I honestly don't think most kids care if their parents are hugging and kissing. All the they really notice is how their parents support them and take care of things as a team...
Sure - when they are very young because very young children are self-focused on their basic needs being met. But as they get a bit older, I'd argue most kids notice more than many want to admit. They may not be able to articulate the simmering tension, but they know it. Even at a visceral or subconscious level, it affects them and their psychological development.
I completely agree with you sir. The only reason I'm still in my second relationship is for my kids. Relationships always go sour- and very sadly that is the truth. But I completely commend you on what you're doing because your little ones actually will grow up more sane and then they would if you separated. I realize it's tough and may God bless you sir. Because this is a very tough assignment
As a kid I couldnt care less if my parents liked each other ...as long as no violence or extreme negative stuff - I just wanted to have *both* my parents civil and equally in my life so that I wasn't with one more than the other . If I stayed together in a relationship for my kids - it would be so that my kids had the opportunity to have both of thier parents in their lives so that they actually knew both parents and had an actual proper understanding of how and who they were . So many mothers take kids away from dads and make things hard for the dads or impossible ( by doing things behind the scenes that goes un noticed to the kids..)And they can make out like the dad doesnt or didnt care and that certain things were his fault even if it wasnt or isnt...There are a lot of extremely nasty and manipulative mothers out there and i know this from first hand multiple experience. Dads have to go to court to fight for rights they already have...- while the mothers usually just automatically get the kids and have all their rights granted unless the dad risks losing all his rights altogether and getting accused of things by attempting to go to courts just to fight for the same thing the mother is already doing without needing to go to court to do so...its extremely sexist. Any dad that is able to stay in a relationship for the sake of the kid or kids is a genius in my opinion and deserves a medal and a lot of sympathy!!!! ( If the other parent is like what I described).
I honestly don't think most kids care if their parents are hugging and kissing. All the they really notice is how their parents support them and take care of things as a team...
That makes sense and I've seen great "functional" parents who are love-less and suffering. Kids see that.
Sure - when they are very young because very young children are self-focused on their basic needs being met. But as they get a bit older, I'd argue most kids notice more than many want to admit. They may not be able to articulate the simmering tension, but they know it. Even at a visceral or subconscious level, it affects them and their psychological development.
I completely agree with you sir. The only reason I'm still in my second relationship is for my kids. Relationships always go sour- and very sadly that is the truth. But I completely commend you on what you're doing because your little ones actually will grow up more sane and then they would if you separated. I realize it's tough and may God bless you sir. Because this is a very tough assignment
Extremely tough assignment.
Unless there's some violence or abuse you should stay together and work it out until the kids are independent.
how about a 100% toxic relationship ???
So according to you, our partner can be bringing back new gf/bf every night as long they are not beating us up, we have to keep finding solution?
Thank you for your wisdom, Stuart
As a kid I couldnt care less if my parents liked each other ...as long as no violence or extreme negative stuff - I just wanted to have *both* my parents civil and equally in my life so that I wasn't with one more than the other . If I stayed together in a relationship for my kids - it would be so that my kids had the opportunity to have both of thier parents in their lives so that they actually knew both parents and had an actual proper understanding of how and who they were . So many mothers take kids away from dads and make things hard for the dads or impossible ( by doing things behind the scenes that goes un noticed to the kids..)And they can make out like the dad doesnt or didnt care and that certain things were his fault even if it wasnt or isnt...There are a lot of extremely nasty and manipulative mothers out there and i know this from first hand multiple experience. Dads have to go to court to fight for rights they already have...- while the mothers usually just automatically get the kids and have all their rights granted unless the dad risks losing all his rights altogether and getting accused of things by attempting to go to courts just to fight for the same thing the mother is already doing without needing to go to court to do so...its extremely sexist. Any dad that is able to stay in a relationship for the sake of the kid or kids is a genius in my opinion and deserves a medal and a lot of sympathy!!!! ( If the other parent is like what I described).
Google maternal gatekeeping.
Sir. Most of the time; its the women who create the chaos. Men usually are stuck mending the pieces
This is perfect
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