12 Signs Your Crush Only Thinks Of You As A Friend (Are You In The Dreaded Friendzone?)

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • We get very obsessed don't we about someone that we like, we can't help it. So we tend to overthink every single small teeny tiny interaction we have with them to see if they actually like us as much as we like them. So it's very easy to say that at times we can over judge people's behaviour and cause an embarrassing situation if we make a pass at someone who didn't like us but we thought otherwise!
    So let's find out today where you stand with this person that you currently lay awake at night daydreaming of. My name is Anna, stay tuned!
    #Joyanima #Crush #Friendzone
    In today's video we're going to be taking a look at 12 signs that crush of yours has you in the friendzone. You may sit there wondering "do they like me" or "do they want to be more than just friends?" whatever it is that's got you thinking about your potential relationship together and where you stand, we're here to help!
    Remember, whilst being friendzone may feel pretty awful, it's important to keep in mind that it's really not a reflection of you as a person. We can't help how we feel towards certain people, and others may not want to risk damaging a beautiful friendship. It's not a comment on who you are, your kindness, intelligence or attractiveness. Some people simply don't fit together and aren't the perfect person for each other.
    Do you know of any other signs that your crush only likes you as a friend? Comment below and let us know. I try my best to respond to as many comments as possible!
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Komentáře • 94

  • @TheOnelemon
    @TheOnelemon Před 3 lety +33

    The thing about the jealous move: if I like a girl or a friend and she is flirting with another guy, it's finished for me. I end it then and there. So I find it dangerous to try to make someone jealous to see if they like you.

    • @battle4truth701
      @battle4truth701 Před 2 lety +1

      Yooooo. So true. Jealousy is an attitude you have to spot so you can stop what you are doing. It's a drawing a line emotion. If it doesn't stop then your other doesn't respect that relationship boundary. You can't play games and force jealousy to come out

  • @BLITZY261
    @BLITZY261 Před 3 lety +12

    Anna ....in recent years through rejection and divorce I have honestly come to a single final conclusion.
    I totally and utterly get why folk become hermits.
    It is now become very, very appealing. A cabin by a beautiful lake with wooded area nearby and zero, if any contact with human beings and all of their crappy problems they wish to push my way....well, being a hermit is becoming more appealing by the hour, let alone the day, week or years.
    Narcissism killed my interest..try living through and surviving a discard...and I don't feel suicidal by the way...there are thousands of things in life I love.
    P.S. Your awesome channel is very informative and interesting. Writing songs is my thing, with deer and ducks joining me for company.
    Keep up the great work. You are doing brill.

  • @sergiosolis4538
    @sergiosolis4538 Před 7 měsíci +3

    If the gal says that she's your friend, but doesn't ask you about the relative that's in the hospital, even though you had told them, then that gal, isn't really your friend either, just an acquaintance. A real friend would ask you about how your relative is doing with genuine concern.

  • @basketballfan2323
    @basketballfan2323 Před 3 lety +63

    I recently told my crush how I feel about her, but unfortunately she said she didn't feel the same way about me. I told her that its cool and I respected her decision. She applauded me for coming to her to tell her. I took it pretty well at first but now it's really starting to hurt. I haven't been eating alot lately cuz I've been real down 😥 and I don't know what to do....

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Před 3 lety +34

      Thank you for taking the time to comment openly like this. First of all, well done on going through with it - you'd have regretted it had you never tried. Sometimes we find someone we think we like and would be perfect with but they don't like us back. It can feel awful when this happens but it's just a part of life, you can't make someone like you back. It's not that you're not a great person, and it's not something to take personally, you may just not be quite what they're looking for. In time you will move on and actually end up finding someone way more perfect for you, you may not have even met them yet!

    • @basketballfan2323
      @basketballfan2323 Před 3 lety +10

      @@Joyanima thank you for your words of wisdom. I really appreciate it! Yeah, it was really rough at first. Its been a few days now and I'm starting to feel a little bit better. I started looking on CZcams for videos like these to try and get advice, and to just vent a little bit because I was REALLY down. It still does hurt alot, but it's getting better. Thanks!

    • @uwekirschner187
      @uwekirschner187 Před 2 lety +6

      @@basketballfan2323 I feel u brother. Dont give up man

    • @willyramirez4212
      @willyramirez4212 Před 2 lety +3

      brother I'm proud you steeped up to the plate and told her it takes a lot. Im actually going at ask my crush out for a date this Sunday and hope for the best, I've bin watching these videos because there fun and so I won't get mixed signals. hoping for the best

    • @nerifterafrnam4682
      @nerifterafrnam4682 Před 2 lety +1

      @@willyramirez4212 how´d t go ?

  • @djs12007
    @djs12007 Před 2 lety +10

    There's NO SUCH THING as a "Friendzone", Lots of women told me they think of me only as a friend, then I don't hear from them afterwards. Sure, I would see them around, but when I tried to say "Hi", they wouldn't respond at all.

    • @fox1actual
      @fox1actual Před rokem

      They friendzone guys that they think they can get use from. They probably see you as uncontrollable subconsciously, therefore unable to control.

    • @kevingonzalez3673
      @kevingonzalez3673 Před rokem

      Friend zone mean xes without having to pay for her.

  • @nicetrendsyt4900
    @nicetrendsyt4900 Před 2 lety +1

    Your so amazing for creating This video.

  • @pyrbannikoz2847
    @pyrbannikoz2847 Před 2 lety

    Topic suggestion: Places & situations to talk and say things. No-go / Yes-go zones.

  • @donaldyoumans275
    @donaldyoumans275 Před 3 lety

    Great video..thank you!

  • @glenjohnson9039
    @glenjohnson9039 Před 2 lety +1

    You're great ,keep going

  • @wesleydiolata3467
    @wesleydiolata3467 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you Anna very insightful you have a beautiful smile 🥰

  • @devinwilson816
    @devinwilson816 Před rokem

    Well for some individuals story, it could be they aren't ready for relationship or still trying to learn something in this life about relationships. I experience so far that I had crush once and they still be friends with me even though they found someone else. One of the best things I heard from them is they say "you should have told me that before".

  • @d-rokcruise6671
    @d-rokcruise6671 Před 2 lety

    YOUR THE BEST ,THANK YOU

  • @macmann915
    @macmann915 Před 2 lety +6

    The formula has to work, my crush will last forever.

  • @joshuaemmanuelfrancis2703

    Hey congratulations on 100K 🥳
    As usual very informative video, thank u.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Před 3 lety +3

      Thank you so much! It's been quite the journey :)

    • @joshuaemmanuelfrancis2703
      @joshuaemmanuelfrancis2703 Před 3 lety

      @@Joyanima But you deserve much more and u will achieve it soon, cause you're hardwork does make a huge impact on many lives and mine personally.
      God bless u Anna, u really are like an elder sibling to me...wish one day I could meet u in person 😇
      Have a jolly Christmas Season.

  • @adityasuvarna749
    @adityasuvarna749 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Ana

  • @splb5628
    @splb5628 Před rokem +1

    I love your Accent!!!

  • @hazeldark9349
    @hazeldark9349 Před 2 lety +1

    Can you do a video of how to tell if a guy likes you, but is ignoring you seriously. But you had a few intense moments at work?

  • @garymcalister5539
    @garymcalister5539 Před 3 lety +1

    Love your videos

  • @eliazarvalentine7690
    @eliazarvalentine7690 Před rokem +1

    Another sign is if you talk one on one and they’re not engaged with you and they start looking around are looking at their phone that means they’re not into you

  • @austinhastings5366
    @austinhastings5366 Před 2 lety +1

    Anna i start losing my mind.
    U are the preetiest girl in the world.
    Even god can,t make another like u.
    I love u anna.

  • @alabama1974
    @alabama1974 Před 2 lety

    Oh I am her favorite viewer, I knew it 🧡💗💗💗💗💗

  • @sr71ablackbird
    @sr71ablackbird Před 3 lety +3

    tell me, why the hell even bother at all ? it'll save ya a crap-load of grief, pain, misery, and money. i guess that's why i'm still single in my 50s

  • @leeallen7491
    @leeallen7491 Před 3 lety +1

    I had all the opposites to this..but today.......i walked away as she is confused

  • @JACKSPARROW-wp7pb
    @JACKSPARROW-wp7pb Před rokem +1

    bro tuff luck for me cause everytime I ask this girl out she never declines but she also never accepts she just says " i"ll let u know or or she tells me she got something comming up" even though I told her just tell me if she dont like me BUT I guess females cant be real at least this one I like.

  • @leslierobertson9756
    @leslierobertson9756 Před 3 lety

    Hi Anna that was I’m sad to say very much me, I do seem to give 80% and not get much back 😢 but there are times when I think it’s all going to change and I’m getting so confused do I hang on or just give up.

    • @King_Ced
      @King_Ced Před 2 lety

      U gotta move on at that point tbh, it's gonna be hard but life goes on, someone else will appreciate u in the near future

  • @sungkim41
    @sungkim41 Před 3 lety +4

    What do I do if my coworker does all that flirty thing but her side job is an escort

  • @tiamod
    @tiamod Před 10 měsíci

    It’s such a mixed bag. He’s in a situationship with someone, but he’s talked to me on the phone for hours everyday for 2 years to the point the other one gets jealous, flirts regularly, among other things. But then backs off. Constantly hot and cold, ig.
    Maybe I’m just thinking too much about it

    • @Un_k_noWN
      @Un_k_noWN Před 8 měsíci +1

      wtf is a situationship?

  • @roymillsjnr5172
    @roymillsjnr5172 Před 2 lety +4

    There's no curry and chips or lager on the coffee table and she's kissing your best friend on the opposite sofa 😂😂😂👍

  • @Saltynutz333
    @Saltynutz333 Před 9 měsíci

    Friends with = benefits 😊

  • @SergioAOrtiz
    @SergioAOrtiz Před 2 lety +3

    "You cut me real deep there" - Donkey

  • @Sandra-luv-bug
    @Sandra-luv-bug Před 3 lety +2

    I will fess up, I've had a few men ask me out but I wasn't interested

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Před 3 lety

      :) Thanks for commenting. I hope you found the video enjoyable

  • @samstafford1906
    @samstafford1906 Před 3 lety +2

    Only the thing you can do is asking another girl out see if they get jealous.

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 Před 2 lety

    Yes....I know.

  • @Mrinmoy239
    @Mrinmoy239 Před 3 lety +3

    Please make a video on how to attract a silent girl with a nam of R ... she is very creative

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Před 3 lety

      Seems oddly specific....I'm sensing there is a girl named R who you like :p

  • @johnrainsman6650
    @johnrainsman6650 Před 7 měsíci

    Likes me or like-likes me....that is the question. She used to work at the bakery I go to a lot, and we chatted and connected so many times. Heck, about a year ago, while I was working on my laptop, I saw her lift her head up in thought, before turning to me and saying, "How was your summer?" It was kind of random, but I appreciated her interest. On her last day (Jan 2023), she said my coffee was on her. One day, I ran into her at the bar. We chatted, and I said something about her bravely coming out of her shell better than me because of her singing karaoke during her first time here. Not long after, when she and her friends were singing again, she gestured me toward them and pointed to the lyrics on the screen. What's funny is I had told her I didn't like being in the spotlight during the said "out of shell" conversation. Not to criticize her encouragement. Just saying it's interesting and I'm wondering about her motive, perspective, and if it could've meant something.
    But perhaps not. I'm starting to wonder if she has a boyfriend. I saw her a few nights ago at a different bar. I pretended I didn't see her in the dancing crowd, she noticed me (I think after I accidentally bumped into her), put her hand on my arm to get my attention, and said hi. It was a very brief talk, given the dancing and loudness. So of course, I did not ask for her number or to be my date at the swing dance next month. But it's not just that. She was with a group of friends, and one of them was a guy she talked with. He _could_ have been her boyfriend. What would be the signs (aside from kissing, obviously). I'm curious about the connection (or contradiction) between the potential "she-likes-me" signs and the idea of her having a boyfriend. He's the main reason I didn't ask her anything. Should I, whether it be phone number or swing dance invite?

  • @jefe2098
    @jefe2098 Před 5 měsíci

    My friend gets me high and makes sure i eat good and comes looking for me if we dont talk for a week always making plans to go out alone or with her grandkids doesnt mind sitting in the dark alone with me watching movies has had so called boyfriends but still finds time for me been going on for 7 years now just dont understand

  • @0077avi
    @0077avi Před 3 lety +15

    The background Satifies me more Then what your Talking about Lol🤤!

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Před 3 lety +5

      Their quite fun and whacky aren't they :)

    • @0077avi
      @0077avi Před 3 lety

      @@Joyanima Yeah

    • @TaeDaRisk
      @TaeDaRisk Před 3 lety

      🤦🏾‍♂️so goddamn stupid lmfao 🤣

  • @lenoxpI
    @lenoxpI Před 7 měsíci

    I’m being so god damn obvious I just wish instead of making me go mentally insane that she would tell me she doesn’t like me or something

  • @leahjanulgue7200
    @leahjanulgue7200 Před 3 lety +1

    Please tell me if he likes me or not?
    My crush and I are always talking for hours. Sometimes he initiate the conversation. Sometimes I am the one who initiate the conversation and it's balance. For Example, this day I initiate the conversation and tomorrow he wakes up, he initiate the conversation.
    We've been talking for about 5 - 8hours a day and I remember he brought back the information, I told him about a couple of months ago.
    He even called me "B". I don't know what that stands for..
    And he keeps asking questions and he is worried.
    One thing that get me confuse is, does he likes me or not is because sometimes when he told me he texted me at this hour and then I've waited but he never texted me but on the next day and he asks for apologizes why he didn't text me yesterday. His been doing it many times which really annoys me but he did send me a red heart emojie.
    Additional information,
    We always played video games together.
    Does this guy likes me?

    • @sm9a113
      @sm9a113 Před rokem

      He defo does

    • @sm9a113
      @sm9a113 Před rokem

      Btw lmk what happened cuz it’s been a year of you two aren’t together one of you probably moved on

  • @danuke1489
    @danuke1489 Před 2 lety +3

    What does it mean if someone addresses you as a friend, but they still flirt with you I don't understand that part. In many cases this feels really confusing cause its like a 50/50 you are not sure.

    • @kewl800i
      @kewl800i Před 2 lety

      Anyone has the answer??

    • @utini11
      @utini11 Před 2 lety +1

      This is more of a grey area imo. I’ve also heard girls say they called their crushes “dude” as well.

    • @jamesrebbechi9906
      @jamesrebbechi9906 Před rokem

      Make a clear & solid move on them directly towards the bedroom. Then you’ll know 100%

  • @ianthomas1983
    @ianthomas1983 Před rokem +1

    What if you're crush ask to go out with you

  • @alexpina3317
    @alexpina3317 Před rokem

    Does this included also co-workers🤔

  • @gazza2933
    @gazza2933 Před 3 lety +5

    Just one more...
    They don't dress- up for you or make an effort to look good for you.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  Před 3 lety +2

      That's an interesting point too! Thank you for commenting :)

    • @gazza2933
      @gazza2933 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Joyanima
      I hate being negative.
      Thank you anyway.

  • @sallexpress242
    @sallexpress242 Před 3 lety +6

    10th to 👍

  • @john1120
    @john1120 Před rokem +1

    I have an ex and she pretends she doesn't remember crap although we spent over a decade together lmao. That's just ego talking women are very egotistical.

  • @Darkboy5109
    @Darkboy5109 Před 6 měsíci

    She texts me first she gets very jealous and compliments me alot but but she just wants to be friends I dont get her 😂

  • @warzonekillmachine
    @warzonekillmachine Před 3 lety +1

    Hii ana how r u

  • @ianthomas1983
    @ianthomas1983 Před rokem +1

    Them

  • @GubbiGap
    @GubbiGap Před 2 lety +1

    Am I the only one who thinks she looks like Emma Watson in this video? Maybe it’s the hair?

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 Před 3 lety +1

    We can be besties ha

  • @jonathancox298
    @jonathancox298 Před 5 měsíci

    She's just useing you so tell good bye 👋

  • @jeskoumm
    @jeskoumm Před rokem +1

    “....She has to be smoking from the good pipe if she sees me as only friends....”

  • @roymillsjnr5172
    @roymillsjnr5172 Před 2 lety +1

    I tried didnt i try anna one last go 💋💋👅💋👅👅💋💋😂😂😂👍

  • @paulquick8806
    @paulquick8806 Před 2 lety +1

    You haven't mention covid or older crushes👕👎