Speaking English - "I wish I had..."

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  • www.engvid.com/ Have you ever made a mistake? Feel bad about something you did or didn't do? Learn two useful ways to express regret in English in personal, social, and professional situations. I'll teach you how to use the positive and negative forms of "I wish I had..." and "If only I had...". This lesson is a must for anyone whose actions differ from their plans -- and that could be you!
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    TRANSCRIPT
    Hi. My name is Rebecca from www.engvid.com. In life, as much as we try, we don't always do the right thing, right? Sometimes, we do something, and wish afterwards that we hadn't done it. And sometimes, we don't do something and wish afterwards that we had done it. Well, in English we have some expressions to express these kinds of situation and these kinds of feelings that we have when we do and don't do something. All right? So this lesson is focused on that. So what we're basically talking about in this lesson is expressing regret. Regret is when we feel somewhat unhappy and uncomfortable with something that we did or didn't do. So let's get started.
    So the expression you can use to talk about something that you didn't do that you wish you had done is, "I wish I had --." Now, you can use this expression to talk about personal situations or social situations or business situations. Okay? So you can use it in a professional context as well. So these are things that you wish you had done that you didn't do. And then on the other side, we'll come to the other part of the equation.
    So for example, you could say, "I wish I had studied harder for my test." Or, "I wish I had bought the house last year when it was so much cheaper." Okay? So these are some examples in the personal realm. You could say, in a social situation, "I wish I had called her last week." "I wish I had gone to the concert." Okay? This means you didn't go to the concert, and you're saying you heard it was really good. "I wish I had gone to the concert." In a professional context you might say, "I wish I had quoted a better price." "I wish I had booked the meeting room earlier." Okay?
    So here, you have some examples. Now, you do see another expression down here. Instead of saying, "I wish I had" plus whatever you need to say, you could also use the expression, "If only I had --." For example, "If only I had booked the conference room earlier." "If only I had quoted a better price." Okay? So you get the idea on this side.
    Now, we come to this side. This is when you did something, and you shouldn't have done it, and you wish that you had not done it. So then, you could say, "I wish I hadn't eaten so much. I was really trying lose weight. I'm supposed to be on a diet. Why did I eat so much? I wish I hadn't eaten so much." Or, "I wish I hadn't waited until now to call her." Okay? Another example. "I wish I hadn't trusted him/her." I wish I hadn't invited them." Or in a profession situation, "I wish I hadn't agreed to their proposal." "I wish I hadn't paid the contractor already." Or, "I wish I hadn't paid the contractor in advance." Okay? And again, another way of expressing the same thing is to say, "If only I hadn't paid the contractor in advance, we could've found another contractor." "If only I hadn't agreed to their proposal, I could have considered your offer." Okay? So you see that you can use "I wish I had", "I wish I hadn't", or you can use "if only I had" or "if only I hadn't". Okay? And all of these are used to express regret for something you did or something you didn't do. And it happens to all of us, so now you know how to express it. Okay? So if you'd like to do a quiz on this subject, please go to our website, www.engvid.com. That way, you'll have a chance to really master what we've studied here. And also, subscribe to my CZcams channel. I'd be happy to see you again. Bye, for now.

Komentáře • 199

  • @__Yankeela
    @__Yankeela Před 3 lety +20

    If only I had found your channel earlier, I would be fluent by now.

    • @nightbot3952
      @nightbot3952 Před 2 lety +1

      I would be fluent by now*

    • @__Yankeela
      @__Yankeela Před 2 lety +1

      Thankyou@@nightbot3952

    • @laguerrebalde5172
      @laguerrebalde5172 Před 2 lety +1

      I wish i had come in the time with you, I would have been your friend/boyfriend by now

  • @madonnasaligumba3005
    @madonnasaligumba3005 Před 4 lety +17

    I wish I had found your English lessons earlier, I could've been fluent in English by now.

  • @krishnanjanachatterjee3006

    You are one of the best English teachers in the world

  • @ahmadelmadhoun8610
    @ahmadelmadhoun8610 Před 3 lety +9

    Being an old subscriber of your channel,
    I like your smile that gives hopefulness to learners that the content is super easy and the lessons are explained perfectly.
    Thanks, Rebbaca.

  • @gauchosemfronteira9266
    @gauchosemfronteira9266 Před 10 lety +12

    I wish I had watched this lesson before. It's awesome.

  • @MiDou-FF
    @MiDou-FF Před 4 lety +1

    Hello I'm Ryad I have 13 year old ,I live in Algerian ,I like your lesson

  • @mohammedalikhan5832
    @mohammedalikhan5832 Před 2 lety +2

    I don't have words to express my feelings towards your work and dedication...Hats off!!

  • @thirinandaraung7405
    @thirinandaraung7405 Před 3 lety +1

    I have done this pattern from Cambridge but I didn't understand really.But now after I watch your video I totally got it. Thank you Tchel Rab😍

  • @devendrapratap1411
    @devendrapratap1411 Před 9 lety +2

    "if only i had seen all envid' video ,i could have been a good english speaker ."
    is my sentence okay in grammar point of view
    and thank you ma'm for such a great lesson .

    • @GurtMcDirt
      @GurtMcDirt Před 4 lety

      Devendra Pratap Almost, you would want to add “of” after “all” and an S after the apostrophe on envid. Last, you want to make video plural, videos.
      “If only I had seen all of envid’s videos [...]”

  • @moussacissoko5766
    @moussacissoko5766 Před rokem +2

    I wish I had discovered your channel earlier.

  • @juansegura5280
    @juansegura5280 Před 8 lety +1

    Thank you Rebecca I liked the way you teach and explain the lessons very easy to understand

  • @4shiprapandey19
    @4shiprapandey19 Před 6 lety +1

    hello mam
    your way of teaching is excellent
    apart from your teaching skills you are nice human being very polite clear vision and you are the best

  • @RavindraKumar-jn5nx
    @RavindraKumar-jn5nx Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you teacher for explaining I wish I had , I wish I hadn't .

  • @AlexisRafael
    @AlexisRafael Před 10 lety +3

    Speaking English - "I wish I had..."
    Thanks so much Rebecca.

  • @gopikalal4173
    @gopikalal4173 Před 2 lety +1

    Very Impressive class 👌👍

  • @botchakalyan4077
    @botchakalyan4077 Před rokem +1

    i wish i had watch your lesson earlier, i could have been fluent in English by now.

  • @saeedbalocg970
    @saeedbalocg970 Před 9 lety +2

    Thanks a lot for this helpful lesson. I have not known before how to use this expression in english Thnk u soo much.

  • @letslearn4039
    @letslearn4039 Před 4 lety

    Hey Rebecca, you know , I want to listen to your videos at least 2 hours a day. Really I find very important points to learn about grammar.

  • @kalyanirai5822
    @kalyanirai5822 Před 6 lety

    I wish , l had eariler watched your video. but l had 'nt regrat about it because u r too fab teacher that l have never seen .... thank u ma'am for taking initiative for giving us chance to learn english in a easy manner and these lessons are understood by everyone .

  • @sivasubramani4231
    @sivasubramani4231 Před 3 lety +1

    It is really excellent class...Thank you so much..teacher..🙏

  • @sahilofquranacademy2545
    @sahilofquranacademy2545 Před 6 lety +1

    Excellent way of teaching !

  • @abdurahmanmohamed3007
    @abdurahmanmohamed3007 Před 8 lety +1

    its really so helpful, i wish i had seen it before so that i could learn so much by now.

  • @yumnamrinita1163
    @yumnamrinita1163 Před 3 lety

    I wish I had known about your valuable channel earlier, I could have clear my concept in a much better way nevertheless better late, than never. Thank you so very much.

  • @baroali6980
    @baroali6980 Před rokem

    İm from turkish. When I wacht to you İ'm learning too much. Thank you :))

  • @engindincer4699
    @engindincer4699 Před 10 lety +1

    I would and I wish are the regrettable expressions of our failures in the past .The past is history, get over it . Start thinking,
    I will , I can etc..etc...

  • @user-it1gd8zh3c
    @user-it1gd8zh3c Před 6 lety +1

    I liked your video so much that I am commenting for the 1st time ever. Fantastic. I wish I had found this video earlier

  • @jonathanchenoficial
    @jonathanchenoficial Před 8 lety +1

    this video is awesome ... nice job Rebecca ! thank you !!

  • @cheyanneilao6149
    @cheyanneilao6149 Před 8 lety

    Thank you Rebecca I liked the way you teach and explain very clear.i wish to have teacher like you

  • @charlesvanstreek9265
    @charlesvanstreek9265 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much I really like English you teach me

  • @DURA733
    @DURA733 Před 9 lety +6

    Thank you that's really useful

  • @user-ro4ux2pi9w
    @user-ro4ux2pi9w Před 10 lety +1

    If only I had a chance
    precludes others from having a chance, whereas
    If I only had a chance
    implies that I don't have a chance, but that if I did I could be able to do something.

  • @subramaniankrishnakumar3821

    I wish I had planned earlier or if only I had planned earlier. Thank you mam

  • @josanvi635
    @josanvi635 Před 9 lety +2

    Many thanks I got it! All the best to you

  • @37prakhar
    @37prakhar Před 9 lety +1

    Thank you ma'am, got 10/10 in first attempt. I can share my like and comment to this lesson.

  • @salinagrandebuteraz5993

    extremely helpful and comprehensive used of the phrases..english is fun even if its hard..nah..its not that hard..tx Rebecca..new subs..

  • @omsafeya
    @omsafeya Před 7 lety +3

    Thank you
    you're an excellent teacher

  • @SaadAltuilaai
    @SaadAltuilaai Před 10 lety +12

    However, in everyday English in America, I don't know if this is also the case in Canada, they prefer to use the pattern; would have. So Americans will usually say it like; I wish I would have studied more and I wish I wouldn't have eaten so much!! I suppose it's a wrong structure but they use it anyway!!

    • @edmey
      @edmey Před 6 lety

      Saad Altuilaai I am American. Where I live, I don't hear that mistake, but I recognize that it is a common mistake amongst less educated people.

    • @GurtMcDirt
      @GurtMcDirt Před 4 lety +1

      It’s correct, no one would have to correct you for saying this. At least, I wouldn’t. Oh snap, explain how those two sentences are correct but different to the newbies.

  • @reyneilperez5578
    @reyneilperez5578 Před 6 lety

    I wish I had become serious about learning English when I was in school. Thank you.

  • @manpreetmanpreetsingh2087

    I have been following you for 2 years

  • @garrysingh6181
    @garrysingh6181 Před 4 lety +1

    Love the way you teach..

  • @mariotorres4077
    @mariotorres4077 Před rokem

    I really like the way you teach

  • @JulioCesar-vy9fb
    @JulioCesar-vy9fb Před 10 lety +2

    Excellent lesson! Thank you.

  • @luciacalisaya2384
    @luciacalisaya2384 Před 9 lety

    Thank you so much, teacher. I have never used these expressions, so they are new to me. I hope to use them or at least, remember them. Thank you.

  • @zomisintu
    @zomisintu Před 9 lety +1

    What a charming teacher.
    Thanks Madam.

  • @sengs.4838
    @sengs.4838 Před 2 lety

    excellent tip for understanding , if only I

  • @RamKrishna-jd4qq
    @RamKrishna-jd4qq Před 9 lety +4

    Great helpful lesson

  • @melquesedequefirmino9000
    @melquesedequefirmino9000 Před 11 měsíci

    What a Nice class ,good job

  • @sandrae.sanchiz8442
    @sandrae.sanchiz8442 Před 6 lety

    Huge. You are the best teacher!!! Thank you 💗💗💗🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @mahmoudmolecule1044
    @mahmoudmolecule1044 Před 5 lety +1

    You're improving my dear teacher, before you used to seem frightened in front of the camera. high just go ahead.

  • @pgeraf
    @pgeraf Před 3 lety +1

    I wonder how in earth could anyone rate this lesson with a thumb down... and there are 83 of them!

  • @verahelmer1985
    @verahelmer1985 Před 10 lety +1

    thanks. your videos always are amazing. and I learn a lot. best regards Rebecca

  • @gemmagar9654
    @gemmagar9654 Před 8 lety

    hi Rebecca, I really love listening to your explanation. I also like your presentation of the simple past and present perfect tense. More power to you!

  • @tuongvyle9799
    @tuongvyle9799 Před 8 lety

    i have learned in another lesson that you taught us when we use the word concert the preparations is (a) right teacher Rebecca

  • @stoykadimitrov
    @stoykadimitrov Před rokem

    I wish I had started speaking English earlier. I could've been more confident now.

  • @khoinguyendinh8145
    @khoinguyendinh8145 Před 10 lety

    Very good lesson. Please post more lessons

  • @giuseppecolella8698
    @giuseppecolella8698 Před 7 lety

    Great lesson, and great teacher.

  • @kujurbimal
    @kujurbimal Před 6 lety

    Thanks Rebeca

  • @wellingtoncamargo8133
    @wellingtoncamargo8133 Před 4 lety

    Really good teacher

  • @saw71466
    @saw71466 Před 10 lety +14

    Hi Rebecca! I am studying english for 4 years and I am not confident at speaking. I learned lots of things but as I have a very bad memory I cannot remember what to say when I talk to people in english (every week!) and that makes me think of giving up of learning english. Do you have any suggestion for me? How to practice in a more effective way? Maybe I am bored of studying english? What do you recommend me?

    • @pablosalina7654
      @pablosalina7654 Před 9 lety +2

      u r weak...

    • @shawnchen3229
      @shawnchen3229 Před 9 lety +3

      Just do it man. Just talk

    • @tiagofuckthesystem2186
      @tiagofuckthesystem2186 Před 9 lety +1

      I have lerned a lot playing videogames and watching movies en English. Maybe that could be useful for you too =)
      You need to practice.
      No shortcuts!
      Peace!

    • @miguelangelodossanto
      @miguelangelodossanto Před 9 lety +3

      Never give up man! this is the best advice.
      the people who achieve the success are those don't give up.

    • @tiagofuckthesystem2186
      @tiagofuckthesystem2186 Před 9 lety +2

      Perfect answer Miguel!

  • @LovepreetSingh-oy6jg
    @LovepreetSingh-oy6jg Před 6 lety

    hlo mam i really leran more by watching your videos. your way of talking is really excellent. please post more videos for ielts academic preparation test.

  • @alaahusban3187
    @alaahusban3187 Před 4 lety

    Thanks 💝🌺

  • @spectrumbg7044
    @spectrumbg7044 Před 10 lety

    Excellent!.Please make a video to explain Direct Speech and Indirect Speech.Thanks.

  • @kaNm0511
    @kaNm0511 Před 8 lety +5

    You deserve my like. congrats

  • @mehdiamir7044
    @mehdiamir7044 Před 5 lety

    Thanks

  • @mathanroyshalev2623
    @mathanroyshalev2623 Před 7 lety

    Thank you much. Now I know how to use it. 😊

  • @dipti5457
    @dipti5457 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @antoniqpetrova7149
    @antoniqpetrova7149 Před 8 lety +32

    I wish I had studied English earlier.If only I had studied English earlier.I should have studied English earlier!

    • @murathankayhan2312
      @murathankayhan2312 Před 6 lety +1

      When have you begun to study English? :)

    • @juapel
      @juapel Před 4 lety

      I have the same regret

    • @sridharbrahmachari8479
      @sridharbrahmachari8479 Před 4 lety +1

      @@murathankayhan2312
      While asking questions, You can't use the word WHEN with PRESENT PERFECT TENSE. Instead, you can/ have to express in SIMPLE PAST TENSE. You please ask in this way -
      When did you begin to study English ?
      or
      When did you start studying English ?

    • @murathankayhan2312
      @murathankayhan2312 Před 4 lety +1

      @@sridharbrahmachari8479 Thanks dude. I even forgot this comment.. I learnt a lot during 2 years :))

    • @sridharbrahmachari8479
      @sridharbrahmachari8479 Před 4 lety +1

      @@murathankayhan2312
      Okay, No mention.
      What does the word 'dude' in your reply mean. It is a new word for me.

  • @abdullotif3252
    @abdullotif3252 Před 2 lety

    Very nice.

  • @ramzy-6566
    @ramzy-6566 Před 2 lety

    amazing video.

  • @denissebren2185
    @denissebren2185 Před 3 lety

    Thank you, teacher!! So useful. I wish I had done some exercises in the video
    Also, I wish I had studied this lesson before. :)

  • @jessicabeca1234
    @jessicabeca1234 Před 7 lety

    If only I had started watching your channel earlier, my English would be better.

  • @mhmdalz3bi
    @mhmdalz3bi Před 10 lety +1

    Like it
    Thanks alot from Syria

  •  Před 10 lety +3

    Fantastic, as usual.

  • @tutsphotoshop9284
    @tutsphotoshop9284 Před 6 lety

    Thank you very much .

  • @catherinegracegabaldon4178

    You should teach us what type of verb we should use when we are using "I wish I had" etc.

  • @prabhakit6760
    @prabhakit6760 Před 9 lety

    hi rebecca!
    how r u?
    wonderful lesson..thanku..
    would u plz make a vedio on school languange includes commands,annoucement ,classroom language,parent teacher meating laguage..i really need it...
    i''ll be looking forwrd to ur response...

  • @rakeshkumar.5457
    @rakeshkumar.5457 Před 5 lety

    Thanks for your trips

  • @pedrofigueiredo1077
    @pedrofigueiredo1077 Před 11 dny

    Thanks a lot, Rebecca. You are amazing. (Azores Islands, 15Aug2024);

  • @amakageochuks3191
    @amakageochuks3191 Před 6 měsíci

    If only I had studied English well, I would have been become an eloquent speaker by now

  • @barsgul8175
    @barsgul8175 Před 3 lety

    Hi Guys. I would like to ask something about this topic. If the formal letter is written in GT IELTS task 1, is there any difference using I wish I had or If only I had? So, which one should be used in the formal letter?

  • @rogeriomachi4207
    @rogeriomachi4207 Před 9 lety +2

    It´s amazing video.

  • @randolphtolentino8452
    @randolphtolentino8452 Před 9 lety +2

    Thank you so much. I got 7 out of 10 ;)

  • @paolatovar326
    @paolatovar326 Před 8 lety

    perfecto Rebeca very good

  • @anandsollapur8714
    @anandsollapur8714 Před 8 lety +1

    It's good. Carry on the same. I expect more information from you

  • @sadracnunez1353
    @sadracnunez1353 Před 7 lety

    Yeah really good thank you

  • @marcioa.f.1016
    @marcioa.f.1016 Před 6 lety

    Rebecca, is it possible to say "If I only had" as well? Great lesson as always. Thanks a lot.

    • @r.fairlie7186
      @r.fairlie7186 Před 4 lety +1

      Marcio A.F. - That’s a good question. In the context that Rebecca used it’s usual to say the phrase as she did. We often use the contraction “I’d” to abbreviate “I had”. However, just to confirm that English can be contrary, many years ago there was a famous song by John Rowles called “If I Only Had Time”. It’s on CZcams if you’re interested to hear the way it’s used there. Wishing you all the best with your lessons!

  • @user-ro4ux2pi9w
    @user-ro4ux2pi9w Před 10 lety +1

    If only I had & If I only had
    I think the second rhythm is better?

  • @amaniadikaram6714
    @amaniadikaram6714 Před 3 lety

    Is theverb past participle?💐

  • @luoyong498
    @luoyong498 Před 8 lety

    thanks you teacher !

  • @esmatullahrasuli2383
    @esmatullahrasuli2383 Před 10 lety +1

    Great

  • @deemotion
    @deemotion Před 10 lety

    Very Good

  • @savlesalmagambetova7472

    Brilliant

  • @sevendogz
    @sevendogz Před 5 lety

    Nice lesson mama

  • @tranthanhvu7274
    @tranthanhvu7274 Před 2 lety

    Hi Rebecca,
    May i have a question about this sentence and please tell me it is correct or incorrect?
    Mary wants to be in the swimming pool now -->
    - She wishes she WAS in the swimming pool now
    - She wishes she WERE in the swimming pool now
    Which sentence is correct?
    Thanks

  • @patryk3852
    @patryk3852 Před 9 lety +1

    great,tahnks

  • @mishaaqeel9492
    @mishaaqeel9492 Před 3 lety

    what about this
    if only i had studied studied harder, I would have been able to perform better
    is it right?

  • @workuteklu6956
    @workuteklu6956 Před 8 lety

    good presentation

  • @careforyou2094
    @careforyou2094 Před 10 lety +1

    6 from 10................i wish i had improved soon..........
    thanks mam,,,,,,,,,,
    mam can i say like that,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i wish i would improved soon.......

  • @nawalgassim5448
    @nawalgassim5448 Před 9 lety +1

    Good job

  • @thirinandaraung7405
    @thirinandaraung7405 Před 3 lety

    I wish I had studied English since I passed the matriculation exam.
    I should have studied Eng since I passed the matriculation exam. Are these two sentences the same meaning?