The REASON You DON'T SUCCEED & How To Change Your FUTURE | Simon Sinek & Lewis Howes

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    Simon is a business consultant, author, and motivational speaker. He teaches leaders and organizations how to inspire people. As an author, he has released multiple best-selling books, Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better and Find Your Why. His latest book is The Infinite Game.
    Simon talks about his journey and why creating a great work environment is so important to him. He also discusses the Infinite Game and why it’s a process that will reap great benefits.
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Komentáře • 189

  • @d.collins1134
    @d.collins1134 Před 4 lety +82

    Fascinating interview. Anyone interested in Leadership will benefit from this excellent conversation.

  • @kamsquad6019
    @kamsquad6019 Před 4 lety +41

    This is so incredible. I was just having a conversation with my manager about good leaders being in constant service to others and truly loving the people they serve. Life works in amazing ways! Lewis always delivers quality content. I love that man!

  • @infiniteadam7352
    @infiniteadam7352 Před 3 lety

    In a time of confusion and loss, these Leaders restore my hope and faith in mankind.

  • @julietrikoulis7019
    @julietrikoulis7019 Před 4 lety +42

    When Simon starts taking about self confidence being rooted in your relationships I paused. It makes PERFECT sense. I had a rough patch in my 20s and was abondoned by the ones I thought were my support system. And it broke me. I thought I was weak and there was a long period of healing and attention to self care but I still thought I had issues with self-confidence. What an amazing insight here for me! ❤ Thank you for giving words to what I felt for so long!

  • @musiclassica
    @musiclassica Před 4 lety +3

    "You overcome self-doubt by helping someone else by overcoming self-doubt." Good talk, guys. Grtz from Europe.

  • @daniel_najar
    @daniel_najar Před 4 lety +74

    "Thinking your good is healthy, thinking your better than others is not healthy" Simon Sinek

    • @j.i.s.l178
      @j.i.s.l178 Před 4 lety +1

      That's the challenge,
      Learn every Day, to the poor like the rich, the easy like the difficult.

    • @nafisdelacruz9703
      @nafisdelacruz9703 Před 4 lety +3

      you're* both times
      correcting to share knowledge, not in judgement :)

    • @user-qe7bt9dz1l
      @user-qe7bt9dz1l Před 4 lety

      Daniel Najar Muhammad Ali thought he was the greatest AKA better than others and it obviously served him well. I disagree with that quote.

    • @FlatStella1
      @FlatStella1 Před 3 lety

      For a Christian that's normality.Be good for yourself so to the others.

  • @rainiercorrea7504
    @rainiercorrea7504 Před 4 lety +8

    Watched him today on Tom Bilyeu and now on School of Greatness.... Today has been a good day!!!!

  • @angelusa73
    @angelusa73 Před 3 lety +1

    You are a modern philosopher. I listen to your words and I think this: you are a philosopher :) thank you for sharing so much. Angela, Umbria central Italy

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 Před 3 lety +2

    I admire his passion, sacrifice, focus, and enthusiasm.

  • @Wpinuseblog
    @Wpinuseblog Před 4 lety +46

    My Favorite Shows: School of Greatness, Tom Bilyeu, Marie Forleo

    • @Vivan.Kirpal
      @Vivan.Kirpal Před 4 lety +2

      Lewis is great and his talks are very informative.
      I would recommend you to check London Real and Ed Mylett as well.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Před 4 lety +1

      Thanks so much!

    • @marcelasvirbelovakuziakova7517
      @marcelasvirbelovakuziakova7517 Před 4 lety +2

      Agree, mine to, than Tony Robins, Gabby Bernstein, Mell Robins, David Asprey,, Dr Shefali Tsibabry etc, Lewis, I wish I could be in your studio, thank you I said so many time's how grateful I am have this opportunity to understand, listen, mean a lot to me 🙏🍀🌹❤️😊

    • @rochestergray4809
      @rochestergray4809 Před 4 lety

      @@lewishowes Definitely add Bob Proctor, I still can't believe you were able to land him!

  • @Drubydobedo
    @Drubydobedo Před 4 lety +3

    This gave me chills. Lewis you never disappoint. Time to adopt an infinite mindset starting today.

  • @lydiangina4394
    @lydiangina4394 Před 4 lety +2

    🇰🇪 From Nairobi, Kenya
    What a brilliant conversation!

  • @YouGrowAsYouGo
    @YouGrowAsYouGo Před 4 lety +6

    Thanks to simon. I changed my team and landed in a safe team and have been happy ever since without a single complaint

  • @thecloud9show
    @thecloud9show Před 4 lety +1

    My uncle, a former Navy Fighter Pilot, high ranking officer and the real Top Gun always said “I am their leader, therefore I must follow.” He had this on his t-shirt. Great insight @LewisHowes and Simon Sinek . Thank you.

  • @inkainka5266
    @inkainka5266 Před 4 lety +7

    I’ve watched loads of Simon’s & Lewis’s videos - but this one is another level. Loved the personal questions - it shows how much Simon believes in what he does - that he puts his personal life on hold. Lewis well done - you turn your guests into lovely chatterboxes. Great job!

  • @theng-hianng6836
    @theng-hianng6836 Před 4 lety +1

    Message must be bigger than the messenger!

  • @coachunlimited1554
    @coachunlimited1554 Před 4 lety +4

    33:30 ~ You dont need confidence... All we ever need is clarity!

  • @Towandisotro
    @Towandisotro Před 4 lety +5

    OMG! I did not want this interview to end! So good! 🙌🏼👏🏼

  • @sheharyarshahid
    @sheharyarshahid Před 4 lety +3

    Finally there is a podcast of my two favourite inspiring personalities.

  • @everydaynaturalflavors1221
    @everydaynaturalflavors1221 Před 4 lety +26

    i love his books, the ted talks and every time i hear him speak i feel i've learned a little more about life and the right path for me, thank you for this!

  • @natashaparry4468
    @natashaparry4468 Před 3 lety +1

    I made so many notes I had to go back on the talk several times. Really am grateful for content like this!

  • @mdenevares
    @mdenevares Před 4 lety +1

    Great! I can listen Simon Sinek talk forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration Před 4 lety +5

    He's such an incredible teacher. The best leaders acknowledge they act in service of those they lead

  • @nareshsookraj9230
    @nareshsookraj9230 Před 4 lety +4

    Simon Sinek even though I've just recently heard of him has been one of the most greatest people I've ever seen, His advice is sound and solid and he's always so chill about it!

  • @TheCezu
    @TheCezu Před 3 lety

    As some people say that Tony Robbins' books changed their lives, for it was Leaders eat last. That book has pages beardly attached to its binding, paragraphs highlighted, notations left and right. I loved it! Thank you Simon for voicing what I felt for years but never was able to put it into context.

  • @sophiavarkeyvarkey5095
    @sophiavarkeyvarkey5095 Před 10 měsíci

    Excellent!
    Valuable takeaways 🙏
    Will be using " build confidence in oneself rather that self confidence.

  • @PowerfulU
    @PowerfulU Před 4 lety +2

    This had to be one of the best interviews I've seen on your podcast. Thanks so much for having Simon on the show Lewis!

  • @radahhhh
    @radahhhh Před 2 lety

    Confident part was the best! It was spontaneous.

  • @AF-uc2bd
    @AF-uc2bd Před 4 lety

    I like this man so much. I rather spend time to drink my tea and peace and listen to them than to talk and listen things from average. After listening smart ppl I feel happy, I can learn sth good🙌thanks

  • @orangeorchid9067
    @orangeorchid9067 Před 4 lety +1

    Simon Sinek so seriously speaks sufficient sense! Sweet!!

  • @violetfrankson5924
    @violetfrankson5924 Před 4 lety +5

    It's all good☆☆☆ thx....The Guy is crystal clear about his Vision & steadfast about his sense of purpose.

  • @keith-kalfas
    @keith-kalfas Před 4 lety +3

    Simon is a str8 up genius

  • @bintang71st
    @bintang71st Před rokem

    I found many stories from lot of years for so long and matched perfect

  • @danwitzke-yourfinancialhea8995

    Great interview with Simon Sinek. His theory to "start with why" is brilliant!

  • @vaibhavkapoor5793
    @vaibhavkapoor5793 Před 4 lety +7

    I love your personality, The way you were interacting was so energetic and enthusiastic.
    Or maybe because it's Simon Sinek In the room
    By the way AWESOME work

  • @PinkSallyProductions
    @PinkSallyProductions Před 4 lety +1

    I love what Mr Sinek says about ‘self’ confidence being a poor description. I certainly needed others to help build my confidence, the more I remain in service to others in my life, the more I grow in confidence. Thank you another great interview by yet another of my favourite inspiring and thought provoking people! 🌹

  • @radmilagnjidic5310
    @radmilagnjidic5310 Před 4 lety +5

    That self confidence is huge, missing link in my life, thank you clarifying for me, always a lot aha moments with you and your guest 👍🤗

  • @UzairSaiyed
    @UzairSaiyed Před 4 lety +9

    "You were only better than others on a particular day." #finitegames

  • @MalachiVanHaynes
    @MalachiVanHaynes Před 4 lety +2

    I'm on a sales team. My coworker and I were just talking about this today. This shift is sorely needed! It's overdue. Great convo, Lewis!

  • @S__Kay
    @S__Kay Před 4 lety +2

    This might be the best episode of 2019

  • @thabomchunu1002
    @thabomchunu1002 Před rokem

    Simon is a truly inspiring human being.

  • @Muffins775
    @Muffins775 Před 3 lety

    I really really enjoy listening to this guy. He makes a lot of sense to me. I appreciate your free content lewis, healthy content prevents me from my habitual negative feedback loop in my brain 🧠🥴 #freetherapy

  • @frankgiammarese7255
    @frankgiammarese7255 Před 4 lety +2

    the Always AWESOME Simon Sinek! Thank you Lewis!

  • @TheJamzub
    @TheJamzub Před 3 lety

    I have seen Simon's all videos, but in this video he is enjoying the conversation.. Lewis has taken the best from him..by interviewing him. again as he said the self confidence comes from outside.. good work Lewis.

  • @Jonquilness
    @Jonquilness Před 3 lety

    O god! How is that possible that I've noticed this interview soooo late.... But, as I have lots of work to do... this will be my reward!

  • @izabellasanchez8078
    @izabellasanchez8078 Před 3 lety

    Awesome!!!! I feel so grateful to hear something so different than what has been ingrained in our culture. It’s brought us to become so prideful, arrogant and selfish. This mindset is liberating and I hope many start to see that’s what it’s really about; living for others and then we will find ourselves! Thank you. I’m getting his book today !!!!

  • @dianaspirithawk8534
    @dianaspirithawk8534 Před 6 měsíci

    I love this, I relate to you Simon better than Tony Robbins…. I am relating your guidance to my own purpose… it’s exciting to create this way with such a great template/guide♥️♥️♥️

  • @Jonquilness
    @Jonquilness Před 3 lety

    wow Simon Sinek is just possessed by the wisdom.Thank you Lewis Howes for that interview - You people are just great!

  • @dans.6467
    @dans.6467 Před 4 lety +1

    wow...blown away! so much honest, inspiring, meaningful and far reaching content in such a short period of time and explained simply... and experiencing joy and laughter while doing it! can't think of a better way to share the message... just hope more people would see this and just, just.... thanks!

  • @natashaparry4468
    @natashaparry4468 Před 4 lety

    loved this talk as much as all the other by Simon Sinek. what an inspiration!

  • @NicoMoreno
    @NicoMoreno Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks so much for the awesome video Lewis 🔥 This will definitely help me improve my Mindset, Business, and Life!! Keep it up! 💯💯🙌

  • @angelaped
    @angelaped Před 4 lety

    This is a MASTER class. THANK YOU! I am going to keep listening and actually study this. So many soundbites! WOW THANK YOU!!!

  • @chestermijnals6914
    @chestermijnals6914 Před 4 lety +2

    The best interview I watch in a long time!!!

  • @BranchScience
    @BranchScience Před 2 lety

    Lewis Howe, I love your natural inquisitivness🙌🏾

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

  • @mistydawn2868
    @mistydawn2868 Před 4 lety +2

    This really touched me! Thank you so much!

  • @StrixyN
    @StrixyN Před 3 lety

    His understanding of worthy rivals is amazing. I wish I had learned it earlier in my life. The way he explains it in this interview is absolutely wonderful. Thank you.

  • @franklynnyein127
    @franklynnyein127 Před 4 lety

    Man I'm thankful for this interview. Love you both bros, Simon Sinek and Lewis Howes.

  • @stephaniesklyar6196
    @stephaniesklyar6196 Před 4 lety +2

    YESSS!!! I could feel the mental energy and power behind every subject said in the discussion. Thank you for the wisdom and brilliant insights. ♥️🚀

  • @tomcockcroft9394
    @tomcockcroft9394 Před 3 lety

    Infinite game was my fav books of his:)

  • @judicousineau
    @judicousineau Před 4 lety +4

    Absolute gold from each of you. Have 6 pages of notes ;)

  • @ainawaheedamohamadcrchkl1658

    Love you Simon...

  • @wjoud6759
    @wjoud6759 Před 4 lety

    Your questions are excellent Lewis! Many people interviewed Sinek but you were able to show a different side. I like that you don't just agree with the answers but you ask back and dissect the idea. Thank you

  • @cynthiaennis3107
    @cynthiaennis3107 Před 4 lety

    I love Simon’s talks! Cooperation over Competition! ♥️🙏🏼 Great interview! Love it! Thank you! You two guys are both so awesome beyond words! Thanks so much, Lewis Howe! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @pupculturevenice
    @pupculturevenice Před 4 lety +1

    Great interview. Passionate guy and much of what he says makes sense. There is a clear imbalance in the world and we are taught at an early age not to listen to ourselves and our instincts. Why I am not sure but it is not a receipt for happiness. Thanks for being continuously great! So many interviews, yet it never gets boring. I always learn something new. Bet it's hard to keep the standard up, something that always amazed me with Letterman. Appears like you have that same quality! Much appreciated! 🌸✨

  • @Brofessorben1017
    @Brofessorben1017 Před 4 lety

    Top 4 most important interviews of allllllll timmmmmme! 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯🙏🙏🙏 Thanks Lewis and Simon!

  • @donnarhodenizer8862
    @donnarhodenizer8862 Před 4 lety +1

    Great interview! Lewis - please get rid of the ads!! It really reduces the great quality of your channel.

  • @Jonquilness
    @Jonquilness Před 3 lety

    Self confidence comes from the relationships you have - 100% agree as a psychologist and as a human being

  • @baskabaisova2126
    @baskabaisova2126 Před rokem

    i love these interviews from Lewis, great job! thank you so much for all your work and great guests you´re inviting :)

  • @amswestyorkshire8048
    @amswestyorkshire8048 Před 4 lety

    Thank you to both of you Simon and Lewis, love it❤️♥️

  • @jglasco80
    @jglasco80 Před 4 lety +1

    He's dropping gems!!

  • @bencesz
    @bencesz Před 4 lety

    Thanks for this amazing interview!!

  • @KirbyScruples
    @KirbyScruples Před 4 lety +4

    Yessssss!!!!! I love him!!

  • @kinsondigital
    @kinsondigital Před 4 lety

    So profound and makes so much sense. Love it....

  • @chrisdelafuente8489
    @chrisdelafuente8489 Před 2 lety

    Amazing interview!! I hope you guys do another in the near future 🤩

  • @dondamato4047
    @dondamato4047 Před 4 lety

    These ideas are so instinctual yet where in society. Taking care of one another has become second to wear ourselves come first I think this is where we have all lost our way. Great perspective thank you

  • @daniel_najar
    @daniel_najar Před 4 lety +3

    Reading the book now. Has some great concepts. Really enjoying it.

  • @LostHorizon52
    @LostHorizon52 Před 4 lety +2

    Wow !! I was thinking about making a video to discuss almost exactly what Simon Sinek said here, so eloquently .. Thanks so much for this wonderful discussion !

  • @tinappm
    @tinappm Před 4 lety

    So many pearls for my treasure chest in this interview. Great job gentlemen!👍🏻😁

  • @kita1366
    @kita1366 Před 4 lety +1

    BEST interview !!

  • @justincamper1295
    @justincamper1295 Před 4 lety

    Great questions Lewis!

  • @tejasshetty1789
    @tejasshetty1789 Před 4 lety

    Superb video thank u soo much for lovely video 😊😊😊👌

  • @mitchell.9632
    @mitchell.9632 Před 4 lety

    The (self) confidence topic is a highlight. Watching a TED Talk or book club at the end is the personal favorite of the video on having a leadership budget. Been a bit since I watched one of your interviews as I have been reading (and listing at the same time on most) books. *Thanks* Lewis for getting to connect with Simon on the record. Anticipating getting this book from the library since last calendar year. Also Interesting to hear you two talk about the Olympians and their vision boards. Good to hear that this conversation is growing on your two relation based on each of your own history including. As always, take care! Lastly good to hear the distinction of authority (management) and leadership. P.S. Don't feel like you have to rush. An hour is long, but hey if the is more unique content on your podcast, good for you!

  • @MariaRojas-gr9ri
    @MariaRojas-gr9ri Před 4 lety

    Loved it!!

  • @michelleroyle314
    @michelleroyle314 Před 4 lety

    Amazing. Amazing.

  • @Rathbonek
    @Rathbonek Před 4 lety +1

    Wow.... Just... Wow....
    This is awesome.... I see your movement ☺️♥️

  • @divanmillert9760
    @divanmillert9760 Před 4 lety +2

    Simon Sinek I admire your work and i'm grateful that there are people like you in the world who spread powerful messages, however, when it comes to self-confidence I don't think you have analyzed it deeply, because the human being is perfect from the very beginning, everything comes from the inside out and not the other way around and if not the other way around will not last because it will not be genuine.
    Self-confidence already exists in men or women, the form or technique of arousal can be analyzed, as some people arouse for themselves and others need a deeper and more psychological approach.
    In the case used as an example in the video, it was not your request for help that made her feel confident but the need to help you and not let you down, she had to pull herself together and strengthen herself in every way to be able to what you asked and she did because of her, but for your benefit.
    Dependence on approval or praise destroys many people, everything that man needs is within him and everything we live in the world of forms is the cause of what is within us all.
    #You love you self and you spreed the love that you have for you to others, it's impossible to love other people because you are not them but you can love yourself and share the love with everyone.
    I hope it was simple and clear in my comment. Thanks

  • @ElGo10x
    @ElGo10x Před 4 lety

    AMAZING

  • @pablokustoms7139
    @pablokustoms7139 Před 4 lety +1

    this shit is so true its what I've been doing thanks!! Lewis its always a pleasure... Simons a beast. you have to truly commit and really want for the other persons luck..in your heart

  • @damianor6886
    @damianor6886 Před 4 lety +2

    Really interesting discussion, Simon is incredibly articulate and passionate. Disagree with him on self confidence though - if you can't build your own confidence without external factors then surely this is just building ego rather than sense of self?

  • @madonnaadell7465
    @madonnaadell7465 Před 3 lety

    Your thoughts are great interesting and true about the self confidence part I think alike 👍🙌🧡

  • @1signguy
    @1signguy Před 4 lety

    Love the interview very powerful information!
    Not sure I agree it takes two people to increase one's confidence, none the less a very interesting point of view. I agree it helps when other people believe in us.
    My thoughts would be we are what we think we are, and only we can choose to change what we think about who we are.

  • @TierTalk
    @TierTalk Před 4 lety +1

    I am trying to utilize his tools as a leader in corrections.

  • @paulfernandes9694
    @paulfernandes9694 Před 4 lety +1

    This is great

  • @thenomind
    @thenomind Před 4 lety

    buying the book 100%

  • @madonnaadell7465
    @madonnaadell7465 Před 3 lety

    This really good good good I love it all THANK SO SO MUCH

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Před 3 lety

      You are welcome Madonna! Thanks for watching!

  • @sandrahodges9625
    @sandrahodges9625 Před 3 lety

    Great interview, greater lessons...I was wondering if the book is on audio because I prefer listening to these ideas than reading a book because of my blindness in one eye...

  • @sheikhahmadmushtaq9406

    Live great discussion!

  • @FeelGoodWithin
    @FeelGoodWithin Před 4 lety

    Interesting😝😍 When you help others you help urself 😍

  • @theyetti90
    @theyetti90 Před 3 lety

    Neighbors didn't actually have to tell on neighbors either, they just had to believe someone had been reported, while in reality no one needed to.

  • @xiturralde
    @xiturralde Před 4 lety

    Love it!💥💪🏻😎🚀