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  • @lillsjul
    @lillsjul Před 7 lety +98

    Charlotte was very lucky to have you for a mother.

  • @missbliss7514
    @missbliss7514 Před 7 lety +257

    You're a good mum. So loving and caring. I have stage 4 breast cancer, diagnosed at age 27 & my family has never gone to one scan or doctor appointment. She was so lucky to have you. Rest in peace Charlotte.

    • @shoot4thstars
      @shoot4thstars Před 6 lety +24

      Miss Bliss I hope you got through your trial. I have multiple chronic illness & understand how it it's to have barely there family:(

    • @rebeccacompton1634
      @rebeccacompton1634 Před 6 lety +14

      Oh poor you, I hope you are doing ok now! I wish I could come with you! You are in my thoughts xx

    • @blackangel6003
      @blackangel6003 Před 5 lety +10

      shoot4thstars and miss bliss - hoping your family would support you more and be there for you. In their absence may God be your comfort and companion

    • @mrspaghetti7461
      @mrspaghetti7461 Před 5 lety +16

      Miss Bliss I’m so sorry you didn’t get support from those that society tells us we should count on. It often isn’t the case. I know.
      Since your post on here you are in my thoughts and many others’ too. X

    • @lilyfurley9833
      @lilyfurley9833 Před 4 lety +13

      miss bliss if youre still with us as stage 4 is 3 years life expectancy i hope you make it past it

  • @uncletony8172
    @uncletony8172 Před 9 měsíci +7

    It must be so horrible knowing that there is no hope and that your child's condition is only going to worsen and worsen until the end. I cannot imagine the pain and suffering you went through, not to mention the poor Charlotte and the rest of the family of course. Life is so cruel and unfair. There is just nothing that can be said or done to alleviate the pain. There are things in life that are beyond our control and against which we are helpless. My father died of cholangiocarcinoma, a rare bile duct cancer, in 2013, 18 months after he was diagnosed. He knew from the beginning that he was going to die, and that chemo was just palliative. But to protect me, he made me believe until his last days that there was hope. I was 23 at the time and it made things much easier for me. I hope Charlotte is an angel know, in a place where she can experience a joyful and painfree existence. I hope you and the rest of the family can cope with the loss of Charlotte and live full lives. One lesson we learn when we face the nightmare of illness is that life and health is so precious and fragile. Each day on earth is a life of its own, and we should make the most out of it and enjoy every breath we take.

  • @stewartclutterbuck1495
    @stewartclutterbuck1495 Před 7 lety +154

    No parent should see their child fade away like this, an absolute horrendous horrendous disease. No words can comfort the hurt you have inside. I just hope some day that your heart mends and you can make sense of this mess. Best wishes to you & family x

  • @sillyoldvegan2591
    @sillyoldvegan2591 Před 6 lety +83

    I like to think Charlotte and my daughter, Abigail, are friends in heaven. Abbie died of a GBM June 2013, she was 24. I am so sorry you lost your beloved daughter, Charlotte!

    • @neonglass3603
      @neonglass3603 Před 6 lety +3

      Sillyoldvegan in near death experiences they say that the feelings we have towards other beings up there is more like a brother and sister/sibling love.

    • @DarthKater311
      @DarthKater311 Před 5 lety +1

      :(

  • @tcw7471
    @tcw7471 Před 5 lety +7

    I lost my 18yo not long ago from an unknown medical condition until 11days before he died, 8wks before graduating hs. SO many hopes and dreams gone overnight. His school asked if I'd wanted to accept his diploma in front of his graduating class. The hardest thing, over 400 HS students crying! He was my baby, my handsome young man Barely ready for life and gone. We are BLESSED!! I thank God for the time given me, some parents had much shorter. I know when my time comes he will be there, with my parents, in heaven to welcome me. No more goodbyes

  • @CNQRv3
    @CNQRv3 Před 7 lety +150

    What DO you talk about when your child is dying? That struck a chord with me and I know what you mean. The finality of it hits home. I'm so deeply sorry for your family Alex. So, so horrific. Xx

    • @littlezit2
      @littlezit2 Před 5 lety +11

      I dont know, nobody does. The whole thing is horrifying beyond words !!! Such a lovely and pretty girl, infact it angers me. Take me, instead of her is how I feel. I'm 40+ and made so many mistakes, that she would not have.

  • @MrFlazz99
    @MrFlazz99 Před 6 lety +25

    I lost my best friend to cancer 10 years ago. He was mid-30s, married with children and an all-round great bloke. Even a decade on, it hurts to think about it. Cancer is too awful for words. Charlotte was clearly determined to face it head-on, as was my friend. Their legacy is amazing. I wish that he could see how his children have grown and what an absolute inspiration their mother has been over the past decade. Selfishly, I wish I could have a chat with him from time to time. It's the little things one misses the most.

  • @BB-ny3eu
    @BB-ny3eu Před 7 lety +72

    Oh Alex this is heartbreaking , so so so wish things where different 😰

  • @joanneantoniak7760
    @joanneantoniak7760 Před rokem +2

    Your message is still getting out. Rest in peace Charlotte ❤

  • @boostmeup
    @boostmeup Před 6 lety +31

    I have been recently diagnosed with a brain tumour. I am in tears watching this.

    • @alexeades8246
      @alexeades8246 Před 6 lety +17

      You are certainly in Miles and I's thoughts. There is always hope; do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Our site www.charlottesbag.com is dedicated to funding research into Glioblastoma. This does not mean, however, that we are unable to provide support for you. If you do wish to contact us, there is a contact button located on our website. We wish you all the very best.

    • @juliab4580
      @juliab4580 Před 6 lety +3

      boostmeup stay strong!!!

    • @janeokeeffe5297
      @janeokeeffe5297 Před 6 lety +1

      Sending love and hugs

    • @amberlimbaugh
      @amberlimbaugh Před 6 lety +1

      boostmeup Praying you are doing ok. ❤️

    • @anon6111
      @anon6111 Před 6 lety +6

      I also have. It is 10mm on my frontal temporal lobe. It is so scary. You are not the only one who is scared. But I try not to dwell on it. I get daily painful headaches. But the tumor is benign which I'm thankful for I guess. But I am still in the process of finding a good doctor. You need to go with your gut. Doctors kept telling me it was nothing, well look I have a tumor. So there is something to worry for. Get a second opinion if you have to. That's my next step. Good luck to you! I hope you are painfree and get the answers you need.

  • @_sapphic
    @_sapphic Před 6 lety +33

    I've only now (Jan 31st 2018) stumbled across Charlotte's page. I've spent the last hour watching the videos with tears running down my face. I am so very sorry for your loss. Charlotte, you were taken too soon. You were so strong and brave and carried on no matter what. Even in the end, you were so brave. Bless you sweet girl. I would have loved to have been your friend.. if only I had found your channel sooner. I pray that where you are you feel 200% and you're healthy and painless. May you rest in total peace. For you, her family, I pray for you as well. Your daughter/sister was beautiful and absolutely amazing from what I can tell by her videos. I hope you read this. I love you that you continue her channel posting stories. Thank you and bless you all.

    • @JustThatLauren
      @JustThatLauren Před 6 lety +2

      Corinne Burrows I feel the same. She was so sweet and lovely. I wish I could have been her friend. I would be blessed to have such a wonderful person in my life.

  • @lks6248
    @lks6248 Před 4 lety +13

    I have just lost my 22 year old son and I am devastated. I am thankful though that he fell asleep and never woke up. I cannot imagine the pain that goes with such a dreadful disease as this. God bless.

  • @kali3354
    @kali3354 Před 6 lety +13

    I haven't sobbed this hard for so long oh my god I am so grateful to be healthy...

  • @MrJohnnyBQuick
    @MrJohnnyBQuick Před 7 lety +34

    Very sad especially the part about the champagne bottle. It's just a tragedy all round.

  • @thomasthetankengin7722
    @thomasthetankengin7722 Před rokem +3

    I cannot believe you made it through this video with the level of composure and show of strength you displayed ... My heart broke in 1m pieces for you listening to this. I am so so sorry. I so sincerely hope things will some day start to get easier. 🙏❤️

  • @robdewey317
    @robdewey317 Před 7 lety +38

    We are with you.

  • @gabrielsnotdead6912
    @gabrielsnotdead6912 Před 6 lety +8

    I was going to comment on another video , then I saw this, I remember Tuesday the 5th of January as well, my mum died of cancer that morning, and I see this and realise the same thing was happening somewhere else. She had stomach cancer and it was everywhere and the doctors missed nearly all of it. This shouldn't be happening especially to young people. Cancer is affecting nearly everyone in this world and I hope that this video raises the awareness it deserves. I can't even imagine losing a child. I don't have allot of money but if I see cancer charities collecting I make sure some money goes to them even if I have to go without something. People may think oh a few pounds are nothing but they will help someone somewhere xxxxxx

  • @romycullen17
    @romycullen17 Před 7 lety +17

    I've no words Alex, none...
    sending love, this is utterly heartbreaking.x

  • @10Duser
    @10Duser Před 7 lety +44

    I'm so *so* sorry for your loss. I have cancer myself (Leukaemia), but I was dx much older, at 27, and had 2 daughters & later got married. I have chronic conditions, but I'm grateful that in your regard, my father had passed away when I was 13, and my Mum some 8 years ago now - and she missed most of the later complications - mine is a slow decline.
    *No-one* should have to deal with the death of their child. Charlotte came across as *so* vivacious, pretty and clever. Am new to the 'story', but she has left a strong legacy, and though you may not feel it, you must be a very strong woman - like your daughter, very brave. Thoughts go out to you all x

  • @j0dilynn234
    @j0dilynn234 Před 7 lety +53

    I cried so hard watching this. I commend you on your bravery and strength. I lost my precious son/friend to a rare and very aggressive cancer. He was only 15. Its been 3 years and I still search articles, stories, blogs as much today as I did the first day for answers. Im still trying to make sense of this nightmare and struggle most days. Thank you and your daughter for caring enough to share your story during such a difficult time. .

  • @davidlynch8197
    @davidlynch8197 Před 5 lety +7

    This is what my wife and are going through now. God bless you.

  • @SandraSmith-vb5pf
    @SandraSmith-vb5pf Před rokem +1

    Don’t Forget To Remember Remarkable 🕊🕊🕊 Beautiful Charlotte 🌈🌈🌈🫶Remembrance 🤍 With LOVE

  • @NolaDWrites
    @NolaDWrites Před 6 lety +6

    My condolences on the death of your most graceful and beautiful daughter. I have only started following Charlotte's videos. She got her grace from you... Blessings and love, Nola

  • @The1967ssf
    @The1967ssf Před 6 lety +46

    How can there be a god. If we had a loving caring god that had all control and power he would never let this family suffer like they did. This is horrific.

    • @hammadnadeem4052
      @hammadnadeem4052 Před 4 lety +8

      What is health when we don't know what is illness. What is happiness when we don't know what is suffering. What is courage when we don't know what is fear. Thanks!

    • @christianmorrison8688
      @christianmorrison8688 Před 2 lety +4

      GOD PICKS UP THIS PIECES AND PUTS THEM BACK TOGETHER.
      IMPERISHABLE....

  • @ladyb7588
    @ladyb7588 Před 7 lety +38

    OMG I don't know where to begin. I had to stop the video, cuz I couldn't hear anymore. If I felt this way. I can't even imagine how you felt and are feeling now. I'm sure for you everything just stops. You look around and see everyone else going on about their business laughing, playing and talking. But your world as you knew it had just come to an end. I know this is extremely difficult reliving this horrible horrible time, but thank you for bring this awful disease to peoples attention xoxo

  • @blazednlovinit
    @blazednlovinit Před 6 lety +21

    A grieving mother is one of the most heartbreaking things in the world, the only silver lining to extreme tragedy is that it shows us how much we care for our fellow human beings.

    • @hammadnadeem4052
      @hammadnadeem4052 Před 4 lety +1

      You are right!!

    • @nil1473
      @nil1473 Před 2 lety

      U have brought forward, this element of human emotion and tragedy, in a very succinct and rational manner...great insight..

    • @blazednlovinit
      @blazednlovinit Před 2 lety +1

      @@nil1473 I'll be sure to spend some time this Christmas to thank God for my blessings, good time to count your blessings even if you're atheist. Hope Christmas and New Year is good for you mate.

    • @nil1473
      @nil1473 Před 2 lety +2

      @@blazednlovinit my friend,i am not an atheist..i am a believer... Wishing a merry Christmas to u too...god bless you and everyone out there...
      ur words are very powerful and it will stay with me hopefully forever or as long as my memory allows..thank you...
      Just one thing bothers me here,which as follows..
      "dna copying error" which happens during cell division, being identified as the primary cause for cancer..why would god create such a dna,which can turn to be the main cause for cancer ?😢
      can we pitch this question and get an answer from any theistic microbiolgist or dr. stephen mayer or fazal rana(from "reasons to believe" organization) anyone who is proficient enough to scientifically answer it in the favor of god..ie.we want someone who can scientifically defy this atheist argument that "our dna is inherently flawed bcos it is the most significant cause for cancer"....thank u again...

    • @blazednlovinit
      @blazednlovinit Před 2 lety +1

      ​@@nil1473 I think a sparrow would have a greater chance of comprehending mankind's greatest works than man has of comprehending God's works. I'd just say that it would come under the umbrella of having faith in God and his plan, which is already perfect and and designed to get the most people by his side by the time this brief experiment of creation is done with. In an afterlife that is paradise and spans into forever, people won't worry about getting 20 years on an imperfect Earth instead of 70

  • @kriparie
    @kriparie Před rokem +3

    I have stage 4 colon cancer and docs cant do anything now for me. My poor parents my husband and children have to watch me go. Its not far

  • @Janinebignell
    @Janinebignell Před 6 lety +4

    I am in absolute tears, I am so sorry you, your family and your beautiful daughter had to go through this. Thank you so much for sharing your story and Charlotte's story with us all.

  • @Ali74
    @Ali74 Před 7 lety +2

    My heart goes out to you and your family. Charlotte has helped (and is still helping) so many people so I hope you can take comfort in that.

  • @davidostrowski679
    @davidostrowski679 Před 6 lety +4

    Hi, I just wanted to say I admire you so much for being able to make these videos. What you have gone through is unimaginable and you have amazing strength. I look forward to catching up with more of Charlotte's videos.

  • @suehales9464
    @suehales9464 Před 6 lety +3

    I wasn't aware of Charlotte's story until I just saw the Lorraine Kelly programme. I am choked and going through these video blogs- what's wonderful young lady she was😥 Am so sorry for your loss. Will continue to follow her story. Am crying listening to your story Alex. Love to you and your family xxxx

  • @squiffybear6944
    @squiffybear6944 Před 6 lety +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. Love and sympathy ❤️❤️

  • @Ellen.G
    @Ellen.G Před 7 lety +8

    So so heartbreaking. My heart hurts for your family. Devastating. Thoughts from Penticton Canada.

  • @CaroHypno
    @CaroHypno Před 2 lety +1

    Sending so much love to you, Miles and all Charlotte's family and friends xxx

  • @jessicaevelyn2749
    @jessicaevelyn2749 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm so sorry you, your family and Charlotte had to go through this. RIP. I can only imagine the comfort that this channel has offered to others going through the same thing. Sometimes it helps just to know that you're not alone--that you are not the first and will not be the last.

  • @FrontGardeninNormandy
    @FrontGardeninNormandy Před rokem +1

    Thank you for the love and the care you give to Charlotte, God bless you mam. Charlotte is an inspiration for whoever has some form of disability or terminal illness, may she rest In peace as well as Nana, they won’t be forgotten.

  • @luciap1990
    @luciap1990 Před 7 lety +13

    Sending my love Alex. So bloody unfair! 💔

  • @monikastak
    @monikastak Před 3 lety +1

    Firstly my deepest consoles for the loss of your prescious daughter. She was such sweet, caring and intelligent young lady who tried so hard to make a difference in the world. I know what you are going through is extremely painful and that you must miss her tremendously. May she never be forgotten for her fighting spirit and her kindness. Her videos have no doubt helped so many other families. Wishing your family a long and healthy like ahead and with it the strength to carry on without your beautiful angel. May she rest in peace. Sending you a virtual hug. Your a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing such difficult journey with others. xxoo

  • @Simon-pl2zi
    @Simon-pl2zi Před 3 lety +1

    I found Charlotte's videos quite amazing. They helped me to be more empathetic and grateful. Much love to you all.

  • @ladykevin
    @ladykevin Před 6 lety

    I'm late to this story and I've just came across these videos. I can't put anything into words that seems to do your beautiful daughters battle justice, but I am sending you all the love in my heart. RIP Charlotte ❤️

  • @clover309
    @clover309 Před 6 lety

    Just heartbreaking. So much love to you and Charlotte’s memory x

  • @kimbergin4392
    @kimbergin4392 Před 6 lety

    I am so sorry for your loss, I didn’t know her but from her videos she’s a lovely girl xx

  • @gaildunbar7186
    @gaildunbar7186 Před 6 lety +1

    I have just watched the channel 4 documentary. Gosh it was so sad. My heart goes out to you and your family. I can not imagine the pain you are in. I have a 23 year old daughter. So I can’t imagine what you have gone through. Cancer is such an evil disease. I lost my brother in law last year to cancer he only lasted 8 months from diagnosis. Your beautiful daughter was so brave. I haven’t watched any of the vloggs just what I have seen on C4. She was so brave and determined right up to the end. So so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.

  • @deewhobewatty9003
    @deewhobewatty9003 Před 5 lety +1

    I'm so very sorry, your daughter was a beautiful young lady. I really know what you are going through, I too lost my daughter, though due to a congenital heart disorder.
    My heart goes out to you. ❤️

  • @angusmitchell6282
    @angusmitchell6282 Před 7 lety +3

    I'm so sorry for you and your family. I hope you can find some solace at some point soon and know that we are all here for you.
    x

  • @katiemiaana
    @katiemiaana Před 7 lety +1

    Heartbreakingly sad. I am so sorry for you, when you described it it felt surreal. xx

  • @sallykuro1946
    @sallykuro1946 Před 6 lety +3

    You are the most wonderful and brave woman

  • @AshPaddyM
    @AshPaddyM Před 3 lety

    God bless you and your family.

  • @dory82
    @dory82 Před 6 lety +1

    Sending you and your family lots of love xx

  • @chellbie
    @chellbie Před 6 lety

    💓💗💓💓💓 You are one the bravest ladies and your daughter too. I just found charlottes channel and I will tell others about her charity too.

  • @yvetrimat
    @yvetrimat Před 7 lety +8

    Love and peace to you. Such a sad reality. I believe that Charlotte is in heaven. xoxo

  • @Jkstolz
    @Jkstolz Před 5 lety

    Bless your heart.. I am so sorry you lost your sweet, beautiful daughter.

  • @stefaniemccoy7377
    @stefaniemccoy7377 Před 3 lety

    Charlotte was blessed to have you for a mother, your husband, and her brother. God bless you

  • @rp2670
    @rp2670 Před 2 lety +2

    This is the most moving and heartbreaking video I have ever seen. As a father, I cannot begin to fathom the depth of your loss. I am truly humbled by your strength and courage, and your daughter's strength and courage, in the face of the most appalling adversity. This is the worst experience that a parent could ever have. I am terribly, terribly sorry.

    • @alexeades8246
      @alexeades8246 Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you. Time will never with the loss of a child.

  • @ayla19791
    @ayla19791 Před 6 lety +1

    I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I unfortunately just come accross beautiful Charlotte and her struggle. I know she is in heaven happy and without any discomfort. When you spoke about the MRI I got chills cause I had a benign tumor (of course we didnt know that at the time) and I was put into one of these hellish machines listening to the noise, trying to stand still terrified while I was thinking that that was it. The fear, the terror one feels while waiting for the results. The looks of the nurses who ask your age and shake their heads. The operation on Christmas day. And how does a mother cope with something like that? There is no way to cope. I got lucky but those images cannot be forgotten. We need to bring out awareness about brain tumors. There are thousands of people like Charlotte suffering and I am so angry that only 1% of money goes to brain tumor research. I am appauled. People are not numbers. Charlotte was an amazing person. She will not be forgotten. Her softness and kindness will always live on.

  • @creativecoffee1508
    @creativecoffee1508 Před 5 lety

    Thinking of you at this time of year ❤

  • @international.pineapple6286

    My health anxiety is spiraling out of control atm, but Rip to Charlotte. I do not want to watch this bc it’s so hard but I feel I need to

  • @TheMissymoo100
    @TheMissymoo100 Před 7 lety +3

    I'm so sorry Alex. Know that we're hear and listening.
    I have some understanding of 'what do you talk about after a terminal diagnosis'....the minutes and the world just continues and you're just sat with it....
    I'm just so very sorry. And I think you're enourmously brave to be able to talk about it publicly only a year on. *lots of hugs and energy*

  • @hanat1313
    @hanat1313 Před 6 lety

    This is such a difficult video to watch but its reality to so many people. I cant imagine what the family has gone through. I will pray that u have strength to endure and to heal.

  • @phixi0n
    @phixi0n Před 7 lety +12

    I am so sorry you have had to go through this, I lost my 60yr old mother in 2014 after a 2 year battle with breast cancer, by the time it was done it had spread to her bones, liver, lungs and finally her brain. She also spent her last few months at home with us. I can't imagine how you must be feeling losing a child.

  • @apathysucks520
    @apathysucks520 Před 3 lety

    You are a beautiful family. She helped so many people and now she will continue to help people beyomd death. Why do bad things happen to good people? Your beautiful daughter left an empowering informative, insightful, brave, legacy she was such a special human . So mature and strong. She was a giver. A healer . Thank you so much for giving us closure. .You are a wonderful mom. ⛈️🌈⛈️🌻🙏 Charlotte will never be forgotten. Never. She didn't die in vain. Many people figured out what they had because of Charlotte, because of her wanting to give back. She was such good company. Thank you again for making this video. 🌻

  • @karolinagrabowska2758
    @karolinagrabowska2758 Před 7 lety +12

    May God keep you in his care Alex. I am grateful for the privilege of having known Charlotte through her CZcams channel.

  • @howardeastman311
    @howardeastman311 Před 7 lety

    Please know Alex you and Charlotte are helping others by sharing your life and experience. Thank you.

  • @AzDoesMakeUp
    @AzDoesMakeUp Před 6 lety +3

    I am so sorry for your loss it's truly heartbreaking I can't comprehend the pain you must be going through every day! She was so brave you all was sending lots of love to your family! R.I.P Charlotte 💗

  • @justembarkbeauty
    @justembarkbeauty Před 7 lety +1

    sending my love💗

  • @livincountry
    @livincountry Před 5 lety

    Can’t imagine what you are going thru! ❤️

  • @WakeRunSleep
    @WakeRunSleep Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @KidsWithGuns1992
    @KidsWithGuns1992 Před 6 lety +1

    I'm so sorry, this is horrible. I've only had a brief glimpse of a cancer scare as a young teenager, and even that was the single most horrible feeling of my life. Dealing with this is unimaginable, I'm so sorry.

  • @karismalovesglitter
    @karismalovesglitter Před 7 lety

    Sending you love. ❤ XX

  • @aledwilliams1929
    @aledwilliams1929 Před 6 lety

    God bless you, my dad has been diagnosed with the same thing, thank you for sharing xxxxxxx

    • @blackangel6003
      @blackangel6003 Před 5 lety +2

      Aled Williams may God strengthen your family

    • @aledwilliams1929
      @aledwilliams1929 Před 3 lety

      ¿Eres Cristiano? He passed away two years ago last week, thank you for the love xx

  • @lauragrillo27
    @lauragrillo27 Před 6 lety +1

    I am so sorry. Thinking about you. So so sorry x

  • @helenkapetis8869
    @helenkapetis8869 Před 6 lety +1

    Peace and love

  • @7john7heft2
    @7john7heft2 Před 3 lety

    GOD BLESS

  • @AshleyLegare
    @AshleyLegare Před 5 lety

    I’m sorry for your loss.

  • @georgiascott4172
    @georgiascott4172 Před 4 lety

    Our Guardian angel in heaven is watching over you and the family. We continue here to fight her good fight. God bless you for all you are doing to find a cure for this beast.

  • @amberlimbaugh
    @amberlimbaugh Před 6 lety

    I am beyond sorry for your loss. It's not fair and I'll never understand it.

  • @LolosTravel
    @LolosTravel Před 7 lety +4

    I have no words ...just XOXOX 😢❤

  • @willythe4
    @willythe4 Před 6 lety

    Alex hi =) I don't know how I ended up on Charlottes video but I did so I go where the universe takes me. What a beautiful soul she is. Truly. You too. I see where she came from. Sadness aside, sadness included. I find myself questioning the reason for such a tragedy. A young vibrant heart and soul with so much to offer the world, why would they be taken away from this place ? with all the suffering and all the sadness across our world, why would our God take someone or something so beautiful away when our world is in such dire need of that kind of love ? I have lost more friends and family members to death than I can count without actually sitting and writing a list, but many have been drug users, or lived a life where one would expect an early departure. I struggle to understand why innocence is punished with pain and suffering in such a way. I will tell you that Charlottes testimony and raw honesty touched me so deeply I will never forget her. When I speak to God I often ask him why the innocent have to suffer the way they do. I've yet to receive an answer so I'll keep asking. I would like to think that those taken from this world early are his chosen. Those he deems worthy of sitting beside him in his kingdom to watch over us, and guide the rest of us through our trials because of their purity and innocence. Yet, if that's the case then why does he make them suffer ? I struggle with this concept. I just need to tell you that Charlottes life, Charlottes message was not or is not lost. She has clearly touched countless hearts and inspired and motivated people to live their lives full of love and compassion regardless of circumstance. I offer these words simply to show you how much of an effect Charlotte had on me, and to remind you and anyone else who reads this, that no matter how brutal life may be at times, however hopeless and cruel, unfair and painful, even in our darkest moments, grace is so beautiful and so profoundly touching. I am eternally grateful to you and Charlotte for allowing me into your lives. I truly believe that wherever the pure and innocent end up after they leave this world, Charlotte is there, watching over you and all of us. I'm writing this to you with all the love, all the compassion and all the thanks I can fit into my heart and ask that you live on with her inside your heart. Our hearts are where the soul lives. Our life force lives within our blood. Carry your beautiful daughter with you every day and every where you go until it's your time to go and be with her. I love you as a sister and as a fellow human being. Bless you and your family, bless your beautiful and remarkable daughter for her courage and connection to the world to the very end.
    Walk with the dreamers, the believers, the courageous, the cheerful, the planners, the doers, the successful people with their heads in the clouds and their feet on the ground. Let their spirit ignite a fire within you to leave this world better than when you found it. x.

    • @sambino62
      @sambino62 Před 3 lety

      you are a kind man. i am sure that your words have touched charlotte and her family. i hope you are healthy, happy & safe during these times.

  • @mariadeejane6580
    @mariadeejane6580 Před 3 lety

    So sad and heartbreaking my boyfriend of 35 years. we were never apart... we were told he only had 6 weeks to live when he was first diagnosed he never made the 6 weeks it was such a shock to my system I couldn't believe it.. our life's were turned upside down we didn't know what to do... I will never get over it he's was my world ❤️he died August 4/09/19 of Glioblastoma brain tumor I really feel for you and I know what you must have went through.. God bless you ❤️

  • @jeanettedegiulio8220
    @jeanettedegiulio8220 Před 4 lety +2

    My heart is breaking for this family. It is the 21st century and still no cure for cancer. This is terrible. 😭💔

  • @Talaylove
    @Talaylove Před 8 měsíci

    I’m so sorry 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @TheNizoubizou
    @TheNizoubizou Před 4 lety

    your daughter was strong and beautiful. i wish i knew her personally.

  • @lexiemason9128
    @lexiemason9128 Před 6 lety +9

    "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Matthew 5:4"

  • @farahbatata8810
    @farahbatata8810 Před 4 lety +5

    I wish they find cure for cancer..... oh lord its my only wish...

  • @logiclanguagelearningFrench

    classy lady, tragic loss.

  • @mgal6234
    @mgal6234 Před 6 lety

    I am so sorry.

  • @nha8909
    @nha8909 Před 5 lety

    No words can describe how heart breaking this is

  • @user-qe8bd6qv5j
    @user-qe8bd6qv5j Před 5 lety

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom to glioblastoma..its a horrible disease

  • @sherrylittle7052
    @sherrylittle7052 Před 6 lety

    I am so sorry

  • @noodlellsouperllboy8879

    I'm so sorry

  • @hapaidol
    @hapaidol Před 6 lety +4

    I don’t know what to say. I’m so numb.

  • @suomynonaanonymous
    @suomynonaanonymous Před 3 lety

    heartbreaking

  • @Colaris99
    @Colaris99 Před 2 lety

    Insanely cruel how the very young can fall victim to this horrendous diease.

  • @carolmcgowan3447
    @carolmcgowan3447 Před 2 měsíci

    Oh my goodness what a Hellish situation to be in how do you cope with this

  • @thomasbeebe-wurzer3061

    i know this is an old video but ur a good mom

  • @BOHEMIANMEX
    @BOHEMIANMEX Před 6 lety +5

    RIP from Mexico

  • @tamara7301
    @tamara7301 Před 3 lety

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @heema_9451
    @heema_9451 Před 5 lety

    Oh God, I'm in floods watching this.

  • @kingofthemawds9472
    @kingofthemawds9472 Před 3 lety +1

    This kills me to watch.