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I’ve been growing up with ppl even in my family telling me I can’t grow my hair longer cuz I’m black and I refuse to accept that because it doesn’t make sense
@@lossiefreeman43954 times a year is insane and not true. My mom washed my hair every 2 weeks to a month. But yeah, most black girls had long hair when we were kids
1.Stop cutting your hair 4:28 2.Not moisturizing 6:11 3.Poor hair care routine 8:19 4.Picking your hair 10:39 5.Your diet 11:23 6.Over processing your hair 12:25 7.Build up of product 15:14 8.Excessive shedding 16:35 9.Use of chemicals 19:07 10.Don’t know your hair porosity 21:20 I hoped this help you if you don’t have time to watch the whole video.
I needed this cause it’s like my hair is staying at shoulder length cause I feel like the just cut my whole new growth off but I’m getting into protective styles now
Caucasian hair dresser here. Bless you for this video. In school (depending on where you go) they absolutely do NOT teach us about hair beyond a 2C. And that scale is pretty limited as is. Shameful. I'm so grateful for this information. Thank you.
@@candancereed5891 I've been turned around once and will never put myself in that predicament again. Moved away for college and had noooo idea hair salons would tell you they don't do your type of hair. I would never forget that feeling, like the whole salon stopped breathing when I walked in. Black stylist would not turn white clients around
I never understood the obsession with cutting these invisible split ends every month in the natural hair community. probably why so many naturals hair is stuck at the same length
@cutei pie I’m sorry but there is no actual way to completely get rid of them. Same with spilt ends, they are just always gonna come back or happen. You can prevent them tho. Make sure to put oil or grease on your ends, it lubricates them so they’re easier to untangle. Try to keep hair in protective styles like twists, braids, cornrows and buns. I don’t recommend puffs, wash and gos or twist/braid outs often cuz it allows you’re hair to knot up and tangle with each other of its self. Keep hair stretched as well, whether you braid it, band it or even low heat blow drying, it keeps your strands elongated so their not shrunken and can easily tangle with each other. Even though she said what she said above, I still think you should trim your hair. If I see or encounter a single strand knot, I always cut it out and don’t rip it out bcuz that can cause the end of that strand to split. Edit: grammatical corrections
Also, let’s make it a habit to speak love into our hair and bodies in general. Don’t say it’s too hard, or make it seem like a chore to take care of it. Instead say, “I love every little beautiful strand of hair on my head. I’m grateful to be able to nurture and nourish my hair.” It works ❤️
This video is revolutionary. Sis said do you know what split ends looks like on black people hair. Lordt I do not. Majority of these hair schools are built my Caucasian specialists. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
When my hair was relaxed and I went to the hair stylist every month to get it redone or treatment I used to HATE them for trimming my hair. My hair was growing and yes i had split ends but trimming every month whatever I growth I had was gone. I honestly think some hair stylists low key don’t want your hair to be longer than theirs 🤣
The couldn't tell me nothing. I barely wash my hair, I don't treat it nor cut it and it grows.... I'm going back natural now, I'm not doing the big chop and my hair is growing fast.
Some hair stylist are like that for real. I went to one stylist for a protective style and she hurt my hair bad. I had to chop it all off and start over again.
So i got heat damage last july due to a remy installment for graduation , so being the lovely girl that i am , i decided to do my research since i oh so loved my hair from the time i was a child till now when im a teenager , so i heard from a friend to cut a little bit of the heat damage at a time And so i did Some of the front section on the left side of my head is where the heat damage is So now i walking around with short patched hair on the left side of my head and long hair to the back Biggest mistake ever After my country is corona free , i need to go to the hair salon I dont even know if it will grow back fast enough 😢😢😢
But on a real note. Out of all the CZcams videos I watched on this subject, y’all are finally getting through to me that I have to moisturize my hair. Cause I can’t even lie, I protective style & don’t touch my sis until 2 months later 💀 then wonder why she broken af.
Agree that relaxers are damaging. Relaxed my hair for years and all I did was fight thin and balding hair. Finally cut it all off and went natural and my hair started growing like wild. I’m about four months in and what a difference!! No more thin hair. No balding. I discovered I have 4c hair but I’m not complaining. It’s finally thick healthy and growing. I’m just focused on growing longer hair so this video is great. Only wish I had the sense to do it a long time ago! Thanks for sharing. The water tip is very helpful.
My hair will get really nappy if I just add water like it will basically die and dry if I put water in it and let it sit without doing anything 😂🤣🤣😭🤣😭😭🤣🤣
“But I saw this youtuber with a relaxer and her hair was long...but clearly YOU DONT” 😂 I’m definitely subscribing not only cause of that but I needed to be scolded for the way I treat my hair 😭 thank you
"Relaxed hair is not healthy hair, PERIOD!" Yessssss!!!!!! I see videos talking avoyr how to get healthy relaxed hair, I'm like.....how sway???? How???? Those two words cancel out each other
@@NBnNC if your scalp isn't damaged, there is no reason it shouldn't grow. Breakage is the reason why it seems to not grow. As for the healthy thing.....its like saying you can have healthy heat damage. Your curl pattern is literally broken, so all that length is still damaged. If she doesn't care, that's fine. She gotta do what she wants. It's her hair
The same way you can have healthy coloured hair. It's about controlled damage. You have to balance enough chemical processing to remove the curl pattern/colour while keeping hair strength, volume and shine.
@@RedFlyingFox007 Damaged hair is hair that has been broken/altered from it's original curl pattern. You can have color without color damage. Ive seen people keep their curl pattern with color. You can't have permed hair without damaged hair. The hair is literally broken that's how it becomes permed. You have to destroy it. It can still be long though if you have hair thick/strong enough to withstand the damage.
After reading the comments, I feel like it is important to note that while you shouldn't be scissor happy you still shouldn't avoid trims like it is the plague. At a certain point we have to worry about the health of our hair as opposed to length. Your hair may be long, but if the ends of your hair are see-through, thin, jagged, and are making all sorts of W~y-shapes, what's the point? And it isn't that hard to spot single strand knots or split ends either. Just give the hair a blowout and feel the ends of your hair. If they are rough and see through snip,snip. Also, if you have 4c hair, you shouldn't be trimming your hair in it's natural shruken state anyway. If you do that you'll never get an even cut(just speaking from experience). The longer you wait to trim your hair, the more hair you will inevitably need to cut off in the long run.
What u end up having to cut really ends up being equivalent. It’s no point in blowing it out all the time to check for that. It’s counterproductive since you’re damaging your hair by blowing it out and could just trim when you’re comfortable with the length.
I agree with you, I have healthy well growing natural hair and it did not grow as beautifully, until I started trimming my ends...If it's making you look like a kitty cat on the surface and you can see the sun through it despite it being really thick - it's not hair sis - it's ends!
@@Dree03 What u end up cutting off is not the equivalent. How split ends work is that they travel up the hair shaft. One strand of hair can have 1-6 splits up to the root. I have seen naturals with really long hair, but ends that were so see-through they have to cut off half their length. They had to do a whole big chop.
lolitaspeach girl yes! My hair grew long as hell before I cut off four inches last year and realized it was the damn iron I was taking that boosted my growth
lolitaspeach you’ll see the growth after a few months. I have iron-deficiency anemia but I get constipated from iron pills (TMI sorry) so I take the liquid supplement
Your not lying. I think my hairs not growing because I suffer from anemia (low in iron) and I stopped taking my supplements for more than 3 years, my hairs really struggling to grow long.
My iron use to be low but by consciously eating the right foods in a greater quantity my hair is thriving very well. Spinach, kale , beans, lentils are great for your hair. Check the packaging of the foods that you eat make sure that the iron level is 5% and above. xoxo
When she said "get to know your hair" I felt that lol when everybody went crazy over coconut oil, my hair was like "🤣🤣🤣🤣" shae butter helps me. My hair does not likey the oil of the coconut
I literally just commented this on another video 🤣😭😭 I literally went out and bought coconut oil years ago bc everyone said it was good for our hair and it just made my hair dry. I love shea butter so much more
Coconut oil is high in protein. Some people’s hair doesn’t respond well to too much protein. Try jojoba oil. It’s much closer to the sebum our scalps naturally produce. A bit expensive tho (if you get the pure form).
Finally a woman with actual 4C hair giving hair advice. I see videos all the time aimed at helping girls with 4C type 4 hair and their hair doesn’t look type 4 at all 🤔🤔. I appreciated your video so much! It was so informative. Will be using you as a guide for my natural hair journey from now on 🤗
Ever since I took your advice about moisturizing my hair every 3 days I see a huge difference!! My hair sheds a whole lot less!!! I moisturize every 3 days
Idk, I guess it depends on locality but I know more and more women transitioning from natural to texlax hair 🤷🏾♀️. At least they gave it a shot - I know I did for seven long tedious years🤦🏾♀️
NB in DC I can definitely understand anyone’s frustration will be natural for 6 years on 4/14/20 and my hair is only (maybe was because I been in a protective style for 4 weeks) apl stretched. Me and my hair are just beginning to talk to each other.
I am relaxed currently and it’s my second time around being relaxed and transitioning to natural. In my experience my hair has grown to mid back length while relaxed, HOWEVER after 5 years of relaxing, my hair is starting to thin and grow slowly. Even though I relax 2x yearly and I under process, I find that my hair grows best without heat, colouring or relaxing. Can’t wait to be natural again, I want to feel free!
I shaved my head last night, 3 months after I relaxed my hair. My hair changed dramatically after the chemicals got to it. I had to start over. I'm so happy to see my curls again. #LilFroGang
Thank you so much for the point about relaxers. My parents used to relax my hair as a child and my scalp would always have damage from relaxers, my hair would start breaking off after a few months. I used to think there was something wrong with me. Two years ago I went natural and let me tell you my natural hair is so thick and curly. Thank you sis
Split ends are not white. The white bulb means it came directly from the scalp. A split end is the ends split literally. Curlier hair hides it better but you can tell by the way the ends feel and misbehave. You can also tell by looking at the ends of your hair😉
You are right sis , they hid so well yesterday I found them oh gosh I had to trim those ends like the hair was splitting like literally splitting I had a fright oh my life I've never experienced it that way . As a newly natural woman I almost fainted !
@@SunnySideUp712 Right I was completely lost when she said that because I was like let me find out I got a super power that I'm the only one that can see split ends 😂 Even when she said the other hair styles you can see the white bulb, that's when I knew she was really confused because that's a shed hair and we all have white bulbs. That's how you can tell it came from the root and didn't just break off randomly on a strand💯
Girl I hope you the best I’ve subbed recently and I have not regretted it! Best 4c representative our age especially with your length!!! Give me five years and I’ll have long hair too girl 😭❤️💙💚💜🧡
I like Eugenia,she's so beautiful and SMART and she's helping me to put lots of love and effort into growing and taking care of my hair,her Mom should be proud of her! Cause I am, THANK YOU for the info, and May God bless you and your entire family!!!
omg you're so cute 😭 & not just the way you look I mean obviously you're gorgeous but it's also your lil accent , the way you speak , the things you laugh at , your overall personality 🥺🥺🥺
I took a strand of hair from my head and the end was spit pretty bad, I pulled another one and the same thing. I'm a professional license hairstylist. I become really ill so I couldn't do my hair for one whole year. I had to go to a salon to someone I trusted and had her to trim my hair ends, then research and saw your Moringa and Fenugreek deep conditioner and I haven't had any split ends since. But I had my ends trimmed first. I used your products only like 3 months now. 8oz is pretty small this is my third purchase. I use it once a week. I love this. My hair has grew .
Omg I always pick my hair and my dad complains about all the hair on the floor I didnt realise how much damage I was doing thank you so much, my poor hair, and a barely moisturize OMG I'm a criminal
"What water you be drinking?" 🤣😂..." Corona, sis...is that you?" ... 🤣😂...on a serious note ...a lot of good info I plan to implement as soon as I get these braids out of my head
I went natural almost three years ago and I’ve been at around shoulder length for the LONGEST and it’s frustrating me 😭 thanks for the tips. I’m only a teenager and I’m very lazy but I care so much about my hair that I’m going to try to step up my hair care routine
I've had dreads for 7 YEARS (got them when I was 5) and got them out at the end of last year this has help me alot since I don't know a thing about hair and I got 4C😳😬 so thank you!!
@@r.amllahh7x423 yeah, when you have dreads you usually don't just have them in your hair for a couple months, they're supposed to stay in for at least over a year I think. I might do that soon cause my hair loves low maintenance
@@blahface240 Dreads are the number 1 way to grow 4c honestly. By design it’s low manipulation and it’s very easy to moisturise and not have to worry about shrinkage. Only thing is you cant do other styles
When my hair is in braids I add water, ors hair lotion and blue magic to the part where my hair is. It keeps my hair moisturised under my braids. I recommend it
Your hair probably falls out when you try to detangle it in the shower because you’re not cutting/trimming your hair. Everything you said is very accurate except the trimming and detangling part. When your hair is even it causes less breakage. Beautiful hair btw
I’m going with everything you say girl,your are so Knowledgeable & I love your hair 😍how long did it take you to grow it that length & where did you learn all this ?beautiful 💕
I would have to respectfully disagree with you on that. I used to cut my ends very often and would still struggle with tangles in the shower. Also, she didn't say to never cut your ends, but to stop cutting them so often. If you're cutting your hair every month and your hair grows 0.5- 1 inch a month, how are you going to achieve any length? You're basically cutting off all the growth that you've gained during that month.
Hey Love, Thank you for your well thoughout content. Would it be too much to ask for you to do a miniseries on helpful protective styles where you measure the length before and after? Also, share your insight on why you think the style produced so much length retention. That would be so helpful☺️ I haven’t seen anyone document the amount of growth from a particular style.
This happened to my hair so badly two weeks ago because I was adding product that keeps it curly but not twisting it, moisturizing it or sitting it under a bonnet. So I bought a bonnet this week, castor oil, and twisted it up wet with Cantu Natural Hair Conditioning creamy hair lotion, Sky Organic Organic Castor oil and shea moisture leave in detangler this week past. Not a knot in sight. Hair is still moisturized. I touch it up with the castor oil around the scalp, ends and edges every couple of days. I need a spray bottle for water though.
My teenage nephew has been trying to grow his hair for a year. It's ridiculously THICK, but refuses to grow much in length at all, and he never cuts it. When I was his age about 20 years ago, I did the same thing. My hair was down to my shoulders in the same amount of time, and I used to cut, relax, dye it non-stop.
I'm 42 yrs old and I've learned more from this vid than I have from any other source. EVER. Great job on the vid and thanks for taking the time out to education the masses! You are a very beautiful and intelligent young lady, thanks for teaching this old dog some new tricks lol
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Danielle Palmer you haven’t tried hard enough then. Hair always grows unless you have an underlying medical condition. You’re just not retaining length. Your ends are the oldest part of your hair, If u don’t moisturize it properly or anything else, then your hair will stay the same length. Don’t give up so easily on your hair. Learn your hair
JS Willworth nah hair should grow past your ears unless you have a medical condition, deficiency or poor hair care routine. That’s not genetics. Hair stops growing when you die.
Currently on my transition to get back to natural! So I am taking notes down.... literally got like maybe 1.5 inches of relaxed hair left but now I am comfortable in growing and caring for my hair! Thanks for this info 🙏🏾
....... Stop using direct heating tools for at least 3 years.... LoL.❤️🤫 Low maintenance protective styles that don't break hair, wash hair at least twice a month, LCO every other day... the list definitely goes on.. but I LOVE THIS VIDEO 😻. I've learned so much thank you 😊❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for pointing out iron instead of biotin btw! Women need to realize that 1. biotin is in basically everything so you really can't be deficient in it and 2. Iron deficiency anemia is THE MOST common deficiency in women of child bearing age due to menstruation and it is very important for blood supply in your body, thus growth! Girls be asking why it seems like guy's hair grows faster. It's not because of testosterone (quite the opposite actually); it's probably because they dont manipulate their hair much, tend to play lots of sports(exercise), and they dont have to worry about iron deficiency anemia.
My sister has your beautiful texture .. I told her listen to people with your hair texture .. that's how you quickly find what works for you .. thank you for making this
Soooo many of these tips make so much since but I’ve just never thought about. Especially the water one. I used to wet my hair every other day my senior year of high school and it THRIVED.
You made me smile so freaking hard . I haven’t heard the things you’ve been saying from anyone else but it all makes sense. I know it’s weird but I luv u gurlll😅😂💙
I currently take 3 msm capsules+2 vitamin c capsules per day, the most AMAZING side effect is After 15 years, IT GOT RID OF MY EXCEMA! I actually made an oil with msm, and for the first time in 10 years, I can wear shoes sleeves! You're DEFINITELY right about that msm, my nails grow like crazy, and my hair is growing! 💖I couldn't imagine relaxing my hair!
“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his court with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations” -Psalm 100:4-5
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Amen, to God be the glory great things He has done. Thank you for this video
Amen
🙏🏾🙏🏾!!
Amen!!!!
Thanks sis you are amazing God bless you all and Jesus loves you all stay safe with this coronavirus going around
So nobody gonna talk about how gorgeous she is ?? omg your a beautiful black queen your hair looks amazing
I agree. Shes gorg...
@@taylorsara1237 what does that mean?...
@@sshaqueen6941 "Gorg" is short for gorgeous.... which she is indeed
KXNG RJ she is
KXNG RJ ur literally ugly i don’t know why YOURE talking
Natural hair is sometimes harder than algebra...
life hurts don't cry lol sooo true
@Fol A ik but for the lazy girls. Ahhhhh
😂😂
@@shreksspawn2359 😂😂
Fol A it be changing up tho and my hair is bra strap length😂
I love seeing another 4C sister who’s got long hair and is a Christian. Love it! God bless ❤️
Genuinely curious as to why her religion stood out to u, especially considering it’s Christianity
She said something about god not Christianity
.......4.....d
@@vhix64 maybe because we can’t cut our hair
Her hair isn't 4c
I’ve been growing up with ppl even in my family telling me I can’t grow my hair longer cuz I’m black and I refuse to accept that because it doesn’t make sense
When I was young ALL of us black children had long hair.
@@Amatullah.574 yes! with beads hanging down and swinging on our backs lol
Yep, cause it was only washed about 4 times a year, scalp greased, put away in plaits or corn rows, and left alone the rest of the time! 😅
Love this Brilliant Educated Beautiful Young Queen
@@lossiefreeman43954 times a year is insane and not true. My mom washed my hair every 2 weeks to a month. But yeah, most black girls had long hair when we were kids
Your face
Your hair
Your eyes
Your shape
Your skin
God has blessed you in every way possible
And that lovely brown skin... She looks like a doll...
Irene Nakibongo i agree she’s so beautiful
I agree she us perfect
Dope personality too
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1.Stop cutting your hair 4:28 2.Not moisturizing 6:11 3.Poor hair care routine 8:19 4.Picking your hair 10:39 5.Your diet 11:23 6.Over processing your hair 12:25
7.Build up of product 15:14
8.Excessive shedding 16:35
9.Use of chemicals 19:07
10.Don’t know your hair porosity 21:20 I hoped this help you if you don’t have time to watch the whole video.
Markashia Jeter 🤣🤣🤣
Your a life saver for this 😘
Markashia Jeter MoneyManSsZ
Not all heroes wear capes🤗🤗thanks.
iiSunflower _Girlii God bless
I notice guys hair grow and they don’t worry about split ends.
Men hormones are stronger than women thats why they hair grows faster 😀
@@cocobronze7587 lol, men hormones are NOT stronger. Testosterone weaken the hair follicle and cause baldness.
That’s that testosterone
@sylvia ashby their hair grows faster simply because they don't use chemicals or hot tools for styling.
mens hair grows faster due to the fact that they work out more and when your work out more your hair grows faster due to sweat
when her shrinkage is your hair stretched :(
Longer than mine stetched out 😪😭
@@vi-negar9196 hey lee
Yes
I understand your pain girl😭😭✋💇♂️
Your hair is long!
Tired of getting on here everyday and seeing a video about why my hair isn’t growing. I feel attacked and I’m reporting y’all 💀😭🤣🤣
La'Oncia Williams 😂
LMFAO facts I've been looking like dora my whole life :/
For real😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🙌
😂😂😂
“God is so wonderful he doesn’t want us to go around bald.” I love how spiritual you are! Love your God girl!
RIP 💔😭😭😭 you died so young😢, RIP SIS. Jesus is Lord 🙌❤️
@@birungisaidat3325 did she die?.... 😲omg
Jael 88 yes she’s dead her boyfriend murdered her unfortunately
isaac fiedler yes she’s dead her boyfriend murdered her unfortunately
Who died
“Stop cutting your hair”....I needed to see this yesterday. I hear you sis!!
I needed this years ago
I needed this cause it’s like my hair is staying at shoulder length cause I feel like the just cut my whole new growth off but I’m getting into protective styles now
Need this last night
"Put the scissors down!" I feel like that should be on a t-shirt😂
Lmao
Stooop🤣🤣
Leave your hair a lone
lol....
Protest 😂
Who else looking for hair tips this quarantine? This hair must grow
Me , for real
As soon as you said “this hair must grow” you sounded so Igbo and I checked your name just to make sure and I was like “yup”
@@Ola-rs4qx 🤣🤣🤣
Ong I'm tryna be a new person after this is over.. new face, new body, new hair. EVERYTHING 🤣
Akubueze Kosi Caribbean person here...
This hair go Grow!!!! 😄
Caucasian hair dresser here. Bless you for this video. In school (depending on where you go) they absolutely do NOT teach us about hair beyond a 2C. And that scale is pretty limited as is. Shameful. I'm so grateful for this information. Thank you.
I love this I’m so glad you are going out of your comfort zone 😍 I get turned away all the time and I’m a good tipper 🤦🏾♀️
There is a GROWING DEMAND. trust and believe mix kids will NEED YOUR HELP💯
@@candancereed5891 I've been turned around once and will never put myself in that predicament again. Moved away for college and had noooo idea hair salons would tell you they don't do your type of hair. I would never forget that feeling, like the whole salon stopped breathing when I walked in. Black stylist would not turn white clients around
@@supremedjon8423 be grateful they turned you around verses mess up your whole head! I wish I was turned around! Smh
@@msp9810 Excellent work seeing the positive. Bless you for this. It helps.
I HAVE BEEN TELLING PEOPLE FOREVER TO STOP CUTTING YOUR HAIR! THANK YOU!!! THIS WHOLE VIDEO IS LIFE! Good job, baby girl.👑
My daughter actually said, "Your hair will grow if you stop cutting it." The simplest, realist advice for serious growth.
It literally never made sense to ne I never did that
I can’t seem to find my comment but I was here 3months ago and yess I’m seeing progress in my hair this video really helped!!😁
YAS queen!! Growth
I never understood the obsession with cutting these invisible split ends every month in the natural hair community. probably why so many naturals hair is stuck at the same length
They cut more than they grow
I just snip off single strand knots.
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Xarii Fernandes I have this and dnt know how to get rid of them
@cutei pie
I’m sorry but there is no actual way to completely get rid of them. Same with spilt ends, they are just always gonna come back or happen.
You can prevent them tho. Make sure to put oil or grease on your ends, it lubricates them so they’re easier to untangle. Try to keep hair in protective styles like twists, braids, cornrows and buns. I don’t recommend puffs, wash and gos or twist/braid outs often cuz it allows you’re hair to knot up and tangle with each other of its self.
Keep hair stretched as well, whether you braid it, band it or even low heat blow drying, it keeps your strands elongated so their not shrunken and can easily tangle with each other.
Even though she said what she said above, I still think you should trim your hair. If I see or encounter a single strand knot, I always cut it out and don’t rip it out bcuz that can cause the end of that strand to split.
Edit: grammatical corrections
Also, let’s make it a habit to speak love into our hair and bodies in general. Don’t say it’s too hard, or make it seem like a chore to take care of it. Instead say, “I love every little beautiful strand of hair on my head. I’m grateful to be able to nurture and nourish my hair.” It works ❤️
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This video is revolutionary. Sis said do you know what split ends looks like on black people hair. Lordt I do not. Majority of these hair schools are built my Caucasian specialists. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So true they don't even know how to press and curl
When my hair was relaxed and I went to the hair stylist every month to get it redone or treatment I used to HATE them for trimming my hair. My hair was growing and yes i had split ends but trimming every month whatever I growth I had was gone. I honestly think some hair stylists low key don’t want your hair to be longer than theirs 🤣
The couldn't tell me nothing. I barely wash my hair, I don't treat it nor cut it and it grows.... I'm going back natural now, I'm not doing the big chop and my hair is growing fast.
Alecia Hall you should wash your hair every 2-4 weeks to ensure your hair is clean
Some hair stylist are like that for real. I went to one stylist for a protective style and she hurt my hair bad. I had to chop it all off and start over again.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣really?
Yup!
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So i got heat damage last july due to a remy installment for graduation , so being the lovely girl that i am , i decided to do my research since i oh so loved my hair from the time i was a child till now when im a teenager , so i heard from a friend to cut a little bit of the heat damage at a time
And so i did
Some of the front section on the left side of my head is where the heat damage is
So now i walking around with short patched hair on the left side of my head and long hair to the back
Biggest mistake ever
After my country is corona free , i need to go to the hair salon
I dont even know if it will grow back fast enough 😢😢😢
Also where could we get Fenugreek from?
@@matthewo5275
You can get it from the supermarket in the seasoning/spices section or go to your local asian market or wholefoods
Preach, sister!
@@matthewo5275 Amazon.
But on a real note. Out of all the CZcams videos I watched on this subject, y’all are finally getting through to me that I have to moisturize my hair. Cause I can’t even lie, I protective style & don’t touch my sis until 2 months later 💀 then wonder why she broken af.
Lol. I've been doing this lately and know better. 🤦♀️
Girl me too
This the one!!
FRRR 😭😭
Agree that relaxers are damaging. Relaxed my hair for years and all I did was fight thin and balding hair. Finally cut it all off and went natural and my hair started growing like wild. I’m about four months in and what a difference!! No more thin hair. No balding. I discovered I have 4c hair but I’m not complaining. It’s finally thick healthy and growing. I’m just focused on growing longer hair so this video is great. Only wish I had the sense to do it a long time ago! Thanks for sharing. The water tip is very helpful.
Why would you complain because you have 4c hair??
I be trying to tell them that our hair is a plant we need WATER!!! Forget all them other moisturizing product. Water water water water 💦
Yes sis PERIODT
Sazshae Mills like washing or just spraying?
@@ashleyzvavanjanja3664 You can just spray water on your hair often, like every day or whatever suits your hair
My hair will dry out if I just put water lmao
My hair will get really nappy if I just add water like it will basically die and dry if I put water in it and let it sit without doing anything 😂🤣🤣😭🤣😭😭🤣🤣
That's a whole melanin queen right there 🌹
“But I saw this youtuber with a relaxer and her hair was long...but clearly YOU DONT” 😂 I’m definitely subscribing not only cause of that but I needed to be scolded for the way I treat my hair 😭 thank you
The fact she spoke biological process of the hair just makes everything she says that much more important and spit on! Thank you ♥️♥️♥️
I laughed at you're comment because I think you meant to put spot on instead of spit😂
Your really starting to get confident of camera and showing the true you 🙏🥰
thank you !!! it's so nerve racking and on top of that you will have people hate and troll on you. But i'm getting the hang of it
Louie Mcginn New Sub
"Relaxed hair is not healthy hair, PERIOD!" Yessssss!!!!!! I see videos talking avoyr how to get healthy relaxed hair, I'm like.....how sway???? How???? Those two words cancel out each other
Monique Morris
How can something “not healthy” grow 6-8 inches a year and retain length? My sister has permed hair and it’s been flourishing 🤷🏾♀️
@@NBnNC if your scalp isn't damaged, there is no reason it shouldn't grow. Breakage is the reason why it seems to not grow. As for the healthy thing.....its like saying you can have healthy heat damage. Your curl pattern is literally broken, so all that length is still damaged. If she doesn't care, that's fine. She gotta do what she wants. It's her hair
Monique Morris New Sub
The same way you can have healthy coloured hair.
It's about controlled damage. You have to balance enough chemical processing to remove the curl pattern/colour while keeping hair strength, volume and shine.
@@RedFlyingFox007 Damaged hair is hair that has been broken/altered from it's original curl pattern. You can have color without color damage. Ive seen people keep their curl pattern with color. You can't have permed hair without damaged hair. The hair is literally broken that's how it becomes permed. You have to destroy it. It can still be long though if you have hair thick/strong enough to withstand the damage.
After reading the comments, I feel like it is important to note that while you shouldn't be scissor happy you still shouldn't avoid trims like it is the plague. At a certain point we have to worry about the health of our hair as opposed to length. Your hair may be long, but if the ends of your hair are see-through, thin, jagged, and are making all sorts of W~y-shapes, what's the point? And it isn't that hard to spot single strand knots or split ends either. Just give the hair a blowout and feel the ends of your hair. If they are rough and see through snip,snip. Also, if you have 4c hair, you shouldn't be trimming your hair in it's natural shruken state anyway. If you do that you'll never get an even cut(just speaking from experience). The longer you wait to trim your hair, the more hair you will inevitably need to cut off in the long run.
I'm personally snipping nothing! I am very happy with my hair as it is! :)
What u end up having to cut really ends up being equivalent. It’s no point in blowing it out all the time to check for that. It’s counterproductive since you’re damaging your hair by blowing it out and could just trim when you’re comfortable with the length.
I agree with you, I have healthy well growing natural hair and it did not grow as beautifully, until I started trimming my ends...If it's making you look like a kitty cat on the surface and you can see the sun through it despite it being really thick - it's not hair sis - it's ends!
you didn't listen to what she said.
@@Dree03 What u end up cutting off is not the equivalent. How split ends work is that they travel up the hair shaft. One strand of hair can have 1-6 splits up to the root. I have seen naturals with really long hair, but ends that were so see-through they have to cut off half their length. They had to do a whole big chop.
They should teach this stuff to people who want to be a barber. I would feel a lot safer that my hair won’t be damaged if they did.
Lemme take my iron pills so I can stop shivering
lolitaspeach wait😭... I don’t know whether i should laugh or not!
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lolitaspeach girl yes! My hair grew long as hell before I cut off four inches last year and realized it was the damn iron I was taking that boosted my growth
Samantha Sosa got prescribed some by my doctor lol required to take them everyday fingers crossed
lolitaspeach you’ll see the growth after a few months. I have iron-deficiency anemia but I get constipated from iron pills (TMI sorry) so I take the liquid supplement
Your not lying. I think my hairs not growing because I suffer from anemia (low in iron) and I stopped taking my supplements for more than 3 years, my hairs really struggling to grow long.
My iron use to be low but by consciously eating the right foods in a greater quantity my hair is thriving very well. Spinach, kale , beans, lentils are great for your hair. Check the packaging of the foods that you eat make sure that the iron level is 5% and above. xoxo
Same here sis! I need to start taking them again
Your diet plays a huge part...I was a anemic.... supplements was a must for me and my diet
Ladies if you gonna take iron supplements make sure you take vitamins c with it otherwise it will be hard for u to go 💩.
I think that’s my problem. Low on iron and vitamins. I just recently started eating dinner every night. Also stress y’all can’t forget stress
When she said "get to know your hair" I felt that lol when everybody went crazy over coconut oil, my hair was like "🤣🤣🤣🤣" shae butter helps me. My hair does not likey the oil of the coconut
I literally just commented this on another video 🤣😭😭 I literally went out and bought coconut oil years ago bc everyone said it was good for our hair and it just made my hair dry. I love shea butter so much more
Same my hair really hates coconut oil and every video I watched was like but coconut oil 🙄
Coconut oil is high in protein. Some people’s hair doesn’t respond well to too much protein. Try jojoba oil. It’s much closer to the sebum our scalps naturally produce. A bit expensive tho (if you get the pure form).
Me too
"I barely drink water or eat healthy" -has perfect skin and literal abs. IM PISSED
For real oh to be blessed with a fast metabolism 😭💀
It's youth honey. Can't do that for ever.
😂😂😂😂
@@Amatullah.574 not true.. I started struggling with my weight in my youth.
Finally a woman with actual 4C hair giving hair advice. I see videos all the time aimed at helping girls with 4C type 4 hair and their hair doesn’t look type 4 at all 🤔🤔. I appreciated your video so much! It was so informative. Will be using you as a guide for my natural hair journey from now on 🤗
Glad it was helpful! and thank you. I'm here to represent !!
i lost it at "TELL THEM TO DROP THEIR ADDRESS CAUSE I WANNA FIGHT THEM"
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yasmin Silene 😂😂
Yasmin Silene New Sub
Right, I was ready to run but I really needed to hear her tell me how to better care for my natural 4c hair lol
Me too!
"IM A GIRL WHO IS OBSESSED WITH HAIR" Who feels the same way?♡I know I do ♡♡
Read that the same time she said it
Ever since I took your advice about moisturizing my hair every 3 days I see a huge difference!! My hair sheds a whole lot less!!! I moisturize every 3 days
How do you do that
What’s a relaxer!? 😆 Are ppl still doing this ?
Yasky yeah I was like wait isn’t everyone natural by now? Lol
Idk, I guess it depends on locality but I know more and more women transitioning from natural to texlax hair 🤷🏾♀️. At least they gave it a shot - I know I did for seven long tedious years🤦🏾♀️
NB in DC I can definitely understand anyone’s frustration will be natural for 6 years on 4/14/20 and my hair is only (maybe was because I been in a protective style for 4 weeks) apl stretched. Me and my hair are just beginning to talk to each other.
Yasky New Sub
I am 🤷🏽♀️
I am relaxed currently and it’s my second time around being relaxed and transitioning to natural. In my experience my hair has grown to mid back length while relaxed, HOWEVER after 5 years of relaxing, my hair is starting to thin and grow slowly. Even though I relax 2x yearly and I under process, I find that my hair grows best without heat, colouring or relaxing. Can’t wait to be natural again, I want to feel free!
I shaved my head last night, 3 months after I relaxed my hair. My hair changed dramatically after the chemicals got to it. I had to start over. I'm so happy to see my curls again. #LilFroGang
Phillysophical i think that’s what is happening to mine too! Congrats on going natural!!
Katia Bella New Subscriber
Natural Fab Lady thank you!!
I will never understand how people press the dislike button by mistake 🙏🏾😩 She's just magical ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for the point about relaxers. My parents used to relax my hair as a child and my scalp would always have damage from relaxers, my hair would start breaking off after a few months. I used to think there was something wrong with me. Two years ago I went natural and let me tell you my natural hair is so thick and curly. Thank you sis
me : but I do not watch only white hairstylers
her : do you know how the split ends looks on a 4c hair
me : and i oop
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Right, I felt personally attacked😂😂😂
Well I cut off two inches of my hair I’m so suicidal
Split ends are not white. The white bulb means it came directly from the scalp. A split end is the ends split literally. Curlier hair hides it better but you can tell by the way the ends feel and misbehave. You can also tell by looking at the ends of your hair😉
You are right sis , they hid so well yesterday I found them oh gosh I had to trim those ends like the hair was splitting like literally splitting I had a fright oh my life I've never experienced it that way . As a newly natural woman I almost fainted !
My hair looks and feels like cotton on the ends when I need a trim. Just bushy af!
Girl I can literally see my split ends. Idk whaaaaat she's talking about lol
@@shawnsmith1272 yup great inclination you need a trim when the ends don't stay defined 💯
@@SunnySideUp712 Right I was completely lost when she said that because I was like let me find out I got a super power that I'm the only one that can see split ends 😂 Even when she said the other hair styles you can see the white bulb, that's when I knew she was really confused because that's a shed hair and we all have white bulbs. That's how you can tell it came from the root and didn't just break off randomly on a strand💯
"you need to eat healthy"
me: eating a bag of Doritos while watching this*
🤣🤣🤣
Me eating cheetos
“STOP CUTTING YOUR HAIR”
I felt that to the core 😅😂😂
Honestly though! As soon as I stopped listening to people my hair started GROWINGGGGGGH
Girl I hope you the best I’ve subbed recently and I have not regretted it! Best 4c representative our age especially with your length!!! Give me five years and I’ll have long hair too girl 😭❤️💙💚💜🧡
Dude, imma follow this. I cut my hair every 3 to 4 months, and it has been growing. Knowing that my hair has better growing potential makes me excited
She’s so smart. I just subscribed, I love people who use facts to back up their statements🤍
I DO. Green Beauty channel is also the ish. she covers split ends extensive.
Gee Row R. Live for green beauty
I read this right after she said “u don’t”
@@paulacunningham7956 Me too. Her real protein treatment and her leave recipe turned my hair around for the better.
Gee Row R. I just love the tip she shared on the onion juice and parsley, let me stop I can go on and on
Paula Cunningham Same. I did the onion juice last wash day. It’s amazing. She’s so scientific.
I like Eugenia, she's always trynna fight people giving us bad hair advice.
I like Eugenia,she's so beautiful and SMART and she's helping me to put lots of love and effort into growing and taking care of my hair,her Mom should be proud of her! Cause I am, THANK YOU for the info, and May God bless you and your entire family!!!
I also ordered the ingredients she uses, really I'm waiting for her products to be in the market, I love that beautiful young woman!🤗🙃💜🙃
omg you're so cute 😭 & not just the way you look I mean obviously you're gorgeous but it's also your lil accent , the way you speak , the things you laugh at , your overall personality 🥺🥺🥺
I took a strand of hair from my head and the end was spit pretty bad, I pulled another one and the same thing. I'm a professional license hairstylist. I become really ill so I couldn't do my hair for one whole year. I had to go to a salon to someone I trusted and had her to trim my hair ends, then research and saw your Moringa and Fenugreek deep conditioner and I haven't had any split ends since. But I had my ends trimmed first. I used your products only like 3 months now. 8oz is pretty small this is my third purchase. I use it once a week. I love this. My hair has grew .
Omg I always pick my hair and my dad complains about all the hair on the floor I didnt realise how much damage I was doing thank you so much, my poor hair, and a barely moisturize OMG I'm a criminal
Same omw 😞😞😞 its a bad habit
Same and I’ve lost sooo much hair because of this
Omgg same it's such a bad habit
Me too👁👄👁
I used to do that I really thought I was killing it with my dry damaged fro😂😂
Girrrl where have you been my whole 4C struggle life. I’m so happy you popped up on my timeline. You’re just amazing.
You know I just love the fact sis giving us these great points and she got her reason to back it up like...yasssss girl
"What water you be drinking?" 🤣😂..." Corona, sis...is that you?" ... 🤣😂...on a serious note ...a lot of good info I plan to implement as soon as I get these braids out of my head
You can still do sth even while it's in braids...
I went natural almost three years ago and I’ve been at around shoulder length for the LONGEST and it’s frustrating me 😭 thanks for the tips. I’m only a teenager and I’m very lazy but I care so much about my hair that I’m going to try to step up my hair care routine
Love to see a fellow X fan
This is the most informative hair video I’ve seen. Glad it was recommended. New subscriber !!
I've had dreads for 7 YEARS (got them when I was 5) and got them out at the end of last year this has help me alot since I don't know a thing about hair and I got 4C😳😬 so thank you!!
7 YEARS??!?
@@r.amllahh7x423 yeah, when you have dreads you usually don't just have them in your hair for a couple months, they're supposed to stay in for at least over a year I think. I might do that soon cause my hair loves low maintenance
@@blahface240 Dreads are the number 1 way to grow 4c honestly. By design it’s low manipulation and it’s very easy to moisturise and not have to worry about shrinkage. Only thing is you cant do other styles
I've restarted my hair journey after cutting it yet again this year. ❤❤❤ so excited I found your channel
She is so cute. She reminds me of my daughter🥰
When my hair is in braids I add water, ors hair lotion and blue magic to the part where my hair is. It keeps my hair moisturised under my braids. I recommend it
Your hair probably falls out when you try to detangle it in the shower because you’re not cutting/trimming your hair. Everything you said is very accurate except the trimming and detangling part. When your hair is even it causes less breakage. Beautiful hair btw
Couldn't have said it better sis. Trimed hair equal less breakage!!
I’m going with everything you say girl,your are so Knowledgeable & I love your hair 😍how long did it take you to grow it that length & where did you learn all this ?beautiful 💕
I would have to respectfully disagree with you on that. I used to cut my ends very often and would still struggle with tangles in the shower. Also, she didn't say to never cut your ends, but to stop cutting them so often. If you're cutting your hair every month and your hair grows 0.5- 1 inch a month, how are you going to achieve any length? You're basically cutting off all the growth that you've gained during that month.
Finally I found someone who has low p hair ima male and I'm struggling to grow my hair hopefully ur videos will help🙏
you should definitely pursue a career related to hair, or launch your own products or something! You're so knowledgeable, I love it.
I just wanna let you know that if you come up with products in rhe future , imma support it and follow your ways ❤
Jobline Jouana New Sub
Hey Love,
Thank you for your well thoughout content. Would it be too much to ask for you to do a miniseries on helpful protective styles where you measure the length before and after? Also, share your insight on why you think the style produced so much length retention.
That would be so helpful☺️ I haven’t seen anyone document the amount of growth from a particular style.
I love how you explained the hair growth cycle too. People don't usually do that. Also you're so pretty ❤
Nobody even talks about them damn “fairy knots” we be gettin too lol
Honestly! 😩😩
Hydrate and moisturise for GOSSAKE
those are the worst! i trim them out immediately once i see them . idk if that’s a good or bad thing but yh lol
This happened to my hair so badly two weeks ago because I was adding product that keeps it curly but not twisting it, moisturizing it or sitting it under a bonnet. So I bought a bonnet this week, castor oil, and twisted it up wet with Cantu Natural Hair Conditioning creamy hair lotion, Sky Organic Organic Castor oil and shea moisture leave in detangler this week past. Not a knot in sight. Hair is still moisturized. I touch it up with the castor oil around the scalp, ends and edges every couple of days. I need a spray bottle for water though.
iShoTTi X stop twisting and braiding your hair then?
I can’t take my eyes off her crown 👸🏽 she’s a queen ❤️❤️🙌🏽
My teenage nephew has been trying to grow his hair for a year. It's ridiculously THICK, but refuses to grow much in length at all, and he never cuts it. When I was his age about 20 years ago, I did the same thing. My hair was down to my shoulders in the same amount of time, and I used to cut, relax, dye it non-stop.
I'm 42 yrs old and I've learned more from this vid than I have from any other source. EVER. Great job on the vid and thanks for taking the time out to education the masses! You are a very beautiful and intelligent young lady, thanks for teaching this old dog some new tricks lol
56 here!!! Same thing!!! I just hope I haven't waited too long to change!!!
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I enjoyed watching this thank you 😊😊😊😊 I also had to cut my relaxed hair and start all over again and I’m loving the growth and process 😊😊😊
YOU ARE the epitome of beauty amongst the cosmos Goddess!!! And THANK YOU for your knowledge!
You have such a beautiful spirit to match your face & you’re funny too 😂
thank you my love :)
Eugenia Kelcy no prob!
Believe it or not, genetics plays a part. I tried EVERYTHING and it still hasn't grown pass my ears. I love your hair tho and you're so beautiful 💛
Danielle Palmer you haven’t tried hard enough then. Hair always grows unless you have an underlying medical condition. You’re just not retaining length. Your ends are the oldest part of your hair, If u don’t moisturize it properly or anything else, then your hair will stay the same length. Don’t give up so easily on your hair. Learn your hair
Try hair subliminals and boosters
Piquesyde Lmfao. Y’all kill me. Don’t know the girl and said “You haven’t tried hard enough” lmfaoooooooo
JS Willworth nah hair should grow past your ears unless you have a medical condition, deficiency or poor hair care routine. That’s not genetics. Hair stops growing when you die.
Thanks for all the suggestions lol I will continue trying.. The problem is my hair doesn't lock the moisture so it breaks.
Ok sis I was mesmerized for a couple seconds. You are beautiful!!
Oh my you look like my daughter. She’s softly spoken too and also taught me (lol) the same science of growing our hair. Your so cute.
I’ve never heard any1 so smart, thank you.
Currently on my transition to get back to natural! So I am taking notes down.... literally got like maybe 1.5 inches of relaxed hair left but now I am comfortable in growing and caring for my hair! Thanks for this info 🙏🏾
This makes so much sense. I just washed my hair and detangled it and so much broke off I cried. 😭
....... Stop using direct heating tools for at least 3 years.... LoL.❤️🤫 Low maintenance protective styles that don't break hair, wash hair at least twice a month, LCO every other day... the list definitely goes on.. but I LOVE THIS VIDEO 😻. I've learned so much thank you 😊❤️❤️❤️
I’m a dude tryna grow dreads Only girl I’ll listen to from now
Same! She's the only one who has proved that she is in it to help, and has all the facts.
Great reputation!!!
I just discovered your channel and I can’t stop watching your videos because your voice is so soothing and relaxing 🥰
Thank you for pointing out iron instead of biotin btw! Women need to realize that
1. biotin is in basically everything so you really can't be deficient in it and
2. Iron deficiency anemia is THE MOST common deficiency in women of child bearing age due to menstruation and it is very important for blood supply in your body, thus growth!
Girls be asking why it seems like guy's hair grows faster. It's not because of testosterone (quite the opposite actually); it's probably because they dont manipulate their hair much, tend to play lots of sports(exercise), and they dont have to worry about iron deficiency anemia.
My sister has your beautiful texture .. I told her listen to people with your hair texture .. that's how you quickly find what works for you .. thank you for making this
Me: *trying to figure out how to fix my hair*
CZcams: Here's a reese's ad
Soooo many of these tips make so much since but I’ve just never thought about. Especially the water one. I used to wet my hair every other day my senior year of high school and it THRIVED.
Thank you so much..I prayed to God and he lead me here..and you quoting scriptures ❤️❤️God bless you!!
Who else here but know damn well they too lazy 🙋🏾♀️
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🤣🤣🤣🤣guilty!
Girrrllllll 🤣
And I have 2 daughters with natural hair. The struggle is real🙈
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Girl, don't call us out like that 🤣🤣
The only CZcamsr I trust when it comes to natural hair! Love you so much
I’m so guilty of using oil before putting anything on my hair
It depends on the oil
Castor oil is a sealant
Olive oil is a moisturiser
There are videos on the different types
Use the LOC method L- liquid(water) C- cream O- oil. In this order so the oil can seal in the moisture
@@kay-vs3te Whats the O?
@@ellaquestane9172 Oil
@@jackieanderson6618 Is organic Argan oil a moisturizer??
You made me smile so freaking hard . I haven’t heard the things you’ve been saying from anyone else but it all makes sense. I know it’s weird but I luv u gurlll😅😂💙
I currently take 3 msm capsules+2 vitamin c capsules per day, the most AMAZING side effect is After 15 years, IT GOT RID OF MY EXCEMA! I actually made an oil with msm, and for the first time in 10 years, I can wear shoes sleeves! You're DEFINITELY right about that msm, my nails grow like crazy, and my hair is growing! 💖I couldn't imagine relaxing my hair!
what’s msm?