I agree, but I also don't think it is 100% black and white. There are some people who may be more happy being in a marriage, but it is rare. It's naive to just conclude that every married person is more miserable than a person who is single.
@@artorias-24 True. I feel sorry for the 75% who get bored with their marriage when it is too late to divorce. their lives are so far gone in that direction with kids, and their entire identities depend on that status. Sex becomes a chore, but luckily they have kids to turn their attention to. They have friends to invite for dinner (if they won't try to get one of them to cheat).
Their smiles and laughter are hidden behind curtains of despair and fear. They live lives like the room in the corner never gets entered or else they will be inside a horror show forever !!
Same thoughts! I also have the impression that people in general, but especially the ones of the opposite sex mainly care about the good, exciting parts of (potential) relationships. They don't seem to want to improve and grow together. Having potential is not enough anymore. They desire an almost perfect partner, someone who could have been specifically cut out for them.
Wise words by a wise-sage; I'm never entering a legal-contract where the other-side gets everything; people are always changing -- the only constant is change
Hi Benedictine and friends. Am a 51 y-o female. am an " old maid" . It's not that l didnt want to get married, l just felt like l was never good enough. I've never felt like l was cut out for that type of contract. I'm too different, too eccentric, too f'd up by childhood trauma. I know l will never find someone to understand my eccentricities and accept and love me in spite of them. It's just what it is. Btw, love yr channel.
I'm 44yrs old and never married and no children I feel alot of freedom I even spend my money on myself. All women complain alot. And are manipulative. God Bless Us All 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 😊
Everything in a relationship can take a 360 degree turn just based on the amount of funds you have saved. Nonetheless,marriage is basically not only about her but the lineage that is linked to her basically, you are marrying the entire family indirectly. Coming back to the topic of money you need it to cover all expenses and if you have a slim balance ,Do not even think of Marriage furthermore; it takes years to save money and after marriage, it's not at all possible to do so coz you have to serve 2 masters ,boss at office and wife. Never forget, if you plan to have a kid the medical expenses ....like cost of the delivery which is a big hole in the pocket. So in addition to what benedictine the great said I conclude by saying marriage is a big no go and doesn't make sense..we all have to perish someday...so, travel fast,light , alone along life's path.
I'm a relationship person,short term relationships work for me, chasing or looking for love works as a coping mechanism for me.i enjoy going on dates even with natalists since i got a vasectomy.my fellow antinatalists let everyone get his own coping mechanism as long as we don't get addicted.
Even if you know you are truly loved, that can change instantly overnight if your spouse becomes drawn to someone else. So it never counts. Also, men always want other women more than their wives. Not just once apon a time loving someone else more. The game of love is cruel and no sex is exempt. Not Male nor female. Your husband can love you and still want to be with every other woman he sees. No one’s safe. Ever. Love or not. Marriage is a misogynistic game. So the least a woman can do is marry the guy she knows loves her. Women are expected to be a battery in men’s back and a secondary thought. So they had better choose the man they know for a fact loves her. Period. Marriage and relationships are just emotionally unsafe. Especially for whoever can be abandoned with children. Life is such trash.
Me either because she'll take off of you or everything. You've got when she leaves and there's thousands of really nice women out there. Why would you limit yourself to one
I imagine that these antinatalist women are good persons and would actually be with a man because he had a good personality: www.youtube.com/@masqueradeofmisery www.youtube.com/@Kooooows Unfortunately "Miss Erable" already has a partner and the other girl lives in Russia and might even be unable to leave the country. And both are much younger than me😐
I wonder if Miss E. lives in my town...i mean i guess she does she alluded to metro and there's only metro in one city here...too bad she is occupied but i uttery respect monogamy... but in case they breakup i'd wanna have a date with her in the cemetery i always had a sweet spot for goth chix...we could be like ricky fits and jane burnham in ameircan beauty. (she could be a bit older tho i love older wamen...)
I think the negativity about settling down needs to stop. Men are settling too. There are very attractive women 5% that are out of your league, unless maybe you pay for it, but most men settle for average women to get married. Stability is different to lust. When a woman wants to settle down after having fun in her youth, how is that different from a man wanting to settle down after having fun in youth?
You actually don't understand (get) women. You don't know what percentage of women are solely inretested in the 5% male group, and you don't know the percentage that aren't. How many women have you heard say that solely want the 5% male? Are they up to 20% of the entire female population? Think more carefully on this. One other thing you said that is wrong is that men don't really want marriage but women do. That's a blatant lie. The ratio of men to women who want and do not want marriage are pretty equal based on people's (males and females) expressions. There are many wrong things you said in this video, but unfortunately, i can't address all.
@@benedictinethetruth If you have to know my gender and marital status in order to have a conversation about something that every half normal person in the world can see and understand, then my guess is you can hardly have this conversation without bias. I am a man. I'm engaged to be married.
rihanna is so goated when it comes to feat music, her collabes with eminem are just 🔥 especially that one song called love the way you lie, it had such a timeless lyrics to it 15:32.
I rank nowhere in society I just spawned here to see the show
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same here😂
A volunteer
You’re hilarious 😂😂
That's too good😂😂
Worst contract a man could possibly sign.
Nobody is happy, but most married people are sadder.
I agree, but I also don't think it is 100% black and white. There are some people who may be more happy being in a marriage, but it is rare. It's naive to just conclude that every married person is more miserable than a person who is single.
they get consistent pussy tho
@@artorias-24 True. I feel sorry for the 75% who get bored with their marriage when it is too late to divorce. their lives are so far gone in that direction with kids, and their entire identities depend on that status. Sex becomes a chore, but luckily they have kids to turn their attention to. They have friends to invite for dinner (if they won't try to get one of them to cheat).
Their smiles and laughter are hidden behind curtains of despair and fear. They live lives like the room in the corner never gets entered or else they will be inside a horror show forever !!
But most couples still going to take fake pictures for social media acting happy
Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties - Arthur Schopenhauer
Genius
This is brutally honest, life of Hell Inc.
Brother you rigth, i am a 58 young man, and i am very happy with my lonelyness, it helped me knowing myself.... .
Thank you a lot.
Me either. Only thing I'll ever marry is Antinatalism
There is no point to get married anymore.
Same thoughts! I also have the impression that people in general, but especially the ones of the opposite sex mainly care about the good, exciting parts of (potential) relationships. They don't seem to want to improve and grow together. Having potential is not enough anymore. They desire an almost perfect partner, someone who could have been specifically cut out for them.
You chase after those useless women and you ignore the women of substance because they're not that pretty.
fine, I'll call the pastor and let him know the wedding is off
Social media is to blame for all the divorces
Wise words by a wise-sage; I'm never entering a legal-contract where the other-side gets everything; people are always changing -- the only constant is change
Hi Benedictine and friends. Am a 51 y-o female. am an " old maid" . It's not that l didnt want to get married, l just felt like l was never good enough. I've never felt like l was cut out for that type of contract. I'm too different, too eccentric, too f'd up by childhood trauma. I know l will never find someone to understand my eccentricities and accept and love me in spite of them. It's just what it is. Btw, love yr channel.
I'm the most eccentric and I've only experienced hate from everyone else
I'm 44yrs old and never married and no children I feel alot of freedom I even spend my money on myself. All women complain alot. And are manipulative. God Bless Us All 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 😊
Smart man
Free agent lifestyle ftw!
Shout out to the COACH GANG
4LIFE
Great topic!! 👏👍
It's living with integrity. Rare this level of honesty.
Yeah, better than being a simp like most men are nowadays
Smart man! I would never do it again, myself!
Everything in a relationship can take a 360 degree turn just based on the amount of funds you have saved.
Nonetheless,marriage is basically not only about her but the lineage that is linked to her basically, you are marrying the entire family indirectly.
Coming back to the topic of money you need it to cover all expenses and if you have a slim balance ,Do not even think of Marriage furthermore; it takes years to save money and after marriage, it's not at all possible to do so coz you have to serve 2 masters ,boss at office and wife.
Never forget, if you plan to have a kid the medical expenses ....like cost of the delivery which is a big hole in the pocket.
So in addition to what benedictine the great said I conclude by saying marriage is a big no go and doesn't make sense..we all have to perish someday...so, travel fast,light , alone along life's path.
Same here!
Staying single is better it's all about survival 💪 😌 👌 😊😅
I'm a relationship person,short term relationships work for me, chasing or looking for love works as a coping mechanism for me.i enjoy going on dates even with natalists since i got a vasectomy.my fellow antinatalists let everyone get his own coping mechanism as long as we don't get addicted.
Benedictines i think u have to do part two, ur thoughts on this topic are interesting
Even if you know you are truly loved, that can change instantly overnight if your spouse becomes drawn to someone else. So it never counts. Also, men always want other women more than their wives. Not just once apon a time loving someone else more.
The game of love is cruel and no sex is exempt. Not Male nor female. Your husband can love you and still want to be with every other woman he sees. No one’s safe. Ever. Love or not.
Marriage is a misogynistic game.
So the least a woman can do is marry the guy she knows loves her. Women are expected to be a battery in men’s back and a secondary thought. So they had better choose the man they know for a fact loves her. Period.
Marriage and relationships are just emotionally unsafe. Especially for whoever can be abandoned with children.
Life is such trash.
Me neither
Me either because she'll take off of you or everything. You've got when she leaves and there's thousands of really nice women out there. Why would you limit yourself to one
yes something is wrong for example the movie naked massacre say it
I imagine that these antinatalist women are good persons and would actually be with a man because he had a good personality:
www.youtube.com/@masqueradeofmisery
www.youtube.com/@Kooooows
Unfortunately "Miss Erable" already has a partner and the other girl lives in Russia and might even be unable to leave the country. And both are much younger than me😐
I wonder if Miss E. lives in my town...i mean i guess she does she alluded to metro and there's only metro in one city here...too bad she is occupied but i uttery respect monogamy... but in case they breakup i'd wanna have a date with her in the cemetery i always had a sweet spot for goth chix...we could be like ricky fits and jane burnham in ameircan beauty. (she could be a bit older tho i love older wamen...)
I think the negativity about settling down needs to stop. Men are settling too. There are very attractive women 5% that are out of your league, unless maybe you pay for it, but most men settle for average women to get married. Stability is different to lust. When a woman wants to settle down after having fun in her youth, how is that different from a man wanting to settle down after having fun in youth?
better than using your hand all the time
There are other alternatives besides married people don't have sex quite often
Using your hand actually is very convenient. When I got an itch why can't I scratch it straight away?
getting married is signing up for your own grave.
You actually don't understand (get) women.
You don't know what percentage of women are solely inretested in the 5% male group, and you don't know the percentage that aren't.
How many women have you heard say that solely want the 5% male?
Are they up to 20% of the entire female population?
Think more carefully on this.
One other thing you said that is wrong is that men don't really want marriage but women do. That's a blatant lie.
The ratio of men to women who want and do not want marriage are pretty equal based on people's (males and females) expressions.
There are many wrong things you said in this video, but unfortunately, i can't address all.
Before I respond to what you said, I'd like to know if you are male or female and if you're married
@@benedictinethetruth If you have to know my gender and marital status in order to have a conversation about something that every half normal person in the world can see and understand, then my guess is you can hardly have this conversation without bias.
I am a man. I'm engaged to be married.
aka biggest scam ever!, 0:45 like dude they have to be trolling us here.
rihanna is so goated when it comes to feat music, her collabes with eminem are just 🔥 especially that one song called love the way you lie, it had such a timeless lyrics to it 15:32.