Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. on Self Mastery with Lewis Howes

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    *The difference between saying “I want to” versus “I have to”
    *Why we judge ourselves so harshly
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    *How to control someone else
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Komentáře • 179

  • @majesstic777
    @majesstic777 Před 5 lety +56

    Wow..."not to be the best..but to enjoy the opportunity" what an aha moment for me. Ive really been struggling to get out of my egoic state. Thats a great statement

    • @hamig306
      @hamig306 Před 3 lety +1

      its a daily struggle to stay out of ego. your ego inflates and deflates depending on the happenings around you, what you do and where you go. you must remind yourself. for me it got to a point where i was talking about wrestling my ego with like everyone close to me. which is unnecessary, most people don't understand and they have egos just as big as mine they just dont know they do. strive for balance 50% ego 50% soul ☯️

    • @kasia4919
      @kasia4919 Před rokem

      Yes, very great statement💗🙏

  • @fayewest2772
    @fayewest2772 Před 2 lety +16

    I really love that Miguel found his own voice while embracing his father's understandings of what the Four Agreements meant to him. Back in the late 90's I kept the four agreements on my desk under my glass top and that was one of the first things I saw each day. Source spoke to me today and said to revisit them and then I found Miguel Jr. What an amazing treat!!!!! Thank you:)

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Před 2 lety +2

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to leave me a review here:
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  • @DavidAmse
    @DavidAmse Před 8 lety +24

    His father is such a legend !!

  • @Dinamicalisimo
    @Dinamicalisimo Před 3 lety +6

    Inspirational quotes of self mastery, no doubt...like father like son.

  • @lefaikao2266
    @lefaikao2266 Před 8 lety +73

    Starting on 17:00 onward, about loving yourself unconditionally.... 18:50 -- absolutely mind-blowing.. something I'm sure all of us struggle with. Thanks for the message Miguel and Lewis!!!!

    • @izz5946
      @izz5946 Před 8 lety +1

      exactly this was the better part that i got from the interview

    • @aubreythomas4477
      @aubreythomas4477 Před 2 lety

      Thank you for the time stamps!

    • @GJ-dj4jx
      @GJ-dj4jx Před 2 lety

      Wow that was so deep. I had never heard that before lmoa

  • @fabbioareche4299
    @fabbioareche4299 Před 5 lety +8

    So great to hear Miguel taking his father's concepts and making it his own. I love the idea of my no being as powerful as my yes. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @danieltheteacher
    @danieltheteacher Před 5 lety +8

    "Enjoy the opportunities."
    I love it.

  • @SR-mv2mf
    @SR-mv2mf Před 7 lety +7

    Enjoying all the interviews here on your channel. I think you are doing a great job of letting the guests speak and not interrupting and plugging your own stories. It's a great talent you have.

  • @ZoeyArielle
    @ZoeyArielle Před 8 lety +40

    I absolutely loved this! I am a huge fan of his father so it was amazing to be introduced to him. Thank you Lewis!

  • @yogawithkassandra
    @yogawithkassandra Před 8 lety +24

    Love what he had to say about duality, especially at a time like this. Great interview!

  • @gwendolynhudson9069
    @gwendolynhudson9069 Před rokem

    The only thing stopping you is your belief !! Profound

  • @Nomza1011
    @Nomza1011 Před 6 lety +5

    This was one of the best interviews you've done. Everything made perfect sense. It was both clear & concise about conditions and consequences. Well done.

  • @Hiprich
    @Hiprich Před 4 lety +8

    I normally don’t watch interviews but I was gripped when I came across this one. Insightful! Thank you

  • @lichan02
    @lichan02 Před 7 lety +31

    I recently read the fifth agreement and love how well this book flows. The interview was fantastic! I love the perspective on being yourself and removing the mask. Life is just a heck a lot easier this way and much more joyful!

  • @jitidias3592
    @jitidias3592 Před 6 lety +6

    Amazing to hear the story of their family. I'm a huge fan of his father's books (especially the Four Agreements is in my top 10 books) and it's a great new information for me that his son wrote a book as well. Haha and it's funny how he sometimes sneaks in some Mexican expressions when he talks, such as "órale!". I mean I was never in the US or Mexico but learned Spanish as a teenager just for fun and met some Mexicans here in Europe and they use it all the time. Really nice interview, Lewis, it left me with a happy smile on my face.

  • @FoodShowFan
    @FoodShowFan Před rokem +3

    What a brilliant man. Loved hearing his backstory, and love his book. Such a gift to society today, and for ages to come . Thank you for honoring him Lewis ❤

  • @johngarin8290
    @johngarin8290 Před 3 lety +2

    I cant believe I just found this guy's dad, not sure if it might have saved me at least 30yrs of my 60yr journey, we jump at Carlos Castenada & the mezcal trips, dangerous places, life is the teacher, but pupil must control ego & note lesson, 😊✌️🇦🇺

  • @VenusLover17
    @VenusLover17 Před rokem +2

    This is fantastic! Thanks Lewis and Don Miguel!!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Před rokem

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to follow my page and leave me a review here:
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  • @magetaaaaaa
    @magetaaaaaa Před 7 lety +10

    Wow, when he talks about the four agreements vs. the four conditions, that was really helpful.

  • @nely426
    @nely426 Před rokem +1

    I Iove his authenticity. Gracias por tus consejos y gracias a tu familia por ser lo mejor en su tiempo.
    -una fan de Yuma AZ
    Side note: i cant believe he is the son of the author of the agreements book that has been highly recomended and sitting on my bookshelf waitingnfor me.

  • @angelica3368
    @angelica3368 Před 6 lety +14

    that was such a deep interview, I am saving it so that I can go back and listen to it over and over again. His dad is awesome and the 4 agreements is such an inspirational book, Miguel, Jr. is following in his dad's footsteps, although he credits his grandmother. I feel that there is much more to learn from Miguel, Jr. Looking forward to hearing more of his lectures. Thank you Lewis!

  • @enseete
    @enseete Před 8 lety +8

    I found myself smiling ear to ear at the end of this interview. :) It was soo good. You have an amazing gift of creating loving space around your guests that brings out the best in them. Thank you for doing what you do, Lewis, it really is changing the world for the better.

  • @ShenellEvans
    @ShenellEvans Před 3 lety +4

    I love this! The emphasis on self doubt is 🔥🔥🔥

  • @theholisticrn1133
    @theholisticrn1133 Před 3 lety +4

    Wow. I truly appreciate the wisdom and passion of Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. His outlook is so inspiring for my self growth, as his words have brought so much peace to my soul already! And now my real work continues!

  • @olgachirkova3256
    @olgachirkova3256 Před 7 lety +10

    I love the Ruiz Family and Lewis Howes is my master, who helped me a thousand times without knowing.
    Lewis, thank you, the work you do is priceless. You are changing our lives into the better and we are helping other by being better "selves".
    Love,
    O.

  • @pocahontas330
    @pocahontas330 Před rokem +2

    Still busy with Miguel's books .. currently on 'The voice of Knowledge ' Really appreciate him and this channel for sharing his wisdom 🙏💖✨💪🤗

    • @helenteichroeb9610
      @helenteichroeb9610 Před 8 měsíci

      I love the voice of knowledge book. I listen to it over and over. Same with mastery of love and the fifth agreement

  • @DesertLyons22
    @DesertLyons22 Před 7 lety +5

    That has got to be the most clear picture of what masculinity is or should be it is a journey, discovery of self-acceptance thank you so much to both of the gentlemen in this interview.

  • @DLM440
    @DLM440 Před 8 lety +4

    I love the people you interview.
    I love the questions you ask. I love the way you genuinely seem to want to learn from each person your interview.
    You honestly are my favourite interviewer.
    You have a way of getting people to really open up. I can't put my finger on it, it's very unique.

    • @DLM440
      @DLM440 Před 8 lety

      *you interview

  • @zandieehurtado9832
    @zandieehurtado9832 Před 6 lety +4

    Knowing the history of the spiritual movement along the years and eras and countries was so interesting. We are definitely living I believe at the highest peak of this movement. Thank you.

  • @dnaturalartist546
    @dnaturalartist546 Před 5 lety +6

    Reading "The Mastery of Self" now and came across this. Loved this and it helped me understand the Toltec references alot more. Really enjoy all of his and his fathers books I have read.

  • @rickychifardo
    @rickychifardo Před 6 lety +2

    So insightful, especially the part that discuss about masculinity. It means a lot for me. Thanks a lot!

  • @surfcoachclub2050
    @surfcoachclub2050 Před 4 lety +4

    By far the best interview I have seen in this channel. So freaking awesome. Thanks for sharing, really, it just brought me so much peace. Thanks to Miguel for bringing his soul and thank you to Lewis to be such a lovely host. Thanks guys

  • @JohnFalconFlys
    @JohnFalconFlys Před rokem +1

    Sweet attitude.
    Sweet smile.

  • @user-gp2vt6qs9y
    @user-gp2vt6qs9y Před 4 měsíci

    Amazing interview! Love Miguel and all his books.

  • @barbaraturnbow9641
    @barbaraturnbow9641 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @carmendavis425
    @carmendavis425 Před 6 lety +2

    Wow! So much wisdom and so many truths. I am riveted! Thank you Lewis for sharing so many awesome people with us!

  • @mariabentel2076
    @mariabentel2076 Před 2 lety +2

    What an amazing interview, so much insightfulness

  • @marenzita71
    @marenzita71 Před 8 lety +3

    I loooved this podcast...I soak every minute of it...can't even choose the best out of it..forgiving yourself...such a great hour of listening & learning from you...your podcast is the best Lewis

  • @zainabamadahy9918
    @zainabamadahy9918 Před 2 lety +1

    Thoroughly enjoyable. Really deep and wise. Love his books.

  • @martinstubbs7838
    @martinstubbs7838 Před 3 lety +2

    A very good interview. It is very informed to the sense that we do control our own reality it makes you see life through a clearer lens and all your questions are answered.

  • @adivinebeing
    @adivinebeing Před 2 lety +1

    This is amazing so grateful to have been able to hear this

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much for watching! :)

  • @43fak
    @43fak Před rokem

    Totally enjoy Don Miguel Ruiz,jr.. Love the ideal of the book. I am inspired. Getting the book.

  • @artsanctum
    @artsanctum Před 7 lety +3

    Great interview Lewis. Thank you for all that you do to uplift! Love and light!

  • @bookreviewsimplified
    @bookreviewsimplified Před 7 lety +10

    I've had to watch is about 8 times, just so I captured every word. Most incredibly powerful! "A belief only exists while we believe it." my mind is mush :)

    • @joblack420
      @joblack420 Před 3 lety

      Don was a younger guy with long hair and thin
      Where did this guy come from

  • @miguelitopty
    @miguelitopty Před 2 lety +1

    Love this Book and enjoy every second of it, I even did a second listen.

  • @teresafraser3049
    @teresafraser3049 Před 2 lety +1

    This is an outstanding podcast and cannot THANK YOU enough for sharing THE TRUTH OF WHAT IS.....🙏👌🙏

  • @SlayerBill83
    @SlayerBill83 Před 7 lety +5

    Whoa I cannot wait to watch this video. The Ruiz family are my favorite authors! So glad I discovered your channel the other day. I was watching a Victor Oddo video on CZcams and he mentioned Elliot Hulse whom I haven't watched in quite a while. That lead me to Wim Hof whom Elliott went to visit, and Wim Hof lead me to this channel! Quite an interesting chain of events that lead me to your channel​, and I also want to read your book soon too!

  • @christine_lynne
    @christine_lynne Před 4 lety +2

    Fantastic interview & wisdom ~ Thank you!!

  • @hopemartushev7536
    @hopemartushev7536 Před 7 lety +3

    I think this really a breaking point in my life and a true eye opener! Thankyou so much

  • @DS-pw7ue
    @DS-pw7ue Před rokem +1

    Such an amazing interview. Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Před rokem

      You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

  • @Philosophy-Unpacked
    @Philosophy-Unpacked Před 9 měsíci

    one of your most underated interview if not the most! I related to this one the most!

  • @pattiramirezart
    @pattiramirezart Před 7 lety +4

    This is freaking amazing!!! Thanks Miguel and Lewis!!

  • @ritakerany26
    @ritakerany26 Před 8 lety +2

    Absolutely magnificent! Love your work Lewis ! Sending love from Casablanca, Morocco ❤️

  • @33CHRISTINA33
    @33CHRISTINA33 Před 5 lety +2

    Epic conversation💙 Really enjoyed listening!

  • @startconsciouslife8080
    @startconsciouslife8080 Před 3 lety +2

    Really love his books, the four agreements and this one The Mastery of Self😊🙏

  • @PearlEscapes
    @PearlEscapes Před 4 lety +2

    Just love this.

  • @lisadixon6617
    @lisadixon6617 Před 7 lety +4

    Lewis & Don Miguel ... you freakin rock!! Such an amazing interview. So many wonderful, wise and relatable things shared here. This is tangible. Love the Four Agreements. Love this just as much. Thank you thank you Lewis for sharing spiritual leadership with all of us. I have so much gratitude for anyone who puts thier time and lifes journey into making me a better human. Side note: You can see DMR senior on Oprah's Super Soul Sunday.

  • @cumiral
    @cumiral Před 8 lety +2

    Great interview! Thank you both great reminders :)

  • @AndreaFreitasBordagorri
    @AndreaFreitasBordagorri Před 7 lety +2

    great episode! i am currently reading the 4 agreements and this interview was amazing

  • @denisedelacruz4818
    @denisedelacruz4818 Před 6 lety +1

    Amazing interview so much wisdom, Thank You

  • @marjorieovaa7811
    @marjorieovaa7811 Před 2 lety

    WHAT A RUSH!!! I heard people say as they got off a rollercoaster ride. Getting back in line they said LET'S DO IT AGAIN!!! In my meditation, I felt their intense Joy.

  • @TimothysTrialsandTribulations

    Bruce Lee....."Be Water my friend"....very informative and uplifting 👏 thank you enjoyed it the whole way thru

  • @DM-ic9zw
    @DM-ic9zw Před 7 lety +2

    Shout out to fellow IB students! Love love love that ToK (Theory of Knowledge)! Thank you Lewis and Don Miguel

  • @Rembesha
    @Rembesha Před 4 lety +2

    Wow Great interview! Will get the book...awesome...I loved the subject on how other people project masks on us and how we embody them through their perception!

  • @kleding11
    @kleding11 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you as always.

  • @AsenaDirican
    @AsenaDirican Před 7 lety +2

    ooo lewis you always meet with great persons. lucky you and thank you for sharing

  • @elenacuevas309
    @elenacuevas309 Před 2 lety +1

    Loved it!!

  • @Leotatie
    @Leotatie Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you !!!!!!! Amazing interview!!!!

  • @sweetestsin7333
    @sweetestsin7333 Před 6 lety +2

    So cool, didn't know his son wrote a book

  • @rwp-artartinthedark3538
    @rwp-artartinthedark3538 Před 7 lety +2

    the four agreements I remember reading that in one day awesome book great read. The Toltecs, cool stuff. I love these interviews, these are more valuable than any TV show I can think of.

  • @naznyc
    @naznyc Před 7 lety +1

    Thanks for this.

  • @ehailey09
    @ehailey09 Před 3 lety +1

    His book is amazing

  • @JustmeJoy7
    @JustmeJoy7 Před 7 lety +9

    Rich! . . . in the sense of like a desert. This one interview was so rich of wisdom! I savoured every bite. Mmmm that was GOOD!

  • @mssavedin92
    @mssavedin92 Před 4 lety +1

    well done! I am sharing this on facebook. Thankyou. The Riez's are inspirational to say the least.

  • @mrsnw5
    @mrsnw5 Před rokem +1

    Very interesting interview. Thank you.

  • @ob4149
    @ob4149 Před 4 lety +1

    enjoy life!

  • @QuanNguyen-kj9kp
    @QuanNguyen-kj9kp Před 7 lety +2

    Wow. The best one so far.

  • @paolabueso
    @paolabueso Před 7 lety +1

    This was so great! Thank you.

  • @sf5823
    @sf5823 Před 6 lety +3

    Really good talk, beautiful co-creating 😊

  • @TheZGALa
    @TheZGALa Před 7 lety +1

    Another great talk! Thank you.

  • @surrissvar1843
    @surrissvar1843 Před 4 lety +1

    i loved it, thank you

  • @truckergal
    @truckergal Před 5 lety +1

    So much awareness ❤

  • @brendasecord1211
    @brendasecord1211 Před rokem

    Excited to listen to this.

  • @evapelayo4150
    @evapelayo4150 Před 3 lety +1

    So awsome, for some reason he talks in common with David goggins💕

  • @raggsragggs9613
    @raggsragggs9613 Před 2 lety

    Amazing. Love it ...these are my people. Related to the vibration present👌🏾

  • @alejandracastorena
    @alejandracastorena Před 4 lety +1

    Chula Vista💓Que bonito saber que es de la misma ciudad que Yo. Y ahora mismo sostengo el libro de su padre y el suyo mano. The life of a Border baby is quite unique and very special, a bit hard to explain as one but it’s such a great opportunity to be between two countries. ¡Ay, Que Bonito! 🙌🏽✨

  • @soniapons1454
    @soniapons1454 Před 7 lety +3

    Powerful!

  • @jenniferarnold-delgado3489

    The energy of a circle has more energy than the sum of its parts . A circle is defined by four points on the line . Once the circle is defined , it has an energy of its own , that self expands or withdraws depending on the environment . Once that circle is set , it sort of just runs as long as you hold those four points that were defined strong . This guys knowledge is perfect . He is defining how to define spirited identity . So many people walk in an idealog identity , An identity that works in the system , but has no spiritual truth , and thus creates no memory . ( truth ) eventually leaving the person lost in an m and m smoothie . Yeah Lewis , write that book . Let me tell you that recently I said to my grandson at age 11 "Buck Up " he said " What does that mean ? " and I said that when the deer start growing the antlers , their necks become very strong , because they are carrying around this rack of expansion . It starts growing and they can never put it down . So what is that about ? Well , I think that inside of the sexual experience , the body must be very strong to actually absorb the experience without avoiding it emotionally . For a female , I myself ran a lot , in the woods actually , during my teenage years . When I went to carry and give birth to my baby , my first son , I was able to easily bear him , with my strong able body . I was able to handle many aspects of my survival and his , I was prepared with the strength in my hips and legs . But for the masculine , you are automatically given the high power body , your bodies are 10 x stronger than ours in the short term power surge . So , what is the message of the BUCK ? It is the development of the prongs of understanding reaching out into the world , and walking with that day after day , never taking it off , becoming strong enough to hold this story balanced on his own personal power , so that he is able to deal with the sexual force experience that will arrive , when it arrives .
    Men who take that rack off , and put it on at their convenience will never develop the inner strength between body and mind . There is a time for play , and there is a time for nobility . To me , the symbol of the crown that a monarch wears , is the visible burden of the connection to the cervix of the birth process , that it is acknoledged and born . These are thoughts that will not be popular ,
    but most men I know engage in sex , but do not experience it . To experience it in the depths of its truth bringing gift nature , ( remember , for women , an actual child emerges from our bodies from the sex act ) requires a certain kind of actual commitment . Remember , that buck sleeps with that rack on his head .

  • @sammarina2259
    @sammarina2259 Před 4 lety +2

    THIS WAS AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGGG WOW

  • @Rosewtr_
    @Rosewtr_ Před 5 lety +1

    Beautiful

  • @Anonymous-yh4ol
    @Anonymous-yh4ol Před rokem

    Great book!!

  • @LisaRScott
    @LisaRScott Před 7 lety +2

    Great interview.

  • @eliseschema8996
    @eliseschema8996 Před rokem

    I love this, Greatness

  • @myishathill
    @myishathill Před 7 lety +1

    This is awesome!!

  • @rcc3574
    @rcc3574 Před 4 lety +1

    44:33 Question on, "definition of masculinity"... I like how Ruiz answers this, especially how he talks about the mask and pronounces the word (as I hear it) as, "mask-u-linity". Thoroughly enjoyed this interview. Thank you!

  • @monkeybananaize
    @monkeybananaize Před 8 lety +1

    amazing!

  • @smartworlds
    @smartworlds Před rokem

    Super interview with a Master :) Been introduced to the 4 agreements about 15 years ago and it's slowly and gradually sinking in ;) ❤

  • @Alike.NoOther
    @Alike.NoOther Před 6 lety +17

    What another revelatory story. I'm just at the beginning, but the second thing I noticed was the American - I don't know what to call it; entitlement, conceit, privilege mindset - ignorance, assuming that ALL American schools are better and higher quality than those in another country, that's not considered to be equivalent to America. Being able to hear other people's realities that are not caucasian and american really provides insight into the vast experiences, diversity, information, and resources that exist.

    • @MYTUBEYOURTUBE2008
      @MYTUBEYOURTUBE2008 Před 5 lety +2

      YESSS! I noticed this right away too!

    • @Regi254.
      @Regi254. Před 3 lety +1

      Aliké Sampson this jumped out at me to the point I even repeated it out loud. Very fitting for our current political events going on.

    • @Alike.NoOther
      @Alike.NoOther Před 3 lety

      MYTUBEYOURTUBE2008 Lol. I’ve enjoyed his show immensely. I haven’t noticed any other perspectives like this in other shows... 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Alike.NoOther
      @Alike.NoOther Před 3 lety

      Regi254 Lol. That’s funny. Yeah, I’ve seen so many of his shows & never really noticed any other similar perspective...
      Definitely reflective of the zeitgeist although I wish that weren’t so...

  • @FlexPointFitness
    @FlexPointFitness Před 8 lety +1

    amazing lewis

  • @huanjin5202
    @huanjin5202 Před rokem

    This is perfect thank u