Friendship in Islam - Mufti Ismail Menk

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • The Messenger of Allah, (saw) said: "The parable of a good friend and a bad friend is that of a carrier of musk and a blacksmith. The carrier of musk will give you some, or you will buy some, or you will notice a good smell; but as for the blacksmith, he will burn your clothes or you will notice a bad smell." [Sahih Muslim, Book of Righteousness, Hadith #6692]
    The above hadith meant that if we are in the company of good people or friends , we'll tend to follow his/her good character and are influenced by their good habits. They're able to give wise and good advises to us , and lead us to the right path. Hang out with the righteous people and you'll benefit from it
    If you're hanging out with the good companion , it is equivalent to being friends with a perfume seller, you'll smell good, pleasant and naturally feel good. The righteous person will bound to influence you to do deeds and Insya'Allah you'll benefit from it.
    Dear brothers and sisters , do choose your companions/friend carefully as he/she might influence you towards the good or the bad. Bad companions might tarnish your reputation or worst, changed you. May Allah (swt) save us and all the believers from fall into the Hellfire Insya'Allah.
    Sourse:(Al-Fitwah.blogs.com)

Komentáře • 69

  • @josnaz1
    @josnaz1 Před 10 lety +86

    How fortunate we are that we live at a time in which we have access to such videos as this one. What a boon for the Deen.
    Alhamdulillah.

    • @mohmedhafejee4359
      @mohmedhafejee4359 Před 9 lety +1

      dollysinn if you would watch the video you probably would learn a thing or two

    • @sharmink
      @sharmink Před 6 lety +1

      josnaz1 Alhamdulillah!

  • @ZaharahFitness
    @ZaharahFitness Před 5 lety +23

    I wish i have watched it before....,,its too late...my toxic friends ruined happiness

    • @mobisshrasiddiqui428
      @mobisshrasiddiqui428 Před 4 lety +1

      Dear I used to make Muslim friends. I always thought I Muslimah friend will certainly have a sufficient qualities for being my friend. But I was wrong. she is Muslimah only for an identity. I am alone and Allah is my best friend. and this is adequate for me.

  • @becci341
    @becci341 Před 5 lety +18

    Allah is the best friend you could ever have, My vision of friendship is purity and truly believes in Allah! I have witness in front of Allah how a human can go pray in front of hundreds of ppl and they are being fake in respects of ALLAH! You should always be truthful to Allah as this is the way to be and you will get more respect. This is someone who I know in person... Best that I space away due to UNHEALTHY feelings. A friend is not base on lies and unhealthy ways!

  • @tamnadvardis7039
    @tamnadvardis7039 Před 3 lety +1

    Like me I don't think I have good friends before except one who pass away, may Allah grant him jannah

  • @laylachaaban6281
    @laylachaaban6281 Před 4 lety +7

    It's really hard to find true friends

    • @manahil...7860
      @manahil...7860 Před 3 lety +2

      We exist but get hurt/taken advantage of so we stay alone ……🙂

  • @tobisamiatibrahim9133
    @tobisamiatibrahim9133 Před 7 lety +22

    oh! my God I should've see this video before now but anyway it's not too late.

  • @ivanpanic63
    @ivanpanic63 Před 7 lety +8

    Im not muslim and have not soo god opinion on it but man...this brother is 100% right im amased...HalleluYAHUAH for this message,all people should hear this!

    • @abdirazakmohamed5709
      @abdirazakmohamed5709 Před 6 lety +3

      its good that you are touched.I pray to Allah that you may be guided

  • @Syed_Brothers_201
    @Syed_Brothers_201 Před 4 lety +1

    Yeah.......Alhamdulillah to get such precious friends....

  • @ha8046
    @ha8046 Před 11 lety +10

    This is exactly what I was looking for!!! I am so glad that this video was uploaded alhamdulilah!!

  • @FoodHabbitForThought
    @FoodHabbitForThought Před 7 lety +10

    Alhamdulillah. ..This is a good teaching. ..With better explanation. ..We need such kind of preacher. .Ma Sha Allah Tabarak Allah.

  • @shahnawazshaikh8576
    @shahnawazshaikh8576 Před 6 lety +3

    Alhumdulillah, thank you for such important message. May Allah guide us to righteousness and protect us from wrong path and decision. Ameen

  • @mohamedfalilmohamedfahran679

    friends in Islam true sayd may Allah bless him.alhamdulilah

  • @basitwani4201
    @basitwani4201 Před 5 lety +2

    nice lecture

  • @axmedbill7466
    @axmedbill7466 Před 6 lety +1

    Jazaka Allah qhyr sheikh

  • @hakimahial8129
    @hakimahial8129 Před 11 lety +4

    NICE LECTURE

  • @hafsaeyk466
    @hafsaeyk466 Před 5 lety +1

    Masha Allah for this information

  • @amaniqbal8927
    @amaniqbal8927 Před 5 lety +1

    Mashallah live long sir

  • @mohammednaban5679
    @mohammednaban5679 Před 6 lety +2

    Masha allah

  • @assadmuhammad7058
    @assadmuhammad7058 Před 7 lety +5

    great teaching on friendship by Allah's permission.

  • @drsj8535
    @drsj8535 Před 6 lety +2

    thanks

  • @abderrahmanebelhadj1867
    @abderrahmanebelhadj1867 Před 5 lety +1

    golden advices

  • @mubasshirabubakar
    @mubasshirabubakar Před 4 lety

    jazakallah sheikh

  • @yousefa7622
    @yousefa7622 Před 8 lety +5

    Mashallah. What a great talk

    • @swagstyle9645
      @swagstyle9645 Před 5 lety

      write Ma sha Allah like this. your spelling are not correct to me.

    • @Ayesha_And_Noumaan
      @Ayesha_And_Noumaan Před 5 lety

      SwagStyle96 both ways are fine! Mashallah! MaShaAllah, ma sha Allah, and there are
      Many other ways! Don’t judge people please

  • @muhammadwasee_m
    @muhammadwasee_m Před 2 lety

    Alhamdullilah

  • @littlebaliinvienna8330
    @littlebaliinvienna8330 Před 7 lety +3

    this is awesome allahu akbar :)

    • @swagstyle9645
      @swagstyle9645 Před 5 lety +1

      write Allah with capital A like Allah or ALLAH

  • @hijabimuslimah7904
    @hijabimuslimah7904 Před 8 lety +4

    Good one

  • @lilyarbee
    @lilyarbee Před 5 lety +2

    Yes, but it's never too late for me to find out, I've wasted on a couple of untrue friendship, in fact, there are a couple in a family circle, cousin(s) and even those through marriages to my siblings' children etc. I've experienced and found out that they are not genuine, they are opportunists, I found out only when I am experiencing a bad time, this is the real test of friendship, then only their true colors will show, they will not be able to pretend in this situation any longer!

  • @abderrahmanebelhadj1867

    جزااك الله خير

  • @fufukey9013
    @fufukey9013 Před 6 lety +2

    Niceeeeeeeee

  • @dallasshagibrowso4925
    @dallasshagibrowso4925 Před 3 lety

    My friends are all super different from different communities. That’s why I’m not close with anyone.

  • @anonymousblogger1998
    @anonymousblogger1998 Před 7 lety +2

    Thank you

  • @sobs1410
    @sobs1410 Před 6 lety +7

    how to distance oneself from bad friends who insist on being your best friend..?

  • @rizeenamohamed
    @rizeenamohamed Před 8 lety +3

    ماَشا الله

  • @asimalnhary9967
    @asimalnhary9967 Před 6 lety +1

    I wish if there's translate

  • @laylachaaban6281
    @laylachaaban6281 Před 4 lety +1

    Sadly that's rear

  • @rezzy1895
    @rezzy1895 Před 7 lety +2

    Why 1% chance of telling the truth?

  • @hamoohummo5407
    @hamoohummo5407 Před 3 lety

    I have gay(homosexual) friends!. I have no connection with them I met them on Facebook. Should I keep Talking to them as just a friendly human. . or cut them off

  • @oboni8556
    @oboni8556 Před 3 lety +1

    Can a boy and a girl be friends, is it halal/vegan? 🙃

    • @manahil...7860
      @manahil...7860 Před 3 lety

      What does vegan have to do with this 😂
      Halal means permissible and haram means forbidden so vegan has got nothing to do with this .

  • @user-hf4bp9kt7t
    @user-hf4bp9kt7t Před 3 lety

    Is it haram to have boy best friends or only friends and keep it halal cause bsf can go too far maybe and say haram stuff yo get comfortable

  • @zarahurriye
    @zarahurriye Před 8 lety +2

    Isn't it true that if someone leads themselves astray, they are responsible for themselves? In the video he said I can be held responsible for my friend if he chooses to do sin and I don't correct him?

    • @breppapig559
      @breppapig559 Před 8 lety

      we don't constantly need reminding of god we just want to live life in peace but believe there is no god and the idea is kinda silly.

    • @zarahurriye
      @zarahurriye Před 8 lety

      Bart Sloot Is your life very peaceful?

    • @breppapig559
      @breppapig559 Před 8 lety

      Zara Hurriye yes my friend :)

    • @breppapig559
      @breppapig559 Před 7 lety

      Yusuf A. It will, the quran is full of nonsense.

    • @mahad4866
      @mahad4866 Před 7 lety

      Zara Hurriye its called obligatory advice

  • @chantalseguin5024
    @chantalseguin5024 Před 6 lety +2

    Birds of a feather flock together. I wonder if that applies to you. I wonder if national security also is secrets shared

  • @chantalseguin5024
    @chantalseguin5024 Před 6 lety

    He's scary. He's preaching lying

    • @user-pz1gf8tv3y
      @user-pz1gf8tv3y Před 3 lety

      lmao what??🤣🤣🤣 hes giving advice

    • @karinagarcia3702
      @karinagarcia3702 Před 3 lety

      @@user-pz1gf8tv3y he is appsolutely dangerous and not giving good religious advice at all 1st of all if you can't share things with your friends then there not your friends and 2nd if you have a sin the best thing to do is to share it with people so they can help you stop that sin And if anybody is judging you for that sin they are not your friends and they are evil because only God can judge you it's sad that you have to keep secrets from your friends because your scared if you feel threatened by any of your friends they are not your friends And something that I think is most beautiful is when you share your sin and you conquered by not committing it again it is so amazing to share it with people because I guarantee you you will help people with your story and you can touch so many hearts and so many souls because nobody is perfect only God is