Heal Your Anxious Attachment Style (4-Video Compilation)

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
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    When you need love desperately, it's easy to fill in the gaps and attach to people who turn out NOT to have love to give, and this in turn can activate your CPTSD symptoms. This is one of the ways an "anxious attachment" style can sabotage your trauma healing work. In this four video compiliation, I share some of my most popular videos on anxious attachment, how it manifests, and what to do to overcome its influence your relationships.
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Komentáře • 52

  • @notme2day
    @notme2day Před 2 měsíci +14

    Thank You for posting this. Not only did I listen once through... I listened a second time through as there is so much information to absorb.
    So much struck a cord within me, that yes, I will listen to this a few times more.
    We are only the best versions of ourself when we are completely *honest* with ourselves... warts/flaws and all.
    Thank You for what you do, which is trying to keep many of us on the sane side, with the tools we need to self correct our course.
    Remember to be kind to yourself, your pets and each other. ❤

    • @CrappyChildhoodFairy
      @CrappyChildhoodFairy  Před 2 měsíci +2

      I'm so glad the video was helpful! Thank you for sharing this :) -Calista@TeamFairy

  • @RoadRunnergarage8570
    @RoadRunnergarage8570 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I am happy enough just finding people that share my hobbies of model car building and collecting vintage Hot Wheels and Matchbox cars....

  • @scsillay
    @scsillay Před 2 měsíci +5

    its uncanny how you often post something that helps me exactly when i need it XD thank you for all of your hard work and for speaking up and about these kind of things

  • @babygirlntando
    @babygirlntando Před 16 dny

    I am so glad I am hearing this in my 20s and I am so positive that this will never be my entire life’s identity. I can’t wait to heal ❤and have better relationships

  • @vmarie44
    @vmarie44 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Explaining emotional flash backs was incredibly helpful Anna. Reflecting back, this explains a lot. Thank-you for all the effort you put into helping those of us with childhood trauma.

    • @CrappyChildhoodFairy
      @CrappyChildhoodFairy  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment! We're glad you are here!
      Nika@TeamFairy

  • @meagandekkar6377
    @meagandekkar6377 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I just purchased both of Pete Walker’s books.

  • @Ghanem_1994
    @Ghanem_1994 Před měsícem +1

    I understand Ashley 100%.
    I'm 29 yrs old man. Yes I'm handsome and open minded and different. But i had big CPTSD and i'm trapped and always fall in with wrong woman sadly.
    I'm so alone and work in different city than my hometown so i don't see family or friends. I'm alone with CPTSD, social anxiety and anxious attachment style. But i started now to understand anxious attachment and i'm trying to learn how to move on and be happy and love myself and find love of my life somewhere along the road.

    • @CrappyChildhoodFairy
      @CrappyChildhoodFairy  Před měsícem +1

      You are in the right place. Good luck in your healing journey!
      Nika@TeamFairy

  • @thetromsky
    @thetromsky Před 10 dny

    Thank you, Anna. I just finished the first part. That's my situation right now (I'm anxious, he's dismissive). Based on what I learned, when it comes to dismissive person, giving ultimatum is a big no-no.
    I'd love to hear more of your stories about dismissive avoidant. Because the anxious person, like me, sometimes we don't realize how fast we are to be attached to someone. It's like forcing a flower to bloom before its time.

    • @CrappyChildhoodFairy
      @CrappyChildhoodFairy  Před 10 dny

      Thank you for watching. If you'd like to share your story and ask Anna a question, feel free to write an "Ask the Fairy" letter. You can do it from here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters
      Nika@TeamFairy

  • @RoadRunnergarage8570
    @RoadRunnergarage8570 Před 2 měsíci +8

    I just avoid relationships.. problem solved!!

  • @CrystalClaypool
    @CrystalClaypool Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you Mrs.Runkle ❤️

  • @cb5284
    @cb5284 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I resonate with Katie so much. But my guy says he is depressed and I make every thing about me and our relationship. So, I am always stressed because I dont want to pressure him and suppress my emotions.

  • @TheLove1Makes
    @TheLove1Makes Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks Anna

  • @user-qt6pc9se5d
    @user-qt6pc9se5d Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanks Ana

    • @CrappyChildhoodFairy
      @CrappyChildhoodFairy  Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment! -Calista@TeamFairy

  • @lindsaygfeller9153
    @lindsaygfeller9153 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Where do we ask to address a question? I’m wondering about getting over Limerence with my child’s father. Always obsessing over why I wasn’t good enough and obsessing about the women he is entertaining.

    • @CrappyChildhoodFairy
      @CrappyChildhoodFairy  Před 2 měsíci +1

      You can write to Anna here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters
      Unfortunately, Anna isn't able to respond to all the letters she receives on her channel, but we would love to hear from you :) -Calista@TeamFairy

  • @angelirizarry2666
    @angelirizarry2666 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I was a very sheltered kid who at 20 didn't even know what emotional availability was lol
    All i knew is that i really loved my ex and was there through thick and thin and.... i was not given the same energy
    Just a lot of love bombing and a lot of unsafe sex
    Then they were emotionally unavailable for those things too
    7 years 😅 oops

  • @steveguti6452
    @steveguti6452 Před 2 měsíci +41

    Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for 11 year old Ella in massive car accident did craniotomy surgery draining brain swelling 4 fracures 4 titanium pins from generations 2434 brother Pete Garcia daughter she desperately needs your prayers please pray for her and family God bless you all

    • @tonijohn3606
      @tonijohn3606 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Praying

    • @leilanirodriguez764
      @leilanirodriguez764 Před 2 měsíci +1

      In my prayers

    • @RoadRunnergarage8570
      @RoadRunnergarage8570 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Prayers sent

    • @RoadRunnergarage8570
      @RoadRunnergarage8570 Před 2 měsíci

      Prayers also sent as a Traumatic Brain Injury -( TBI ) survivor.... Praying this young lady can get through the long and hard road to recovery ahead...

    • @BemaSeatAcademy
      @BemaSeatAcademy Před 2 měsíci +2

      "Steve Guti" is a for profit bot, not a human. Good prayer requests but don't comment or like

  • @pamelacaballero6111
    @pamelacaballero6111 Před 2 měsíci +1

    34:00 emotional flashbacks

  • @dubliner1303
    @dubliner1303 Před měsícem

    In hindsight; the shorter time frame is always the worst.

  • @carolynhannaford
    @carolynhannaford Před 2 měsíci +1

    Hmmm….not sure this is exactly CPTSD. This woman’s letter, heartfelt, seems like it’s more than CPTSD issues. Your opening however IS! Always learn something.

  • @steveguti6452
    @steveguti6452 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive wildfires in new Mexico Arizona Colorado Florida California they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all

    • @notme2day
      @notme2day Před 2 měsíci +1

      You know what people need even more than prayers?... ACTION. People need donations. Shelter, food, money, even blood donations for those injured ... basic necessities do more for real people and animals than thoughts and prayers.

  • @almightybeanchild
    @almightybeanchild Před měsícem

    Whats with the religious messages bombarding your channel? If you believe in jesus so much go to church to solve your problems. Use your prayers. Don't listen to expertts on CZcams.

  • @steveguti6452
    @steveguti6452 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone everyday God bless you all....

    • @elcuencodelafelicidad
      @elcuencodelafelicidad Před 2 měsíci +7

      This is not a channel about that. Please respect the topic of this channel and do not bother others with your religious believes.

    • @notme2day
      @notme2day Před 2 měsíci +4

      @elcuencodelafelicidad Agreed, I've yet to see prayer solve anything save a person feeling better about themselves for doing the bare minimum.

    • @AuntyNick.
      @AuntyNick. Před 2 měsíci +1

      Oh great... now we have the cult moving in. Please go away, peddling religion is not ok and it's all BS as far as I'm concerned. I'm not tolerant of these lies... ffs !!! I thought this channel was a safe space... !? 😡🤮

    • @aggiepetrofsky5059
      @aggiepetrofsky5059 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Hi I'm struggling with life. I was hoping to talk about it before I give up. I know this chanel can help. Please help 🙏

    • @user-hx3kd1zn7f
      @user-hx3kd1zn7f Před 2 měsíci +1

      Some of the most toxic people can be the most religious, so I agree comments like this don’t belong.

  • @suzannortega6671
    @suzannortega6671 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Sinful nature is a violation of the creation ordinance. Not to be condemned but not ok .