Can You Be Gay & Muslim? | EXPLAINED!
Vložit
- čas přidán 24. 08. 2024
- All my beautiful hijabs are from LALAHIJABS
Get 15% off the entire order using my link
👉 www.lalahijabs...
My beautiful abayas and dresses are from Bazar Al Haya
👉 tinyurl.com/mv...
So basically you can be gay internally but you can't express it... so be gay in your mind only I guess...
Well having thought about having intercourse with same sex is also haram. Like straight people thinking having sex with opposite sex is also haram.
Indirect homophobia is still homophobia, SMH.
@@tsudakitadaki5740 Al-Bukhaari (5269) and Muslim (127) also narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, will forgive my ummah for whatever crosses their minds so long as they do not act upon it or speak of it.”
don’t make a law by your own.
@@tsudakitadaki5740 sorry but that’s not right bro/sis
we are not sinned for our thoughts only our actions!
I'm an agnostic gay woman, and while this is a topic that I don't believe we would ever agree upon or find common ground for, I have so much respect and appreciation for you and what you are doing. I strongly believe that the greatest weapon against bigotry/prejudice is exposure and education. Like you said in an earlier video about the intersection of Islam and homosexuality, we can fundamentally disagree while still respecting one another as human beings.
Tolerance, love, and willingness to disagree without seeing the other side as an enemy or "in need of correction." So much love and respect to you. Thank you for educating people like myself on your religion and culture!
@@ocean3802 okay but can't you just let people exist? Let Muslim people exist and let LGBT people exist. You seem educated but not very kind... idk if u mean to, but saying stuff like that divides people. We should try to bring people together, not tear them apart. What are you trying to achieve with a comment like that anyway? People to lose a faith that they hold dearly or to spread more hatred towards LGBT people? Either one can very easily lead to su*cides due to loss of support...
@@ocean3802 If you're using your religion to excuse the unjust murder of other human beings, then you're a garbage person using Islam for all the wrong reasons.
As a lesbian myself, I agree with this completely.
@@WildaTheRaccoon agreed
@@ocean3802 i think u also misunderstood it. if u read it properly it says "whoever u find doing the ACTION" it forbids u to act upon. whoever goes into a relationship is only executed but in those times they excecuted them so that not a single other person would do it but obviously nowadays people dont do that bcs of new rulings of countries etc.
But i do see ur point what they do is very harsh and i dont disagree but it was so that no one would ever do the sin to scare them but obviously the same thing doesnt work nowadays.
and even people who are straight who have relationship are given the same punishment bcs relationship before marriage is forbidden in islam.
i do agree people who are attracted to the same gender do have a disadvantage in Islam as they cant get married etc but remember this Allah is never unjust and if he isnt just to u in this world, he will serve all of us justice in the day of judgment.
and can i ask what religion u follow?
Im a bisexual Muslim and I've lived so much of my life thinking I was going to hell because of these thoughts. My family wasn't properly educated on this so they're homophobic. Thank you Sidra for teaching me so much on this. Im lucky to have found this channel!
It’s better if ur not bi, and for those people who don’t understand what I’m saying, IM NOT TELLING HER TO STOP BEING BI
Needs orange supported needs orange 🍊
@@enaya.3728 yeah great that doesnt make them "Not bi" because that's Not possible why would you comment such a Thing it doesnt help
As a bi Muslim, I can relate
@@justf6072 omg guys where have you been
.. people call islam homphobic religion
I do wanna say one thing tho
how she says that people shouldn't act upon their gay desires and how she compares that to straight desires, what she fails to mention is that you can have your straight desires met if you get married but getting married to someone of the same sex is haram and acting upon those feelings is still haram so these still an imbalance
Well it isn't an imbalance it's just what Islam says...if you get married to a woman being a man and vice versa then u get to have sex the halal way...while the same isn't applicable for same sex...acting upon ur homosexual feelings is still haram and a same sex marriage is unlawful in Islam....so I don't think she failed to balance out anything she simply stated what is said by the Qur'an and sunnah
@@farheenfathima8371 But it means that the gay person is supposed to live without a partner, without ever being loved by another person. Isn't that cruel? In this regard isn't Allah cruel towards them? Because Allah made menkind this way, but tgen forbids it and dooms the person to a live without partner.
@@danika9411 But there are many other trials and adversities of life and it is one of them. Infertility, sexual dysfunction, unlawful desires (fetishes and addiction), mental and physical disabilities, congenital diseases, born underprivileged, etc. Those are also challenges that humans have to endure for entire life. In a glance it seems to be a doom but for those who pass the test, the rewards would be so great that they wouldn't forget a single adversity in their previous lives.
@@cinereo_argento did you really just compare homosexuality to disabilities..?? Wow. Gross.
I agree 100% 🙌🏽 doesn’t make any sense at all.
I’m not completely sure where you are going with this. You are saying that gay people “shouldn’t act their thoughts”. So does it mean they should be with people whom they are not attracted to….? That’d honestly be even worse.
No they don't need to be in straight relationships if they don't want to and are not attracted to opposite gender
If you are gay and Muslim you have to be celibate.
@Riyadh Uddin um sir what the actual fuck
If you don't like the opisite sex in that way dont get in a god dam relationship with a straight person
Right? While it's good that she's honest about her opinions, it's crazy that she can easily say thay you shouldn't act upon those thoughts like 🧍 honestly it's super weird. I pray for those who are gay and muslims. It doesn't look like a good life for them.
It’s so contradictory. “You can be gay just don’t “act” gay” mhmm, okay.
Technically you can be gay and Muslim if you don't act upon it (or if you try to fight it) but we both know this is basically impossible... You also need to acknowledge that it is Haram..
Anyways, most 'Muslim' gays out there are completely out of the fold of Islam. Since they think it's permissable to be gay LoL..
All in All Islam does not Promote homosexuality or LGBT, It is against it.
It's messed up that Western Muslims are promoting Islam as a LGBTQ friendly religion, nor Islam nor Christianity likes gays..
@HasanMalik403 It's like, someone who is gay. But fights against it and choses to not engage in gay sex and relationships. Very difficult. Almost impossible bro.
You know well that the So called 'Gay Muslims' do all of these, they even marry 🤷🏾♂️
How is that contradictory?
@@idkbro4932 seriously? 🙄 I don’t have time for you
@HasanMalik403 so you’d rather live a lie in this life, just to end up in paradise? No thank you
I’m sorry but not being allowed to love who you love and suppressing your feelings is very harmful and leads to a lot of depression and anxiety I understand you have your beliefs but I don’t support that one I don’t support harmful beliefs I respect you as a person but I don’t respect that belief
yeah, people of this belief say "i am not homophobic," but what is homophobic or not is NOT up to non-queer individuals, and the majority of queer people believe that saying queer activity, relationships, and identity is sinful, wrong, unnatural, or a lifestyle chioce, is all homophobic
Yea I feel like that's a pretty miserable life of you have to deny your sexuality to be Muslim. I think it would make more sense to say no you can't really actually be gay and Muslim. You can have gay thoughts but you can't live your life fully as a gay person. Same for Catholicism and judaism because they follow the old testament too.
Someone compared a gay person to a murder then deleted their reply
@@CHLOCHLOLP exactly. Abrahamic religions are the fucking worst thing humanity has ever created.
Yes. Which is why I'm so glad I'm Christian. In Christianity, the Bible doesn't say being gay or LGBTQ or anything like that are sinful.
It’s a shame that to be a good Muslim a gay person basically has to take a vow of celibacy. (Because we can’t just choose not to be gay and switch to the opposite gender.) But I respect your right to these beliefs, Sidra.
Where did you hear that from?
@@ocean3802 most of the sahaaba rejected Islam, despite being the prophet (pbuh) ‘s kin. However, the story of lut did happen. And in the Quran (as a gay Muslim believe I have looked) it says just don’t act on it and try not to promote your desires, and this is the same for unmarried heterosexual men and women.
In conclusion I do agree with some of this, but it’s not as extreme as you say, although it is quite possible that I am in the wrong, seeing how much research you did compared to me and my base knowledge.
What seems like it would be upsetting to me is that in order for a gay to be a Muslim apparently they must vow to never love… :(
@@kitkat4760 that really isn't the case...in Islam thinking romantically about the same sex is the doing of the devil...sooo if u seek refuge from the devil and pray to allah to resolve your feelings and make ur feelings halal too then u can definitely love and be loved the islamic way
I also just have to wonder... at least in christianity we have this idea like "god made you special" or "god made you just how he wanted you". And your sexual orientation isn't your choice, it's just who you are, who you've always been. So why would god make people homosexual if that's not what he wants?
I have a lot of respect for you Sidra, you have taught me so much about Islam and I have found many things that I love about it. But, as a lesbian, the fact that people who are attracted to the same gender will never get to experience a relationship is not fair. Saying that it is the same as straight people bc they can't have sex before marriage is not the same, in the end they will have the chance to experience what a relationship, sexual and romantic, is.
i’m thinking exactly what you’re thinking. i love sidra a LOT and i respect some of her opinions that i don’t agree with sometimes but i still love and respect her and i always will.😁
I'm a lesbian too and I agree with this. I love her videos and have so much respect for her but realize that we might not agree exactly on everything and that's ok. We're human, and because of where we live, who we are, and how we were raised we all have different worldviews. So humans will never really be able to fully agree on anything. I accept that and at least see that she's trying to be as respectful as possible while still sharing her beliefs. I've learned so much about Islam from watching her videos and just as she respects other people's beliefs, I respect the right and freedom for her to have her own. And I definitely agree that not being allowed to act on our feelings is unfair because when straight people get married, they get to finally act on their feelings. But I'm an atheist, so I don't really follow the same rules that some religions might have. I also know there's a lot of religious people in the world who are queer and interpret the rules in a way that makes them feel it is ok to act on their feelings. I think it should be up to the person to live the life they want to. They shouldn't have to choose between their religion and their identity, so even if others say you can't pick both, there's always going to be some kind of loophole, right? But in the end, I just think everyone should be able to live their lives however they want to. And I respect the right for people to have different beliefs than me because everyone has a different worldview that shapes those beliefs.
i agree but i believe its a test from Allah to all the people who are attracted to the same gender. u still have the choice to deny him but its up to u. Inshallah Allah will reward u even more by being patient...
@@izhanshaheer9889 Yeah, I agree that if you want to wait and not act on your feelings, that's your choice. But if you can't or don't want to, that's also up to you. No matter your religion you should live the way you want to live.
@@PinksMonkey yeah but ur actions will be questioned... if u want to take the risk its up to them... but the harder the test the better the reward.
This feels uncomfortable to me. I know that religion is a choice so if you want to live an authentically gay life and be happy I guess you can’t be Muslim? Like suppressing your natural desires and needs doesn’t sound very healthy to me. I’m not Muslim and I don’t know what it says in the Quran or religious texts about this, but I know in the Torah and Christian Bible it was actually a mistranslation and it’s actually condemning pedophilia, not “man lying with man.” Additionally, the King James bible (the one that is famous for the translation that says being gay is bad) may have been translated that way because King James wanted to get the church off his back so he could be with his boyfriend in peace. The church didn’t like that he hung out with this one guy so much and thought it was suspicious, so to assuade rumors he commissioned the bible this way, but really he was probably gay. This is just historical speculation, but it likely happened.
Either way, it kinda sucks that you can’t be Muslim and have a gay wedding or something like that. As a Reform Jew, I don’t follow the Torah literally. It’s more like I enjoy community and Jewish values.
But also, why would God/Allah create gay people if it’s bad to act on being gay?
Who said being gay is genetic ? Acting in our desire is called animalistic.
As human we shouldn't act on our desirl
@@Mark-go7qm It seems like you're conflating two different points here.
First of all, you can't choose to be gay or straight or bi or whatever. It doesn't change based on how your parents raise you, or what content you ingest as a child. It's just different for everyone. If you believe that everyone has secret gay desires that are bad that people just choose not to act on because they're stronger in their faith, that's not accurate (And if that's your personal experience, it sounds like you have some soul searching to do). Gay people are not sex-obsessed people. We're the same as anyone. We are capable of deep connections with the ones we love, same as straight people.
The second point you made confused me, because "Acting on desire" can mean a lot of different things. What separates humans from other animals is that we are self-aware. An animal just eats because it is hungry; it has sex because it needs to reproduce. Humans create art and philosophy and amazing cuisine because we have the ability to self-reflect and understand that we are human. We can understand our bodies and that sex can be emotional as well as physical. There is nothing wrong with only having sex to have children, but you have to understand that it is also a way to emotionally, physically, and spiritually connect with your spouse. I mean it of course depends on how religious you are, there are people who think that, for example, women can't enjoy sex, or that no one should have pleasure in sex. But wouldn't that thought, that humans should only have sex to have babies, make us more like that animals than to also connect deeply? Animals don't enjoy sex; they only have it to have children. The human ability to understand each other through various ways is what makes us amazing. Taking lust too far, like incest or pedophilia, is bad. But simply having sexual feelings for your partner isn't a bad thing. You just shouldn't act on them in public because that makes other people uncomfortable.
@@hannahrich5728 who told you animals don't enjoy sex ? What are you talking about ? Why do they create offspring that would not be look after by them ?
I just feel sorry for you !!!! You are trying to hard to justify homosexuality. Yes humans are different so we should think before we act. Who said only men can only have pleasure? Have you read the reasons that allow divorce in Islam for women ? Inability to please her !!!!! So we would not follow our thoughts.
@@hannahrich5728 what makes incest bad ? Or paedophilia?
Tell me, on what basis are you saying it is bad ?
Nobody is born gay !!!! If a serial killer's daughter starts to kill people and she says it is my genetic !!! Can we prosecute her ? You would say hurt is involved in killing !!! But incest and paedophilia don't have any hurt. Are not you incestophobic or paedophileophobhic ?
Or can I ask you why hurting somebody is bad ? Scientifically ?
@@Mark-go7qm Incest is bad because the child born out of an incest relationship is most likely to have a genetic disease. Incestuous relationships often hurt people.
I am really trying to understand why any act of romantic or sexual affection between two consenting adults is ever considered and deemed as"ungodly" , "impure", "unethical", "not normal" or "evil"
I'm trying hard to understand it too and I don't think I'll ever be able to understand it.
This world is not our home. We literally have an eternal life in Jannah, if we want it. This world is a test. It’s NOT designed to be a place where we should be happy all the time. That is for the next world. Everyone has a different test, and has to struggle with different things. You might not find love, but Allah (S.W.T.) has given you food and a roof over your head, unlike many starving in poor countries. Everyone has a test.
@@NazmusLabs Yeah, but what specifically makes homosexuality a sin? We’re asking why having a relationship with someone of the same sex is a sin.
@@Robot2wq You are asking the wrong question. First you need to find evidence that a God exists. If there is no God, then none of “sins” apply. So, to prove the existence of God, you can read the Quran, and I am confident that Insha’Allah (God Willing) you will find the evidence you need. Then you can decide on your own accord.
Alternatively, you can look up on CZcams why the Qur’an is a miracle, and make up your own mind. Once you do, THEN, it is appropriate to ask whether homosexuality is a sin or not, for even if I were to provide reasons for the rulings on homosexuality, it won’t matter if you don’t even believe in Allah (S.W.T.).
@@NazmusLabs I read quran and I have come to the conclusion that it proves nothing. There is absolutely no logical or scientific proof exists that proves the existance of "jannah", also I have a roof over my head and food to eat because I worked hard for it and no a random sky daddy didn't provide me food or roof over my head.
As a non-Muslim, I respect you and your religious beliefs, but ultimately this kind of perspective on gays condemns them to lifelong celibacy and social isolation. Marrying someone of the opposite gender isn't an option for gays. A gay man finds the thought of marrying a woman as unappealing to him as the thought of marrying a woman would be to you. So if a gay Muslim is unable to "act" upon his inclinations, his only other option is to never marry or have a romantic relationship with anyone. That's a difficult, unsatisfying and lonely life with negative mental and emotional health consequences. Ironically some Muslims would say that's sinful too because Muhammad said that marriage is half of a Muslim's deen. So the kind of perspective you just shared puts gays in an impossible position and I don't accept it as valid.
In Islam gays are punished by death if they found them having sex .
I 100% agree with you, Its not a choice and hell! If I was able to choose to be straight I WOULD in a heart beat. But I can't.
Edit: its not a choice and it is putting gays in a inpossible place where their only choices are to be in a unhappy marriage or be lonely or of course convert out of Islam which if that your reglion then you don't want to do so this idea that its a sin is invalid. If god made people the way they are why can't they be gay? Make it make sence.
@@ahmedsa9302 we know, this is why we don't like i***m
Ok coomer
If you have a problem with it then just don't practice Islam LOL
I'm bisexual and it has often been such an issue to the point of wanting to end my life. I was sexually abused as a child and my brother tells me this is why we become how we are... and it hurts because what if the abuse never happened? I would have woken up everyday happy and not wishing I was dead. I don't know what makes a person this way but all I know is that I want to be the best Muslim I can be and still spread love and kindness and do what i need to💓
Is it just feelings that you wanna get rid of or you r really dating both gender and u r okay with dat ? I'm just curious
Hope ur okay :)
@@chynabarbieeeeee we do
@@chynabarbieeeeee i care
@@emanshakr1616 no- it means U like both genders not dating them in the same time
I love your videos so much and they’re so informative every time! But this entire topic just doesn’t sit right with me. I respect the people who are religious and are part of Islam, but I don’t respect all parts of Islam. I understand many things, but I can’t agree with this. That gay people would be called sinners or haram just for wanting to be with someone they love. They’d either have to be die alone, marry the opposite gender while living an unhappy life, or be a sinner and be with the same gender/the one they love. I just don’t like those options.
I don't like the options either. It sits kinda weird with me. It's nice that she's willing to respect tbe LGBTQ+ community but it never quite sat right with me the idea of "I respect you but what you're doing is wrong". Not calling her out for this it just feels weird for it to be wrong to love someone and want to be happy
@@ocean3802 wow that's hellishly harsh to straight murder someone for basically no reason. Good to know i guess?
The purpose of life is not to attain the maximum pleasure rather it is to submit to God, so of course if we die in the state of submission to God we will be rewarded greatly, better than anything in this life.
@@idkbro4932 I don't completely agree but you do you man
Somehow being happy is below being a slave to god???? What is wrong with people.
Man you guys are making it so difficult on people who are just born the way they are. My brother never asked to be gay, and there was never a big life event that made him so. It's just the way he was born. I'm cool with it. He's still the best person in my family, the father figure, the person who gives a shit. As long if we speak about two consensual adults, you all should just learn to accept it. It's not going away by pretending it doesn't exist.
If u don’t agree with religion or the opinion , do whatever u want. Remember we don’t care
@@MATECADICKSUCKER its not how it works, youre oversimplifying it to an absurd degree
@@justsomerandomname2067 no
No one was born with sexual desires so no he was not born that way
@@lovelyrose4959 this is not how it works 🤦🏻♀️
By "born this way" people dont mean that gay people are born and from this second they want to have s-x with men 🤦🏻♀️ what people mean is that the thing that "makes" gay people gay is something you are born with (aka, being gay is nature, not nurture)
Edit: the implication of it is that being gay is a persons inherit trait that cant be changed (like skin color)
“You can be gay, but don’t act upon it” so be unhappy?
Exactly
You're saying this as if love is needed to survive. Some people stay single their whole lives btw
@@cocogirl4449 yes they do and they are happy BY CHOICE . So ALL gay people should be single then ?
@@carnationgloom so be unhappy, got it
@@cocogirl4449 actually, many studies show that love is needed to survive..
So you can be gay but you have to be single forever, never go on dates with someone of the same gender, never share a kiss etc. You will be alone and sad
What a lonely life
@@tifany2685 I am not gay.
I just think her video is nonsense. U cant be actually living as gay and be a muslim
Kinda weird for you to assume people don’t have yknow friends and family and pets and entertainment and love is the only way to have joy
@@yuh8740 i never said that. But everyone wants to love and be loved eventually.
And ofc ur family loves u but it is not the same as in a relationship.
@@Philipp19967 that’s right. There is no such thing as true love than family love when I came out to my parents they were originally skeptical as of how I was so aware of my sexuality at such a young age and all that. They told me exactly what ninja mommy said which is why I may be so defensive around this topic which I apologize about. Just don’t be sexually active. You’re a kid. And in fact many of the lgbt+ folk are minors and literal kids. Their parents are gonna love them regardless of what sin they commit. Because were all sinners. The Quran straight up says that we’re all sinners and we’ll never be pure angels. While I appreciate your concern for the lgbt+ community here and especially about how Iran and Saudi’s ridiculous outdated laws unfortunately are chosen to be the face of the whole Muslim community. I can assure you, it really isn’t as extreme as they make it. And in fact. Many scholars have stated that the lgbt+ murder in Iran and Saudi is far beyond any sin an individual could commit. This is government murder and terrorism while killing an innocent live for no reason. I understand it’s hard to understand from an outside perspective but trust me first hand. A lot of us aren’t being kicked out in the streets and beaten up lmao. But I hope whoever are living in those situations will be free of that terrible environment. As Muslims we are OBLIGATED to respect anyone no matter what religion/sex/ethnicity/race they are as Islam relies on morals. But many forget that they’re gaining a bunch of sins for terrorizing a person for a “sin” and are there-forth are hypocrites which is hated in Islam. Many people forget morals and excuse it with “oh I was just calling them out for being a disgusting human being” which is wrong and stated several times. Generally speaking. It isn’t as bad as it sounds. Really isn’t: especially in more societally developed countries
Oh god this is really long I am so sorry
So no you cannot be openly gay in Islam. That’s the clarification.
A gay sympathizer can't be Muslim
This is really offensive. I think it’s really awesome you’re on here spreading knowledge about your religion, but you have no right talking about “gay” people.
Your definition of gay is completely inaccurate. And something that you and unfortunately so many people don’t understand is you chose your religion, you don’t chose your sexual identity. I can point out the fact this has been scientifically proven folks, but nobody likes hearing that.
You were born heterosexual, not Muslim. I was born pansexual, not Christian. I was raised Christian, and then practiced Christianity. As you were raised Muslim, and are now practicing Muslim. That is your choice. You were not born Muslim. I was not born Christian. I was born gay, and you were born straight. So to try and compare religion and sexual identity is asinine.
The irony is I’m a very spiritual person. My crucifix and rosary didn’t bring me closer to God, as your Hijab doesn’t bring you closer to God. And who I love doesn’t bring me farther from God. Nor does who you love bring you farther from God.
God’s love is not reserved for the people who don’t eat pork, or the people who give communion, or the people who sing in choir.
God’s love is available for everyone, all religion does is keep people from having a relationship with God because of videos like this. You are here to teach about your religion, please stick to what you know. 🤍
You're absolutely right. Humanity must be the greatest religion. Nobody is born a Muslim, Christian, Hindu etc. They're born, straight, gay,etc.
Dramatic much? Shes just saying that its a sin in islam to act apoun same sex relationships, and this fact won’t put a dent in your life because your not muslim. 60% of what you said doesn’t apply to Sidra’s beliefs or it doesn’t have anything to do with what Sidra even said
@@LyntzbartzkyPerez won't put a dent on life? My dude, it is this exact thinking that actually gets gays killed in Islamic countries.
Top 10 remakes that were worse than the original
Classic hate the sin but love the sinner. You are homophobic for saying that gay people shouldn't live their lives as they wish, as their natural desires want, because it is against your religion. Being gay doesnt harm anyone, pushing gays to repress their feelings does.
It’s just the same old BS but sugarcoated
@@mainly8824 ikr
@ThatRandomWeebOnTheInternet ._. still harmful, i was raised muslim, im a lesbian, i have muslim friends that are LGBT, and you dont know how much distress this kind of stuff causes, it's what leads to conversion therapy and abuse within families when the gay kid decides to act upon their feelings and date, they send them to conversion therapy, they yell, hit them to "protect them from sinning". I had long, long conversations with one of my closest friends because he was so frustrated being bisexual and not being able to repress his desires. "Gays are okay as long as they don't act on it" is an awful take regardless of the context you put it in.
@ThatRandomWeebOnTheInternet ._. you're not forcing anyone to do anything and minding your own business. She is preaching/spreading a harmful mindset to a lot of people that consider her a source of knowledge for islam. These are two different things.
@@lynna3671 but she said exactly what the religion said.? That’s her job???? I don’t get it. If you don’t wanna be Muslim Dont be Muslim. I’m a gay Muslim living happily single. It’s not the end of the world. Stop acting like relationships are the only source of emotional support cause they’re not. It’s literally just the religions guidelines and Islam is very strict with sexuality (as in like sex not the identity) and that’s known
Sorry to break it to you but that's still homophobia. Saying that it's sinful (wrong,a abomination, morally wrong etc) is the very definition of Homophobia. I don't know where you guys got this idea that the story of Lut is about gay people when it's about adultery and r@pe and the people of the tribes where never in consensual gay relationships. So please tell me how a gay relationship is haram if a gay relationship is never mentioned. I spoke honestly love to hear what pathetic excuse people have for justifying this. This is why I left Islam,smh
“You approach men with desire instead of women”
Men approaching men with desire is about adultery and rape and not about gay people?
@@NinjaMommy 1. You know that was becuase he was cheating on his wife? So obviously that's wrong, adultery.
2. That's same sex behaviour,if that was about gay people....where does it mention women? How can women relationships be haram then?
As much as I love your content, you’re still homophobic. There’s little kids who watch your videos and you’re basically telling them, boys and girls, we believe you should live a sad and miserable life and die alone, with no partner to love you. Isn’t there a more progressive part of Islam? I believe in Jesus and I’m not a Catholic, but protestant. My church teaches that you can love whoever you want, as long as you love God and your neighbor.
@@TheMartinNovotny so it’s homophobic for her to say that ; the quaran says that. If you have a problem with it ignore it, no one is getting hurt. And if they are gay and want to leave the religion they can. And if they don’t want to like not act upon their desires they obviously didn’t believe in Islam anyway :$$
@@ellie.davis0price158 have you read the quaran? Or are you just believing what Instagram and social media tell you. Every person who has read the quaran will disagree with you.
But you can not marry a man or a woman in Islam of the same gender, so you have to stay away from love all your life. It’s cruel
Ammm I love you honest you're with those videos as it's rare to find ppl not adding their own opinions on top of the word of God nowdays but you don't so I love you for that.. Thanks alot.. Aloot... And I am gay and I am a Muslim.... And yeah I totally agree with every word u say. It's insanely difficult not gonna lie. As this way only lead to me dying alone in a room.. I can't have a partner. And of course I can't marry a woman because she deserves someone who loves her in a way I can't. And I can't marry a dude. Because u know. So there is only one option left which is dying alone. I was going to do it actually if my childhood wasn't shit from day 1 and BTW I am gray acexual on top of being gay. So I love ppl for them. And not how they look. And growing up. Imma be honest I never loved anybody. Not even my parents. I didn't know they existed until I was 7 years old despite me loving with them . Anyway amm yeah I am 20 years old now and in my life never kissed or hugged anybody so yeah I only loved one person and he broke my heart (لم احب احد غير ربي و كسر قلبي)
Amm yeah I know it's cringe to say I am a believer but I am and I never hurt anybody and I never want to even those who abused and neglected me my entire life I don't hate them. I actually respect and I am nice to them I grew up to learn how to keep everything inside and to be strong and yeah. Anyway back to the topic amm. If I had an okay childhood I would accept the dying alone thing. I really would but since my entire life was shit from the day I was born then i am not gonna waste my future.. I would still pray... And all that. And I always talk to God as he is the only person I loved. To the point that when I think I am not able to think without talking to him. Most ppl when they think they talk to them selves but I talk to him and I really do love him. But it gets to a point where... I get my excited catatonia and I would ask it it can be a biiiit easier.. Once 147 times and no response. So I think if the roles were reverse I would do something. So yeah. I still love him and I don't want to but I love him. And yeah I am in the middle east Born and raised.. Amm yeah I think I will try to get a degree and would live outside and yeah I am considering marring a man and yes I will still pray. I don't really want to go to hell or heaven really. I wanted to talk to him when I am dead and that's it. If not then I want to be nothing.. I don't want heaven really.. Anyway amm yeah. That's my experience. I know it's weird and I wish there were more ppl that relate.. But it's fine. Amm here is an advice if ur gay... U can either keep being a Muslim and pray and all and die alone I am not saying it's gonna be a bad life. Being Muslim alone bring some kind of joy.. If you're able to experience joy. Or you can not be a Muslim.. No guarantee u will die alone or not but yeah. But u won't have the joy of being a Muslim.. Or theirs option. U can still be a Muslim and marry a dude. As long as you don't hurt ppl God is all forgiving and understanding.. And no that won't take u out of Islam... Ppl would say that because they just hate gay ppl. And not because Islam says it.... Trust me you will meet so many of them infact most of my friends are. Homophobic as fuk. And lol I still remember this.... Between all the horrible poepl that are destroying the earth. For example someone that beats and abuse. Rape and kill incident children and people who steal from others and leave them to die and so much more... They say between all that. The worst ppl are gays. Literally a dude that loves another dude not harming anybody .. They say gay ppl are the worst on earth. I heard it from so many ppl out of no where and you can sense this kind of deep rooted hate. Trust me those ppl will twist any religion and change things to make it align with their opinion.. I am honestly baffled by how much hate they store inside.. The ppl who abused and destroyed my life I don't hate that much. It's crazy how much hate they have. So yeah don't listen to those ppl and be careful. For your own good. So yeah ammm u can be a better Muslim whne ur gay but it's really difficult.. And u will be rewarded more. So yeah much love❤️
@Riyadh Uddin Just like there are Christians who are open about their homosexuality, some people don't follow every aspect of their religion, these books were written like 2000 years ago so times change. Some elements are not compatible with modern societies. I've known Muslim women who don't wear the hijab and it's their right.
Yeah life is cruel . This world is designed to break you ,In our religion its a test. If there were no rules it wouldn't be a test.
God has created man for woman and woman for man.
LGBTQ is completely forbidden in all Abrahamic religions (judism, Christianity and Islam) tribe of prophet lut was homosexual therefore God severely punished them to death. you can search it on Google for more details.
@@waheedullahwafa9807 well then ig you have to stone me 🤷♀️
So being gay is fine as long as you don't act upon your feelings? Totally hypocrisy, what if you were told you can't be with a man you have to be with a woman and you can never act upon your feelings because your a sinner if you do. People don't choose to be gay, they are literally born that way. My little cousin when he was 2 we knew he was gay, and sure enough he is an adult now and gay
I was confused about that too... Maybe that's why she was avoiding to say it despite it being in the title in the previous video. It doesn't make sense
I don't exactly know how to explain, maybe you should search it up. But, according to us, its considered a sin. I understand if you don't agree, and that is fine, but we're supposed to follow that, as its our religion, and we fully respect it.
@@rose-qc6ji who is us? I'm not saying I agree or disagree, and even if it's a sin it isn't man's job to judge those people who are. We are supposed to worry about what we as individuals do not the whole world either. It's fine you believe what you believe but you don't get to judge Anyone that's God's job, God forgives murderer and all sorts of things so I'm not judging anyone
@@Vamparellame by us, I meant the Muslims. And I agree with you.
@@rose-qc6ji whatever religion I still think it's God's decision, it's God's judgment not ours (any religious folks) to judge.
Basically, "don't act on your gayness".
Is that it?
You took the example of straight people not acting on their sexual desires before marriage. But imagine if straight people were told to not LOVE, to not MARRY.
People think that gay is just "going out in the clubs and partying" and "engaging in sexual intercourse". But being gay is just attraction (ROMANTIC) towards same gender.
I completely support muslim people (and even Christians), but homosexuality isn't a sin (whether you act on it or not) and anyone who says otherwise is homophobic.
Completely agree with the sentiment, just in terms of wording can’t some one be and aro or is there a different term for that?
@@EmotionallyIAmShort I'm not too sure about the terminologies, but yeah, people can feel only romantic attraction towards another without feeling sexual attraction. But that too is an umbrella term and has multiple variations in it.
Here tho, what I mean to say is that homosexuality isn't just "sexual attraction" just like heterosexual isn't.
Yes it’s homophobic, it’s literally in Quran. in the Quran (or another source that I found, I’m not sure what is it) it says that the act of sodomy is an unforgivable sin and the punishment is to be executed. Now this is horrible, but it’s also in the book that Islam is based on. So yes, it’s very homophobic and it’ll never not be homophobic, I don’t support it but you can’t do anything
'anyone says other wise is homophobic'
Bruh you said Your opinion
About supporting lgbtq and if we say are opinion of lgbtq is wrong
We are homophobic
Bruh its hating how god created you
God is wise he created you perfectly
Even if you are not sooo beautiful or if hate your gender and you want to change. Thats wrong are you wiser than god
And also yal go putting f.ing LGBTQ flags every where
But we non LGBTQ supporters dont put anti LGBTQ flags every where
@@arealhuman3677 are you wise as god who created you perfectly
So you change your appearance and become gay or lesbian
Are you wiser than god
So what should they do, stay single their whole life?
Or be in a relationship they are very uncomfortable in
No😊
God doesnt hate love😊
Pretty much. It sucks if you are gay according to their logic.
Ammm I love you honest you're with those videos as it's rare to find ppl not adding their own opinions on top of the word of God nowdays but you don't so I love you for that.. Thanks alot.. Aloot... And I am gay and I am a Muslim.... And yeah I totally agree with every word u say. It's insanely difficult not gonna lie. As this way only lead to me dying alone in a room.. I can't have a partner. And of course I can't marry a woman because she deserves someone who loves her in a way I can't. And I can't marry a dude. Because u know. So there is only one option left which is dying alone. I was going to do it actually if my childhood wasn't shit from day 1 and BTW I am gray acexual on top of being gay. So I love ppl for them. And not how they look. And growing up. Imma be honest I never loved anybody. Not even my parents. I didn't know they existed until I was 7 years old despite me loving with them . Anyway amm yeah I am 20 years old now and in my life never kissed or hugged anybody so yeah I only loved one person and he broke my heart (لم احب احد غير ربي و كسر قلبي)
Amm yeah I know it's cringe to say I am a believer but I am and I never hurt anybody and I never want to even those who abused and neglected me my entire life I don't hate them. I actually respect and I am nice to them I grew up to learn how to keep everything inside and to be strong and yeah. Anyway back to the topic amm. If I had an okay childhood I would accept the dying alone thing. I really would but since my entire life was shit from the day I was born then i am not gonna waste my future.. I would still pray... And all that. And I always talk to God as he is the only person I loved. To the point that when I think I am not able to think without talking to him. Most ppl when they think they talk to them selves but I talk to him and I really do love him. But it gets to a point where... I get my excited catatonia and I would ask it it can be a biiiit easier.. Once 147 times and no response. So I think if the roles were reverse I would do something. So yeah. I still love him and I don't want to but I love him. And yeah I am in the middle east Born and raised.. Amm yeah I think I will try to get a degree and would live outside and yeah I am considering marring a man and yes I will still pray. I don't really want to go to hell or heaven really. I wanted to talk to him when I am dead and that's it. If not then I want to be nothing.. I don't want heaven really.. Anyway amm yeah. That's my experience. I know it's weird and I wish there were more ppl that relate.. But it's fine. Amm here is an advice if ur gay... U can either keep being a Muslim and pray and all and die alone I am not saying it's gonna be a bad life. Being Muslim alone bring some kind of joy.. If you're able to experience joy. Or you can not be a Muslim.. No guarantee u will die alone or not but yeah. But u won't have the joy of being a Muslim.. Or theirs option. U can still be a Muslim and marry a dude. As long as you don't hurt ppl God is all forgiving and understanding.. And no that won't take u out of Islam... Ppl would say that because they just hate gay ppl. And not because Islam says it.... Trust me you will meet so many of them infact most of my friends are. Homophobic as fuk. And lol I still remember this.... Between all the horrible poepl that are destroying the earth. For example someone that beats and abuse. Rape and kill incident children and people who steal from others and leave them to die and so much more... They say between all that. The worst ppl are gays. Literally a dude that loves another dude not harming anybody .. They say gay ppl are the worst on earth. I heard it from so many ppl out of no where and you can sense this kind of deep rooted hate. Trust me those ppl will twist any religion and change things to make it align with their opinion.. I am honestly baffled by how much hate they store inside.. The ppl who abused and destroyed my life I don't hate that much. It's crazy how much hate they have. So yeah don't listen to those ppl and be careful. For your own good. So yeah ammm u can be a better Muslim whne ur gay but it's really difficult.. And u will be rewarded more. So yeah much love❤️
right? It's preposterous.
I really enjoy your content, and I like learning about your religion and your culture, but this is a reason why I won't subscribe. As a bisexual woman who is engaged to someone of the same sex this is very hard to hear. I am torn because I want to respect your beliefs, but at the same time your belief is that relationships like mine are wrong. I do appreciate that you have said that you wouldn't treat LGBT+ people any different, and I wouldn't treat a Muslim person any different. But knowing you don't "support" us makes it hard to "support" you. I hope that this makes sense, I really don't mean it as a hate comment.
No worries! I completely respect your decision and it is understandable. ♥️
@@NinjaMommy Thank you for your response, it makes me happy that even though we disagree on this we can stay civil.
okay, my opinion is not entirely PC but bear with me.
I'm a straight person myself but I don't think you're a sinner. As such, it's not a big deal for me to respect you just because you're a human being.
You want to respect her beliefs and that's certainly nice of you, but unfortunately, her beliefs get homosexuals killed.
In Iran , after the Islamic Revolution of 1979, being gay has been a crime.
According to a 2008 British WikiLeaks dispatch, Iran’s mullah regime executed “between 4,000 and 6,000 gays and lesbians” since the Islamic Revolution in 1979.
In Yemen, the law states that unmarried gay men will be punished with 100 whip lashes or one year in prison, but married gay men face death by stoning. Gay women are to be imprisoned for up to three years.
The death penalty for gay acts is derived from people’s interpretations of the Quran, Islam’s holy book, and the Hadith, or the accounts of the sayings of the Prophet Muhammad. The accounts differ on the method of killing, and other accounts suggest lesser penalties for homosexual acts, depending on the circumstances.
there are about a dozen muslim nations where gays can be executed just for being gay.
Now, why would you even want to respect a belief system that does not believe homosexuals have any rights at all?
would that be any fair to people being pushed into the closet by a barbaric regime?
Beliefs don't have rights, people do.
not to mention women equality is another burning problem in Islam.
@@suyashmisra7406 Just wanna tell you the rule of death stone and lashes also applies to the heterosexuals.
@@vistanafertility2346 Yep. Zina of any kind.
I appreciate the attempt to be respectful of thoughts and feelings, but it's not pleasant to compare murder to two men having consensual sex...
She also did compare murder and not wearing a hijab. She only meant these are 2 sins in Islam, you are twisting her words...
Exactly this!
I don't think she was comparing the two, in that case murder, drinking, and not wearing the hijab would all be comparable too and it's clearly not
Shes just giving examples of sins in islam
Not only two men, she also compared it with straight people having sex before marriage. And it's all indeed sins in islam.
Religion is not a justification for bigotry. Homophobia is wrong, regardless of where it comes from.
Ok. No one cares lol stop stalking her channel just to leave nasty comments
“of course you can be gay and muslim! as long as you’re miserable”
LOL that's what I heard her say too...trying to cover up the homophobia
So gay sex is the only thing that gives you meaning and happines? Damn what a sad life
@@denikoki it's not gay sex..its being able to BE with the person you love..when you're straight is sex the only thing in your relationship??? No...you have a whole life together... way to be reductionist.
@@ocean3802 I agree with what you said exept for the first line .
@@vesnalukic9877 and that is not a sin. Having a life with someone you love without the s£× is not a sin at all. If that's what you're talking about
The thing is that "homophobia" is not restricted to the act of prohibiting someone to participate in homosexual relationships/sexual actions. The fact that you do not choose to violently reinforce your religious beliefs on someone does not mean that you are not considering them or their actions as inferior, wrong or ungodly. And it is exactly this categorization going on that is the core of any kind of racism. When you deem a specific kind of behaviour, ethnicity, or in that matter sexual orientation as less acceptable, less pure, less godly than the one you (or your religion) has pronounced as the unique "right" way to exist and behave you are absolutely being racist (and specifically in this context homophobic).
This world is not our home. We literally have an eternal life in Jannah, if we want it. This world is a test. It’s NOT designed to be a place where we should be happy all the time. That is for the next world. Everyone has a different test, and has to struggle with different things. You might not find love, but Allah (S.W.T.) has given you food and a roof over your head, unlike many starving in poor countries. Everyone has a test.
@@NazmusLabs The notion that any struggle you are forced to face in your life is the will of some god is, if not completely false (which is up to the individual to decide), very dangerous for both societal and mental reasons. When speaking about economic, materialistic and societal inequalities, accepting that they are all the result of some sharing a god did only results in the further impoverishment and humiliation of the already struggling populations. It is only through the realisation that the way our societies work is not the default but rather a human construction that we can begin to aim towards a better world. Furthermore, even though we should all acknowledge our privilege to be living in a developed country, the notion that being anything but cisgender and heterosexual is just a test for us to prove our faith and our loyalty to a higher power can be catastrophic. Especially, but not limited to, concerning the LGBTQ+ youth it is very harmful and can lead to serious mental issues any claim of their sexual orientation/gender identity and their expression of such being wrong, sinful, ungodly, unethical etc. When we are talking about human rights this includes both the fulfillment of the basic human needs and the right for each individual to exist without discriminatiom due to gender identity, ethnicity, race, religion and sexual orientation as well as being able to express their identity freely (of course as long as they do not harm anyone). And no religious beliefs should ever be an excuse (and even more a justification) for discrimination, inequality, racism. It is dangerous, has resulted in many violent actions and it is one of the primary reasons why entire populations have been beggared.
Well everybody deem a specific kind of behaviour wrong. Like pedophilia, incest, drinking alcohol, smoking, sex before marriage etc.
I don't understand why are certain actions are hated and if you don't support certain other actions(like homosexuality) it's a bigoted thinking.
@@ADITYASHARMA-im2qo What you actually do not understand is that each person has the fundamental right to a sexual identity and the right to express it as long as there is no violation of somebody else's rights. When you are comparing the sexual or romantic relationship of two consenting adults with pedophilia you are being absolutely ignorant and utterly disrepectful not only to the whole LGBTQ+ community but to any rational and understanding person. Our freedom ends where the rights of others start and that is out of the question but no religion should be able to limit our freedom in the name of a questionably existent god.
Fascinating how when she's challenged even just a little bit the mask of toxic positivity drops. I like Sindra, but she refuses to even acknowledge that some parts of Islam are problematic & hurt people.
Hurt people ?lol
If we are tolerant to everything we stand for nothing
@@Mark-go7qm what?
@Amandeep Wahi she is
@@Ajanga she isn't
Preach 👏🏻
"you can be a gay muslim as long as you don't act like gay"
okay something wrong?
@@wandasairconditioner4781 yes its wrong
We cant live our life according to this
@@wandasairconditioner4781 yes. Islam is forbidding gay people form finding a partner and living a happy life.
A true creator wouldn’t care who you love . If you’re reading this and you’re confused and scared cause you’re Muslim and gay or bisexual , you live how you want don’t let a book men wrote dictate your life.
Yes but what if it was really, that's the question
@Sol H preach👏🏻👏🏻
Not just who you love, the one who created the universe would give two shits about any detail in your daily life, whether you pee sitting or not, whether you wear sweater or jumper, whether you wear slippers or sandals, whether you eat lettuce or rice, whether you get out of bed with left or right foot. People are giving god unrealistic Human Qualities. That's so frustratingly stupid I have no words.
Man did not write the book- God did
Thank you so much for this! So many of these comments are so frustrating because no matter which god is out there, I refuse to believe that he/she would make people who don't do anything else but spread love, condemn as sinners! You can be straight and be a terrible person, and you can be gay and be the most wonderful person out there. My brother is gay and he's one of my favourite persons in the world, because he cares, because he's lovely, because he is kind. When he was 16 he wished nothing more than to be straight. My mother is an orthodox Serbian, and she was very homophobic. But she had to overthink her beliefs and after 7 years she realized that he didn't choose this, but that this is just the way he is and that supressing his sexuality would make hin insanely unhappy
The subtitles are so inaccurate it's halarious
IKR LOLLL
What's inaccurate ? She is talking about muslim gays
Grow birds💀I-
@@shrouk8687 the subtitles are inaccurate , they are saying things totally different from what shes saying .
@@shrouk8687 they are talking about subtitles not sidra
You can’t control your thoughts and feelings but you can control your actions that’s pretty much it
still homophobic
@@tmt1387 how tho
@@tmt1387 Me explaining my religion is not homophobic sweetie. If you didn’t know, the definition of homophobia is: an aversion or hostility to, disdain for, or fear of gay sexuality orientation and gay people.
Since I treat people who are part of the lgbtq+ community the same as everyone else and even have plenty of gay friends, I do not identify myself as homophobic.
Just because I believe in something and choose not to do certain things doesn’t mean that other people shouldn’t be allowed to do what they wanna do.Idrc.
@@tmt1387 well Tf else r we meant to do just accept this and move in stop trying to force your lgbt agenda down our throat respect is all lgbt ppl are gonna get from us support is something you’ll never get accept this and move on
@@tmt1387 that is how you are ignorant
I'm bisexual and Muslim and you have no clue how many times I've been bashed for this by my family... Thank you for clarifying. I don't know if I can show this to them but it brings me a sense of peace regardless.
God loves you just the way you are. God still will love you, whether you marry a male or female. I see so many same-sex relationships, that are truly blessed. My Lutheran Church performs the wedding ceremony for these unions. These same sex couples also go on to raise children with love. You should visit one of these families and decide for yourself.
@@annegreengables6367 Stop trying to misguide people. You're clearly an Islamophobic Zionist with no intention to guide anyone or bring anything constructive to the table. Don't pretend to be a Christian when I've seen enough of your comments to know you're an atheist. Same-sex relationships are forbidden in Islam, Christianity and Judaism, with the Qur'an, Bible and Torah as proof. So stop spreading lies and being malicious.
Sister, while having such thoughts isn't necessarily haram, we should as Muslims try to rid our mind of such thoughts so that we are fully enlightened and happy. You seem like a good person so I hope you have a happy, healthy and successful life with Allah's unlimited blessings!
@@beastvader I don't have to believe in the divinity of Jesus Christ to live by his teachings: Treat others as I wish to be treated.
@@beastvader Well it isn't your life, so who are you to tell someone what will make them happy and enlightened? Let them live life as they want to.
With all the respect in the world, I disagree with this. All the other sins that you mentioned are choices, like drinking alcohol and eating pork. However being lgbtq isn’t a choice, yes it’s a choice to act on your desires but for a gay person to be with someone of the opposite sex, that would make them extremely uncomfortable. I don’t think lgbtq people should be told they are sinners just for being themselves and wanting a same sex partner, I don’t see how there’s anything wrong with it and how it can be considered a sin and harmful, if God is all loving why would he want his followers to be unhappy? I have muslim friends who are lgbtq and are in the closet and it makes me so sad that they can’t live happy without being called a sinner and going against God. I’m christian but this is the one thing that really puts me off religion, and I’m straight. Again I don’t mean any disrespect to any religion with this, I love watching Ninja Mommy and Mubina but I just really disagree with their opinions on this topic.
I agree 100%. It's not a choice.
Thank you dear friend for supporting us😊😊
I don't know, can anyone give me any scientific article to suggest that it is genetic? As far as I have read it is a manipulated behaviour. If it is to the contrary please do educate.
Allah swt knows best! He always has a reason for the things he has forbidden.
I’ve been looking for a way to express my thoughts, but you put it perfectly. I completely respect ninja mami, and all other Muslim creators, but this is one topic that I just can’t agree with. The arguments put forth are flimsy at best. And like you said it doesn’t make sense to compare being lgbtq to consuming pork and alcohol. You wouldn’t suffer anywhere near as much if you refrain from consuming alcohol or pork compared to having no choice but to be in a relationship you are very uncomfortable in. Another argument I disagree with is that straight people also have to refrain from sex until after marriage. That comparison doesn’t make sense, because if you’re straight, you have the option of marriage. Gay people on the other hand don’t have that option in Islam.
There are other arguments to support that it’s ok to be lgbtq in Islam, but the ones constantly put forth aren’t great.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble. I hope I didn’t offend anyone
Okay honey, you are sweet, trying to look understanding and all. But this is homophobic to forbid people to love someone. It's not even about sex, you don't need sex to have a great relationship. But you need the love. The closenest. The connection. Shared home. Being able to hold hands in public. Which you forbid. It's cool I don't go to hell for thinking about people of the same sex but I don't think I would ever be happy without somebody I truly love. You can bend your sexuality. But you can't bend who you love. And if it happens to be a same sex person, I'd rather give up my religion than true feeling of warm and calming love. And to be honest, everybody who says Allah loves you the most and the love is ever warming and everywhere is just a person who is damn good in self conviction
Actually , while she does say that people don't go to hell for thinking about people of the same sex, she also makes in clear that it's a sin to indulge or entertain those thoughts. So while it would be not be a sin for someone to have a passing thought, they are meant to do their best to distract themselves from such thoughts when they appear.
Homophobia: the dislike or prejudice against gay people. She never said she dislikes gay people, she just said she believes that being in a homosexual relationship in sinful. ITS HER BELIEF, she’s not forcing it on anyone shes not saying “YOU WILL GO TO HELL IF YOUR GAY” she’s just saying what Muslims belief for educational purposes. So basically: mind your own f*cking business because that belief isn’t yours and she’s not shoving it down your throat so it’s not going to leave a dent in your life
Criticizing her beliefs is Islamophobic, honey.
That's just homophobia with extra steps...
Nah... that's not 😐
This is in fact homophobia. Not allowing muslims to be in a gay relationship or saying it's a sin is exactly what homophobia is. Homophobia means shaming it, thinking it's wrong or sinful etc. It doesn't have to come from a place of hate but it's still just as harmful. Saying that it's the rules of god doesn't make it more okay. It's just as wrong to excuse harmful acts or opinions even if it's in the name of god.
And correct me if I'm wrong but the point of following the words of god is that god wants something good, right? So if gods will harms people it's pretty usless to follow his words. I would never want to be in a homophobic heaven at least.
However I'm convinced that god loves all forms of love❤️
no one is gonna force anybody to be gay or Muslim
Islam and gay can't go together
It's like saying "I am Christian but my heart is Jewish but I feel like a Muslim"
That doesn't make sense
You can be what you believe in so don't be gay and Muslim in the same time your life will be miserable because your religion says something and your feelings says another thing so just choose what do you belive in but you can't choose both
May god guide those people to the right path
@@Idk-iz2hs That senario is truly heartbreaking, far from simple and not at all how it should be. A religion that's not good for or including everyone is not worth anything. I think islam is what we make it, so let's make it for everyone💕 You can absolutely be both
@@Idk-iz2hs That doesn't make sense. It would be like saying "if you wanna be muslim don't be heterosexual".
She didn’t make the rules of her religion she just follows them and shares her beliefs with everyone so everyone can get an understanding as awareness of her religion and culture whether people agree with the botched beliefs or not.
@@emc5807 Is she aware that her beliefs are homophobic?
How can you be gay but not live as a gay person?
having sex is not the centre of identity
I’m a bisexual Muslim girl, and I totally needed this clarification; I feel better knowing I will not be sinned for having certain thoughts or feelings towards both genders without acting upon them, Shukran sister, you seriously give me the education that I needed 🥰❤️
@@Researcher1111 You don’t have the right to tell me that Allah will disown me just because I’m bisexual, I still continue to worship Allah, pray 5 times a day, read the Quran, and always making dua, as sister Sidra said, I will not be sinned for having thoughts, attractions, or desires to both genders, I love Allah, and I know Allah loves me, I am a true Muslim girl, Key word: GIRL, meaning I’m 14 years old, and I love who I am, so leave me alone
I’m really happy ur at ease now but make sure ur not actually saying ur bi bc ur exposing ur desires and then there will be bigots who will shame u and attack u so be careful and keep it to urself it will be hard and I hope Allah swt eases ur pains and worries t h errs nothing wrong with u, u are completely normal
Why are you still a bi? Have you tried to repent? I know repentance is hard
Just don’t act on it
You cant compare 2 people loving each other and being together to things like murder 🤷♀️ 🤷♂️ so i would hope that you would support us even if its not for you personally- as I support Muslims even though the religion isnt for me
we're not SUPPOSED to support it
@@turntoallah3148 if accepting another person's existence hinges on what you think a dead person said before- then thats an issue 🤷♀️ theres a lot of things the religion i was raised with is said we shouldnt do that Muslims do- but its not my choice to make for another person. Also 50% of US Muslims support lgbt marriage according to polls
european muslims for sure do not
@@yesthisismew change has to start somewhere though and at some point we need to have the conversation
She can't support lgbtq because that would be against Allah. The most thing she can do is not to make any prejudgement to any lgbtq people and not to hate them.
Disclaimer: I mean it's not like you cant ask any muslim to support you, because everyone has their own choice. But based on what ninja mommy practices and what she shares in her youtube channel. She cant support lgbtq because she's been religiously following Allah teachings (very detailed, actually)
so acting on gay thoughts isn’t allowed in islam, but having multiple wives is…? not hating, just confused on how exactly that works.
They don't accept that a person can actually just be gay. That's pretty much it.
@@suyashmisra7406 Ninja Mommy is saying that people can be gay.
@@Smithpolly "being gay" includes more than just gay thoughts
@@suyashmisra7406 Could you explain what you mean?
@@Smithpolly she said if you have more than gay thoughts it's considered sin in Islam
I guess according to this logic someone can say: “I love and respect you, but if you act upon your desires to follow Islam, you’re committing a transgressive, immoral act. See? I’m not islamophobic!” (I don’t believe this, I’m just putting it into perspective for you 😀)
It would be even worse because you can't choose to be gay where you can choose your religion
@@New_Romanticss religion isnt an inherit (i hope i spelled it correctly 😅) trait so thats the difference between religion is sexuality, but i dont believe that your religion is a choice, or to be exact: i dont believe that your beliefs are a choice. If you think they are, try to believe in the greek mythology - you cant, no matter how hard you try, because its not a choice
@@justsomerandomname2067 LOL your beliefs are 100% a choice. I could be a muslim if I wanted, but I dont want to.
@@cristiperez2203 ok, i will pay you ten dollars if you will believe in santa clause. Can you do that? Just choose to believe in santa?
The reason you arent a muslim (and im not talking about the practical stuff, im talking about the belief) is because islam being true isnt convincing enough for you to believe in it, and you cant choose whats seems convincing to you.
@@justsomerandomname2067 LMFAO what a bad example. Santa clause we KNOW 100% is fake, but there's no proof of religion being fake, hence the faith. If you are gonna try to argue this at least use a good example lol
“Hate the sin; love the sinner” is still homophobic and as a Muslim, needs to have pushback. This isn’t okay, and you can’t ask anyone to not live as who they are authentically but to remain in the closet to be a good Muslim. This isn’t a wholesome message lmao
İt's not meant to be a wholesome message. İt's supposed to tell the truth: and the truth is that Islam and being lbgtq don't go hand in hand. Period. And we're not asking anyone to bend to our beleifs, it's rather you and the others particularly who believe that muslims should bend in and allow LGBTQ be as a part of their religion and be ok with it. And that's never going to happen. As long as we don't go out of our be way to sht on LGBTQ community we haven't done anything remotely homophobic. We're not hating on you. And phobia? Phobia as in fear? We ain't afraid of the LGBTQ community. We ain't afraid of anyone except god. İd say with full confidence, it's rather the other way around. İ don't understand why muslims are entitled to give in and support the lbgtq community, honey no one's beleifs and reasons are entitled to anyone.
And not agreeing with the concept of LGBTQ community isn't homophobic. Just like how being gay and men dating men isn't mysoginstic.
@@justanotherhumanbean5876 I agree, as crappy as it sounds, that’s what the religion is based on. It has rules and if you don’t do them, that’s called sinning
@@arealhuman3677 yup. And I'm not going to sugarcoat, but it's exactly how it is. Islam wasn't made to accommodate people and their desires. People are to accomodate to Islam.
@@justanotherhumanbean5876 Yes, no one is entitled to support anything. Sure, not agreeing with the concept of the lgbtq community isn't homophobic. I also agree that as long as you aren't going out of your way to be a jerk, then it's okay. Everyone has different opinions and it's just a matter of respecting each other, but you can't deny that the fact that gay marriage is punishable by *death* in islam is pretty damn homophobic. When it gets to that point, I really don't think it is okay by any means.
What you are saying isn't smart or tolerant. It's kufr. We hate the sin as the sin defines evil. So we want to ban it and we are the enemies of the corrupters and evildoers as we are following justice. The homosexual people are not our enemies as long as they don't commit evil
just say your homophobic. you cant keep up a nice act when you tell people they cant love someone just because of their gender
Yea she's homophobic.
You have no idea how much you're misleading people.
How?
Omg yes finally someone understands!
This world is not our home. We literally have an eternal life in Jannah, if we want it. This world is a test. It’s NOT designed to be a place where we should be happy all the time. That is for the next world. Everyone has a different test, and has to struggle with different things. You might not find love, but Allah (S.W.T.) has given you food and a roof over your head, unlike many starving in poor countries. Everyone has a test.
@@sabrinaayoubi actually , like u cant be homosexual , simple as that , just because ur have thoughts on dosent mean u identity as homosexual
I agree
Proud ex muslim atheist
Pajeet
same
So no, you can't be gay and muslim
You can be attracted to the same sex but you can’t be together with them or marry them
@@abdullahalali3962 that's what I said
@@RagingGoblin47 then yes exactly
@@abdullahalali3962 You can think about islam in your head but you can't act upon those thoughts and practise it... That's what the rule sounds like to gays. Imagine the same rule but applied to muslims...
Of course you can be gay and muslim! It's just that you'd be unhappy and miserable all your life, but that's okay, since Islam is "perfect". So you not acting upon your feelings just keeps Islam "perfect"!
Being cursed by Allah and ending in hellfire is a far better option! Or not?
@@sanderspandas4300 that's what taliban tells women who want to have a job
@@suyashmisra7406 Exactly
@@sanderspandas4300 It's better for you to try and correct talibans.
@@donut7868 except the Taliban enforces the Sharia law in letter and spirit.
This woman is one of the biggest hypocrites I've come across! Such manipulative words!! Sodomy seriously?? Who tf are you to term homosexuality as sodomy?? Just because heterosexuality is natural to you doesn't mean anything else is sodomy. Educate yourself! 😑
as an aroace and a muslim, thank you for the explanation after me being invalid for a long time. 💜💚🖤
ur valid :D
You're valid! :D
I was a straight ace but coz of the toxicity in the community now i identify as straight TwT
@@trusfrated4645 you're valid regardless dude! :]
Do whatever makes you comfortable :>
@@paxthebiarooaceer me being ace is called a disease so i would just stay in the closet forever :'''')
Ok, but can you give one non-religious reason why gay people shouldn't be allowed to be with the partner they want? Religion has been used so much against the LGBT community
^
Just letting y’all know you can be lgbtq and Muslim- it depends on your relationship with god and your beliefs
I think it depends more on where you live and who surrounds you. Try being a gay muslim in Turkey, Syria, or Saudi Arabia..... In America, nobody will care.
@@viralshark Saudi Arabia? you’ll go to jail
Try it in a muslim country. Rest in Peace
So let‘s set this straight: you‘re comparing acting on gay thoughts with murdering someone? What the actual...?
She was not? She said all different types of sins. By your logic she was also comparing drinking alcohol and murder.
She said it's a sin, I don´t understand how people can think that love is a sin or a crime, love is love. Some people still live in the middle ages.
@@xxMary89xx Its called religion and beliefs bro
Would you say that if sidra was Christian lol
@@riverogue13 Mhm,
Being gay and ok to be a muslim
Dont think about being gay and you do no haram
Islam- suppress your own feelings for you entire life 🤣✌️what a joke!
Both are haram The first time I saw your face, I remembered the jinn, and it is clear that you are the servant of the cross. Well, in your religion, it is normal because it is washed by devil 🤒😂😂😂
This is not meant to be disrespectful but i need to say this.
I absolutely hate the way you and many other people who've spoken on this topic makes it sound like its same for both gay and straight people but its not. you guys say that gay people cannot act on their desires but straight people cant either before marriage and you have to realise and accept that thats not the same at all. islam does not accept gay people and thats it. im pretty sure if islam accepted them gay muslims would 100% wait for marriage to have sex. please be upfront about this and no this is not me twisting your words its what you said and just that.
Islam may not be homophobic and I'm truly glad that it isnt but its not accepting either please try to accept that
I kind of agree with you but I guess she is scared of the backlash
@@abdullahalali3962 true and i do not hate her and im a muslim myself, i just wish that muslim influencers would be more upfront about all this thats all
We don't support the LGBTQ but we respect them
@@Sam_1704 I was just giving an example of a sin.
I know it’s not the same.
It never will be the same.
We believe it’s a huge test and it is what it is.
Well then gay marriage should be allowed, people won't have to commit adultery then. Also if one is gay , it's inhumane to tell them not to act upon their desires for the rest of their life. This is absolutely fucked.
just because someone has the desire to do something, does not give them the right to go ahead with it.
You are acting like being queer is a choice. Us being created this way was not an accident
Love is never a mistake
She seems homophobic..
And what’s wrong with that?
@@f.8072 maybe you should not be so closed minded ..
If youre gay dont feel bad, its just your test for this dunya, Allah tests all of us differently. Its not an easy test but if you pass, the reward is huge!
EXACTLY, Alhamdullillah
Jazak Allahu Khairun
Okay this is the exact thing I believed as a Christian (I am no longer a Christian) and honestly it sounds well and good until you’re actually gay and you basically have to choose between experiencing a romantic relationship or your religion. Me saying this ideology is harmful isn’t “twisting your words” it is really hard for gay people to also be religious because of people who believe this. And also, there are Muslims who decide to as you say “act on it”. Just like the Bible the Quran is super old and you can’t be sure of everything in it being 100% true through translations and transcriptions. There are Muslims who would disagree with you and while you’re not homophobic you’re not accepting either and you shouldn’t be being praised for not actively hating gay people.
Also, straight people being forbidden from premarital sex isn’t the same as gay people being forbidden from having a relationship ever. I’ve heard Christians make the same argument you’re making with the same comparison and yeah waiting until marriage for sex is 100x easier than accepting you’ll never have a relationship because of your religion. So yeah.
If you feel Quran is not true why do you follow that ? Can humans decide what is right And wrong?
@@Mark-go7qm lmao when did I say I follow the quran why would I go from one restrictive religion to another lmaooo
@@riverogue13 then why do you want to change it ? Lol who is intolerant here ? Why gay people think every religion should accept them ? Why do they impose their ideas on others ?
@@Mark-go7qm bro CHILL I never asked anyone to change their religion lmaooo. That's not what I'm saying I'm just saying Sidra should not be praised for being accepting because she really isn't lol. I'm not forcing anyone to abandon their religion and I can't force people to agree with me. If religious people are not trying to make laws against gay people or tell gay people who don't believe the same things as them what they can and can't do I don't care what they believe lol they can believe what they want. The last time I checked there are religious people who make laws against lgbt people but lgbt people aren't making laws against religion. I'm pointing out the flaw in this ideology but I'm not saying people aren't allowed to have that ideology. I mean Sidra said she believes gay marriage is wrong but she's not saying people aren't allowed to do it. Isn't that the same thing?
How does this video have more likes than dislikes . She is basically saying you are doing something wrong if you have sex as gays . Isn't that homophobic ?? Do people really agree with her ??
Yeah. People think it’s not homophobic and just an opinion but you can be respectful and homophobic at the same time. she’s basically just saying that she’s homophobic while using nice words.
She is saying that homosexual muslims transgress against Allah's laws if they act on their sexual desires. Non-Muslims are not restricted by Allah's laws and can live their lives how they want. Muslims who disagree that homosexual acts are forbidden or not permissable in Islam are straight out of the fold of Islam.
@@sanderspandas4300 try telling that to the gay couple in Yemen who got sentenced to death for being in a gay marriage.
Oh wait..
Lord, can you stop it? She is seriously talking to the Muslims, and you are NOT a Muslim. So why in the heavens are you so damn offended? She's talking about our religion and our rules. We're not forcing them upon you. Everybody is free to convert, but if you choose to stick to the religion, then have faith
We should be as harsh about the disapproval of the LGBT community In Islam as we already are with Christians, why the double standard there?
Exactly.
I think it's because people think they are obliged to "respect" all faiths, even if the faith itself is blatantly homophobic.
@@suyashmisra7406 it seems to be extremely difficult for them to criticize islam in particular, also disrespecting and criticizing are 2 different things... I can say islam is dangerously homophobic and misogynistic, I am not disrespecting I am simply critiquing and that's how society evolves from bad ideas
@@carlottaalbini5505 except Islam isn't supposed to evolve. Quran is supposed to be the final word of God and Mohammed the perfect man for all times.
Really though, it's because Islam is a relatively young religion when you compare it to other abrahamic faiths.
There just hasn't been enough time for it to evolve and reform.
@@suyashmisra7406 yes true and that's a big problem
I'm sorry, but how exactly do those "other" religions even make sense to you? Some worshipping statues, and some worshipping humans. To be very honest, it is the one religion which is quite logical. I understand if you don't agree with me, and I fully respect your religion and opinion, but I just wanted to say, its shouldn't be made a target for no reason. I mean, you guys aren't even Muslims, so why would you want to say that?
“Yes you can be gay, as long as you don’t do anything gay”
-Burkha’d Mommy
I would for sure use her words only for being sarcastic lol
You don't have to act on those thoughts
@@galacticbattles17
Tell that to the dude marrying six year old kids.
@@galacticbattles17
CZcams deleted your comment because it was so r3t0rd3d try again, matey.
@@stephenrochester6309 If you look at your comment keeping history in mind, you'll know that it was common to have kids when you were 11 & 12, this isn't even that long ago, it's 200 years ago.
Go back 1400 years ago and you'll know life expectancy was 28 ish so marriages were arranged when kids were born.
Your ancestors did that too, but you won't keep history and societal norms in mind?
You didn't just seriously put murder and acting out gay desires on the same page?? As a family member of someone who was murdered, this is a hard slap into my face...
ma’am this video could’ve been 4 seconds just say islam is homophobic and go
Hi thanks for giving us a perfect example of what she said, people twisting and exaggerating her words
To people who still thinks she's not a homophobe, do you think a person is not an islamaphobe if he says this:
"Of course, I have nothing against Muslim. You can be one as long as you don't pray, wear hijab, go to mosque or follow any of the Islamic laws. It's also best not to think about Allah because it's a sin and equal to committing murder. Trust me, I am not an islamaphobe. 😇".
In their reasoning it's logical, because they assert that religious doctrine is the default state of the human being and everything else is a choice or whatever.
This is obviously however not true.
Plus, you can be repulsive of islam as an idea and not be islamphobe.
Whatever phobia means these days will make my statement wrong.
and also it makes sence for someone that is not muslim to not do that
You can still be whatever you want as long as you don't act upon it like lgbtq community they can be but they can't act upon it. I am not saying that I hate you guys cause in Islam we are suppose to even respect out enemies but you guys far from that so we have all our respect for you just like anyone else.
Edit: Guys let me explain when I said enemies I didn't mean as the lgbtq community I mean as real life. And that lgbtq community also deserves that same respect as other not less get the thing. Also I am only talking about Islam not any other religion.
🥺❤
Agreed 💯
sugar coated homophobia
@@tmt1387 ^^^
@@tmt1387 Yeah. So go read the Quran you will get the undiluted dose. Some Muslims want to bend their value system to make it more palatable for the Western liberal societies.
To be honest, I'm a gay Muslim, and I'm a boy, people say I'm going to hell and stuff but ya know what I do? Ignore em and continue being the happy gay guy I am, I believe in myself, and I will live my live happily while being the Muslim I want to be, Thank you for saying that I'm vaild! Btw I have a boyfriend homophobies ;))
Good for you! 💪🏻❤️
@@Ninazandleven Thanks! Hope you have a great day! 👏
May Allah swt guide you.
Be careful fellow lgbtq+ person.
There will be Muslims going after you saying that dating ain't allowed and that getting a partner that doesn't involve marriage isn't allowed in Islam. But ya know what? Just ignore them because you live only once and you shouldn't be bothered by what others say or do
@@gtfoffmyproperty exactly! 👏
Is she saying that it's OK to be gay but not have sex with same-sex partner? What is the point of being gay then? So, heterosexual people can have sex according to her, but homosexual not.
And saying that it's OK to eat pig (but not eating it) will take you out of Islam, but saying (but not not having sex) that it's OK to be gay will not, wtf.
I really love how respectful Sidra is about this issue. However, I just wanted to add something.
To all the religious queer people - my heart goes out to you, whatever your practices are. I hope you know that you don't have to choose between your religion and your personal happiness (and yes, I am aware that religion is a great source of happiness for many people). Literally every religion is open to interpretation - it is your informed decision on how to obey your God(s). In the end, your life is about your happiness. If you choose to not act on your queer feelings - great, I hope that makes you happy and closer to God. If you choose to do so - great, I hope that makes you happy and closer to God. Having a partner that you love and respect (whatever their gender identity is) doesn't make you a sinner/less religious (unless you yourself decide so obviously). 2SLGBTQ+ community and are not antagonists, so that you have to CHOOSE to be either one or the other. You as a human being, are allowed a freedom to love who you love, to express that love however you want to and to follow a religion of your liking in a way that you want to (obviously, both within reasonable limits - do no harm to others).
If you are cisgender and heterosexual - this comment WAS NOT FOR you, please do not project your opinion on the lives and identities of people that you cannot understand. Do not invite unnecessary conflict. Be respectful, whatever your opinion is. If you are religious, please do not argue that your religious beliefs/school of thought are the only correct one, and that there are no other interpretations. Please do not make queer people choose between God and their family. I know you may have different views - it's ok. Do not exclude and bash queer people if they choose to be in a same-sex relationship while practicing religion. It is their right. You don't have to be super supportive - just please don't be negative and discouraging. You don't know better - because it's not a competition. Everyone is allowed an interpretation of their religious dogmas. In the end, it's between that individual person and God, so it is none of your business.
This world is not our home. We literally have an eternal life in Jannah, if we want it. This world is a test. It’s NOT designed to be a place where we should be happy all the time. That is for the next world. Everyone has a different test, and has to struggle with different things. You might not find love, but Allah (S.W.T.) has given you food and a roof over your head, unlike many starving in poor countries. Everyone has a test.
@@NazmusLabs it is great that you believe that! I really respect that. But everyone has a right to an opinion, including one that differs from yours. If they don’t harm other people, they have the right to live their lives however you want to.
Being homophobic is not respectful. If you believe in homophobic ideology, you are homophobic.
Thank you for this, it makes the internet just a little bit of a better place :)
I am a christian and we are supposed to follow a similar logic. "You can be gay, just dont act on your desires", however I disagree. The bible was written SO long ago, by MEN. Yes, I know its supposed to represent God's word but it was written by HUMANS. These humans could have twisted God's word to please THEIR homophobic views. We have to realize these "rules" were written in a different time, and we must question their credibility.
If God loves all of us, why would he force someone to live an unhappy life?
The word homosexuality wasn't added to the Bible until the 1940s, and it wasn't even something people thought of back then. The stories homophobic "Christians" use to justify homophobia are talking about things like r@pe, adultery, p£d0philia, and other things like that.
@Helpful Person Most Christians don't care about female pastors. You're thinking of Mormonism.
I myself eas like u a muslim who supported gay even though quran don't allow it .l used to pray fast and so on .but muslim around me and internet bashed me saying it take me out of islam.so l kindly left islam now proud ex muslim who will do my best to show of evil islam
Wtf? Lol it doesn't even make sense, sorry....
It's sad to see such narrow-minded rhetoric coming from such a bubbly person. My heart is with any LGBTQ+ kids growing up under religious parents like this.
Her positivity seems toxic Tbh Besides calling gay sex sinful, she also doesn't believe in women equality .
In a video, she says Islam has no superstitions and in another video, she talks about angels and demons(djinns) as mentioned in the Quran.
Honestly, I can't trust this lady now.
@Suyash Misra Hi I’m sure what she meant by superstitions was culture like some cultures believe in certain superstitions like cutting nails at night is bad or if you walk over someone whilst their laying down they won’t grow tall somethings like that certain cultures believe in which Muslims don’t believe is true
You cant "respect" us if you dont support us. End of.
Nonsense
@@fromTheRitztoTheRubble Bruh if you think my relationship is any less than a straight relationship then you don't respect me and you can fuck right off
@@AbsoluteDemonling I didn't say I think your relationships isn't real. I only think that I can respect lgbt without supporting. Like others culture, like I respect culture of any country, but don't support it. I have my own culture and beliefs.
@@AbsoluteDemonling Right? Saying "I don't support you" IS disrespectful. It's like saying "I don't support you having brown eyes."
They can, actually.
It can be like, "I feel uncomfortable around gay people, but I still respect them."
Coming from someone in the LGBTQ+ community
What a revolting woman lol
So basically you can be gay and muslim as long as you stay single and miserable forever or marry someone from the opposite sex and be unhappy forever? What a load of bs, I honestly don't get how does someone even listen to you.
If you can´t express your sexuality it's like it's forbbiden I guess, that's terrible, people should be more open about this things because love is love no matter what religion you are, and love is not a crime or a sin.
Exactly. But unfortunately, some people still live like it's the middle ages.
@@dariaradac423 True, I'm Spanish, maybe you have heard of the murder of that boy the other day, beaten to death because of his sexuality, it's terrible and it's something that happens everyday in other countries.
@@xxMary89xx wait, that happened IN SPAIN?! Are you serious?!
@@xxMary89xx do you have a link to an article about this?
@@xxMary89xx that sounds so fucked up
I am honestly so sick and tired of being told not to “act on your homosexual thoughts.” Imagine if straight people were told this, the outrage would be astronomical. But because we are a minority, we are expected to shut up and listen. I’m done.
Well Islam forbidden homosexuality acts
@𝚜𝚝𝚊𝚛𝚍𝚞𝚜𝚝 I agree, but that's how it is. If Islam allowed gay people, then there won't be cases of killing or being disowned. But I did hear about some people trying to reform Islam, so dont loose hope.
@imagica people with anger issues may not choose the way they are. But this life is a test.
islam cant be reformed what is wrong with this s generation
Repent. Seek Jesus
im a bisexual muslim and i always thought if being gay was haram.I told my sister and she said im going to hell and that allah hates me now. Im so glad i found this channel,allah doesn't hate me and im not going to hell for being bi(this was to my sister lol)thank u sm ninja mommy,im so glad i found this channel!💖
@PARTH Asha exactly!!
This is very late but your expressing right now which is making it haram
Short answer: no you are breaking an entire rule of Islam
How about _gay marriages?_ That's an inalienable right
A gay marriage is non existent in Islam. Marriage is only between a man and a woman.
@@sanderspandas4300
That's my point. She's homophobic but doesn't want to look like that lol
@@kakalimukherjee3297 Where was she homophobic? Allah sets the rules of marriage. And any sexual intercourse outside of marriage is a grave sin in Islam.
@@sanderspandas4300
The thing you said right now is homophobic and not compatible with western liberal values
@@kakalimukherjee3297And why is it homophobic?
honestly, have consensual sex with whomever you wanna have sex with, kiss whomever you'd like to kiss and most importantly love whomever you want to love. this right here is just some interpretation of a thousand year old book and not the ultimate truth. to them you might be a sinful person if you act upon your - very much normal - feelings and desires but it's just THEIR way to see the world. at the end of the day YOU have to be comfortable with your life and your relationship to god. find your own truth instead of following some ridiculous ideas from a million years ago. you are not a sinful and very much valid.
i mean, at least she's got an open approach to the topic, which i respect but at the end of the day it's just sugar coated homophobia. like, two men having sex is punished the same way as murder...? girl
So it’s okay to be gay in Islam and can’t marry or act apon them. That’s just torture and unfair not to be able to marry if you’re gay and Muslim, it feels very hypocritical
It's not torture. It's just the religion that God made. It's not our choices.
@@Mariam-ke5ej it’s your choice to follow such a religion that does this to gay people
@@skyzaddiescult7439 There are many reasons why God has forbidden this. If your intrested to know what they are you can just tell me, I can tell you then. Also don't call my religion "Such a religion" that's just very disrespectful. Also you want me to respect people being gay when you dont respect my religion? I can see in your comments that you are disrespectful to islam. And the religion doesn't do anything to those gay people. It only forbids to make a relationship with the same gender. It does not forbid the gay people! There is a difference.
@@Mariam-ke5ej exactly and that’s exclusive and dangerous to young gay Muslims who feel an outcast to literally they’re whole belief and basically life and family
@@skyzaddiescult7439 Its a religion. And if you are attracted to someone it is not haram. How is that even dangerous? And if someone really really really wants to have a relationship with the same gender then he or she is out of islam. You cant choose both. You have to choose one of them. Either being a muslim or to have a relationship with the same gender. If that's the case. Plus it's not only forbidden in Islam but also in christianity and in Judaism.
I am a bisexual and not Muslim so this is just my opinion , Sidra (I don’t know how to spell so correct me if I’m wrong sorry if I spelt your name wrong) does not make the rules and you should not attack her for the rights and wrongs in Islam . Anyway let’s get to the point . Tho it makes me a bit upset that in Islam you can’t act upon being gay it makes me happy that your arnt sinned for having thoughts and feelings . I feel very strongly that you should be able to think certain things and but be sinned or punished for it . I also think it’s great just because you are gay it does not take away your right to practice Islam . I hope this helps . Also please this is not hate , this is just simply my opinion, Ninja Mommy does such a good job and she should keep up the good work , also send absolutely NO hate to anyone who is Muslim because of this comment . I respect Muslims so much and I even study the Qur’an from time to time, Even tho I am not a Muslim and am Wiccian . I don’t appreciate hate to people just because they are practicing their religion. I hope this helped and one again send no hate , love you ninja mommy 💖
-Ray
she doesn’t make the rules, but she chooses to follow them and preach them as the truth. that’s her right of course, but it’s also homophobic.
@@user-bc4es6uq8m I guess but I really don’t think sidra is homophobic, transphobic, aphobic, or anything else for that matter . This is just my opinion
@@user-xn5zu5ky4b I'm sorry but how can't you see that Sidra is clearly homophobic? She is just disguising her homophobis with toxic positivity, she clearly said that you can't act on your feelings if you're gay, that is, she wants gay people to be single and miserable forever.
@@sambatra6162 I’m aware and I have excepted that fact , however I feel we should still respect her because she is practicing her own religion. I think we should stop attack Muslims and see where they are coming from . Keep
In mind I am a minor and I need to be convinced of somethings , I’m going to agree that Islam is homophobic and that for Sidra to talk and preach about this it is homophobic but I wouldn’t say she’s a homophobic person if that makes sense . Also we can all have different beliefs . Now saying homophobic is right is one of the most terrible things someone can do to a queer and trans person , homophobia should never be justified but all I’m saying is that if we’re going to live on this planet with each other we need to be respectful. Now I’m going to say that I wish Sidra should stop preaching this , it’s hurtful bug I’ll give her chances
This world is not our home. We literally have an eternal life in Jannah, if we want it. This world is a test. It’s NOT designed to be a place where we should be happy all the time. That is for the next world. Everyone has a different test, and has to struggle with different things. You might not find love, but Allah (S.W.T.) has given you food and a roof over your head, unlike many starving in poor countries. Everyone has a test.
Comparing same sex relationships on the same lines of sin as murder......what if two gay people get married and then have sex? Would it not be a sin then? We've all got just one life live as you wish enjoy just don't hurt anyone. Even if you're gay if there's a god, he/she will still love you
I believe ninja mommy lives in Canada so her opinions on LGBT wouldn’t really affect the legal rulings on gay rights, for one. But you’re very wrong for comparing things like murder and straight people having sex before marriage to homosexuality.
So do you think ninja mommy would like the laws on gay rights in Canada to be changed but she just isn't in a powerful enough position do have them changed?
@@Smithpolly No, that’s not for me to assume lol. I’m just saying Canada isn’t going to have a referendum on whether gay marriage should be allowed, so her opinion wouldn’t have any bearing. Whereas if she lived in a country where gay marriage wasn’t a thing, then her opinion might hold more weight in terms of voting for gay rights.
@@cripplingdepression4651 Couldn't Canada have a referendum to ask whether gay marriage should no longer be allowed there?
@@Smithpolly Unlikely, but possible. That’s where the whole “I don’t support the act but I support the person” becomes a load of bullshit but then again, I don’t know what her actual vote on such a thing would be.
@@cripplingdepression4651 So she hasn't made it clear or not whether she considers homosexual relationships just to be a sin to be punished by God or whether she also considers that it should be a crime to be punished by the law of the land. Why do you think she hasn't been clear on that?
So basically gay Muslim people have to be repressed in order to be good Muslims.... Many Christians also think that ( it's not only Islam) but I just find it sad. Being gay and acting upon gay desires should not be a sin, as well as having sexual thoughts about someone before marriage. It's just human nature. Sometimes religions can be too strict, but to each its own.
You don't have to change your thoughts just to be a good muslim , it's just that you shouldn't act on it.
About sex before marriage , it seems fair because many people go through the situation where they give their virginity to someone and end up being with someone else and then regret. In Islam , there's a simple concept that we believe in - " If it's risky , don't do it " and " precaution is better than cure " so that's what we do , precaution and save ourselves from risk 🙂
I feel like I’m echoing a lot of others’ thoughts here but if a religion prohibits something that a person CANNOT control,, then that religion is wrong. straight up, no argument about it. how can you serve a god that prohibits a happiness of others while allowing yourself that happiness?? that’s so messed up. that’s like saying all people of a certain ethnicity do not deserve to have their needs met, but all others do. they had no choice where they were born,, and gay people have no more control over their sexuality.
Who said that Allah is telling you to control that you can not control ? It's clearly said that you can have those feelings as it's uncontrollable but you can't act on it because it is controllable.
@@butoolrizvi88 So basically a person can be gay and muslim as long as the person is single, celebate and miserable forever, right? What a load of bs.
@@sambatra6162 no , as long as the person isn't marrying someone with same sex. You can have those feelings but this world and nature has some rules and we have to go according to them in order to live and survive. Marrying opposite sex and having kid(s) is a part of it.
That's why Jesus said we need to be *born again* (John 3:3) so that the sinful nature can die and we get a heavenly nature through the Holy Spirit. Indeed in natural terms, it seems impossible and perhaps cruel, but ALL people must repent of their sins and accept Christ's sacrifice on the cross and believe the gospel if they want to be saved because no sinner can enter God's abiding place (heaven). There are numerous testimonies of people who surrendered their life to Christ and who were transformed from the inside out, even their homosexuality. Some are even able to marry a person of the opposite sex and have families. We could think that they're faking it or forcing themselves but I don't believe so.
So you can be gay but not actually be gay ... Just be gay in your own head . Idk that sounds like a no to me 😂
So if you're gay and muslim, you can never get married to the person you love...? That really is heartbreaking, I would never be a part of a religion that doesn't allow me to be happy and love and be loved like that :(
But still, you are great, Ninja Mommy! No hate, and no discrimination, you're just telling what your religion says, and it doesn't really harm anyone: as long as you always have a choice. RESPECT!
Ammm I love you honest you're with those videos as it's rare to find ppl not adding their own opinions on top of the word of God nowdays but you don't so I love you for that.. Thanks alot.. Aloot... And I am gay and I am a Muslim.... And yeah I totally agree with every word u say. It's insanely difficult not gonna lie. As this way only lead to me dying alone in a room.. I can't have a partner. And of course I can't marry a woman because she deserves someone who loves her in a way I can't. And I can't marry a dude. Because u know. So there is only one option left which is dying alone. I was going to do it actually if my childhood wasn't shit from day 1 and BTW I am gray acexual on top of being gay. So I love ppl for them. And not how they look. And growing up. Imma be honest I never loved anybody. Not even my parents. I didn't know they existed until I was 7 years old despite me loving with them . Anyway amm yeah I am 20 years old now and in my life never kissed or hugged anybody so yeah I only loved one person and he broke my heart (لم احب احد غير ربي و كسر قلبي)
Amm yeah I know it's cringe to say I am a believer but I am and I never hurt anybody and I never want to even those who abused and neglected me my entire life I don't hate them. I actually respect and I am nice to them I grew up to learn how to keep everything inside and to be strong and yeah. Anyway back to the topic amm. If I had an okay childhood I would accept the dying alone thing. I really would but since my entire life was shit from the day I was born then i am not gonna waste my future.. I would still pray... And all that. And I always talk to God as he is the only person I loved. To the point that when I think I am not able to think without talking to him. Most ppl when they think they talk to them selves but I talk to him and I really do love him. But it gets to a point where... I get my excited catatonia and I would ask it it can be a biiiit easier.. Once 147 times and no response. So I think if the roles were reverse I would do something. So yeah. I still love him and I don't want to but I love him. And yeah I am in the middle east Born and raised.. Amm yeah I think I will try to get a degree and would live outside and yeah I am considering marring a man and yes I will still pray. I don't really want to go to hell or heaven really. I wanted to talk to him when I am dead and that's it. If not then I want to be nothing.. I don't want heaven really.. Anyway amm yeah. That's my experience. I know it's weird and I wish there were more ppl that relate.. But it's fine. Amm here is an advice if ur gay... U can either keep being a Muslim and pray and all and die alone I am not saying it's gonna be a bad life. Being Muslim alone bring some kind of joy.. If you're able to experience joy. Or you can not be a Muslim.. No guarantee u will die alone or not but yeah. But u won't have the joy of being a Muslim.. Or theirs option. U can still be a Muslim and marry a dude. As long as you don't hurt ppl God is all forgiving and understanding.. And no that won't take u out of Islam... Ppl would say that because they just hate gay ppl. And not because Islam says it.... Trust me you will meet so many of them infact most of my friends are. Homophobic as fuk. And lol I still remember this.... Between all the horrible poepl that are destroying the earth. For example someone that beats and abuse. Rape and kill incident children and people who steal from others and leave them to die and so much more... They say between all that. The worst ppl are gays. Literally a dude that loves another dude not harming anybody .. They say gay ppl are the worst on earth. I heard it from so many ppl out of no where and you can sense this kind of deep rooted hate. Trust me those ppl will twist any religion and change things to make it align with their opinion.. I am honestly baffled by how much hate they store inside.. The ppl who abused and destroyed my life I don't hate that much. It's crazy how much hate they have. So yeah don't listen to those ppl and be careful. For your own good. So yeah ammm u can be a better Muslim whne ur gay but it's really difficult.. And u will be rewarded more. So yeah much love❤️
Either that or you are force to marry someone of the opposite sex to try to be happy. Some people still think conversion therapy still works.
Thank you so much for being humble and respectful 😭❤️
It's not really a choice when you are born in a muslim family. Imagine telling your parents leaving Islam because you can't love whom you love.
@@yesthisismew people should be allowed to leave a faith.
I was reading the comments on this video and I was really annoyed that no one pointed out the obvious homophobia. glad that changed.
I know that I will always disagree with you but I have an insane amount of respect for how honest you are, you don’t just hate all gay people for no reason, you simply say the facts of your religion without hating on those who don’t follow it
yeah I’ll take science over religion any day. It honestly baffles me when I see logic like this still in practice. I’ll never understand why things like this need to be followed in order to feel closer to God, or the concept that God made us all perfect- because he didn’t. He made us to be who we are, yes, but it’s more than clear that we are not perfect beings and there are ways to improve our quality of life without denying who we were meant to be. Why must humans be called to obey and hold a place in creation like animals when we were never meant to be them? I don’t believe our existence is above God, but I also don’t believe our interpretations of God’s word is perfect.
Ok so you dont believe God is real? Or any sort of higher power? Ok. Who made the first thing? How did it exist? Who made the first humans and animals?
I love learning about different cultures and beliefs but personally for me, I could never be a Muslim due to this. I think it's worse if you are gay/bi and want to be in a relationship but can't act upon it. And it's not just Islam, Christianity is the same way. I've heard the same argument from both groups. How is acting upon it wrong but thinking about it isn't? It's like cheating. Is cheating only wrong when you act upon it?
I recommend you read this article, it will help answer your questions regarding desires and acting upon them:
www.google.ca/amp/s/yaqeeninstitute.org/amp/jonathan-brown/lgbtq-and-islam-revisited-the-days-of-the-donald
Just be thankful that you are privileged enough to choose your religion and move on, you western freak!
All you westerner dirt-eaters have done was to repress minorities voice in middle east by calling them ( )phobes! The only choice gays in the middle east have is losing their lives, so if you aren't going to listen to their voices because you wanna "respect all cultures" or "respect all religions", then f u cking move on and stop rubbing salt to our wounds. Unbelievable. The audacity!
Acting upon it is wrong because you can usually control your thoughts and desires and you know in your head it's wrong to do that, so you have the choice to perform sin or not. That's why acting is wrong because it's a sin. However, just thinking is not because we have many thoughts a day and can't control them. Just because you think something, for example, it doesn't mean you want to do that. Some people also have intrusive thoughts, etc
Also you cannot control being gay or straight usually, so having those thoughts isn't a sin because you can't control your attraction
And that's the Part where Islam is just homophobic. Saying someone has to change the way they NATURALLY are is wrong. (And that's what you're doing when you tell people to repress their honest thoughts and feelings.) Someone having to marry someone else that they will NEVER love is wrong. Getting children from this person is RAPE.
I dont know why anyone would think that this is ok? And it's not even twisting your words at this point just because you want to justify it with a "rule" from a book written by men that never spoke with God either. It's just ridiculous.
I really tried to understand Islam as I didn't wanna be racist and wanted to embrace everyone but the more I read I just get angrier. It's the same with this rule that a male Muslim can marry a female non-Muslim but a female Muslim can't marry a non-Muslim male. It's so obvious that's written by a man and not God but you still believe it because the same man wrote to never question a thousands years old book. And that's what you telling little kids aswell. That they can't be THEMSELVES because then they will never be with God or with their beloved person again and burn in hell or whatever. Thats just cruel and I really hope your children won't be gay as they'd have to suffer their whole life because of you!
I know I won't survive to this day but I would be very happy when all this religious bullshit finally stops and people can just be themselves. My luck that not every Muslim is that extreme but even I see those kids telling me as young as 10 that they wanna marry a muslim person so they can see them again in paradise and its just shoking and saddening to think about death at this age.
Intolerant behavior is not acceptable if you act without respect to anyone and anything you yourself are the problem. So stop killing people in the name of a god.