I'm Not Thinking About Her! [Boyfriend Roleplay][Calling You my Ex's Name][Argument][Apology] ASMR
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- čas přidán 18. 01. 2024
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[Disclaimer: Argument audio & work of fiction. Not the usual idyllic RP. If you're in a sensitive spot right now, listen with caution. There will be another regular audio soon. ❤️]
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I read the tags and immediately got mad 😂
Me too I clicked so fast so he can apologise fast
hahahahha x2 @@leena6681
ME TOO 🫠😂😂
i took it personally
Same 😂😂😂
I think I’m more insulted at the fact K would think I’d date a “Bob” 😭
LMFAOOOO
😂😂😂
9:09 K:"babe i came to say sorry "
Go tell your Anne 😤😢
LMAOAOAOA
Literally what I would say. I’d be so mad haha.
BHAHAHHA LMFAO
I literally said that in my head
'Accidently calling you ex' s name '
How dare you ? 😢
6:28
“ Sorry Anne”
The woman was too stunned too
speak 👁️👄👁️
FRR 😭😭
"Divorce babe divorce " -- adele
I love that he put the disclaimer in the description. I just wanna tell you most of us in here are not really angry . We are just acting angry just like we smile and blush when you say lovey dovey things in other audios .
Except the people who really experienced this in real life and it hurt them, i am sorry, I hope you recover from this and find a person who love you right .
That's is correct .
Calling us by your ex's name 🤨
It's time for some drama !
DID YOU SAY DRAMA? AESPA? I BRING I BRING ALL THE DRAMA-MA-MA-MA
@@Bl4ck.h0le Drama you said?? WITH MY GIRLS IN THE BACK! GIRLS IN THE BACKKK 🗣️🗣️
@@Bl4ck.h0le With my girls in the back
Girls in the back
Drama😜😜😜😜
🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 I BRING I BRING I BRING ALL THAT DRAMAMAMAMA I BRING DRAMAMAMAMA WITH MY GIRLS IN THE BACK GIRLS IN THE BACK drama 💃💃💃💃💃 @@Bl4ck.h0le
WITH MY GIRLS IN THE BACK GIRLS IN THE BACK DRAMAAA~@@Bl4ck.h0le
3:11
K: "How can you reject this face?!"
Also K: 👓
😭😭😭
LMFAOOOO
HAHAHAHAH LMAOO😆
I thought the same 😭 HAHAHAHAHA
LMAO
THIS SHOULDN'T BE THAT FUNNY 😂😂
7:30 never thought I would see a day were K gaslight us.. Damn
Omgg I thought the same thing 💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ikr the perfect man actually doesn't exist
the amount of excitement i felt after seeing 'argument' in the tags is unhealthy 😮💨
you and me both
Same ngl it’s 11:30pm I need to sleep it’s gonna be a long day tmr
I live for drama
Anybody else instinctually turn their head to dodge his kisses bc go kiss Anne tf🤣
LMAOOO K really did choose violence today huh? He broke us all 😆
Like nuh uh sir, not now, not after you just called me 'Anne' 😒😩😆
FRRRR
ur so real for this queen
If you're Ann/Anne/Anna or a similar name, congratulations K just said your name in an audio👑
My name is composed but there’s a anne in it
Apart from wherever we like or don’t this audio. Can we appreciate the fact that K is a really good VA, bc only by his voice make us believe that this scenario is soo real. Im so proud of K improvement along the years
Yes he is so good and i’m proud too about how far he has come🥹❤️
We came from him accidentally calling us his wife to him calling us by his ex's name💔
😭 💔
what can I tell you , it's a man at the end of day
omg wait ur so right
Omg which audio was the wife thing on?
@@AveryVeryyy it's from a few months ago and it's called "Wait.. I called you my wife?" such a good audio haha ☺
i love how everyone is excited to get enraged. we are just here for the emotional rollercoaster
i don’t know why but i’m a sucker for the ‘arguments’ audios, i think i just like the drama 😂
6:50
Us : Who’s Anne?
K: it might seem crazy what i’m about to say 🎶
*insert dramatic music
😭🔪
@@nazwakayde 🤣🤣
Actually i don’t know why when i’m replying to what he is saying in his audios what pops up in my head are songs and memes lol😆❤️
@@alicebizzarri02ahahahahah sometimes there are so many opportunities for meme/songs refrences with K's audios its hard not to think of one so I dont blame you 🤣❤
AAHAHAHA
So, we had a bad day, we came home to him calling us by his ex's name and then calling us crazy 5 seconds later???? Nuh uh babe you bet i'm leaving and waiting for you to beg for an apology
THANK YOU! I usually LOVE his audios but this one was a big no for me.
I just realized i now say “sorry” like he does 😭. I think I listen to his audios too much..
I am SUPER interested in the psychology of conflict mediation and have many thoughts about this audio so get ready for an essay 😅
First off, I am not writing this to invalidate any person’s experience. Triggers are very real. Even a sound or smell can trigger a PTSD flashback and I know this from personal experience. Does that mean people are not allowed to point out that you are overreacting when triggered? No.
Some people here are overstating the harm of someone who accidentally mixed up a name. Human beings are allowed to think about their exes sometimes. Our brains are a collection of memories. Perhaps someone saw something that reminded them of their ex. Perhaps they saw their name somewhere or they appeared on their social media. This is not cheating. It doesn’t mean we are fantasising about getting back with our ex.
I also think the double standards is interesting. In a previous audio where the listener says her ex’s name while sleeping on multiple nights: K’s character ignores the first few times and then brings it up after it continues. There is no exploding and insults from him and we have a relatively calm conversation until it is resolved. So why is the boyfriend being held to a higher standard than the girlfriend?
The clinical definition of gaslighting is: “psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability, and a dependency on the perpetrator”.
That is NOT what is happening in this scenario. This is not a repeated pattern of behaviour nor is the intent malicious.
The listener has never been called a gaslighter even though in multiple audios she pretends that her ex is not calling her or texting her or talking to her, even though he is. This is also not gaslighting: just being dishonest to avoid conflict (she tells the truth in the end). But I wonder why the word gaslighting has never been brought up in those audios when the girlfriend is being dishonest and yet it has been used multiple times in this thread.
Yes, calling someone who is upset ‘crazy’ or ‘silly’ is not nice and can lead to further upset so not the best move by K’s character but he didn’t deny that he said ‘Anne’. I empathise in this situation because if someone exploded at me for saying another name by accident and was accusing me of thinking of someone else and then storming out of the room, I would probably panic in response and say the wrong thing or make a terrible joke while attempting to diffuse the situation. That is not gaslighting but just poorly handling someone else’s emotional outburst in a moment of surprise.
If someone says something without the intent to harm and that triggers an emotional wound within someone, that doesn’t automatically put one person into the role of victim and the other of perpetrator.
To clarify, I am not blaming the listener for getting upset in this scenario either as we can’t choose when we get triggered but we must have a process of identifying within ourselves when this happens and choose to not lash out at other people. I don’t agree with the listener’s character calling K’s character ‘stupid’ and an ‘idiot’ at the end as that’s mean and is meant to intentionally hurt him. People can be mean when they are angry and I’ll assume the listener apologised for the insults later.
I like argument ASMR audios as much as the next person because I appreciate how kind and gentle K’s character tries to be but let’s acknowledge the listening character’s behaviour isn’t always perfect just because they are the listener. Neither is perfect in this scenario and both characters deserve empathy.
So in summary:
- Somebody being triggered doesn’t automatically mean an act of violence has taken place by the other party.
- The term gaslighting (a form of abuse) is used too frivolously on the internet.
- Feeling discomfort doesn’t always mean that harm was caused.
- Conflict between two people is uncomfortable but doesn’t automatically mean abuse.
I hope the people who are still angry with K’s character (even after all the apologies) read my comment, do further research and talk with their therapists incase this happens with a partner in real life one day. This is not meant to be patronising by the way- I’m in regular therapy myself!
All the best with everyone’s healing journeys and I hope you found this comment interesting 🙏🏾
"Sorry-"
*Closes my eyes*
"Sorry Anne"
*Eyes opening aggressively*
“Accidentally calling you my ex’s name” Id cry omg
8:05 “you can call me your ex’s name I don’t mind”
Remember the audio (your said you ex’s name) You sounded different there :)
Yes hahahahah i thought about this too 😆❤️
Lmaooo I guess its fair between us and him now 😭😆❤
Fr don’t contradict yourself babes 😂
@@nazwakayde maybe 😂❤️
@@alicebizzarri02 😁❤️
9:48 - 13:31
I’m literally in love with your apology skills, the way you can reflect about yourself and how you know you messed it up IS INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL! 😭❤️
I actually would break up over this 💀
He said the name as things started to chill 😫😫
12:20 "period" 💅
I just realised there's a broken heart next to the title 🥺💔
I love the small details K always adds from time to time! ❤
I noticed too i didn’t noticed it at first
🥹🥺💔
And yes i love his attention to the details too❤️
Isn't he just awesome?
@@alicebizzarri02 perfectly pictures our hearts during the audio 😆❤
And yesss, he always puts so much effort in 🥹🫶
@@introvertgirl0410 100%! ❤
3:13 “how can you reject this face”
Oh honey if I’m mad, I don’t care about that 🥰
Thank you to K for giving out a disclaimer in the description, we appreciate you a bunch ❤
My heart goes out to those who feels this audio has hit too close to home and those who are still healing from a past relationship ❤
Called us his ex's name and then said we're crazy OH WERE THROWING HANDS
I love it, your videos are always so refreshing and well done, thank you for always giving your best
the heart at the end of the title is broken 😭
11:57 “holy crap I’m about to lose the best thing in my life because of one word that slipped up”
I’m crying 😭
Ye so be careful what you say mister! 😤
When he said that i got sad too i was like nooo k don’t say that😭❤️
@@alicebizzarri02 A tear came out 🥹❤️
@@vanillabean5294 totally agree with you! 😌
This audio stirred up so many emotions within me...my love for argument audios is concerning 😭 but K handled it cutely i could sense the nervous tone which made this feel genuine ♥️✨
Bruh idk of I'm overreacting but if my partner called me his ex's name that's the biggest red flag ever
noo, ure not overreacting!! that is completely valid huhu
6:00
Not him saying “ your butt it’s squishy” and then smaking it like he’s so silly lmaooo😆❤️
6:21 the ex name part 😬😤
9:10 apology 😭
0:52
Ok but now i’m genuinely curious to know which book is he reading🤣❤️👀
3:11 lmfao the shock from him 😂
So now all of us have beef with anne who prolly dosent even exist🙂
NAH SEE MY TRUST ISSUES COULD NEVER LITERALLY LEAVING
I forgive you
... Eric
I thought he said "Sorry and" like it took me a minute 😭 I was waiting for him to finish that sentence too lol
Don’t worry you’re not alone on that I was also confused 😂
I was in midst of tears when he said my own name😭✋
Not gonna lie I'm still mad after listening this audio😂
me
I'm a very forgiving person... However, I already have serious trust issues with people so I'm not quite sure what I'd do in a situation like this... I'm more mad that he called her crazy... I would have needed to leave to completely cool down from that. 😤😅
Reading through the comments seeing how pressed we all are lmfao glad I’m not the only one
13:06
it was actually so sad my heart is broken 🫠💔😅
"I came to say sorry"
Kay babes, go tell your ex 👀🤠
why is nobody talking about the little broken heart in the title? 😭
Mister K, come here to read the comments and see what emotions and reactions you have awakened in us with this audio!😤💔💝
imagine if there’s a listener called anne!!!😭😭😭😭
I was thinking the same😂
That’s my nickname so… 🤷♀️
I usually don't write comments, but this video got me badly. Is it just me, or is the listener (us) toxic in this audio? The man was reading. It is a totally valid point to ignore everyone. I will ignore anyone who dares to interrupt my reading. Especially if the book is interesting.
Also, all this fuss about ex's name... can anybody explain why that is such a problem? (it's a joke, I don't need any explanations😅). Just personally, I mix up names pretty much every time I speak, so I don't care about that.
Despite all of that, this audio is amazing. As always. Thank you so much for your hard work❤
Yes the listener is being quite unreasonable and I’m disappointed in all the people in the comments not understanding this. I’m about to drop an essay in the comments later 😅
I love this. Now, I’ll meet you in Patreon, and you can show me exactly how sorry you are. 😏💜
Yessir
i don't think his audios will ever fail to surprise me in the best ways possible
7:52
“ Anne it’s kind of my ex”
😄🔪
I saw the description change and K, our reactions were like this because we're just jealous and protective of our man and we won't let no ANN take him from us😂❤ but seriously, we know your audios are a work of fiction and you don't mean anything bad. Yes, your audios make us feel all the emotions but even for us with some bad past experiences your audios are always a safe space because we know in reality you're amazing K. We love you❤
This better be Anne with an e cause otherwise... You're ded🙄
If your name is anne, HOW COULD U FUMBLE THE BAG LIKE THAT?????
I love how it's the first time I've seen K in like a childish (somewhat) role tho personally I wont be able to let this slide LMAO it'll be an ENDLESS argument cause bro who's Anne!!
Oh wow, my insecurities could never handle this without breaking down😆
Right? 😂
Nahh you still didn’t give a good reason for you saying ANNE😒😂
That's what I'm sayinnnnnnnn
I think it’s so sweet of you that you see the reactions of us and decide to write a disclaimer
That shows that you really cares about us and the people who feels triggered ❤️
Yesss! I appreciate K for adding the disclaimer, my heart goes out to those who felt this audio on a deeper level, I hope they are healing ❤
@@nazwakayde Me too! ❤️
Yes k it’s always so caring and considerate of our feelings it warmed my heart to see that he put that disclaimer🥹❤️
@@alicebizzarri02 ❤️❤️❤️
@@nazwakayde sending them all the love and i hope that they are healing too🙏🏻❤️
thanks for the new audio k!!
Nah, him saying I’m being silly like I’d leave right after that, we’re not talking for 5-10 business days and you gotta do a LOT more to earn my forgiveness 😒
“Part Viking” 😂 I know he’s part Swedish but I never made the connection to Vikings! That’s really cool~
Hahahaha yeees when he said i got excited 🤣❤️
bro was trying to gaslight us 😡 i don’t like this audio 😒
Ikr it made me so pissed like it's not the K that we know
So like if anyone needs to know when it happens cause your sensitive like mee its at 6:30 ♡
why am i actually mad 😂
whewww the way i would’ve been heatedddd😭
This would trigger my trust issues
Y'all we had a fight with our man i can't believe it 😭
This audio lowkey broke my heartttt but the writing, the drama, the emotions 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
K NEVER FAILS TO IMPRESS, TRULY🙏🏻❤
as someone whose first language isn't english, istg I didn't even realize when K said that name and I got confused for a quick second 😅 anyways, I loved the video as always! 💕
English is my first language. Actually it’s my only language lol and I still didn’t realize he said Ann until he repeated it after 😭
@@vanillabean5294 i thought he said and, and I was waiting for him to complete the sentence lmao 😭
@@carrot4574 same 😭 I was like 🧍🏻♀️ "and what?" but then I realized he was saying Ann/Anne and I felt stupid, but I'm glad I wasn't the only one
God if you love me, i just want this type of husband
I live for k’s apologies, they sound so genuine , sweet and full of love they always warm my heart
I have seen this idea in many other boyfriend asmr creators and never gotten this made mad it's bc i actually have a crush on K
I need to touch some grass lol
@AbcDef-yj9gj you and me both
9:09 hehe your Canadians slipping
When he was apologizing that i was like why are you apologizing it's literally your subconscious it's thinking about her u can't help it
Finally someone who gets it! I'm not mad about his Freudian slip, but I am mad he called us crazy
I love waiting for the notif of a new audio from K, every fourth day i think “ yay today k it’s going to post a new audio!” and it brightens up my day instantly
yessss Alice!! 😆 Its always such a mood booster knowing that we will have a new audio coming
@@nazwakayde yeees exactly, it makes our day even better!
if k was a little bit crazier this could’ve been a nate and cassie moment 🤣
This man can manipulate me so well with his sweet words, apologies and communication skills any say, it shouldn't be that way but IT'S K, I LOVE HIM OKAY
2:53
“ i can definitly hold you and read at the same time”
We love our multitasking king😌✨
CAN YOU DO NEXT LIKE " MAKING YOUR GF JEALOUS" BUT IN THE END YOU APOLOGIZE AND MAKE OUT I'M DELULU I'M SO SORRY 😭😭😭🙏🏻💀
3:43 K embracing his Swedish origin🇸🇪💛
Yeees Eva i thought this too!🥹❤️ i really liked that he included this in this audio
Yessss omg! 😆 we gotta love our Viking boyfriend 😌👏🏻
It just made it more real! 😩😍
7:10 "No- Anne is just somebody I know!"
Time to hunt for Anne! 😤
Im joking yall, but really this audio was executed so well, K you're amazing as always! 😩❤
My second name being "An" 👁️👄👁️
(How am I supposed to be mad? 😂)
I never thought I'd hear him say my name in an audio tho. Anyway, good job as always K!
When i saw the tags i instantly thought about the audio k did some time ago where we said our ex’s name in our sleep , this is like payback for last time lol😆❤️
FORGET? NAWHHHH🤺🤺
lol this is kinda random but you should make like a cute snowday/snowball fight audio
Edit: PLSSS it would be the CUTEST thing ever 🥺🤭
Someone named Anne is going to have mixed emotions with this one...
The description🥺❤️ thank you k for being always so considerate of bumbles feelings, we love you and you are the sweetest💕
Thanks for the lovely change in the description K, and for always being so caring towards us and our feelings❤ as someone with an unpleasant past experience, your audios are always a safe space and a place of comfort because they're full of love. We love you and i can't wait for the new, softer audios❤❤
Wow.. this was intense 😮 First time to feel mad putting myself in the gf's shoes (not mad in a negative way!) He made my heart lean at the end again. I'm such a big softie 😂❤
4:46 i thought you loved girl's hair:( what's with this reactionnn
6:56 "relaxxxx it's nothing to worry about"
K, you say this after calling me by your ex's name?! 😔💔
K broke us all this one audio, our man woke up and decided to choose violence 🤣😭👏🏻
Soariee
“Part Viking” 😂 referencing his Swedish heritage (3:45)