10 REASONS WHY YOUR NATURAL HAIR ISN’T GROWING PAST SHOULDER LENGTH + HOW TO FIX IT / GROW IT

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  • čas přidán 25. 08. 2024

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  • @eugeniakelcy8676
    @eugeniakelcy8676  Před 4 lety +6622

    “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his court with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations” -Psalm 100:4-5
    Update : You can go www.kCurlsys.com to shop my Haircare Line.

    • @trinniceorlando1477
      @trinniceorlando1477 Před 4 lety +139

      Amen, to God be the glory great things He has done. Thank you for this video

    • @mimischannel308
      @mimischannel308 Před 4 lety +40

      Amen

    • @l.patrick3155
      @l.patrick3155 Před 4 lety +19

      🙏🏾🙏🏾!!

    • @thanamesny7807
      @thanamesny7807 Před 4 lety +18

      Amen!!!!

    • @LBay-ko9jf
      @LBay-ko9jf Před 4 lety +32

      Thanks sis you are amazing God bless you all and Jesus loves you all stay safe with this coronavirus going around

  • @kasheikaedwards427
    @kasheikaedwards427 Před 4 lety +8627

    So nobody gonna talk about how gorgeous she is ?? omg your a beautiful black queen your hair looks amazing

  • @shreksspawn2359
    @shreksspawn2359 Před 4 lety +12648

    Natural hair is sometimes harder than algebra...

  • @destinyluv8828
    @destinyluv8828 Před 3 lety +708

    I love seeing another 4C sister who’s got long hair and is a Christian. Love it! God bless ❤️

    • @vhix64
      @vhix64 Před 3 lety +34

      Genuinely curious as to why her religion stood out to u, especially considering it’s Christianity

    • @HI-jm2ij
      @HI-jm2ij Před 3 lety +12

      She said something about god not Christianity

    • @itzanxlia7685
      @itzanxlia7685 Před 3 lety

      .......4.....d

    • @childofgod1237
      @childofgod1237 Před 3 lety +3

      @@vhix64 maybe because we can’t cut our hair

    • @tstar5944
      @tstar5944 Před 3 lety +2

      Her hair isn't 4c

  • @jontevalera5899
    @jontevalera5899 Před 3 lety +387

    I’ve been growing up with ppl even in my family telling me I can’t grow my hair longer cuz I’m black and I refuse to accept that because it doesn’t make sense

    • @Amatullah.574
      @Amatullah.574 Před 2 lety +40

      When I was young ALL of us black children had long hair.

    • @daniellem2992
      @daniellem2992 Před 2 lety +22

      @@Amatullah.574 yes! with beads hanging down and swinging on our backs lol

    • @lossiefreeman4395
      @lossiefreeman4395 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Yep, cause it was only washed about 4 times a year, scalp greased, put away in plaits or corn rows, and left alone the rest of the time! 😅

    • @bertaalvin9917
      @bertaalvin9917 Před 5 měsíci

      Love this Brilliant Educated Beautiful Young Queen

    • @jimams_jamz5518
      @jimams_jamz5518 Před 8 dny

      ​@@lossiefreeman43954 times a year is insane and not true. My mom washed my hair every 2 weeks to a month. But yeah, most black girls had long hair when we were kids

  • @gennybetwana9620
    @gennybetwana9620 Před 4 lety +2253

    Your face
    Your hair
    Your eyes
    Your shape
    Your skin
    God has blessed you in every way possible

    • @taylorsara1237
      @taylorsara1237 Před 4 lety +119

      And that lovely brown skin... She looks like a doll...

    • @sanai9333
      @sanai9333 Před 4 lety +32

      Irene Nakibongo i agree she’s so beautiful

    • @naja.7798
      @naja.7798 Před 4 lety +24

      I agree she us perfect

    • @Ntjitube
      @Ntjitube Před 4 lety +24

      Dope personality too

    • @eugeniakelcy8676
      @eugeniakelcy8676  Před 4 lety +19

      Update : You can go www.kCurlsys.com to shop my Haircare Line.

  • @iisunflower_girlii9482
    @iisunflower_girlii9482 Před 4 lety +10757

    1.Stop cutting your hair 4:28 2.Not moisturizing 6:11 3.Poor hair care routine 8:19 4.Picking your hair 10:39 5.Your diet 11:23 6.Over processing your hair 12:25
    7.Build up of product 15:14
    8.Excessive shedding 16:35
    9.Use of chemicals 19:07
    10.Don’t know your hair porosity 21:20 I hoped this help you if you don’t have time to watch the whole video.

  • @guapceline2584
    @guapceline2584 Před 4 lety +2878

    I notice guys hair grow and they don’t worry about split ends.

    • @cocobronze7587
      @cocobronze7587 Před 4 lety +179

      Men hormones are stronger than women thats why they hair grows faster 😀

    • @dronesg5417
      @dronesg5417 Před 4 lety +650

      @@cocobronze7587 lol, men hormones are NOT stronger. Testosterone weaken the hair follicle and cause baldness.

    • @makeouthill8194
      @makeouthill8194 Před 4 lety +29

      That’s that testosterone

    • @ranitagadling4312
      @ranitagadling4312 Před 3 lety +370

      @sylvia ashby their hair grows faster simply because they don't use chemicals or hot tools for styling.

    • @aleeshaatwater9427
      @aleeshaatwater9427 Před 3 lety +55

      mens hair grows faster due to the fact that they work out more and when your work out more your hair grows faster due to sweat

  • @shade4851
    @shade4851 Před 4 lety +2503

    when her shrinkage is your hair stretched :(

  • @Laonciamj
    @Laonciamj Před 4 lety +4006

    Tired of getting on here everyday and seeing a video about why my hair isn’t growing. I feel attacked and I’m reporting y’all 💀😭🤣🤣

  • @NappQueen
    @NappQueen Před 4 lety +2094

    “God is so wonderful he doesn’t want us to go around bald.” I love how spiritual you are! Love your God girl!

    • @birungisaidat3325
      @birungisaidat3325 Před 4 lety +41

      RIP 💔😭😭😭 you died so young😢, RIP SIS. Jesus is Lord 🙌❤️

    • @jael8842
      @jael8842 Před 4 lety +16

      @@birungisaidat3325 did she die?.... 😲omg

    • @skydaddy9104
      @skydaddy9104 Před 4 lety +23

      Jael 88 yes she’s dead her boyfriend murdered her unfortunately

    • @skydaddy9104
      @skydaddy9104 Před 4 lety +5

      isaac fiedler yes she’s dead her boyfriend murdered her unfortunately

    • @iloveanime506
      @iloveanime506 Před 4 lety +4

      Who died

  • @mollymone1817
    @mollymone1817 Před 4 lety +577

    “Stop cutting your hair”....I needed to see this yesterday. I hear you sis!!

    • @moriahidaura5631
      @moriahidaura5631 Před 3 lety +3

      I needed this years ago

    • @daijahfanning376
      @daijahfanning376 Před 3 lety +2

      I needed this cause it’s like my hair is staying at shoulder length cause I feel like the just cut my whole new growth off but I’m getting into protective styles now

    • @audacitywill4745
      @audacitywill4745 Před 2 lety

      Need this last night

  • @jessiewebb1583
    @jessiewebb1583 Před 4 lety +1380

    "Put the scissors down!" I feel like that should be on a t-shirt😂

  • @akuzbby3104
    @akuzbby3104 Před 4 lety +3066

    Who else looking for hair tips this quarantine? This hair must grow

    • @monicasnyder5369
      @monicasnyder5369 Před 4 lety +29

      Me , for real

    • @Ola-rs4qx
      @Ola-rs4qx Před 4 lety +90

      As soon as you said “this hair must grow” you sounded so Igbo and I checked your name just to make sure and I was like “yup”

    • @akuzbby3104
      @akuzbby3104 Před 4 lety +20

      @@Ola-rs4qx 🤣🤣🤣

    • @vivianmk1970
      @vivianmk1970 Před 4 lety +49

      Ong I'm tryna be a new person after this is over.. new face, new body, new hair. EVERYTHING 🤣

    • @Maaseiahyah
      @Maaseiahyah Před 4 lety +13

      Akubueze Kosi Caribbean person here...
      This hair go Grow!!!! 😄

  • @EsotericItGirl
    @EsotericItGirl Před 4 lety +804

    Caucasian hair dresser here. Bless you for this video. In school (depending on where you go) they absolutely do NOT teach us about hair beyond a 2C. And that scale is pretty limited as is. Shameful. I'm so grateful for this information. Thank you.

    • @candancereed5891
      @candancereed5891 Před 2 lety +62

      I love this I’m so glad you are going out of your comfort zone 😍 I get turned away all the time and I’m a good tipper 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @sjonail
      @sjonail Před 2 lety +18

      There is a GROWING DEMAND. trust and believe mix kids will NEED YOUR HELP💯

    • @supremedjon8423
      @supremedjon8423 Před 2 lety +17

      @@candancereed5891 I've been turned around once and will never put myself in that predicament again. Moved away for college and had noooo idea hair salons would tell you they don't do your type of hair. I would never forget that feeling, like the whole salon stopped breathing when I walked in. Black stylist would not turn white clients around

    • @msp9810
      @msp9810 Před 2 lety +25

      @@supremedjon8423 be grateful they turned you around verses mess up your whole head! I wish I was turned around! Smh

    • @GODZKRE8TION
      @GODZKRE8TION Před 2 lety +2

      @@msp9810 Excellent work seeing the positive. Bless you for this. It helps.

  • @ltconyers78
    @ltconyers78 Před 4 lety +127

    I HAVE BEEN TELLING PEOPLE FOREVER TO STOP CUTTING YOUR HAIR! THANK YOU!!! THIS WHOLE VIDEO IS LIFE! Good job, baby girl.👑

    • @oneprayingmama1680
      @oneprayingmama1680 Před 4 lety +17

      My daughter actually said, "Your hair will grow if you stop cutting it." The simplest, realist advice for serious growth.

    • @nikicarrie4071
      @nikicarrie4071 Před rokem

      It literally never made sense to ne I never did that

  • @joykavira6013
    @joykavira6013 Před 4 lety +236

    I can’t seem to find my comment but I was here 3months ago and yess I’m seeing progress in my hair this video really helped!!😁

  • @annoyingvegan98
    @annoyingvegan98 Před 4 lety +1313

    I never understood the obsession with cutting these invisible split ends every month in the natural hair community. probably why so many naturals hair is stuck at the same length

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Před 4 lety +117

      They cut more than they grow

    • @xoxarily
      @xoxarily Před 4 lety +95

      I just snip off single strand knots.

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 Před 4 lety +6

      chinnie New Subscriber

    • @MayaKC958
      @MayaKC958 Před 4 lety +10

      Xarii Fernandes I have this and dnt know how to get rid of them

    • @xoxarily
      @xoxarily Před 4 lety +57

      @cutei pie
      I’m sorry but there is no actual way to completely get rid of them. Same with spilt ends, they are just always gonna come back or happen.
      You can prevent them tho. Make sure to put oil or grease on your ends, it lubricates them so they’re easier to untangle. Try to keep hair in protective styles like twists, braids, cornrows and buns. I don’t recommend puffs, wash and gos or twist/braid outs often cuz it allows you’re hair to knot up and tangle with each other of its self.
      Keep hair stretched as well, whether you braid it, band it or even low heat blow drying, it keeps your strands elongated so their not shrunken and can easily tangle with each other.
      Even though she said what she said above, I still think you should trim your hair. If I see or encounter a single strand knot, I always cut it out and don’t rip it out bcuz that can cause the end of that strand to split.
      Edit: grammatical corrections

  • @nanamana451
    @nanamana451 Před 3 lety +189

    Also, let’s make it a habit to speak love into our hair and bodies in general. Don’t say it’s too hard, or make it seem like a chore to take care of it. Instead say, “I love every little beautiful strand of hair on my head. I’m grateful to be able to nurture and nourish my hair.” It works ❤️

  • @fitnessbyblessing
    @fitnessbyblessing Před 3 lety +63

    This video is revolutionary. Sis said do you know what split ends looks like on black people hair. Lordt I do not. Majority of these hair schools are built my Caucasian specialists. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @mikimomikimoto5426
    @mikimomikimoto5426 Před 4 lety +891

    When my hair was relaxed and I went to the hair stylist every month to get it redone or treatment I used to HATE them for trimming my hair. My hair was growing and yes i had split ends but trimming every month whatever I growth I had was gone. I honestly think some hair stylists low key don’t want your hair to be longer than theirs 🤣

    • @aleciahall1471
      @aleciahall1471 Před 4 lety +76

      The couldn't tell me nothing. I barely wash my hair, I don't treat it nor cut it and it grows.... I'm going back natural now, I'm not doing the big chop and my hair is growing fast.

    • @jackieanderson6618
      @jackieanderson6618 Před 4 lety +15

      Alecia Hall you should wash your hair every 2-4 weeks to ensure your hair is clean

    • @britnee2586
      @britnee2586 Před 4 lety +50

      Some hair stylist are like that for real. I went to one stylist for a protective style and she hurt my hair bad. I had to chop it all off and start over again.

    • @lynak4942
      @lynak4942 Před 4 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣really?

    • @destinyluv8828
      @destinyluv8828 Před 3 lety +1

      Yup!

  • @eugeniakelcy8676
    @eugeniakelcy8676  Před 4 lety +347

    Update : You can go www.kCurlsys.com to shop my Haircare Line.

    • @blazinbadzulanetwork2066
      @blazinbadzulanetwork2066 Před 4 lety +6

      So i got heat damage last july due to a remy installment for graduation , so being the lovely girl that i am , i decided to do my research since i oh so loved my hair from the time i was a child till now when im a teenager , so i heard from a friend to cut a little bit of the heat damage at a time
      And so i did
      Some of the front section on the left side of my head is where the heat damage is
      So now i walking around with short patched hair on the left side of my head and long hair to the back
      Biggest mistake ever
      After my country is corona free , i need to go to the hair salon
      I dont even know if it will grow back fast enough 😢😢😢

    • @matthewo5275
      @matthewo5275 Před 4 lety

      Also where could we get Fenugreek from?

    • @curli-lettey4319
      @curli-lettey4319 Před 4 lety

      @@matthewo5275
      You can get it from the supermarket in the seasoning/spices section or go to your local asian market or wholefoods

    • @l.patrick3155
      @l.patrick3155 Před 4 lety

      Preach, sister!

    • @Zizzyyzz
      @Zizzyyzz Před 4 lety +1

      @@matthewo5275 Amazon.

  • @LowkysWorld
    @LowkysWorld Před 3 lety +97

    But on a real note. Out of all the CZcams videos I watched on this subject, y’all are finally getting through to me that I have to moisturize my hair. Cause I can’t even lie, I protective style & don’t touch my sis until 2 months later 💀 then wonder why she broken af.

  • @fastfarkyfitness7452
    @fastfarkyfitness7452 Před 4 lety +52

    Agree that relaxers are damaging. Relaxed my hair for years and all I did was fight thin and balding hair. Finally cut it all off and went natural and my hair started growing like wild. I’m about four months in and what a difference!! No more thin hair. No balding. I discovered I have 4c hair but I’m not complaining. It’s finally thick healthy and growing. I’m just focused on growing longer hair so this video is great. Only wish I had the sense to do it a long time ago! Thanks for sharing. The water tip is very helpful.

    • @tequilashots875
      @tequilashots875 Před 3 lety +1

      Why would you complain because you have 4c hair??

  • @sazshaemills3102
    @sazshaemills3102 Před 4 lety +475

    I be trying to tell them that our hair is a plant we need WATER!!! Forget all them other moisturizing product. Water water water water 💦

    • @Michelina71
      @Michelina71 Před 4 lety +6

      Yes sis PERIODT

    • @ashleyzvavanjanja3664
      @ashleyzvavanjanja3664 Před 4 lety +5

      Sazshae Mills like washing or just spraying?

    • @zolotaya_rozh
      @zolotaya_rozh Před 4 lety +23

      @@ashleyzvavanjanja3664 You can just spray water on your hair often, like every day or whatever suits your hair

    • @sillycheese301
      @sillycheese301 Před 4 lety +33

      My hair will dry out if I just put water lmao

    • @McFlurrArtt
      @McFlurrArtt Před 4 lety +29

      My hair will get really nappy if I just add water like it will basically die and dry if I put water in it and let it sit without doing anything 😂🤣🤣😭🤣😭😭🤣🤣

  • @lenny6256
    @lenny6256 Před 4 lety +75

    That's a whole melanin queen right there 🌹

  • @ange7679
    @ange7679 Před 4 lety +54

    “But I saw this youtuber with a relaxer and her hair was long...but clearly YOU DONT” 😂 I’m definitely subscribing not only cause of that but I needed to be scolded for the way I treat my hair 😭 thank you

  • @BeansNpotatoes
    @BeansNpotatoes Před 2 lety +18

    The fact she spoke biological process of the hair just makes everything she says that much more important and spit on! Thank you ♥️♥️♥️

    • @younglalaofficial
      @younglalaofficial Před 5 dny

      I laughed at you're comment because I think you meant to put spot on instead of spit😂

  • @louiemcginn3175
    @louiemcginn3175 Před 4 lety +294

    Your really starting to get confident of camera and showing the true you 🙏🥰

    • @eugeniakelcy8676
      @eugeniakelcy8676  Před 4 lety +53

      thank you !!! it's so nerve racking and on top of that you will have people hate and troll on you. But i'm getting the hang of it

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 Před 4 lety +2

      Louie Mcginn New Sub

  • @moniquemorris5833
    @moniquemorris5833 Před 4 lety +563

    "Relaxed hair is not healthy hair, PERIOD!" Yessssss!!!!!! I see videos talking avoyr how to get healthy relaxed hair, I'm like.....how sway???? How???? Those two words cancel out each other

    • @NBnNC
      @NBnNC Před 4 lety +42

      Monique Morris
      How can something “not healthy” grow 6-8 inches a year and retain length? My sister has permed hair and it’s been flourishing 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @moniquemorris5833
      @moniquemorris5833 Před 4 lety +114

      @@NBnNC if your scalp isn't damaged, there is no reason it shouldn't grow. Breakage is the reason why it seems to not grow. As for the healthy thing.....its like saying you can have healthy heat damage. Your curl pattern is literally broken, so all that length is still damaged. If she doesn't care, that's fine. She gotta do what she wants. It's her hair

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 Před 4 lety +6

      Monique Morris New Sub

    • @RedFlyingFox007
      @RedFlyingFox007 Před 4 lety +37

      The same way you can have healthy coloured hair.
      It's about controlled damage. You have to balance enough chemical processing to remove the curl pattern/colour while keeping hair strength, volume and shine.

    • @moniquemorris5833
      @moniquemorris5833 Před 4 lety +50

      @@RedFlyingFox007 Damaged hair is hair that has been broken/altered from it's original curl pattern. You can have color without color damage. Ive seen people keep their curl pattern with color. You can't have permed hair without damaged hair. The hair is literally broken that's how it becomes permed. You have to destroy it. It can still be long though if you have hair thick/strong enough to withstand the damage.

  • @eventplanner461
    @eventplanner461 Před 3 lety +153

    After reading the comments, I feel like it is important to note that while you shouldn't be scissor happy you still shouldn't avoid trims like it is the plague. At a certain point we have to worry about the health of our hair as opposed to length. Your hair may be long, but if the ends of your hair are see-through, thin, jagged, and are making all sorts of W~y-shapes, what's the point? And it isn't that hard to spot single strand knots or split ends either. Just give the hair a blowout and feel the ends of your hair. If they are rough and see through snip,snip. Also, if you have 4c hair, you shouldn't be trimming your hair in it's natural shruken state anyway. If you do that you'll never get an even cut(just speaking from experience). The longer you wait to trim your hair, the more hair you will inevitably need to cut off in the long run.

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 Před 3 lety +17

      I'm personally snipping nothing! I am very happy with my hair as it is! :)

    • @Dree03
      @Dree03 Před 3 lety +11

      What u end up having to cut really ends up being equivalent. It’s no point in blowing it out all the time to check for that. It’s counterproductive since you’re damaging your hair by blowing it out and could just trim when you’re comfortable with the length.

    • @karabothechristlovingafrican
      @karabothechristlovingafrican Před 3 lety +14

      I agree with you, I have healthy well growing natural hair and it did not grow as beautifully, until I started trimming my ends...If it's making you look like a kitty cat on the surface and you can see the sun through it despite it being really thick - it's not hair sis - it's ends!

    • @honeybliss45
      @honeybliss45 Před 2 lety +7

      you didn't listen to what she said.

    • @eventplanner461
      @eventplanner461 Před 2 lety +5

      @@Dree03 What u end up cutting off is not the equivalent. How split ends work is that they travel up the hair shaft. One strand of hair can have 1-6 splits up to the root. I have seen naturals with really long hair, but ends that were so see-through they have to cut off half their length. They had to do a whole big chop.

  • @playlistpersondotcom9719
    @playlistpersondotcom9719 Před 4 lety +59

    They should teach this stuff to people who want to be a barber. I would feel a lot safer that my hair won’t be damaged if they did.

  • @mauve3734
    @mauve3734 Před 4 lety +911

    Lemme take my iron pills so I can stop shivering

    • @thediariesofdes
      @thediariesofdes Před 4 lety +84

      lolitaspeach wait😭... I don’t know whether i should laugh or not!

    • @michelle7455
      @michelle7455 Před 4 lety +6

      😂😂

    • @mzgoldieloxxx
      @mzgoldieloxxx Před 4 lety +44

      lolitaspeach girl yes! My hair grew long as hell before I cut off four inches last year and realized it was the damn iron I was taking that boosted my growth

    • @mauve3734
      @mauve3734 Před 4 lety +10

      Samantha Sosa got prescribed some by my doctor lol required to take them everyday fingers crossed

    • @mzgoldieloxxx
      @mzgoldieloxxx Před 4 lety +34

      lolitaspeach you’ll see the growth after a few months. I have iron-deficiency anemia but I get constipated from iron pills (TMI sorry) so I take the liquid supplement

  • @VanessaK7
    @VanessaK7 Před 4 lety +326

    Your not lying. I think my hairs not growing because I suffer from anemia (low in iron) and I stopped taking my supplements for more than 3 years, my hairs really struggling to grow long.

    • @inspirestrength505
      @inspirestrength505 Před 4 lety +38

      My iron use to be low but by consciously eating the right foods in a greater quantity my hair is thriving very well. Spinach, kale , beans, lentils are great for your hair. Check the packaging of the foods that you eat make sure that the iron level is 5% and above. xoxo

    • @nosayabaomo7004
      @nosayabaomo7004 Před 4 lety +2

      Same here sis! I need to start taking them again

    • @mahoganired8608
      @mahoganired8608 Před 4 lety +4

      Your diet plays a huge part...I was a anemic.... supplements was a must for me and my diet

    • @Iamblessed12345
      @Iamblessed12345 Před 4 lety +13

      Ladies if you gonna take iron supplements make sure you take vitamins c with it otherwise it will be hard for u to go 💩.

    • @whatzittooyah
      @whatzittooyah Před 4 lety +7

      I think that’s my problem. Low on iron and vitamins. I just recently started eating dinner every night. Also stress y’all can’t forget stress

  • @jaymitch123
    @jaymitch123 Před 3 lety +153

    When she said "get to know your hair" I felt that lol when everybody went crazy over coconut oil, my hair was like "🤣🤣🤣🤣" shae butter helps me. My hair does not likey the oil of the coconut

    • @KrissyFizzle
      @KrissyFizzle Před 3 lety +15

      I literally just commented this on another video 🤣😭😭 I literally went out and bought coconut oil years ago bc everyone said it was good for our hair and it just made my hair dry. I love shea butter so much more

    • @davinyaa
      @davinyaa Před 3 lety +3

      Same my hair really hates coconut oil and every video I watched was like but coconut oil 🙄

    • @LatiWins
      @LatiWins Před 3 lety +3

      Coconut oil is high in protein. Some people’s hair doesn’t respond well to too much protein. Try jojoba oil. It’s much closer to the sebum our scalps naturally produce. A bit expensive tho (if you get the pure form).

    • @kobysmultiverse.4643
      @kobysmultiverse.4643 Před 2 lety

      Me too

  • @tany2191
    @tany2191 Před 4 lety +522

    "I barely drink water or eat healthy" -has perfect skin and literal abs. IM PISSED

    • @morgenteart7119
      @morgenteart7119 Před 3 lety +41

      For real oh to be blessed with a fast metabolism 😭💀

    • @Amatullah.574
      @Amatullah.574 Před 2 lety +5

      It's youth honey. Can't do that for ever.

    • @NeoMokgabo21
      @NeoMokgabo21 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ieshjust16
      @ieshjust16 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Amatullah.574 not true.. I started struggling with my weight in my youth.

  • @shannontalley2118
    @shannontalley2118 Před 4 lety +8

    Finally a woman with actual 4C hair giving hair advice. I see videos all the time aimed at helping girls with 4C type 4 hair and their hair doesn’t look type 4 at all 🤔🤔. I appreciated your video so much! It was so informative. Will be using you as a guide for my natural hair journey from now on 🤗

    • @eugeniakelcy8676
      @eugeniakelcy8676  Před 4 lety

      Glad it was helpful! and thank you. I'm here to represent !!

  • @yasminsilene9724
    @yasminsilene9724 Před 4 lety +793

    i lost it at "TELL THEM TO DROP THEIR ADDRESS CAUSE I WANNA FIGHT THEM"

  • @aleeyahthompson1743
    @aleeyahthompson1743 Před 3 lety +29

    "IM A GIRL WHO IS OBSESSED WITH HAIR" Who feels the same way?♡I know I do ♡♡

  • @arionabishop5556
    @arionabishop5556 Před 3 lety +20

    Ever since I took your advice about moisturizing my hair every 3 days I see a huge difference!! My hair sheds a whole lot less!!! I moisturize every 3 days

  • @y.spence
    @y.spence Před 4 lety +951

    What’s a relaxer!? 😆 Are ppl still doing this ?

    • @moonhoneymami
      @moonhoneymami Před 4 lety +109

      Yasky yeah I was like wait isn’t everyone natural by now? Lol

    • @NBnNC
      @NBnNC Před 4 lety +43

      Idk, I guess it depends on locality but I know more and more women transitioning from natural to texlax hair 🤷🏾‍♀️. At least they gave it a shot - I know I did for seven long tedious years🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @moonhoneymami
      @moonhoneymami Před 4 lety +15

      NB in DC I can definitely understand anyone’s frustration will be natural for 6 years on 4/14/20 and my hair is only (maybe was because I been in a protective style for 4 weeks) apl stretched. Me and my hair are just beginning to talk to each other.

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 Před 4 lety

      Yasky New Sub

    • @saymynamejk4409
      @saymynamejk4409 Před 4 lety +6

      I am 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @LaBellezaMorena
    @LaBellezaMorena Před 4 lety +56

    I am relaxed currently and it’s my second time around being relaxed and transitioning to natural. In my experience my hair has grown to mid back length while relaxed, HOWEVER after 5 years of relaxing, my hair is starting to thin and grow slowly. Even though I relax 2x yearly and I under process, I find that my hair grows best without heat, colouring or relaxing. Can’t wait to be natural again, I want to feel free!

    • @Only_phillysophical
      @Only_phillysophical Před 4 lety +7

      I shaved my head last night, 3 months after I relaxed my hair. My hair changed dramatically after the chemicals got to it. I had to start over. I'm so happy to see my curls again. #LilFroGang

    • @LaBellezaMorena
      @LaBellezaMorena Před 4 lety +1

      Phillysophical i think that’s what is happening to mine too! Congrats on going natural!!

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 Před 4 lety +1

      Katia Bella New Subscriber

    • @LaBellezaMorena
      @LaBellezaMorena Před 4 lety

      Natural Fab Lady thank you!!

  • @meraldamakotanyane2134
    @meraldamakotanyane2134 Před 3 lety +4

    I will never understand how people press the dislike button by mistake 🙏🏾😩 She's just magical ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @luyandadlamini8576
    @luyandadlamini8576 Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you so much for the point about relaxers. My parents used to relax my hair as a child and my scalp would always have damage from relaxers, my hair would start breaking off after a few months. I used to think there was something wrong with me. Two years ago I went natural and let me tell you my natural hair is so thick and curly. Thank you sis

  • @angel96005
    @angel96005 Před 4 lety +267

    me : but I do not watch only white hairstylers
    her : do you know how the split ends looks on a 4c hair
    me : and i oop

  • @curlynella1011
    @curlynella1011 Před 4 lety +392

    Split ends are not white. The white bulb means it came directly from the scalp. A split end is the ends split literally. Curlier hair hides it better but you can tell by the way the ends feel and misbehave. You can also tell by looking at the ends of your hair😉

    • @helenemonica3658
      @helenemonica3658 Před 4 lety +30

      You are right sis , they hid so well yesterday I found them oh gosh I had to trim those ends like the hair was splitting like literally splitting I had a fright oh my life I've never experienced it that way . As a newly natural woman I almost fainted !

    • @shawnsmith1272
      @shawnsmith1272 Před 4 lety +13

      My hair looks and feels like cotton on the ends when I need a trim. Just bushy af!

    • @SunnySideUp712
      @SunnySideUp712 Před 4 lety +41

      Girl I can literally see my split ends. Idk whaaaaat she's talking about lol

    • @curlynella1011
      @curlynella1011 Před 4 lety +8

      @@shawnsmith1272 yup great inclination you need a trim when the ends don't stay defined 💯

    • @curlynella1011
      @curlynella1011 Před 4 lety +24

      @@SunnySideUp712 Right I was completely lost when she said that because I was like let me find out I got a super power that I'm the only one that can see split ends 😂 Even when she said the other hair styles you can see the white bulb, that's when I knew she was really confused because that's a shed hair and we all have white bulbs. That's how you can tell it came from the root and didn't just break off randomly on a strand💯

  • @ukazusisters5161
    @ukazusisters5161 Před 3 lety +149

    "you need to eat healthy"
    me: eating a bag of Doritos while watching this*

  • @davinyaa
    @davinyaa Před 3 lety +23

    “STOP CUTTING YOUR HAIR”
    I felt that to the core 😅😂😂

  • @MegaMikayla24
    @MegaMikayla24 Před 4 lety +33

    Honestly though! As soon as I stopped listening to people my hair started GROWINGGGGGGH

  • @Sylvie98
    @Sylvie98 Před 4 lety +37

    Girl I hope you the best I’ve subbed recently and I have not regretted it! Best 4c representative our age especially with your length!!! Give me five years and I’ll have long hair too girl 😭❤️💙💚💜🧡

  • @QueenKristoff
    @QueenKristoff Před 3 lety +4

    Dude, imma follow this. I cut my hair every 3 to 4 months, and it has been growing. Knowing that my hair has better growing potential makes me excited

  • @discovercheri1304
    @discovercheri1304 Před 4 lety +10

    She’s so smart. I just subscribed, I love people who use facts to back up their statements🤍

  • @geerowr.6666
    @geerowr.6666 Před 4 lety +159

    I DO. Green Beauty channel is also the ish. she covers split ends extensive.

    • @paulacunningham7956
      @paulacunningham7956 Před 4 lety +4

      Gee Row R. Live for green beauty

    • @esther9210
      @esther9210 Před 4 lety +5

      I read this right after she said “u don’t”

    • @geerowr.6666
      @geerowr.6666 Před 4 lety +3

      @@paulacunningham7956 Me too. Her real protein treatment and her leave recipe turned my hair around for the better.

    • @paulacunningham7956
      @paulacunningham7956 Před 4 lety +1

      Gee Row R. I just love the tip she shared on the onion juice and parsley, let me stop I can go on and on

    • @geerowr.6666
      @geerowr.6666 Před 4 lety +2

      Paula Cunningham Same. I did the onion juice last wash day. It’s amazing. She’s so scientific.

  • @callmejoyco
    @callmejoyco Před 4 lety +382

    I like Eugenia, she's always trynna fight people giving us bad hair advice.

    • @cherylmoore4549
      @cherylmoore4549 Před 4 lety +10

      I like Eugenia,she's so beautiful and SMART and she's helping me to put lots of love and effort into growing and taking care of my hair,her Mom should be proud of her! Cause I am, THANK YOU for the info, and May God bless you and your entire family!!!

    • @cherylmoore4549
      @cherylmoore4549 Před 4 lety +4

      I also ordered the ingredients she uses, really I'm waiting for her products to be in the market, I love that beautiful young woman!🤗🙃💜🙃

  • @jaydamay6815
    @jaydamay6815 Před 3 lety +5

    omg you're so cute 😭 & not just the way you look I mean obviously you're gorgeous but it's also your lil accent , the way you speak , the things you laugh at , your overall personality 🥺🥺🥺

  • @lindaoliver8715
    @lindaoliver8715 Před 2 lety +1

    I took a strand of hair from my head and the end was spit pretty bad, I pulled another one and the same thing. I'm a professional license hairstylist. I become really ill so I couldn't do my hair for one whole year. I had to go to a salon to someone I trusted and had her to trim my hair ends, then research and saw your Moringa and Fenugreek deep conditioner and I haven't had any split ends since. But I had my ends trimmed first. I used your products only like 3 months now. 8oz is pretty small this is my third purchase. I use it once a week. I love this. My hair has grew .

  • @Kittencloudy4u
    @Kittencloudy4u Před 4 lety +127

    Omg I always pick my hair and my dad complains about all the hair on the floor I didnt realise how much damage I was doing thank you so much, my poor hair, and a barely moisturize OMG I'm a criminal

  • @nsamson1
    @nsamson1 Před 4 lety +9

    Girrrl where have you been my whole 4C struggle life. I’m so happy you popped up on my timeline. You’re just amazing.

  • @Little_Jay
    @Little_Jay Před 3 lety +5

    You know I just love the fact sis giving us these great points and she got her reason to back it up like...yasssss girl

  • @cgray033088
    @cgray033088 Před 4 lety +40

    "What water you be drinking?" 🤣😂..." Corona, sis...is that you?" ... 🤣😂...on a serious note ...a lot of good info I plan to implement as soon as I get these braids out of my head

    • @u.j9209
      @u.j9209 Před 3 lety

      You can still do sth even while it's in braids...

  • @queenjae4516
    @queenjae4516 Před 4 lety +34

    I went natural almost three years ago and I’ve been at around shoulder length for the LONGEST and it’s frustrating me 😭 thanks for the tips. I’m only a teenager and I’m very lazy but I care so much about my hair that I’m going to try to step up my hair care routine

  • @queenmarie2679
    @queenmarie2679 Před 4 lety +22

    This is the most informative hair video I’ve seen. Glad it was recommended. New subscriber !!

  • @sinx3268
    @sinx3268 Před 4 lety +13

    I've had dreads for 7 YEARS (got them when I was 5) and got them out at the end of last year this has help me alot since I don't know a thing about hair and I got 4C😳😬 so thank you!!

    • @r.amllahh7x423
      @r.amllahh7x423 Před 3 lety

      7 YEARS??!?

    • @blahface240
      @blahface240 Před 3 lety +2

      @@r.amllahh7x423 yeah, when you have dreads you usually don't just have them in your hair for a couple months, they're supposed to stay in for at least over a year I think. I might do that soon cause my hair loves low maintenance

    • @notwithoutpizza4702
      @notwithoutpizza4702 Před 2 lety

      @@blahface240 Dreads are the number 1 way to grow 4c honestly. By design it’s low manipulation and it’s very easy to moisturise and not have to worry about shrinkage. Only thing is you cant do other styles

  • @DaleSpencer805
    @DaleSpencer805 Před měsícem

    I've restarted my hair journey after cutting it yet again this year. ❤❤❤ so excited I found your channel

  • @haggleme1
    @haggleme1 Před 4 lety +38

    She is so cute. She reminds me of my daughter🥰

  • @ware3300
    @ware3300 Před 4 lety +24

    When my hair is in braids I add water, ors hair lotion and blue magic to the part where my hair is. It keeps my hair moisturised under my braids. I recommend it

  • @giftykargbo8980
    @giftykargbo8980 Před 4 lety +15

    Your hair probably falls out when you try to detangle it in the shower because you’re not cutting/trimming your hair. Everything you said is very accurate except the trimming and detangling part. When your hair is even it causes less breakage. Beautiful hair btw

    • @gofaonemotlhabane5939
      @gofaonemotlhabane5939 Před 3 lety +3

      Couldn't have said it better sis. Trimed hair equal less breakage!!

    • @creative4areason564
      @creative4areason564 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m going with everything you say girl,your are so Knowledgeable & I love your hair 😍how long did it take you to grow it that length & where did you learn all this ?beautiful 💕

    • @chi_1232
      @chi_1232 Před 3 lety +7

      I would have to respectfully disagree with you on that. I used to cut my ends very often and would still struggle with tangles in the shower. Also, she didn't say to never cut your ends, but to stop cutting them so often. If you're cutting your hair every month and your hair grows 0.5- 1 inch a month, how are you going to achieve any length? You're basically cutting off all the growth that you've gained during that month.

  • @kalik6699
    @kalik6699 Před 3 lety +2

    Finally I found someone who has low p hair ima male and I'm struggling to grow my hair hopefully ur videos will help🙏

  • @divine5oul
    @divine5oul Před 4 lety +19

    you should definitely pursue a career related to hair, or launch your own products or something! You're so knowledgeable, I love it.

  • @angelicajouana5519
    @angelicajouana5519 Před 4 lety +41

    I just wanna let you know that if you come up with products in rhe future , imma support it and follow your ways ❤

  • @YesLauraIam
    @YesLauraIam Před 3 lety +11

    Hey Love,
    Thank you for your well thoughout content. Would it be too much to ask for you to do a miniseries on helpful protective styles where you measure the length before and after? Also, share your insight on why you think the style produced so much length retention.
    That would be so helpful☺️ I haven’t seen anyone document the amount of growth from a particular style.

  • @KrissyFizzle
    @KrissyFizzle Před 3 lety +2

    I love how you explained the hair growth cycle too. People don't usually do that. Also you're so pretty ❤

  • @a.c5009
    @a.c5009 Před 4 lety +311

    Nobody even talks about them damn “fairy knots” we be gettin too lol

    • @mnazathefairyprincess
      @mnazathefairyprincess Před 4 lety +9

      Honestly! 😩😩

    • @kaydeep7880
      @kaydeep7880 Před 4 lety +8

      Hydrate and moisturise for GOSSAKE

    • @jjohnson1791
      @jjohnson1791 Před 4 lety +17

      those are the worst! i trim them out immediately once i see them . idk if that’s a good or bad thing but yh lol

    • @YesIamMichelleC
      @YesIamMichelleC Před 4 lety +13

      This happened to my hair so badly two weeks ago because I was adding product that keeps it curly but not twisting it, moisturizing it or sitting it under a bonnet. So I bought a bonnet this week, castor oil, and twisted it up wet with Cantu Natural Hair Conditioning creamy hair lotion, Sky Organic Organic Castor oil and shea moisture leave in detangler this week past. Not a knot in sight. Hair is still moisturized. I touch it up with the castor oil around the scalp, ends and edges every couple of days. I need a spray bottle for water though.

    • @kaydeep7880
      @kaydeep7880 Před 4 lety

      iShoTTi X stop twisting and braiding your hair then?

  • @Shellician
    @Shellician Před 4 lety +37

    I can’t take my eyes off her crown 👸🏽 she’s a queen ❤️❤️🙌🏽

  • @RnBReworked
    @RnBReworked Před 3 lety +7

    My teenage nephew has been trying to grow his hair for a year. It's ridiculously THICK, but refuses to grow much in length at all, and he never cuts it. When I was his age about 20 years ago, I did the same thing. My hair was down to my shoulders in the same amount of time, and I used to cut, relax, dye it non-stop.

  • @taneikajones9584
    @taneikajones9584 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm 42 yrs old and I've learned more from this vid than I have from any other source. EVER. Great job on the vid and thanks for taking the time out to education the masses! You are a very beautiful and intelligent young lady, thanks for teaching this old dog some new tricks lol

    • @donnadaniels899
      @donnadaniels899 Před 2 lety

      56 here!!! Same thing!!! I just hope I haven't waited too long to change!!!

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    @eugeniakelcy8676  Před 4 lety +141

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    @eugeniakelcy8676  Před 4 lety +9

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  • @macaulaytolulope3017
    @macaulaytolulope3017 Před 3 lety +5

    I enjoyed watching this thank you 😊😊😊😊 I also had to cut my relaxed hair and start all over again and I’m loving the growth and process 😊😊😊

  • @InsideItself
    @InsideItself Před 3 lety +2

    YOU ARE the epitome of beauty amongst the cosmos Goddess!!! And THANK YOU for your knowledge!

  • @kimberlyrenae
    @kimberlyrenae Před 4 lety +43

    You have such a beautiful spirit to match your face & you’re funny too 😂

  • @TheBeautifyEffectByDan
    @TheBeautifyEffectByDan Před 4 lety +53

    Believe it or not, genetics plays a part. I tried EVERYTHING and it still hasn't grown pass my ears. I love your hair tho and you're so beautiful 💛

    • @cainini6129
      @cainini6129 Před 4 lety +27

      Danielle Palmer you haven’t tried hard enough then. Hair always grows unless you have an underlying medical condition. You’re just not retaining length. Your ends are the oldest part of your hair, If u don’t moisturize it properly or anything else, then your hair will stay the same length. Don’t give up so easily on your hair. Learn your hair

    • @princesschanel469
      @princesschanel469 Před 4 lety +3

      Try hair subliminals and boosters

    • @jswillworth934
      @jswillworth934 Před 4 lety +37

      Piquesyde Lmfao. Y’all kill me. Don’t know the girl and said “You haven’t tried hard enough” lmfaoooooooo

    • @ladylaurenia
      @ladylaurenia Před 4 lety +10

      JS Willworth nah hair should grow past your ears unless you have a medical condition, deficiency or poor hair care routine. That’s not genetics. Hair stops growing when you die.

    • @TheBeautifyEffectByDan
      @TheBeautifyEffectByDan Před 4 lety +1

      Thanks for all the suggestions lol I will continue trying.. The problem is my hair doesn't lock the moisture so it breaks.

  • @theiysiscamille
    @theiysiscamille Před 2 lety +1

    Ok sis I was mesmerized for a couple seconds. You are beautiful!!

  • @kredsentertainment9554
    @kredsentertainment9554 Před 4 lety +3

    Oh my you look like my daughter. She’s softly spoken too and also taught me (lol) the same science of growing our hair. Your so cute.

  • @dakweenlyrics409
    @dakweenlyrics409 Před 4 lety +25

    I’ve never heard any1 so smart, thank you.

  • @leah9812
    @leah9812 Před 4 lety +9

    Currently on my transition to get back to natural! So I am taking notes down.... literally got like maybe 1.5 inches of relaxed hair left but now I am comfortable in growing and caring for my hair! Thanks for this info 🙏🏾

  • @brittanyb8338
    @brittanyb8338 Před 3 lety +2

    This makes so much sense. I just washed my hair and detangled it and so much broke off I cried. 😭

  • @prieryals4945
    @prieryals4945 Před 3 lety +2

    ....... Stop using direct heating tools for at least 3 years.... LoL.❤️🤫 Low maintenance protective styles that don't break hair, wash hair at least twice a month, LCO every other day... the list definitely goes on.. but I LOVE THIS VIDEO 😻. I've learned so much thank you 😊❤️❤️❤️

  • @sleepsnoopy934
    @sleepsnoopy934 Před 4 lety +82

    I’m a dude tryna grow dreads Only girl I’ll listen to from now

    • @jazzy_rr3771
      @jazzy_rr3771 Před 4 lety +10

      Same! She's the only one who has proved that she is in it to help, and has all the facts.
      Great reputation!!!

  • @Salma.Salma.Salma.
    @Salma.Salma.Salma. Před 4 lety +10

    I just discovered your channel and I can’t stop watching your videos because your voice is so soothing and relaxing 🥰

  • @iateyursandwiches
    @iateyursandwiches Před 4 lety +14

    Thank you for pointing out iron instead of biotin btw! Women need to realize that
    1. biotin is in basically everything so you really can't be deficient in it and
    2. Iron deficiency anemia is THE MOST common deficiency in women of child bearing age due to menstruation and it is very important for blood supply in your body, thus growth!
    Girls be asking why it seems like guy's hair grows faster. It's not because of testosterone (quite the opposite actually); it's probably because they dont manipulate their hair much, tend to play lots of sports(exercise), and they dont have to worry about iron deficiency anemia.

  • @animalmini1
    @animalmini1 Před 2 lety

    My sister has your beautiful texture .. I told her listen to people with your hair texture .. that's how you quickly find what works for you .. thank you for making this

  • @Alex-dx8oe
    @Alex-dx8oe Před 4 lety +60

    Me: *trying to figure out how to fix my hair*
    CZcams: Here's a reese's ad

  • @zahriahkaharah2034
    @zahriahkaharah2034 Před 4 lety +5

    Soooo many of these tips make so much since but I’ve just never thought about. Especially the water one. I used to wet my hair every other day my senior year of high school and it THRIVED.

  • @Thats.colleen
    @Thats.colleen Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much..I prayed to God and he lead me here..and you quoting scriptures ❤️❤️God bless you!!

  • @philippamamiemariama2535
    @philippamamiemariama2535 Před 4 lety +375

    Who else here but know damn well they too lazy 🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @arianamugore5029
    @arianamugore5029 Před 4 lety +3

    The only CZcamsr I trust when it comes to natural hair! Love you so much

  • @adrianamisick668
    @adrianamisick668 Před 4 lety +275

    I’m so guilty of using oil before putting anything on my hair

    • @jackieanderson6618
      @jackieanderson6618 Před 4 lety +35

      It depends on the oil
      Castor oil is a sealant
      Olive oil is a moisturiser
      There are videos on the different types

    • @kay-vs3te
      @kay-vs3te Před 4 lety +24

      Use the LOC method L- liquid(water) C- cream O- oil. In this order so the oil can seal in the moisture

    • @ellaquestane9172
      @ellaquestane9172 Před 4 lety

      @@kay-vs3te Whats the O?

    • @blessingashanti7039
      @blessingashanti7039 Před 4 lety +4

      @@ellaquestane9172 Oil

    • @dronesg5417
      @dronesg5417 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jackieanderson6618 Is organic Argan oil a moisturizer??

  • @Blaizian
    @Blaizian Před 2 lety +1

    You made me smile so freaking hard . I haven’t heard the things you’ve been saying from anyone else but it all makes sense. I know it’s weird but I luv u gurlll😅😂💙

  • @queenbee3828
    @queenbee3828 Před 4 lety +5

    I currently take 3 msm capsules+2 vitamin c capsules per day, the most AMAZING side effect is After 15 years, IT GOT RID OF MY EXCEMA! I actually made an oil with msm, and for the first time in 10 years, I can wear shoes sleeves! You're DEFINITELY right about that msm, my nails grow like crazy, and my hair is growing! 💖I couldn't imagine relaxing my hair!