How not to hate | Wannasingh Prasertkul | TEDxBangkok

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  • čas přidán 14. 07. 2015
  • Hatred around the world arise from small differences that gradually turn into conflicts. As we might begin to unconsciously discriminate people with different attitudes, Prasertkul invites us to put ourselves into others' shoes and try to see the world through their eyes. From hunter tribe in Africa to the Dalai Lama to political protestor groups in Thailand, each and every individual has their own reason supporting their beliefs. This talk will help us realize that behind a few differences, human beings share greater similarities regardless to groups or parties they belong to.
    Wannasingh Prasertkul is a television host, a documentary maker, a writer, an explorer and a societal developer. His career in media industry allows him to journey around the world and learns about the difference in culture, perception and moral standard in every place he has visited.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 75

  • @gdd170
    @gdd170 Před 2 lety +15

    I really need this. There are so many people who have wronged me in some of the worst ways. I hate them so much I could just lose it. I hate a lot of things. I am so tired of it. Hate has only made me so sad.

  • @ericab9050
    @ericab9050 Před 4 lety +32

    "If you really know me and you really know yourself, you would not have killed me"

    • @zephyrr108
      @zephyrr108 Před rokem

      Not talking about you, but some people probably deserved.

  • @mrrtee
    @mrrtee Před 9 lety +47

    I'm agreed with you that why do we judge people by their race, skin, religion, or whatever.. nowadays we consume lots of information by media, news, social, etc.. but we never realize that what information is true, what information is fake, how much can we trust that information.. I would suggest to hold down your thinking and consider that information carefully by without bias

  • @Pokeymeister80
    @Pokeymeister80 Před 9 lety +44

    I think this video deserves more attention.

    • @Ernesto1317
      @Ernesto1317 Před 6 lety +1

      devlin_76 when we start thinking that way we take the path of hate. Is it not wonderfully sufficient that it is mind opening for you?

  • @rock0of0faith
    @rock0of0faith Před 9 lety +11

    wow, this should be shared virally! Such a message for the whole world to see.

  • @diegoambrosio9903
    @diegoambrosio9903 Před 5 lety +7

    Goodness is what connects people. The manner which it happens varies from place to place, time to time, culture to culture. The need for connection remains constant. Excellent talk!

  • @ogudkungo
    @ogudkungo Před 7 lety +46

    if u can't change it then understand it
    if u can't to understand it then try to accept it
    if u can't not accept it
    Ask u self what else you really can do it
    i love that part

  • @ThanantTansathian
    @ThanantTansathian Před 9 lety +4

    Thank you so much...

  • @nanok048
    @nanok048 Před 9 lety +3

    Great talks

  • @ovenci8560
    @ovenci8560 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks i rlly need this

  • @maneerattaweepongsawut4549

    Great one!

  • @Amina088
    @Amina088 Před 8 lety +10

    The whole talk was wonderful, esp the introduction and conclusion which shound very... human-like. I love humans too. But sometimes I can't accept- nor forgive what they did to me, or perhaps, to other. Anyway, I like you quote at the end of the talk. Don't say it is not your quote. I think you should be proud of such beautiful ideal. If I were to create any quote like that, I would say... "This" is my quote. :) Lastly, thank you for such an inspiring journey!

  • @mahsa9022
    @mahsa9022 Před 6 lety +1

    its really a good talk!

  • @phannathips1651
    @phannathips1651 Před 4 lety +3

    Love you Khun Singh ❤️

  • @eyuppaduppadueyuppaduppadu1112

    I love this man 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @armc.
    @armc. Před 8 lety +8

    Deep down its not the matter of hatred or not, crises or disputes happening these days are caused by the conflict of interest among people. Not every decision or action made can benefit or make everyone happy in the society. Educating general group of people is simple, but it would not halt the problem entirely. Instead, policy makers,decision makers or the one that runs or represents the society should learn to be more selfless and do more to benefit the people, or at the very least be compassionate. But still, I think making everyone happy is nearly impractical but we should at least try to be near perfect.

  • @boya_UFC
    @boya_UFC Před 6 lety +2

    very cool speech!! man

  • @guesswho5790
    @guesswho5790 Před rokem +4

    I feel like this only applies to larger scale hatred. When you oppose a certain ideology or group. But what to do about those who knew you and showed NOTHING but hate towards you? What to do about those who purposefully made things harder for you during a vulnerable time in your life?
    This conference talks about feelings of impersonal hatred. I am still lost over what to do about the need for payback and make those who hurt you at your worst feel the same pain if not more.

  • @pornyamonbrennan7248
    @pornyamonbrennan7248 Před 4 lety +6

    คลิปนี้ผ่านมา 5 ปีแล้ว เราพลาดไปได้ไงหนอ

  • @serendipitymedee7319
    @serendipitymedee7319 Před 4 lety

    ❤️ Wannasingh

  • @AudiRS6NP47
    @AudiRS6NP47 Před 4 lety +2

    Respect❤❤❤

  • @power3545
    @power3545 Před 5 lety +5

    You should teach key frame how to love other nationality

  • @takdanainaka5805
    @takdanainaka5805 Před 7 lety +8

    if you still cannot accept it .. ask yourself what else can you really do?

  • @littlebanana7372
    @littlebanana7372 Před měsícem

    i have a fear of being left alone, and people who tried to do that to me, to bully me, make me hate them so much... Now I cannot see the good in others, i dont trust anyone... It's literally killing me and I want to stop that...

  • @NiceShotStudio
    @NiceShotStudio Před 9 měsíci

    ❤ Dare To Learn

  • @pollyrockstar8652
    @pollyrockstar8652 Před 9 lety +1

    interesting viewpoint ka.

  • @supattho5717
    @supattho5717 Před 8 lety +2

    The way leading to the cessation of Hatred is loving kindness because the loving kindness is the enemy of hatred Jor bor จบ.

  • @TheNaf44
    @TheNaf44 Před 2 lety +1

    14:35 the real answer

  • @user-we2rq1ql4w
    @user-we2rq1ql4w Před 9 měsíci

    Amen

  • @tweeporntriyasutti371
    @tweeporntriyasutti371 Před 5 lety +2

    Cute.. 😍😍😍

  • @user-yh5im3nd3s
    @user-yh5im3nd3s Před 3 lety +1

    ใครมีซับไทยบ้าง

  • @Natalieandinsight
    @Natalieandinsight Před 2 lety +1

    👍thank you for this great speech!

  • @DrPiangdin
    @DrPiangdin Před 5 lety +1

    Hatred for different opinions, of course, has no justifications, but shouldn't you hate injustice and dictatorship? I don't hate bad or dictatorial people blindly, but I hate the ill actions they take that affects others' lives unfairly. To fight against injustice and dictatorship, or tyranny, Wannasingh, is to help the world, and, for that matter, to accept or ignore them serves the contrary. I agree, however, that we can and should fight against bad deeds without hatred toward the wrongdoers. Yet again, we must act as a responsible human one way or another, I think, when injustice, or tyranny, is manifested in front of us.

  • @piyawanman6531
    @piyawanman6531 Před 7 lety

    I love you

  • @user-we2rq1ql4w
    @user-we2rq1ql4w Před 9 měsíci

    Anger is different injustice

  • @natthipboonnak6682
    @natthipboonnak6682 Před 8 lety +6

    แปลไม่ได้หรอก แต่ชอบฟัง

    • @saranyachinwattanawong7410
      @saranyachinwattanawong7410 Před 7 lety

      กด ตรง CC ข้างๆ รูปดอกไม้ แถบล่าง จะแสดง ซับไตเติ้ลให้ค่ะ

  • @minkanickyrangsithadakul9138

    I am fourteen I try to translate this by my self
    Cuz i want to be exchange student
    Keep fighting everyone ! Move to destinations ✅👍🏻

    • @meteechaloemkoon6478
      @meteechaloemkoon6478 Před 8 lety +1

      Good job... Try Canada.. I was once an exchange student and I went there...
      It'll be a lot of fun, trust me.. people over there are so nice and helpful
      Dream on, girl... Wish u all the best

  • @songleejeng
    @songleejeng Před 8 lety +4

    Just like a simple words. In the Bible books said, If someone hit your face you just turn the other side for them. This is a easy words that i try to translate for your guys which who would like to know HOW NOT TO HATE? So what is it mean? Jesus said, Love is the only one thing that can do everything. Everything possible in our Jesus.

    • @songleejeng
      @songleejeng Před 8 lety

      +Rosa Phavinee I know thats why you never have a true love because you never give the true love for anyone. Let you know i have an experience that God saving the life from cancer. You have to trust and have a faith in God. Doctor is the one that God sent him to help people who have cancer. But have you know? Who is the on created human? what is BiBle said ? Its very normal of the human like you, when they got a problem they always blame to God but that never look at themselves. I know Human is human no way to be like God. Thats why i try to tell you guy have to consider yourself and look at your like that follow the way of God or not?

  • @SurawutAnurak
    @SurawutAnurak Před 8 lety +2

    At the early of the talk, it is interesting when he said he was a yellow shirt, a political supporter believing in good-man ideology. However, the yellow shirt group was originally created by a hatred of Taksin, the former prime minister. This makes me really want to hear what he has to say about how not to hate. After listening to the end, I was not surprised to find so many biases and attitudes that the Yellow shirt always has - HATRED. Here they are:
    Firstly, he searched for a definition of good men though he should have known about it very well because the Yellow shirt always claim they themselves are good people. Secondly, he showed how difficult life the Red shirt supporters had at the time of protesting and showed the after-match, the damage of burned Central World building, though no one knows who did it (despite the fact that no one commits arson). He also expressed that he feared of getting hit by the supporters when he visited them (Why? Did he wear a yellow shirt? Did he think they would hit a person randomly?). Eventually, he surprisingly found himself offered impressive basic sticky rice(Much better of getting hit. Eh ). On the other hand, he did not show what damage the Yellow shirt had done, and he did not fear of the Yellow (He may need to wear a red shirt to prove goodness in the Yellow).
    He finally gave a conclusion about how not to hate that I doubt whether his conclusion would help people out of hatred since his presentation still showed it.

    • @NWRsk
      @NWRsk Před 6 lety

      First thing first, you need to realise he didn't have the whole day to clarify what now and what then he had found himself in. Focusing on his intention, we all saw that he tried to show us the similarity of colours, and none of it seemed to lead him to any bias. I'm not a fan of him, but at least I know the point of his speech and yeah you should too.

    • @wanpatyoung
      @wanpatyoung Před 4 lety

      Couldn't agree more! Instead of talking about how not to hate, he'd better talk about how to hate justly and effectively. First, to hate justly is to hate certain people with certain reason, in which such a hate is motivated by your love of justice. I can't imagine how one could consider such a "just" hate as undesirable. Second, to hate effectively is to openly and creatively hate those who commit injustice. If everyone shows their hates for dictatorship and injustice, then we could have seen the improvement of democracy in our society.

  • @napatc9710
    @napatc9710 Před 9 lety +22

    ลองฟังในสิ่งที่ "ชายคนนี้พูด" แล้วทำความเข้าใจในสิ่งที่เขาต้องการจะบอกดู!

  • @user-we2rq1ql4w
    @user-we2rq1ql4w Před 9 měsíci

    Political I am not people can be so mean and selfish hate is a strong word love is stronger love others

  • @botowner8623
    @botowner8623 Před rokem

    Impossible

  • @chanunpornu7589
    @chanunpornu7589 Před 5 lety +3

    ฟังแล้วแทบร้องเลย ครับ ไม่ได้ซึ้งนะ แปลไม่ถูก ผ่าม! 555 หยอกๆๆๆ อย่าเกลียดผมนะ 😁

  • @tikejourny2187
    @tikejourny2187 Před 8 lety +4

    I want english sub.

    • @Second_Sister504
      @Second_Sister504 Před 7 lety +1

      สมรรถชัย ศรีพิทักษ์ they're providing subtitles in so many languages make sure you check at the set up menu at the corner of video

    • @ophelia4208
      @ophelia4208 Před 3 lety

      Turn on the cc

  • @lila-yw2gn
    @lila-yw2gn Před 5 lety +2

    Ignore this comment as this is a personal msg for someone
    For Michael
    Do i hate you? No, not really

  • @mateuszzielinski1534
    @mateuszzielinski1534 Před rokem

    "ToLaRaTe VoLiAnCe" xD

  • @Candyjerry_bear
    @Candyjerry_bear Před 7 lety +2

    รู้จักพี่สิงห์จากเถื่ิอนทราเวล ชอบเวลาพี่พูดภาษาอังกฤษมากค่ะ555

  • @panatdajn8252
    @panatdajn8252 Před 3 lety

    on this situaion in Thailand, Are you still say this kind of stuff ""differebt ideas on politics" ????

  • @devyaniroy2232
    @devyaniroy2232 Před 9 měsíci

    How do i accept israel

  • @user-we2rq1ql4w
    @user-we2rq1ql4w Před 9 měsíci

    Act out of they're nature blame its affects others on intentions to harm destroy keep the peace I want to shake a honest man than a dishonest man its hard to tell

  • @nonglocallao1862
    @nonglocallao1862 Před 4 lety

    T huk 😁

  • @user-gi1lb3mx5f
    @user-gi1lb3mx5f Před 6 lety +1

    😂ฟังไม่ออก...

  • @poonsinsratonghoi2944
    @poonsinsratonghoi2944 Před 8 lety +3

    he became no one lol

  • @kkjhonynitro175
    @kkjhonynitro175 Před 6 lety

    Wtf i went to the person who i hate to talk to him instead of talking he punched me
    Instead of getting rid of hatred it has deepen more
    This trick is not applicable to everyone and every situation 😪

  • @ashwinikerhalkar1112
    @ashwinikerhalkar1112 Před rokem

    This just intellectual non sense

  • @purpleturtlehurtle
    @purpleturtlehurtle Před 4 lety +1

    bla bla bla ...look at me , i travel a lot....bla bla blaa