WHY DO WE SELF-SABOTAGE?!?
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EP 155: I cannot lie to you guys this episode get a little deep LMAO. The gang opens up the podcast by talking about things that they've done in their past they are not proud of and situations they were in that really messed with their mental health. We then go on to talk about how to make something of yourself for long term success and not always just thinking of the short term and wanting to get better RIGHT THIS SECOND because change does not happen over night. We wrap up the podcast by talking about how we self-sabotage in our own lives and how we try and overcome that. I REALLY HOPE YA'LL ENJOY AND LEARN SOMETHING FROM THIS EPISODE!!! :D
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ik nick is smiling and kicking his feet at these comments 🤣
half of them gotta be nicks burner accounts
@@ggeeperscreepersSTOP IM CRYING 😭😭😭
it was really nice of Nick to take a break from his vacation to do the ad sponsorships, really shows his hard work ethic they should pay him double.
This is what happens when the mom leaves their kids home alone 😂😂
PLEASE
especially at the end
MARUS AND SEANS BEING COLLETTE AND ALFREDO IS THE CUTEST
i KNOWWW the capcut editors are having a field day w this
ong they look so cute
vereena and devin are so sweet with eachother i’ve followed vereena since like 2018 and devin is so similar to her
Was looking to see if anybody else agreed
YESS i was hoping someone would point that out
I feel like Devin likes her cause of the way he acts next to her
@@laadivlogsbro a man and women literally cannot exist in the same room without y’all accusing them of liking eachother. pls go outside
@@alyssakaytlin758 i know it’s all jokes lol just like the way they say the same thing about Maru and Sean. Sorry don’t hate me🫣
thank y’all for havin me always sm fun w u guys
QUEEN COME BACK AS A GUEST EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE PLEASE 🙏🏼🙏🏼
the book u were talking abt is a movie!
You added a really funny charm to that episode 😊
Thank you for coming on🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Watch the movie Everyday. That’s your book you talked about :)
Owens that guy that take shrooms and discovers empathy
HELP
please this too accurate
LMFAOOO
LMFAOAOAOOO
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I honestly loved Owen’s philosophical questions I feel like he’s so zen and in touch with his thoughts and extremely knowledgeable about so many cool conversational topics. Def wanna keep him as a regular!!
Yes ..I felt the same way , he is so in touch with his thoughts . I loved all the quotes he had . Would love to have a long conversation with him , it’s hard to find people on that level .
LOVE how sean and maru are the only chefs 😭
she’s the love interest ofc
there weren’t many other relevant characters in ratatouille
@@normalgirlszano yea i know lol
@@laneypfister7318Devin should have been chef skinner
Owens first question made me lose braincells 😭
No seriously though all jokes aside i.really appreciate devin speaking about his body dismorphia and just his insecuritys in general and how appearance really does effect some peoples menatal health because i feel like its not talked about as much as it needs to be and i heavily relate to him. Love u dev❤.it means alot
Actually didn’t fuck with them laughing at Devin when he was really trying to talk about his body and not to get mad at them for laughing 😢
dude i was gonna make the same comment. it was kinda dismissive/disrespectful of them.
nah bro i laugh at the worst situations, i get him
idk if its cause i hit the penjamen but this ep was deep asf and had me really self reflecting, i fw this group of friends they're so introspective and real for their openess
nah same & I hit the penjamin too lmao
No deadass I shed a few tears ngl
Biggest self sabotage I had is not sleeping in order to procrastinate waking up and having to face the next day.The maths don’t make sense cause tomorrow is coming regardless but not sleeping makes it feel like I’m in control of SOMETHING😭
Me rn 😭
felt
I never realised how important nick was until til this podcast
It just started… lmaooo
@@mojojojoooojust started 🤡
yall dtm
You probably didn’t meant to say it wrong or negatively, but it can come that way 💀
Wym… Owen literally ate this podcast up bro and it may be one of my favourites but idk
the way sean looks at maru does something to me
Poddy w/o Nick feels weird, but I’m glad y’all posted🫶🏽
So many little maru and Sean moments this episode 🙏 petition for them to always sit next to eachother
28:07
39:47 was so funny for no reason
48:12 lmaoo
51:18 📝📝
1:05:09 Vaseline sharing
1:06:51 shouldersss
1:27:04 😂😂
1:31:50
1:34:30
Seans little smile to himself after was so cute omg
Maru and Sean playing with the whisk was mad cuteeee 28:07
u guys are insane actually like they are real people
@@wajeehabhorat5606 mama we know they’re real ppl are we not allowed to watch them? it’s not that deep like
@@wajeehabhorat5606 bruh
Does “whose gonna hold my hoops” and “whose gonna spot check me” work for Owen’s question in the beginning or am I tripping?😭
nick will be missed 😩 but veerena energy when shes w them is immaculate 🙏🏾🤍
Agree
podcast without nick don’t hit the same
it just started 😂 leave the negativity elsewhere
I wouldn't say negativity but yeah it does feel weird without him
real
@@Poup_o7Yes it’s going to feel different/odd but doesn’t mean it’s bad! 😊
just say you’re in love with him
They carried it well without Nick.. Just enjoy it y'all at least you're getting an episode.. Of course it's not going to be the same without some of the OG's you're used to..
It’s funny because Owen is an OG😂 he is part of the rancho boyz and the original group
Honestly I thought this pod would be chaotic without nick but owen did great👏👏👏👏
No I actually feel so bad for Devin I felt the same way at one point I would never take my mask off, I wouldn’t wanna go hangout with my friends because I felt like I was too ugly it’s hard and it ruins youre quality of life and you realize you’re wasting so much of your life
Brooo when vereena said something about the crushes i felt that like people are cute but not in a dating type of way
im so hype for this. owen hosting. sean in the middle and vereenas here with sage maru AND BYAATTTTT. nick and bynthia arree being missed but ugh im so happy rn im so sick
owen’s first question did not eat 😭😭
that was a TOUGH listen
not cool when Owen was tearing Devin down as he was opening up of his past insecurities and how they couldn’t control themselves to not laugh. He was talking about something so real and he should’ve been able to with his friends without them invalidating it by being so insensitive abt it.
Fr bruh also seems like Owen doesn’t have much chemistry with the others and can’t read the room at all
the female equivalent to who’s gonna carry the boats is who’s gonna carry the boats
Riggght? His question made no sense whatsoever 💀
right like it’s a metaphor i don’t think any man is literally carrying the boats 😭😭
i really enjoyed seeing this side of owen! i would have never guessed he would be not only so deep but actually educated and intellectual. knowing these authors and philosophers is really impressive, i would love for him to host more!!
vereena is so sweet 💕 we need another episode with her! & owen did really good hosting, happy to see him again!!
Owen did an amazing job, them not understanding the “carry the boats” analogy upset me so much 🤣🤣🤣🌝🌝🌝
tbh i don’t think owen was that great at explaining it
I can watch and listen to Owen talk for hours
Devin really hit a nerve when he was talking at 25:16, he made me get up and start working out when i was about to quit lmao
i love vereena in this episode she has such a sweet vibe
Devin and Vereena would be elite ❤
Dude I love Maru sooo much she’s sooo funny and adorable.
Damn, it’s not the same without Nick. He just brings a certain energy to the podcast. Still love the other as well but yk what I mean
no nick on the podcast and now the intro is less than 5 minutes 😭😭
2:53 :( i’m catching up on the poddys hoping vereena pulls through!!!!
Arguably one of the best episodes yet, bringing Owen in was a great idea dude is insightful. He hit all the deep and gritty hard to answer questions, these are important because it helps us reflect on our own lives. Dope. Thanks guys!
Damm this episode got me, I struggled with the not knowing who I am for years now it really sucks but I’m starting to get better and that’s all that matters
Lowkey Vereena and Devin are kinda cute
Right i thought i was the only one feelings the vibe between them 😂😂🫣
he’s with glo
27:27 🤭
@@woahman74they broke up like last year he’s been talked about on the pod
@@zyiasinterlude what happened
even though it was different without nick, this podcast had a lot of great topics. Owen did great!
i kinda hate how every time maru talks they look around and laugh b4 they even try to understand her. it’s annoying.
That's what I'm say. Like give her a second
“Everyday” the movie has a similar concept to what vereena was talking about at 1:11. The main character also switches bodies everyday and tries to live in that body for that person THAT day. It’s a really great movie/ concept.
The questions Owen presented this episode I loveee, very deep and openness 💜 Thank you guys for sharing w us!!
Owen crying to something chief keef related is so me core
i felt like i really needed to hear what everyone had to say and relating a lot to what u guys have also struggled with 🥺❤️
it feels illegal to watch without nick
I really related and appreciated Devin speaking about how he felt and just never being able to just live and not be worrying about who is looking what they’re thinking about me and why I don’t like my body but I had gotten better mentally setting my mindset and I know how hard it is especially because now I’m falling off that positive pattern and I think that the key is consistency to have to always think positive or to put effort into changing and this gave me more confidence to be able to keep that consistency:) thanks Devin I loved this podcast Owen u did a good job and loved having vereena here also!!
This pod really came out at the right time .. thanks team
This ep was super refreshing proud of Owen for bringing in the real I feel like this gave me the deep shit I miss from having Cristine on the podcast miss her hope she’s doing well love yall
missing nick 😢 but Owen and Vereena add so much to this pod, love them so much
I really enjoyed this podcast, it’s something I needed as someone who’s been bed rotting all winter break and doesn’t know how to break the cycle! :)
love how this podcast is my comfort show 😊
I LOVED READING EVERY DAY! during middle school! I'm 20 now lol and they did turn it into a movie!
Sean being linguini and Mary Colette is just encouraging the ship I mean their character where a couple is this a clue
Good episode for the books, had a different style to it and I really enjoyed it.
Many blessings to you❤💞
Blessings to you as well❤️
them not getting maru was trying to say "evolutionary" perspective was killing the psych major in me😭
Owen's questions definitely gave me a different perspective. Loved his views and questions!!!
i think owen did a good job this episode! it’s not the usual fun vibe but it was still a good one with all the deep questions
The book veerena was talking about was made into a movie called Everyday. It’s sooo good! Watch it
1:04:11
i relate to owen so much. it’s a war within yourself almost. i know that there’s shit to do but i just,, can’t find it in me to do it at times.
Recently found this podcast and ive been enjoying every video ive watched, Learned soo much from the team. I love how Christine can always say the right thing when talking deep or about love. Its made me realise how imporant each form of love is. Devin and Sage are such a hilarious duo. I get cute innocent vibes from Mura which is super cute in my eyes. Nick is funny but also a lil bully. But all of you guys are amazing and im super happy that i found this podcast and you guys/girls in general. Thank you guys for shining light into my world
The podcast without nick is crazy 💀 but I’m glad
he be doing too much sometimes🤷🏽♂️😂
no hes crucial to the pod
hows it crazy
@@Ionkvonhe do but he’s a great person and he’s the whole reason we even have this podcast
Best part of my week!! Btw love the theme
i've been waiting for a new post, ahhhhh ❤ you guys !!!!
whos gonna braid the hair or whos gonna host the get together or whos gonna network whos gonna comfort or be a leader whos gonna say the truth whos gona talk
I was thinking who’s gonna order the Lyft/Uber lol
@@tyanahalton1that’s a good one lmao
Definitely miss Nick, but so grateful for these deep conversations❤
owen slayed. vereena & maru really reminded me to do it for future me.
Honestly Owen had no reason to keep going in on Devin when he was trying to open up about his body issues, everyone’s talking about how insightful and deep Owen is but he can’t even read the room and be respectful enough to hear Devin out and be there for him as a friend if they’ve known each other so long. Knowing someone since childhood is not an excuse to be blatantly rude about something that’s clearly a huge insecurity…still love y’all but that bothered tf out of me to watch
THIS. i was so bothered and upset on how owen was treating devin when he was talking abt his body issues..
Devin we need your reaction on the Colts falling short to the Texans and basically giving up their playoff spot. Also to how they took out J. Taylor at the wrong time 🤦🏻♀️ but it’s okay AR is gonna ball out next season trust
i absolutely love their deep conversational podcasts it reminds me that i’m not the only one who thinks of these things especially with self sabotaging which is something i have always struggled with. love you guys sm 🫶🏼
Owen took over the podcast. I love it🙏🏽💗
9:19 I think making the phrases historical makes more sense lol
"WHO'S GONNA PICKLE THE RADISHES!!!!!"
"who's gonna smoke the venison!!!"
"who's gonna curl the hair!?!"
"who's gonna churn the butter!!"
1:24:29 “the only way out is through” that was fire Owen
Favorite part of my week
Honestly i loved the podcast ❤❤ i feel like it changes from Nick's energy
Bro I was literally waiting for this
definitely feel fereena on hyper independence. been more social recently but a part of me pulls myself away once i start going out more so that i stay in the comfort zone. its hard to push past feeling like you are all you need but it'd be nice to just open up and share w others lol
love veerna on the pod, its like my two favorite worlds combining
1:10:23 There is a movie about this, *Everything, Everything* (2017), also based on a book about someone who wakes up in a new body everyday but it's a romance
Podcast without Nick Is so weird. He is missed❤❤❤
First podcast without him.
The self reflection Ive done throughout this video was heavily needed
Maru your laugh and smile is the prettiest I've ever seen im literally in love with u
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS THEME
This is such a great podcast episode I can’t believe im just now watching it, Owen is so insightfullll he should have/host a podcast of his own !
Omg I remember when y’all announced that Owen was moving to Florida!?!?Time is so funny because I didn’t realize he was there for 2 years!?
22:23 OWEN THATS NOT
I’m all seriousness though Devin is so relatable because I went through that too, it’s hard feeling uncomfortable in your own body..love you dev!!you are def not alone 🫶🏼
these are the questions that i loveeee, good shit Owen (:
I loved when yall ate snacks during the pod. I be eating with you
i loved hearing devin speak more in the podcast!!
literally luv u guys😢
I fear I’m empty on this one, ima start using this 😂😂😂
No Nick and both Choi sisters missing is criminal
TODAY'S COSTUME THEME IS SO CUTE 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Having Owen on the pod is so entertaining
PERIOD Sean as Linguini!!
owen made this podcast amazing !! need to see more of him and more of his questions