Death Complicates Life - Henry Githaiga

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  • čas přidán 23. 08. 2024
  • Henry Githaiga shares the challenges his family went through when they lost their father. His heart warming story reveals the love of a hard working mother who sacrificed all to enable her 4 sons get an education. He encourages us that although death complicates life, the living can make life worth living.
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Komentáře • 121

  • @muthonikamau6307
    @muthonikamau6307 Před 5 lety +55

    On behalf of all last borns thank you to all the first borns. This is really inspiring

    • @joymuriithiwanjala6193
      @joymuriithiwanjala6193 Před 5 lety

      Muthoni Kamau I love this comment..we do go through a lot...so do you... applause to you too

    • @dennisharry4985
      @dennisharry4985 Před 5 lety +1

      Thank you for noting and welcome. You are also adorable creatures of love.

    • @henrygithaiga2697
      @henrygithaiga2697 Před 5 lety +1

      Thank you Muthoni

  • @maryndinda95
    @maryndinda95 Před 5 lety +27

    my kinda story,,,back in 2000 on 24th august (i was 8 yrs old)i came home from school only to find so many people and white tents at home in the village.Nobody had the courage to tell me what was going on but i could tell there was something wrong.Evening came and it was time for news...weeeh ...everyone came near the radio kuskia news.kumbe my mom was already gone na the advert was already on Radio.The news fell on deaf hears...weeeeee..i cried..anyway we was left an orphan(no dad)at 8,5 and 3.i had to bring my brothers up.18 years later i still remember the pain.i dont know where i got the strength from but so far i have taken care of them and still will continue till they become.death complicates life but the living can make the it worth living.

    • @gloriamutoni5137
      @gloriamutoni5137 Před 5 lety

      At 10 (in 2001), I lost my mom, I had a 2yr old brother and a 12yr old brother, so I took care of the youngest, only God healed my inner person because losing a mother at such a young age robs you of being a child, coz you have to fend for yourself and your siblings, I am grateful for the strength God gave me. Today, me and my older brother are working, while the youngest is in 2nd year University. How grateful can I be?
      I wish you all the best

  • @justuskirigua6322
    @justuskirigua6322 Před 5 lety +14

    "Death complicates life but the living make it worth living" - Extremely profound Henry

  • @irenemechold3103
    @irenemechold3103 Před 5 lety +2

    That happened when our dad became ill till he died. Things changed, from food to school fees to losing friends. Our dads rich friends, relatives desappeared. No one came to our rescue. Anyways, no blames. We learned to stand up and move on.RIP dad, mum is smiling next to you now. She really fought for us till her last breath on Jan 1st 2017. Thank you!

  • @sueteller
    @sueteller Před 5 lety +12

    I'm so proud of you!! You did that!! Nobody knew what you were going through back in University ,Henry. You are an inspiration.

    • @henrygithaiga2697
      @henrygithaiga2697 Před 5 lety +1

      Firstborn mentality is always do it now panic/worry about it later

    • @jiranika
      @jiranika Před 5 lety

      Always saw you at Dayo... Thanks for sharing your story. I especially needed to hear the last part...

  • @samkimani5426
    @samkimani5426 Před 5 lety +12

    Very inspiring Githaiga. Death does indeed complicate life but gives an opportunity to know self

  • @jbdebbielish8483
    @jbdebbielish8483 Před 5 lety +1

    The Strength of A Woman
    I love how wimin put effort to their kids...
    Saudi Arabia watching
    My dota will make it in Jesus Name
    Very inspiring

  • @headofprotocol
    @headofprotocol Před 5 lety +1

    What a timely testimony from Henry Githaiga!
    Isn't it incredible that our once seemingly feeble attempts at salvaging our lives become the stuff of legend when we are telling our tales of victory?

  • @Jay-iz3qb
    @Jay-iz3qb Před 3 lety

    "It helps to stay down and listen to life as it counts you down,just as it gets to ten you wake up and show life's complications that you can also count."....Thank you Sir

  • @clairekaruga6637
    @clairekaruga6637 Před 5 lety +5

    This has made my day. It came at the right time. Thank you Henry and may God expand your territory and bless you and your family.

  • @hellenkariuki8544
    @hellenkariuki8544 Před 5 lety +5

    Very inspiring!! I totally relate to this story...I am also a first born raised by a single mother with my four other siblings.I can truly say the far we've come its by the hand of God and my loving mum's sacrifices

    • @henrygithaiga2697
      @henrygithaiga2697 Před 5 lety +2

      1. Mothers don't get enough credit for the things they do to keep us afloat.
      2. God's grace is sufficient

  • @susanyoung374
    @susanyoung374 Před 5 lety

    Death complicates life but those who hold on to God come out victorious! 2004 the same year I lost my Dad, 2005 my Mum joined him. Looking back I thank God as I recount of how God has carried us along me and my 4 siblings.

  • @isabella4943
    @isabella4943 Před 5 lety

    Am so proud of you Henry,as a neighbor and childhood friend you are such a great inspiration.Thanks for sharing your story Githaiga....Glad you came out of Dusit safe.Baraka tele.

  • @margaretmugithi2205
    @margaretmugithi2205 Před 5 lety +3

    Almost brought me to tears then illuminates hope.What a blessing.

  • @benardmwangi843
    @benardmwangi843 Před 5 lety +1

    I agree with you... There is nothing as great as mother's love. The sacrifice she makes for your well-being. Treat them well

  • @E.N.A.O
    @E.N.A.O Před 5 lety +1

    He has just narrated my story! And beautifully. God bless mothers.

  • @janetkihahu5848
    @janetkihahu5848 Před 5 lety +2

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭u are speaking on my behalf.may God bless us 1st born.we are deputy parents

  • @CoolkenyanInisrael
    @CoolkenyanInisrael Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks Henry for sharing ...it's sad yet so inspiring

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 Před 3 lety

    Waaa such a brilliant young man.. Mature and sobering.. Thanks for sharing

  • @Nellie746
    @Nellie746 Před 5 lety +4

    Henry this is very inspiring. The speech was excellent. The delivery was wonderful

  • @winnienotthepooh4272
    @winnienotthepooh4272 Před 5 lety +1

    Henry you are very inspiring...I love your story. Your mommy is a true hero, 4 educated young men by herself!! I salute her.

  • @Lk19895
    @Lk19895 Před 5 lety +3

    Really inspirational , I can relate lost my dad last year ,God is always in control.

  • @jbdebbielish8483
    @jbdebbielish8483 Před 5 lety

    Such inspirational experiences
    I thank God for never give up
    Saudi Arabia watching am waking up in to a Rich inheritances
    I will never ever give up

  • @wambui_davids
    @wambui_davids Před 5 lety +1

    You are an amazing soul. You are one strong willed and this awesome person who has a big heart!! I'm proud of you and thank you for sharing your inspiring story with the rest of us. Way to go Henry!

    • @henrygithaiga2697
      @henrygithaiga2697 Před 5 lety

      Thanks dear, we all have great stories. More people should tell their stories

  • @rubysailor9186
    @rubysailor9186 Před 5 lety

    Absolutely inspiring. Henry and your brothers,may God be with you always and use you to inspire others.

  • @cynthiamwangi8063
    @cynthiamwangi8063 Před 5 lety +6

    It took me longer than I thought to watch this because i really didnt want to start looking for whoever is cutting onions around me...but I'm glad i finally got the courage and watched it. Brilliantly told, you sir are inspiring and your mother is a star, ' tondu niwe werihagira?' hehee i was on the floor, typical mothers. She is a true shujaa.

    • @henrygithaiga2697
      @henrygithaiga2697 Před 5 lety

      Hahah mothers are somethings else all together. Thanks dear and here is to no more onion cuts

  • @nqatha2229
    @nqatha2229 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow! This is quite inspiring. Pass my thanks to your mum. It's great to get such timely encouragement. You made your parents proud!

  • @lucymuigai524
    @lucymuigai524 Před 5 lety

    As a first born i understand you fully. May God bless our mothers .

  • @lilken.4291
    @lilken.4291 Před 5 lety +1

    A great story of sacrifice,for sure nothing comes easily,glad that for now you all enjoying the fruits and more sure that your mother is the happiest mama ever,God bless.

  • @wamuhukinuthia9940
    @wamuhukinuthia9940 Před 5 lety +5

    Beautifuuuuul!!! One day ill attend Engage!! One day

  • @jackbawa3703
    @jackbawa3703 Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks Wahuga Githaiga, been waiting for this upload with much anticipation and I am truly touched

  • @janicerichards8959
    @janicerichards8959 Před 5 lety

    This is AMAZING Henry you are the MAN💪💪💪💪💪. Your story is one on the most inspiring . God Bless you all, the struggle is Real But God. Thank for you my Friend for your strength , kindness, thoughtfulness and for been so considerate for the good of your Family. You ROCK😍😍✌✌✌❤❤❤

  • @rachaelkibe7130
    @rachaelkibe7130 Před 5 lety

    Aaawh this is soo beautifully narrated, what would we be without our mothers.

  • @mwongely1745
    @mwongely1745 Před 5 lety +1

    Oh my! Truly inspiring. I did not know you were going through this in campus. I am glad you get to tell your story and inspire others.

  • @maureenjannephar3507
    @maureenjannephar3507 Před 5 lety

    When I came from school to find out my papa is no more I thought it was the end of life, it took me years to heal, I would cry at school for no reason, I became aggressive rude I would shout at people healing is journey, I wish j could apologise to people I was rude, I still shade tears as I write I work and wish my papa was alive to accept something from me, I salute my mummy for raising 6kids RIP daddy

  • @chania80
    @chania80 Před 5 lety +1

    God bless you sir. Thank you for sharing.

  • @silviakirehu4126
    @silviakirehu4126 Před 5 lety +1

    Beautiful speech!!!! You are such an eloquent story teller. Didn't realize that it had come to an end so quick.

  • @lydiamwangi1831
    @lydiamwangi1831 Před 5 lety +3

    How can one double like!!! Excellent.

    • @lydiamwangi1831
      @lydiamwangi1831 Před 5 lety +2

      I however wish more breadwinners understood the need for Life Insurance so that their families can live less stressful lives when they are gone.

  • @caroloyola2
    @caroloyola2 Před 5 lety +3

    This story is so similar to mine - thanks for sharing Henry! Your spirit was so alive at DayU.

    • @henrygithaiga2697
      @henrygithaiga2697 Před 5 lety

      Thanks dear. At some point we all have to make due with what we have but in the end it is the strength of those around us that keep us going. My mum was that pillar of strength

    • @caroloyola2
      @caroloyola2 Před 5 lety

      @@henrygithaiga2697 you're inspiring many. My mum was that too for us when my dad died when I was 12.

    • @nyaguthiinjuya4185
      @nyaguthiinjuya4185 Před 5 lety

      Hi Wandia is that you?

  • @Krizadh
    @Krizadh Před 5 lety +1

    My mother took us(5kids) to school through tough ways after my dad died when we were so young.. she did not have a job!!!!

  • @maryannemuchai8254
    @maryannemuchai8254 Před 5 lety +1

    Brilliant! Eloquent! Inspiring! And boxing on the 10th count.....

  • @martinmagiri9235
    @martinmagiri9235 Před 5 lety

    Thank you for the inspiration Henry. And blessings to your Mum & all Mums, & lastly pole sana for your Dad.

  • @luciegabriel5962
    @luciegabriel5962 Před 5 lety +1

    Woooooow!you've given me a reason to rise again..
    Soooo powerful💪

    • @paturnellahazell532
      @paturnellahazell532 Před 5 lety

      May you receive the courage& inspiration to keep going. "Still I rise"

  • @suemwinza2463
    @suemwinza2463 Před 5 lety

    Great presentation. Engaging, very informative and encouraging. Mamas are the best

  • @thelitcoach0202
    @thelitcoach0202 Před 2 lety

    Watched. Really inspiring

  • @margaretmbugua7076
    @margaretmbugua7076 Před 5 lety +2

    Infact death complicates life but determination uncomplicates it....you are lucky your mum was left count her twice when you count your blessings

  • @justbetty108
    @justbetty108 Před 5 lety

    Oh wow! I absolutely inspiring. Thank you for sharing Henry.

  • @mungainjonjo9122
    @mungainjonjo9122 Před 5 lety +2

    Wow, truly inspiring

  • @Lucykanya
    @Lucykanya Před 5 lety

    Very well said, thanks for sharing. Encouraged..

  • @marthagithinji6013
    @marthagithinji6013 Před 5 lety

    mmmhh nice one and the ...voice.... is melting my heart. i love it

  • @elvindayans1519
    @elvindayans1519 Před 5 lety

    Wahuga Githaiga..this is truly an inspiration.

  • @johnjimngugi6053
    @johnjimngugi6053 Před 5 lety +3

    You could have made this story longer,its so interesting and so inspiring.. living makes it worth living

    • @henrygithaiga2697
      @henrygithaiga2697 Před 5 lety

      Time is never enough, but am sure I can find other ways of telling more. Thank you

    • @johnjimngugi6053
      @johnjimngugi6053 Před 5 lety

      @@henrygithaiga2697 i cant just wait to have more of this story...

  • @paulinepolly1750
    @paulinepolly1750 Před 5 lety

    Congratulations & great job "its an inspiration for first born 👏👏👏

  • @gladysnkuusayiga9093
    @gladysnkuusayiga9093 Před rokem

    Well said

  • @estahadassah9470
    @estahadassah9470 Před 5 lety +2

    What an inspiring story🎉! It tells us that we should always be ready for the unexpected. Life is pretty uncertain😬, so always be braced💪 & be prepared for the worst case scenario😊

  • @purplespray3768
    @purplespray3768 Před 5 lety +1

    Amazing story.

  • @carolngugi7206
    @carolngugi7206 Před 5 lety

    very inspiring Henry, it has come at the right time, just lost my dad two weeks ago and am the first born... How relate to this..Thanks Man!

  • @kalondundonyi392
    @kalondundonyi392 Před 5 lety +1

    Wow... very inspiring

  • @naillahanne4129
    @naillahanne4129 Před 5 lety

    Absolutely Amaizing.

  • @lilynderitu
    @lilynderitu Před 5 lety

    Wow!!! inspiring! Well told!

  • @sharonanyango4041
    @sharonanyango4041 Před 3 lety

    I can totally relate to this.

  • @centrinekegehi8546
    @centrinekegehi8546 Před 5 lety

    TESTIMONIES, Great!

  • @KibetBrian
    @KibetBrian Před 4 lety

    Inspiring story

  • @ludyoluoko9702
    @ludyoluoko9702 Před 5 lety

    I remember how you were so full of life in Dayo.

  • @moneymine254
    @moneymine254 Před 5 lety

    Inspiring.

  • @lilianomboke648
    @lilianomboke648 Před 5 lety +1

    I’m at that point,withdrew everything and I now have nothing to my name but hope,a new job and a beginning to my story. I choose to be positive and look forward to doing life having learned from my mistakes.

    • @marara84
      @marara84 Před 5 lety

      be strong im also going through that phase in my life right now but everyday im grateful to have life and i know that no situation is permanent and always be positive

  • @mwendapoleee
    @mwendapoleee Před 5 lety

    Thats life it comes with its challenges!

  • @JM-gh1oz
    @JM-gh1oz Před 5 lety

    Love the way a lady in the audience said Ameen, at the ned of the speech. Lol.

  • @katush7959
    @katush7959 Před 5 lety

    Wow inspiring

  • @rachelmwangi4324
    @rachelmwangi4324 Před 5 lety

    wooooow such an encouraging though painful story to see one going through all this.

  • @shirokamau2058
    @shirokamau2058 Před 5 lety

    I can totally relate..

  • @kainyugrace8460
    @kainyugrace8460 Před 5 lety

    Beautiful

  • @faithnyambura245
    @faithnyambura245 Před 5 lety

    Lovely.

  • @marymwikali5877
    @marymwikali5877 Před 5 lety +1

    Family love ❤❤

  • @trizasawaya8251
    @trizasawaya8251 Před 5 lety

    Woooooow a mother a mother amother

  • @thekenyantourguidestoriesg1399

    The feminist movement in kenya has made it look like fathers are becoming irrelevant. The role of fathers must never be underrated. Thank God for your strong mother and more for your father who's absence was deeply felt.

  • @joymuriithiwanjala6193

    I'd like to know when the next engage is...would love to attend

    • @EngageTalk
      @EngageTalk  Před 5 lety +1

      Good evening Joy. The next Engage is on 8th December. Tickets are available on www.engage.or.ke and www.ticketsasa.com

    • @joymuriithiwanjala6193
      @joymuriithiwanjala6193 Před 5 lety

      Engage Talk thank you..this date falls on a planned weekend already with extended family...I will hope to know the next date, time, damage on pocket and venue. I'll deeply appreciate it for planning...if its not too much to ask..keep me in the loop.

    • @EngageTalk
      @EngageTalk  Před 5 lety +1

      @@joymuriithiwanjala6193 please share your email address with us on info@engage.or.ke and we'll add you to our mailing list.

    • @joymuriithiwanjala6193
      @joymuriithiwanjala6193 Před 5 lety

      Engage Talk ASAP... thank you...

  • @theoneandonly4718
    @theoneandonly4718 Před 5 lety

    My worst nightmare happened last month,my mom was no more .

    • @gashafashi08
      @gashafashi08 Před 5 lety +1

      Pole sana. Sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is a shattering experience. I pray you find peace & comfort during this hard time💓💓

  • @laurynnakitare4025
    @laurynnakitare4025 Před 5 lety

    This is my story only that I wasn't the 1st born.

  • @JessicaAfricaOfficialke
    @JessicaAfricaOfficialke Před 5 lety +3

    Husband material ah ah!

  • @tushyranx5860
    @tushyranx5860 Před 4 lety

    Expect mothers to get by on a shoe-string budget

  • @janetkatiwanorman2567
    @janetkatiwanorman2567 Před 5 lety +1

    Are u single?

    • @albyknm
      @albyknm Před 5 lety

      Real Janet Norman 😂