How to Overcome Body Shame with Ken and Tabatha

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  • čas přidán 15. 11. 2023
  • Ever wrestled with your reflection in the mirror, wishing that you could see past your perceived imperfections? Have you allowed others' opinions and societal norms to shape your self-image? Join us as we delve deep into our own personal experiences dealing with body shame, a topic that's often brushed under the rug, but holds a significant influence on our daily lives. From grappling with racism and self-doubt to overcoming adversity, we open up about our journey towards self-acceptance and how we learned to love ourselves, our flaws, and all.
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Komentáře • 65

  • @roslyngraham5883
    @roslyngraham5883 Před 7 měsíci +27

    Tabatha you don’t look 47 for real. Your inner beauty pours out of you. Thank you for your transparency

    • @Lp2QuickFire
      @Lp2QuickFire Před 7 měsíci +3

      I wouldn't have been surprised if these two were in their 30s😵‍💫

    • @thembisamakhoba1606
      @thembisamakhoba1606 Před 7 měsíci +1

      They look very young

  • @EmeraldDove1743
    @EmeraldDove1743 Před 7 měsíci +9

    She's 47? Where ? My goodness she looks good! Praise the Lord for her youthful appearance inside and out! 😊

  • @antwanyafriday8026
    @antwanyafriday8026 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Just hearing everything that Mrs. Tabatha been through and to see her handle it with grace is powerful. I love this woman. Mrs. Tabatha you deserve everything you get. Your confidence and inner beauty is just out of this world. Both of you are amazing. I'm so glad this channel showed up on my timeline. You guys have been such a blessing to me in such a little time. And I will be visiting Alive Church one day. God bless you guys and please don't stop putting out content because I'm here for it ❤❤

  • @maribelcash9836
    @maribelcash9836 Před 7 měsíci +5

    I am 36 and Tabatha, I thank God for you. You are so amazing and beautiful. I am half white and half Mexican, so I had the race battle. Now, it’s weight and age, and I just want to say; thank you for being so honest about your story. You are truly inspiring and amazing and such a blessing to other women, including myself.

  • @GlitterBrixx
    @GlitterBrixx Před 4 měsíci +2

    I love the open dialogue. I am too journeying into wifehood & you all exemplify healthy communication, honesty, and respect. When many of us have never seen or experienced it before! Thank you for you’re vulnerability as Individuals and as a couple! ❤

  • @msprettysunshine
    @msprettysunshine Před 6 měsíci +3

    You two are the mentors I’ve been looking for. Thank God for your wisdoms and boldness to share. This was a very helpful video. Thank you so much for sharing your story. As someone who has struggled with this all my life. I’ve learned to trust what the Bible says about who I am and repeat daily. God Bless.

  • @SeeK1289
    @SeeK1289 Před měsícem

    04/23/24 I NEEDED this today!!! I've been talking down on myself lately, so this was Right on time!!!

  • @Nicole__97_
    @Nicole__97_ Před 4 měsíci +1

    I pray I can be with confidence one day especially after my mastectomy scars

  • @bri_marie0406
    @bri_marie0406 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I would like to say that you do not look 47 🙋‍♀️ You look like maybe 41? You look amazing and what’s more is your inner beauty, strength, and confidence are off the charts. Thank you for who you are and sharing that with us all, especially those of us who are still battling fiercely with our own body shame.

  • @genaalder2057
    @genaalder2057 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Hi Ken and Tabitha. I love your messages. Your relationship and marriage gives me hope. Thank you for caring about us. You've helped me tremendously! Keep up the good work!

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady Před 6 měsíci +2

    Wow! Tabatha appreciate the total openness about your journey. ❤

  • @tsiontilahun3669
    @tsiontilahun3669 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I accidentally found and subscribed to your channel since last September. I have learned so much from each of your posts. I have been married for 15 years and have three daughters. I listen to your advice two or three times a week and share it with my friends because I want to be a good wife and mother. Even though it is midnight in Ethiopia, I am about to go to sleep after listening to your message. I always look forward to your Thursday message. May God's grace and mercy be upon you.
    Thank you so much, lots of love and respect.

  • @taryndodds1390
    @taryndodds1390 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I really struggle with body shame for many reasons. Thank you for this.

  • @user-vl7zg3bu2i
    @user-vl7zg3bu2i Před 6 měsíci +2

    I am 16 years old and just started getting in to watching videos when it comes to growing closer to the lord and I had seen clips of y’all’s videos on tiktok so once I got on CZcams I knew I had to find you guys and I love y’all’s videos. Not just the topic of conversation in your videos is what I love but also the demonstration and example you both set as a such a great married couple. I love you both thank you guys!

  • @pastormairo
    @pastormairo Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is so inspiring! Thanks for sharing your story Tabatha. God bless you all and God's ministry in your hands.

  • @vaughnstravel1735
    @vaughnstravel1735 Před 7 měsíci +4

    The letter you read in the beginning was so me I came across your Channel and after one episode I subscribed and I'm hooked. I feel like it was ordained for me to stumble across your content because I'm single and I need to learn how to be a wife before becoming one. And this particular episode hits home. Thank you both for being used of God. This content is needed you both are a blessing 💙

  • @user-yl6wz9ez7s
    @user-yl6wz9ez7s Před 28 dny

    Yes Tab you're very Beautiful ❤️

  • @Maintoopure
    @Maintoopure Před 7 měsíci +1

    I’m 23 been following u guys channel for past months thanks for the knowledge n wisdom u guys open my eyes too 💯✝️

  • @soniaverver5156
    @soniaverver5156 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Amen I receive spirit of confidence 🙏🏽

  • @elementsofvirtue
    @elementsofvirtue Před 6 měsíci

    I absolutely love their candor and they communicate with such grace and wisdom, conveying a message that everyone can relate to in some aspect. And I love how they regard one another with love and adoration. The grace of God is immensely immeasurable and evident in them as his chosen vessels! So praise God Most High! Thank you heavenly Father for this timely message. Jesus is Lord❤️

  • @vmartin2409
    @vmartin2409 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Such a beautiful and wonderful couple...

  • @ashleyniquee
    @ashleyniquee Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was amazing. Thank you guys for sharing ❤️

  • @SaucyZo
    @SaucyZo Před 7 měsíci

    I loveeeee Tabatha so much. Wow! Truly, I see the love of Jesus pouring out of her like a huge waterfall

  • @laquandahill1322
    @laquandahill1322 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Tab, YOU. ARE. AMAZING!!! ❤

  • @tamiaphillips7910
    @tamiaphillips7910 Před 7 měsíci

    I am 23 years old and I just realised that I've been living with shame in this area. The realisation hits hard but I know that I am on my way to healing and being set free from mindsets of imposter syndrome, low self-esteem and the like...
    This was comforting to me. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and words of wisdom.

  • @JoelGarcia-to4kh
    @JoelGarcia-to4kh Před 7 měsíci

    You guys are still young , I'm 58 and look just as young as you , AMEN , I THANK THE LORD JESUS 💝💝💝 AMEN , GOD BLESS YOU TWO ALWAYS AND FOREVER 💖💖💖

  • @jocifranco1452
    @jocifranco1452 Před 7 měsíci

    This was so good 💕

  • @marvah99
    @marvah99 Před 7 měsíci

    WOOT WOOTT Another Episodee!!🥳

  • @avisjackson7502
    @avisjackson7502 Před 7 měsíci

    Awesome video!

  • @moniquefrazier5195
    @moniquefrazier5195 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Just. Beautiful!!!!!!

  • @carlaandrews1110
    @carlaandrews1110 Před 6 měsíci

    God bless u woman of God for your honesty on here❤. U just don’t know how it has touched me and wanting to seek God about embracing me. Thru however I look 👀, menopause is no joke! Past hurt and pain that we suffer as children and now as an adults we now have to deal with. I bless God for how he is allow preachers to come out and help to free his people 🙏

  • @nortashajones8481
    @nortashajones8481 Před 6 měsíci

    This is wonderful!!! I’m appreciate this ❤

  • @thembisamakhoba1606
    @thembisamakhoba1606 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wow 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @samanthablake7292
    @samanthablake7292 Před 7 měsíci

    Am so glad I found this channel 😊

  • @nicoleashcraft2886
    @nicoleashcraft2886 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is SOOOOO ENCOURAGING!! Thank you both for being SO Aunthentic.❤

  • @brittanycook5961
    @brittanycook5961 Před 6 měsíci

    Same as the review read!!! Found you on TikTok and started binge watching while working!!!! I cant say thank you enough for sharing with us!

  • @denisejones2639
    @denisejones2639 Před 6 měsíci

    Excellent topic and dialogue! Bravo!!

  • @christireidgordon
    @christireidgordon Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for ya'll's wisdom, I am constantly learning each episodes!😄

  • @nicoleashcraft2886
    @nicoleashcraft2886 Před 6 měsíci

    This is SO REAL AND BEAUTIFUL!!

  • @itssilvermadallion
    @itssilvermadallion Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love your videos! It’s very comforting! ❤ I love the both you!!!!!!

  • @roslyngraham5883
    @roslyngraham5883 Před 7 měsíci +1

    You go sister. You look fantabulous

  • @thembisamakhoba1606
    @thembisamakhoba1606 Před 7 měsíci

    Looking foward for the episode of aging gracefully ❤

  • @freevibe4146
    @freevibe4146 Před 5 měsíci

    This was such a good episode . Tabatha thank you for your transparency it blessed me !

  • @andreahousen207
    @andreahousen207 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you both I think you are amazing using the words of God to encourage and ignite faith in everyday situations.

  • @lawandacole6547
    @lawandacole6547 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Enjoy this podcast ❤God bless both of you

  • @kimberleyridings7576
    @kimberleyridings7576 Před 5 měsíci

    You look amazing. I have gone through some loss that has made me feel less than. Thank you for this episode. It has helped me so much.

  • @oyinkansolakukoyi9964
    @oyinkansolakukoyi9964 Před 7 měsíci

    I enjoyed this tremendously. Thank you sharing your story and being vulnerable just to be a blessing to us. ❤ from Nigeria

  • @user-uw9zv3jb7p
    @user-uw9zv3jb7p Před 6 měsíci

    Thank God I discovered these podcasts . They are really relevant and meaningful. You guys do a very good job of keeping it real and interesting. May God continue to bless and direct both of you as you openly share your life to help others . I always walk away feeling blessed and more knowledgeable after listening to the podcasts . Thank you !

  • @nonsikelelo9657
    @nonsikelelo9657 Před 7 měsíci

    I love everything about this podcast just found it and the wisdom I’m getting it’s amazing you guys are God sent.. sending lots of love from SOUTH AFRICA God bless🙏❤❤

  • @tanulacoleman9466
    @tanulacoleman9466 Před 7 měsíci

    I love this Tabitha can you share the scriptures that you quoted regarding reminding ourselves what God says about us that we can quote in the mirror. Thank you both for sharing your God given wisdom and love it radiates to us.

  • @Kiai808
    @Kiai808 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you both ❤❤❤
    (Side note: First time I see ken isn’t wearing black.)

  • @lesegomashile9224
    @lesegomashile9224 Před 7 měsíci

    Beautiful Episode thank you so much for sharing and the wisdom , this was definitely a mind shift after having dealt with bodyshame all my life now after watching I am reminded who I am in Christ Jesus so now I declare that I am fearfully and wonderfully made # Godfidence

  • @CliffordErich
    @CliffordErich Před 7 měsíci +1

    Love you two...LOVE ya! Both my wife and I watch every episode (I also really enjoy your (Ken) Alive Church ministries too on here.) What an absolute blessing that you share so willingly and freely of your testimonies and experiences in the hopes of helping others (Full stop!). God bless you and yours...
    - The Erichs

  • @user-fu1zv6pn7v
    @user-fu1zv6pn7v Před 7 měsíci

    I BELIEVE IT IS FOR MEN AND WOMEN- SOME MEN ARE NOT PLEASED WITH THE WAY THEY ARE MADE UP OR SHALL I SAY THE WAY GOD MADE THEM- WELL MY GOD SAYS IM PERFECTLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE- I THINK WE ALL CRITIQUE OUT BODIES IN SOME WAY- IM SAYING MY GOD DOESNT MAKE ANY MISTAKES

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 Před 7 měsíci

    🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @yoursafeplace7131
    @yoursafeplace7131 Před 7 měsíci

    ❤❤

  • @denisewinston137
    @denisewinston137 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Tabatha you don't look 47 years old, you don't look like what you been thought

  • @roslyngraham5883
    @roslyngraham5883 Před 7 měsíci +1

    What about body shame coming from the man perspective?

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 Před 7 měsíci

    Can u do a video on abortion