If Your Mind Goes BLANK in a Conversation, Use This Trick!

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  • čas přidán 21. 07. 2024
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    Want to know how to never run out of things to say to your crush? Here's a formula for how to carry on conversations to better connect with the person you're talking to and to prevent your mind from blanking out when a conversation topic ends.
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    ⏱️ Timestamps:
    0:00 - Why carrying a conversation is so hard
    0:38 - Step 1: Start with an ice-breaker question
    1:32 - Step 2: Go deeper into their answer
    2:30 - Step 3: Start getting personal
    3:16 - The trick to restarting a conversation
    4:15 - My FREE conversation guide
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Komentáře • 21

  • @matthewentwistle8284
    @matthewentwistle8284 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank God a video has finally been made addressing this. I hate having a blank mind so much. It's almost like my subconscious is naturally distrusting of others which was why I find it hard to break the ice with others.

  • @MakeupFairy039
    @MakeupFairy039 Před rokem +2

    I go blank when I’m having a conversation with my boyfriend and it’s so frustrating. I know have stuff I want to say, but there’s nothing in my brain.

  • @hamishkay3010
    @hamishkay3010 Před 2 lety +1

    Great tips dude as always ❤️✌🏻

  • @ezlam1142
    @ezlam1142 Před 2 lety +1

    OH MY GOSH thank you so much! this is a life saver. i'm really good friends with a girl, but i wanna ask her out one day. Do you have any tips on how to subtly ask someone out?

  • @tiblex1585
    @tiblex1585 Před 2 lety +2

    Great video

  • @jaylencninjaturtlesandbarn3454

    Hi Josh I may go to my prom alone and I wish I had a date since the two girls have a date is there a way I can still have fun or possibly hang with another girl at prom since I already paid for it

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey, absolutely Jaylen. We often think that the only way to enjoy promised to have a date but realistically when you're at prom you're going to see a lot of your friends and you're going to hear a lot of great music and it's just a way to enjoy the finale of it all with the people you care about. Whether you have a date or not you can have a wonderful time.

  • @samuelrogito9515
    @samuelrogito9515 Před 2 lety

    Lifesaver

  • @MrGZM90
    @MrGZM90 Před 2 lety

    Can you make video on hating the city and town wear you live?

  • @reactspossibly
    @reactspossibly Před 2 lety +2

    hello josh, ive got a crush on a girl but i dont know how to ask her out, i have some issues too, i dont know much about her and i am too shy and nervous to do it.
    (i did do another comment but i dont think it went through, but idk, anyways). can you help somehow?

  • @daantheman4626
    @daantheman4626 Před 2 lety

    Yo, when somebody cute talks to me I get kinda nervous and end up being really awkward, and giving one word answers and am not good at keeping the conversation going so i end up leaving because I’m to scared to compliment them or ask questions and stuff. do you know what I could do to prevent that or is it just a lost case with no solution?

  • @living_craft
    @living_craft Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks alot

  • @cutieisabella3443
    @cutieisabella3443 Před 2 lety

    Hey Josh help me out here....🙏
    So theirs this girl i have a crush on , i sent her a first message but she didn't reply me so i waited and after 2 days i sent her a message again ..after 6 hours i finally got a reply and so i sent her a message again but she didn't reply me back, why do u think it is, we dont see each other much but when we see its always like she stare at me when i dont watch, and that smile of her 😩..help me with a strategy 🙏🥺

  • @masqueradeboy8519
    @masqueradeboy8519 Před 2 lety +4

    Hey, i have a question for you.
    What to do i have a huge crush on girl; who is my friend in a college. But she already in a relationship over 6 year's with a boy. She knew i like her very much. But she considered me as her a backup in case she brokeup with her current boyfriend.
    I don't know what to do, these feelings make me feel worse every day. When i see her talking to her boyfriend and other male friends.
    *Please reply me if possible.

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  Před 2 lety +3

      Hey, it sucks to be in that position because you hold out hope hoping that one day she'll turn around and realize that you're the person for her, but it's not the case. What actually happens in those situations is that the girl may recognize how you feel about her but because she's in a relationship she has no intention of thinking about you in a romantic way. And when she's known you for so long as just her friend it's going to be hard for her to transition to thinking about you in another way. The best thing that you can do honestly is to deprioritize her from your life and to shift your mindset to focus on pursuing someone else who can give you the time and attention that you deserve.

    • @masqueradeboy8519
      @masqueradeboy8519 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TheJoshSpeaks thanks for advice and replying but the thing is she has said to me that I can be her ideal boyfriend, if she is not in a relationship; i will be her boyfriend. And she is attracted to me also. I stand very quite on her list on the basis of looks. I just wanna ask should I wait for her or move on.

    • @thereisnofinishline5773
      @thereisnofinishline5773 Před 2 lety +1

      Dude you do NOT want to be considerd some girls ''backup', this just means that you are replaceable for her if she decides to give you a chance. She doesn't care about you nearly as much as you do about her, forget her, go hit the gym and become a sickkunt.

    • @joshuamccullen675
      @joshuamccullen675 Před 2 lety +2

      @@masqueradeboy8519 here I am, about to tell you to move on. But I’m in the exact situation and it’s way easier said than done. It’s funny how I hear your situation and the answer is obvious but then I’m dealing with the same shit and it terrorizes me every day…

    • @InfernoWizzard0101
      @InfernoWizzard0101 Před 2 lety +2

      Be the number 1 and only option, not the second option.