopped drinking. But then his new wife decided to start her own alcohol brand. She’s a narcissist who only cares about herself. A nasty human being 🤮
I’m not saying he does not do that but let’s look a JLOs way of marriage she goes after married guys enjoys the chase never a relationship. She’s one who loves butterflies not actually married life. Even her kids once they stopped being fun do we hear about them or see her ever being mom. I mean she’s got so much money but we never see her happy she’s always chasing more and more. Her life is never enough.
Ben has issues, but JLo is not a spring chicken. She knew what she was getting.
You said it, it's annoying how they are making it sound like he was the one who was done it could have been her no one really knows pplz business
He’s been sober and he always looks miserable. I’d start drinking again if I were him…why go through life being miserable just so you can say your “sober”
He was a broken man when J Lo got back with him. Ladies, we can’t fix broken men leave them where they’re at J Lo don’t ever get married again stay single, and free and live your life beautifully.!
@@yolied2745 Yes I agree ! We don't have to spend our life trying to fix a man ! It's a choice and I choose to stay single b cause I haven't met a man in all my 65 years that has what it takes and well the compromises are to much and some woman are willing to go through that but not this one !
Mmm honestly as much as I like Ben I believe he is the problem. He keeps going back and forth between her and garner and I don’t know why 💀🫠 also he behaved the same way with garner smh
Not for nothing and I’m not a jlo fan but Ben is too old to say he was in a “fevered dream.” He’s such a drama queen though.
😂
I think ppl can still make mistakes when they're older, after all one way we learn and evolve is through suffering and mistakes so I believe we shouldn't be to judgemental.
Yea it’s like he pulls the pissed off face on purpose for dramatisation purposes
Jennifer is a snobby and arrogant woman! She treats everyone around her as if they’re trash that she can just throw out! I used to think she was this kind, loving, and warm person but after I saw a few clips of how she was talking to the people that work for her and the way she would talk to Ben and treat him in public, I saw exactly why he drinks! I’d need to stay wasted too if I had to deal with her all the time. If I was him I’d be like, “Do I have to go home”😭😭😭 But I’m not gonna pretend like he’s not an a-hole too bc he definitely is! He should’ve never had left his wife. He thought the grass was greener on the other side but he quickly found out it’s just dirt! And I say dirt bc Jennifer Lopez was playing with people’s marriages like it was a little game. I don’t think she really wanted to be with him, she just liked all the attention it brought to her and she flaunted that relationship all in his wife’s face to taunt her; like, “I can have him back whenever I want”.
@@debrajones4010you are 100% right in ALL that you said! I’ve always felt the exact same about both of these arrogant a*sholes. After seeing her on a special that MTV did of her whenever she was with Diddy in the early ‘00’s, I have never liked her, and it backs up these same claims that you saw. She’s trash, and finally ended up with someone just as filthy. I don’t feel bad for either one, just the people they hurt.
Affleck has sooo many issues. He is NOT husband material at all.
At all!!!
Neither is she…. She needs a break to
I think he misses Jennifer Garner
She neither😂
He isn't happy with himself and an alcoholic.
You haven't a right to say that. He is doing everything he can to stay sober. So leave him alone.
He can’t give what he doesn’t have
Listen, if he couldn't get along with Jennifer Garner what made Lopez think that she would be able to please him. Jen Garner is like the sweetest lady ever. 🤪 Seems to me that Ben is the problem.
Everyone forgets he looked just as miserable, if not more, with Jennifer Garner. Maybe it’s just his face.
she has everything yet nothing! why can’t she just go be happy and focus on her children
When you gotta love, you gotta love!!! You can’t tell your heart to stop loving! Why are you all such haters!😮
@@SusanRose-fl2cs he used her. He knew her fame. Like Bob Marley said why wake up a woman’s heart if your plan was not to love her
💯 💶 💯 ❤
Agreed!
How do you know she’s not focused on her children? We have no idea what has gone on behind closed doors. He might be needed, she might be a control freak, he might be a drunk… or the love they once had just isn’t there anymore because they grew apart. Maybe Marc Anthony butts in, maybe J.Gar butts in. We dont know. All i know is, i feel bad that their marriage is all or there for people to judge on.
Ben KNEW JLO’s lifestyle before. He ain’t no little man. 🙄
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Exactly. He loves talking shit about his exes 🤮
C'est sans doute pourquoi, cette fois-ci, il n'a pas tenu longtemps ! 😅
He may be ....since she makes more $ . It's just ego
You never know someone until you live with them! everybody knows that!
Take a break Jennifer and be happy with your children. We all need to feel loved. But at what cost? Take time to relearn who you are and what your dreams were and live J.
Oui, prenez le temps... Un petit temps pour "recharger vos batteries"... Et foncer à nouveau sur une énième relation amoureuse !!
Le compte va être énorme en fin du compte... Quelle forme et quelle énergie pour épuiser autant d'hommes ! 😅
Agreed 👍
Absolutely! Understand what you are about first before jumping from one man to another. Respect yourself girl!
Exactly, she is always pressed on the romance.
Does she always need a man to feel complete in life?? Sometimes it is better to be alone and be happy.
Frankly I always thought that Ben was more to blame, he didn't even care of the impact of this on his family....
Well let's be honest you don't know how he feels about his children and that is nothing but an empty assumption on your part .Stick to what you actually know is fact .
Everyone says it's all Jennifer's fault. It takes 2.
Affleck needs help but not from both Jennifer, he needs help from doctors
Ben is boring and wants to live the smoking and alcoholic life!! He complains about his EXs all the time. He blamed his miserable life on Garner now he’s doing the same with Jlo 🤦🏻♀️
Actually he is sober & wants to stay that way. His new wife decided it was a good idea to start her own alcohol brand. She’s a straight up Narcissist.
@@ABeeSees. well he needs to take his sober life and go somewhere else with his miserable self!! I feel sorry for his next gf or wife
@@Cin-p6g 🤣👍🏼
He already left that narcissist in the dust. JLo can go back to Diddy now.
This!
@@Cin-p6g If his next gf or wife supports him staying sober then he already won. JLo is a controlling diva who wants to be in charge of everything. He should be glad that he got rid of her. Should have listened to Matt Damon.
Do NOT marry people with addictions, it will always turn out this way! They need love too - yes - but unless you want a rollercoaster lifestyle, plagued with abuse, do not do it! It takes a “special” kind of person willing to put with with an addicts’ mindset, one that they have to manage for the rest of their lives.
JLow’s addition to attention doesn’t help. She is a Narcissist & neeeds all the attention on her. At least Ben is getting better. Can’t say the same about her.
100 true!!!
Yes, and very little accountability
Allen Carr the best specialist for addictions. Save your life
As a person married to an addict I back this 1000%
Damn that's worse than what he said about his first wife. Talking about how he was miserable with her. If he had stayed in their marriage anymore, he would have gone crazy. If you said that about her, what do you think he was going to say about you.😱😱🤣🤣
“Fever Dream Marriage” = Ben is a simp….
Cher is up in age also and she still sells out the house because she's a good person with a very fantastic voice and she's a good soul.
❤Cher she has got amazing talent
Spot on!!!!!!
CHER IS A LOVING HUMBLE SOUL ❣️
Touche
Correct jlow is talentless😅
That relationship has looked sad for a very long time.
This guy is a problem any girl who date him will have hard time … he seems not be the husband material type.. the way he treats both wives said more about him than them..
100% 🎯
We are so quick to vilify women.
You ever been in a relationship with someone who refuses to grow up and you end up being forced to mother them? No woman WANTS that role and eventually it breaks down. He thinks she’s no longer fun because she doesn’t just enable him. She gets tired of carrying all the responsibilities.
Lopez is hard working, accomplished, and disciplined. Ben looks like he fell into his roles by accident.
Meanwhile Ben still hasn’t taken accountability for his poor decisions and actions, or how they affect others. HE is a grown man who made a grown-up decision but then didn’t do the work to be a grown-up. So he blamed her. So typical.
Couldn’t have said it better 🎯
I knew this was going to happen! He's got his own demons, and she needs to spend time with herself.
I agree..she seems like she always have to be in a relationship to be seen.
He's Broken and she's Needy= DISASTER!
Ben Affleck lives to humiliate his (ex) wife, he did the same thing to Garner saying he needed to be drunk to be with her
She JLo doesn’t deserve this. Ben is sick. This wannabe man. Can anyone help this guy. Get him off the media. He needs major therapy.
Not that it will help Him..
The only one who needs help is Ben!
And YOU too!!! Do you even have a clue of what these evil people do to get where they’re at??? Apparently not 🙄
Jlo needs help too.
She's had 4 failed marriages!
Always in and out of relationships.
She seems very Needy.
Ben is Broken and she is Needy = DISASTER!
An alcoholic and a woman who never drank alcohol in her life. Total opposites.
Everyone taking sides is delusional. They both have horrible track records and circled back to one another out of desperation. At least Ben has less divorces under his belt. If you go through that amount of failed marriages, it’s time to take accountability and realize you’re the problem. They deserved each other.
Wishing JLO true love ❤️ and happiness.
She is too much diva 🙄
And she will only find true love and happiness within herself...not by going in and out of relationships.
She's seems very Needy and can't live without a man.
Isn't that what he said when he left Garner
Jen G. So much better and took the time to have beautiful Children with him. She is so much classier and normal
Yeah, he said Jen G drove him to drink. And he cheated on her.
I dont feel sorry for her one bit
Same. Multi millionaire, mean girl. She needs therapy not another man. Girl needs to stay single and in therapy.
Jlow
Too much flaunting overacting
She don't need your sorrows. Who are you, anyways??????JLo's Mom or Dad????? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You don't even know her???? You sound like a projecting projectile????? When you don't feel sorry for others, others won't feel sorry for you. You get what you put out. Law of cause and effect. We all have problems, circumstances, situations, etc. Who are you? Judge Judy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It means lust and loneliness pulled him to her but it couldnt keep him. They're incompatible
Men can not only embarrass you but ruin your reputation. You need to take breaks from them.
I can’t even believe she faked a whole singing career 😂😂😂
They are TOXIC together, period end!
He fucking failed her again
I did the same thing, I was insane when I got married😂
Me too...was and still is the Biggest Regret of my Life. The very moment that I said I do..my Heart stopped!
These types ALWAYS blame others..especially the women who supported them for years..fyi our whole $ystem is similarly codependent
She wouldn't have divorced Marc Anthony. Two Puerto Ricans, just 1 year apart in age , both singers and actors and 2 babies together. What more do you want.
He loved her, too.
Nothing is enough for some people.
Agree 100% she had a good life she lost it all
Marc was the one that said he wasn’t happy
@@pamelaknecht441 I've never heard that.
Nevertheless , divorce sucks.
50% divorce rate is way too high.
That's not normal.
Something is fundamentally wrong.
@@villaespesa1I’m older and was married for 38 years before my husband passed. Today it’s so easy to ‘just get a divorce’. I took my vows seriously. 🙏🏼♥️🪽
@@pamelaknecht441 I dont blame him for feeling that way one bit. She is so overly obsessed with herself...it has to be all about her. She has to be the center of attention, if not - she throws a fit. That woman looks and talks down on other musicians and actresses... she just thinks in her delusional mind that she is the hardest working, most deserving, best actress, dancer, singer and that she is above all the others. Never heard her give other entertainers their flowers, she never praises anyone and its been said by not just a few but by MANY MANY MANY... that JLo treats her assistants and others around her like crap.
Who wouldnt get sick and tired of trying to please or keep someone like JLo happy 247. Nothing and no one is ever good enough for her... collecting engagment and weddings rings seem to be a hobby of hers. She is so needy and cant seem to just focus on herself and her children for a minute... she has to constantly have a man - jumping in and out of one relationship only to jump into a new one with days. She's an unstable nutcase who cant sing, act or dance. Shes got a nice body and good looks - but thats about it. Beyond that shes probably as boring as a brown Crayola crayon.
🤣😂Love it! Narcissist actually thinks she’s going to sell out a World Tour?
Even people of the Bronx wouldn’t buy tickets at Pelham Bay Park to watch her lip sync her 2 greatest hits!
Yeah, her tour was canceled because of low ticket sales.
Ouch ☹️
Wait ✋️ What?? She sings?? 😅😅
You know being sadistic isnt a good thing. Take up a hobby… your hateful sht talking personality cd use one
The Bronx does not claim that woman.
She got a big head after her Las Vegas residency. I took my daughter. It was a very small venue and she only was on stage two nights a week so of course she’s going to sell out. definitely not world tour.
She just jumps on another guy the next day!
Yep she likes the honeymoon phase...that's all. She has also been around the block many many times she lives up to her name Jenny from block who did the entire block! Plus....Jenny is not innocent either with that P. Diddy scandal she was Jenny with the Glock...they will investigate her as well ...she will do anything for fame.
Good for her 🤷♀️
She does. There’s nothing wrong with being alone. Her body count is quite high she needs to take a break……
@@Maria-n6t2d no it actually isn’t quite high and if you look at how many celebrities have been married more than three times or have been in countless relationships, you would be pretty shocked. Do your research before you just assume shes the only one
That didn’t even make any sense
Jlo's Public Relations to the charge!!! 🔊 Working, day & night, to fix her image!!! 📢 Embarassing! 😂
JLO's PR group put this out for us to grab on😂
They saw how she was badly portrayed as Jenny going around the block and back ..
Don't feel bad for her. She's nasty to almost everyone. She had a good run. She's got all that money to keep her company. Being an entitled jerk backfires on you when you're in Hollywood and have a shelf life.
I don't feel bad for her I'm just glad that you put it out there because I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking that
Her kids aren't even close to her!
Maybe it's karma for her being so rude and entitled. She's gonna lose the things that made her feel better than others.
I am so sad to have seen what i have and i knoow everyone deserves to let loose & feel safe in their own space to do so but man those clips people showed from her whatever? Documentary thing for her wedding… id day thats when ppl became so aware. Sad sad.
What makes you sure of what you are saying? Are you related? Do you live next door? 🤔 I am sure what you're saying is from hearsay!
In the Holy Bible it is said: "Cursed is the man who trusts in man (Jeremiah 17:5) means that no one should put his trust in another person above the trust he should have in God, that is, no one should trust more in himself or in another person. than in God." ... These two Need to Take this Into Consideration!!!
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👍❤️🌹🇧🇷💜
Amen, sister!❤✝️
He fell in love with the surface. He's never had anything good to say about her as a person,his positive comments towards her ,have only been him objectifying her ,period.
To split is one thing , keep it classy Ben , feel for Jennifer , to say what he said is so hurtful
That was a pretty big slap in the face to Jennifer Garner. Getting married to the woman he was engaged to before marrying her.
All these positive remarks on Ben affleck, isn’t this the same jerk who cheated on Jennifer garner. I highly doubt Jennifer garner would stay with him.And these remarks calling Jlo old but complimenting Cher who is literally in her 70s. ( do not know what age has to do with it) Make it make sense.
People's comments are hilarious hating on people they don't even know. When you love yourself you want nothing but the best for everyone because bottom line WE ARE ALL ONE and if I hate you I am hating myself. Blessings to all and know that when you see beauty in everyone, it's just a reflection of your own beauty.
Yep, these ppl are WEIRD
✨️so true 🫶✨️
So true
@@PoliticallyhomelessXXWeird Birds indeed.
Tru dat 👏🏼
Everyone knew it won't last but them
He’s a heavy drinker
I hope Ben leaves women alone after this and gets the help he needs! He is despicable
It’s not just Jlo. It’s Ben too.
Sami swoje życie wystawiają na pokaz. Są głupi i próżni. Affleka tak nie lubię że nie oglądam z nim filmów. Wizerunki człowieka jest ważny. Gnojek a ona nie lepsza
People say she's controlling & bossy but he was an alcoholic also. Soo.
What has that to do with each other? You know that alcoholism is a disease, right? To release your own alcohol brand, advertise it and DRINK IT AT HOME, where your sober husband lives, shows you what kind of person you are. JLo is a narcissist who wants everything to be about her and wants to be in charge of everything. He is better without her. Should have listened to Matt Damon.
She is such a classic narcissist
She does like to control, and Ben doesn't like that. She also needs to quit putting her hair up in a bun on top of her head, one of her favorite hairstyles, which looks unattractive!
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The only narcissist in that relationship is Ben! He’s threatened by women who are smarter & more talented than him!!
@@priscillatravis5051 Stop hating she’s beautiful and any hairstyle or anything that she wears
Not hating on her , if it's truth she's been involved 💯 way all this puffy diddy . In my opinion if it's truth it's totally sick I can see how he would behave like that way having 3 of his own in herself but don't care about all this missing kids stuff don't want to write to much . But how COULD YOU BE MOTHER IN KNOW EXCALTY WHAT GOING ON IN HOLLYWERIDOS IS TOTALLY SICK . SO I CAN UNDERSTAND BEN SAYING THAT
Matt Damon’s wife thinks she’s special 😂
I believe JLO has a problem
That’s a very incentive and rude thing to say ! His temp insanity last years !! Well it’s more like his insane …. Period sad thing is she truly adored him
Why does she like to post their fake relationship images throughout too much media info?
If you closely see into their eyes, it is apparent that 'fake n fake luv!!!
She only adores Herself 🙄
I'm 100 percent team Jen on this
No adult should be chatting like this about a marriage/divorce like this
This is all fake news! People make the is crap up to boost their ratings and make more money. Cant believe everything you see and hear, especially on social media. Use your common sense people!
I think JLo was the one who was temporarily insane to falling for Ben’s charades again.
Let it go and good riddance. You deserve a stable man who will worship you for the beautiful person you are.
The truth always comes out babygirl, stay strong. This too shall pass. Learn the lessons and keep moving forward.
I love you JLo. 💜
May God bless you and give you both healing 🙏🏽
Worship her?
That’s NOT what God wants. But it’s definitely what Jlow demands. Worship ME! 🙄
Well said 👍
Yep, he’s the problem in every relationship he’s ever had…
@@ABeeSees. goddesses must be worshipped😘 What’s wrong in wanting what you want. You want things a different way. Why should either have a judgement.
God told me:
Be HAPPY
Don’t hurt anyone
Not even yourself, Babygirl. “
@@sehmina
Worshipping ANYONE is a Sin. Even yourself!
“Thou shall have No Other gods before Me”
If you are putting yourself above all others, we call that a Narcissist. Stepping on others to get what YOU Want is exactly what the devil Wants You to do. Babygirl 🙄
JLo sold her soul like many others in the entertainment industry. She put herself on a pedestal to worship herself even before her children. She worships herself more than enough for everyone.
Maybe you should learn what God really says before you go preaching to others. JLo & Diddy are NOT to be Worshipped!
People don't marry the one they love or insanely attracted too. They marry people who they find attractive and understanding. Marriage is a serious commitment. They thought being old now will help, it is okay not to marry the one you love to avoid going insane.
JLO needs to stay single…. You don’t need to get married, focus on your work and kids, they grow up too fast. You don’t need a man to complete you.
SEEMS HE'S ANGRY & GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS. AS AN ALCOLHOLIC, TEMPER TANTRUMS MAY NOT BE TOO FAR AWAY. IT'S ALWAYS EASIER TO BLAME SOMEONE ELSE FOR YOUR PROBLEMS. I HOPE THEY WORK THINGS OUT. LIFE IS TOO SHORT.
This is all fake news! People make the is crap up to boost their ratings and make more money. Cant believe everything you see and hear, especially on social media. Use your common sense people!
Same to her she was happier before him I miss her smile
When you get to a certain age and have been there and done that and your children are older, there is no reason to get married. I think she has a big ego and constantly wants the bs fairytale crap. Truthfully, if you love one another, you don't need to marry them to prove it. You both are just together mutually and agreeably.
She's got a massive ego she just constantly wants to be on
@@valenguajardo6625She happens to have a lot of talent. She’s amazing! And she does not need the miserable one by her side!
@jacquelinekoch7446
May Ms. Lopez contact you to be President of her fan club? We need someone who can start soon.
@jacquelinekoch7446 what talent does she have? Just asking for a friend. Lol 😂😂😂😂
@@TobiasSaibot87 You got me.
Feel bad for her? Shes had how many failed marriages and engagements?? At some point we have to look at the common denominator
He looks so unhappy. To much drinking who knows.
Please, don't feel bad for her She is a Strong working Women. She is not missing Nothing, who was wants all that DRUNK drama Queen.
That's why Jennifer Garland, got tried, left him to begin with.
He is jealous of her. Period.
Jealous?
You just pulled that out of your arse. That’s ridiculous. The main problem is that she constantly has to be in the spotlight. Ben is more private. Narcissists can Never get enough attention.
Nah
Think he is the crazy one myself. She should have stayed away from him. He can't handle her and what all she has. He needs help. He wants control and he can't control her.
It’s jlo. Enough said!
"Temporarily insane"😅😅😅😅 what the f....😅😅😅😅
They are both toxic and into themselves and selfish.I don't feel sorry for them.They knew what they were getting into.And they are both explosive.They can't control their anger
Shes beautiful and no one can judge i grew up lovving jlo and still do
No one is debating her beauty.
Jlo CANCELED her Tour. Obviously not a great time for her. It would have been SOLD OUT!
Those comments are very cruel😡
I’ve noticed this from the beginning with them when they first got together; that relationship was always toxic. I’d even go as far as saying there was a sex addiction too. They’re just not compatible when it comes to lifestyles. She loves attention & being in the public eye & he’s totally opposite… that’s why you never saw him with a smile on his face when he was out with her. I think whatever they were doing to try to make it work, attempting to get married again & then following through with it this time, was NOT going to change the fact that they’re not compatible for a real love connection. I definitely think for both of them, they had fantasies about each other, but sex makes you feel things about people that aren’t actually based on a genuine LOVE emotion; that’s why you need to learn to get to know someone for awhile, before you hop into bed with them. Then you won’t be thinking you’re in love, just because the sex was great… & Jen; she really needs to address whatever is going on inside of her that leads her to jump into marriage so often. There’s something she’s not confronting about herself deep down & I feel like if she doesn’t, she’s really going to start having people questioning her sanity & her integrity & ticket sales suffering are going to be the LEAST of her problems … because people who hop from relationship to relationship & marriage to marriage have much DEEPER issues going on & unhealthy patterns that, if they actually confronted the root of their behavior, it would shift their perspective & have them making the changes needed to be paying more attention to what they’re doing & why they’re doing it… NOT doing so, is a major sign of self sabotage! Jen’s also still singing about being in the club & she’s how old? Need to fix that narrative, because people in the club aren’t looking for serious commitments; they care more about casual sex, getting drunk & having a good time & she’s not sending the best message with her choices to her audience. I feel like Jen has a fascinating aura about her that came together to create her success, but she’s definitely NOT someone I would go to for relationship advice.
It’s sad that a lot of women think they are nothing till a man stands besides her
Lust• Boredom• Loneliness
Duhhh! Don't feel bad 4 Jlo; instead, feel bad 4 Ben that almost ended insane, dealing with her!!! 🤪 😜 🥵 😂
Screwed up messing up his marriage w Jennifer garner
Stop picking on people you don’tknow
Ohh be quiet, *for the love of GOD.*
@@Leno323might wanna take ur own advice girl, only bitches hate on people cause they’re jealous 😘
That’s bull 💩!! People please stop listening to so much nonsense!!!🙄
Seems like Jen and Ben thought love was enough, but once the honey moon was over. Ben realize they are not align at all. He needs to focus on himself and work on self love and figure out what he wants and what makes Ben happy.. Jen needs to learn how to be alone and focus on self and heal and realize jumping from relationship to relationship and not doing the inner work she will continue getting in relationships that is a repeating cycle until she learn the lesson. Wish them both all the best and hopefully they finally got closure.
Ben was miserable with JLo? She's a showpiece gal.That's all she is a showpiece is her thing, not really a wife material. She has been divorced so many times. It's time for her to pack it up now. Her attention should be towards her children. at this point🎉🎉🎉
Narcs don't beg
I do believe he was insane when he married her..he always seems so miserable with her..glad he is man enough to admit it .
She needs to focus on her kids and cut the nonsense
There isn't anything these women could do to make this man happy! Something is not right within himself. Even Jennifer always seemed unhappy while being married to him.
looks like he thought "Jlo is a wealthy woman, so I don't need to worry about money if I'm her partner". but then her fans realised they don't need her concerts. and to be honest, she wasn't supposed to become a singer. because she has no talents for music industry
@@CP-nl1uo 🤦🏽♀️
You do know he’s a Hollywood actor and not some unemployed guy right? So dumb
@@dawnmarshall2945 , if dumb, then why did he leave her after she couldn't have concert (because tickets weren't sold)? The time matches. And who pays him now when he has no roles?
Ben always looks depressed before and after he got with Jlo. He was so disrespectful to Jen Garner (even though she helped him so much) that I could never like him. He's a Debbie Downer. He hates the pace of her lifestyle. Jlo is a workaholic so those two addictions are never going to work together. It's too bad Ben cant beat his addictions. He's a classic dry drunk. He doesn't function well either way and still needs help.
@@CP-nl1uo he was in plenty of movies and is only 51 and for actors that isn't too old for movie roles 😂 the timeline matches up bc he clearly told her he didn't want her to do thia project and warned her not to bc he's a very private man and she knew this plus he's an award winning director and knew it would flop n she did it anyway n put all this bad press their way. I'd leave her too ya know
She's getting what she deserves!😂
Ben's a bum
He’s not a bum anymore, that was years ago when he drank, Garner helped him a lot and that’s why Jlo don’t like her, she tolerates her but she doesn’t really like her. Ben’s oldest daughter Violet gets along with Jlo and they even spend time together. Both Jen and Ben approve of them .spending time together.
Violet will be going to college soon.
@@pamelaknecht441Jlow cut off the children.
She’s all about herself.
@@ABeeSees.
If that’s true who is taking care of the twins, there both still young
@@pamelaknecht441
The nannies take care of the kids. The twins are 16 now. That’s not so young.
Poor Jlo..😂😂😂
Poor JLOW