completely true, tsking care of them, continously trying to help them, it's a waste, its better to walk away and deal with the fact that they aren't as important as you feel they are. If you don't you'll pay for it majorly.
I had a friend from childhood I finally had to let go of when I realized he was a liability. He was trying to sabotage my marriage, career, finances, family...all because I was doing significantly better than him. I made some mistakes venting to him about our relationship and giving him too much information because I trusted him so well. When the friendship ended, I grieved for a couple years. Now I can look back on it and see that it was for the best.
I might be going through the same thing. He knows I make more money than him and I’m more physically fit than him since he’s obese. He’ll mock my strength gains and poke fun of how much more I make. With all that said I’m the godfather of his kid and I’ve funded his daughters birthdays and helped him with money.
I have a friend coach, and you nailed it. whenever we see a hot girl or just a decent whale, and I show interest, my friend tells me not go over there and talk to her cause I'll make a fool of myself or she's too good for me or insert whatever excuse. also when I talk about my college days my friends go silent or change the conversation, cause they never graduated college and barely go out of high school. all they want to do is drink and watch instagram videos. I secretly started my own business and didn't say a word to any of them because of their crab mentality. they would hate to see me shine.
It’s insane how accurate this is for a guy I know even down to the example of the beautiful woman at the bar “don’t go for her, here settle for someone less attractive” they don’t want you to excel in any area of life because it reflects poorly on them
Excellent video....cause it makes you think and reflect....and its nice to hear someone describe your exact observations so eloquently....very entertaining video...this is the exact stuff I want my kids to learn about....life's traps.
Great post, CRP! Ive had this experience too...old college roommate of mine is in this category, & I knew it back then; but, I lost my folks in quick order & twas grieving, so we hung out...now that Im in a better place, Ive distanced myself...toxic people are liabilities (anchors), not assets (sails), to your life....
Nothing but truth in this one. I've hung around the exact same type of people described in this video. Funny dudes, good heart, but they lack skills, ambition and the most important thing they lack is the will to change something. They're funny but even their jokes and humor are toxic, and hanging around them is ussually engaging in trivial convos and activities.
I have / had a friend like this.... He is / was funny, but it gets bored rly fast. He is always available, u are always welcome... U see people come, and go.... The people who go, never come back. They are 'busy' according to your loser friend... ONE MORE, ONE MORE..... You are their best friend, they dont talk about you behind your back... BUT THEY DO ABOUT ANYONE ELSE.... ANYONE, A N Y O N E... Its never theyre fault, always some plot, the boss, my friend, my girlfriend has borderline.... And so on... Pay close attention the my writing and what CPR says.
Borderline girlfriends are really damaging and that friend probably has a lot of truama, maybe if you were in his shoes and were actually a good friend maybe you'd understand, but, trying to make somebody understand who hasn't had to go though life beating them up horribly won't ever understand
The opening statement about luck is just pure garbage. People underestimate what 10 years of solid dedicated work on something can achieve. If you can't put in that work it's not luck that is your problem. If you want success try sacrificing everything for long periods of time to get success in that area you desire, it will be slow, it will be hard, it will be long, but you can make massive improvements in almost anything with enough hard work over enough time.
actually there are pretty good studies about luck and success. i didn’t believe it before and i looked it up. when i saw this video i was surprised he was actually right. bill gates was super lucky that lakeside school had a pc at that time and his friend died in the mountains. thats just a simple example. so educate yourself before you call some statement garbage please. makes you come across pretty silly as well.
Many people work hard all of their life But only about 5% get that success And don't even talk about extreme success What goes on up there it just has nothing to do with hard work at all. Just look at Kamala Harris and her President buddy.
Here’s another thing: what about those friends who did make it and that’s all they ever talk about? My new car, my 1000 thread sheets, my this, that, etc. equally as annoying and pompous af.
10:15 YAY thats it! They will make you stumble to fell and im not talking about words im resistant of bad talking! I talk about active actions!.. This is a hard lessen i had to learn!
I had to cut contact with a guy. Weed made him very mañana. He canceled plans the last second and never picked up the phone. I told him the weed or me. He choose the weed. So, bye!
They don't live life, their own or someone else's. They're spectators. Worst of all. Like those reaction content. But in a bigger scale. I hold myself back from commenting nowadays because most of all today it became what losers do.
I know the people you talk about he gets 304, like to play call of duty a lot and the last time I saw him hanging out with a cholos/gang banger. I remember he said your dreams are too hard to get let's get loaded on weed and liquor but I don't get weed or liquor do you get some.
Bro, no one ever said that to you. You can barely form a coherent sentence. If you don’t put any effort into what you write, why would should anyone care?
Wasn't coach making fun of people that were invested in crypto in 2022 when it collapsed especially the Terra Lunc community. I guess coach was that loser. 😢
I disagree real friends are hard finds ,what they think does not matter ,you stand above their fears use their opinions to fuel your drive succeed and light the way for them to change their negativity be a leader ,and if they break the ice ,eat their fear and tread on ground they are unfamiliar reach out grab their hand and lead them to their success ,do nothing for them ,they must do it on their own ,be the guide ,that is a friend , yeah those chants echoing ,I told you so was the wall I used to insure ,I can't turn back ,never tell them what your doing ,to prevent their negativity from discouraging my ideas or plans ,and when I succeeded ,I give them a taste and share ,it help relieve the guilt of not failing , because I once thought like them
aye but at some point you start having enough of seeing them only taking taking taking, and destroying themselves, and when you ask for accountability to have the tables turned on you, even though you're the one who's being asked for help. I ended what at times seemed like friendships, and I am not focusing solely on business partnerships. We are friendly, indeed, but I don't need anyone to be my therapist, nor do I need to get too personal with someone for us to be able to create something meaningful. The rule is: if you don't build with them, don't chill with them, and first we build, then we chill.
Tells friend you are planning of getting dog : Loser friend: YOU CANT HANDLE A DOG YOU DONT KNOW HOW MUCH RESPONSIBILITY IS NEEDED I KNOW YOU MAN !!! You: what do you suggest I do to prepare? Loser friend: NOTHING man you can’t prepare for this your mind needs to be correct first !!!!
Whoever running this channel, thank you. This is so helpful. The coach is still with us, from the grave.
Thanks you so much for this archive channel , I was so worried all of this gold was gone forever
yes.
He died this year😢
Druggies, freeloaders and people with zero ambition are who you should avoid
What about guys with not much ambition bur are not toxic?
Bums
And alcoholics
Got a roommate like this. . .yea...
completely true, tsking care of them, continously trying to help them, it's a waste, its better to walk away and deal with the fact that they aren't as important as you feel they are. If you don't you'll pay for it majorly.
I had a friend from childhood I finally had to let go of when I realized he was a liability. He was trying to sabotage my marriage, career, finances, family...all because I was doing significantly better than him. I made some mistakes venting to him about our relationship and giving him too much information because I trusted him so well. When the friendship ended, I grieved for a couple years. Now I can look back on it and see that it was for the best.
I might be going through the same thing. He knows I make more money than him and I’m more physically fit than him since he’s obese. He’ll mock my strength gains and poke fun of how much more I make. With all that said I’m the godfather of his kid and I’ve funded his daughters birthdays and helped him with money.
@@kingandy18- Time to cut ties...
I have a friend coach, and you nailed it. whenever we see a hot girl or just a decent whale, and I show interest, my friend tells me not go over there and talk to her cause I'll make a fool of myself or she's too good for me or insert whatever excuse.
also when I talk about my college days my friends go silent or change the conversation, cause they never graduated college and barely go out of high school. all they want to do is drink and watch instagram videos. I secretly started my own business and didn't say a word to any of them because of their crab mentality. they would hate to see me shine.
It’s insane how accurate this is for a guy I know even down to the example of the beautiful woman at the bar “don’t go for her, here settle for someone less attractive” they don’t want you to excel in any area of life because it reflects poorly on them
One of the first fathers of youtube i ever had because of the red pill and he given good advice it didn't have to end like that rest in peace 😢
Been in denial about this with family for a while. Think it’s time to walk away for sure after realizing the patterns. RIP Gonzalo
Very true! A reflection on the subject: never confuse common sense with cowardice. The former enables a path; the latter, rejects it.
Damn bro you right about the loser friends
100%
Rip CRP
Proper Old School talk seriously cannot beat it
I worked with a guy like this, he burned every bridge that ever helped him. Huge loser!
Rip to the legend!!
At 47 this is hitting really close to home I enjoy swelling my retirement more than hanging out with these people honestly.
Please Please keep this channel going, absolute pure, gold, great stuff, reminding my dad had the same knowledge and wisdom
Excellent video....cause it makes you think and reflect....and its nice to hear someone describe your exact observations so eloquently....very entertaining video...this is the exact stuff I want my kids to learn about....life's traps.
Great post, CRP! Ive had this experience too...old college roommate of mine is in this category, & I knew it back then; but, I lost my folks in quick order & twas grieving, so we hung out...now that Im in a better place, Ive distanced myself...toxic people are liabilities (anchors), not assets (sails), to your life....
I used to have close friends and family just like this.
Nothing but truth in this one. I've hung around the exact same type of people described in this video. Funny dudes, good heart, but they lack skills, ambition and the most important thing they lack is the will to change something. They're funny but even their jokes and humor are toxic, and hanging around them is ussually engaging in trivial convos and activities.
I almost shed a tear, time to re-evaluate my life, before it turns bitter.
Just cut one of these fools loose. Currently working on my loser radar 😂 I appreciate this video
RIP SIR, UR LIKE A FATHER TO ME. THANK YOU!!!
What happen to him ?
R.I.P.
Wow... this is so true and yet so few people realize it.
Cowardice is contagious, but so is courage!!
I have / had a friend like this.... He is / was funny, but it gets bored rly fast. He is always available, u are always welcome... U see people come, and go.... The people who go, never come back. They are 'busy' according to your loser friend... ONE MORE, ONE MORE..... You are their best friend, they dont talk about you behind your back... BUT THEY DO ABOUT ANYONE ELSE.... ANYONE, A N Y O N E... Its never theyre fault, always some plot, the boss, my friend, my girlfriend has borderline.... And so on...
Pay close attention the my writing and what CPR says.
Borderline girlfriends are really damaging and that friend probably has a lot of truama, maybe if you were in his shoes and were actually a good friend maybe you'd understand, but, trying to make somebody understand who hasn't had to go though life beating them up horribly won't ever understand
RIP Mr Gonzalo Lira
Thank you coach, we miss you.
‘I tooooold you soooo’ 😂😂😂😂😂
I hope that CRP has not been killed in Ukraine.
I'm afraid so if you haven't learned already.
Pure Gold, thanks!
Very well said! This has certainly been my experience!
I did all that to my own life. I even did that to my spiritual life. Phuk.
Spot on once again CRP!
The opening statement about luck is just pure garbage. People underestimate what 10 years of solid dedicated work on something can achieve. If you can't put in that work it's not luck that is your problem. If you want success try sacrificing everything for long periods of time to get success in that area you desire, it will be slow, it will be hard, it will be long, but you can make massive improvements in almost anything with enough hard work over enough time.
actually there are pretty good studies about luck and success. i didn’t believe it before and i looked it up. when i saw this video i was surprised he was actually right. bill gates was super lucky that lakeside school had a pc at that time and his friend died in the mountains. thats just a simple example. so educate yourself before you call some statement garbage please. makes you come across pretty silly as well.
Do you know how many people from poor countries spend their entire lives playing soccer in the hopes of making it professional and FAIL?
Many people work hard all of their life
But only about 5% get that success
And don't even talk about extreme success
What goes on up there it just has nothing to do with hard work at all. Just look at Kamala Harris and her President buddy.
👇same Here, Thanks for all the knowledge Coach🤙
Thank you for this channel
This video is so great and true. Many thanks 👏
Here’s another thing: what about those friends who did make it and that’s all they ever talk about? My new car, my 1000 thread sheets, my this, that, etc. equally as annoying and pompous af.
They're not happy. always seeking outside validation. Highly unfulfilled.
They’re not successful. They have money but are unfulfilled so they have to satisfy their ego by saying “dont look at who I am, look at what I have”
My own family.
Rest in peace coach
10:15 YAY thats it! They will make you stumble to fell and im not talking about words im resistant of bad talking! I talk about active actions!.. This is a hard lessen i had to learn!
are you describing yourself man?
Now that would be a twist…
Kidding?
Good stuff love your channel.
R. I. P
This amazing
RIP coach.
Huh???
Reminds me of gootecks, the pogchamp face.
Or they will get involved in your project and over complicate the project until it will take momentous effort to get it off the ground
RIP Gonzalo
Thank you
They also diminish you, and hate you if u ask them about personal responsibility. They get angry.
He is right.....
my father is the same
💯
true story
CRABS
I had to cut contact with a guy. Weed made him very mañana. He canceled plans the last second and never picked up the phone. I told him the weed or me. He choose the weed. So, bye!
They don't live life, their own or someone else's. They're spectators.
Worst of all. Like those reaction content. But in a bigger scale.
I hold myself back from commenting nowadays because most of all today it became what losers do.
EG TED THOR
I'm that loser friend
Know what's going on.
What happened to him.RIP
They are always complaining about stupid BS
I know the people you talk about he gets 304, like to play call of duty a lot and the last time I saw him hanging out with a cholos/gang banger. I remember he said your dreams are too hard to get let's get loaded on weed and liquor but I don't get weed or liquor do you get some.
Bro, no one ever said that to you. You can barely form a coherent sentence. If you don’t put any effort into what you write, why would should anyone care?
If such a guy can pull you down, maybe you're too weak and don't deserve to succeed?
Try succeding in spite of such people.
Wasn't coach making fun of people that were invested in crypto in 2022 when it collapsed especially the Terra Lunc community. I guess coach was that loser. 😢
Your comment doesn't make sense in regards to this video.
I disagree real friends are hard finds ,what they think does not matter ,you stand above their fears use their opinions to fuel your drive succeed and light the way for them to change their negativity be a leader ,and if they break the ice ,eat their fear and tread on ground they are unfamiliar reach out grab their hand and lead them to their success ,do nothing for them ,they must do it on their own ,be the guide ,that is a friend , yeah those chants echoing ,I told you so was the wall I used to insure ,I can't turn back ,never tell them what your doing ,to prevent their negativity from discouraging my ideas or plans ,and when I succeeded ,I give them a taste and share ,it help relieve the guilt of not failing , because I once thought like them
aye but at some point you start having enough of seeing them only taking taking taking, and destroying themselves, and when you ask for accountability to have the tables turned on you, even though you're the one who's being asked for help. I ended what at times seemed like friendships, and I am not focusing solely on business partnerships. We are friendly, indeed, but I don't need anyone to be my therapist, nor do I need to get too personal with someone for us to be able to create something meaningful. The rule is: if you don't build with them, don't chill with them, and first we build, then we chill.
Cringe
Tells friend you are planning of getting dog :
Loser friend: YOU CANT HANDLE A DOG YOU DONT KNOW HOW MUCH RESPONSIBILITY IS NEEDED I KNOW YOU MAN !!!
You: what do you suggest I do to prepare?
Loser friend: NOTHING man you can’t prepare for this your mind needs to be correct first !!!!
I could relate to this like crazy due to my personal experience.