7 things I wish I knew in my 20s
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- čas přidán 17. 03. 2023
- Life lessons from my 20s.
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Bro hasn't smiled even once, he's not boring , it's like he faced some harsh realities and telling us not to do the same, respect👍🏻
Main propose is to obey Allah (The Only God) any other purpose should not come before obeying Allah (The Only God)
Read the quran
and the biography of Prophet Muhammed ﷺ
and his ways (sunnah)
Don’t get angry or annoyed i am just trying to preach my religion
Read sahih bukhari sahih muslim tirmidhi sunan abi dawoud sunan nasai sunan ibn majah
Follow Quran and Sunnah with the Understanding of the 3 generations after Muhammed ﷺ left this world
@@muneebibnimtiaz9879 stop with your bs everywhere
@@hiyoutube4733 your manners says it all bud
@@muneebibnimtiaz9879 thats why all terrorist belong to same religion
@@hiyoutube4733 stop disrespecting religions
Your "monotonous" way of presentation is really UNIQUE and that makes you stand out from the crowd of other presenters on CZcams. You don't have to change that for anyone. Personally, I find your presentation style and voice soothing to the eyes and ears!!!
@Rupesh Pradhan I Second that ✌️
Boring
I mean he legit has no expression on his face, it's bound to be UNIQUE
True that. For me, his type of presentations lets me focus more on the content and learn from it.
Monotonous mean
1. Most of the decisions you make is reversible.
2. If you have spent lot of resources on a wrong thing thinking it is the right think, this doesn't give you excuse to stay on that path just because you gave too much and are willing to go further down that road.
3. The universe doesn't care about you.
4. Get Over your fear
5. Don't outsource thinking, take some time to think by yourself. Doing/learning things what everyone else is doing will make you mediocre.
6. Work hard but on the right path.
7. Good communication skills are imp even when you are an introvert. Helps you get the job done!
Thanks for sharing
A couple of things that I came up with deep thinking on my own:
1. Most goals are not really difficult, they are more of a time sink. In most cases, if you spend long enough working towards it, you eventually will reach it. The difficult decision is if you want to sink that much time into the goal or not?
2. Getting started is much more important than planning how to do a thing perfectly. As you start doing the thing, and gain experience with it, you will learn how to optimize it little by little to make the experience better.
I agree with both your points. Thanks for sharing.
I agree too
On my own, I realised this --
- believing in yourself than anyone else is the most important thing to do first.
- Planning what and how you are going to do next on your own.
- Being Consistent.
- Meditation is the key to focus !!!!
Thanks for sharing, Mukul ❤️
I'm currently 19 now and I feel so left behind. i haven't been making any progress in my life for past three 3 years. When open Instagram and see my friends having a good times there, I feel so lonely and depressed. I always used to distract myself doom scrolling all day and night. but today i randomly found your video and after watching it, I feel so relaxed and I can relate to everything you talked about in the video. I realized and learned a lot through this video I couldn't stop myself from crying. I don't know how to put it into words man. thank you very much, more power to you!
I say try to have a balance. You are very young. Focus on building yourself and have fun too occassionally. You will cherish those memories later.
just get right into the boat with no excuse, dedicate all your time in doing potential things that you think would benefit you in the near future
You are quite young and have a whole life ahead of you. My best advise, study. If you happen to be a guy, put off fun for now and stay of girlfrieds or anything of the sort and just focus. You will be surprised how the next 4-5years will turn out. And dont waste any moment because TIME WILL FLY BEFORE YOU CAN EVEN BLINK!!
Same here career wise I am not going anywhere idk what I even like I am so doneeee
Us bro
My story is same as you brother. I did civil engineering, and worked two years in construction sites. Then I lost my job due to economic crises in my country (Sri Lanka). Same as you I started learning programming. I almost give up learning programming and I got your video in my youtube home feed. Thank you for your inspiration. This video helps me to keep fighting. I'm 28 years old.
Keep fighting bro. We're with you!
I can feel you bro ✋
Civil engineer learning programming same here😂😂😂
Hey, what a coincidence! I did production engineering, only to find out that it's not what I love. Now, like you, I'm learning programming. And, I'm also from Sri Lanka.
I am watching others do programming
I realised on my own that underestimating yourself and working hard for your goals is better than overestimating yourself and doing negligible work and just passing judgements on what others are doing
Im a 19 year old CS major. Ive been feeling like I havent done enough no matter how hard I try. Thank you so much.
I will be turning 20 in four months and I think this video made me think about myself and not give up when fear wins over my mind. Thanks for the video man.
Truly Inspiring and motivating. Thank you for sharing your experience with us 😀
Thank You so much for the video. I get motivated while watching your videos and they are really really helpful. The content you are putting in is really amazing keep going and expect more content from your side.
Don't change a thing. Your voice, communication skills and ability to reach an audience is phenomenal. I'm 51 yrs old and rarely find anyone that can hold my attention. Not only do you hold my attention, but you are also extremely intelligent, not self absorbed and have a grasp on how to achieve the results you want.
Thanks very much for your kind words ❤️
I really appreciate your hard work and you give your precious time by shooting these videos and share your thoughts is just awesome .
Thanks Ankita!
HEY ! Thanks for sharing wisdom with younger generation and inspiring us to better future ! Good luck with your future career and life !
Your monotonous way of present is literary excellent , It seems like you are speaking from heart and feels like every next minute you are gonna tell some unique think therefore we stick till the end in your all videos.Thank you so much for making this quality content and sharing your experience with us.
Thank you Sahil, your advice on deep thinking is great and real. Appreciated.
thank you for the precious experience that you shared!
Great thumbnail! It definitely caught my attention and made me want to click on the video. Can't wait to watch and learn more about tech. Thanks for sharing 🤗
You stand out of the crowd and also all your videos shows your intelligence, hard work, and patience. Hats off!
I really appreciate you sharing your journey, m8. From a small town, and with no career guidance, I sunk 6 years of my life into arts and design, only to get back to my coding roots last year. Working at an international startup as a junior developer, now. Long way to go, much to learn. But I'm excited about it this time, rather than suffering through it. I'm older than my peers but I catch on much faster. And everything I've learnt comes around to help me in unexpected ways. Nothing I learnt ever truly went to waste. Your words mean a lot.
As for the one thing I learnt myself: The ego is an immensely powerful tool. It fuels courage to stand against the world but can also lead off a cliff the moment you blink. Haven't mastered using it, yet. But I've definitely learnt how to leverage it well.
I hear you! I really can understand your story, I had a similar one and now I'm working from heart ❤ to be every day better at my passions and communicate better, at the end we all are social people by nature
Sahel,
Thank you for your presentation. I Enjoyed it.
I realized, and came to the conclusion to focus on my personal knowing and to trust my way, my feeling on life. Know that 'fear' is the 'devil', as a way of speaking, which undermines any 'good' or positive you can do. All this just because you are *afraid* to try.
This closely relates my present situation Thank-you for this video.
Your way of speaking is very soothing...and people are complaining about it....they might be pointing out your expression its always straight faced....
I'm 18 years old, what I believe is when life strikes you hard with reality and stopped you to become something you dreamed of even then, life leaves you with two choices, you give up on what you dreamed of (OR) not give up even if you have to start chasing your life all over it again, always the choice is yours
True!
Look Sahil, I don't give a damn if you're monotonous or whatever, you give out quality content that's VERY HARD to come across and you deliver it beautifully. Every video that I watch of you, I'll make sure that I'll watch it till the end. Why? Because even though you're monotonous, you catch my complete attention because deep in my heart, I just know what you're saying is very valuable and something I wish I could get more of.
You are a rare gem because of your sheer quality. I don't give a damn about your style. You're helping people with your experience and that's all that matters to me. I am honestly proud of what you've become from all the hardships you've went through. Also, it seems like you're monotone is more of a choice, lol. I noticed you used to be much more alive in your older videos. Keep making quality content, Sahil! Love ya! You're honestly inspiring me everyday to be a better programmer!
Wisdom packed video. Thanks a lot Sir.
wowwwww.... I can totally relate to everything you mentioned... 😊 and that's so amazing to know that you're not alone in this journey and there are people who felt the exact same things that you are now feeling and they persevered up to the end...and now I can look up to their example.. Know what I'm gonna subscribe!!
I've learnt one thing in life the hard way:
Sometimes you have to go through it all alone, even if there are people around you, it may feel like no-one cares ....but that's when you must be there for your own self and care for yourself more and never give up on those dreams.
What I needed, Thank you man
I don't know why but your content and knowledge feels like pure soul's true words ❤️ I am in same situation as u were previously so I can relate 😅😊
Just saw few seconds , got highly influenced and felt depth in ur voice, none of the unseen video could have attracted me to this extent
i dont know how to say excatly but your content is of very high quality and we need to listen it with full focus, which is great for the people who really wanna succeed
Watched many vedios titled things you should do at 20s but this seems more informative and crystal clear
You are not boring...it is just that your delivery evokes for me lines of computer code.
I dont follow the crowd, never have. I like to think about what would be most important to do, the limiting factors....and then I try and learn what I need to know. I am just most comfortable in the unknown. But often you have to deal with the fact that you stick out like a sore thumb. But I love freedom first and I cant get enough of it.
You get to know yourself and then you define your priorities. And you delineate the compromises you may (!!) have to make. Keep being happy!
Thanks Martine.
I was so down today, it has been 2 weeks since my rejection to a company that i dreamt of i could possibly not imagine what after that , the most pain comes after getting so close to get selected, and lost them because of fear , or the same reason as they said you
Almost many things in the video said matched me , and made my day especially that gandhi quotes .
Really thanks and do your honest work, i don't find myself commenting often on a channel but here i am .
Its time to revamp myself and start fresh , i can see many people face the hurdles in this comment section making a community.
Thank you for sharing this , ur videos are highly dedicated and honest, keep doing them 😉 .
Thank you very much. Changing my career from Telecommunication Engineering to Software Development has been a significant milestone for me. This story has truly motivated me
Thank you for sharing this amazing life story.
I usually dont write comments. But for this video. You derserve it. I empathize lots of things in this video. I will keep in mind. I think fear in 20's is the most dangerous thing. Do what you want to do without thinking about fallen cost.
Thanks for the advice.
A much needed video sir 🙌
I have similar BG like you NON-IT. Now I have changed my major’s to CS. You inspired me a lot 🙏
Great insights. Learned a lot of new things
My surrounding are fill with people who are they ,what they want from life ,got IIT & earning 18-20 lakh ,i am 25 & i feel worthless that i spend 6 year and did nothing ,after hearing from you it feel so I am not alone ,not all people do have a straight line graph in carrier v/s time .....Thankyou for sharing your experience ,you are a true fighter.
Hey same here , I am 25 as well , haven't progressed in life as well I don't even know what I can do or can't do . Good luck to all of us
@@sg28011 I am , even I have been looking all over the internet for a right direction and came accross this video. And as you suggested I will look into it , right way to to get into AI. And thank you really .
Thank you for the video. I am in my early 20's
best thing I ever did to myself --- founding your channel on my own !
Thanks 🙏
Congrats for the 300k!
Appreciating your work.. May the almighty Allah bless you with more success and prosperity.
I admire you so much, sir.
A fellow 30 + year old from Romania.
Thank you for this motivational words!!
Thanks 🙏
Sometimes when I was younger, I was seldom listened to myself because I thought it would be more appropriate to listen to others who might have more experience in life. Even when I got older, I still having this dilemma. I don't have good mentors or really good circle ever. But I realize, I am more able to accept failure because of my own decisions than listening to other people because other people will not be responsible for it.
Thank you man♥️
your monotonous communication skill is not boring sir, it is awesome. I like the way you speak.
oh man we share the same story i gave up my course at mechanical engineering now i am a CE student i love what you said about working hard
Your channel is addictive, and your monotonous style is somehow catchy. Keep up the good work.
The one thing I learned myself, is that success comes from obsession also.
I have seen a lot of successful people now that are mad obsessed with what they do and me being an average student or an average person never really got obsessed with anything. Although, this time when I start again for the 100th time to learn how to code, I am gonna try to be obsessed with it, thinking about it day and night but in a positive and constructive way. And then see where I end up.
I think consistency is the most important, what is want to do from which path, sometimes it does not matter. If you work hard today or after today you will get your price. But I can't focus on my path, I learn a lot of programming languages, and after some days I give up and started to learn another language or focusing another thing. But I decided this year I focus on my communication skill and try to learn digital marketing. Also, I am trying to improve my GPA. As I am a student of dept of eee.
You are someone like showing a mirror to anyone's thought pattern❤
❤️
You are inspiration for many , Thank You !
Thanks 🙏
Keep going brother..your channel will surely help many.
I always surprise how much you think like me...
Best thing is that you are very honest and talk about real life problems that we are facing..
BTW Love your content....
Thanks Om.
1. Communication skills are very important to grasp.
2. Don't overrate hardwork: he faced 500+rejections even after working hard.
3.learn decision making: before you get up make a start thinking what are the goals that today i have to accomplish.
4. Stay careful about relevant technologies
5. Don't fear to work with new things: slowly and steadily you may find yourself comfortable. Guy had a chance to take admission in cse iit delhi, but didn't take it due to not being conversant with computer.
6. Think rationally, never fear to start from zero, guy spent 6 years in ME and still switched to programming.
I hardly watch the videos from YT to the end and leave for most of the time but you're different. I fell in love with your videos at once and didn't even think to leave the video. That's amazing that you can attract the viewers. You said "Leave your cmt". Alright, that's what I always say to myself to concentrate. I can' t really concentrate and that's my biggest enemy and thanks for your video sir!
Just starting my 20s, thank you for the tips
Thanks bro for this video❤
Men trust me u are so interesting not boring... Keep going... U are helping a lot of people which is very good thing ❤
I am currently struggling to redirect my path in life as a 26yo man that feels behind in life. I have fallen victim of modern day technology for so much time that I can't even imagine it.
Thank you very much for making this video, it has helped me a ton by making me realize what I am currently doing wrong.
Only one line to say " It's awesome video I ever seen " thank you for providing your real life experience
thank you for the video
Definitely u r not boring .... I can't skip your video for a second....
One Thing - Focus
I think your communication skills are at par excellence, that's why many people loves your content.
Thanks Sahil!
We love you sir your style is amazing
Keep making such interesting videos 😃☺️
Bhaia, trust me, this kind of important advice, I never get from the video of the same title "7/10/20 things I wish I knew before my 20s" You helping me to grow up and take better decisions, Thank You ❤🇧🇩
Hey Baha! Are you exactly the same buddy from our college ?
@@rahat_uddin Hi Rahat, yes yes I am your buddy Baha!
@@bahauddinchishte @bahauddinchishte So we're not in so different path again 😅 Surely, it's always too difficult to forget friends both in the real planet and internet 🤣
@@bahauddinchishte And listen, I'm up to building up a PC. So I may need your help.As I am not available on social media and I've changed my last contact also, how can catch you up buddy?
best vedio man as i think these words come from the heart
A very nice video. Applause 👏
Thank you mr robot! Exactly what I was looking for 😊
Your word Universe does not care is true because Today I am jobless so my such a close friend is not inviting me to his marriage, so first thing that come in my mind is to be a wealthy person in every aspect not for others but for ourselves.
The best part of life is you have alot of choices than you imagine choose wisely dude!!
You are the real gem 💎
The ultimate purpose of life is to drive out material influence through spiritual experience.
This idea I came up with while I was meditating in the name of Lord Sri krishna.
Hi Saahil many thanks❤
That was very inspiring 🌹
Your channel is really help ful
As someone in my late 20s, who always wanted to start programming but never was able to stick with it, I always said to myself "Well, you f-ed up, you could have done better in professional school" etc. etc.
Now I finally found the courage to try it once more, and I'm actually making progress this time, but still this lingering regret of "I could have done better, now it's too late" is always present.
Watching this video, really helped me get out of that cycle, and lets me look forward to a much, much brighter future! Thank you so much!
EDIT: When I started in a career, the school I was attending, had two paths we could choose from "System-Technician" and "Software-Developer"
I really, wanted to go the Developer-Path, but I struggled so hard keeping up with the courses, that I eventually gave up and sticked with the other path.
Once I did that, I always thought "Thats it, thats what you have todo from now on". It felt like having to write an essay, while watching my friends eat ice-cream outside.
Knowing that I can still turn the wheel and take up my passion...is life-changing!
Thanks for sharing your story. I’m sure you’ll turn the wheel very soon. Good luck 👍
I was someone like you who had never worked in any computers or knew anything about programming, i choose the path CS to face the fear of trying something at a very large risk. But i am now in my 3rd year of Undergrad and a have been performing very well so far. I learnt that if you have your mind set upon a goal, you can make it by its very scratch.
You deserve more......... Subscribers
Hats off too u
What I learnt till now since I born is. Please read it carefully " It always be negative when you observe dark side of anything and it gets brighter and better when you ignore dark side about that thing" I don't know whether it sounds great but these words have a very deep meaning and it applies everywhere.
Thank you for sharing
Thanks 🙏
Thanks Sahil,,, You always inspire me to become a software engineer
keep sharing like this to the world Sahil, you mayn't , you may change someone's life. Please keep your journey.
Thanks Rahul.
Your story resonates so much much with mine. I choose Mech Engg in my first year of B.E simply beacuse I did not even know how to shut down a computer hence leaving CS from a Tier1 college and going to Tier 2 college for Mech since Mech cutoff was much higher than IT and CS at that time.
OMG how am i relating to this so much.... i have been to the same situation first i did my diploma then i graduated with a marketing degree and now i am planning to get a masters degree from US OMG this is dejavu for me. Thank you so much for this video and helping me with my decisions.
Man you speaking very well, i like your simplicity but remember you have to smile more to win a communication cause smile is worth 10 million so smile bro...!😊
Thank you sir
Thank u bro❤❤
Brother I don't know what great video presentation look like but i have been subscriber from long time and I enjoyed your video a lot and it helped me a lot your videos are very precious, point to point and full of information and experience, infact something i watch your video multiple times because I am not able to soke all information at once
That was really inspiring Sahil.
Hi Saahil.. U r best in sharing ur own experiences & the knowledge.. just one suggestion.. upload ur videos in 1.5× speed as that seems to be perfect...
something new and relatable..lots of love Sahil!!
Sehr interessantes Video, ich selbst habe es auch bemerkt, wie wichtig es ist sich gut zu artikulieren. Vor allem bei Jobinterviews. Was mir im Ausland oft fehlt, sind die bezahlten Ausbildungen, viele legen den Fokus stark auf das Studium, was an sich auch nicht so verkehrt ist, jedoch ist eine Ausbildung mit Arbeiten verbunden und man kann dabei auch vieles Praktisches erlernen. Zum Beispiel in Deutschland gibt es die Ausbildung zum Fachinformatiker Systemintegration oder Anwendungsentwickler, die in richtung IT gehen.(just Translate it) My English isn't the best, but I am still trying to improve it. What I have learned over the time is: Don't worry about a problem, solve it! That's the best advice I have thought for myself, and I am 24. Btw I like your Videos, they have great Advice, keep it up :)