The Beestons on getting robbed, falling off a cliff & children on social media | Ep. 5
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- čas přidán 28. 02. 2023
- Our first guests!! We sat down and chatted with our friends @DerikAndSarah who we were visiting in Hawaii.
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Abby and Matt going crazy over the tea surrounding Derik and Sarah’s love story was so funny 😂💙
Their faces were priceless
*cough cough* Matt and Abby 😂💀
my parents got married after a week of knowing eachother and they are still together now almost 21 years 😊😍
They are so dang wholesome
Literally laughed out loud when Matt said, “maybe she saved your life, gave you a reason to live” ☠️☠️☠️ you guys crack me up
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I was so confused bc I saw this comment before I watched the video and that sounded like a genuine thing to say (thinking he was talking about Sarah) but that’s funny asfff especially the way he said it 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
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@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ amen
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Seeing Christian couples actually talk about sex and waiting for marriage and pleasure is so refreshing. Like yes, this is a beautiful part of life designed by God, and other than this podcast, I really haven't heard anyone else actually just casually talk about marriage sex. It's great.
They are Christians?
@@mercyihebuzor7220 think they’re Mormon….calling Mormon Christian is debatable.
Edit: One thing, of several, Mormons believe that is incorrect is that they believe you get to Heaven by good works. Which is why they’re such friendly people. Bible clearly says “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” Ephesians 2:8-9.
@@sailorarwen6101 they also don’t believe that Jesus was the Son of God. They believe he was just a prophet, just a normal guy.
@@Mauler45 hey we do actually believe he was the son of god and we are considered Christians because we believe in Christ the savior.
@@sailorarwen6101 oh i get it now.. thanks for the explanation 😁
I appreciate the Beestons being so honest about their first fight surrounding love-making! It's hard to be vulnerable about!
They're so cute, they didn't realize they are definitely not alone. It's probably up there with money.
More of this, please. It’s so refreshing. Feel bad for Derek & Sarah with all the theft they’ve had to deal with.
It is so sad cause they love Hawaii so much and now leaving a bad taste in there mouth because people cant just leave them alone. The sad downside to being famous on social media or other platforms.. 😢❤
No one better steal anything from them while they're in Australia, I'll have their guts for garters!
I am as well so passionate about that subject regarding child exploitation. This whole topic has really shifted my mindset and it made me realize that maybe it was wrong of me to talk about my child’s issues online.
My daughter went to a friends house with my husband a while back and when she came home she told me that there was someone there who knew so much about her and said that they have watched her grow up on facebook and she had no clue who this person is. She said she thinks that’s weird how other people know so much about her and we didn’t ask her if it was ok. Ever since then I have privatized all of her pics and I will only discuss my own stuff and nothing about my kids. I will leave it up to them to discuss their business when they are older.
So glad you learnt from that experience!!!! Too many parents exploit their children
@@AC-iw5mv Thank you. I can’t undo what i’ve already done but I can change things from here on out. I think this conversation needs to come up more.
THIS! I wish more of these vloggers would have this realization. It's so sad to see these kids being filmed all the time and all of their personal and special moments being public, but the safety risk is not talked about enough. So many hidden dangers that they don't address
Yes! I can't believe they're sitting here trying to explain away the exploitation when its clearly how they make they're money.
Yeah especially with all the crime happening around them/to them lately. It would be so easy to lure Jack away since everyone knows everything about him
NOTHING MAKE ME HAPPIER THAN WHEN YALL GET TOGETHER. I WATCH BOTH COUPLES ALLLLL THE TIME SO THIS GIVES ME SO MUCH HAPPINESS
Same! Love both couples!
If nothing makes you happier, you need to make changes in your life...
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Ikr. Wholesome couples
Been happily married 11.5 years and dated for 3.5 before. The best advice I can share with any couple through learned experience is that when you get upset and are about to fight, you CAN control your reaction. When you realize and understand that actions/reactions are choices, not reflexes, you then have two options. You can choose to add fuel to the fire, or you can choose to throw water on it and try to extinguish the fire. If both of you are aware of this and genuinely work to start doing this, it will absolutely change your relationship. That, and honest (but not brutal) communication. Grace goes a long way!
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This is actually really good advice that I will heed, thank you! ❤
Great advice! ❤
Knowing that there are still men who will wait till marriage is so comforting to me
“Collecting sticks” such a unique and cute way to fall in love!❤
Love how you guys were so transparent! Thank you all for being willing to share so much of your lives with us! 🥰
Love the honesty about each couples' fights. Your authenticity is surely appreciated by your subscribers and makes us love following y'all ❤
I just love and admire deriks honesty and sarah giving and adding cause its sooo important and eye-opening to hear someone speaking about hard stuff we go through and scared to speak up
Two fantastic couples!😊 I love that you guys are not afraid to talk about uncomfortable topics, like having difficulties with sex for example. Society only talks about the amazing, magical sides to it, but in reality, it’s not always that way right away, and that is ok!
I love Sarah so much! Her and her family seriously are such rays of light in the chaos that can be social media! I am glad they share their life with us and hope they learn to ignore the haters!!!
I love this. I love ya'll together. It's nice seeing young couples have such outstanding family values and show young families in such a positive light. I can't stress enough how important it is for kids to see that these traits hold such a high value and esteem. Thank you all ❤️🤗
Dearest Matt and Abby, Derik and Sarah, Tanner and Lo, you guys don't know how much impact you have on us, we feel inspired, entertained and most of all, we experience healing❤️
While I'm pretty against parents being forced to raise their kids one way or another, it's pretty scary when you hear what kinds of things influencers know behind the scenes about how their children's content is being exploited by creeps. That would make me nope out immediately.
Derik and Sarah are amazing parents and the videos they create with their children are done with such care they should really be proud of them. They will be such great memories for them to reflect on with their kids as they get older.
Something about the unconditional love & support can really help you come out of your shell ❤ so relatable
I LOVED this format of the podcast! Especially talking on marraige and raising children. This is all real life and life is messy. I wish more people had discussions on these topics. Too many people give up on marraige these days because things are not perfect. Its good to hear other couples talk about struggles and overcoming them. I hope to see more of these. Great show!
@48:34 Completely agree with Matt! I been watching a lot of their videos & Abby is always complaining about Matt in someway. Yet I never hear him say anything negative about her. Or at least not very often. I too would get bothered if someone was constantly annoyed by me.
Exactly.. Plus Matt always compliments abby , such guys are rare! She needs to be grateful
loved listening to you talk about the realities of parenting and how it throws planning out the window. From when our daughter was about 6 months old I realized if it's really important I could plan it 2-3 months ahead for things like gifts and have it go 'to plan' and otherwise it's probably not gonna happen or happen late. Kiddos just need so much and the curveballs that come with them make life so erratic.
I love how you guys are opening up and setting examples and giving advice. You guys are awesome ❤
I love the four of you together ❤️ Your’e all such humble, wholesome people and AMAZING parents!! This was a great podcast! Sending you all so much love!
Much respect to all of you for having a real conversation. This was a great listen
I love both families. It’s nice to see two social media influencers get together and have raw conversations. Thanks for this!
I absolutely love the honesty and vulnerability in this podcast episode.
Very proud of both couples. My husband and I met and got married within 6 months after meeting. We have been married 27 years. You will go through challenges but keep working through it. Your relationship is worth it.
I’m so glad you guys started these! I listen to them on my way to work and I feel like I can relate so much to you guys, being married young (21) and first time parents.
I never watch or listen to podcast but this one, THIS, just truly hit different it was so easy to watch I love how you guys are friends and the convo can just flow so easy💚
You guys are awesome and so right. Been married over 20 years and still figuring it out! It’s ebb and flow and not giving up is the secret to a successful marriage. It gets better after the down points.
Best pod cast ever. It didnt feel like a pod cast it felt more like a conversation between friends. It flowed so easily. I hope you have the Beeston's back sooner than later.
Loving this podcast! Need a part 2 with Sarah and Derik, could have listened to you for a couple of hours. Honest wholesome conversation
You guys are all absolutely killing it - I’m so happy for you & the progress you’ve made since starting CZcams!! Never give up, don’t stop being you & keep doing what makes you happy ❤ Each week I look forward to watching either the Vlogs or the Podcasts. Lots of love & support from Canada 🇨🇦
Really enjoy all four of you and your evolutions into relationships, kids, work. You're doing a great job and the honesty comes across🙂You do what works for you and be happy!
I just love all of you! ❤️You guys are such a breath of fresh air! You guys make us laugh, feel good inside, sometimes feel sad, but overall, you guys are showing the world that there are wonderful people out there who love their children and their lives, and respect the world! You bring so much JOY to all of us! Thank you, thank you, thank you!! Don’t listen to what all of the haters are saying, they are just jealous that you are happy! I started crying when I saw Sarah crying! There’s no need to make comments that are negative! So if people make them, don’t even read them! WE LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!!!😀❤️😍😘🤗❤️🥰
I just found both of the couples in the last month or two and have been binge watching them so this made me very happy
This truly is the best of both worlds ❤❤❤❤ I freaking love y’all individually & when u come together, it makes me so happy! We all need more!!!!!!😊
Thank you for being such a positive light and sharing your REAL selves with the world! You will always be relatable when you’re transparent! You have a beautiful family and the world loves you and your precious kiddos. ❤️ Just remember all of this when you’re feeling too much of the negativity, there will always be negativity - but there will always be MORE of LOVE! 💕🥰🤘
seeing them blown away by another young couple is wild
they think they are so special and unique, only to find out that they aren’t the only ones who got married young. 😮
@@lilyharp3771 I think they know, maybe is the family, for example my dad always make me feel like I watched a ton of Horror movies, when is actually my least favorite.
But because he expect me to be afraid, so when I know someone else that is more into it than me I get shook. No because I personally think am the biggest fan of, but because how people make me feel.
Thank you guys so much for your honesty. More than that, sharing the really deep thoughts and feelings. How terrifying must that be to put it out there knowing millions of people will hear it. But I hope you guys recognize just how much you will uplift and inspire your audience. I relate so well to moments of your marriages and find new insights. It definitely makes the feelings for my husband burn brighter. :)
As a person who never ever listens to podcasts cause I get distracted too easily, this has been the only one that has actually caught my attention! I`ve been your main channel`s subscriber for a while now and the news about you guys starting your own podcast made me feel so hyped since I already knew it`d be a banger! Also I`m following the Beestons and enjoy watching their videos as well so it was really exciting to see them featured here! Sending both of you, Matt&Abby, loads of love and looking forward to see more episodes!!💕
I absolutely LOVED this podcast! My 2 favorite families in one podcast! Thank you so much! I enjoy watching you two and your families. I don't care what anyone else says, you both are wonderful parents and super people! Thank you so much for sharing your lives with us. You've both helped me through some rough times. Thank you.
Love love love you guys! Idk if Abby remembers, but I had an acting class with her freshman year of MSU with the one and only Ms. Lisa Brescia and I always remember Matt picking her up EVERY CLASS and pulling her on his skateboard. Have loved watching you grow over the years and pray for amazing blessings in ya’ll life! Keep being you and shining your light!
I love this, especially the honesty. Thank you for sharing things with us❤️
You guys are great parents. Sarah don’t second guess yourself watching your video I can tell you love your kids very much and they are so adorable.
About the filming of children topic, i just want to say that I think it's important to consider what kind of content are you putting on the internet. Would your child be ok with that in 10-15-20 years? Would they be embarrassed? Would they be ok to see that their parents showed the entire world some really hard moments they had (like some tantrums)? Because I'm pretty sure at 2 years of age they can't really decide whether it's fine with them or not. And it's not about them not wanting to be filmed right now, but more on the impact those videos may have on them once they realize how exposed they were once.
Yes exactly, how can they say their kids get to decide when they're literal babies...
They can’t ever consent. Even as they get older- their entire lives- mommy and daddy are “so happy” when they decide to film. What kid is going to say “no” when that is their “normal”? They have no ability to predict the outcome, to understand how it will effect their peer group, or know that the internet is literally forever. If my parents did this to me- I would have nothing to do with them. I don’t care how much money they made off me- I would sue them for it as an adult, write them off, and then share every private and personal detail that I could about them. Return the favor, ya know?
@@afullchalicevlogs7979 Your'e exactly right, they don't know the future consequences of millions of people knowing their face and names and personal information.
@@afullchalicevlogs7979 i think these (influencer) parents kinda assume that their kid will follow the same path as them. And since the kid grew up only knowing what online exposure means, they won't really have a problem with that as adults. Which is obviously a very wrong and selfish way of thinking
@@afullchalicevlogs7979 Or you know the kids could love it have no problem with it and be perfectly fine having their parents recording because they grew up with it and if they ever have a day where they just don’t want to film they could just say so and take a break for a day and not sue their parent when they grow up for literally nothing and just deciding to make a CZcams channel
I absolutely love all the collabs yall do! Such a great group of people!
Congratulations youuu guyz... I'm soooo sooo freakin happyyyy for youu dudess... congratulations on this pregnancy matt and abby❤️❤️❤️❤️ I just remember how young and little you guyz looked and were when you started your CZcams channel and seeing your growth , your life , your journey has been such an emotional and empowering phaseee...you guys soo motivate hella out of the youngsters who want to settle down young together ✨✨😍😍😍 you guysss are just soo kind , soo sweet and lovely!!! And abby you are an amazing human. I love how you're taking care of Griffin as well as new baby❤️ That's so special..still breastfeeding while being pregnant with second❤️❤️ I wish you four lifetime of happiness and joy and may the second and third trimester go easy for you and soon you welcome your eye's apple, your heart's joy into your arms ❤️✨ and how greatt matt is to support you through thick and thin and to appreciate you always.. cleaning vomit , doing those small small things which many won't doo❤️❤️❤️❤️ soo kudos to youu guyz 😍😍😍 you're doing a great job❤️❤️❤️❤️and we love youuu😍😍😍😍😍
I know this is old but I am just now seeing it. I haven’t seen much of the beestons, I just love hearing you guys talk to them! When Sarah started to cry it really hit my heart. It’s so sad that people can be so mean to people they don’t even know. You guys are doing a great job, and you seem so very kind. Can’t wait to see what He has in store for you all.
Such a great podcast! Love you all and LOVE seeing your kids. Don’t ever change that. It’s refreshing to see young families and you do kids well 😘
I love these young people so much! The Beestons( all of them), Mabbie😂 and Connor and Liana! They give an old lady hope!
Same I like Connor and Liana too. Totally different worlds from eachother but still similarities
Omg I couldn't agree more!
I love them all
Same! So impressed by these couple and how mature and healthy their relationships are and they are so young!
I watch all them too!! ❤️
I really love Derek and Sarah. Thanks for having to them on Matt and Abby 🤍
Thank you guys for sharing about the struggles in your relationship it is helpful to all of us!
Hawaii is beautiful. You can always go back. Nothing is ever set in stone. You two are young. Your opportunities are endless. I love your channel.
My husband and I got married less than a year after we started dating…same thing. We have been married for 25 years. Had our first child ten 1/2 months after we got married . 4 children total. It’s been an amazing time. Just gets better❤❤❤
Four of my favorite ppl. I love all you guys. You're great friends because you have so much in common. You're great parents is for one. ♥️♥️
I thought I was going to listen for a bit and shut this off but you guys are so nice and just couldn’t stop the video and was sad that it was over. Love all 4 of you guys!
I LOVE the beestons! Sarah is such an inspiration to me and Derik is such an incredible dad🤍
You 4 are the sweetest. I’m 62 now and raised my children alone and there is no manual when they are born to guide you and every child is different! There will ALWAYS be those who question everything! I have many regrets but at the time I did the best I could do. They turned out good! Don’t sweat it.
You and I are sisters from another mister ❤️❤️
I really loved this! You should have guests again. All four of you are so down to earth and love the transparency. Thank you!❤
I love the them they are amazing! Derek is an amazing daddy to both his kids! Jack is TOO cute! And Sunny is just beautiful. It melted my heart how much Derek wanted a girl and he got his little Sunny ♥️
I’m 10 minutes in and I am so lost yet could listen for hours, love the podcasts and your awesome guests!!
I love Derik & Sarah. This was a fun episode:)
Love watching you guys. So refreshing every podcast
I have been watching you and I follow lots of your friends. Everyone of you ladies and men are awesome parents and if people can’t see that from following you well then they’re just blind. You guys are all doing a great job and it’s wonderful watching you makes me very happy.❤
Sarah and Derik are incredible parents and a wonderful couple. Thank you for having them on your podcast. 💗
I look forward to this podcast every week! So much fun seeing you all in this format- feels like we are hanging out. Keep it up Abby and Matt 🤭
thank you so much for this! really good topics, raw talk, thruthfull... please do this more often!
Yay🤩 two of my favorite couples ❤️
Amazing podcast episode as always
I'm so excited about this episode!! You guys are the best duo!
Heyyyyy😭 I just started the vid too and I absolutely love this duo so so much❤️❤️❤️
The best!!!
Love this!! Sarah and Derek seem like amazing parents. They are creating lives and futures for their children that most people could only dream of, keep your head up guys!
I have watched a few Derik and Sarah's Videos with little Jack and Derik's Reaction to little Jack dressing like him, or jack on skateboard are so adorable to watch, that is Derik being a great dad interacting with his son
Love you guys so much
Congrats on being pregnant again
Thanks for all the hard work you put into these videos
I just want to say that I appreciate you all☺️
Love the way Sarah & Derek look at each other ❤️
I love u all! I really enjoy watching the videos. Sarah, when people start making hurtful remarks, block them and forget them. All of us can see how much you and Derek love your babies.
Matt & Abby, you guys are hilarious to watch and listen too. I am loving the openness of these conversations. ❤
“Didn’t perform well” ☠️ 😂 I love y’all and how transparent y’all are. Thank you for being real 😂
I love the beestons! All of them lol but this seems to me the funnest and realest I’ve seen and to open up about early marriage problems when you seem perfect is awesome! Love Matt and Abby as well! I’ll continue watching!
Omg i love them so glad Matt and Abby brought them to their podcast so excited for this one
I have to say one thing. Thanks for sharing this with us. I have enjoyed it so much I've been following both couples ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love you guys so much. I love Abby of course how can u not !? 🥹
But Matt is literally so freakin sweet… like woah what a sweetie 🤍🖤🤍🖤🫶🏻🫶🏻✨
When if comes to filming the kids, remember you don't have to post the videos, but you still will want the memory. ❤
Definitely! I vlog too and it took me a long time to figure out a balance between filming for content, filming for memories and being present in the moment. I now usually film things i think are important in depth but dont necessarily pay too much attention to the screen, so the angles might be a bit off sometimes, but I've captured the moment AND experienced it. Things that i find beautiful eg on a nature walk, I'll stop to film a quick clip, take a few pics and spend the rest of the time gazing in awe
I did think that. You can video everything. You don't have to post it
Loved the episode! All four of you are amazing people and it was great to hear you talk about those topics! Thanks❤
This is such a great podcast with the Beeston Fam!!! Y’all are so much fun to watch!!!
This is absolutely no hate towards any of you, because I like your podcast, both of you have really cute families. It's just my own opinion about children on the internet.
You mentioned that when your child says "no, I don't want to be filmed", you'd turn off your camera. And that is awesome and more people should do that, but I don't think a 2 year old, let's say Jack as an example, is aware of what the internet is. And you might post something about him that he says yes to and then 10 years later he regrets that video is on the internet forever. And it's not even just about little kids, because you can't give informed consent until you are 18.
Another thing is the memories, I get that, but you don't have to upload those memories to millions of strangers, because they are for you!
I also understand how it makes you feel good when people message you and say lovely things about your family and kids, but I could not not think about those people who don't have good intentions towards my family.
Thank you for this, I really hope they read comments like this and change. Neither one of these families children are old enough to understand ANYTHING about the internet...
They (the kids) don't understand the impact of it all... and I strongly believe they have no idea what those videos mean - in terms of how they're on the internet for everyone to see and that's infinite once something's out there.
There are many celebrities who do that (protecting their kids) and one thing they always say is that they themselves chose this life but their children haven't and so I feel like in order to want the best for your child you shouldn't show them unless they can rightfully consent.
I'm sure they all know how lucrative it is to show the kids... not saying they're exploiting it, just saying they're definitely aware... especially considering the recent content I've been seeing about their daughter (Beeston's).
@@AW-1811 I believe that they do understand things about the internet. They have social media accounts, they vlog, the spent half the podcast talking about it. They understand enough to make their own choices on the topic and it's kinda rude to say they don't understand anything about what they work in. Maybe they shouldn't show their kid as much as they do but it's not your job to criticize them for it and it's not your choice what they do.
They specifically say they know what you're talking about so maybe watch the podcast and learn more about who you're criticizing. They started tearing up about the topic so don't say they don't care about it.
yes, it’s important to consider this but i also have this in mind: do 10-year-olds fully realize what they’d consent to and what “the internet is forever” means? yet they can do and say so many more “controversial” things than a 2-year-old.
@-Goose- if you really actually care about your children and you even mention the dangers of the internet so you are aware then why are you not protecting them? When Sarah said "we know there are creeps out there but at the same time our followers send us messages like I love your kids they are so cute" I could not believe what she just said. I get it that it makes you feel loved that other people love your kids but those people are strangers and even though they are nice how do you that that message wasn't sent by a creep? Just because it was a nice comment it means it wasn't one?
I just love how cute u guys are , i pray for you guys to have a healthy baby ...... love you guys
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Thanks so much for your honesty ! Was a great show. Enjoyed this so much!
We are loving these podcasts guys! Been watching you since your first apartment and have loved watching you guys grow, so excited to see the new baby and find out what your having, as much as we all love the podcast we hope that you aren’t going to
be stopping the vlogs on ur other channel, 😢 love you guys so much!
I love Derek and Sarah and have been watching them since just before Jack was born. Sweet Couple 💕. I also follow his brother and sister in law. Seems like all of you have great friendships which is realy cool ✨. All of your parents must be very proud. Great family values all around!!!!! New York here
Watching Matt and Abby respond to how the beestons met and how long they dated before getting married made me laugh because living in utah I was just like yep that sounds completely normal 😂
that is soooo fr and ive only lived here for about 3 years
It’s a Mormon thing
Right!? 😂 its not just a Mormon thing, it's actually cultural too in Utah! Especially Utah County culture. People who aren't LDS often get married really quickly too. It's just more normal 😂
Excellent podcast! I luv how open you all are and how you treat your spouses! You are truly an encouragement. You demonstrate how God designed marriage to be and esp. as new parents! Thank you for sharing your stories. May God bless and protect you all and your families!
i love the beeston so much omg they’re genuine people you just know
I love Sarah,Sunny,Jack,Derik! Love you Matt and Abby, Griffin too!
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I love your podcast! I’ve been following you guys for a while on your main channel and I love your podcast even more 💕
Love both these young families. Watch them all the time. Podcast was interesting, informative and funny as well!
U both are very privileged n fortunate to have this platform, the situation, n circumstances u have I hope u 4 are able to realize that one day !!
Sarah laughing when she remembered what their first fight was about 😂 I should not drink coffee while watching this, it was too funny. Love you all
My husband and I met, got engaged and married in just under 6 months. We were 20. And just had our 11th anniversary and our 6th child ♥️ I remember the looks people had when we wanted to get married. My husband wanted to elope by week 2 but we decided to wait for our family. My dad asked us to give it 6 months. But we really wish we just eloped ♥️♥️