What To Do If Your Ex Ignores You
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- What to do when your ex ignores you. Often times your ex may ignore your texts or phone calls which can cause tremendous anxiety. In this video Coach Craig explains what to do.
Craig talks about why it hurts to be ignored and what to do if an ex ignores you.
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It’s crazy how we go from lovers to strangers
That is the most terrifying part, I never ever treated an ex like that, yet I get ghosted after the best longterm relationships because THEY didn't feel like I cared. It's wild
Yup never understood this
This is happening to me right now!
It’s because there is someone else they replaced you with. If they act like a stranger and ignore or are cold, there’s a new person they are distracted and engaging their attachment with
It's so sad to get ignored😐
Yes it is Work on yourself You would be better off
Yes :(
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Being igonred is worse than being yelled off
I'm also being ignored by the person I cared for... I'm in the process of getting better but long story short I'm hurt and want her back
Feel that one bud.
john b me too
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@@dwightschrute8141 never heard from her again man. These videos only help you to move on
@@fjt4700 bro what happened
I was on a walk today and I found a miniature lock on the ground like the one on your back ground, thought that was so cool! Encouraged me to keep going because I felt like soothing my anxiety in a self destructive way, but haven’t and I was reminded in all that anxiety to sit with my feelings, so that’s what I’m doing! Thankful for this channel!
6:00, true craig. But if you think about it, they might be doing it to get back at you, get a response from you , who knows. But if you don't react to it the way they expect, the table's turn. BC if they wanna talk to you again, they will have to reach out
My partner of 39 years walked out & he left me a note!!!! I’m hurting & so are our children....I’m doing no contact after all the begging him to come back....it’s been 10 weeks...I’ve had panic attacks anxiety...& I’ve cried every day....I’m hurting so bad...I’m listening to the videos & they are helping a little....thank you so much Craig
Maureen Maureen all i can do is send you hugs. im so sorry to read what happened to you. x
I hope everything is ok now 🤗
Maureen Maureen how are you feeling now !? As I’m hurting from a recent breakup , does it get better , what was your out come please share 😘
Maureen, what ended up happening? That's a really, really tough situation.
I was ignored by him for months, literally. Now im still ignored for thirty four days,i don't think he's coming back,, he's used to be always looking for him,no more,but i think he's glad,i think it's what he wanted for awhile
I ignored mine, but she did the same with me. She was taking long to reply, but I asked her where I stand so not to waste my time. She came back a month later and we started communicating again but she started playing again so I moved on. She started to text to ask what is happening and I replied, she kept on texting month after month but since she never asked to meet I stopped replying to her messages, she carried on texting asking if am ok and finally she asked if we are not talking anymore, but still I never replied. For me it's not about having power or because I have other women, just could not see any future in it and got fed up.
Hey coach, two weeks into no contact and by total surprise she reached out two days ago. I took your advice and left it to the following day to reply, I kept my cool like you instructed not letting my social and separation anxiety get the better of me (hardest thing ever). Tonight we went on our first date since the break up, it was a little arkward at first but if I'm honest it couldn't have gone any better. The attraction and passion was obviously still there between us. When we arrived back to mine for a "coffee" well I think you know where this is going haha🙈. I want to say regret but maybe that is the wrong word I just hope we haven't ruined our chances by staying the night together. I have suffered with anxiety all my life (29yrs) I think I'm just over thinking, I'm sure you know the feeling.
I have watched your video's 3 times a day sine she broke up with me, I just want to say without you I don't know where I would be right now ( definitely not laying at her side). Thank you from the bottom of my heart, I really appreciate everything.
Keep up the amazing work, thank you soo much.
A friend in the uk x
Awesome! Send me a success story!
Mark Rutherford where are you guys at 8 months later?
Jjj
HI can I ask if your ex had told accused you for mistakes that you made that caused the break up? And how long were you together?
I would say this. As happy as you both feel, the worse thing you can do us rush into things. You were in a relationship before and it didn't work out, and even though the spark is still there, it doesn't mean it'll work out this time. Good luck anywayz.
Did you enjoy this one? Let me know!
This video is just right for my newfound situation. Thx Craig!
I enjoy every video.
I enjoy your every video!! Could you please make a video about ex boyfriend now is dating someone else. What should I do? Do I still have a chance?
Loved it
Coach Craig Kenneth off course
He wants control everything If she did not do what she wants ,he is gone
well she risked getting pregnant thats a biggie
My wife of 14 years is now all of a sudden a different person now that she left and is seeing someone else. She ignores anything I say to her unless it has to do with the kids so now I'm ignoring her. You want no contact? You got it.
Playing with that type of stuff is no joke I agree with him
Exactly... He is ignoring me. Maybe I was his back up plan now, after 4 years of relationship. He asked for space in August and in September we broke up..he reached me out a few but then suddenly ignored me... I just hope that one day this pain get out of my chest
Mines ignoring me too :/
I'm here for you.
All I have to say is I wish. I knew everything you teach when I was younger
yep shes ignoring my message, well next time she messages me I'm just gonna take as long as she did to reply, why make it easy for them when they make it hard for you.
I feel she self sabotaged our relationship, then started to ignore me, only to go back to an ex whom she had a toxic and dysfunctional relationship with smh
you were a rebound guy probably
@@flipflop4396 I agree with you.
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Not your problem. It's the exes problem now.
You really are therapeutic for me I always find these videos therapeutic and calming
I’m heartbroken 😭 my ex boyfriend ignoring for 3 days now I want closure ☹️
My ex girlfriend never gave me any proper closure .. she ended with me after 4 years by text, 5 months ago.. be prepared that you might not get any .. I hope you do., but be prepared..
Update
It feels very disrespectful
My favorite break up Coach 😊
Im curious about the "negativity" comment. Is there anything that is being ignored, intentionally? Are you being completely honest with yourself? Aside from that, your situation is a shame. Good luck.
Negativity comment? She says that when she messages him, he reads them but does not reply
Block af rn. I left her though. Man what a mistake. I’m definitely losing hope. But man I really find comfort in these videos. Something about this cats voice and outlook :) keep up the work. You help more than you know coach !
I'm in a similiar situation. She blocked me on social media but she hasn't blocked my number
Same boat as you brother been 3 weeks
Your videos make me keep going coach. Do not stop and thank you so much for informations.
When I have enough money, gonna get e-mail coaching.
When me and my 3x broke up I'm not sure who did the breaking because things were said and done that were messy and nasty emotionally. I decided that for myself I had to face the truth of my situation whilst having empathy for him if I was to feel better about moving forward so I decided to let him go and wished him luck and wanted to give him the space as well as myself to find ourselves. I even took his things back which was the right thing to do and saw him face to face. I wished him luck and to take care and he wished me the same. When I asked him why he was ignoring me it was apparently because of what I said. I want to be civil and polite, but I'm still being ignored, and I know enough to say that if I carry on with no response I'm only going to embarrass myself and make myself moving on even harder. 🍒
Your the best coach keep up with the great work 👍
An excellent video. Yes his loss.
I ignore myself
We were so in love. she was with a narcissist before me. she went to a therapy session and are just went cold and distant on me. 3 weeks later she dumped me. After I went back to NYC, she tells me that she missed me and felt like she messed up. few weeks later, she blocks me and hasn't replied to any messages. Why would she do this to me?
Something's weird about this story... This is not how birth control works afaik, you have to stop taking the hormonal pill at the end of each cycle anyways. It doesn't make you automatically pregnant and it doesn't mean she did that on purpose or was just reckless. And you don't just shove the "morning after pill" down someone's throat, it can have horrible side effects. If the risk of her actually getting pregnant is so low, makes perfect sense to not take it. Seems like that issue could've been resolved easily with communication, right? But he just cuts her out and jumps onto other women, as if he's been waiting for her to make a mistake. I'm not trying to point fingers or accuse anyone, just genuinely don't understand, seems like we're not getting the full picture.
Thank you!! I literally said the exact same thing with almost all the same points. Something very shady about it. To me, this guy sounds emotionally abusive and like he was looking for an excuse to break up.
4 month's of no contact and not a word.
Update?
I dont think he really cares about her or he would not suddenly leave her. He just cares,about the sex.
Great video , I was ignored thus past week , and I’m going back to no contact
I got ignored too last week friday after doing 2 weeks no contact. This time Im going to no contact for good. Not feeling tempt anymore because I finally sent what I want to say. I still need help to move forward through the coaches but I need a budget for it
Gaia I'm on three weeks no contact start to get ignored last week on messenger
@@rickcope3226 Its been 2 months for me now, No contact made me feel more at ease by myself.
Gaia it's been 3 weeks. But I'm considering dating. Not waiting on her
Gaia and we have been together for 13 years. This follows my marriage of 28 years going bad. This does not to well for my self esteem
What if they say we have nothing to talk about, then block you as you reply, then when they’ve unblocked you your message didn’t go through
I am very ignorant sometimes with everyone, friends, family. 😔 When i am not emotinal good i don’t like to talk with anyone i like to be alone. I can’t help my self is just me.I think i need help at this probleme.
@broken spirit Hi. Yes i am thank you. Your self?
@broken spirit Sorry to hear that. 😔She should be next to you in this hard time, that’s what couples does.
Yea...and I got so many friends and family I try to be kind and caring but its always ta where I take care of one thing and another then it's something else and it don't have too keep been bad
This was a great video.
Craig you are my favourite american
I think his reaction was a little extreme.
The best advice....
My ex wont block me either. Shes ignoring me.i told her to block me but she refuses to take action. When we broke up she insisted we remain as friends as i was the one starting to block her on social media
This is a late post but, the girl he spoke about wouldn't have gotten pregnant because depending on how many days before she had sex and when her period was supposed to start would have made her vagina inhospitable for sperm to survive. There is a window to getting pregnant. I'm angry at her ex for having sex with her unprotected and then having the audacity to force her to take a pill. I'm disappointed in BOTH for taking a risk for all the above...there should have been a discussion before and right after. As a woman she has the right to decide what SHE wants to do with HER body especially right after sex.
Can anyone give me some examples how excactly this works ? Does that mean to prioritize myself ? Any help appreciated.
My ex-gf dumped me a month ago after I hurt her feelings. She stopped replying to me via text, yet still occasionally likes some of my fb posts....I don't get it.
sorenrules did she come back?
Good work cach
My ex still has my car... how do I get it back?
Call it in as stolen
Hi Craig,
Thank you for amazing content!
Would love your opinion on this situation:
After breaking up with my ex (we were engaged) we both tried moving on for two years. I have tried my best to move on. It seems as though he has not moved on too.
He recently changed his profile picture to a pet I used to own.
I sent him a casual message, basically saying I trust he is doing great.
It’s been two weeks and he hasn’t read the message.
Any opinions on this would be much appreciated.
Hey how did things turn out in the end, did he reach out? I'm in same situation.
Would a dumper feel the same emotions if they were being ignored by the dumpee? I ignored my dumper after asking him to leave me alone. He kept texting how I was etc. I found out as well he had shared personal information about me and some information were just lies. He also cheated on me and disappeared for 3 days.
I felt I was doing the right thing at the time by ignoring him completely.
my ex of 16 years and Engaged to three times tells me he isn't with this girl 10 years younger than him but on Facebook it says in a relationship with her i try to call or text him and he doesn't respond we have the breakup pattern of breaking up with each other and get back together and he did come to me before he got with his current girlfriend i don't know what to do at this point :'(
13:40 , 14:30 you nailed it coach... :) by the way surprised by the early upload...
I have been in no contact since my bf broke up with me via text about 8 months ago. We have been on and off for 5 years. I have not reached out at all. I had a Skype with Marge ...but was not given a plan to get him back. He is ignoring me in public. He has blocked me on FB... I think he is avoidant.
Michelle, he’s done. It’s been eight months. You deserve better. Hopefully by now, you’ve found happiness in a high quality relationship.
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Michelle any update?
What if your ex isnt talking to others. I smothered a man who was single 13 years before me. I gave him to much to fast. Hes doing the same thing. Telling me he will think about it. I dont "feel" like a back burner but I could be wrong. I finally went nc. We will see what happens. The problem was that I was too nice and tried to make him feel like a relationship was better than sitting at home drinking his loneliness away (what he told me). I learned the weekends when he would come to see me was also when he would drink so I was in competition with a 13 year habit. He entered counciling this week. I hope he continues. He has avoident attch. Due to trauma. His mom died when he was young. Raised by dad he didnt really know but now cant seperate from. I have anxious attch. Due to trauma and people getting rid of me young. Its a mess. So I guess no contact and working on myself is best and we will see how it goes. I just hate that eventhough Im doing this that I know he believes Im waiting and gives him power or guilt. Ugh
Yesterday I was at the university to make a test and my I ex totally ignored me on purpose and I keep it cool and didn't show that bother me. Then after the test when I was leaving the university she passed by me and told me good bye. Is that a good sign or am I just overthinking?
It hurts so much 💔 Being ignored for almost a month now just pains me a lot 🥲
Love craig
Ok what if she’s doing no contact and I am doing no contact isn’t that crazy who will win ???if she following the same advise
My ex after 2 years left me for a younger guy that lives with his parents and she posting like they are all in love for past 5 months and it kills me she was coming back to me in the first there months having sex with me and seeing us both I took her to Therpist to help and she chose him why I don’t know but I finally did no contact and it got worse she kept posting pics of her and him stating they are in a relationship etc and how the hell can I get her back now just move on and hope they come back god any won got advise is it hopelessly
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What happens -u send a email and the dumper does respond and is very happy with the receiving the correspondence from the dumped one and actually writes back without delay. Usually advising everything except the relationship issue However - my concern is why The dumper never initiates the contact?
What’s that about ??
Update?
Good work coach
Lol, I've began no contact a month ago.. we both work together, she's a crush that's been going back and forth all of last year, anyway she told me no, didn't like me, stared at me for a month during no contact, now I'm being ignored as we walk around the hallways, shit is too funny.. trying to grab my attention smh
You're early today. :)
CC I feel for this guy. I know exactly how he feels. But he is just delusional. I know men are animals of action and he wants to do something. All I could do is to read up on relationship, push my lawyer as hard as possible to get my divorce papers signed by the soon to be ex, exercise and for the first time in my life get some meds to control anxiety. Maybe if he implemented something like that he would at least be distracted. His situation seems to be spot on for many of us but not doing the action part.
i ignore my dumper😂 i know he feel so bad🤪🤪 he is afraid of me. i know that because he was one of my best friends once, and we share same friendgroup. 🤣🤣 i dont want him back but i want punishment for disrespect and months of crying nights🤨 every time we see each other i act like he never existed😂
There is such thing called a condom and if he didn't have one then that is his fault.
People don't need to use the day after pill as birth control. That is what is wrong with this world. Smh..... They shouldn't have has sex if he wanted protection and if he wanted protection then he shoukd had made sure the he had a condom or not have sex.
Very simple actually. That is my take on that part. Good video though.
You may want to go to a therapist because in this video the lady clearly disregarded her partners feelings and emotions. In a healthy relationship there should be enough communication and trust present where this situation never would have happened to begin with.
It’s been 1 month since we broke up, went to her house about 2 weeks in to see if I could talk but she cried and walked off so I left, then see her at the train station and we spoke a little bit but she was being stubborn and spiteful so it was left at that I’m not sure what to do I don’t want to lose her
My ex and lost our virginity to eachother and then we broke up about a year later. It's been 8 years and im still not over her. Im 28, shes 26. We got together when i was 17 and she was 15. Yes i know we were young. She wont respond to me. Been trying thoughout the years. Everytime i do, her entire family and friends are constantly recommended to me by facebook:( i know shes connected to me the way i am to her, so why does she stay with a loser bf who still lives with his mom and dad? She supports him and he just wants to scream into a microphone