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I'm 18 years of age & I went through something similar with the school this past year. I stopped attending school in November & eventually dropped out of Sixth Form. The school have been on my back about this as well as my family & it was later diagnosed that I had anxiety & clinical depression. I still think mentally there is something else that I have that has not yet been diagnosed but the school didn't care. As far as they were concerned I was ruining their data & I believe they threatened my Father to take him to court. I've now dropped out of chool & it's nearly been a month since I have but my attendance fell to 30% & the A-Level exams that I had been submitted for the school are trying to make me pay for them since I will not be doing them. I definitely agree the system in this country is extremely lacking. We support you Kev. We have Andy's back! Let the fight begin!
Porridge #Dev they have autism service dogs for people who have severe autism my opinion is Anna needs to set up a GoFundMe account for Andrew and contact a lawyer for Hurricane Andrew document everything you can Kevin show the letter to the lawyer and see what the lawyer tells you when Anna you know hopefully you can get some help with the fund me account do you have any friends or family that knows how to set up a fund me account for Andrew to get an Autism service dog
Or move to America because America has Americans with Disabilities Act and they have a lot more people willing to help people with disabilities it seems like the people wondering England don't really care but that's my personal personal opinion
What pisses me off more than anything about some head teachers is that they only care about the data. they dont care about the mental strain and potential harm they could be causing, they just want to make the school look good. The head teacher at my school actually threatened students and parents with suspensions and expulsions for not performing well enough and making the school look bad. Keep in mind this is a public school in New Zealand.
Kathryn Rus
100% go for it Kev as someone who's had very very bad Anxiety as a child and all through primary school and secondary school never having any help and them just brushing it off even though my mum had to deal with me kicking and screaming and refusing to go to school and even now as an adult with very bad Anxiety and PTSD still getting help hasn't changed as an adult this is something that defiantly needs sorting but I think your both doing an amazing job!!
My thoughts exactly and I hope you are doing well today.💭💜🌈🏳️🌈
I suffer from Autism and Anxiety myself but I'm not willing to stand back and watch the system ruin your lives if I can help please let me know how as i have seen you have done everything in your power to get him to school and are forever going out of your way to get to appointments as documented though out your videos stay strong bro
Kev, for lack of a better phrase. Fuck 'em. Too much is too much. It's affecting you. Time to act against them than try to work with them.
I love Kev’s fighting attitude and his love for his family and passion to always do what’s right.
Well Done You!!! The system is broken, and needs challenging at every point!
hi my son is autistic and 2 doctors said that he wasnt autistic but his doctor now has said that he is. these doctors havent got a clue and have never experienced the problems that we deal with daily. go to solicitors and take them to court for not doing their job properly.
shared this video with my mum who works within a school and works with children similar to Andy, she'll send this video to the powers that be and your voice will be heard Kev!!!!
Go to the papers and things if they try take you to court for sure! It's an absolute disgrace what's happening and people need to know about it!
You have my full support. Not got any platforms to help get your story across, but if you need a crowd, give me a time and a place, and I'll be there!
I'm so sorry about this Kev. I'm 17 and started my first year of college last September. Long story short, I have anxiety, a stupid rumour went round and I couldn't bring myself to go back in. I ended up dropping out. Thankfully my college was brilliant about it. They said they'd offer me a place next year (I didn't take it and I'm now going to a different college in september)
I know this comment doesnt have the largest amount of relevance to the video, however if there is someone reading this thinking about dropping out for a year due to mental health; I just want to tell them it isn't the end of the world and, to be perfectly honest, is probably the best thing to do in order to battle ones anxiety.
This is similar to what happened with my parents, I have anxiety and was a “school refuser” for a lot of time. I wanted to go to school but every time I tried I’d panic and meltdown, it was so stressful, I felt like I was letting everyone down, I felt so guilty for putting that stress on my parents and for being responsible for them being threatened with legal action. I was so stressed, overwhelmed, anxious, depressed and even suicidal. No one cared what I was going through and that I literally could not go to school, even if I could have gone to school I would have been a mess, I wouldn’t have been able to learn or function. I had no work sent home, I had a teacher come to my house and tell me that I was a bad student, that I was being truant and was a let down to my parents. My parents did try to physically get me to school, they managed to drag me outside my room screaming and crying and grabbing everything I could but they thankfully stoped before the stairs. They are good people but this is what the system brought them to do, this is what they told them to do.
If you did force andy into car to take him to school without out his permisson and like you said you have no legal authority over him would that not be classed as kidnapping !! stand your ground both you and anna are doing the best you can for andy
fedaykin74 You can't kidnap your own child, especially if you live with them.
+Josh Hill he's not my child though
lollujo Vlogs You know what I meant though. It would not be kidnapping, that's just ridiculous.
Josh Hill yes but he doesn’t have legal authority over him
for god's sake. it makes me so angry. having similar issues myself. the schools talk down to the parents as though they are stupid and tell you to just make them do things. their argument is that they don't stand for any rubbish from the kids at school so the parents shouldn't put up with it either. its not as black and white as they make it sound and they make things a lot worse how they deal with these situations. there is no empathy at all just stupid solutions. as parents we want our kids to be happy at school and want to attend. its like they think we are keeping our kids off school on purpose
and yes kick up as much fuss as you can as they rely on parents saying nothing. this needs highlighting
June Ingram Me too
You are a very powerful speaker
this s exactly what im going through , but im still somehow still finding that little bit of energy getting into school.
Sue the school system. You have that right. Also you need to contact your representative.
I have an anxiety condition too, when I was at school they threatened to take my mum to court and fine her. I was luck that I lived a 5 min walk away and I would only turn up for morning registration then walk home. I really feel for you and the family. You should take them to court for negligence for the bite.
On a different note, would you be able to get support to home school him? Hope things start to get sorted for you all, I'm sure all of your followers are backing you. ❤️
Time to get the media involved. You'd look good on the front page of a national newspaper!
when I was in year 1 I was diagnosed with aplastic anaemia and anxiety, as well as crippling depprettion, I lost my hair when I was 5/6 throughout chemotherapy and I was in a hospital bed throughing up blood, my primary school sued my mum for a poor attendance, I'm 12 now I've learnt the meaning of life, Andy should not be treated like this, he is special in his own way and they cant tell you to physically move Andy/force him that will put him in a panic attack and worse faint, my older brother has autism he's 23 and he went through the same as Andy.
I know how you feel my friend (who was 14 at the time) had severe anxiety and it got to the point where she would make herself sick to not go to school. The school were so bad because all they said was “she has to come in she’s ruining her GCSE’s” after all the letters of threats she had to leave the school and do something even more terrifying for her and go to a big collage full of loads of people which is her worst nightmare. Good luck I hope Andy is doing much better!
I understand your frustion. Mental issues are still missunderstanded a whole lot. He, Andy is a kid too so they should be more understanding....
I am glad that when I was the depressed my high school was supported and step by step I could get back to high scool and end it with good grades. I am so sad that there is not taking the issue seriously in other countries. It is better in Sweden I feel like, but still politician in Sweden is also doing to Little about mental Health issue..
This is definitely not okey.. Do not give up Kev, you have right. I will support you through this..Ridicolous authorities, I get really piss at this, since I really want austism / asperger syndrome people to get help, and stand up from them!!
If someone gets scared they should be trying to resolve it than telling them off
i've got yours, Andy's, Anna's back no matter what.
Send this video to your local MP and to those who are involved. Tell them how much of a disgrace this is. 3k people knowing about it will scare them enough to help you. But long term I think you should find a group of people in the same situation and go to national media.
I like this man I love the way he speech
if they treat children with mental issues like that in England, I'm afraid of thinking how they treat them here in greece
I have quite a few absences because of anxiety (I also have high functioning autism and I’m in a mainstream school). When I was in year 10 it did cause problems and I kept getting in trouble for “low” attendance, it wasn’t even that low. I have a better head of year and my head teacher knows me this year though so it hasn’t caused issues. My brother was off school for 6 months at one point due to disability and not having his needs met so we had to sign him off as homeschooled until we found a better school for him. It does work. He is at a special school and has had his transport cut. My mum had to quit her job to drive him to the nearest special needs school (an hour and a half away). We also stood up to the council about that but it hasn’t made a difference. She did get on the local radio and in the paper about it though.
Best video you ever made. An inside look into a massive problem. Hope this hell ends soon. Good luck!
this is literally my school my mum says that my sis cant go to school is bc she gets scared medically and me sometimes 1 bc of the bullying and to bc i just freak out and all o a sudden not wanting to go to school.......u are awesome!!!!! your videos are inspiring and u stick up for ppl!!!
Did you say that you have spoken to your local MP? 1) What did they say? 2) Is your local MP the same person as it was before the General Election? If not, it may be worth contacting your new local MP.
Y'all are doing awesome it's them that needs to have a heart for andy
I feel very Sorry Kev for you!
I am 13 and because of my anxiety I stopped going to school in November 2016, they threatened to fine my mum and take her to court. The medical needs teaching service got involved and now someone comes to the house to teach me. Maybe that could work for Andy?
+Charlotte at the moment he’s back at school. The main reason for him to go to school is to learn social interaction, so home schooling isn’t really an option. Fingers crossed he’ll keep going now he’s back.
lollujo Vlogs that’s great! Wishing him the best!
I like that he says miles instead of kilometer
3 years by and still strong🙌
sue the council
I typed a long epistle and deleted most of it. Bottom line for me is: I don't believe that using force to get Andy into a car would do anything to solve the anxiety problem. So it would not help and could easily result in physically forcing a boy into a car for several years. That can't be the solution!.
I don't really know what advice I could give you. What can the court do? Giving Anna a fine? Take him away? Appoint someone as his legal guardian? None of this would help her son at all! Waiting until September and see if your plan will work seems the best option. I hope a judge would see that too.
I don't think that taking the nuclear option is a good idea. Unless you expect that it would solve the main problem: Getting Andy to school and cure his anxiety problem. Using the nuclear option as a threat is a better idea. I don't think anybody would win anything with going to court so whatever it takes to prevent that is a good idea.
I really hope the school will wait a few weeks with there next step and your plan in September will work!
My socel worker is usless. I have realy bad axnity. I have asperges AD HD OCD.
Yes take it to the media I had to sue a school system and won. They need hearts for there students and they lack in that
I would definitely go to the papers and other media sources. Get your story out there and hopefully that will force these organisations into actually doing something. It must be incredibly frustrating, it's not right at all. Their lack of mental health understanding is frightening. Best of luck with it all Kev.
Theres so many issues with the mental health system social services, welfare system and education system. I was never statemented for autism and my mum believes it was purely down to money because they didnt view me as being severely autistic enough for it and now i have zero support. It’s disgraceful really
I hope you are doing well today.💜🌈🏳️🌈
On your side my man, let's fuck 'em up
Definitely go public
Lol why don't they try to do it
Your doing a really good job with Andy
I am so sorry this is happening to you guys like it's not hard enough with kids with special needs but the school makes it so much harder then it needs to be good luck I hope things improve soon
If you did put him through all that and somehow managed to physically force him to go to school, what kind of state of mind would he be in? I imagine that he'd be hugely distressed and even less willing to cooperate with anyone. Would they be happy for you to leave him in their care in that state? Would he be receptive to any form of education in that frame of mind? Of course not.
Forcing him would simply increase the magnitude of his anxiety and make every problem much, much worse.
Anyone that would suggest this course of action should not be allowed to hold a position where their decision counts. I know first hand that there are many such people in our broken systems. Compared to what your family has gone through (and continues to go through), my family has got off lightly and we're almost out the other side of all the bullshit, but I've seen how it goes.
While I fully support your decision to fight (what other course of action are you really left with at this point?), I hold little optimism that a genuinely satisfactory outcome will be reached. There's just too much apathy within mental health administration (and many other similar departments) and those people in the sector that genuinely care (there are many of them) are restricted and hamstrung in so many ways that they cannot get you the help that they know you need.
It's a sad state of affairs that impacts too heavily on some of the most vulnerable people.
I sincerely wish you the best of fortune with everything that is to come and hope that someone, somehow takes notice and gets Andy the assistance and care that he needs.
Yes Kev with that rock quote and your views of the anxiety
I have anxiety and when I stopped going to school for 6 months because I was scared my school told my mum to just and I quote “put her in the car and drive her put her into the school and drive away” even though I would be there kicking and screaming for her. Andy shouldn’t be forced to go, you’re a teacher (clearly) if he doesn’t want to go why does he have to?
If they take you to court the outcome would be a catastrophe
Luckily he started going back to school and it never got to that point.
I wish I was the judge. It doesn't matter to me if you aren't legally Andys dad. You are his father anyway. You treat him as a son. Therefor, you should have the same as his mother. Anxiety is a big thing. He shouldn't have to deal with this. I'm so sorry, Kev. Nobody should have to deal with this. If at all possible, bring the media into this. We all agree with you and have seen your struggles. Try your hardest to bring your followers into this!
Awww, Kev. That's so dumb!! I can't imagine what Andy went through. As soon as you ask if he wants to go to school, anxiety and a meltdown happens. I feel so bad for Andy... I'm 15 and I have Cerebral palsy that affects my walking. I always got bullied and I felt anxious to go, too. We're all by your side, Kev. Take care man!😎
The issue of Andy's anxiety should have been discussed and agreed on his EHC, so there should have been some form of record of it. And there should have been some form of agreement in the EHC where a settled person and mode of transport is arranged (basically the member of staff who gets to know Andy to a point where he trusts them and then they took Andy to school). You can also agree on a funded allowance for travel costs for when you take him to school at the start of the new Academic year and again Andy can have a helper. For yesterday's vlog, you should be able to apply for a disability grant where you can be helped financially with the purchase of the new car. Hope this all helps
Also file a report on the school to Ofsted, the last thing a school wants is a black mark against its name, and this is a big one. If nothing comes from that go 'nuclear' go to print news media and tv news media. Don't tell the school you plan to take them to court in your phone call, use it as part of your nuclear plan of action
+Beast 96 it's in his EHC that he has anxiety that is stopping him attending school, and also the plan to get him back to school by using direct payments to fund someone to travel with him. Unfortunately the doctors letters take precedence over the EHC apparently, so the anxiety is no longer considered to be a reason not to attend school, and despite getting direct payments funding through, we've had no applicants for he job, so that's hit a bit of a dead end. We've looked into help with the car, but because he doesn't have any mobility problems we don't qualify it seems
You should get a solicitor and take them to court. No matt what happens I'll back u all the way
Did you say before that change could be made if the school said they could not support home? It seems like that may be the case now?
+Mark Blackwell they're still not willing to put in writing that they can't meet his needs. Without that we can't move him to a different school.
Man that is some bullshit
Complet madness my wife doesnt have autism but does suffer with chronic anxiety and panic attacks if. She even thinks about the things that cause anxiety so crowds outside telephones strangers even thinking about these things turns her into a shivering mess and thats an intelligent educated not a 14 year old with autism it is ridiculas
Similar story happening in my family. By the way it's in Ireland too which this is happening. Our systems are fucked up for both countries.
You need to talk to a solicitor, because they have threatened to take you to court. I don't think going to the media will help your situation at all.
Sorry it's got to this point kev, my mum had the same issue with my little brother, his issues were anxiety related and because the system forced him to school in the end he was so wound up he lashed out at a teacher then everybody just washed their hand with him and refused to help full stop. If you go court they won't sit and listen to you they will read the case file and tell you they are fining you they won't even allocate you the time to hear your side of the story. Can you not contact your MP? I've contacted mine recently over a housing issue and she has been brilliant
I got pushed onto a main road I have autism and anxiety and the school didn’t do a thing it’s the same that’s happening with Andy
It! Makes me so angry that school don't care about mental health issues I stay of 8 weeks of year 7 because I have depression and I felt suicidal but the schools doesn't care about that
I dont see any other choice anymore. You need to make this public, if it does go to court your chances of success are 50/50 at best even with your evidence as taking on the system is rarely a good idea in court so go public and tell your story now to get your point across
I'm so confused about our education laws when in the United Nations laws its a HUMAN RIGHT to choose to go to school or not
+Kevin Chapman i think the system is absolute poppycock they just chuck autism and anxiety aside like "yeah whatever just autism and anxiety their not medically diagnosed problems" YES THEY ARE THEY ARE MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEMS it's just ridiculous the way the system handle's it all and the schools as well.Also i know this was put out last year
My adult autistic son was completely failed by the system, they completely failed to meet his basic needs and they discriminated against him.
+Charlotte Hughes it’s a story I hear a lot unfortunately.
It's awful our children struggle for everything that they manage to get and achieve, things that mainstream children take for granted. It shouldn't be this way. Brilliant channel by the way. Thank you.
Yh ive been through that i mean im autistic myself and they homeschooled me for 6 months because i was emotionally bullied also i had a massive panick attack from nightmares and i lost so many friends and some also betrayed me
Hi Kev, hope this doesn't infringe on the whole politics thing but just an idea. If your MP is Labour, particularly if they've just won the seat, it might be an ideal time to contact them as they might jump at the opportunity to demonstrate them helping and changing lives of constituents.
Unless you can afford private home teaching then you're screwed. It's the reality in this country. Never mind how shortsighted & counterproductive that is, the government simply won't invest in children with special needs.
hi kev, is home schooling andy not an option. Also they dont have a leg to stand on so dont let it annoy you and anna because you guys do a great job with andy
Jason Duncan if he is at mainstream school can just deregister him and do home education. if its a special ed school its not so easy
June Ingram but surely if they school havent done anything to help andy in the last 18 months and if kev is willing to do it they cant just turn down a option to help him
Jason Duncan like Andy says they just don't care about helping, they just care about targets
I think Kev has said before that a big part of Andy going to school is actually intergrating him with society and mixing him with other people. This would not be the case if he was home schooled. Kev, please correct me if I am wrong
+Jason Duncan home schooling wouldn't be of any benefit to him. School isn't about learning stuff for him, he'll never pass, or even take, any exams. It's about teaching him social interaction and how to be apart from us so he can cope as an adult when we're not there all the time.
Go public Kev, I have had experience with Autistic children and adults, I understand how difficult it is and how frustrating.I can only try to imagine what the parent goes through torn between love and frustration. My sister is teaches specials needs and I am sure as hell bet she would want you to take this public.
my mum has messaged you on Facebook Kev
Why did two medical professionals do that you aks my man? Well its quite simple Kev that's what they have been told to say to cut costs by the system.
This is so unfair and I really feel for you Kev, no one seems to be taking into account the mental health aspect and they obviously are not thinking about how it would affect Andy. They cannot expect you and Anna to physically force him to go to school because it will make the anxiety worse and traumatise him. And that would be their fault Kev, not yours and Anna’s fault!!! They are failing in their duty of care.
I have a similar thing with Andy and when I was 7 or 8 years old I'd find it very hard to go to school sometimes I would run away from school I just felt like something was in the wrong place and it was bothering me so Andy's school stop putting pressure on these two hard working people give them a little fucking bit of care okay because there doing there best and your not helping
Omg, I guessed u were a teacher lol
This is late hope things are better now but a special school should be more sympathetic to Andy's needs
Hello, Kevin, I came across your video while searching for videos relating to my own situation, which is similar to mine. I do hope you got things sorted
I had brake downs all threw school. I found it hard at school.
Good luck in court
So true
Sending anna my love x
If possible it is better for the parents to lodge a complaint asking for a court date saying you are not getting the support to get the child to school. That way it puts the blame where it should be rather than on you guys. These health "professionals" basically want mum to hire a mobster to force the child into a car by any means necessary. It may be time to contact the media to get your story out there as soon as it becomes a case against you it will be difficult at best to get your side heard. Maybe you should approach those who are actually helping or trying to about how best to make this public without hurting them?
+avaorchid now he’s going to school again, hopefully this won’t ever become an issue
The big loser in this, is Andy.
And no one seem to acknowledge or understand that...
Apparently people who were educated with practically no real live experience, the only experience they have is from the books, are in charge in this cases. Questioning what parents do to give their kids the best live possible, or even worse, questioning whether parents know what is right for their kids.
I know where it goes wrong! Do you?
If there is no sign of abusive behaviour from parents in any way what so ever, parents in general know what their kids want, and how to get them in to it. Leave the parents alone in raising their kids, unless they ask for help or if there are signs of abuse.
In this case it is no where near abuse. In this case we are talking about parents trying to figure out the right way to get their kid back in school. Authorities in this case only have to be there for advise or recommendations. Nothing more!
Forcing will make things worse, it does only give temporary solution, where a solution on the long term is needed.
This was published on my b-day lol
Sue them
I feel so bad for Andy how can someone bite a poor autistic kid who can’t help what he does. I feel so bad for u guys.
Do it! They are failing not only you, but they are massively failing Andy and it's just not on! You couldn't physically do any more, take it higher and get it seen, mental health issues are just as important, if not more important than physical issues. If they are going to take you to court then you need to show how you have all be failed by the systems
There is also a major public interest in the failing of mental health systems at the moment, you could really get this story out and seen by a lot of people who care and could possibly help you guys.
they should try and get a home schooler my brother has this issue and the governmount got him home schooled for free
+Nathan Turner we didn’t want to home school
So what if he is scared to go to school. It’s the law. You can’t just tel him to get into the car. You need to carry him in. I used to have really bad autism and that happened to me. I would be carried to school........ deal with it. Just remember.... ITS THE LAW!!!!!!!
Who else agrees that andy should do home school
happy hamburger12 oh ok . But y no
@@lucyonitnowyt2318 because he wouldn't get the social aspect that he really needs
+Stephanie starrett he would
yt ninit as an autistic child he wouldnt
Hi Kev, here is my thoughts, firstly what happened to that thing they were doing giving you money to hire a helper? did they cancel that?
for me personally i would not go nuclear just yet, i would contact the school and remind them that you quitting in 4 weeks to try and make this work and see what happens after that. like you said yourself, some people have tried to be really helpful and you don't want to burn those bridges
+Loki Doki the helper thing is reliant on someone applying for the job - we actually got our first applicant come through this morning, so fingers crossed they'll be good and we can appoint them to get to know him for a few weeks before the end of term.
We look at home schooling as a last resort. We could do it, and he'd probably get a better education than he'd get at school. But wherever he is, we don't expect him to ever take exams, get a job, etc. It's unlikely to ever be realistic for him. Going to school is more about the social interaction side of things, and there's no way for us to replicate that at home. Without learning all of that, any hope for him ever living semi-independently is massively reduced. He relies 100% on Anna for everything at the moment, and her biggest fear is what would happen to him when she dies (Fingers crossed he'll be in his 60s by then, but whenever it happens, she's still likely to go first, and without learning social skills now, he's not likely to learn them in his 20s or 30s when there's nothing like school for him to do it in).
If it became a choice between home schooling him temporarily and going to court, we could do it short term to take the heat off, but long term he needs as much time in school as possible before he's 19 and the little bit of support we get now gets pulled out from under him...
Would the media be open for a story that to me (not from England) seems te be "normal" in your country? (NHS problems, people not getting the care they need)
From what the press in my country is telling about health care in Britain, it seems to be going from bad to worse. Nurses on health bank etc?
+Nescio I think so
its an incredible hard situation, there probably is an argument that you should do more to get him to school, but that's why your leaving work so you can have a fresh crack at it in the new school year. The 'easy' option would be to get to the bottom of why hes so anxious about going to school, but as I'm sure your aware that's not so simple when it comes to dealing with autistic children. the other option is to look at a different school, but again even his anxiety of going to the school will be over ridden but his need for routine, id say move to a area that has a better record, you yourself have said the school the other side of the river would be a better fit, but would andy cope with a move, I doubt it. I would assume this is just them flexing their muscles, this close to the end of the school year I doubt much will happen, I would hope its just them reinforcing that in the new year he needs to be at school, like you didn't already know that. either way ive got andys back
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Hlow about home schooling with online classes and a teacher paid for by the district that helps with socializing and perhaps attending school for 3 out of 5 days? The paraeducator can help with independent living skills too.
+Daniel I don’t think they’d find anything like that. Fortunately, he’s back at school at the moment, so hopefully he won’t start refusing again
where do i stand in formtion and when im ready to fight the good fight how many boots do you need on the ground?
Both my kids Lewis and Elise as got asd and severe anxiety . Lewis not so bad at going to school he at a special school.he at a brilliant school .if Lewis couldnt get on the bus they pick other kids up .then come back . That not offen as usually love the bus as love . Just hate noice of the others on the bus . They try sensory toy his favourite balls. And iPod to listen to his music dippy 🤐.elise is at mainstream school only difference she can talk as Lewis can but he just copys u what u say . So really he can't .elise can but her unstand is not great and she got selective mustism to she don't talk out or In school and she got serve cognitive and learning difficulties to so school really difficulties for her . I have not probably getting her to school at the moment as she sit on my bike I push her . But when she 13 that might be but hard she only 7hopefully she be at a special school by then .when school can be ass to do ehcp plan as been on there case for a year .any way get to the school when it massive kick tears take 2 teacher to get her in . One then teacher is good try to make her feel comfortable .the other one like come on it not fair on mummy u are in year 2 not stop this silly behaviour. I'm like Elise got severe anxiety .And also got severe detachment disorder to from me that she never grow out of . Ep said she need one 2 one at all time and small class room they can't do that .But is no rush to do get the ehcp plan sort .elise only got a diagnosis for learning difficulties and selective mustism In July just gone .after 3 years and asd and severe anxiety last week .since 2 I said but they said she just shy .But she did t show as many traits . With my son Lewis who nearly 16 he show a lot more behaviour problems so it was pick up at age of 2 and he don't speak and has severe learning disabilities to, so can't wash or dress . He will try.need lot of support .My partner there dad works at a school . as works In school he can't help as he at work . We do have rest bite every 3 to 4 weeks mon to Fri. Then Fri to mon . And ment to have a carer starting as lewis big boy now at 6 ft2 .I'm only 5ft 3 .But this already tock 2 year to get a carer as alway been let down .when they say u ment autistic child u meet autistic .as both mine are so different on the spectrum as I know hard it can be and awarding to .from seen a few of your video u both do great job .hand up to u for taking Andy on as he not your own but u can see u love him as he was your own .that so lovely to see . To see who could n't love him same as Lewis everyone he meet every one love him and Elise it autistic charm😂
Do it👧
How can they do this
kev have you realised how many people were looking at you talking to a camare