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  • An "Oprah Show" exclusive: the mom with 20 personalities. Then, she was one of Oprah's most unforgettable guests-the woman with 92 personalities. What happened to Truddi Chase? (Original air date: October 13, 2011) For more on #oprahwinfreyshow, visit WatchOWN.tv/TOWS
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  • @gingerguerra1818
    @gingerguerra1818 Před 3 lety +1745

    I like that when it was her daughter's birthday each of her mothers personality presented her with a gift. Beautiful
    Edit: Thanks for all the likes! Stay blessed! 🩵

  • @BloodNote
    @BloodNote Před 3 lety +1621

    Her therapist needs a raise. Because sending an email to each different personality? Having to change to talk to each person. Good God

    • @FeistyGES
      @FeistyGES Před 3 lety +26

      I concur.👏🏿👏🏿

    • @LADYDAEE
      @LADYDAEE Před 3 lety +30

      I don't believe talking to each person is any different than talking to 20 people

    • @BloodNote
      @BloodNote Před 3 lety +13

      @@LADYDAEE Um in ONE individual that's a a lot.

    • @thisismetoday
      @thisismetoday Před 3 lety +13

      I mean, it's not that bad.
      That's such an unnecessary thing to say.

    • @BloodNote
      @BloodNote Před 3 lety +12

      @@thisismetoday unnecessary how? 🙄 Get over yourself it's amazing what they chose to do as her doctor. Not many would actually do that. That takes a lot of of them too, having to switch to a different "character" to fit to one individual with multiple personalities.

  • @mansisrivastava5073
    @mansisrivastava5073 Před 3 lety +1240

    The daughter is just so so strong!

    • @kinndyedmond26
      @kinndyedmond26 Před 3 lety +29

      Yes, May God bless her and protect her Mother.🙏🙏🙏

    • @thisismetoday
      @thisismetoday Před 3 lety +28

      Not really! It's her normal. She said that multiple times. You seem to have a hard time understanding.
      Kim is the one that's strong. She developed a very smart system to deal with horrible long-lasting abuse!

    • @k.l.c._
      @k.l.c._ Před 3 lety +31

      @@thisismetoday they’re BOTH strong!!

    • @scorpiocara6798
      @scorpiocara6798 Před 2 lety +12

      I don't know about all that.....she really needs psychological help. You can tell she's clearly sad confused and traumatized. She needs help ASAP. She s clearly broke and has fallen apart

    • @mansisrivastava5073
      @mansisrivastava5073 Před 2 lety +15

      @@scorpiocara6798 I do agree. She needs someone who listens to her as well.

  • @brittneejane4013
    @brittneejane4013 Před 3 lety +488

    so sad that amiee has never met her actual mother kim, but it’s also great that most of the other personalities take care of her even if they don’t think she is theirs

    • @lucindayumikane8567
      @lucindayumikane8567 Před 2 lety +83

      I am not sure if her mother is Kim. From what l understand Kim disappeared when she was young and left her body to the other personalities. Her mother being Patricia, the main, or Bonny, the mother figure, is more possible.

    • @AubreyFaye
      @AubreyFaye Před 2 lety +53

      Kim justs seems to be the name of the body or system rather than an alter. Before Kim got the chance to form her own personality, the trauma broke the mind into different alters to protect itself.

    • @thisbeem2714
      @thisbeem2714 Před rokem

      She had another alter that did most of the parenting.

    • @Gizmo30
      @Gizmo30 Před rokem

      My thought exactly 😢😢

    • @thecognitivedissonant3606
      @thecognitivedissonant3606 Před měsícem

      When extreme abuse occurs before a child forms a core personality, there is not a host or core to "integrate" all back into one unified whole, and that's perfectly okay. These are incredibly smart, creative, strong people, who are spiritually gifted. And that's exactly why the luciferian brotherhood targets and uses them in such ways, to access their gifts. Bless them, every one of them

  • @nadalusiana
    @nadalusiana Před 3 lety +262

    It's just heartbreaking when another personality of Patricia said "it's my fault"....... "cause I took the sweet"
    It's so heartbreaking to see her blames her innocent kid spirit :'''''

    • @mariameere5807
      @mariameere5807 Před 3 lety +10

      That got me too, that bit!😥

    • @flor2479
      @flor2479 Před 2 lety +2

      True, it's heartbreaking

    • @xfueffi
      @xfueffi Před 2 lety +11

      They aren't other personalities of Patricia but personalities of the system Kim. Wanted to get that right, it's quite important

    • @poutinedream5066
      @poutinedream5066 Před 2 lety +4

      I thought that means the 12 yr old still blames herself?

  • @MissSarcasticBunny
    @MissSarcasticBunny Před 3 lety +556

    What's fascinating about Kim is the fact that each personality has their own artistic style and way of portraying themselves. Even her handwriting changes according to which personality is dominant at the time. Her paintings are very telling about the trauma she went through. They very much hint at ritual abuse of some sort with many different people involved which is disturbing to say the least. There doesn't seem to be much detail mentioned about her parents and childhood experiences - I've wondered a lot about that ever since I first saw Kim on the Oprah Show back when it first aired.

    • @lilme7052
      @lilme7052 Před 2 lety +13

      Its different cause they're different people and she's not spoken about her childhood cause it was obviously horrific.

    • @stephanieblanco7055
      @stephanieblanco7055 Před 2 lety +19

      The Vigilant Citizen wrote about her DID. He uncovers the symbolism in her artwork and it does indeed recount ritual abuse. The zapping she talks about is electroshock.

    • @rachelkania5833
      @rachelkania5833 Před 2 lety +3

      @@stephanieblanco7055 Who is the vigilant citizen and where did you read about this? I’m so curious

    • @mikkistar7568
      @mikkistar7568 Před 2 lety +11

      @@rachelkania5833 The vigilant citizen is a website, also has a book compiled of articles throughout the years. Let's just say it's a huge red pill. It really makes you question the elite/ government/ media and more. Very interesting, to me at least.

    • @rachelkania5833
      @rachelkania5833 Před 2 lety +3

      @@mikkistar7568 Thank you! I definitely want to look into this. It seems like something I’d find very interesting as well

  • @nabaninandi4140
    @nabaninandi4140 Před 3 lety +208

    Mother a beautiful creation....she loves her daughter even when she is suffering from disorder.

    • @johnbarry4251
      @johnbarry4251 Před 3 lety

      Hello, how are you, how is the weather over there, your profile looks really good, nice to meet you here🌹🌹🌹

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety

      Nabani , you might want to look at the thread by Mellaniy Swansong ... it is mind-blowing she had a parent with multiple personalities

    • @nabaninandi4140
      @nabaninandi4140 Před 2 lety

      @@johnbarry4251 I am an Indian...and whether is good here...

    • @Ojo10
      @Ojo10 Před rokem +1

      One of her most reclusive and quiet personalities anon, makes very dark paintings of a woman and child, it'll be black white and grey, but you get an overwhelming sense of love and tenderness from them. They're beautiful. It's beautiful how even this personality with so much darkness has an overwhelming sense of love and maternal protection for her child.

  • @tips_and_tricks_for_life100

    I met my ex in Saudi Arabia but he is Pakistani. We dated while living in different cities for three months, and while I felt something was a bit odd, I had never experienced DID and didn't realize that I was speaking to different people. By the time I did understand I was already in love. We were together for 2 years. As a psych major I was fascinated and wanted to "help" him. I identified 6 distinct personalities, but a psychiatrist eventually identified 15. He was the love of my life but I eventually left after one of the personalities threatened me with a knife to "protect" him. The person promised that I would die at some point. He had been brutally and repeatedly raped as a 7-year-old boy and his family blamed him. Leaving him was the hardest thing I have ever done.

    • @razorblade136
      @razorblade136 Před 2 lety +9

      So sorry you both went through this torture! We can only teach pychiatrists & therapists how to properly diagnose D I D

    • @tips_and_tricks_for_life100
      @tips_and_tricks_for_life100 Před 2 lety +3

      @@razorblade136 that is exactly what it is for both parties... torturous!

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety +1

      Andre , I am so sorry for both of you , wow ! Yes it's a shame there is a lot of child including male child ra pe in the mos lem countries .
      Have you considered writing a book about this ?
      Perhaps it would reach a lot of people and help them to be better able to recognize this disorder and the pain and suffering in others .
      It sounds like it definitely needs to be told and should be made into a movie ... or even a miniseries .

    • @tips_and_tricks_for_life100
      @tips_and_tricks_for_life100 Před 2 lety +5

      @@gardensofthegods Thanks for you message. I've actually written a book about my life. I was also sexually abused as a child but I handled it differently. I have included his story in my book. I am struggling to find a litetary agent, though.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety +2

      @@tips_and_tricks_for_life100 I'm sorry you went through all that , really .
      I am glad that you wrote your book .
      I used to know someone who was with Paige Press but no longer I'm in contact with her but she had said something more than once that she was not really happy with that company but I can't recall why ... I'm not sure if it's spelled that way or like a page from a book .
      You might want to know that the number one reason authors are not getting paid as much as they should is because Amazon books is really hurting them .
      I don't know if you know this , but some years back there were many authors signed something some sort of petition about it .
      Personally , I don't buy any books from Amazon and I have begged others not to because it's hurting the writers .
      I hope you find the right literary agent who looks out for your best interest .
      Good luck with your book and I hope it reaches a lot of people .

  • @karenmorente7589
    @karenmorente7589 Před 3 lety +259

    God bless all survivors of pain.

    • @TicaChica48
      @TicaChica48 Před 2 lety +6

      Thank You for your kind words.

    • @karenmorente7589
      @karenmorente7589 Před 2 lety +3

      @@TicaChica48 your welcome

    • @karenmorente7589
      @karenmorente7589 Před 2 lety +3

      @@TicaChica48 thankyou

    • @sarajones6046
      @sarajones6046 Před 2 lety

      There are no survivors of childhood abuse, unfortunately. Those that have essentially 'murdered' that child innocence need to be held accountable for their crimes.

  • @ASafePlacePH
    @ASafePlacePH Před 3 lety +480

    More full episode uploads please! This is exactly the kind of content we need these days.

    • @davidconnor4610
      @davidconnor4610 Před 3 lety +5

      Hello Sarah
      How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

    • @alexpham1698
      @alexpham1698 Před 2 lety +1

      Greetings my dear

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety +2

      Sarah , there is a woman who won a court case against her very abusive father when some of her 2500 personality spoke in court and he caved in and while in the courtroom decided to plead guilty .
      It's on the American version of Australia 60 MINUTES here on the tube .

  • @MetalHomestead
    @MetalHomestead Před 3 lety +65

    I still remember the day the Trudy Chase show first aired. I was in high school. I think I was around 15 years old, and it stopped me in my tracks. I stood in front of the television crying, unable to even walk to the couch. I intuitively knew that I had been disassociating, but It wasn’t until many, many years later that I was able to identify my own splits. Thank you, Oprah. You have been a consistent source of Life affirming work. And you have taken our hands and helped guide us through the wilderness. Other guests like Brené Brown, Eckhart Tolle, Reverend Michael, and so many more, have helped shed light into dark corners of consciousness. Together we expand. Together we rise. Forever grateful.

    • @geraldruiz2437
      @geraldruiz2437 Před 2 lety

      Hello Leela xx, How are you doing today? Its really nice having you on here.. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, God-fearing, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

    • @MetalHomestead
      @MetalHomestead Před 2 lety +1

      @@geraldruiz2437 Thank you.
      I don’t fear God.
      From my understanding, God is Love.
      May you find what you are seeking. 🙏🏼

    • @alexpham1698
      @alexpham1698 Před 2 lety

      Hello,greetings my dear

  • @MickeyGee73
    @MickeyGee73 Před 2 lety +121

    When Oprah first started telling Trudy's story I had shivers and my hairs stood up..I remember seeing this the first time when I was a teenager and it really effected me..I have struggled with dissociation in my life..nowhere to this extent and I didnt have a word for it back then..but I understood what these women were saying..

    • @ashleymarks3726
      @ashleymarks3726 Před rokem

      I'm surprised Truddi even had a child. the sheer violence in which she was sexually abused, I would have thought that any kind of sexual encounter would be a trigger for her. I couldn't imagine what that must have been like for her.

  • @bonhomie9
    @bonhomie9 Před 3 lety +316

    We have to do better in punishing people who cause so much mental trauma to a person to the point they break into so many pieces. It is no less an offense than murder. The only difference, the people affected with trauma have to live the rest of their lives in a damaged state. No one deserves a life like that.

    • @nataliegian
      @nataliegian Před 3 lety +2

      I disagree. Hurt people, hurt people. They need deep healing, not punishment because everything anyone does effects everyone on this planet.

    • @0blivvy8
      @0blivvy8 Před 3 lety +35

      @@nataliegian you think that sexual predators who prey on children, abuse them, in many cases for years, and cause them lifelong trauma shouldn't be punished?!

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Před 3 lety +11

      @@0blivvy8 I think what she's pointing out is that punishment alone isn't helpful. It would benefit society to understand how people get to the point of being capable of harming children in such horrific ways. The more we understand, the more we can do to help prevent abuse and provide better therapies for both the victim and perpetrator.

    • @rustynails8756
      @rustynails8756 Před 3 lety +14

      I would like to see us get better at rescuing the children. Yes the perpetrators need to be punished but that doesn't do much to help the child. No little one should experience such trauma

    • @taraji_b
      @taraji_b Před 2 lety +11

      @@rustynails8756 people rape children because they are depraved and sick, they should be executed. I don’t know what you mean by it doesn’t help the children, it would’ve helped me by ending it, never having to look over my shoulder for them, and by knowing that person never could hurt another kid again. Let’s be more firm in our convictions here and stand up for what is right and not treat monsters with the same soft touch as a wounded puppy. Some folks are just evil.

  • @bayleenicole2096
    @bayleenicole2096 Před 2 lety +113

    This poor woman suffering in her own mind. Her daughter is so amazing

  • @IAmQube
    @IAmQube Před 3 lety +162

    Her daughter is amazing. So young yet She’s strong as fk

  • @essmax373
    @essmax373 Před 3 lety +491

    Oh my god the art that begins att 22:35 is horrific. And when she said they are smiling and they find it funny my heart dropped. As well as when she said it's her fault because she took the sweets. That poor poor woman, it's not your fault. Some people in this world are so evil.

    • @nouf4847
      @nouf4847 Před 3 lety +8

      😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔

    • @patriciaazanderphd2540
      @patriciaazanderphd2540 Před 3 lety +4

      "The Gift" by Patricia A. Zander PhD.

    • @MetalHomestead
      @MetalHomestead Před 3 lety +45

      And yet, so many of us believed it was our fault because we took the sweets and didn’t fight. Grateful to now understand, that it was not, even remotely, our fault.

    • @aghoulinthewhould
      @aghoulinthewhould Před 3 lety +11

      There looked to be even a woman in the painting, assuming it to be her mother. 😭

    • @TicaChica48
      @TicaChica48 Před 2 lety +14

      @@MetalHomestead Because the people that are supposed to protect us, made us believe it was our fault. They were most likely abused as well.

  • @sofia-nd6xg
    @sofia-nd6xg Před 3 lety +97

    Coming from the short video where her therapists helps some of Kim’s personalities come out for an interview and seeing Dawn, who is stuck in 1997 when Aimee was born, saying she has a baby named Sky who was taking away is heartbreaking knowing that Sky could actually be Aimee, just not in Dawn’s mind, because Aimee was taken away by social workers as a baby :(. Stay strong Kim, you’re a might warrior and didn’t deserve to have Aimee taken away. Mentally ill people should be respected. Wishing Kim and Aimee so much love

  • @wonkydonkey8349
    @wonkydonkey8349 Před 3 lety +390

    daughters of mothers who were abused carry that ancestral trauma in their bones but we keep silent because it did not happen to us. but every single day we suffer and feel their pain and nobody will ever know - especially not our mothers....do you know what i mean sisters?

    • @centrifugalmuse
      @centrifugalmuse Před 3 lety +12

      I feel you ♥️

    • @wonkydonkey8349
      @wonkydonkey8349 Před 3 lety +4

      @@centrifugalmuse ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @slaphappybullet
      @slaphappybullet Před 3 lety +30

      Indeed it lasts generations. My mom was and is unstable, and substance abuse has been a theme in her life. She was not mentally or emotionally present for me and my sisters, my dad worked a lot, and unfortunately one of my sisters sought that affection through people who introduced her to drugs that eventually killed her.
      As for me, it lingers in keeping an emotional distance from people. My mom viewed everything as a threat, and sometimes that meant us as kids. From a very young age I learned how damaging it could be to feel a connection to a person who would not acknowledge it.
      The sexual abuse she suffered as a kid has permeated decades in so many ways. And because of that, I personally feel guilty for not being able to have a relationship with her, but I also know I can’t be the kid anymore wishing for her love. All that’s left is just sorrow for me and for her. And like you said, it’s not something she could ever understand even though she was the one who initially suffered.

    • @wonkydonkey8349
      @wonkydonkey8349 Před 3 lety +18

      @@slaphappybullet I am sorry to hear that darling. Can you trace trauma back further? To your grandmother for example? I actually trace it to the institution of marriage in my family and the 'importance' of staying married regardless of how abusive the other partner may be. At the end of the day my grandmother chose marriage and society over the wellbeing of her daughter (and herself) and held onto these unhealthy notions of what being a woman is: a martyr etc. just to pass it on to all of us. My family and extended family perpetuates the cycle over and over, with pain showing itself in detachment and the inability to communicate feelings, love or upset. My mum would not even touch me growing up. I know it's not her fault. But I am still damaged by it.

    • @lilafeldman8630
      @lilafeldman8630 Před 3 lety +3

      Amen. That's what Beloved was about.

  • @lillielou
    @lillielou Před 3 lety +88

    May Truddi Rest in Peace. And god bless Kim and Amy❤️

  • @mechellekantner6278
    @mechellekantner6278 Před 2 lety +20

    Its amazing how our brains work so hard to protect ourself. I wish I could take away her pain but I celebrate her as a strong woman and mother. Just awesome lady!

  • @classicarah
    @classicarah Před 3 lety +158

    Ritual abuse,that woman went through so much trauma.

  • @borgdrone1842
    @borgdrone1842 Před 3 lety +594

    I feel so bad for them. I myself know what it's like to have DID, but there were only 3 of us in my system. Me, Erik, the host, John, the protector, and Dylan, the caretaker. But John and Dylan are gone now because we've reintegrated. I'm finally whole again.
    Edit: I was in a bad car accident recently and have split again. I am no longer whole. I split off 2 alters. Dylan is back and exactly as he was before but with some of my characteristics. The other one is a brand new alter and his name is Michael. The 3 of us are trying to manage and communicate. It's easy for me and Dylan to talk but we have a hard time to talk to Micheal. We use a notebook to talk to him and explain what he is part of. I'm kind of happy that this happened but also kind of upset. But we are all doing ok so far.

    • @rosered103
      @rosered103 Před 3 lety +37

      Congratulations! Have a beautiful life.

    • @pipsyandmanoneki378
      @pipsyandmanoneki378 Před 3 lety +29

      That is massive! Best wishes for the future after what must have been a major journey.

    • @lyndemora290
      @lyndemora290 Před 3 lety +22

      I’m so happy for you! May the rest of your journey on this planet be filled with peace, love, & happiness. There’s no perfecly happy person in this world, but if there would be, I wish it to be you. You deserve the best!!! ♥️

    • @borgdrone1842
      @borgdrone1842 Před 3 lety +10

      @@lyndemora290 Thank you. I wish you the best as well.

    • @lyndemora290
      @lyndemora290 Před 3 lety +13

      @@borgdrone1842 Thank you so much, my brother in Christ. We have some EVIL and SICK people in this world. Many times I question my faith, but I do know that there HAS to be a higher power (God), whom will equalize all of this evil...all in due time. No matter what, I have your back. Wish I knew you personally, just to let you know that ppl care. I care. And you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Greetings & good vibes sent from New Orleans, La.

  • @lookalilcloser509
    @lookalilcloser509 Před 3 lety +103

    Trauma, pain and abuse.....can cause so much severe disorder in a persons mind. Unbelievable.

  • @jayden4606
    @jayden4606 Před 3 lety +96

    It's amazing how your story can set someone free! It takes courage and bravery! Sharing your story does not only brings hope and freedom to someone but also brings healing for yourself! I know this is an old episode, however, I hope the daughter is doing ok and has sought counseling for herself.

  • @unapologetictact6458
    @unapologetictact6458 Před 3 lety +114

    God Bless Oprah & her team for bringing these stories & human conditions to the fore at a time where literally no one was talking about them in the mainstream. ❤️

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety

      I did not watch this episode but you might want to look at a video about a woman with 2500 personalities here on the tube on the Australian version of 60 minutes ... I didn't watch all of that either but they definitely need to make a movie or a miniseries out of that

    • @hisloveiseternal1
      @hisloveiseternal1 Před 11 měsíci

      Oprah is part of the cult

    • @Sal-pl6im
      @Sal-pl6im Před měsícem

      “God bless Oprah??!?” Shes the devil in disguise. Don’t buy into her fake tv personality

  • @deborahjaneapperley1004
    @deborahjaneapperley1004 Před 3 lety +60

    Her paintings are beautiful.

  • @nivpcl7416
    @nivpcl7416 Před 3 lety +64

    was watching this today... and it made me realize that i, mourning the death of a part of my childhood being for months now, was normal... i thought i was crazy too... being sad and remembering me as a kid who was traumatized because of neglect and that kid in me died that time... i mourn him still... i feel validated...

    • @valpaden5869
      @valpaden5869 Před 3 lety +3

      💗

    • @chooseyourself4821
      @chooseyourself4821 Před 3 lety +5

      Sorry for your loss “

    • @nehitaabraham8780
      @nehitaabraham8780 Před 3 lety +3

      I can relate to that a 100%.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety

      I think you will be able to bring that child back if you can meet a real true Shaman from the Amazon or a Tibetan Buddhist Lama because they are about the only people out there who really know how to do what's called SOUL RETRIEVAL ... and only some of the lamas know how to do that .
      They believe that anytime we are traumatized that whoever you were and whatever age you were at that point in time sort of breaks off and is in a way lost out in space somehow .
      They know how to bring back to you the parts of you that have been sort of missing so that you are a whole integrated person again .
      Also I don't know if you meditate but I do feel meditation can help because it gives us control over our thoughts rather than our thoughts controlling us and helps to restore one's inner peace and balance .

  • @mellaniyswansong7135
    @mellaniyswansong7135 Před 2 lety +157

    My dad had multiple personalities. He was and amazing artist as well and drew his personalities. He called them James Gang. Jamsey was a little boy full of curiosity and scared sometimes. Would find Jamsey eating dog food on the floor or rolling around the floor sometimes. He was so sweet and gentle. Fast Forward was another one. Fast forward never sat still. Always busy getting things done in a hurried way. Had to always remind fast forward that my dad needed to eat and it was time for fast forward to let my dad come out to eat. There was a teenager boy who was super fun when I was a teen. We liked to go for drives and listen to rock music. We seemed to always get into use together. Another one of his personalities was an old man and another an older woman who liked being pretty and was nurturing. One of my dad’s personalities didn’t like me very much. Told me I was a goody tissues. Even as my dad was dying from COPD the personalities made themselves present. I feel blessed to have been raised by so many souls inside my dads head.

    • @milaberenchein2697
      @milaberenchein2697 Před 2 lety +16

      Thanks for sharing! I would never guessed that the child of such unstable person could feel happy! Glad that you did!

    • @rosilatrailera
      @rosilatrailera Před 2 lety +4

      I thought it was.... goody two shoes. (too strict on yourself....not loving yourself enough)

    • @rachelkania5833
      @rachelkania5833 Před 2 lety +5

      @@rosilatrailera goody tissues 🧻 lol 😂 But no, you’re right. It is goody two shoes
      👟👟

    • @poutinedream5066
      @poutinedream5066 Před 2 lety +7

      I was just wondering if that young girl like knows which one to hit up for money, or to get permission to go to a concert or take off school, the way kids play one parent against the other. Or if she does the classic- tell one the other one gave you permission and vice versa.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety +3

      Mellaniy , were you raised by your father alone or was your mother or someone else also involved ?
      With all those different personalities was your dad still able to support himself financially , or not ?
      The fact that you enjoyed his different personalities and that you have so many good memories does not sound like the typical story of dealing with a person with multiple personalities ; that's why I think you should , if you haven't already , write a very detailed book or novel about this .
      It definitely needs to be made into a movie or a miniseries ... and a good solid book about it would really help get that idea out there .
      I really hope you take this seriously because it just really seems the story needs to be told and it would be a wonderful way to pay tribute to your father .
      I'm confused about the boy who would sometimes eat dog food .
      Do you know who it was that abused him so much that he probably was forced to eat dog food instead of regular meals ?
      Would the personalities last long ... like the one that went with you on the long drives ... what would happen if let's say the scared little boy in him returned would you have to stop the drive and return home for him to feel safe ?
      Do you see what I'm saying ?
      Can you describe some more for us ?
      For example when was the first time you realized you were seeing a totally different personality in him ? How young were you ?
      Can you tell us more about the one that didn't like you too much ?
      I know I'm asking you all these questions because I just think what you told us is such an incredible story ... if this is told the right way I believe it would be a big hit , very memorable .

  • @mishelle6315
    @mishelle6315 Před 3 lety +111

    I have a friend who experienced much the same type of abuse that Truddi experienced from the same age, only she was sold to "the highest bidder" for sexual favors as well. She, too, coped by splitting into different personalities. What these women went through is horrifying.

    • @pollacksharman0147
      @pollacksharman0147 Před 3 lety +1

      How are you doing 😊👋☺️👋

    • @christar9527
      @christar9527 Před rokem

      It is definitely girls who are the victims of child sexual abuse and severe trauma. That’s why women have such a high incidence of DID.

    • @melissadadzie59
      @melissadadzie59 Před rokem +3

      I pray for everyone who has this!! God delivers from demon possession. “Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of the boy, and he was healed at that moment.”
      ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭17‬:‭18‬ ‭NIV‬‬
      Jesus did it for me! He will do it for you too🙏🙏🙏

    • @Annelie_perhonen5
      @Annelie_perhonen5 Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@melissadadzie59 I just wish God would not create these child abusers... 😰 So please pray God would stop creating them, maybe he listens to you😰

  • @melanieavent3747
    @melanieavent3747 Před 3 lety +194

    Her artwork is AMAZING!

  • @crystalrusmisel1832
    @crystalrusmisel1832 Před 3 lety +142

    I was abused as so many of us were. Sadly it happens way too often and it needs to stop!

    • @nataliegian
      @nataliegian Před 3 lety +1

      They actually attract it on a subconscious level. It's not by choice but the soul needs to experience it in order to hit rock bottom to allow the healing process to begin.

    • @GIGIBEP
      @GIGIBEP Před 3 lety +4

      Crystal u are a survivor, I'm glad u are alive❤

    • @ellewoods8055
      @ellewoods8055 Před 3 lety

      Ok Crystal, I am so sorry you endured abuse💜 what might you suggest we could do to make it stop! We could hog tie all abusers, most likely missing most. Then what?

    • @pollacksharman0147
      @pollacksharman0147 Před 3 lety

      @@ellewoods8055 Where are you from if i may ask?

    • @johnbarry4251
      @johnbarry4251 Před 3 lety +1

      Hello, how are you, how is the weather over there, your profile looks really good, nice to meet you here🌹🌹🌹

  • @lyndemora290
    @lyndemora290 Před 3 lety +72

    I admire this woman SO much!!! She paved the way (after Sybil on tv), for others to accept the Dx of DID as being REAL. I truly believe that ppl with DID have personalities that SAVED their lives!!! The mind does what it has to do, to protect itself. 🙌. God bless them ALL. ♥️

  • @charlescook5796
    @charlescook5796 Před 3 lety +61

    She's (they're) an amazing artist (s).

  • @triciahague6287
    @triciahague6287 Před rokem +5

    I have 96 identity, known I was different in elementary school age . So many times heard i was crazy, or had high imagination.
    My original person has died refuses to live so we take over for her

  • @Rachel_Jayne
    @Rachel_Jayne Před rokem +9

    When the personality Reah Pratt came out to talk and show her paintings it felt like I was hit like a bolt of lightning. Those look like the paintings that were a part of the Pizza gate conspiracy!!

    • @jd8407
      @jd8407 Před rokem +4

      Yes they are the same ones
      I realized that too.

  • @rocky-kf1dr
    @rocky-kf1dr Před 2 lety +10

    i am currently studying psychology. and day by day i realize how much our childhood affect our life as a whole.

  • @upwherethesundontshine5602
    @upwherethesundontshine5602 Před 2 lety +23

    What a beautiful way to destigmatize abuse and mental illness. Such a gentle way to see it. Well done. Touching.

  • @catherinemontblanc1430
    @catherinemontblanc1430 Před 2 lety +40

    I was abused by several adults I trusted as q child and a few others my family trusted... I some times felt like having several personalities living within my mind... I still do, but I have been able to live a fairly “normal “ life... most of those who abused me have now died and with the help of therapy I have been able to learn that I am a victim and not to blame myself

    • @alexpham1698
      @alexpham1698 Před 2 lety

      Hello,greetings my dear

    • @hhgggchjhf4714
      @hhgggchjhf4714 Před 2 lety

      Were you under the age of 5? And was it repetetive?

    • @kiararodriguez8423
      @kiararodriguez8423 Před 2 lety

      Stop playing victim card

    • @Flowerbelle-qk9qp
      @Flowerbelle-qk9qp Před 2 lety +2

      I’m proud of you. It’s not easy to heal and forgive yourself. That is amazing and i hope you have a good life.

    • @mamacoco7122
      @mamacoco7122 Před 2 lety +3

      I hope the abusers are in hell

  • @lauram8554
    @lauram8554 Před 3 lety +58

    God Bless this mother and daughter. Very moving bond

    • @bambino9235
      @bambino9235 Před 2 lety

      You can't seriously be saying god bless on a video where child sexual abuse is one of the main themes? What a thoughtless and silly thing to say- Have some respect.

    • @yellowdiamonddoesntapprove6632
      @yellowdiamonddoesntapprove6632 Před rokem

      @@bambino9235 triggered

    • @bambino9235
      @bambino9235 Před rokem

      @@yellowdiamonddoesntapprove6632 If you're *not* triggered by people being so disgustingly callous, there's something quite wrong with you

    • @yellowdiamonddoesntapprove6632
      @yellowdiamonddoesntapprove6632 Před rokem +2

      @@bambino9235Laura m was just giving her blessings to the mother and daughter that have been through hell. Get a life.

    • @bambino9235
      @bambino9235 Před rokem

      @@yellowdiamonddoesntapprove6632 Exactly- It's disgusting. To imply there's a god that would bless them now after allowing them to go through it is such a kick in the teeth and shows an utter lack of compassion and respect. Get some empathy.

  • @abtransmissions6639
    @abtransmissions6639 Před 2 lety +37

    Erin is 1000% right... we teach these children drills.. but never what to do when being abused... 9 out of 10 times it's swept under the rug... more people need to fight for childrens voices.. because theirs are not developed yet

  • @sashagarcia6205
    @sashagarcia6205 Před 2 lety +47

    love the relationship she has w her daughter so sweet may God bless them both ❤️

  • @TheNewsJenorator
    @TheNewsJenorator Před rokem +5

    I deal with DID. So many of us. Powerful. Thanks Opra…… I’m breaking my silence… hard

  • @magpiesmith971
    @magpiesmith971 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’ll never forget Trudy…she left a lasting impact on me with her story 😕.

  • @allie54774
    @allie54774 Před rokem +6

    "Don't take the sweets" made me go cold. Its terrifying to think what might go on 😔

  • @davidblanco6281
    @davidblanco6281 Před 3 lety +76

    More full episodes from the 80's, 90's, 2000s & 2010s, please!

    • @justineharper3346
      @justineharper3346 Před 3 lety +2

      I second this

    • @jonellechristopher3209
      @jonellechristopher3209 Před 2 lety

      So all of them 😂

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety

      You might want to see the woman with the 2,500 personalities on the Australian version of 60 MINUTES here on the tube .
      She actually went to court against her abusive father and with the help of all her personalities was able to win because he actually caved in during court and decided to plead guilty .
      It's an extraordinary story but I didn't watch all of it because it was just too much and I didn't watch this either I just came here to comment for people who might want to see about the woman with the 2500 personalities .

  • @myfriendisaac
    @myfriendisaac Před 3 lety +47

    LOVE these old uploads 💯

  • @cadavher
    @cadavher Před 2 lety +104

    The photo at 23:29.... has me in tears. So does the ones after that. Hearing about it is one thing, seeing a visual of it really drives it home. I'll never understand how adults can do sick things to kids, I understand their brains are wired wrong and it's been medically shown, but I can't get past the knowing it's wrong and still doing it. I think everyone should be screened, and if they have that bad brain wiring, they should be sent to a isolated place away from children. Somewhere they can never ever have access to them!! Even the knowledge that SA preds and flashers get let out of prison just to be put back into populations where sure, they can't be around schools and such, they still could go near kids, it's wrong!! The damage these people do is incomprehensible. Here I am blabbering away, but I just get so upset over this issue. I feel like since they can for the most part identify people who see kids in a devious manner, they should be easily able to keep them away!! If anything even screening adults who want to adopt children should be bare minimum, the amount of people who foster and adopt for easy targets and access and get away with it is just, ugh. It's even worse knowing I can't do anything to help or change things.

    • @MithrilMagic
      @MithrilMagic Před 2 lety +18

      I completely agree. I did social work for 15 years. I saw HORRIBLE things. It’s in every corner of the world and sadly, it is in some very affluent households. SA, physical, mental, emotional abuse and neglect does not discriminate. I am infertile and my husband and I plan to foster to adopt. We are required to have multiple home visits, general first aid/cpr training, multiple parenting classes, financial and background screenings and we must write essays on why we want to be parents and have personal and professional references. We have no problem doing any of this. Unfortunately, most of the abuse cases I saw over my years of experience were children being abused by their blood family members (many were parents, grandparents and siblings) and also friends of family members. The absolute WORSE part of my job was after removing a child or children from an abusive environment and settling them in a new, safe situation, the biological mother (if not charged and sentenced to time in prison) would end up having more children, who would also go on to be abused. I believe, if you have a child in the system, or have had a child in the system and have an open case, you should be required to go through the same parenting classes and process as adoptive parents must go through AND you must take a competency exam. Children are the most precious things in the world. Being a parent is a privilege not a right. And if everyone suffered with infertility the way I have, including 7 miscarriages, they would know that. They must be protected.

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety

      @@MithrilMagic CL there are a lot of women who were able to CONCEIVE after trying an inexpensive powder from a plant that has been used in and around India for thousands of years literally .
      Its called SHATAVARI ( wild asparagus root ) and a number of women were able to have a baby after using it and this was after they had tried fertility clinics which didn't work and gave up .
      It's very inexpensive ; you can buy it at most Indian grocers ... I think I paid about $5 ... of course if you get it online you might pay more and there's a number of videos here about it .
      I read that the best quality is more of a yellowish color but I haven't only seen it in a dark White .
      Over time it slowly reverses or prevents aging by working on the deepest layers of the skin and slowly working its way outward .
      It works by PURIFYING the various fluids in the body including the REPRODUCTIVE system .
      You're supposed to take it with a high-quality fat like milk and also some ghee added to it .
      And I read you're also supposed to take it with ashwagandha which is also very good for you and is an adaptogen that helps get rid of depression and negativity , and helps you sleep better at night .
      You will see people who have not done their research give wrong information about it , for example women saying it increases the estrogen (which it does not ) and you will also see men saying ashwagandha increases the testosterone ( which it does not )
      What these to do is they BALANCE the HORMONES .
      You might want to look into this and give it a try .
      You could end up conceiving a child ... please look at the various videos .

    • @r.achel044
      @r.achel044 Před rokem

      what's worse is this art is displayed in a family restaurant

    • @zeenasaleh7775
      @zeenasaleh7775 Před rokem +1

      what does the photo express?

    • @noraoros9974
      @noraoros9974 Před 10 měsíci

      It is very telling

  • @MxRoJoel
    @MxRoJoel Před 2 lety +5

    Oprah is so respectful.

  • @kristinadalcour1152
    @kristinadalcour1152 Před 3 lety +16

    Thank You for sharing these uploads now. I absolutely appreciate you ❤️I hope everyone dealing with DID gets the help and recognition this recognition this disease requires it’s absolutely heartbreaking. 🙏😢

    • @davidconnor4610
      @davidconnor4610 Před 3 lety +1

      Hello 👋
      How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

  • @stevi1619
    @stevi1619 Před 2 lety +18

    The human soul fight for survival it’s amazing and profound to me.

    • @deejai1173
      @deejai1173 Před 2 lety

      Yea but that could be tiresome

  • @kpre9874
    @kpre9874 Před rokem +12

    My heart hurts for daughter when the personality voice she wish she had a daughter & daughter is screaming inside I'm your daughter but tears is all she can express.💔 😞 😢
    I love to see Trudi daughter ❤️💕 . The story of the lady in Reno becoming motivated to become a social worker after seeing Trudi was moving as well. Miss you Oprah

  • @PoliticalJunky101
    @PoliticalJunky101 Před rokem +6

    This disorder absolutely blows my mind. It’s so hard to understand why this happens? Absolutely fascinating! Thank you for posting.

    • @sr2291
      @sr2291 Před rokem +1

      When severe trauma happens the person can't face it and an alter personality takes over for them to protect them.

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady Před rokem

      21:40 it’s explained in the video

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady Před rokem

      26:25 explains again

  • @0404Amanda
    @0404Amanda Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you for this. The world needs to see and hear our stories.

  • @tickledpnk85
    @tickledpnk85 Před 3 lety +53

    I hadn’t realized I was abused until I watched this show, mine was a teenage boy, I was 7 yrs old RIP Trudy✝️❤️💜😇

    • @momdiddy623
      @momdiddy623 Před 2 lety +4

      Sorry for your pain.

    • @kristinalopz1623
      @kristinalopz1623 Před 2 lety +1

      Phony, you need to stop ✋ Really.

    • @raea3588
      @raea3588 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm so sorry! You didn't deserve that ❤‍🩹

  • @victoriaacmiller6797
    @victoriaacmiller6797 Před 2 lety +20

    My heart goes out to both mother and daughter ❤️❤️

  • @alli13941
    @alli13941 Před 2 lety +18

    All of her personalities are amazing artists!!!

  • @rantsandfaves
    @rantsandfaves Před 3 lety +193

    We need this show now more than ever. I swear sometimes I feel like the world got worse after the Oprah show ended.

    • @sharonjackson268
      @sharonjackson268 Před 3 lety +17

      It's not like Oprah was a positive influential role model.

    • @annzeeg4217
      @annzeeg4217 Před 3 lety +10

      @@sharonjackson268 adults shouldn't need role models. 🙄

    • @ritadepeeves
      @ritadepeeves Před 3 lety +2

      Little dramatic but... Ok

    • @krjdallas
      @krjdallas Před 2 lety +2

      The world has always been difficult, and ugly, and awful....no matter what was on tv...it's just the kind of comfort the show gave people, a daily dose of positivity, a warmth, and even when the topics were rough or sad...it gave hope that those issues were being discussed, and maybe some solutions were on the table. The world didn't get worse since Oprah left, it just lost a little bit hope, joy, and caring. I understand what you meant, it wasn't Oprah that made the world better, she just brightened your days, so you could endure, and that lil bit of positivity made the world seem better. Go out and spread some Oprah energy around. We could all use it. I wish you well, wherever you are.

    • @Musset911
      @Musset911 Před 2 lety

      @@sharonjackson268 to a certain extent, I believe your comment probably means she had fail some people’s expectations but should I remind you that this is her live and she’s obviously not on earth to please everyone. Personally, I’ve heard a lot about her, not a fan, have watched a few of her interviews only but I think she’s been very brave and bold numerous times. I’ve watched the interview with the extremist racist white guys and respect her reactions being myself black - I would have burst out of anger if I were put in her shoes. This interview as well tell me how courageous she was as she probably was living her own childhood trauma all along the interview and filming; she apparently realized to which extent the trauma to her mind could have gone… but still she’s there speaking genuinely, listening, not trying to “sell” her own story and steal the limelight… huge respect for her!

  • @ChelleStamps
    @ChelleStamps Před 2 lety +17

    This is so tragic and beautiful at the same time. I'm glad her daughter seems to be well-adjusted. She's lucky in some ways to have many friends in her mother. But, it would probably be better to have a real and present mother.

    • @brooklynsizemore2372
      @brooklynsizemore2372 Před 2 lety +3

      Well, Aimee is (i think) 23 now and has a law degree! And while it probably would be better to have a mother who doesn't have DID, Kim is who she had been given and I think she is really lucky to have such a caring mother.

  • @karenleavens7656
    @karenleavens7656 Před rokem +7

    What I see is that both of these people are doing their best to cope with what life has handed them. That is the beauty of humanity. We adjust and cope with what we are presented with. Her daughter is amazing. She will be fine. She will have a great understanding. This is an amazing story of survival. Life is hard. Hang in there, everyone.

  • @juliecolemannelson6849
    @juliecolemannelson6849 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Shes a great artist

  • @susiejohnson6988
    @susiejohnson6988 Před 2 lety +3

    As a licensed nurse with a much compassion with acknowledged of the love everyone is in much need
    Of, also a previous Crisis On call nurse…

  • @sageflower2680
    @sageflower2680 Před 2 lety +4

    I have worked with people who are multiples. These are amazing people. The brain IS the final frontier.

  • @katelynpetrovich3073
    @katelynpetrovich3073 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Poor Baby, my heart sunk when she started crying.

  • @anitatsourmas6149
    @anitatsourmas6149 Před 3 lety +14

    Look at what happens when children are abused. If you're an abuser, in any way, the pain, agony, and turmoil you might be responsible for is beyond despicable. If you're an abuser, stop. Get help now. I wanted to use stronger words but it says to be respectful.

  • @nightperuser
    @nightperuser Před rokem +4

    All very powerful and painful. How dare a person inflict this lifetime of damage on a child - it makes me sick to the pit of my stomach. This is Oprah at her best

  • @BauchNessMonster
    @BauchNessMonster Před 2 lety +7

    Erin should be a news broadcaster she’s got a confidence and voice that is strong and powerful she gets her point across and is quit convicting and convincing
    Bravo Erin
    BEING THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE
    USING YOUR Pain to help others

  • @virginiasanchis1717
    @virginiasanchis1717 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I remember seeing the show 20 yrs ago. This subject is fascinating. Thanks to Oprah for educating everyone

  • @kevinmantu
    @kevinmantu Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you for your amazing work, Oprah❤❤❤

  • @godsdoll3557
    @godsdoll3557 Před 3 lety +11

    Really enjoyed😊 and even helped me to understand someone suffering from different personalities💓 he is not aware but he has them.

  • @tavern2468
    @tavern2468 Před 2 lety +9

    I knew I recognized those portraits. The podesta brothers LOVE Kim nobels art. You can look into that rabbit whole for yourself.

  • @elleesse9052
    @elleesse9052 Před 3 lety +45

    If only people would believe children!

  • @jennifermiller7813
    @jennifermiller7813 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I love that I can see these shows you did on CZcams. Thanks for making them available

  • @FilipinoRecipesbyAyeng
    @FilipinoRecipesbyAyeng Před 2 lety +3

    There should be another Oprah Show to teach and inspire today's new generation.

  • @xylophone1212
    @xylophone1212 Před 3 lety +46

    Kim Noble did a more recent interview with Vice (2018). It’s on CZcams.

    • @alexpham1698
      @alexpham1698 Před 2 lety

      Greetings my dear

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety +1

      Nancy there's actually a woman out there with 2,500 personalities and you can see that here on the tube on the Australian version of 60 MINUTES

  • @TheMyra98
    @TheMyra98 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I can't stop crying i feel so angry they're so strong 😭

  • @jamiepowers3978
    @jamiepowers3978 Před 2 lety +1

    love your courageous and brave, thank you Erin for coming up with Erin’s Law,

  • @faletoomata8695
    @faletoomata8695 Před 2 lety +4

    Far out, that was really deep. I learnt so much from that one episode. Thank you

  • @Flowerbelle-qk9qp
    @Flowerbelle-qk9qp Před 2 lety +5

    Erin is a superstar. So are Trudy and Kim. What brave people.

  • @rosemaryt.hurlburt2695
    @rosemaryt.hurlburt2695 Před 3 lety +2

    thanks so much for sharing

  • @Iam-vr3po
    @Iam-vr3po Před 3 lety +76

    I think it's unfair to put all this on the Daughter, she should have a relationship with her Mum but not have to be involved so heavily with what's happened to her Mum, like someone else said she could visit but needs a stable happy life.

    • @theuglycanadian
      @theuglycanadian Před 3 lety +15

      There's a vice video with an update and the daughter is in it. She seems well. But yes her life must've been complicated.

    • @NajSinghs
      @NajSinghs Před 2 lety +3

      I agree, key.

  • @jamieredmond9656
    @jamieredmond9656 Před 3 lety +14

    how awesome this show was. thank you to those who stand up and help!

  • @shellc6743
    @shellc6743 Před 3 lety +51

    This is when Oprah was at her best .... sorry to see how much she has changed.

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Před 3 lety +13

      She was actually mostly respectful in this one. Sadly, that wasn't usually the case. I was surprised to see her cry because I hadn't ever seen her show empathy, but then she explained that she had been thinking about herself and her own experiences...and then it made sense.

  • @trishasphoto
    @trishasphoto Před 5 dny

    My mother had 2-4 PERSONALITIES that showed. I am writing a book on it. I admire these who have embraced it and to help others. Unfortunately my mom was cruel and very scared , rejected any kind of help.

  • @covetsuns
    @covetsuns Před 2 lety +7

    To anyone who wishes to have DID, here is why you SHOULDN'T want to have DID.
    When we are children, we have yet to develop a fully integrated identity. We are all born with several "ego states" so when severe or repeated trauma happens before the ages 6-9 (when the child's mind starts to fully develop), with no support given to cope with the trauma, these ego states fail to merge into one distinct identity, thus creating amnesia barriers in between so that the "host" can go on living without the memory of the trauma. The trauma they went through as a child before the ages 6-9 was so traumatic to the point the mind goes "nope, I can't do this, I cannot cope, I cannot survive, I think I'm gonna die" and thus splits into several alternate state of consciousness. This is how people with DID survive. This is our coping mechanism.
    So, please, I urge you, not to feel envious of people who had to experience horrendous things happening to them as a CHILD. It's not always a party, it's not something to romanticise having.

  • @Sqsq909
    @Sqsq909 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I can’t believe social services tried to take her kid! Truly devious

  • @minamina-nu5qk
    @minamina-nu5qk Před 2 lety +4

    Her daughter so beautiful

  • @user-kb7cb6fi3n
    @user-kb7cb6fi3n Před 14 dny

    😮Thank you for helping us understand more about what can happen because of abuse.

  • @sundance81677
    @sundance81677 Před 2 lety +1

    The strength and courage it took for those ladies. Including Trudy to lay themselves bare on nationwide tv.

  • @laurieb.9555
    @laurieb.9555 Před rokem +4

    The daughter was cracking upwhen ken said he's not a transvestite...😂😂😂

  • @sarahamiracle
    @sarahamiracle Před 2 lety +4

    29:49 You can't dump that much on a human being and not expect to lose something

  • @cess6281
    @cess6281 Před 3 lety +19

    the paintings are great tho but knowing the reason behind it is so sad :

  • @francinelaurin7779
    @francinelaurin7779 Před 3 lety +38

    I must take a break ..too painful to continue ..am at beginning of video ..another day perhaps ..moi😢

    • @FeistyGES
      @FeistyGES Před 3 lety +5

      Hugs to you, you will be all right.❤️😘

    • @jasminerogers5756
      @jasminerogers5756 Před 3 lety +1

      🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

    • @gardensofthegods
      @gardensofthegods Před 2 lety

      Francine I don't know if this is painful for you because of your own experiences and memories or if it's just that you have a lot of compassion four others but either way I wish you well , my dear .
      I didn't watch it either I only read the comments .
      Sometimes we cannot deal with watching pain and suffering if we are going through what's called The Dark Night of the Soul because it just makes everything seem magnified and more painful for us .

  • @candymel3
    @candymel3 Před 3 lety +14

    My heart aches for them both i can't imagine the horror she went through

  • @tbrownflee3124
    @tbrownflee3124 Před 3 lety +35

    wait...the subtle eyeroll at 21:16 from oprah....like she wanted the daughter to hate her mom? That daughter loves her mom and has accepted her for who she/he is. that is loyalty and love. I also love in the beginning how the mom fought for her daughter, to keep her, and made sure to get the help she needed, and pulled it off. She loves her child so much! Its not her fault she has this disorder! And social services stressed her out further, taking away the nurturing Bonny personality her daughter needed. I think shes a great mom with a huge heart and lots of talent. I feel sorry for the whole situation, but I love her strength to carry on. And I am so happy she has therapists who help her and her daughter get through it together. The mother obviously went through some trauma to have developed this, its like a coping mechanism, to escape the abuse, you detach from yourself in order to survive. I feel so so sorry for the mom that she was abused by sick perverts! She said they bribed her with candy, and zapped her. What sick evil people! They blurred out the painting of what they had done to her. So sad, I could only imagine her pain as a 12 year old girl going through that alone, no one to turn to. Theres a novel, a VERY sad novel I warn you, but with a positive ending. They made a movie on it too called Sybil played by Sally Field about a girl who was sexually abused by her own mom as a child and developed multiple personalities then, but she got help as she got older and I think a lot of her personalities dropped off then. There is a chance with the right therapy all of the extra personalities could go away for good, its just patching up the trauma. There is always hope in everything.

    • @Beeboop7
      @Beeboop7 Před 3 lety +11

      Omg I thought I was the only one who caught that eye roll, she's fake asf

    • @meganhood828
      @meganhood828 Před 2 lety +6

      the eye roll was clearly because she had to cut for a commercial

    • @hollywisconsin
      @hollywisconsin Před rokem

      it seems like Oprah flips through personalities.

    • @janninediovisalvo-sciano2836
      @janninediovisalvo-sciano2836 Před rokem

      Actually, i too had read the book & watched movie of "Sybil". It's actually been confirmed that it was a convoluted notion, due to the pressure of the psychiatrist, which triggered 'Sybil' to have false memory syndrome. Before Sybil went to see the Dr., doctor's focus of study & dissertation was on MPD, & was actively seeking any said patient who had MPD, who would have the disorder. So, through drugs, etc. & which had become a pseudo mother/daughter inappropriate relationship, the notes were discovered & the story basically fell apart, & had no truth to it. It's quite interesting, if you ever want to research what they know about that story in the millennium. Thanks.

    • @fairymangafanfairytail6644
      @fairymangafanfairytail6644 Před 3 měsíci

      It's an old thread but I want to clarify for people who might still stumble across this comment. In 'Sybil' movie the alters ( which is the modern term for 'personalities' ) integrated back into a whole person. Now we know it is not always the case and not necessarily a realistic goal to strive for. While there are as many forms of Dissociative Identity Disorder ( modern term for 'Multiple Personalities Disorder ) as there are people with it, integration back to a singleton personality is still an exception rather than the norm.
      It is also not always the 'original' person being the host ( term used for the alter being the most in the body, in this case Patricia ). The 'original' often go dormant ( dormant as in will not wake again, but just in case we don't say de*d ). It irked me the host of this show kept referring to Patricia as Kim, since Kim is just the body's birth name.
      Added fact, it has been scientifically proven as well that each alter use the brain differently, as well as others more noticeable external differences. It is now not considered an illness. You can search up those articles yourselves with internet!

  • @alivemniki3896
    @alivemniki3896 Před 2 lety +1

    This art is so profoundly deep.

  • @aseelaadossery3378
    @aseelaadossery3378 Před 2 lety +3

    These people are heroes 👑💖

  • @sassystaceyadoptee
    @sassystaceyadoptee Před 3 lety +12

    Her ART is AMAZING 👏.... Soooooooo much talent 👏.... I'm floored the core of my Soul.... She needs to bring that ARTISTIC style to NEW YORKERS...
    Impressive....
    Bitter Sweet ... Trauma comes to Humans by different roots... I believe within our HUMANITY we are capable too feel that EMOTIONAL PAIN with the deepest EMPATHY.... Thank You

    • @pollacksharman0147
      @pollacksharman0147 Před 3 lety +1

      How are you doing 😊☺️👋☺️

    • @johnbarry4251
      @johnbarry4251 Před 3 lety

      Hello, how are you, how is the weather over there, your profile looks really good, nice to meet you here🌹🌹🌹

    • @alexpham1698
      @alexpham1698 Před 2 lety

      Hello,greetings my dear

  • @emmawasden6817
    @emmawasden6817 Před 3 lety +29

    If you notice,when they ask you if you are in an abusive relationship,your partner is right there listening to every word!! What San person is gonna say yes in front of their abuser?!!!!!

  • @libbyburns966
    @libbyburns966 Před měsícem

    Wow so powerful ✊
    Thank you thank you thank you ❤

  • @amber_love5
    @amber_love5 Před 2 lety +2

    All of them were extraordinary women beautiful they were good good-hearted loving that's all that matters it is sad that they were hurt The Way They Were