The Power to Design a Life You Love | Hassan Akmal | TEDxColumbiaUniversity

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    A TRIBUTE TO KOBE BRYANT - Our society is obsessed with success, but is success everything? We have all asked ourselves, “What is the Purpose of Life?” Is it happiness, success, or freedom? Embedded in that question is the key to fulfillment and well-lived life.
    "We all need a purpose greater than ourselves," says professor and writer, Hassan Akmal, the author of How to be a Career Mastermind™: Discover 7 "YOU Matter" Lenses for a Life of Purpose, Impact, and Meaningful Work. He escaped from being taken hostage in Afghanistan at the age of 28 and now speaks all over the world as an academic and former professional athlete.
    Learn more about how developing a Career and Life Vision helps you see what exists around us and within us, with a panoramic lens, as Akmal offers five powerful secrets for Career and Life Mastery - and they may surprise you!
    This talk was recorded live on March 27, 2021 -About the Speaker: Hassan Akmal, MBA, MPH, is an American career and life mastery consultant, author, professor, thought leader, philanthropist, and former professional tennis player and athlete ambassador to the U.S. He is best known for his Amazon best-selling book: How to be a Career Mastermind™: Discover 7 “YOU Matter” Lenses for a Life of Purpose, Impact, and Meaningful Work and humanitarian work dedicated to Forced Migration & Health.
    After over a decade as a senior leader in career services, he served as the inaugural executive director of industry relations & career strategies at Columbia University, spearheading the opening of their award-winning Career Design Lab. In 2018, he served on the NACE “Future of We” - Advisory Think Tank Committee and on many other prominent boards globally.
    Akmal became the executive director of the UCLA Career Center in February 2020 and is currently leading an ambitious reimagination of career and professional development for the university. | #KobeBryant #MambaMentality #CareerandLifeMastery This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 759

  • @CareerandLifeMastery
    @CareerandLifeMastery Před 3 lety +90

    Thank you for all of the love and kind words. This was definitely the most challenging speech I have ever had to deliver live. I put my heart into it! I’m so pleased it is resonating with you all. Much appreciated!🙏🏽

    • @leihavi8907
      @leihavi8907 Před 2 lety +6

      You speak from the heart! I'm lost in life for a while but your message gave me clarity. Thank you! ❤

    • @Blickafram
      @Blickafram Před 2 lety +3

      I gave a reply.

    • @gaberoyalll
      @gaberoyalll Před 2 lety +6

      People need you now more then ever ! Thank you for your amazing performance!! ❤ hugs 🤗

    • @alysiasouder2228
      @alysiasouder2228 Před 2 lety +3

      Why was this the most challenging speech you've given?

    • @reinas2439
      @reinas2439 Před 2 lety +2

      Cheers to your amazingly impressive talk! "It's not about sights, but insights" hit me hard. I'll never forget your precious talk.

  • @talipozkaya9763
    @talipozkaya9763 Před 3 lety +13

    Work hard in silence, let your success be the noise

  • @clairewu4921
    @clairewu4921 Před 3 lety +30

    Repair the wounds with golden lines. What a inspiring and encouraging talk!

  • @ardacelik9191
    @ardacelik9191 Před 2 lety +22

    I love this TEDx thing! Is all about minimalism, living a simple life with less, and being happy without fear and worries.

  • @BRAWLSTARSTIKTOKVIDEOLARI
    @BRAWLSTARSTIKTOKVIDEOLARI Před 3 lety +21

    You’ve gotta dance like there’s nobody watching, love like you’ll never be hurt, Sing like there’s nobody listening, and live like its heaven on earth

    • @danielarose9885
      @danielarose9885 Před 3 lety

      Thanks for your comment.
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    • @danielarose9885
      @danielarose9885 Před 3 lety

      W•H•A•T•S•A•P•√
      +=1= 9= 4 =9 =3= 1 =7 =1= 4= 2= 1.

    • @vivianpatgreen
      @vivianpatgreen Před 3 lety

      heard that line too many times

    • @thezoeriley
      @thezoeriley Před 3 lety

      agree, old line

    • @vivianpatgreen
      @vivianpatgreen Před 3 lety

      @@thezoeriley yep

  • @ogretmenfan2434
    @ogretmenfan2434 Před 3 lety +6

    You can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them❤️❤️❤️

  • @tersduz6486
    @tersduz6486 Před 3 lety +10

    Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions

    • @danielarose9885
      @danielarose9885 Před 3 lety

      Thanks for your comment.
      If you'd like to make huge money Investing in cryptocurrency with little capital I will refer you to Garry Williams T.
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    • @danielarose9885
      @danielarose9885 Před 3 lety

      W•H•A•T•S•A•P•√
      +=1= 9= 4 =9 =3= 1 =7 =1= 4= 2= 1.

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před 2 lety +1

      You are the designer of your life.

  • @yoshikarp6432
    @yoshikarp6432 Před rokem +3

    hassan akmal of indian and muslim heritage ....a great role model ...thank you , 🤲 bless.

  • @kartondanyaplanhersey7482
    @kartondanyaplanhersey7482 Před 3 lety +32

    If you believe it’ll work out, you’ll see opportunities. If you don’t believe it’ll work out, you’ll see obstacles❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sherylcastro5688
    @sherylcastro5688 Před rokem +1

    YES, THERE IS. For me, it is to serve & glorify God(OUR Heavenly Father) ☺️

  • @yvonnehyatt8353
    @yvonnehyatt8353 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is one of TEDx best Talk. Thanks

  • @roysmallian2889
    @roysmallian2889 Před 2 lety +3

    Hassan Akmal. Seems to know everything that is important. Does not look like a tennis champ. But all the more extraordinary, Bravo.

    • @samanthasmith8036
      @samanthasmith8036 Před 2 lety +1

      He was when he was younger; a top junior, National Indoors Team Champion, NCAA Team Finalist, pro tennis player, and used to practice with so many top pros at UCLA. I saw him on the court with Sampras practicing once and another time training with a French player (forget his name) on the court next to Agassi and Brad Gilbert during a pro tournament years ago. He was super talented, beautiful one-handed backhand, and a power player. He won the fastest serve contest. 140 mph!!!

  • @onurcnasjsj8548
    @onurcnasjsj8548 Před 3 lety +11

    You’ve got to get up every morning with determination if you’re going to go to bed with satisfaction❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @imranhossain-ot9nw
    @imranhossain-ot9nw Před 2 lety +9

    He is speaking in such a way that it makes you feel like you can do anything! In love with her energy!

  • @angelariley5403
    @angelariley5403 Před 2 lety +19

    Yes, making your living through something you love, can never be called work. - A retired illustrator, still loving it ♥︎

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před rokem

      Amazing, living your calling, purpose, and labor of love! Congratulations on aligning your freedom.

    • @autumn399
      @autumn399 Před 9 měsíci

      May i know how can i get started as an illustrator? How to be successful in it?

  • @nemesisoyuncu3310
    @nemesisoyuncu3310 Před 3 lety +10

    The hard days are what make you stronger 🥰🥰🥰

  • @JamesThompson-xn2jv
    @JamesThompson-xn2jv Před 2 lety +4

    I listen to TEDx while working or while relaxing. I dont really pick what topics are covered after the first. I just let what plays, play.
    When this video began to play, I stopped everything I was doing to listen and really hear what was being said.
    Thank you.

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much for the kind words🙏🏽

    • @JamesThompson-xn2jv
      @JamesThompson-xn2jv Před 2 lety +1

      @@CareerandLifeMastery you don't even realize how powerful your words were for me. Again, thank you!

  • @oguzhanerim9361
    @oguzhanerim9361 Před 3 lety +9

    Don’t be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart

  • @Lovelyfriendscasper
    @Lovelyfriendscasper Před 3 lety +11

    Whatever you are, be a good one

  • @CareerandLifeMastery
    @CareerandLifeMastery Před 2 lety +7

    Al-hamdulilah. Thanks for all of the kind words. I appreciate you all and I’m so pleased and thankful to my Creator that it has resonated with so many. 🙏🏽 God bless you all.💫

    • @h3941
      @h3941 Před 2 lety +1

      Allah Hu Akbar. May Allah maintain your blessings and keep giving you the strength to continue your good work. Ameen

  • @Enes-iu4mw
    @Enes-iu4mw Před 3 lety +7

    I now tried a new hypothesis: It was possible that I was more in charge of my happiness than I was allowing myself to be❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kaanozbnc4710
    @kaanozbnc4710 Před 2 lety +2

    This is the most beautiful talk I have heard so far.

  • @golamsarowar2962
    @golamsarowar2962 Před 2 lety +16

    Watching this for the first time is both inspiring and confusing because I feel overwhelmed with the amount of important information I want to remember. Will definitely need to watch it again.

  • @oyunhesab6091
    @oyunhesab6091 Před 3 lety +17

    Do what you feel in your heart to be right - for you’ll be criticized anyway

    • @danielarose9885
      @danielarose9885 Před 3 lety

      Thanks for your comment.
      If you'd like to make huge money Investing in cryptocurrency with little capital I will refer you to Garry Williams T.
      For more guidance.

    • @danielarose9885
      @danielarose9885 Před 3 lety

      W•H•A•T•S•A•P•√
      +=1= 9= 4 =9 =3= 1 =7 =1= 4= 2= 1.

  • @hawaallysa4998
    @hawaallysa4998 Před 2 lety +4

    Energy flows where focus goes

  • @anamariagomez707
    @anamariagomez707 Před 2 lety +14

    Yes👏🏼 we are all connected… that is the beauty of this journey…
    Thank You for those inspirational words. A purpose is a never ending quest , it changes at every stages of Life.

  • @dogamusmutlu347
    @dogamusmutlu347 Před 2 lety +3

    A simple and wonderful actress who needs to be saluted❤ and being happy without fear and worries.

  • @akbarakbar7904
    @akbarakbar7904 Před 2 lety +1

    This guy knows what he's doing. Nice job!

  • @imran-h
    @imran-h Před 2 lety +3

    This gentleman is amazing. I learned so much from this... I will rewatch this for the rest of my life. ❤

  • @hawaallysa4998
    @hawaallysa4998 Před 2 lety +2

    Hate harden the heart but love soften the it

  • @staciewebb4829
    @staciewebb4829 Před rokem +2

    One of the most amazing storytellers I've ever heard and seen I could watch you over and over again I love what you bring to your TED talk by telling the stories and acting them out it's so amazing thank you so much

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před rokem

      Thank you for the incredibly kind words. I gave it my all and it wasn’t easy as you have one shot to deliver a message and hope it will resonate. Your feedback is deeply appreciated and I wish much luck and success on your career and life journey.

  • @adsoyad9588
    @adsoyad9588 Před 2 lety +2

    A simple and wonderful actress who needs to be saluted❤

  • @-crazed8389
    @-crazed8389 Před 3 lety +4

    Probably the most helpful talk I've watched so far

  • @herseydahil1263
    @herseydahil1263 Před 2 lety +7

    I have suffered from depression and anxiety since I was 13, I am now 26 and have only recently discovered that the only thing that truly makes me relaxed is getting put into nature and exploring. Luckily I live beside forestry and fields so I go for a walk and explore every day I can. I really resonated with this talk! Thanks!

    • @maxinemoore8119
      @maxinemoore8119 Před 2 lety

      Still trying to narrow my love for one thing cause there several things that love to do.

    • @maxinemoore8119
      @maxinemoore8119 Před 2 lety

      I can listen to him over and over again

    • @maxinemoore8119
      @maxinemoore8119 Před 2 lety

      He is the best cause he make it plain.

  • @acemihobici770
    @acemihobici770 Před 2 lety +3

    I absolutely love her succinct message, non-confrontational delivery.

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před 2 lety

      Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @gambo2246
      @gambo2246 Před rokem +1

      you mean "his".. He is a dude

    • @kristinabliss
      @kristinabliss Před rokem +1

      @@gambo2246 So many comments either omit a gendered pronoun or say her/she, I am baffled!

  • @lotus3294
    @lotus3294 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you for such a lovely talk. I was ' not knowing what to do ' before watching this , now have a clue to design a small part of my life.

  • @bdcircle9406
    @bdcircle9406 Před 2 lety +2

    Really great review! Thanks for the post

  • @cob9834
    @cob9834 Před rokem +1

    I’m impressed almost every sentence he spoke would make a great T-shirt or greeting card

  • @happinessyogateacher
    @happinessyogateacher Před 2 lety +2

    Happiness leads to success. Happiness is the oxygen that fuels our internal fulfillment. Choose happiness as a place to begin. Be happy, breathe.

  • @solcukemalist8355
    @solcukemalist8355 Před 2 lety +1

    WOW!!! THAT FINAL CONCEPT WAS VERY SURPRISING!!!.... THANK YOU!!!....

  • @screentomake7206
    @screentomake7206 Před 2 lety +2

    I wish I heard this in my late 30s.... it might have made a nice difference in my life. But, I am alive! There is still time.

  • @antonkhlopotov
    @antonkhlopotov Před 3 lety +6

    Beautiful message of freedom, hope and truth and superb delivery!!

  • @muhsinsahin2374
    @muhsinsahin2374 Před 3 lety +8

    One of the best talks ever! So grateful! 🙏🥰

  • @konu-ikslarc1354
    @konu-ikslarc1354 Před 2 lety +2

    This is so useful! Thanks!

  • @robertpatrica4337
    @robertpatrica4337 Před 2 lety +6

    This is one of the best Ted talks I've watched. Great talk right on point thank you for sharing your ideas.

  • @onlineeducationnepal7842
    @onlineeducationnepal7842 Před 3 lety +5

    LETTING GO THE HATERS BRING MORE HAPPINESS

  • @samanthasmith8036
    @samanthasmith8036 Před 3 lety +8

    WOW. That's the TED Talk of the year! Hats off to Hassan Akmal. I am so moved! SOOO inspirational! Phenomenal! 5 Stars!

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much Samantha. It took me months to memorize that speech! I definitely skipped lines, hopefully nobody noticed! 😉 The inspiration came naturally.🙏🏽

  • @clemandlee2239
    @clemandlee2239 Před 2 lety +2

    Awesome talk,

  • @oyungsever4889
    @oyungsever4889 Před 2 lety +2

    Great motivating talk.

  • @pedr3767
    @pedr3767 Před 2 lety +1

    This was SO SO SO GOOD!!! I’m going to use...

  • @twitcholaylar6275
    @twitcholaylar6275 Před 2 lety +2

    Fantastic. Very helpful. I'm going to rewatch this video.

  • @lovefromnepalhero3444
    @lovefromnepalhero3444 Před 2 lety +2

    This is great!

  • @oyunzaman3482
    @oyunzaman3482 Před 2 lety +4

    One of the best lectures/speeches I've ever seen on the topic. Thank you!

  • @yop4501
    @yop4501 Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing... This is just what I needed in my life at this point.... I

  • @farjanayeasmin730
    @farjanayeasmin730 Před 2 lety +15

    The most important thing about this video is to let you know that you have the possibility to design your future. It means that only you can choose your dreams and goals, you have the power to decide about your life, if you think you need it you can change your lifestyle because you can do as many things as you think you can. It is important to take the advantages that life gives you to get far

  • @hikmetakar8591
    @hikmetakar8591 Před 2 lety +2

    Definitely listening to this again.

  • @enesmut142
    @enesmut142 Před 2 lety +1

    When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable. 💓💓💓💓

  • @yesimtuncoglu1434
    @yesimtuncoglu1434 Před 2 lety +2

    Great talk and loved the illustrations!

  • @airblue6304
    @airblue6304 Před 3 lety +3

    I so enjoyed this man's presentation. His passion and points are so helpful.

  • @colakhousemusicchm8581
    @colakhousemusicchm8581 Před 2 lety +2

    That was absolutely fantastic

  • @addvanceseo4420
    @addvanceseo4420 Před 2 lety +2

    This is really helpful!!

  • @veganchaatparty
    @veganchaatparty Před 3 lety +2

    Super super super awesome!! Super thanks for sharing!!!

  • @kusdunyasi7069
    @kusdunyasi7069 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank You ❤️

  • @erdaltastemur297
    @erdaltastemur297 Před 3 lety +14

    I'd been looking at designing my career as a student, using Design Thinking. Though I got stuck after the empathy building stage. This gives me so much clarity on how to take the process forward. Super excited to apply this! Thanks Bill 😍

  • @bunlarefsane5698
    @bunlarefsane5698 Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome talk, I love this TEDx thing! Is all about minimalism, living a simple life with less.

  • @yasarakcay7106
    @yasarakcay7106 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank You for those inspirational words. A purpose is a never-ending quest.

  • @kerimefermk
    @kerimefermk Před 2 lety +3

    Best and most inspirational TED talk I've seen, and I watch way too many of these.

  • @ortayakarsk6939
    @ortayakarsk6939 Před 2 lety +1

    In my opinion, it is important to learn how to be happy and to learn to enjoy everyday life

  • @ertobaskanbs710
    @ertobaskanbs710 Před 2 lety +2

    This is extremely insightful.

  • @lpsministv8461
    @lpsministv8461 Před 2 lety +1

    This is very simple, doable, and straightforward. Thank you.

  • @aliciastarnes1920
    @aliciastarnes1920 Před 2 lety +6

    Beautiful message of freedom, Thanks for the motivation! Hassan, you're cool !!!

  • @filizsenturk4499
    @filizsenturk4499 Před 2 lety +2

    THANK YOU THANK YOU
    THANK YOU
    YOU EXACTLY SPEECHED WHAT I WANTED
    TO MAINTAIN IN LIFE .SELF HEALING WAS MY GOAL TO GET TO SUCCESS AND I STARTED HEALING MYSELF
    AFTER 3O YEARS OF BAD MARRIAGE. I RELEASED AND ALLWAYS WAS CONFUSED IN LIFE AND SAID TO MYSELF WHAT DO YOU WANT IN LIFE ?
    FIRSTLY FIND MY WAY OUT
    BY BEING STABLE .I HAVE DEVELOPING MYSELF TO EVERYTHING WE NEED TO KNOW AND UNDERSTAND WHAT WE EXPECT IN LIFE HOW MUCH WE KNOW ABOUT SCIENCE AND OTHER SUBJECTS .THATS HOW FAR AND FAST WE CAN FIND OURSELVES AND BE BALANCED
    IN NATURE.

  • @roseadelepascal7916
    @roseadelepascal7916 Před rokem +1

    ❤ I listen to that audio every morning walking.great motivation thank you

  • @one_production7182
    @one_production7182 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you very much for the motivation🙏🙏🙏

  • @ahmetoztiftik3760
    @ahmetoztiftik3760 Před 3 lety +6

    That part about too much choice really hit home with me. I want to do too many things and I constantly feel overwhelmed so I don't do anything...

    • @tonyg_fgc8152
      @tonyg_fgc8152 Před 2 lety

      I highly suggest you watch Dr. K's "Unlocking motivation". I felt the same way and he talks about this very thing, wanting to do a lot, but being unable to do so. He's a psychiatrist so you can be sure you are gonna be helped by his video. Check the other one about executive dysfunction if you are interested. Hope I helped :)

  • @serhatugrasan1894
    @serhatugrasan1894 Před 2 lety +2

    This is great, exactly what I was looking for, thanks

  • @ziddi_boy__007____l9
    @ziddi_boy__007____l9 Před 2 lety +1

    Just in time when I need this advice the most. Thank you.

  • @meditateforwealth3060
    @meditateforwealth3060 Před 2 lety +2

    i have learn a lot from this video

  • @davidmora6502
    @davidmora6502 Před 3 lety +6

    Calibration! Fantastic message, Hassan. Thank you.

  • @alidogan3846
    @alidogan3846 Před 2 lety +2

    Great talk..

  • @hacalioncul1102
    @hacalioncul1102 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks a lot!! I got the exact answers I was looking for...

  • @cheianpangadrin
    @cheianpangadrin Před 3 lety +2

    Never loose hope,as long as your alive there is always possibility to success ISG🎀

  • @whatthehell4552
    @whatthehell4552 Před 2 lety +1

    Definitely listening to this again. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @dundenbugunemuzik-musicfro7687

    One of the best talks ever! So grateful! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @oyungemisi3999
    @oyungemisi3999 Před 2 lety +2

    Amazing

  • @myjoyisCHRIST
    @myjoyisCHRIST Před rokem +5

    I am so struck by the inspiration your father gave you-I am so happy to see the great fruit of his efforts, and what a worthy legacy you pass on to the world. Be blessed!

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much, Jennifer! His love and advice was simple, yet priceless and timeless. Appreciate your note so much, God bless you!🙏

    • @cartergomez5390
      @cartergomez5390 Před 5 měsíci

      Are you talking to the speaker?

  • @melihaldemir121
    @melihaldemir121 Před 2 lety +1

    Absolutely excellent. Bravo

  • @jacksonl2160
    @jacksonl2160 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great presentation! Came across this presentation and had such a positive learning from the Hassan.

  • @billywalters5469
    @billywalters5469 Před 3 lety +3

    thats strong!

  • @andrewmunlin2115
    @andrewmunlin2115 Před 2 lety +2

    Such a beautiful speech

  • @bgmireels8678
    @bgmireels8678 Před 2 lety +2

    Great speech, really insightful

  • @hissgroup963
    @hissgroup963 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this.

  • @kynaatlodhi
    @kynaatlodhi Před 3 lety +3

    GOLD!!!!!

  • @yagmurozturk3780
    @yagmurozturk3780 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow - best Ted talk I've ever viewed.

  • @yigitbey5712
    @yigitbey5712 Před 2 lety +3

    So many great ideas in one talk. Have to listen to it a few more times to get everything.

  • @Kadir-dz8hj
    @Kadir-dz8hj Před 2 lety +2

    Awesome video,

  • @UCSDCareerCenter
    @UCSDCareerCenter Před rokem +3

    Simply amazing. 10/10. Game changer. Akmal brings the X Factor!

  • @latoyahenry5881
    @latoyahenry5881 Před 3 lety +2

    WOW THANK YOU SIR...

  • @burakkink743
    @burakkink743 Před 2 lety +2

    thank you for a great talk.

  • @CareerandLifeMastery
    @CareerandLifeMastery Před 2 lety +12

    Wow, 1 million views!🙏🏽 Nothing but sheer gratitude for your support and messages. My takeaway: Always speak and act from the heart-as when it's full of light, God Almighty will use it to guide you..

    • @jessbartscher1843
      @jessbartscher1843 Před rokem +1

      Thank you 🙏 you are pretty inspiring. Much appreciation. You basically summed up all of the self help books I can't seem to get enough of in my life 💓 now onto practicing the mastery

    • @CareerandLifeMastery
      @CareerandLifeMastery Před rokem

      @@jessbartscher1843 Thank you! 🙏So happy it resonated. It's ALL about mastery. Remember, the mastery will lead to a river and that river will lead to streams. Don't start with the streams.