r/Relationships: How do I kick out sister-in-law's family and not feel guilty?

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024

Komentáře • 29

  • @guyk768
    @guyk768 Před rokem +23

    "You can't help those that won't help themselves."
    Very wise words. I wouldn't have let the in-laws move in the first place they're literally lazy bums.
    The OP could have saved himself so much trouble.

    • @ChimpManZ1264
      @ChimpManZ1264 Před rokem +2

      Probably didn't help that his wife was the one who thought they could help out.

  • @RWSfan2024
    @RWSfan2024 Před rokem +8

    I feel so bad for OP, his sister in law and her family really toke a toll on his mental health

  • @optimusprimevlogs
    @optimusprimevlogs Před rokem +11

    What a way to start the morning

  • @tigertheorangeandblackengi1502

    We need Bruce, Bruce, Bruce and Bruce to go deal with these bludgers

  • @darioguerrero2580
    @darioguerrero2580 Před rokem +3

    Guilt: one of the many things that manipulators/leeches to get you to feel sorry for them when they're the ones in the wrong. The moment you call them out, fury/wrath kicks in saying that you're the bad one and not them. I'm sorry you went through this OP, and I wish the best of luck for you and your family.

  • @jokodihaynes419
    @jokodihaynes419 Před rokem +6

    he could have so no saved himself the trouble

  • @arenjtumastens
    @arenjtumastens Před rokem +4

    OP is feeling way too much guilt here, and it's out of hand. You shouldn't feel that much of it, OP. We know you're probably at fault for this, but Victor's right. Guilt is not a good motivator, and you shouldn't have let all this happen. You should do your best with therapy to get rid of this whole situation from you.

  • @faranitonuu3730
    @faranitonuu3730 Před rokem +9

    Well this is an interesting story

  • @RageGamer88
    @RageGamer88 Před rokem

    I'm just glad that OP survived the ordeal that he had to endure because of his lazy sister and even lazier husband of hers.

  • @stuartbarclay7940
    @stuartbarclay7940 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yikes... Talk about a nightmare....😧

  • @arenjtumastens
    @arenjtumastens Před rokem +3

    OP should never have let the sister-in-law and her husband move in. Those two are WAY to stupid and lazy, and have no idea what hard work means.

  • @karenfan010
    @karenfan010 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I really hope those kids don’t end up like there parents.

  • @ethansimmons3003
    @ethansimmons3003 Před rokem +11

    Karma strikes again 🎉

  • @johnathanedwards9054
    @johnathanedwards9054 Před rokem

    Talk about a nightmare. I should be glad that no one I know is a leech or wants to stay with me.

  • @Soundwave413
    @Soundwave413 Před rokem +2

    Is it wrong that I feel sorry for the in law’s children? Not for getting kicked out but because their parents are so lineant they are going to grow up to be spoiled and rude without some form of intervention in the future.

  • @calebtucker7677
    @calebtucker7677 Před rokem +4

    I know some people don’t like season 11 of Thomas because it’s all gimmicky and childish but personally I think it’s pretty cute

  • @danielbibbey26
    @danielbibbey26 Před rokem

    You remember the story about the OP whose brother wanted to propose at OP's wedding? There is another update.

  • @elmasterdezoologia6641
    @elmasterdezoologia6641 Před rokem +6

    Clearly you ran out of clips and reused some from past videos. But I don't mean this offensively. It's just something curious.
    Also, this was a great story

  • @deeznuts830
    @deeznuts830 Před rokem

    Bro's wife suggested that he let them stay then she eventually decided oh wait I'm not having this crap their kids messy as hell

  • @KingOp0ssum_II
    @KingOp0ssum_II Před rokem

    Victor where are you getting this footage of trains it's amazing, mainly talking the American ones

  • @stephenfarthing3819
    @stephenfarthing3819 Před rokem

    Hmm - not sure if this was wise choice. I suspect that it's not that wise. To try and find a middle ground between that is difficult and depending on co-operation. If you don't have the solution to this. Then chaos is the consequence.

  • @Bricky_comedian
    @Bricky_comedian Před rokem

    Not gonna lie,I really miss the older vids she victor used trains to remake the videos

  • @izaakfarrington7751
    @izaakfarrington7751 Před rokem +1

    Sister in Law sounds like a woman child

  • @Steve_1035
    @Steve_1035 Před rokem +2

    Pin Me For Absolutly No Reason