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Komentáře • 979

  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  Před rokem +2

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  • @norahmurdaa4542
    @norahmurdaa4542 Před 5 lety +1064

    1- Laughter (Recieve his jokes)
    2- Smiling (Smile at them)
    3- Honesty (Demonstrate honesty by communicating exactly what you want)
    4- Wear Red (It increases their desire)
    5- Mirroring and Matching (Imitate his body expressions)
    You're welcome

  • @jerushadowdy7094
    @jerushadowdy7094 Před 7 lety +1210

    It dosnt matter what u do. Sometimes the person just isn't into you. Just remember not to lose yourself along the way! 😊

  • @fuzzydogpa7348
    @fuzzydogpa7348 Před 7 lety +650

    I like when a guy positions himself around me in ways that shows he is protective of me. Like when they walk on the traffic side of the sidewalk or he puts his hand on my waist and sorta shields my body in a crowd of people and helps guide me through it, especially when he is much bigger than me. I like when a man is protective of me and makes me feel safe and provided for. That's sexy.

    • @corgisrule21
      @corgisrule21 Před 4 lety +22

      fuzzydog pa exactly. I hadn’t seen this guy since March (but I’ve crushed on him since my freshman year of college in 2000 lol). We’re friends, but it never went anywhere, sadly. Well, this last weekend we happened to see each other at an outdoor festival and for some (happy) reason, he lifted me up in a “hello lover” sort of way and spent most of the rest of the day/evening with his arm either around my shoulders or on the waist/small of my back area.
      He’s a tall guy, too, so I got more vibes and feelings of safety/intimacy just in those actions than I’ve had with most sexual encounters😂 My love language truly is touch, but in the non-sexual way. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex, but on a normal, daily basis, hugging and touching are soooooo my vibe. ❤️

    • @lesliekauble4701
      @lesliekauble4701 Před 4 lety +2

      Im.... so a dude then!! I do that all!!

    • @atomicplaygirl66
      @atomicplaygirl66 Před 4 lety +13

      YES×1000!!! That is the best feeling ever knowing a man is protective of you.

    • @ritabrandow1318
      @ritabrandow1318 Před 4 lety +6

      I am in a relationship with a man that does that and I found out he can also be a total jerk

    • @iknowwhatsup2880
      @iknowwhatsup2880 Před 4 lety +1

      Yep!

  • @kelleysciarrino8024
    @kelleysciarrino8024 Před 6 lety +225

    Any man who shows kindness to everyone ,a waiter,bartender,other people not of same size race or color.That is what I find attractive.A truely kind man.

    • @75Cee
      @75Cee Před rokem +1

      So so true.

  • @LoveLostization
    @LoveLostization Před 7 lety +610

    I like when a man gets excited about something he is talking about or really passionate about. The over excitement is cute and attractive 😊

  • @sarahnorment
    @sarahnorment Před 6 lety +410

    I'm attracted to men who are total gentlemen....not just as an act during the first few dates, but the real deal. 💜

    • @Mariajbh2
      @Mariajbh2 Před 5 lety

      Yes!!

    • @laurapiovan
      @laurapiovan Před 5 lety +8

      Yeah me to. But where are they? Maybe I am on the wrong planet?

    • @kalaccount4918
      @kalaccount4918 Před 5 lety +8

      I’m 38 and just met a real gentleman for the first time in my life. I got simple flowers on the go

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Před 4 lety +4

      That doesn't mean they are good men or not hiding wife beating tendencies. Trust me.

    • @perfectlyyoubeauty
      @perfectlyyoubeauty Před 4 lety +5

      Everyone brings their representative the first few months of dating. Even women. Think about how you’re always in a good mood when you see him.. he doesn’t see you when you’re frustrated at work or stressed over mess at the house or doing homework with the kids. It takes time to really get to know someone in all types of situations.

  • @kenann279
    @kenann279 Před 5 lety +177

    Attractive Men are those:
    who listen deeply and empathize
    Men who have good hygiene/grooming
    Men who have a sense of purpose/drive
    Men who take the lead to plan
    Men who are honest and transparent
    Men who are kind and ethical

    • @niag9950
      @niag9950 Před rokem +1

      And none of them want to settle down with one woman. This man you describe is exactly what We are ALL looking for. If this unicorn exists he isn’t gonna be satisfied with one woman the rest Of his life. He may pretend, he may for a while (start a family), but eventually he will want someone else. While married, or want a divorce. Because Nobody stays satisfied in this disposable swipe lifestyle. I’m tired of advice when the pool of men out there is just looking for someone that night. Or for that holiday, wedding… not for the long term in the trenches … I’ll love you at your worst and stick by you for life, as you are aging and young girls want me for my money!

    • @GOJOistheBESTuRAT
      @GOJOistheBESTuRAT Před rokem

      Yes

    • @katasandberg8110
      @katasandberg8110 Před rokem +2

      kind & ethical is huge.....

  • @TheLauraMarieT2
    @TheLauraMarieT2 Před 7 lety +903

    I like guys that are humble. To me that is a true marker of confidence. 🔥

    • @heidiheidi0
      @heidiheidi0 Před 7 lety +24

      Yes! Thank you for saying this. It's underrated.

    • @missnaomiivy
      @missnaomiivy Před 7 lety +25

      Definitely the most attractive quality!

    • @MarkBH70
      @MarkBH70 Před 7 lety +27

      Indeed. That took me a while to learn. Humility but confidence.

    • @tonzowall9210
      @tonzowall9210 Před 7 lety +2

      Aquarian Christianity: Modest too! Don't forget the word indeed belongs in the last century though.😀

    • @MarkBH70
      @MarkBH70 Před 7 lety +1

      Really, sir/madame? Okay. Humility?

  • @deborahb3501
    @deborahb3501 Před 4 lety +60

    I absolutely love it when a man acts like a gentleman & holds a door open for me. I always say thank you. It may surprise you how many men out there don't take the time to show this courtesy.

  • @jjerrett5068
    @jjerrett5068 Před 6 lety +55

    I love when a man simply listens instead of wanted to "fix" things. Sometimes just listening is enough.

  • @missyl3119
    @missyl3119 Před 6 lety +293

    Men initiating conversations are the best..... showing interest....

  • @laurieroth4589
    @laurieroth4589 Před 6 lety +124

    a gentleman, opens the door, listens to you without interrupting or glancing at the TV, talks kindly about you in front of others, holds your hand, plans a date a few days out and stays connected throughout the day...

  • @MJ-lm6em
    @MJ-lm6em Před 7 lety +92

    I really admire men who are direct but not in a rude way, honest, humble, vulnerable and have COURAGE to communicate what they want in a confident way without being cocky.

  • @arlinejernigan
    @arlinejernigan Před 6 lety +38

    I love when a guy makes me laugh, when they are easy to talk to, when they are physically active, affectionate, engaged in life, have integrity, who match their ideals with their actions, who think outside the box, have strong sexual energy, who follow through. I would love to experience that. I am willing to mirror that behavior.

  • @mamalovesmunchkin648
    @mamalovesmunchkin648 Před 4 lety +35

    My 2 favorite qualities about my husband are that he is a family man and that he has a great sense of humor. We met when we were both 16 and the way he was very involved in the lives of his much younger siblings made me realize what an excellent father he would be - the opposite of my childhood (workaholic parents with no interest in their children). 15 years since we met, 10 years of marriage and 4 children of our own later - there is plenty of love and laughter in our precious family. We each think we’re the lucky one.

    • @carmensolis8544
      @carmensolis8544 Před 7 měsíci

      Awwwwwe 🥰 that's so awesome ❤ u r both lucky ☺️ i want tht type of love sumday 😏

  • @shivanisharma4983
    @shivanisharma4983 Před 7 lety +1811

    Okay, so basically wear red and laugh a lot ;) kinda like santa claus? :P

  • @sarajohansson7461
    @sarajohansson7461 Před 7 lety +160

    i love guys who are humble and show that they really care about things. i also like when they give me the feeling of beeing protected

  • @AniaBumba
    @AniaBumba Před 7 lety +155

    Chivalry must be one of the most atteactive things in a man. Great video, thanks for sharing.

  • @Elkraiden
    @Elkraiden Před 6 lety +35

    I like it when a guy has a big personality, and is super fun flirty with me but not in a gross manipulating way. I love sarcasm and trust.. still respect when a guy is a gentleman and can be open with me. A guy who listens and remembers

  • @kristine6996
    @kristine6996 Před 7 lety +50

    Being galant to a lady, having a good hygiene, helping out, having humour, be sincere..

  • @sarahleach9997
    @sarahleach9997 Před 7 lety +42

    my husband is the funniest man on the planet.he makes everybody around him laugh.30 years of so much laughter.thanks gorgeous the info.its great.love it.😊😊😊😊

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Před 7 lety +161

    Yes humility is attractive 😁. Also kindness.A man that looks out for and seeks to include others who perhaps otherwise would tend to be overlooked 😇

    • @MarkBH70
      @MarkBH70 Před 7 lety +6

      I don't like "overlooking," i.e., ignoring people, making them seem unimportant: That's Rude!

    • @jessyjonas4988
      @jessyjonas4988 Před 7 lety +14

      Aquarian Christianity that is quite admirable. The little things will always set you apart as a priceless gem. As you continue to abide in Christ, the fruits of the Spifit will be manifested, giving you authenticity. Faith is very attractive😇

    • @MarkBH70
      @MarkBH70 Před 7 lety +5

      jessy jonas Thank you, ma'am. Got faith.

  • @alinavoron5659
    @alinavoron5659 Před 7 lety +19

    Ability to make decisions, taking charge of situations! I find it extremely sexy when a man is decisive and actually sticks to his choices. I guess it all boils down to being confident.

  • @sfoster4874
    @sfoster4874 Před 7 lety +55

    I find it attractive when he strongly and confidently initiates high level of banter and chatter between us. And when he tells me a funny story or two.

    • @itsadate10
      @itsadate10 Před 5 lety +1

      I love to banter, i love this one guy for that but not totally attracted to him, but my man now doesnt like to banter he considers it mocking..but hes very chivalris, caring, hardworking, empathetic and so car we are working..and hes begining to cut up with me..so we are movin slow and gettin to know more about each other and im in my 50s...

  • @ELISSASMITH472
    @ELISSASMITH472 Před 6 lety +106

    Hygiene. Man who smell and care about your first inspiration. Hair nicely trimmed around ears and back of neck. Clean hands and nails trimmed nails. Clothes not wrinkled and tidy. Looking like they made an effort to think that you were worth the effort to spend extra time to press .Shoes nice and go with they’re outfit. Last and most important there nice pick of cologne to compliment their look. Not overwhelming. But just enough that when he moves around you, you can get a whiff of some of life’s greatest aphrodisiac!

    • @Mariajbh2
      @Mariajbh2 Před 5 lety +3

      A clean men it's really attractive to women. Who wears clean

  • @nissamelton8597
    @nissamelton8597 Před 7 lety +136

    Confidence is the #1 attractive quality in another person

  • @NewYorkNadia
    @NewYorkNadia Před 4 lety +6

    Kindness! A man who is genuinely kind and attentive on a date gets my attention. Kindness is so rare today that finding it in a person is like striking gold. Thanks for another great video, Matt!

  • @gypsybelle4757
    @gypsybelle4757 Před 6 lety +6

    Guys that show kindness to others. Especially in situations where it has no direct benefit to them. It’s easy to be kind when it feels you will get something in return. How you treat others when you won’t receive any reward is truly telling.

  • @morgannathan4142
    @morgannathan4142 Před 4 lety +12

    I like guys who show respect for others and are actively passionate. Overall, I like it when guys show interest💕

  • @SuperSetoile
    @SuperSetoile Před 7 lety +22

    I like taller and broader guys. Those who smiles easily but not in a weird way. The one with whom i can get constructive debates with. The one that just have that positive aura which makes you feel comfortable in any situation.

  • @Victoriagenix
    @Victoriagenix Před 2 lety +8

    Your explanation of honesty is exactly what i did to get my fiancé although at that time I didn’t know this theory.
    So i met my fiance on tinder, we met, on our first date, I told him that i wanted a serious relationship he responded cold. However, after the date, i thank him for dinner which he paid for, i told him that i like him and i felt like kissing him.
    He was stunned and later admitted to me that at that moment, he admired my confidence, for him, im the woman who knows what I want and not scared to speak up my mind honestly. He just admired me and then deleted all his online dating app 😁
    We engaged 7 months later.

    • @carojames6776
      @carojames6776 Před 2 lety

      Happy days, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @dianneciresi7208
      @dianneciresi7208 Před rokem

      How do u know he deleted all his on dating apps? Did he do it in front of u so u could see it? Some men are deceivers & players. . Have to be cautious. Many men can't be trusted..

  • @ahr76at
    @ahr76at Před 7 lety +37

    Attractiveness has many aspects but mainly is based on physical appearnce most of the times...but the best tactic to be attractive to others is to be yourself which is very important, not what other think you should be act behave, have lots of positive energy, laugh, enjoy life and show you are an independent, confident, social and caring person a person someone can rely on... and I totally agree red is the colour!

    • @joytotheworldddd
      @joytotheworldddd Před 7 lety +1

      agree with the physical appearance at first, but however personality is what really attract the person to me. notice how at the end of your sentences are all about personalities too? :)

  • @BellaBiljana
    @BellaBiljana Před 7 lety +190

    A man who publicly stands up for me and protects my heart has the ability to win my heart. The strong silent type is whom I'm attracted to. Big mouth guys are just that... empty and shallow.

    • @Crystal107
      @Crystal107 Před 5 lety +5

      How is someone who speaks their mind empty and shallow? Wouldn't you say a silent one who doesn't express themselves more empty and shallow?

    • @iknowwhatsup2880
      @iknowwhatsup2880 Před 4 lety +2

      Bragging is boring.

    • @13DarkMelody
      @13DarkMelody Před 4 lety +2

      Loud obnoxious dudes are so gross.

  • @lorigardner5380
    @lorigardner5380 Před 7 lety +62

    I'm attracted to guys that are more humble and hard working, guys who do not act like the world owes them everything and who seem they are so proud that I just absolutely have to love them or else something is wrong with me

  • @s.carmen
    @s.carmen Před 7 lety +43

    we like honesty too.

    • @LaughingblueSu
      @LaughingblueSu Před 5 lety +1

      S. Carmen but honesty in men is like trying to find a unicorn

    • @Andrea-sl8wd
      @Andrea-sl8wd Před 5 lety

      More than confidence.

  • @Kdedman67
    @Kdedman67 Před 2 lety +3

    True confidence!
    Not egotistical. Not fake it till you make it. True confidence.
    From ordering a cocktail for you that he knows you love, to being confident enough to ask what you “like.”

  • @gemmalindridge4232
    @gemmalindridge4232 Před 7 lety +188

    I find when a man smiles is very attractive. I like when a man laughs very very attractive.

    • @carolwangeshi9506
      @carolwangeshi9506 Před 4 lety +1

      Sometimes the smile is not nice🙄red gums😂😂😂😂

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 Před 4 lety

      @@carolwangeshi9506 #eddiemurphy 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kalaccount4918
    @kalaccount4918 Před 5 lety +11

    #1 emotionally: be responsive, attentive & emotionally available.
    #1 socially: you cannot be too respectful of others. Go overboard with respecting others... holding the door for an older couple etc. Talking positively about someone whenever possible. Do it all the time when I’m not around and it will be authentic and I’ll hear about how great you are.
    #1 physically: not in an obvious way just how you would in your office alone... show defined forearm (roll up long sleeves on a dress shirt while in public so I can’t touch). Forearms are my favorite physical attraction on any man, a little muscular but not too veiny.
    Only if in a relationship talk softly and dirty while in public- not too early on. Keep it simple at one sentence.

  • @marialaganson3091
    @marialaganson3091 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m attracted to men who are smart and confident , kind, someone who is responsible ,funny , and shows respect ..and who has leadership skill..

  • @siobanethier
    @siobanethier Před 6 lety +84

    When an attractive guy acts like he has no idea he's attractive. When a guy is a gentleman. When a guy DOES NOT bring up sex at all in any way, leaves it up to the woman (because she would be risking more). When a guy is not afraid to be vulnerable, let his feelings show. When a guy pulls the protective vibe for the woman he's with. When a guy is Jamie Fraser in Outlander, except for the spanking scene. Everything he does with regards to Claire, apart from that scene, and certain words he says during the fight at the river. When he puts his hand out for her to take. When he kisses her forehead.
    It would be SOOOO damn easy for guys to be a lot better but they don't even want to try.

    • @richym3899
      @richym3899 Před 5 lety +2

      Because you ask for all that in exchange for what exactly? I'm genuinely curious as to what a man of this caliber recieves in exchange

    • @tinacook4906
      @tinacook4906 Před 5 lety +1

      @@richym3899 All of me and more because I know the kind of woman I am, and what he'll be getting and that's a fact.

    • @MultiJudgmentdragon
      @MultiJudgmentdragon Před 5 lety +1

      Think I will pass and stick to the handjobs, its so much simpler and less drama and time consuming ahahahah

    • @tinacook4906
      @tinacook4906 Před 5 lety

      @@MultiJudgmentdragon oh no, such a shame. And i bet you have a lot to offer.

    • @hayleebennett6596
      @hayleebennett6596 Před 5 lety

      You are talking about 10% of men that are already taken. The rest are shit lol.

  • @danasalter8186
    @danasalter8186 Před 6 lety +13

    I like it when a man has a true love for God first before me. Along with that, gentle, humble,caring, and to give himself for me, so other than that I love attention. I also love to expect the unexpected. For example, just say "Where would you like to go eat out tonight?" I wasn't expecting that, and it's a great great turn on I love it!!!!! Or just something small like "Come on honey, hop in the car"!!!!! and we just ride around the town.

  • @donnahannaford6840
    @donnahannaford6840 Před 7 lety +80

    I watch the way men walk, a bloke who walks with confidence etc is bit more attractive than slow hunched over joe.

    • @LaughingblueSu
      @LaughingblueSu Před 5 lety

      Donna Hannaford one problem with that. The guys that strut can be playrs

  • @hmmmph3578
    @hmmmph3578 Před 6 lety +61

    I love funny men. It shows me they're intelligent as well as fun and that's sexy.

  • @kimkeiko2725
    @kimkeiko2725 Před 6 lety +9

    This is so awesome that pretty much my whole life I have done the first three. I always told people many men find me attractive just based on my positivity and me just being myself (which includes brutal honesty) now I will add matching and mirroring and more red to my daily routine. Thank you so much for this video!

  • @kklatour4
    @kklatour4 Před 5 lety +4

    A man that gives you a wonderful smile when looking at you.

  • @JenniferAyoub
    @JenniferAyoub Před 5 lety +3

    Honest, humble, kind confident understanding compassion- these are some of the qualities I look for in a partner. Also, a man who is a gentleman and who has a passion in life.

  • @beverlybruton2271
    @beverlybruton2271 Před rokem +1

    I like a man who looks strong and clean cut but is also gentle towards me. That makes me feel like he really cares for me.
    Also, somebody who seems to pay attention to me. I recently went for a walk with a gentleman that I had just met, and he paid attention to my breathing, slowed down without me realizing it. He was looking out for me and I didn’t even know it during the walk I noticed that he did something equally as nice to somebody behind me or us and I just thought it was very nice. His thoughtfulness really impressed me.

  • @catherinedobbs1827
    @catherinedobbs1827 Před 5 lety +2

    I appreciate it when a guy is a good listener and takes an interest in me by asking personal questions.

  • @squishiette
    @squishiette Před 7 lety +26

    I love all these videos. Luckily i already have a really great guy and don't need to use any of these but i do find that keeping myself in check to make sure i'm not doing anything unattractive helps build on the relationship. I think when i notice my partner being patient with me when he is tired or annoyed is a good trait, also when they go out of their way to do something nice. Also when a really confident guy shows a bit of insecurity, i just want to jump in there and take care of them and tell them everything is going to be ok! lol I think the most attractive trait in a guy or even girl is when they have their life together because it shows who they are as a person i think.

  • @bananashake2163
    @bananashake2163 Před 5 lety +4

    I like a guy who have utmost respect and love for his parents and siblings.

  • @user-xl1ou7oe2g
    @user-xl1ou7oe2g Před 6 lety +6

    Laughter, smiling, honesty (confidence) and color of red and mirroring and matching 😉💗

  • @bsh9291
    @bsh9291 Před 5 lety +6

    how did such a young man as yourself become so wise? I sure wish this kind of info had been available to me when I was young! These matters of the heart do not go away with time. Rather, we care even more as time goes by. Thank you for being so bold as to publish your insights into our hearts and minds. Afterall, its not over until its over! TY! (wish me luck ☺).

  • @rigtjeh
    @rigtjeh Před 7 lety +12

    It's really attractive when a guy is: honest, caring, humble, himself in different contexts. Meaning: whether he there's a group of friends over or it's just the two of you, he doesn't change all of the sudden. Now, of course, everyone acts a little different in different contexts and that's fine. That's not what I'm referring to. What I'm referring to is that you'll know it's him and he won't act completely different.

  • @julieoliphant1615
    @julieoliphant1615 Před 6 lety +16

    I'm attracted to men who are friendly and smile a lot.

  • @misskathy4931
    @misskathy4931 Před 6 lety +8

    I love when he picks me up, or wraps his arm around me and pulls me close, or wrestles with me and pins me down ( makes me laugh so hard). So yeah, I notice biceps on men. Good stuff

  • @user-zw4wb1bu1r
    @user-zw4wb1bu1r Před 4 lety +1

    I get attracted to guys who give compliments, feel confident around me and ask about my wishes a lot. I also really appreciate guys who are able to combine being themselves and being attentive to me at the same time

  • @MsSusy22
    @MsSusy22 Před 7 lety +34

    confidence and taking charge or certain situations

  • @GypsyRock
    @GypsyRock Před 5 lety +4

    I like men who do what they say they’re gonna do. I like men who initiate, plan a date, tell me where we’re going. I like chivalry. I like an arm around me. And if we get to that point I like sleeping in his arms. 🤷‍♀️current guy is good at this ;)

  • @melissawalker3265
    @melissawalker3265 Před 11 měsíci

    I really like hearing him tell me details about things he knows. Not bragging but talking to me about things he knows and finds interesting

  • @kimstevens5513
    @kimstevens5513 Před 7 lety +21

    Loved this video a lot more than I thought I would! Really appreciate the scientific studies you based the video off of! So cool!! Thanks, Matt!

  • @Sara-xb8ql
    @Sara-xb8ql Před 6 lety +296

    my boyfriend will become single in an hour and he doesnt know yet #prayforhim

    • @sukib.3412
      @sukib.3412 Před 6 lety +48

      Mara Djordjevic why is this so funny 😂

    • @Sara-xb8ql
      @Sara-xb8ql Před 6 lety +95

      Sukkhmani Batth lol i broke up with him but he still not single . cheating piece of shit

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li Před 6 lety +13

      Mara Djordjevic Lmaaao...This got me like pikachuuuu😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ritaasuncion205
      @ritaasuncion205 Před 5 lety

    • @richym3899
      @richym3899 Před 5 lety +2

      @@Sara-xb8ql lmao god bless him

  • @margaretelucas2636
    @margaretelucas2636 Před 7 lety +6

    Mathew thanks for your videos ... I start follow you almost a week and I'm absolutely happy.. thanks for share all your knowledge . God bless you from Portugal 🇵🇹

  • @rstarsflow
    @rstarsflow Před 7 lety +115

    lol,...My Husband says I am too Honest!! That is Funny....I am Smiling and laughing too much and therefore am rarely taken seriously,...I am a confident person.
    and I am approached all the time!!
    so I am not changing anything!!❤😄

  • @MatthewCoast
    @MatthewCoast Před 7 lety

    Thank you for making this video! I appreciate all of the advice. Keep up the good work!

  • @reneenand8408
    @reneenand8408 Před 6 lety +3

    Nice video Matt. Recently I was so attracted to a colleague at work who was sooo superior and highly educated than I am. He was recently divorced and was available for relationship. We both were soooo attracted to each other that I could actually feel it. I would dodge him if I saw him coming my way, I became a nervous wreck. ☹️. Wish I saw this video earlier so to understand his action towards me.

  • @sumartinez811
    @sumartinez811 Před 7 lety +16

    i like when a guys ask about my day and ask me questions on the first date. ps i love your videos🙌👌😉

  • @dianneciresi7208
    @dianneciresi7208 Před rokem +2

    I tried being authentic, vulnerable, they lost interest when they found out things that didn't resonate with them like my kind of lifestyle, being prejudice cause I have mixed color in my family, or one that didn't want to have any family & kids around, other one when they found out I lived with my daughter & wondered why I didn't have my s--t together at my golden age.

    • @lanadellhatestheclock3325
      @lanadellhatestheclock3325 Před 11 měsíci

      In the US we live in a very tough society. Sorry for your experience. But, dust off and keep going.

  • @rdsparrowriter
    @rdsparrowriter Před 4 lety +2

    Showing respect irrespective of the age of a person, smiling with sparkly glittery eyes, kindness, humility, honesty and great sense of humour without insulting or mocking others :)

  • @anafernandez9536
    @anafernandez9536 Před 7 lety +17

    being positive all the time also attracts men!!!!

  • @szee8588
    @szee8588 Před 6 lety +31

    The problem is, most people are not as smart as they used to be (really, the fluoride), so the jokes are not witty nor funny. Sometimes men don't realize that they are making the joke at your expense instead of making you laugh WITH them. I can only do so many courtesy laughs before I feel like I want to vomit. I'm not meeting too many intelligent men.

  • @clareheasly5554
    @clareheasly5554 Před 2 lety

    It’s amazing how much work you suggest instead of just being yourself.

  • @legendliz
    @legendliz Před 6 lety +1

    i adore confident yet humble men who use humour daily, i love to laugh. laughter is important to me

  • @gssh632
    @gssh632 Před 7 lety +33

    i'm really attracted to my man who can totally be mysterious and serious against the ppl 😍 but super honest and funny with me 🙈💏💕💍

  • @summermurphy69
    @summermurphy69 Před 7 lety +8

    thanks for the video! I have to agree with everyone, a humble nature is extremely alluring and provides a slow reveal of who someone is. Also a great communicator, listening and speaking, is a great sign. no 'wait to talkers', ew!

    • @bonnieyam6565
      @bonnieyam6565 Před 6 lety

      I like guys who are intelligent, logical, listen well, but can be playful and challenging at the same time. I don’t need constant attention, but I expect them to remember everything that I say and show care and understanding at the right time.

  • @laylabug39
    @laylabug39 Před 4 lety +2

    A man who is protective, confident and stable. He is dominant but not afraid of showing his emotions.

  • @GoddessLaurel
    @GoddessLaurel Před 3 lety

    Great points...the mirroring examples were especially awesome and funny. Thank you : )

  • @carmenmichaelian8307
    @carmenmichaelian8307 Před 5 lety +3

    I enjoy when my date is asking me questions about me. Being aware of my being there.

  • @jennie20able
    @jennie20able Před 6 lety +3

    Humble, honesty, trust confidence, humor: I also find it very! very! attractive when a man has it in for her has eyes and only eyes for her ;) A one women man

  • @gratitude5740
    @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety +1

    Emotional connection, deep meaningful conversations, gentleness, good sense of humour and adventurous men are attracting me :)

  • @anyadarlingg
    @anyadarlingg Před 4 lety +1

    I love when a guy can be completely authentic w you right away. I went on a date w someone and he was telling me that his car was kinda messy before we made plans to hang out. He said the same about his room but it's like he was excited to let me know that he was looking forward to seeing me and he put effort into impressing me.

  • @akibatuissah5582
    @akibatuissah5582 Před 7 lety +3

    guys love the way I am and am Happy when I can connect to them in all ways.😘

  • @MarkBH70
    @MarkBH70 Před 7 lety +9

    Great, as usual, Mr. Mat! I do all these things except wearing red. I'm a man. A little red is okay, but I can't pull it off often.
    My woman, my fiancee, doesn't wear red much either. I find her attractive. I do videos on CZcams, and I was trying to follow someone's advice to appear better in them. Someone criticized. I think whatever you do it has to come from you...has to be natural. God bless all the women here, and you too.

  • @strictlystarlight
    @strictlystarlight Před 7 lety +1

    I like guys who are naturally positive with good energy.I.e smiling, ask how you are etc and good manners. Thanks for posting video

  • @TheSeji
    @TheSeji Před 3 lety +1

    Men are my favorite people! I love everything about them. Thank you, Matthew, for making my life so much better. Applying what you teach has changed my life completely.

  • @TheArtemis07
    @TheArtemis07 Před 6 lety +4

    I love creativity and thoughtfulness. When a man takes the time to create experiences that are beyond the cliched dinner and a movie date night, I find that highly attractive. Or when he does something thoughtful “just because.” It doesn’t have to be expensive-but it needs to be unexpected.

  • @martyna2371
    @martyna2371 Před 7 lety +31

    Matt, I like you so much. You're so natural! It's so inspiring.

  • @verom1552
    @verom1552 Před 6 lety

    Your videos are so entertaining, I normally don't look at this type of videos but yours are good

  • @podersa241
    @podersa241 Před 5 lety +2

    I love when I am telling a story and he gets equally excited or if she tells the story and he gets excited so do I.

  • @natashapratt8466
    @natashapratt8466 Před 6 lety +6

    Physically, Im attracted to jaw lines, and consideration and consciousness/awareness for others around them.

  • @shakingbirdart
    @shakingbirdart Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you for this video! I'd love some more information like this! Something I find outrageously attractive in men is a genuine apology. And no, not just an "I'm sorry." I mean real, un-fakable contrition! It shows humility, compassion, the ability to learn and a will to rise above and do the right thing.

  • @reitumetsepokonyane825

    Being fascinated by his work.
    Celebrating my success like his own.
    Fitting me into his tight schedule
    Involving me when he's talking to his friends

  • @marshaonnestee9447
    @marshaonnestee9447 Před 5 lety +2

    I love it when men listen intently and pay a lot of attention to me, to show that I am interesting.

  • @rrredone1
    @rrredone1 Před 6 lety +6

    I find a man attractive that likes himself... and has achieved success in his career... I FIND A... FAMILY MAN... that takes care of his children... attractive... and takes care of me... PLAYFUL... FUN... TAKES CHARGE... I like my boyfriend now... that just say... do what I say... I kind of like that. He is not being mean... he gave me money... and I said... you don't have to do that... he said... DO WHAT I SAY... I LOVE IT... especially when I am told to take his money... THANKS MAT... LOVE YOU MAN...

  • @gailhowell40
    @gailhowell40 Před 7 lety +40

    when guys smiles alot and laughs and looks into your eyes

  • @lindaelkins2994
    @lindaelkins2994 Před 7 lety +1

    Great discussion! Thank you. I love your presentations because they are so real!

  • @0speckles0
    @0speckles0 Před 7 lety +2

    Loved this! shared this with my friend 😘

  • @maemedina9205
    @maemedina9205 Před 6 lety +5

    when they try to become funny.. if a guy display his humor.. if i were to choose between looks and humor.. i will choose humor because, we, us gals really drawn to a man who cheer up our day and made us laugh even his he dont have the looks of johny deep, the abs of hugh jackman and the tom cruise dimples, that what come up with the little survey that i did that women really prefer a joker than hunk..

  • @eftsoulpath333
    @eftsoulpath333 Před 7 lety +3

    I love it when a man shares the 'stage' and asks me about how I'm doing. Biggest turn off ever is a man
    (or anyone) monopolizing the conversation....

  • @elliottness3528
    @elliottness3528 Před 6 lety

    I love it when a man tucks his shirt in!! It shows confidence and attention to detail!!