DATING with MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES!? Switch Caught On Camera Dissociative Identity Disorder REUPLOAD
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Sally is so comforting and soothing. We'd love more content from her if she feels inclined 🥰😘 you're all beautiful 🌺❤️
Absolutely second this, our system discovered our caretaker after listening to Sally ♥
I will 100% jump on this train as well!💕😂
Yes!
100% agree. Sally, read us a story please 🙇
We will always be mesmerized with Sally’s ability to explain such intricate topics with ease and grace
and empathy
My teacher friend always use to say “what is the core message here?”. In this video, I would say “Be respectful”. That’s a very good message.
I wish I had a friend like Sally. She seems like such a calm and safe presence.
sally is so wonderful to listen to, she has such a calming energy to her
I've been married to my spouse system for a year now and I could not imagine my life without them ❤. The wonderful thing about having such a deep bond with a group of people is that it can manifest in multiple ways. I have a lovely wife, husband, platonic partner, and girlfriend- they are my everything.
That's great
If you don't mind me asking how
Is everything going?
I hope everything is going well
man i started watching this video before bed and couldn’t even get 3 minutes in the video before sally’s calming voice and demeanor lulled me to sleep
Awww I love that
@@DissociaDID Thank you so much for this video!! I’ve missed Sally and Everyone in the system!! I’m glad your okay! I’m so upset about everything that is happening to you!! I just wanted to let you know I Love everyone of you in the system!! Thank you for the reminder about respect and self love I’ve had a rough couple months and the calming presence that Sally delivers made me so happy and just calmed my crazy thoughts! So thank you all!! ♥️♥️
Sally!!! One of our Alters named Eden absolute loves her. She squealed a little bit seeing this video back up 🤣 so happy your content is getting put back up!
Awww, one of my alters is named Eden! I get giddy when I see that happen XD Have a great day!!!
It's so easy to recognize Sally's voice right at the "hello everybody ". I love you so much, Sally. Your calming and gentle voice is emotional cozy and cuddly. Hugs from Brasil
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This is the first time I actually have delved into DID. And the more I get to learn about it, the more I see how strong all of you are. I struggle with my college roommates, I can't even fathom the idea of having to share everyday 24/7 each day of the year. You are awesome. Thank you for letting me understand all of you somehow via videos. Thanks to you I am sure I will be able to help or be there for someone who I love that is going through something similar. Thank you!
That part were she was talking about respecting boundaries even with work colleagues, couldn't help but think about he-who-must-not-be-named. If only he watched this video and took this advice on board!! Boundaries!
LIVING for the outfit they picked
SAME
I would add that if you're witnessing your partner dealing with rough situations like flashbacks or any kind of self harm, that it's really important for you to get some professional support for yourself as well, to help you maintain healthy boundaries and take care of yourself too. Witnessing someone's trauma can actually potentially cause secondary trauma so it's really important that you know yourself and your own triggers as well and that you have support for yourself too. Being intimately involved with someone dealing with such serious challenges means you really have to take care of yourself to be able to be there for them and to make sure your relationship is mutual and healthy and that you're not getting hurt or burnt out by the intensity that can come with that.
yes
I am feeling hurt and burnt out honestly. I want to understand but I don’t know how.
@@tayacushenberry take care of yourself. You matter and your feelings matter. You're allowed to not understand or to be hurt. You come first or you can't help your partner or build your relationship. Take care.
I love it how Nin fronted and just immediately knows what to do :)
Sally would be such a good ASMR creator. So calm and gentle. Thank you all for the great vids. I feel like I've learned so much.
What if one alter very much dislikes the significant other?
What if 1 alter wants to date another specific person that isn't the hosts significant other? (Assuming everyone/the significant other isn't comfortable with a "poly relationship")
What happens when one alter dislikes or is angry with another alter?? How is conflict handled between alters?
Would your system want your significant other to sit down with your therapist one day to learn? (About your system, the disorder, how to engage properly etc)
What if the alter that is in the relationship hasn't fronted in a while (I guess multiple days or so) and the significant other wants to see them again? Are they able to ask the alters that have been fronting lately where a specific alter is/how they're doing/if they can come front?
Hello to Nin at the end! Thanks for popping in😆💗
Every system is different, but I have experience with larger systems and what I can say is respect for each individual's boundaries should go above everything else. With that in mind, I also think poly is more or less mandatory to respect the rights of individuals in a system where different alters want different people. In my experience, if I'm missing an alter, like I haven't seen them in a minute and I want to, I may ask whoever is fronting if they've seen/heard from x, but I never go beyond that. As far as inner system conflict goes, you can certainly talk to an alter as if you were a friend giving advice, but you shouldn't tell them what to do. Anything beyond that should be dealt with a therapist
"Would your system want your significant other to sit down with your therapist one day to learn? (About your system, the disorder, how to engage properly etc)" Just a note that most of this wouldn't be possible, as client confidentiality is paramount to therapists and they wouldn't share anything about your significant other with you. The only thing you could perhaps do is get an overview of DID in general, or book a session with the same therapist to discuss your own experience and feelings. :)
Ah, that's what it is. I've been thinking for a really long time about why Sally acts so strangely familiar to me, and now yes! Disney princess, totally! Sweet, gentle, understanding, also the gestures and the facial expressions reminded me of a princess.
She feels so warm and comforting, like you're sitting by the fireplace and don't worry about anything, because this moment is protecting you with all it's warmth and calmness.
I wish I would’ve seen this when I was dating a system 😭 Things would’ve been soooo much easier for me and them as well and maybe we would’ve stayed together longer. However we’re close friends now and your videos helped me so much to understand their situation and what they might be going through! You answered questions I could never put in words and I’m grateful for that.
Nin I love that you could tell Sally was done just from the time stamp.... That truly shows not only just how close of an amazing system you have but how much work you put into this!!! As always sending lots of love and good vibes.
I tried dating a system before. I learned all about DID from this channel and it really impressed the system. Unfortunately long distance was too much for the system but this channel helped me so much in understanding DID and the system I was dating at the time. The system agreed to only date one person at a time so I knew I was dating the system. The system I was dating didn’t want to be overwhelmed by dating many at once.
This video is so important for everyone to see. Because even if you never meet someone with DID, some of these topics also apply to people with other mental health problems, and how to communicate best with them.
It has been interesting reaching these as they are posted. I have so many feelings coming up I didn't realize I had. I am so glad you are able to get videos back, and I am so happy to see the channel filling back up with such informative content.
Everyone needs a Sally in their life ❤️ she’s such a sweetheart
Thank you for making this topic. My ex has DID, I remember his alter came as one of a different personality. He was super sweet and very protective to his host. I know he has 2 others, but I never met them. Just him as a host and one of his alters. We are still friends and we work better as best friends. But it was nice to meet you sally you seem so humble, you all are beautiful
Ah- I missed Sally's voice :)
It is so nice hearing Sally's voice!
Sally's voice and tone is so calming and gentle. Would love to see more videos from her. 🌸
I'd wish that there were this kind of content in my native language. I'm singular, and my best friend has a dissociative disorder, it's not DID, I believe, but it led me here.
Though DID is something that exist worldwide, I don't think we're being educated on the matter in my country. Let alone talking about dating and DID, I'm grateful for the opportunity to understand this content to the best of my ability.
Where u from?
@@chweuri I'm from Brazil
@@victorrsouz seu inglês é muito bom 👏👏👏
@@laguria4536 obrigado haha
eu tbm nunca tinha ouvido falar sobre ;(
I havent been to this channel for a long time, im glad we are back up and running ! ❤ I dont have DID, but this channel has changed my view of life completely, im so glad I found this channel in my 20s
This has helped me understand so much of why my relationships keep breaking down. Thank you so much. My caretaker really responds this this part.
i like how most of the advice is to basically talk to one-another. communication is great, and very much needed, trait in a relationship with anyone. communication also involves listening. because if one person isn’t listening, and only speaking, it’s not communication, it’s a lecture, it’s a (school) lesson. communication is speaking and listening from all parties. this channel is very informative and i love to learn about people’s minds and the ways they think and develop. the human brain is truly amazing
I'm glad I found this video. My boyfriend, my girlfriend, and I are hosts to our own systems and so interactions can definitely be... interesting but also funny in it's own way cause- you definitely have to bring some humour to confusing situations too.
I have a terrible headache rn, but I swear your voice is soothing it. Thank you for that. Hope all is well. Glad you’re back.
It's so comforting to see all your content back! Much love to all of you!
This was a wonderful video that really helped clarify a good deal of topics! Sally's super professional and eloquent about it, and Nin's reaction was both adorable and SO relatable - goodness knows, I'd be just as - likely more - flabbergasted from waking up and suddenly being on camera!
I missed this video the first time it came out so I'm really glad you were able to re-upload it! This was unbelievably informative so thank you ❤
You make it look so effortless explaining all these complicated concepts flowlesly, it's just amazing.
Sally, thank you so much for your kind advice. This is so useful for everyone, in any kind of relationship! Thank you, beautiful soul! And say hi to the whole system! We love you guys!
I'm new here. I'm glad to have found your channel and I have subscribed because I am on a mental health journey and I never stop looking for more knowledge.
To see you dissociate and then switch was triggering, I cried. But they are tears of healing. I appreciate your bravery so much I'm just in awe of how much courage it would have to take to be able to watch that yourself and still upload it.
I hope your system is doing well and thanks again for all of your hard work to bring us this first hand experience of DiD. Much love ❤
I love your vids. Keep doing what you do!!!
Sally has such an amazing spirit. Hope you all have an amazing day today thank you again for what you all do.
I'm looking into D.I.D and I'm glad I found you. Thank you so much much all of you!
I'm so happy you are back on youtube!
Oh I'm so glad this one is back!! It was incredibly helpful to me the first time, and a good reminder for now ❤️ and a great thing to share with other partners
“Don’t treat a little as an adult”
That literally made me shiver, it made me think of so many things a partner of someone in the system could do to a kid 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
This video has been so helpful to me in learning how to build a deeper relationship with my system-friend (don't know how else to put it). Thank you Sally for making it! 💜💜💜
I honestly just love watching your system. You guys are so informative. Sally has such a soothing voice
Thank you, I've been looking for some support and your channel came up. Very informative and much needed clarification!
This video has already helped me lots with my lovely girlfriends (a system) were polyamorous and I'm dating two alters of the system.
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I love your work and am so glad you're back!
Good to see you got this video back! Also great to see Sally!
I enjoy these vids so much and they are so informative!!
Thank you so much for this video
Yesss this is my favourite video of Sally, I'm so happy! 😭💕
The legends are back !!!!!
thanks for this video, my partner has did and i wanted to get more educated so ik how everything works. i watch you guys 24/7 just so ik how things could/do work for people with did and so ik what i need to do and how did sometimes works for my partner, as well as asking them about it ofc
Really appreciate your channel. Best of luck to you and yours going forward into the future ☺️😁 🖤🙏🌌
interacting ♥ love you guys!
Best video outro
Thank you Thank you for this video! Thank you for your caring and courage you exude in all of your videos🙂
I commend you all for sharing your research, personal experience, and passion, educating people about this disorder.
Much love and care💜❤💜
Thank You!!
This is a very important video considering relationships, This is my first time seeing Sally. Thanks for sharing. HAve a great day .
Thank you so much, this really helped me understand and how to approach this new situation that seemed very intimidating and scary.
Sally just makes me feel so soothed. Ive felt so incapable of being loved lately so Im grateful to watch this video again. I loved it then. I needed it now. Im really wishing you, Kya and co. So much love so much happiness so many good vibes
The fact that We Can se its sally in the thumbnail is very telling. Welcome back, we have missed all of you🥰
I really appreciate your content, and this video- I want to be as helpful and loving to my partner if they have a system. I didn't even think about the danger in sharing a alter's time or experience with me with a different alter that may come co-conscious or suddenly come to the front! I don't have a system, but I want to be a safe person for anyone. Thank you for your hard work DissociaDID! Please tell Sally her presentation skills are incredible and you are all very loved!
Okay first of all Sally your makeup skills are IMPECCABLE ⭐️ you look AMAZING!!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Also absolutely love that shirt
absolutely stunning!! love your videos 🤍
I couldn't imagine an Alter who would more fitted for this topic than Sally!
Thank you for how you handle this Sally and Nin. Both of you are correct in your presentations with your information, both of you are very well spoken.
I could have used this education in the late 1970’s with my wife. We were married 43 years when she passed away.
I feel like as a chef if I was dating her I would have to say hey what do y'all want for dinner and get too many different answers and I would have to have them take a vote amongst themselves
Hey Sally! Great to see you again.
I love Sally's voice. Yes boundaries are important, certain people need to understand that.
Really helpful and deep video. Really appreciate your content!
My mother has at least 4 alters that she knows of and she just descovered this about 7 years ago and it started with just one alter brenda and i believe after watching your channel for almost 12 hours now i believe she is a prosecutor over the past few years others alters have come forth ironically she has a sally and she is just like sally she comforts her and us then she has a little and one other she has yet to share their name with us i sent her a link to your channel i believe this is going to help her i know it has educated me and helped me understand her and her system better
I wish we had watched this video before dating our ex who was also a system. We would have set better boundaries and maybe have been able to work through things better than we did. Thank you for this video!
This was very informative thank you
Really missed her voice. It's so sweet and calm :33333333
It always amazes me how adaptable everyone has to be in the system as you essentially 'wake up' in a different situation, place or circumstance and just have to roll with it. Loved the video guys!
Sally has such a soothing voice 😌😌I love her
This was such an amazing video, thank you Sally!! Also absolutely love the clothes, does anyone have any idea where you could find similar items?
Every gesture and expression from Sally is so cute and sweet! Everyone is the system has something to make them unique and wondrous. Who could ever choose a favorite?!
I'm in love with this hair!
sally should start doing guided meditations her voice is so beautiful
Omg that make up really makes your eyes pop! 😍
Really pretty ^^
Thanks as alwatys. We needed it. Facing a relationship now as a system aware of itself at least. Smile.
Thank you for the information we are finding it so hard is to even start dating again after truama past rships. Thank you so much🌹
Odd this Got suggested today of all days 💓💝 happy Australian Valentine's Day dissociaDID system 🖤🐺 TLWF
You know you're a true DissociaDID fan if you don't need the person fronting to introduce themselves at the beginning of every video. Sally has such a soothing presence you could never mistake her for anybody else
Beautiful person/people, inside and outside. 🥺
Thanks Sally, that was so interesting and informative. I have a question: what might happen if one Alter wants to date a person, but another Alter doesn't like that person?
Omg I love the make up and outfit absolutely amazing!
Immediately when I heard that soothing voice I knew it was Sally. She is so calming to listen to
I love the videos
I do have questions for you all, I'd love to learn more, my curiosity just booms when I watch your videos, im SO happy you all are posting again it really is so wonderful to have you all back🥺💜🫂
when Nin switched in and instantly went into youtuber mode i laughed out loud LMAO
What happens if you’re dating one alter and they integrate with another alter during the relationship, are you basically going back to asking a new person out, or could the relationship possibly still be going on, but different?
I love how she switched and goes "okay bye bye"
I was just watching a video recorded by Kyle ("Alter Dynamics" very interesting) and the change in vocal tone/accent between Kyle and Sally (and all the other alters) is incredible
Could one alter have a mental disability such as ADHD or dyslexia while other alters don't?
Yes, because they are diffent people, so an alter could go through trauma and develop PTSD, or depression for example
@@yuioptao well, but mental illness and neuro-divergency are a little different. I'm not informed in the field, but i thought adhd for example is not something you develop but rather something you've always had
Yes
since ADHD is something you are born with, I don't think an alter can "develop" that disorder, same with dyslexia I believe. But things that can develop during life I think those can work
The body has ADHD, it's neurological. Dyslexia, maybe
Her voice is so calming and sweet. Very soothing
- Very warm and true video - well done -
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰love this video !!!
You should watch Kill Me Heal Me, I think they got a lot of things about DID right. That kdrama that made me interested in this topic. Loved the video ❤