The one habit that is changing my life, set systems rather than goals

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
  • The right systems can change everything.
    FREE - Make more, work less, and build habits in 4 mins/wk - jaydwil.com
    0:00 Intro
    01:43 Step 1 - Set Goals
    02:58 Step 2 - Form a Strategy
    04:06 Step 3 - Take One -Time Actions First
    05:11 Step 4 - System for Daily/Weekly actions
    06:20 Step 5 - Commit to action (The 10/30/100 rule)

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  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 Před 5 měsíci +159

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my CZcams channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,7444 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 5 měsíci +15

      Ah man, this is amazing. Keep going!

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 Před 5 měsíci +10

      @@jaydwilliams Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my CZcams channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a CZcamsr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this CZcams thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 4 měsíci +4

      Let’s get after it

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@jaydwilliams Thank you!
      What I really focus on is the value of the content and what I’m truly passionate about while helping others! I'm glad that I'm foolish enough to believe that I can actually start making money through my passions. I've never thought that I'd be able to gain 1K subs faster. I can't imagine how many opportunities could have been wasted if I didn't have courage to go after them. That includes having this channel, being in a management role, having the people who actually care about me for who I am, freelance gigs, being an ambassador in a creative community and now I'm also planning on honing my public speaking skills through joining a toastmaster club and these all happened in 2023. It started with writing them all down on a piece of paper. A paper that serves as a reminder for me to go after what I want even through hard times. I'm not bragging about my accomplishments but simply hoping that this message can also inspire others to believe in themselves.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 4 měsíci +4

      This is so good. Thank you for sharing!

  • @user-nq1kv1ty7s
    @user-nq1kv1ty7s Před 2 měsíci +35

    The book Atomic Habits goes deeper into the idea of creating systems rather than goals. Great video by the way very helpful and instructive!

  • @ishawrizz
    @ishawrizz Před rokem +27

    I like it when yt recommends me quality content from small creators.

  • @CezarVasconcelos
    @CezarVasconcelos Před rokem +289

    [01:43] Step 1 - Set Goals
    [02:58] Step 2 - Form a Strategy (What worked for you/others in the past?)
    [04:06] Step 3 - Take One-Time Actions First
    [05:11] Step 4 - System for Daily/Weekly actions
    [06:18] Step 5 - Commit to action (Using the 10/30/100 rule)
    Just added some timestamps so it's easier to recap info later.
    Thanks, Jay for the content!

  • @yosef.0632
    @yosef.0632 Před 2 měsíci +23

    Man, the 10, 30, 100 strategy looks INSANE. I'll start doing it immediately!

  • @allsmiles3281
    @allsmiles3281 Před 20 dny +7

    This is how I became a public speaker. Grateful that God instilled this in my years ago.

  • @instructor7024
    @instructor7024 Před 27 dny +7

    10/30/100 is impressive and most important part is sustainability concept in it... Thank you Jay for sharing this....

  • @dannyd4339
    @dannyd4339 Před rokem +112

    A life partner that's real with you and you can be real with is so hard to find these days. Good for you man

  • @wharzenr
    @wharzenr Před 3 měsíci +9

    This video clearly explains why we can't trust ourselves completely. No matter what we do, we are imperfect. We need a perfect someone that will help us in decision making.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 3 měsíci +2

      This is a good point. Having an accountability partner makes a huge difference!

  • @user-xt5oe2gm5v
    @user-xt5oe2gm5v Před měsícem +6

    It makes sense to
    create personal systems for success.
    The best business example of this is the Ford assembly line.
    If an industry can
    be built like this,
    it works in your personal life.

  • @rickiodious
    @rickiodious Před rokem +118

    One more thing that I would love to add is to make it as much easy as possible to perform the minimum action. This could be something like deciding what to do before the day has already started or maybe cleaning up your files to make it as less friction to work with. And at the end, it's all relative, you could be very productive for the entire week but still feel that you haven't given your 100%.

  • @mayharmon6948
    @mayharmon6948 Před rokem +12

    Rather refreshing to hear about someone genuinely letting themselves be corrected, long term. Much more often, people get defensive, or down on themselves, when corrected.

  • @JaceMillerAO
    @JaceMillerAO Před 2 měsíci +2

    I’ve never subscribed to a channel so quick. Whatever ur doing ur doing it right

  • @ashleymaden
    @ashleymaden Před rokem +7

    The format and presentation of this video is excellent Jay, thanks for sharing. I think this is the first time I’ve come across one of your videos.

  • @parcoanton
    @parcoanton Před 28 dny

    This content feels real genuine, I actually learn a lot from it not like other youtubers with a dull script. Thank you for the great insights!

  • @ricksanborn6629
    @ricksanborn6629 Před rokem +4

    Yours is one of the best videos I've seen on this topic and I've been watching a lot of them lately. I hope you do more.

  • @miguelmof
    @miguelmof Před dnem

    Thanks Jay. Simple and to the point.

  • @yourdreamstrategist
    @yourdreamstrategist Před 8 měsíci +5

    This is such a good video! I'm totally into helping my clients create systems that help them to create time and energy freedom in their life. I use a variation of this, but I totally agree with you that is ONLY way to achieve things and coaching/investing is help is the "cheat code" to get the results we want. Great job Jay!

  • @hlt8770
    @hlt8770 Před rokem +4

    Jay, I came across your channel today and binged every short and video you've created. Please keep going. Your content is fantastic and you've got this! I wish there were more. I'd watch them all.

  • @themohkal
    @themohkal Před 3 měsíci +2

    Well said in the video, we dont need pats on the back, sometimes we need a reality check, and that's enough motivation to move us towards things we actually want in our life.
    Just discovered your channel through this video, and feels like it's going to be helpful and informative.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 3 měsíci

      Thanks man! I appreciate that. I’m a huge believer in taking action first, asking questions later.

  • @robot7759
    @robot7759 Před rokem

    Your ad free honesty is appreciated 👍

  • @josephcfl
    @josephcfl Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much. I'll be using these steps this year 2023 for my personal and professional growth.

  • @BeauMonroe
    @BeauMonroe Před rokem +3

    This was crazy helpful. I appreciate the show and tell art of speaking. Thanks!

  • @Noam_Biard
    @Noam_Biard Před rokem +1

    Wow man, that's top tier quality there, you are awesome !

  • @larpos6149
    @larpos6149 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I can’t wait to start this starting from tomorrow. Thanks 🙏

  • @CostasSchuler
    @CostasSchuler Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love the simplicity of your message, very achievable

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you! Is there anything you’re using for yourself?

    • @CostasSchuler
      @CostasSchuler Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@jaydwilliams been journaling for 34 years straight...one of the most life changing tools ever...i could talk about it for hoooooours !!!!🤩

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 3 měsíci +1

      So underrated!

  • @IanHenmanOfficial
    @IanHenmanOfficial Před rokem +44

    Nice video. I've read a lot of books that discuss this topic, be it Atomic Habits or Executive Toughness, but your 5 step break down was nice and actionable. I watched it twice, and wrote out your steps in my journal as I see it as clear game plan. Keep producing! nice work.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem +2

      Amazing! This really makes my day. Glad you found it helpful.

  • @janicezhang4162
    @janicezhang4162 Před rokem +14

    Woah- this was a very well crafted video. I subscribed right after I finished watching but I was expecting you to have a lot more subs… the future is looking bright for this channel, keep going!

  • @Milan-Pollak
    @Milan-Pollak Před 10 měsíci

    I must admit that I often don't leave comments, but your explanation was really good, and I also really liked that you mentioned "subscribed" at the end of the video (usually they always say it at the beginning, but I decide after watching the video), so you have a new follower. Great job.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you Milan! I really appreciate your thoughtful response

  • @CurleyFry
    @CurleyFry Před rokem +9

    Creating systems is definitely something I needed to implement into my life more in order to reach my goals. Thank you Jay, this video was very informative!

  • @Henrique.Souza0601
    @Henrique.Souza0601 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Almost 1 year ago I saw this video and commented here. Now I come back to see I'm following many steps you suggest even without realizing it. There are others, however, where I can improve.
    Thank you. This has to be one of the most useful videos on CZcams.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 8 měsíci +1

      Ahh, this has to be the best thing I’ve heard today. Thank you for sharing. Keep up the good work

  • @raould2590
    @raould2590 Před rokem +2

    Excellent video! Robust advice! Much appreciated!

  • @tomylim1157
    @tomylim1157 Před 5 měsíci

    Great video, systems are life changing. Thank you for sharing your process!

  • @ibrahimnasser9202
    @ibrahimnasser9202 Před rokem

    Out of all the productivity videos, this one is the best.

  • @sidshri6080
    @sidshri6080 Před 2 měsíci +2

    10/30/100 days rule is amazing to try. Thanks Jay!

  • @divyarathore
    @divyarathore Před rokem +1

    Fabulous and I can see so many frameworks that become easier to convey using this. Thank you!

  • @MartinKPettersson
    @MartinKPettersson Před rokem +7

    Great video.
    I enjoyed hearing about how methodical you are in approaching this. Good work and good luck in the future!

  • @kompshi
    @kompshi Před měsícem

    Jay i have to tell you that this video is so simple yet so effective for anyone who wants to get better at anything in life. i have been a successful project manager but never could articulate the things that you did in this video. i just subscribed to your channel and I want to get more clear ideas for my goals.

  • @zyehia
    @zyehia Před rokem +2

    This video was absolutely great! Thank you so much for such a clear, useful, and no-no sense and practical approach.

  • @yosmuc
    @yosmuc Před rokem +6

    Very inspiring, thank you so much for sharing !

  • @Prymski
    @Prymski Před rokem

    Awesome video Jay! Took notes the whole time and subbed. Thanks

  • @andrescarmonar.2646
    @andrescarmonar.2646 Před rokem +2

    This is definitely some wisdom to contemplate.

  • @liznewark
    @liznewark Před 2 měsíci +1

    I love these tips! I'm going to implement this system and let you know how it works!

  • @johnathonyoung4799
    @johnathonyoung4799 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thanks I think this will help me a lot because setting a acceptable compliance range that isn't 100% perfect like being able to look at 80 or even lower percentage and seeing it instead of as a black and white but as a stat is a great idea

  • @econcep
    @econcep Před rokem +3

    Awesome information Jay! As a big believer of goal-setting, this approach is priceless. I will definitely try it. Thanks for sharing!

  • @beauTHEpalmleaf
    @beauTHEpalmleaf Před 2 měsíci +1

    First vid of yours I've stumbled upon. It was brilliant. Subbed and keen to watch more of your stuff. Keep it up

  • @BenjaminCussen
    @BenjaminCussen Před rokem +1

    Great content bro! Keep going and growing your channel with sistems 🚀🚀

  • @roxanne_george
    @roxanne_george Před 22 dny +1

    This is very motivational, thank you very much. Sounds like a great system that works. I'm going to try it.

  • @thos3474
    @thos3474 Před rokem +5

    Very insightful video! Just stumbled upon your channel and subscribed, you definitely deserve more, keep rocking!

  • @Katniss_cosmos
    @Katniss_cosmos Před rokem +1

    Honestly no one explained it and broke it down this way, thank you sir 💜

  • @markghatas8630
    @markghatas8630 Před rokem +1

    I'm glad I saw this video. Thanks man.

  • @gtronics
    @gtronics Před rokem +3

    this is just what i needed, thank you Jay :)

  • @MagnumEDU
    @MagnumEDU Před 28 dny +2

    The algorithm placed you on my time line with near perfect timing

  • @rswasan
    @rswasan Před 9 dny

    I am really getting a good understanding of this working to achieve your goal. Thanks very very much for enlightening me on this 10 30 100 rule. God bless.

  • @JeffNotes
    @JeffNotes Před rokem +9

    Thank you for reminding me about this. I've been setting up Goals in my head, and only passively making systems around me to achieve them. I should really see this differently.
    I really like this video Jay, I'm subbing to get notified on the next ones you make! 😁

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem

      Thanks Jeff! So glad you got something out of this one. Next one I"ll break down my journal a bit more.

  • @tonicruz808
    @tonicruz808 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, Jay Williams!

  • @CharlieBravo887
    @CharlieBravo887 Před měsícem

    This makes perfect sense. Awesome.

  • @theartofclips895
    @theartofclips895 Před rokem +2

    Man i really liked the video , i checked your channel you seemed new but you that was a professional video , keep up the good work (+1 towards your goal)

  • @worthaboverubys
    @worthaboverubys Před rokem

    Just an amazing video!!! Sooo helpful! Ty

  • @glimsar5301
    @glimsar5301 Před rokem +1

    The 800 subscriber 😊
    I find ur channel today is a creative way for your amazing idea

  • @nicholaschacon6503
    @nicholaschacon6503 Před rokem +1

    I like your advice and going to test it ! Systems approach .

  • @seanfurlonger1760
    @seanfurlonger1760 Před 2 měsíci +1

    very insightful, thank you for the tips

  • @EverythingEboni
    @EverythingEboni Před rokem +1

    I love this advice

  • @piotrekmajkowski5422
    @piotrekmajkowski5422 Před rokem +1

    ONe of the best information you gave me during last 10y.

  • @adham20v
    @adham20v Před rokem +3

    Amazing video !! I wrote the notes of this video and I'll apply it on my life

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem +1

      Amazing! I'd love to hear how it goes! :)

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 Před 2 měsíci +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH.

  • @weddingboxlakecomo
    @weddingboxlakecomo Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thanks Jay! I have my list written out. Today is day one.

  • @changchesserly7591
    @changchesserly7591 Před rokem +1

    Wowzers! Thank you so much… 💕🙏🏼💕

  • @fussenetanega8951
    @fussenetanega8951 Před rokem

    Hey Jay,
    Appreciate it
    It did just open my eyes to a different reality

  • @yadhukrishnan4767
    @yadhukrishnan4767 Před rokem +1

    Hello Jay, great video! Subbed almost instantly, Keep uploading more.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem

      Thanks Yadhu! Welcome to the channel! New vid coming this week :)

  • @LM-rg9lj
    @LM-rg9lj Před 12 dny +1

    Hi Jay, I really dig ur practical approach ..

  • @BO-dc4xg
    @BO-dc4xg Před rokem

    Really a great video! Thank you for sharing it!

  • @amberpednekar3677
    @amberpednekar3677 Před rokem +7

    Hey Jay - I can honestly say your content is so much more relevant than half of youtube! - It seems like your making videos to help people instead of actually focusing on growing audience and that's very very awesome! - Inspiring content bro!

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem

      Thanks Amber!

    • @scientistMUC79
      @scientistMUC79 Před rokem +1

      So you're saying... the videos are not as relevant as the other half of CZcams? 😜
      Just joking. Happy holidays!

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 4 měsíci

      Lol

  • @sm0ky_cowboy693
    @sm0ky_cowboy693 Před rokem +4

    Behind a good man there is a greater women! Nice sharing, Smoky here! Big hug!

  • @Sameer-kun
    @Sameer-kun Před rokem +49

    I think I got this habit from "Atomic Habits" Started reading some couple of weeks ago. It's a really good book for someone like me who is not used to those habits and it helped me change and improve me a bit in life.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem +4

      Great book

    • @Kraiden
      @Kraiden Před rokem +5

      I came here looking for a comment mentioning this. This was in the first two chapters, I just started the book last week.
      Immediately thought of it after seeing the title of this video. Definitely good to improve life.

    • @sebastianondogaokot9134
      @sebastianondogaokot9134 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Personality, Process, Outcome

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 4 měsíci

      Totally

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Action first

  • @chimpasbrito
    @chimpasbrito Před rokem +2

    Hey Jay,
    Just subscribed. Don't stop putting out content. I see the potential.
    Cheers from Portugal.

  • @oakandiron_
    @oakandiron_ Před 11 dny +1

    Subscribed 45 seconds in bro! 👏

  • @pH7Programming
    @pH7Programming Před 3 měsíci +1

    As always, the most difficult part is to start thinking in "systems" for everything you want to achieve efficiently. Once you have that mindset, you are on the right track 😉
    Btw, excellent pieces of advice Jay 🙂

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před 3 měsíci

      Well said. Systems are hard, but worth it

  • @E34bmer
    @E34bmer Před rokem +1

    First, where did you get that sweater? It’s super cool. Nice way to breakdown the path to goals, and being honest with ourselves, which is the first step!

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem

      Haha, thx. Sweater was from a thrift shop.

  • @alexa574
    @alexa574 Před rokem +1

    Fantastic motivation, thank you.

  • @startupbusinesscoaching
    @startupbusinesscoaching Před rokem +1

    Loved this! Subscribed!

  • @guillermofernandez305

    Great share Jay ! Thanks 🙏🏻 I’m a team leader and am saving your vids to discuss in group meetings and coaching sessions

  • @Dinhjason
    @Dinhjason Před rokem

    You blew up, sir.
    Good luck with the popularity

  • @jaijeffcom
    @jaijeffcom Před rokem

    Bingo. I quit working GTD when I realized my problem wasn’t organization, I just didn’t want to do the things on my list. You reminded me I still need systems, but they must drive to sincere desires. Rather, you flipped that sequence; get in touch with ambitions, then design systems to get there. An inspiring and achievable summary. And we have the same first name, so it must have been some kind of fate that I saw your inspiration when I needed it.

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem

      Yo!! I did the same thing! I quit doing GTD and all productivity stuff when I realized that i mostly just needed to do 1 or 2 things per day and it would make the biggest difference. Welcome to the channel! :)

  • @NeptuneDesign
    @NeptuneDesign Před rokem +1

    This is a dope video thanks so much for dropping this knowledge

  • @abbieamavi
    @abbieamavi Před rokem

    Intro made me laugh: “-and that’s why I love her!” 😂 great video. I’ve been using these tips!

    • @jaydwilliams
      @jaydwilliams  Před rokem

      It's true! she's the best. So glad you're getting something out of this.

  • @emiel333
    @emiel333 Před rokem +1

    Great ❤ video, Jay! I’ve subscribed.

  • @fraigelfabian9880
    @fraigelfabian9880 Před rokem

    I loved this video. Exactly what I was looking for. I will definitely be back for more. (Notifications alert on.) :)

  • @SnakeAndTurtleQigong
    @SnakeAndTurtleQigong Před rokem +1

    Thanks so much!

  • @kataisom5115
    @kataisom5115 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love rule 10/30/100. Thank you so much

  • @brianbordenkircher52
    @brianbordenkircher52 Před rokem

    Great way to think! Thank you!

  • @samuelepiphi3982
    @samuelepiphi3982 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for this

  • @monicaoliola7892
    @monicaoliola7892 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Amazing video!! Thanks!😊

  • @nithyasrisrivathsan8515

    Wonderful video, Jay!

  • @devsingh0130
    @devsingh0130 Před 25 dny +1

    Great video sir , just subscribed to your channel !

  • @TheBookofrhymes
    @TheBookofrhymes Před rokem

    Great video J!

  • @RyanPatrickOwens
    @RyanPatrickOwens Před 2 měsíci +3

    Pearson's Law says that what you track, you will do. This is crucial to the success of your system: track your activity and you will find that you can accomplish more than you ever could.

  • @rossjones2439
    @rossjones2439 Před 3 měsíci +1

    powerful! anks so much!

  • @arinaromashova1317
    @arinaromashova1317 Před 7 měsíci

    Really valuable video - thank you!

  • @riff2134
    @riff2134 Před rokem +1

    Thank you!