Yeah... I was speaking with a friend who lived there for 2 years and talking to them about how I've learned/read/heard for years that their sexuality is declining/still systematically oppressed in the day-to-day, yet seems rampantly capitalized (crazy fetish stuff everywhere) in a way that screams it. They disagreed with me, saying that Japanese are plenty "active," but I mean... they also worked at an L-hotel for a bit. They also said that the reason behind all these venues is because there isn't a lot of space or privacy in the homes, which makes sense. Still, it feels superficial and I ended our last convo commenting, "you know, I think it's just sad that something so basic as intimacy, which is supposed to be shared between two people at their most vulnerable, gets commercialized... to me that feels like a privacy *intrusion* instead of an opportunity." It just feels so fake to imagine someone only giving you the time of day because you're using each other as an escape from real life, or because you're paying for their "services:" aka time, attention and affection. Yet somehow, it's clearly desired and normalized enough for this kind of thing to be so popular. I get not everybody feels/thinks the same way, especially coming from different cultures, but I can't imagine why people would want that.... to me it feels cheap, robotic and isolating.
@@natkim3905 I respect and sort of understand your opinion, but I think the idea of sex is very romanticized and idealized in all society and this leads to a lot of problems and creates some sort of barrier and expectation around it. When I was younger I used to have this mindset, but as I got older and had more experience I really understood that sex can be something very ordinary and mundane, and at the same time, this can be freeing. And after understanding that, I can perfectly understand how it is possible to pay for sex and how this can be an enjoyment. And yes, I have paid a lot for sex (it is legal where I live) and there's not much out of the ordinary about this.
"mothers giving pills to their daughters to stop their periods and increase their concentration on study"... (Future) Mothers in law do always makes life troublesome for their daughters (future) husbands...
The pill-pushing problem is just atrocious!!! The demands that the parents are making of their daughters are causing permanent emotional, and now, PHYSICAL damage!! Instead of securing their futures, those parents are destroying them! 😢
Don't people ever get tired of talking and joking about sex? Healthier bonds between people are definitely needed. This world is so over saturated with sex as a product, it's not even funny. I hope things improve on a larger scale eventually.
A wise man once said: "If you're not thinking about p*ssy, you're just not concentrating". So, in answer too your question, I hope people never get tired of talking and joking about sex, it is the most important thing to the existence of our species.
Being asexual is not the norm. Sex is normal and needs to be looked at as a healthy way of connecting responsibly. Doing what you say is way Japan and other places are dropping in sex and reproduction.
Its not about being asexual though; people joke and talk about sex as a commodity to be had even in the west to the point that people rather have it casually than as a serious bond as usagiroxie said which only leads to less people having children and more people doing one night stand, prostitutes, etc. Forming a bond beyond that is how people get married and stabilized into the mindset of wanting to have kids. @@TsunaTakahiro
I don’t understand why Japan stresses over studying and working obscene hours when both are literally killing their future. If they keep this up, Japan will no longer be Japan but become totally occupied by Korea or China. I’d say that by 2100, there will be no 100% Japanese people left. I wonder if this is another form of climate change?
lol, the number of Koreans is pluming WAY FASTER than Japan, they have 0.78 kids per woman while japan has 1.33, there are many schools closing down in there because of the lack of kids, China isn't doing that well either, it's doing worse than Japan as well as it sits at 1,28 per woman, many factories are having hard time getting young people and its economic boom is stopping because of that. Even my country which used to emigrate to Japan (Brazil) isn't doing that great either as we are at 1.44 ratio per woman way less than USA which is also under the recommendation, the reco is 2.1 btw.
@@canttouchthis6018 But China is still the country with the biggest population in the world, even of they do have problems in terms of demographics they still have some advantage of both Japan and South Corea...
@@robertodimarino9761 How can having more old people be an advantage? In fact China has no advantage. Japanese and Koreans have brothers, sisters, uncles aunts cousins. Chinese don't because of 1 child policy till 2015 which means China is aging the fastest. Much faster than Japan and Korea.
Recently, politicians are trying to forbid puberty blockers to be prescribed to adolescents in Canada. As expected, pussy prime minister Justin Trudeau is against this ban.
I have heard that Japan has a lot of issues with sexuality these days, and have thought about getting on here and trying to help with that eventually. (わたしはにほんごをほたんどはなせません) Some of the things you brought up surprised me, like the birth control issue. One thing I will point out is often in the west when women end up with pain it's an arousal (lubrication) issue. The vagina is made of muscle and can be stretched to acclimate to larger sizes.(I have seen it done) That wouldn't fix the eventual issue of smaller pelvis size, though.
Before I had actual intercourse. Even a finger gave me such anxiety I would scream in pain from it. It was all my anxiety. After I did it a few more times though I just wanted it more and more.. this was back in 2012.. Vaginismus as well can cause women to not enjoy sex as that can be painful and is different from what I experienced which is high levels of anxiety causing painful levels of stress that isn’t at all physical but it feels very real . I really enjoy it when my partner is railing me hard now. And I’m sure YT will no doubt be taking this comment down because of the words here. 😅❤ gotta love censorship, right Pixiv? Gosh I’m angry about that
If you said to me when I was young, my father's generation and any generation before: If you told them: In the 21st century, young men between 17 and 27 will have just one big big obsessive thing on their minds and they will be doing it (or trying to) every moment of the day - click buttons at a desk for hours and hours, clicking at pixels and screen colors all night long! That would sound utterly insane to them. They would not grasp how that's possible, they would say 'Then pack a bag and go flee to the forests because that would be a bizarre end of the world!. Yet, here we are. Men, 17 to 27 cannot wait to get home so they can finger buttons and clickety-click cartoons on a screen for hours and hours. To any other earlier people on earth that would sound utterly mad, insane, a perversion of life itself.
@@mainstreetsaint36 Nope, I don't hate video games. Sometimes I really enjoy playing one. Now what? Now what are you going to do as a psychological defense mechanism?
Society has become a perversion of life itself and people seek an escape from it in any way they can. For a lot of men that escape lies in video games. It's a sad reality (brought about at least partially by the boomer generation)
I always thought that sex is one of the most pleasant and interesting things to do while you are young. How unusual it is for me to hear that somewhere they think differently.
I was just in Japan for 3 months. My chinko barely worked. There's something about the feng shui or something that just kills libido. I'm not joking. I'm back in the tropics and now I'm fine. And I didn't even feel any sexuality from Japanese people. I wanna go back to Japan to try English teaching, but I don't know if I can handle the neudered sexuality for long. It's a weird feeling. I don't know if living in Japan is worth the money.
@3:37 Right now in america some women have stopped taking the pill because it affects their hormones and even can affect who they are attracted to, and cause future infertitlity. A japanese ex girlfriend I was seeing in college explained to me the issues that the pill would cause japanese womens bodies before it was a public discussed topic accross social media in america. So the mother's giving their daughter's the pill earlier can be harming their children unintentially. @4:31 Also that same ex I mentioned that the pill would cause her all sorts of pain so we stuck to condoms.
I think there is a stigmatisation about Korean men told to Asian girls to not marry them... South Koreans have their social crises rougher than the Japanese just to tell you.
I have a problem with the part about 'the pills'. Ethinylestradiol doesn't disrupt puberty, if anything it accelerates it. Also it's hard getting the pill in Japan, I live here and I have to resort to condoms. What would disrupt development is starving yourself, skipping meals, and dieting. Usually this is done by girls who are told to be afraid of being 'too fat' for boys. But that didn't cross anyone's minds did it?
the standard of beaty here when it comes to weight is *insane*, even still being *underweight* people will think someone is fat. It's basically the antithesis of America over here.
Starvation (low BMI specifically) is a significant factor too...fat is a primary storage center for estrogen. However, I think you have a misconception of the nature of female hormones. They aren't as linear as male hormones. Typically, women have higher levels during our peak reproductive years (25-35 years old)...and it's a dynamic balance of progesterone and 3 types of estrogen that changes daily and varies with each woman's body. (many brands of pills contain a large proportion of progesterone (or similar chemical) For an average adolescent girl, it _"generally"_ takes about 5 years for periods to normalize. This correlates to the low hormone levels at that age...particularly progesterone, which acts as a counter balance, that "finalizes" puberty It's like you're baking a cake ...stage 1...oven for 30 minutes...stage 2...decorate it and serve it. When the body detects a high level of progesterone...that cake's coming out of the oven, ready or not. That's why doctor's recommend waiting a little while for periods to start to stabilize before taking the pill Also there's a limit as to how much estrogen the body can process. There's a finite number of receptors. The excess estrogen is converted into other hormones. Honestly I'm not 100% sure how estrogen receptors work, but I've seen photos of receptors being diminished when exposed to progestin, a byproduct of progesterone. ...so that can't be good for the early stages of puberty either Also (my theory), a body's normal growth is separate than the effects of puberty. Development takes a lot of calories, so it doesn't like to multitask. Ever wonder why males are proportionately 10-15% larger? I think it's because they start puberty a little later than females...a.k.a. their bodies focus on non-puberty development longer than females. With the introduction of high levels of estradiol/progesterone early on, that curtails development even further ...again, just a theory _(I'm not a doctor. ...just a hypochondriac who's trying to learn a few things to persuade herself to be less self-critical)_
@@feral_shade Add Leptin to your model. It is a hormone produced by adipose tissue (fat), it regulates many aspects of metabolism and it also directly influences the onset of puberty. Overweight children, specially girls, have higher rates of early puberty onset because of this hormone.
@@Funkensturme that factor fits in well, thank you ...if I'm inferring this correctly (and there's a good chance that I may not be), early onset puberty from the excessive Leptin may counteract the premature finalization of reproductive development (and complications later on) by restoring (at least partially) a healthy timeline for puberty. Though, the decreased window for prepubertal development still seems like a much greater systemic health risk. (If I'm wrong about any of this, you can just say it...I don't mind being wrong. 😂 I'm great at theorizing but I don't have the academic background to support my conclusions as confidently as I'd like, lol)
We always think of Japan as the pinnacle of technological achievement, a real futuristic society, because of how organized and efficient they are (and because of Mecha anime) Unfortunately, it seems like their problems are also 'futuristic'. Men not wanting to have sex because they're distracted by video games, genitals shrinking from generation to generation. This all sounds like it's from a dystopian sci-fi story :( I hope they will find solutions to these problems ASAP
@@feral_shade Yeah sad to know they are about to be gone from future world demographics. What's worse are South Koreans and other countries like Europe and other Asian countries.
@@AngryBird000 I wouldn't say it's that dramatic. Japan's endured a vast number of environmental and societal disasters for thousands of years (since 800 BC, or 14,000 BC, depending on your perspective) Their current tribulations are substantial, but they'll adapt as they always have 😉
@@feral_shade Let's hope they, the big companies and the government do something that encourages family making ASAP. My concerns are that the majority of people are so both spiritually and mentally dead that they struggle to change themselves; we can take the generations of shut-ins who are addicted to the virtual world and disconnected from reality as an example. These past disasters were over because all organisms have that undying resolve for survival and procreation but it looks like society had changed way beyond these needs..., that's what I'm talking about. Either they need a rehabilitation program to reeducate and give them a "second chance" confidence to make a better Japan or take the "easy way" of pushing some copemaxxing AI robot companions and instead make children through unnatural means...
@@AngryBird000 again, I'm not sure the situation is that dire.. In November 2022, a government study found that 98.8% of Japanese were NOT hikikomori. 4 months later, an independent report corroborated that about 98% of Japanese age 15-64 are not hikikomori. In 2023, Japan had a population of about 123,719,238 ... babies born that year: about 853,661 ... deaths that year: about 1,447,512 ... a difference of -593,661 people That sounds substantial if you ONLY compare the birth and death rates ... or if you ONLY look at the net loss but keep in mind, it's a very small number compared to the total population ... the population growth rate is -0.41% That's practically zero. Which is great especially on an island (limited space) This ranks Japan at 218 (out of 236)... (US is 130) ... but it it's good to be low on that list ... global overpopulation is a much greater issue than a lot of people realize (finite resources) ... and Japan having a relatively consistent population is quite ideal (There are occasional hiccups.... Yes, the average age for mothers having a first child is about 30... With about 1.4 children per family but there just isn't any indication that this will worsen over centuries or cause an immediate disaster) Btw, as a shut-in in the US, I'm touched and grateful that you care about our well being (in any country life for us truly is a struggle)
sex is only not considered evil or should be prohibited even after marriage is that it serves a practical purporse of reproduction which people tend to accept it as a necessary means, hence allowing it
damn i'm single and always had a thing for asian guys, too bad the situation on my end isn't as much of a "perk," lol... unless this means there's a lot more lonely big bananas out there XD...
Oh my god! I use this one! Just recently I bought,,,why? www.yodobashi.com/product/100000001008245856/?gad1=&gad2=x&gad3=&gad4=&gad5=9732602764035147957&gad6=&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA8sauBhB3EiwAruTRJpQLDqV9qUUxms5i4_k0OewhBbdztGXQdaEnPfyMKV_IgDxfvZ-_VhoCEcUQAvD_BwE&xfr=pla
Using the pill to control/delay the period happens a lot in the west too, though usually girls only are allowed to get them from when they're 16 to 18 years old
@@Funkensturme Yeah those should definitely be banned. Though I'm also for banning hormonal anticonception entirely. They're completely awful for women
@@thewallsspeaktome3507 I don't agree with banning hormonal contraception for adults. Even if there are negative aspects to it, an adult should have complete freedom to decide that.
The "hole" have enough elasticity, so it's size really correlates with the amount of "use". Less use = smaller hole. Meanwhile, western women have the opposite problem with their "holes"...
Not true. Sorry mate. If that were the case, no women would have sex after giving birth. The pelvic floor is a muscle, if women don't do keels they end up with problems with strength, continence and elasticity. I've seen seen the results e.g. excessive vaginally tightness to the point of pain, or the opposite problem with urinary incontinence as a result. Vaginas aren't worn out over time any more than penises. They just get old like every other part of the human body. You don't use or exercise it,you lose it. (not just through sex, but active physiotherapy to be 100% clear.)
So basically if the Men there get introduced to Women from other countries, maybe that would open them up to doing it more often because it would be more fun. Ive been saying Japan needs a mass import of people who already have learned to speak Japanese but are from outside the country.
I don't buy that about the pill; I began on the pill when I was 15 and have certainly had my fair amount of great sex. However, if you are told that sex is evil, then you are bound to get all tense when having sex...and yeah, a tense vagina will always makes sex feel painful.
Well nowadays not only Japan the whole world is facing this problem (the game is more interesting than real life activities thing). But, giving pills to their daughters that might be Japan exclusive I never heard anything like that in other countries. Then again I don't know much about this topic. So I am not so sure.
I read something recently that due to the rise of C-sections, women's birth canals in many developed countries (even the US) are shrinking, causing the procedure to then become even *more* necessary... before C-sections, though, there were a lot higher rates of female deaths during childbirth :( human biology makes no sense sometimes.
Okay, this video is funny, but the comments section is... Is very youtube. This video is comedy, and not a reflection of how women's bodies work irl. The pelvic floor is a muscle. Vaginismus, or excessive vaginal tightening, is a medical condition. It's not "just" tighter holes. It's a symptom of anxiety. Could we have a laugh at this sort of thing, but not be weird about japanese women? Please remember japanese women are people and not a monolith, and deserve to be discussed with respect and compassion. EDIT: omg, thanks Mr. Meshida! 😊 🎉
Also, some comments here are serious and intelligent, despite this being a comedy channel. Good and intelligent comedy, like Meshida's, promote intelligent debates.
I'm asexual too, but that doesn't give parents the right to intervene with nature by harming their children This is almost as bad as the forced castration that some cultures practice!
@@feral_shade Oh, yeah, for sure. People below 20 shouldn't take such meds in Japan. That will also solve their population decline by having a generation of teenage parents due to meds ban, lmao.
@@feral_shade@feral_shade Teenagers definitely shouldn't take such meds until the right age (In Japan, that's 20). This can also fix their population problem by causing a whole generation of teenage parents, lol.
@@pumpkingamebox maybe...it wasn't too long ago that teenagers were considered adults, lol 🤷♀️ ...and I'm not too sure how common it is anymore...but I used to hear that Japanese homes were multi-generational ...in which parents and even grandparents lived with their grown children. If this is still a thing, then teen mothers wouldn't necessary have to struggle as they do in the west. Then again....many parents over there can tyrannical...and not a lot of extra stuff can fit into the "5 year plan" for their kids... especially something as deviating as childcare 🤷♀️
@@feral_shade Family support or not, being a mom outside wedlock is a serious social issue in Japan. We can’t forget how much they care for appearances. Maybe some parent will disown their children and if not outright throw them out, or will make their homes a real hostile living space. The further they live outside bigger cities, the more common the conservative prejudice becomes. But I’m no expert. Idk about teenagers being considered adults. In Italy you live with your parents until you’re 35, lmao. Culture differences. And I’d even say that some 50 year olds behave more often like children than adults. But that’s a different topic.
Sometimes I think we humans should somehow get rid of sex. I mean, just look what trouble it causes! Yeah it's quite funny while you're horny but it always just leads to trouble. Especially relating to long term relationships and social behaviour rules.
Our species has some 300.000 years and sex was always a present and necessary thing during all this time and it always will be. Sex is not the problem. The culture surrounding sex and people who adopt this cultural influence are the problem. I specifically refer to conservatism, religious thinking and idealism surrounding sex as the real cause. If you challenge this culture you will understand that sex is not the problem.
Poor sexpless folksies! I feel the sorrow! Thank you wondrous Meshida for being so depanda-ble with your precious informations! By the way, you talked about people feeling guiltea. I'd love to feel that kind of tea in my mouth. Is it a brand of gyokuro or sencha? Thanks a bunch, I enjoy your videos!
Society norms & silly beauty standards are doing more harm then good. Those "Pills" should be strictly regulated it seems determently to there health & Japanese population to.
It’s really cruel how mothers give such pills to their daughters , exams are not more important than health , it sounds like child abuse. Where is the feminist movement when there is a real problem which really affects to women life.
The first Godzilla must have. He died at the end of the movie. Then a different Godzilla popped up in the sequel. So the first one must have had a Mrs. Godzilla. Of course, later, the second one had a cute son, too. Maybe incest was involved?
@@garryferrington811 I think it was a great mistake. They never thought Godzilla would get as Big as he did. They didn’t think they were going to make tons of Godzilla movies!
Godzilla is a lizard. Some lizard species are capable of parthenogenesis, meaning if they are female they can procreate without males, so Godzilla might really not need a male.
Thanks as always for putting things in perspective...I can be grateful I have lived to be a dirty old man living in Hawaii in a Buddhist temple with at least fond memories LOL 😅
Despite majority of men being hetero (-sexual/-romantic), I think the worst thing that a male can do towards opposite gender is to have desires to women that go beyond the boundary of friendship, i.e. being straight. Approaching females will no doubt disrupt them from business they had before some male come close and started speaking. Nothing good comes out of being straight for the majority of people of both genders, it'll just take the most valuable thing - the time. Surely loosing attraction to any gender will badly affect firtility rate, making it smaller than even now, but overall crime rate will significantly decrease, happiness, due to peaceful life without anybody constantly approaching and seeing as only a mean to fulfill desires, among females will also increase.
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Thats an interesting bit of information, so if these young women are "tight" how come so many of them are working the night trade - Japan's an amazing contradictory country, looking forward in coming back this year.
Okay so having sex with your partner is evil, but doing it with a prostitute, hostess, etc is not. Got it👍
It's a service provided by a professional
So degenerate 😏
Yeah... I was speaking with a friend who lived there for 2 years and talking to them about how I've learned/read/heard for years that their sexuality is declining/still systematically oppressed in the day-to-day, yet seems rampantly capitalized (crazy fetish stuff everywhere) in a way that screams it. They disagreed with me, saying that Japanese are plenty "active," but I mean... they also worked at an L-hotel for a bit. They also said that the reason behind all these venues is because there isn't a lot of space or privacy in the homes, which makes sense. Still, it feels superficial and I ended our last convo commenting, "you know, I think it's just sad that something so basic as intimacy, which is supposed to be shared between two people at their most vulnerable, gets commercialized... to me that feels like a privacy *intrusion* instead of an opportunity." It just feels so fake to imagine someone only giving you the time of day because you're using each other as an escape from real life, or because you're paying for their "services:" aka time, attention and affection. Yet somehow, it's clearly desired and normalized enough for this kind of thing to be so popular. I get not everybody feels/thinks the same way, especially coming from different cultures, but I can't imagine why people would want that.... to me it feels cheap, robotic and isolating.
@@natkim3905 I respect and sort of understand your opinion, but I think the idea of sex is very romanticized and idealized in all society and this leads to a lot of problems and creates some sort of barrier and expectation around it. When I was younger I used to have this mindset, but as I got older and had more experience I really understood that sex can be something very ordinary and mundane, and at the same time, this can be freeing.
And after understanding that, I can perfectly understand how it is possible to pay for sex and how this can be an enjoyment. And yes, I have paid a lot for sex (it is legal where I live) and there's not much out of the ordinary about this.
hahaha Thats a good observation
"mothers giving pills to their daughters to stop their periods and increase their concentration on study"...
(Future) Mothers in law do always makes life troublesome for their daughters (future) husbands...
In other words, it's another reason for Japan's plunging birthrate.
These mothers should be prosecutes because that is insane and immoral.
The pill-pushing problem is just atrocious!!!
The demands that the parents are making of their daughters are causing permanent emotional, and now, PHYSICAL damage!!
Instead of securing their futures, those parents are destroying them! 😢
It’s probably one of the many reason why Japanese people are declining in high numbers.
Don't people ever get tired of talking and joking about sex? Healthier bonds between people are definitely needed. This world is so over saturated with sex as a product, it's not even funny. I hope things improve on a larger scale eventually.
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A wise man once said: "If you're not thinking about p*ssy, you're just not concentrating". So, in answer too your question, I hope people never get tired of talking and joking about sex, it is the most important thing to the existence of our species.
Being asexual is not the norm. Sex is normal and needs to be looked at as a healthy way of connecting responsibly. Doing what you say is way Japan and other places are dropping in sex and reproduction.
Its not about being asexual though; people joke and talk about sex as a commodity to be had even in the west to the point that people rather have it casually than as a serious bond as usagiroxie said which only leads to less people having children and more people doing one night stand, prostitutes, etc. Forming a bond beyond that is how people get married and stabilized into the mindset of wanting to have kids. @@TsunaTakahiro
I don’t understand why Japan stresses over studying and working obscene hours when both are literally killing their future. If they keep this up, Japan will no longer be Japan but become totally occupied by Korea or China. I’d say that by 2100, there will be no 100% Japanese people left. I wonder if this is another form of climate change?
not Korea lol, they have more severe population issue than Japan. And China probably will have more trouble with Taiwan
You don’t understand the most important thing - they are paid very little in comparison to other countries.
lol, the number of Koreans is pluming WAY FASTER than Japan, they have 0.78 kids per woman while japan has 1.33, there are many schools closing down in there because of the lack of kids, China isn't doing that well either, it's doing worse than Japan as well as it sits at 1,28 per woman, many factories are having hard time getting young people and its economic boom is stopping because of that.
Even my country which used to emigrate to Japan (Brazil) isn't doing that great either as we are at 1.44 ratio per woman way less than USA which is also under the recommendation, the reco is 2.1 btw.
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But China is still the country with the biggest population in the world, even of they do have problems in terms of demographics they still have some advantage of both Japan and South Corea...
@@robertodimarino9761 How can having more old people be an advantage? In fact China has no advantage. Japanese and Koreans have brothers, sisters, uncles aunts cousins. Chinese don't because of 1 child policy till 2015 which means China is aging the fastest. Much faster than Japan and Korea.
wow didn't know about the pill. thanks for the video
3:20 This genuinely makes me mad. YOU DON'T MESS WITH A DEVELOPING BODY DURING PUBERTY!
Well, let’s NOT talk about that other “treatment” with side effects.
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I have heard that Japan has a lot of issues with sexuality these days, and have thought about getting on here and trying to help with that eventually. (わたしはにほんごをほたんどはなせません) Some of the things you brought up surprised me, like the birth control issue. One thing I will point out is often in the west when women end up with pain it's an arousal (lubrication) issue. The vagina is made of muscle and can be stretched to acclimate to larger sizes.(I have seen it done) That wouldn't fix the eventual issue of smaller pelvis size, though.
I think it also has to do with stress and the chemicals in food. Also, the increase in estrogen in men makes them have less of a drive.
Before I had actual intercourse. Even a finger gave me such anxiety I would scream in pain from it. It was all my anxiety. After I did it a few more times though I just wanted it more and more.. this was back in 2012..
Vaginismus as well can cause women to not enjoy sex as that can be painful and is different from what I experienced which is high levels of anxiety causing painful levels of stress that isn’t at all physical but it feels very real . I really enjoy it when my partner is railing me hard now. And I’m sure YT will no doubt be taking this comment down because of the words here. 😅❤ gotta love censorship, right Pixiv? Gosh I’m angry about that
@daRich_X I feel lucky to be able to 'like' both of your comments before they get taken down.
Your Sora profile pic perfectly fits what I imagined when reading your comment 😂
@@LivingGuy484 420 blaze it
Not only Japan. Its the 4th wave feminist movement.
Leftists hate this theory, but the more feminism spreads, the lower the birth rate.
Incels be like “iTs FeMiNisTs FaUlT i CaN’t GeT lAiD!”
Facts my guy
Yes it's worldwide issue now
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I suppose virtual girlfriends will only make Japanese men more passive. He can have the girlfriend experience and play videogames.
They'll rush the development of A.I. girlfriends so we can have the relationship with none of the responsibilities.
And if that robotic girlfriend can play video games with him, its a wrap
For some men they're the only option 🤷🏻♂️
If you said to me when I was young, my father's generation and any generation before: If you told them:
In the 21st century, young men between 17 and 27 will have just one big big obsessive thing on their minds and they will be doing it (or trying to) every moment of the day - click buttons at a desk for hours and hours, clicking at pixels and screen colors all night long!
That would sound utterly insane to them. They would not grasp how that's possible, they would say 'Then pack a bag and go flee to the forests because that would be a bizarre end of the world!.
Yet, here we are.
Men, 17 to 27 cannot wait to get home so they can finger buttons and clickety-click cartoons on a screen for hours and hours.
To any other earlier people on earth that would sound utterly mad, insane, a perversion of life itself.
Just say you hate video games and quit beating around the bush.
@@mainstreetsaint36 Nope, I don't hate video games. Sometimes I really enjoy playing one.
Now what?
Now what are you going to do as a psychological defense mechanism?
@@topsuperseven7910I bet you smell like egg
Society has become a perversion of life itself and people seek an escape from it in any way they can. For a lot of men that escape lies in video games. It's a sad reality (brought about at least partially by the boomer generation)
@@topsuperseven7910 you thought I was going to launch a defense. But no, it was me, Dio!
I always thought that sex is one of the most pleasant and interesting things to do while you are young. How unusual it is for me to hear that somewhere they think differently.
Fourth wave feminism has ruined the joy of sex. Oh and dildos.
I was just in Japan for 3 months. My chinko barely worked. There's something about the feng shui or something that just kills libido. I'm not joking. I'm back in the tropics and now I'm fine. And I didn't even feel any sexuality from Japanese people. I wanna go back to Japan to try English teaching, but I don't know if I can handle the neudered sexuality for long. It's a weird feeling. I don't know if living in Japan is worth the money.
Like i said...nature balancing does exist😂 finally my time as 4-incher will shine😝🤣
Meshida-san, thank you again for another amusing video👌🙋♂️😁😷🇯🇵👍👍🇯🇵👍
Dude that pill thing is crazy. That shit needs to be banned throughout the world!
@3:37 Right now in america some women have stopped taking the pill because it affects their hormones and even can affect who they are attracted to, and cause future infertitlity. A japanese ex girlfriend I was seeing in college explained to me the issues that the pill would cause japanese womens bodies before it was a public discussed topic accross social media in america. So the mother's giving their daughter's the pill earlier can be harming their children unintentially. @4:31 Also that same ex I mentioned that the pill would cause her all sorts of pain so we stuck to condoms.
On average, Korean men have the smallest p size so I guess we could see a lot of half Korean/half Japanese couples in the future
I think there is a stigmatisation about Korean men told to Asian girls to not marry them... South Koreans have their social crises rougher than the Japanese just to tell you.
They’re missing the best pleasant gift of life
I have a problem with the part about 'the pills'.
Ethinylestradiol doesn't disrupt puberty, if anything it accelerates it. Also it's hard getting the pill in Japan, I live here and I have to resort to condoms. What would disrupt development is starving yourself, skipping meals, and dieting. Usually this is done by girls who are told to be afraid of being 'too fat' for boys.
But that didn't cross anyone's minds did it?
the standard of beaty here when it comes to weight is *insane*, even still being *underweight* people will think someone is fat. It's basically the antithesis of America over here.
Yeah I need some sources cited.
Starvation (low BMI specifically) is a significant factor too...fat is a primary storage center for estrogen.
However, I think you have a misconception of the nature of female hormones. They aren't as linear as male hormones.
Typically, women have higher levels during our peak reproductive years (25-35 years old)...and it's a dynamic balance of progesterone and 3 types of estrogen that changes daily and varies with each woman's body.
(many brands of pills contain a large proportion of progesterone (or similar chemical)
For an average adolescent girl, it _"generally"_ takes about 5 years for periods to normalize. This correlates to the low hormone levels at that age...particularly progesterone, which acts as a counter balance, that "finalizes" puberty
It's like you're baking a cake ...stage 1...oven for 30 minutes...stage 2...decorate it and serve it.
When the body detects a high level of progesterone...that cake's coming out of the oven, ready or not.
That's why doctor's recommend waiting a little while for periods to start to stabilize before taking the pill
Also there's a limit as to how much estrogen the body can process. There's a finite number of receptors. The excess estrogen is converted into other hormones. Honestly I'm not 100% sure how estrogen receptors work, but I've seen photos of receptors being diminished when exposed to progestin, a byproduct of progesterone.
...so that can't be good for the early stages of puberty either
Also (my theory), a body's normal growth is separate than the effects of puberty. Development takes a lot of calories, so it doesn't like to multitask.
Ever wonder why males are proportionately 10-15% larger?
I think it's because they start puberty a little later than females...a.k.a. their bodies focus on non-puberty development longer than females.
With the introduction of high levels of estradiol/progesterone early on, that curtails development even further
...again, just a theory
_(I'm not a doctor. ...just a hypochondriac who's trying to learn a few things to persuade herself to be less self-critical)_
@@feral_shade Add Leptin to your model. It is a hormone produced by adipose tissue (fat), it regulates many aspects of metabolism and it also directly influences the onset of puberty. Overweight children, specially girls, have higher rates of early puberty onset because of this hormone.
@@Funkensturme that factor fits in well, thank you
...if I'm inferring this correctly (and there's a good chance that I may not be), early onset puberty from the excessive Leptin may counteract the premature finalization of reproductive development (and complications later on) by restoring (at least partially) a healthy timeline for puberty.
Though, the decreased window for prepubertal development still seems like a much greater systemic health risk.
(If I'm wrong about any of this, you can just say it...I don't mind being wrong. 😂 I'm great at theorizing but I don't have the academic background to support my conclusions as confidently as I'd like, lol)
Love your stuff! Looking forward to returning to Japan and enjoying fun times again! Seems like more fun opportunities now than 10 years ago! 😀💘❤
Thanks
We always think of Japan as the pinnacle of technological achievement, a real futuristic society, because of how organized and efficient they are (and because of Mecha anime)
Unfortunately, it seems like their problems are also 'futuristic'.
Men not wanting to have sex because they're distracted by video games, genitals shrinking from generation to generation.
This all sounds like it's from a dystopian sci-fi story :(
I hope they will find solutions to these problems ASAP
When it comes to social issues, "hope" very rarely accomplishes anything
@@feral_shade Yeah sad to know they are about to be gone from future world demographics. What's worse are South Koreans and other countries like Europe and other Asian countries.
@@AngryBird000 I wouldn't say it's that dramatic.
Japan's endured a vast number of environmental and societal disasters for thousands of years (since 800 BC, or 14,000 BC, depending on your perspective)
Their current tribulations are substantial, but they'll adapt as they always have 😉
@@feral_shade Let's hope they, the big companies and the government do something that encourages family making ASAP.
My concerns are that the majority of people are so both spiritually and mentally dead that they struggle to change themselves; we can take the generations of shut-ins who are addicted to the virtual world and disconnected from reality as an example.
These past disasters were over because all organisms have that undying resolve for survival and procreation but it looks like society had changed way beyond these needs..., that's what I'm talking about.
Either they need a rehabilitation program to reeducate and give them a "second chance" confidence to make a better Japan or take the "easy way" of pushing some copemaxxing AI robot companions and instead make children through unnatural means...
@@AngryBird000 again, I'm not sure the situation is that dire..
In November 2022, a government study found that 98.8% of Japanese were NOT hikikomori.
4 months later, an independent report corroborated that about 98% of Japanese age 15-64 are not hikikomori.
In 2023, Japan had a population of about 123,719,238
... babies born that year: about 853,661
... deaths that year: about 1,447,512
... a difference of -593,661 people
That sounds substantial if you ONLY compare the birth and death rates ... or if you ONLY look at the net loss
but keep in mind, it's a very small number compared to the total population
... the population growth rate is -0.41%
That's practically zero. Which is great especially on an island (limited space)
This ranks Japan at 218 (out of 236)... (US is 130)
... but it it's good to be low on that list
... global overpopulation is a much greater issue than a lot of people realize (finite resources)
... and Japan having a relatively consistent population is quite ideal
(There are occasional hiccups.... Yes, the average age for mothers having a first child is about 30... With about 1.4 children per family but there just isn't any indication that this will worsen over centuries or cause an immediate disaster)
Btw, as a shut-in in the US, I'm touched and grateful that you care about our well being (in any country life for us truly is a struggle)
sex is only not considered evil or should be prohibited even after marriage is that it serves a practical purporse of reproduction which people tend to accept it as a necessary means, hence allowing it
Thank you Mechida for funny and true Japanese culture. Im going to your show in April 😊.
Nevada , USA!
Oh man and I thought that I wanted a Japanese girlfriend before. I need a airplane ticket to Japan
damn i'm single and always had a thing for asian guys, too bad the situation on my end isn't as much of a "perk," lol... unless this means there's a lot more lonely big bananas out there XD...
That amount of sound distortion is really bad as a headphone user.
Oh my god! I use this one! Just recently I bought,,,why?
www.yodobashi.com/product/100000001008245856/?gad1=&gad2=x&gad3=&gad4=&gad5=9732602764035147957&gad6=&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA8sauBhB3EiwAruTRJpQLDqV9qUUxms5i4_k0OewhBbdztGXQdaEnPfyMKV_IgDxfvZ-_VhoCEcUQAvD_BwE&xfr=pla
Using the pill to control/delay the period happens a lot in the west too, though usually girls only are allowed to get them from when they're 16 to 18 years old
@daRich_X No, it means the western world. US and western Europe.
There's a current debate in Canada about the ban of puberty blockers to minors. As expected, Justin Trudeau is against such ban.
@@Funkensturme Yeah those should definitely be banned. Though I'm also for banning hormonal anticonception entirely. They're completely awful for women
@@thewallsspeaktome3507 I don't agree with banning hormonal contraception for adults. Even if there are negative aspects to it, an adult should have complete freedom to decide that.
@@Funkensturme Wrong. I'm fine with people using contraception but hormonal contraception destroys women.
3:31 Didn't even know that was a thing.
5:54 Was not expecting that dig into this man! XD
The "hole" have enough elasticity, so it's size really correlates with the amount of "use". Less use = smaller hole. Meanwhile, western women have the opposite problem with their "holes"...
Not true. Sorry mate. If that were the case, no women would have sex after giving birth. The pelvic floor is a muscle, if women don't do keels they end up with problems with strength, continence and elasticity. I've seen seen the results e.g. excessive vaginally tightness to the point of pain, or the opposite problem with urinary incontinence as a result.
Vaginas aren't worn out over time any more than penises. They just get old like every other part of the human body.
You don't use or exercise it,you lose it. (not just through sex, but active physiotherapy to be 100% clear.)
So basically if the Men there get introduced to Women from other countries, maybe that would open them up to doing it more often because it would be more fun. Ive been saying Japan needs a mass import of people who already have learned to speak Japanese but are from outside the country.
I don't buy that about the pill; I began on the pill when I was 15 and have certainly had my fair amount of great sex. However, if you are told that sex is evil, then you are bound to get all tense when having sex...and yeah, a tense vagina will always makes sex feel painful.
Well nowadays not only Japan the whole world is facing this problem (the game is more interesting than real life activities thing). But, giving pills to their daughters that might be Japan exclusive I never heard anything like that in other countries. Then again I don't know much about this topic. So I am not so sure.
This sounds like a lie. If women can’t handle a full banana, then how can they have a baby?
C section or don't have kids at all.
Dilation is a mysterious thing
I read something recently that due to the rise of C-sections, women's birth canals in many developed countries (even the US) are shrinking, causing the procedure to then become even *more* necessary... before C-sections, though, there were a lot higher rates of female deaths during childbirth :( human biology makes no sense sometimes.
Wow. That's rough bro. For everyone in Japan. Good luck over there!!!
Okay, this video is funny, but the comments section is... Is very youtube. This video is comedy, and not a reflection of how women's bodies work irl.
The pelvic floor is a muscle. Vaginismus, or excessive vaginal tightening, is a medical condition. It's not "just" tighter holes. It's a symptom of anxiety.
Could we have a laugh at this sort of thing, but not be weird about japanese women? Please remember japanese women are people and not a monolith, and deserve to be discussed with respect and compassion.
EDIT: omg, thanks Mr. Meshida! 😊 🎉
Don't get so excited, Meshida's intern likes all parent comments here.
Also, some comments here are serious and intelligent, despite this being a comedy channel. Good and intelligent comedy, like Meshida's, promote intelligent debates.
Weight diversity? You mean 75% of our adult population being overweight or obese? Hmmmm...
My wife proves everything you’ve been saying Meshida 🤦🏾♂️ I wish I could’ve seen your videos years earlier!
Why?
Great video, I found it interesting. You're last joke about mens poles shrinking to accommodate woman's small holes made me laugh 😂🤣🎉
very informative, thank you.
Thanx, Professor Meshida
I thought Japan was better than to use medicine on their own kids for to get ahead, really bad move Japan.
Meshida san. Do you have an updated location for your show on the 3rd of March please?
2:28 "From now on, in Japan, men with small bananas will be women's saviors" Finally it is your time to shine, Indian men!
The fourth reason kind of explains it all 😅😅
Meshida's mere facial expressions make me laugh
As an asexual weeb, I see this as an absolute win.
I'm asexual too, but that doesn't give parents the right to intervene with nature by harming their children
This is almost as bad as the forced castration that some cultures practice!
@@feral_shade Oh, yeah, for sure. People below 20 shouldn't take such meds in Japan. That will also solve their population decline by having a generation of teenage parents due to meds ban, lmao.
@@feral_shade@feral_shade Teenagers definitely shouldn't take such meds until the right age (In Japan, that's 20).
This can also fix their population problem by causing a whole generation of teenage parents, lol.
@@pumpkingamebox maybe...it wasn't too long ago that teenagers were considered adults, lol 🤷♀️
...and I'm not too sure how common it is anymore...but I used to hear that Japanese homes were multi-generational ...in which parents and even grandparents lived with their grown children.
If this is still a thing, then teen mothers wouldn't necessary have to struggle as they do in the west.
Then again....many parents over there can tyrannical...and not a lot of extra stuff can fit into the "5 year plan" for their kids... especially something as deviating as childcare 🤷♀️
@@feral_shade Family support or not, being a mom outside wedlock is a serious social issue in Japan. We can’t forget how much they care for appearances. Maybe some parent will disown their children and if not outright throw them out, or will make their homes a real hostile living space. The further they live outside bigger cities, the more common the conservative prejudice becomes.
But I’m no expert.
Idk about teenagers being considered adults. In Italy you live with your parents until you’re 35, lmao. Culture differences. And I’d even say that some 50 year olds behave more often like children than adults. But that’s a different topic.
勉強になりました😂
Ok, we can be friends now. whats your contact info?
Ok, we can be friends now. What your contact info?
Meshida-San, are you saying that Ken-sans shyness is caused by the size of his banana?
If that's the case wouldn't that make natural child birth dangerous too?
Sometimes I think we humans should somehow get rid of sex. I mean, just look what trouble it causes! Yeah it's quite funny while you're horny but it always just leads to trouble. Especially relating to long term relationships and social behaviour rules.
Our species has some 300.000 years and sex was always a present and necessary thing during all this time and it always will be. Sex is not the problem. The culture surrounding sex and people who adopt this cultural influence are the problem. I specifically refer to conservatism, religious thinking and idealism surrounding sex as the real cause.
If you challenge this culture you will understand that sex is not the problem.
Lack of communication skills is millenial
Poor sexpless folksies! I feel the sorrow! Thank you wondrous Meshida for being so depanda-ble with your precious informations! By the way, you talked about people feeling guiltea. I'd love to feel that kind of tea in my mouth. Is it a brand of gyokuro or sencha? Thanks a bunch, I enjoy your videos!
Japanese size queen is an oxymoron.
I think this refer to the osuzume bachi hornets
Meshida-san, thanks for the interesting video, but please fix your microphone
The Catholic Church should send a study group to Japan so they can learn about Japanese Chastity Culture!.
I must have that shirt
I'mma get the ken san shirt 😂
i share your videos on FB when i can
Society norms & silly beauty standards are doing more harm then good. Those "Pills" should be strictly regulated it seems determently to there health & Japanese population to.
And during that time , the President of Tanzania asked African men to take on several wives to produce more children.
Weman has three holes. That's called redundancy.
Now that's a cool T Shirt.
Mishida i want the T-shirt I’m living here in Toshima ku Sugamo
Thanks!
Porn is one factor.
This is mostly the fault of Sex Education, since the west is incredibly bad at it.
Edit: and japan lol
Not really
It’s really cruel how mothers give such pills to their daughters , exams are not more important than health , it sounds like child abuse. Where is the feminist movement when there is a real problem which really affects to women life.
Wow. Your country is committing harakiri and you're making unfunny jokes.
Great. Keep the good job, Meshina-san.
The love hotels are still doing brisk business though....
GODZILLA doesn’t need a Woman‼️🇯🇵
The first Godzilla must have. He died at the end of the movie. Then a different Godzilla popped up in the sequel. So the first one must have had a Mrs. Godzilla. Of course, later, the second one had a cute son, too. Maybe incest was involved?
@@garryferrington811 I think it was a great mistake. They never thought Godzilla would get as Big as he did. They didn’t think they were going to make tons of Godzilla movies!
Godzilla is a lizard. Some lizard species are capable of parthenogenesis, meaning if they are female they can procreate without males, so Godzilla might really not need a male.
@@Funkensturme Godzilla has 💯 Male Energy ‼️
Yes! I’m qualified.
Awesomeness 👌....+254 Kenya 🇰🇪
🙌🏾 Good to see one here🇰🇪 "Huyu Meshida hua ananimaliza na vicheko🤣"
@@NMartin-bf7ejpia ...
wtf...this is different from anime☠️
Ever consider being on OnlyFans, Mr. Meshida?
No children sad… I miss my Japanese girlfriend.
Thanks as always for putting things in perspective...I can be grateful I have lived to be a dirty old man living in Hawaii in a Buddhist temple with at least fond memories LOL 😅
Feb. 14: chocolates
Feb. 15: bitter pills
Good one! I'll use it my punch line. Thanks!
this research is worth of nobel prize.
ban the pills
make the holes big again
What a weird problem. Too many unanticipated side effects from all of the pills these days, how many others are there?
Nonsense
So sad
my banana is too big. I think it will hurt with most asian women.
Cant image not liking it. But seems crazy
Yamete kudasai 🥺
I can't tell if this is fact or comedy
I should be OK as i have a medium sized banana 😂
> "Short king's give more pleasure now"
_Don't do that. Don't give me hope._
the smaller the better you say?
This is the dumbest research I’ve heard of.
What is the solution meshida😂 better to be a savior😂
I like nama
Super Dry? w
Tight holes, interesting... Please tell me more.
De Kline Ning じゃないよ Di Kline Ning です
🙄 Tragic
Despite majority of men being hetero (-sexual/-romantic), I think the worst thing that a male can do towards opposite gender is to have desires to women that go beyond the boundary of friendship, i.e. being straight. Approaching females will no doubt disrupt them from business they had before some male come close and started speaking. Nothing good comes out of being straight for the majority of people of both genders, it'll just take the most valuable thing - the time.
Surely loosing attraction to any gender will badly affect firtility rate, making it smaller than even now, but overall crime rate will significantly decrease, happiness, due to peaceful life without anybody constantly approaching and seeing as only a mean to fulfill desires, among females will also increase.
Women want to be approached. What women SAY they want =/= what they want
@@Wobbothe3rd Yamete kudasai!
👍👍👍
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Arigato!!!
Thats an interesting bit of information, so if these young women are "tight" how come so many of them are working the night trade - Japan's an amazing contradictory country, looking forward in coming back this year.
Money makes holes dilate. It's magic.