Ep 3: Lebogang Motsepe on Marriage, Church Pressure,Disappointments | healing & Restoration
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- Ep 3:Lebogang Motsepe on Marriage, Church Pressure,Disappointments | healing & Restoration
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The interviewer is not giving the guest a chance to tell her story freely,she's interfering a lot and makes it hard to listen and learn coz while on one point she directs the guest to a different one before she can finish the first one
We apologize ❤️
I felt the same. Couldn’t finish watching cos she interrupted and it dragged 😢
Yooh thank you I’m feeling the same way, the interviewee can’t keep quiet and let the guest to tell their stories.and this always you are a child of God , when you are a child of God 😳are we not all children of God world wide? 🤔
I wanted to hear Lebo's story so bad that I kept coming back but would leave coz the interviewer intercepted so much. Next time pls let the guest just speak. It was hard to listen
@@hildakgodu5796interviewer not interviewee ,that conducts interviews.
Lovely story thank you ladies. but just a quick one to the interviewer, please let the guest speak and articulate her story without interfering. yes i understand you want to interact, but please listen, and listen and listen more❤
I just want to thank sis lebogang, your story so much healing to me. I’m going through the same thing where God took me out of a relationship, everyone is forcing me to remain but God said it’s not his will for my life. It’s hard because I’m dealing with so much shame and guilt but God is healing my heart. Thank you so much
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I'm happy my journey is a survival guide for you. Let's continue to trust God, He knows best and Has the Best for us. All we go through is also part of the plan. Much love ❤❤❤❤
The interviewer keeps derailing the conversation and we miss the best parts of the story
Apologies we will do better next time
Ahhh marn she is so beautiful. The scene of neighbors singing ngemini yomtshato.
I had tears. So many lessons here.
7It was a painful experience but I have also learned so much through my journey and now looking back I thank God for my pain as it pushed me to being the woman I am today. Living in my purpose and seeing others benefit from my scars is very fulfilling
I always say that church is like a hospital and not everyone there is spiritually safe to be with or have recovered let alone done the works or walked the journey with God
Thank you 😊
After we met, after 6 months we started the lobola negotiations and we stayed together. He was unfaithful a couple of times I stayed still. After 10 years we did our wedding in September 2017 the same day we were celebrating our daughter's 10 years birthday. In 2018 May he had an affair, I saw flames. We got divorced in October 2018. It was very painful that he chose to leave and forgot all the years we were together. 😢 I'm still healing , God has shown me grace.🙏
Sending you love and light ✨️
When all happens things don't make sense.. pain is all we feel but please believe me when I say; you will get to a point where you Thank God for your pain. You will look back and understand why you had to go through all that. Our pain is never wasted there's a greater purpose in all we go through. ❤❤ more grace
@Lebo-Motsepe I hear this a lot but right now I feel like my heart will rip in two 💔
What an inspiration you are.... I have watched you grow up, and yes it hasn't been easy but then through all you remained focused and never lost hope, Keep the light shinning always we have daughters that will learn from you and all that you have accomplished!!!!! God speed my sister!!!!!❤❤❤
Thank you so much Buti wam. Very encouraging coming from you ❤❤
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Yes it is a lesson we go through the most but only God knows why😭
Very informative, I feel like I've left God behind and expect things to go my way. Thank you. We are learning ❤
I'm loving these episodes so much❤ thank you Ms Rammy
36:29 there's truly so much error in the church rushing couples to get married in the name of "Sexual Sin"
We forget that sexual sin is a result of a person having a lack of self control. Marriage will not fix lack of self control. Lack of self control is a sign that an individual hasn't surrendered that part of their life and hasn't allowed God to deal with the root. The minute you feel the urge to get married to your partner out of the fear that you guys will sin , that should be a sign to you from God telling you that you are not ready for marriage because there's an area of your life where God is not the one who has authority. Marriage is ministry and ministry is inspired by God to fulfill a purpose, not something that is rushed into because of the fear of sinning.
As much as church is there to guide, it definitely shouldn't take the place of the Holy Spirit.
What a Profound Comment, Amen.
The Holyspirit must be the only Guide
Powerful my sister ❤
Well articulated
This can't be a coincidence!!! Thank you to Lebo for this bearness, as someone who is still battling a familiar case, I believe I didn't stumble on this story by mistake or by chance!
Thank you so much for watching ♥️
We are here woman of God...🙌🏽❤️
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Pls let the guest tell her story.
Ok ❤️
I love our host ❤ she says Amen so many times 😂❤
Great Episode
Lol.thank u so much sisi
Such a powerful testy, I love the fact that she highlighted but not detailed much with so much respect. The what and why, I can relate in my brokenness when I was divorced I was so hurt in such a way that I cried to God many times yet focused on the why. Indeed God healed my broken heart and revealed the why things happened the way they did. I need her book. Will search it. Because I can relate to a lot of experiences especially where she said she been through a lot and almost every she touches failed. There’s so much I resonate with her and I loved her. Wish some day I can share my experiences with being emotionally and breaking down.
God restores 🙌
Pain before purpose! Yoh!
Powerful
Oh yes
May the Almighty continue to strength us when it comes to disappointments 🙏🏽❤
Amen 🙏
Amen and thank you for watching ❤
This lady she revived me I thought I was the only one facing the unfortunate always being disappointed thank cc
Thank you 😊 🙏
Lebohang muhle 🔥🔥🔥
Ngiyabonga 😊❤❤❤
Tuned in🎉
Thank you so much 💓
Queen Rami, you were born for this!
Thank you so much 💓
This was a conversation between two sisters speaking the same language. The interview was executed beautifully. I think Lebo was vague with letting out the details, maybe she wants people to buy the book.
Thank you 😊
Love, love this !
So inspiring!
I thank God
Thank you 😊
I'm glad you are inspired. God bless ❤
Yooooo! I could not hold back tears at “through it all” 😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Through it all we continue to Trust and depend upon the Lord ❤
I feel so relieved to hear ur story coz I thought I was the only one who went through the same challenge
As painful as our journey can be at times, God has a beautiful way to make it all work for our good. Much love ❤
I hope the interviewer takes the tips given in this post and use them positively. The guest had a lot to say but was not given the opportunity to do so. If you can do a part 2.
I love that enquire from the lord my sister Lebgang God bless and protect you in christ Jesus the lord amen.
Amen 🙏
Amen Thank you ❤
I'm definitely taking that.
What an emotional and yet powerful session. Lebogang is extremely wise. Siyabonga ulimele kahle ivangeli
Amen Thank You 😊
Painful story 😢. God is the most reliable source 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏
Pain before purpose.. it all works for the good though sometimes it doesn't look like it❤
Always
This is relatable. I can't wait to share my story. thanks for sharing sesi.
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I feel like we need part two with her because so many things were left unshared
We will invite her again
Intervention from the interviewer makes it difficult for the guest to go back to that most important part of the interview. Yes some of the questions are valid but at the wrong time. We missed the vital part from this interview.
I am open to answer any questions you have regarding my Story.
Thank you for watching as well ❤
It is always good to hear it first hand from the interview when the host ask relevant and vital questions and also allow the guest to tell the story without intervention and only intervene when necessary. For us to ask on the comment section will not work. This is just a loving and honest advise from a subscriber for purpose of future interviews.
After reading such comments before watching im dissapointed because i saw a small part on tiktok and was like let m go look for it on CZcams ..
Shame sorry for disappointing you
God warned her a lot usisi but she was really too in love to see all of the warnings. I’m so proud of her for rectifying her mistakes by leaving, even though it was rather way deep innnnnnn 😅
Indeed we thank God her eyes was opened eventually 🙏
She didn't give her a fair chance to narrate the original story. She eventually pushed her to general scenarios 😢
Thanks for watching 😘
@@TheTeaWorldtake accountability! Like “ thank you for tuning in, we are definately going to work hard to improve, thank you for your input!
Okay👌
There is something great about both of these ladies. God is coming through big for you Sis Lebo❤
Thank you 🙏
I am so glad Sis Lebogang that you are admitting that you were also at fault and it could be that your then husband was under a lot of financial pressure and because you were both not talking about it he then became short tempered, but this interview is an eye opener.
We can't allow victim mentality because we can't grow when we always want to be victims. I also contributed somehow and had to introspect and also fix where I need fixing so that i don't repeat experiences. Much love ❤❤
We are watching 🙌
Welcome 🙏 🤗
10 minutes into this, I can relate to Lebo where relationships are concerned. I dnt enquire, and I get hurt. My heart does deceive me.
Sending you love and light ❤️
@TheTeaWorld thank you so much. So many lessons here. Interested in the book.
Let's learn from our mistakes and always invite the Holy spirit in all we do, enquire from the Lord for He will Never mislead us. Let's trust in God's perfect timing and perfect blessing. Much love ❤
@Lebo-Motsepe I'll make contact on Fb, for the book purchase. God bless you, and thank you for sharing your story.
@@Lebo-Motsepe Amen and Amen. You told a beautiful story... a testimony of God's grace and leading.
😢😢😢😢! So deep!
The part where you mentioned that you did not want to pray anymore
And the anticipation part
True
I didn't want to pray. I felt like what's the point because I will get disappointed anyway 😢
But I'm grateful that I continued to trust God as hard as it was and today I can safely say it pays to Trust God. He never fails ❤❤
“When the rent is due, we didn’t sing.” Wow powerful (I laughed though.
Lol 🤣
The real conversation starts at 17 minutes. Interview is great, just work on direction the guest right into the gist, shortly after introduction.
Ok
What a story🙏, the pressure in church with regards to marriage 😮
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Thank God you didn't end up with debt🎉
Amen wisdom. ♥️
But what was this interview all about coz the title says something but nothing was said here, maybe it's because the interviewer keep disturbing? 🤔 She said a little about that marriage, and the rest was something else.
But the title is not about marriage only , would you like her to come back and strictly talk about marriage?
@TheTeaWorld I think lot of us were interested about the 2 months marriage more than anything else but we didn't get the whole story, so what happened when those ppl were singing outside, how did they stop the wedding? How did ppl react,what happened to de food, what happened to the guests? How about the brides maids, parents, How did she tell ppl that de wedding won't continue, lot of gaps nje.
I get you, we will ask her for part 2 🙏
I was so disappointed but I learnt to wait upon the lord. Interviewer seems like she know the story
This healed me
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I am happy to hear this. This is where our pain makes sense... when our stories heal others. God bless you ❤
so proud of you Lebo
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Thank you so much woman of God ❤❤❤
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Our story looks similar but God was there for me❤
God is always faithful to see us through ❤
Our queen must work on not interrupt people 😢
Okay she will 👌
This is so ironic We share a surname we also share the same story woow and we have never meet. Bless u Sesi
Wow ya'll should connect 🫂❤️
My grandson passion to have a podcast can you help. He is an opharn who is always preaching that you can grow up better than kids who has both parents.
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I so wanted to hear the part where she stayed for 2 months in marriage😢
She did mention it
I think the follow-up or clarity must come after The interviewee has finished on 1 part...most parts were interrupted n not concluded
Noted thanks
The guest is a good story teller and is expressing herself very well. The host is interjecting just a little too much and not giving her enough time to tell her story. Let your guests do the talking...other than that lovely guest. Host just needs to improve on her listening skills
Thank you 😊
What was this interview about?? We saw 2 months on the title, the guest couldn’t say what happened 🤷🏽♀️ .. i watched the whole thing and still dont know what was it about
The interviewer kept diverting her
I wish the interviewer can let people tell their stories without interfering so so much and disturbing free flow of the person's story.
Ok
Honestly people, I feel like God takes his time to answer 🙏
It feels like that but His time is perfect.. I am now experiencing what God said; He makes things beautiful in its time and I'm happy. Keep Ttusting God though its not easy and it feels like He is taking time. Hold on and keep on keeping on ❤❤
He doesn’t take time when it’s urgent trust me. I just think the problem is people can’t interpret their dreams nor hear God for themselves
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Thank you for watching ❤
The story would have been so interesting if not for the interviewer poor interviewing skills😢😢😢
Ok
But who decided that you guyz must cancel the wedding and secondly what did the guy did exactly????? Hai mna I am not satisfied
I’m guessing he was gay tbh
We both decided its best to cancel since we saw we are headed to disaster. We were not compatible, we rushed the whole thing and crashed.
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I blame the interviewer
Yooo interviewer …. Every minute you are talking tjooo
And she makes her to divert. Now her story is everywhere
Close that door with prayer my sister. INSIST THE DOOR TO REMAIN Closed I Jesus name. Remember, you hv AUTHORITY n whatever you bind on earth.........
DEAL with the Door. Ebile I get angry on your behalf. Satan wa gafa
Amen 🙏 🙏
What is the name of the book
The nofication gang🎉
Hello ❤️
Part 2 plz
Definitely
I am also learning that we don't fix things by fighting. I used to slap him each time I found that he was being unfaithful. 😢
We learn and grow everyday 💯
Its good podcast but next time let the guest talk with interfering the guest
Thanks for watching
This was powerful 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
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Thank you for watching ❤
Take notes/lesson from Lynn Ngugi
Hi Thobeka
They are different ways of doing things but ill definitely look out for the pointers if need be
I was about to suggest Lyn aswell
All I can say is shuuuu Lebo🔥
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My friend ❤❤
58:05 Àll things work togetger for good to those who loves the Lord.
Amen
Oh yes indeed ❤❤😊
Painful story
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😂😂 we go through a lot in bazalwane thing
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I am at the stage wer i think i am done praying
Don't give up, prayer changes things 🙏
Sequence please interviewer
Personally, having read the title of the interview, I feel like the interviewer structured her questions around that rather than the cover title of it. Which is why she was moving around her questioning and redirecting the guest to cover all those aspects.
That's why it seems like she's interrupting the guest because the cover title of the interview screams tea😂and the interview ended up being an overview of those aspects instead of a detailed Tea spill of the 2 months marriage😅 overall very educational educational, thank you for sharing ❤
I hear you Amanda however the interviewer is not the one responsible for the titles and thumbnails 🤩
The interviewer spoiled the interview
Ok
Kindly share contacts of the guest, will need tge book soon.
Hi Sis please contact her on Facebook @Lebogang Motsepe
@@TheTeaWorld thank you
I have a VERY relatable story omg 😅😅.But I feel the interviewer kept interrupting and robbed us of the story , please learn from this and do better next time .WHEN I COME TELL MY STORY 😂
Lol
At 50 min i am sp disappointed coz we are missing the important parts by derailing😢
Sorry
Redirection from God worked in your favor
Amen it worked for her good
I'm 15 minutes in and sorry guys but besides Praise the lord nobody has said anything. Either both ladies know each other very well or somebody is not interested in sharing their story except about God's love...😢
What do you wanna know.. if you watched till the end, you will understand that this is a testimony on God carrying us through trials. We have discussed how pressure can lead us to make wrong decisions that are costly
I agree no story here
Jo, that is how I felt, I did not even finish the interview cause there was nothing here literally😂
Saw this comment at 1min 50secs and deciding to stop right here.
The trailer was so interesting but the actual interview is something else…MacG calls it PR 🤨
The interviewer ALWAYS has something to say😮 we dont get yo understand her guests. She has distractions everytime🤨 Tiring😢
Ok