WEDDING IS CANCELLED
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So ... over a thousand people have given a thumbs-up that my wedding was cancelled
and oddly my feelings are not hurt, lol!!! Thank you for all of your amazing support guys,
You're The BEST!!!
xo's ~ Tati
I love you Tati ! You a such a role model to me!!! xoxoxo
Liking it because we want you to be happy, not stressed 💝
Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! So happy for you both that you're just going for it. You're AWESOME guys. XX
the thumbs up are for a happy elope :D have a great one and enjoy it
You have your priorities sorted... it's the marriage that is important, not the wedding. Go marry the man you love!
He's a mixture between Paul McCartney and Chandler from friends!!
omg yeees :D
Yes!!!!! Spot on !
+Laura Beltran yaaaaas omg!
+Laura Beltran OMG, I was just thinking the same thing!
+Laura Beltran omg i was thinking that too
The way he looks at her.... Wow...
I KNOW!!!!
I know! Every man should look at their woman like this!
Leena Park good for you
Leena Park Mine too. My husband and I have been married for 13 yrs and he still looks at me like he did when we were dating. Btw, we only dated for a month! Lol! I love my hubby!❤ btw, so glad you are happy and found a amazing man too!
3 years later and its still not changed, shes really lucky
Dude, he looks like a younger Paul Mccartney.
I WAS THINKING THAT😂
+Hedwig I thought the exact same thing! And it's funny because Paul McCartney's first name is actually James!
Not in the slightest. Do you not know what Paul McCartney looks like?
+safia bella DO U YES he does omg
+Zelina Aguilar not even a tiny bit
THE WAY HE LOOKS AT HER! You two are goals.
My Husband is Military and we got married on a Friday afternoon (after we both worked all day) and then he left the following day to his duty station. We've been told a MANY times that our marriage isn't "real" because we didn't have the big ceremony. Those people are all now divorced (unfortunately) and we're not. It's not about the ceremony, it's about a union of two people in love :) save the money and have an awesome honeymoon!
Trina Botner oh my gosh really that is just mean and i wish you and your husband great wishes and tell him i said hi and thank you for his service to america
My husband had just returned from deployment, we went to the court house, and got married. Seven years later, we're still happy and married. As long as you two are happy and did what you both want, then that is all that matters. People say the most rude things to others. Of course your marriage is real. I would think it is a little more real because you don't believe a dress = a real marriage, lol. My only regret is not having wedding cake. I mean, who doesn't want cake?
Don't you wish people would just not give their opinions? Your marriage is real because you stood up in front of civil servant and said you love this particular person. And good on you for hold a marriage together whilst being away from your partner :)
As a soon to be military wife thank yall sooooo much for your sacrifices and thank your husbands for their service! You're marriage is real, don't let anyone tell you different!
Well said, Jerrica - you hit the nail on the head. Too often, it's all about the dress and the show .... I hate when people forget, or even worse, IGNORE what a marriage is really all about...it should be about forever, not a day. I wish you and your husband well and safe returns..
i was shocked when i saw James without his beard 😂 i've only seen the videos from the past half year. James looks younger and more energetic with a little beard 😊
You guys remind me of chandler and Monica hahaha
That's true!
Jasmine Teo YOU ARE SO RIGHT
Can you BE any more accurate?
friends*
omg yes
Oh, and how about Wildcard Wednesdays? One week could be a vlog, the next week it could be the Worst Wednesday with products you don't like, Wild Hair Wednesday, What I Wore Wednesday--all sorts of ideas.
YAS
I really like that idea. I hope she throws in more "Get Ready With Me" videos. The ones where she sits down and just talks while she does her makeup. Those are some of my favorites.
That actually sounds really fun !! Oh and every Wednesday we could leave suggestions in the comments what the next wednesday should be !!!
FamilyMcKee I agree... "Get ready with me Wednesday" videos. I love the make up you have on for your videos, so more tutorials on these please!
Lisa Perrone Would also love to see more of your heath and exercise routines.. maybe you could do cooking tutorials as well. You're one of my favorite CZcamsrs, and have such a lovely, vibrant personality x
I gave you a thumbs up because I'm in the same situation. 3 years later our wedding is still delayed. Yesterday my fiancee was rushed to the hospital, and we have been here ever since. I told him, let's elope. I don't care about the big day, I care about him. Seeing your video just made me feel better about my decision. Love is love. Embrace it because life is short. Bless you and yours.
hope he feels better
Thank you. .me too. When the ambulance pulled up..I thought I had lost him. I haven't slept and makeup videos are keeping me from going insane. I just know I'm going to be the same way, just call people and say we did it. Every day for the rest of my life, that's all I want! sorry to be emotional, long long days here in the hospital. God bless!
Crystal Given best of luck to you, and have a happy marriage and life together! and life in general! you just deserve to be happy as a single unit and as a marital one. congratulations in advance! :)
Congratulations as long as you're with the person you love that's all that matters you can have a party anyday
I pray he is better soon, and pray for strength for you.
My husband and I eloped after 3 months of meeting. Best decision we've ever made. We got married at his great grandfather's house in Mount Washington with his grandmother as my maid of honor and his great aunt as his best woman. I wore a simple white dress my sister bought me for Christmas and he wore a blue suit with a light eggnog tie. On our way, we stopped at Rita Flora on La Brea for fresh cut flowers for my bouquet (I might have started a trend in '87...lol) After all the drama settled, my parents gave us the money for our wedding and we used it as a down payment on our first house. We are celebrating 28 yrs. of love on December 26. No kids just 4 beautiful rescue dogs. :-) Do you, boo! xo
Wow congratulations!! :D that's amazing. my parents are about to celebrate 30 years!
+Brianna DelCampo Aww, thank you!! Congrats to your parents, also, that's beautiful!! ;-)
+Jacqueline d'Amon
Good word of reference "a show". People spend so much money and stress so much about a wedding. One of my girlfriends did that, spent nearly 50k on her wedding, and got a divorce 3 years later.
Happy Anniversary! its the 26th of December (where I live) :-)
Thank you so much, Sarah Burhan! Merry Christmas, too. It's still the 25th here in the U.S. :-)
I love the fact that you want a marriage and not a wedding. That's how it lasts 😊😊
This was so cute, love the high five elbow trick! This is EXACTLY what John and I did--our small wedding kept getting so complicated, we decided at lunch on a Wednesday, to get married after church that Sunday--we didn't tell our parents (had a couple that we were really close to be out witnesses) until we were already on the road for a little honeymoon, and then we took out big original honeymoon a little while later--BEST thing we could have ever done! So good to see you happy! xoxo Lisa
I agree! Me and my hubby got married at the courthouse..we put our money into the honeymoon and waited (bc at the time I was pregnant) so after my little one was old enough to leave with my mother...at the age of 2 (which they never really are old enough...I missed him terribly)..we went away for 3 days! It was all about US!!! It really should be about you two and the LOVE...if a big wedding makes you happy then do it, but you know who you love and nothing will change that (big or small..or courthouse/Justice of the Peace...hell even Vegas)You can always renew your vows or decifer a big receprion later :) I think the Universe is telling them something!!!! xoxo
How about Wellness Wednesday? I know you said before that you wanted to focus on your health and wellness in 2015, so why not commit yourself to something new each week? I'd love to see a different approach (re: not a video on "how to lose weight" like other youtubers do) and watch you test out products that you aren't already an expert on! You are a talented reviewer, it would be fun to see you branch out into new territory. PS- I skipped my wedding too and am happier for it!
I would LOVE that. My vote is for Wellness Wednesday!
This!!! Wellness Wednesday!
Would love that!
Great idea!
Love this idea! Perhaps like a workout video! Or workout-related video, fast morning workouts, workout fashion, etc.!
I totally agree! I feel like so many people focus on the wedding DAY when a wedding isn't just about that day, it's an entire life with another person, and you don't choose to get married for the wedding day, you decide to get married to promise the rest of your life with another person.
Ur kids r gonna have awesome hair!
IKR!
Every time i see him i think of Paul McCartney xD
kayla davis I thought the same exact thing
Same!!!
Lol 😂😂😂
YES
I was just going to say the same thing lol
Trust me, Tati; $50,000 showcase weddings photograph nicely, but that's *all* that they accomplish. Entering into the most important partnership of your entire life is a type of intimacy demeaned by expensive, stressful, materially and cosmetically oriented focus (the place, the dress, the guest list, the invitations, the attendants, the ceremony, the music, the reception, the caterer, the band/DJ, the menu, the beverages, the cake, the photographer, the transportation, the honeymoon, and so on...and so on...) on "the wedding".
The celebration of yours' and James' commitment to one another requires *only* what you two already have in abundance; mutual love, respect, and dedication. Go to the courthouse and have at it; my sincere best wishes for a beautiful future to you both.
~Kaycee
:)
Wow! Times have changed. When I got married 18 years ago, I spent $5200. That included my gown! I can't imagine...
Fashionable Lena Twenty years ago when I married my best friend, the entire tab was
Pfft Lena I got married 4 years ago and spent 5k!
I support your comment and wish there was a way to like it more than once ;)
A year later and they still haven't eloped
+Brooke Leigh And? A year is NOT long at all. I've been with my partner of 4 years already and we aren't worried about that kind of stuff in the slightest.
(Unless I'm misunderstanding your comment, then I apologize.)
+Allora Lawson I think she was commenting on how long they've been engaged not how long they've been together
see i don't think its weird at all if you're not married after 4 years! To me that doesn't seem very long. I feel like anywhere between 3/4-6 years together is a normal time to get married (but thats just me)
+Jess Goodchild yeah same. I think that's a healthy amount of time to make sure you truly love your partner before getting married bc if you get married too fast it can end in divorce (that's not always true though)
+Jess Goodchild my husband and i were together for 3 years before we said I do in front of family and friends in a beautiful outdoor garden wedding.
Someone has probably mentioned it but he looks like Paul McCartney.
:)
he looks much better!!! Tati, has James got a brother??? He is the PERFECT man, so nice to see that they still excist, gives me hope for myself...lol
peggy deroost A perfect man who REALLY likes to be on his fiancé's youtube beauty videos? hmmm- besides there is no such thing as a perfect man
Woah woah woah....... Woah. You're right.
more like Johnny Depp
My fiancé and I decided the same - we're eloping in Fiji. I feel you!!!!
Aww congrats!!
YAY:):)
My husband and I eloped. It was the absolute best thing we ever did. We were getting married to be married, not to play prince and princess for a day.
Just got into your channel, I don't even wear makeup lol, but you are so engaging and genuine and you two seem SO happy together, very happy for you, thank you for all the cool positivity I'm really enjoying your videos.
March 2nd is my birthday!
Tati, do an update video please!! I watched your Wedding Wednesday videos while I was engaged and loved them. You and James are perfection together. I love seeing genuine love between two people!
He kinda reminds me of a young Paul McCartney :)
Lorry Lewis definitely
Lorry Lewis I see that so much also 😊
I have watched the first SATC movie waaay too many times and I love the way its just them two going to down to the city hall. Carrie marries Big in a label less dress and they have this awesome meal at a small diner with their near and dear ones. Thats exactly how two people should get together.. Keep it simple and intimate.. You can be happy and people who love you will be happy for you both on the biggest day of your life even without all that shabbang. Oh and all that money you save on your wedding, splurge on the honey moon you guys. God bless. Xx.
Couldn't agree more!! Splurge on an amazing honeymoon and just enjoy it and enjoy each other.
Aha thats exactly what came to my mind while watching this! Go Tati! Do what your heart tells you... I know what you mean when you say U want the Marriage not the Wedding day :) lots of love to you and James! Stay in love, stay blessed!
I didn't recognize James without his beard hahaha I was like who's this guy?!?!
Huge respects to you for not falling for societal pressures to have an elaborate wedding. You do you :)
ELOPE! DO IT! me and my man have completely thrown out having a wedding!:)
I love your Channel and was so shocked to spot you had commented 😀😁
Never have I watched your videos but I subscribe any way cause your so awesome and I haven't watched your videos I saw the cover and you are so creative with your ideas (ps I am a girl )
Wicked Wednesday? Something like a guilty pleasure of the week, vampy or va-va-voom makeup/fashion, a totally selfish, on-a-whim purchase (a la "I should really save my money for [whatever], but I WANT this handbag, so I'm buying it NOW"), or turn the term "wicked" on its ear by doing some kind of "sneaky good" deed (example, paying for the order of the person behind you at Starbucks and leaving a note for them that says, "Love, The Wicked Witch of the West"). It's really all about stepping outside of that confined, selfless box we ladies tend to put ourselves into and doing whatever makes YOU feel good. In fact, I think I'm going to do this in my life. I already have a Don't Give a Flip Friday once or twice a month, simply because I give BIG flips in my job and home life the rest of the weeks of the month, so maybe this will help balance things even more.
But I've gone on enough about Wednesdays. I'm truly happy for you and James, and I think eloping is a fantastic idea. As you said, if someone really wants the big wedding with the dress and the venue and the pictures, that's great! But those things are not required in order to live happily ever after. So, congrats to you both!!!
Agree thinking the same thing
all my friends are having big weddings but the day i got married we literally just woke up one day and went to the court house. The only one there was his older brother who took pictures and we told everyone (parents, family, ect.) afterwards. I was kind of regretting not having a big wedding for a while (because you see it on tv and in magazines all the time) i was regretting it until I recently went to my brothers. wedding and they were so stressed out the whole time trying to make sure everything went right and was on time. there was no room for error and i don't do well under pressure like that. after we got out marriage license we went to IHOP and laughed and talked and held hands. marriage should be the way you and your love want it not about the expectations of others.
Chandler and Monica
I totally support this. I love that you are more focused on your love and the actual marriage than a large wedding.
I've been married for nearly 16 years to my best friend , finally guys you see it ain't about the big day or the dress or accommodating friends & relatives , it's about you and your partner making a commitment to be there for each other no matter what , I think you guys know deep in your hearts that eloping is the thing for you and power to you , go for it , you can always have a big party when you get back for everyone , remember it's not the most important thing how you get married , it's more important to be happy and to make the choice together . Blessing and congrats to you both xoxo
Forget the 'like' button, that video needed a 'love' button! :o)
I just checked your subscribers and 544 thousand.... you deserve 5 million. You put so much effort into your videos and it shows!
Yay! You two are getting married for YOURSELVES. Not for a big fat wedding. At least you know you're getting married for the right reasons! We are going to have a large wedding. But we told our parents if things get out of hand we will get married in a field, because all we want is to be with each other forever. Not deal with drama or stress from a wedding. That whipped them into shape ;) haha
PS you and James are amazing together. Even if he works in the CIA lol.
I do not even blame you guys!! I would totally elope if I could do it again haha!! I tell my sister to elope when it's time for her too :) It's all about you guys, don't let it stress you out and don't let the whole thing become all about the wedding!! I think you will be so much less stressed and happy that you decided to do this!! Congrats to you both, you look glowing as always. I'm so jealous of your skin and you guys are so cute with your high five!! You could do a WIFE WEDNESDAY once you get married and talk about couple stuff or something like that. Love to you both and don't let anyone make you feel bad for doing what your heart tells you :) xx
That's kinda what I was thinking too Sam . Like do a "couples" video on Wednesdays or so etching like that . 😊
Well said Sam :) Good advice from the Schuermans Tati, they are my favorite couple and what I would want my marriage to be like if and when I find the right person for me. Sam & Jay have a beautiful family and a happy life because they make every day about them and don't care about what other people think or say because at the end of the day you make your own happiness, you can't live your life to please others. You need to make yourself and your significant other the priority here and I'm so happy you've decided to elope, I knew that was going to happen after I watched the so called ''meltdown'' video so I'm glad to hear your decision to cancel the big plans and go low key. I bet that's a huge weight lifted off your shoulders. Best of luck with the wedding whenever and however you do it, love you guys, mwah xx (PS - I also love you Schuerman family and your vlog is my most anticipated video every day, I love to watch you guys cuz you always make me smile) xx
Good for you guys! My husband and I did the same thing 9 years ago. Family drama and other things were just standing in the way, overshadowing what that special day was supposed to be about. We don't regret it and neither did our bank account! We feel no different than any other couple who had a big wedding. Congrats you guys!
Well said, Sam theschuermanshow
Agree 100% I was always kind of put off by the enormous day idea and perhaps that's why I'm not married. It's scary! Small, private, memorable, wonderful :) x
"A new study found that couples who spend less on their wedding tend to have longer-lasting marriages than those who splurge. The study, by two economics professors at Emory University, found a similar correlation between less-expensive engagement rings and lower divorce rates." from a CNN article. Yay!!! I'm so happy that you decided to follow your heart like this!! Happy Elopement, Tati and James!!!!
Genuinely astounded by the elbow trick
CUTENESS GALORE!!
My husband and i finally decided to just have a nice intimate ceremony with about 10 of our closes friends and family and a photographer. I regret nothing! It was perfect! I stressed for sooo long about a big wedding and trying to make it easy for everyone that i finally said screw it. The fact that all i had to worry about was my hair and makeup (which i did myself cuz im pretty darn good) was amazing! So stress free and beautiful. Tati, go to maui with james and just a handful of the closes people in your life and do one of those beautiful elopement packages!
I just love the humour and love between you both. His little comments and opinions just add a little fun to your videos.
Thumbs up not for the wedding is cancelled, it is for you two following your hearts and just doing a small, simple intimate one. That is the best. All it matters is having each other. so cute!
Good for you! Don't need all that stuff...you're right...congrats!
Aww you guys!
Omg you guys are so cute! You can tell you both are so happy ;) XO Bri
Hi Tati! My husband and I eloped and 17 years later we are still married and as if we haven't gotten past the honeymoon stage! Eloping is perfect for some couples and it's a memory that is super special for you and your love! Yay!
My husband and I had a small wedding only with family and our best friends, 35 people :) it was small and amazing. I don't need all that expensive stuff. Why start marriage with like no money left in your account lol you can spend that money on greater things and not spend it for only one day. Its even proven that marriages with a huuuuge wedding lead to problems cus the couples are so stressed out and have financial problems after. Ive been to big weddings, I love it :) but its nothing for me. All the best for you and James :) XOXO
My husband and I did the same thing! Close friends and some family, just 30 people. It was outside in my father-in-law's backyard and it was perfect. Love small weddings!
Me too :) you share it with the most important people in your life. I don't wanna invite people that I haven't talked to in years lol (some people invite all their high school friends but they are not even that close with them anymore) it should be about the couple that gets married and not about pleasing hundreds of guests.
Why would people invite their old high school friends they don't even talk to anymore?! I couldn't imagine doing that, but I was honestly a loner. The funny thing for my husband and I is that we come from huge families. Honestly, my dad is one of seven kids and my father-in-law's side is massive. He has a sister with 9 kids! When we first got engaged, we had to have a serious talk of who would be invited. In the end, I only had an uncle who was insulted for not being invited, but no one likes him anyway lol. I definitely agree that weddings should be shared with the most important people in your life and it's about just them, not everyone else!
Yea my dad has 5 siblings, some couldn't come, most family members did and our beat friends :) all we needed
I'm so sorry about everything that has been happening to you and James, but sometimes small, intimate weddings are the most meaningful and memorable! I think that for the next couple of months you should do "Holy Grail Wednesdays" - every week, show us your top five or however many holy grail items that you have for each category (foundation, concealer, lipstick, etc). I would love to see that!
I eloped and I do not regret it. That special day really is about the two of you and your love and merging two peoples lives together. Thousands of dollars do not define love. You can still have your beautiful dress, beautiful pictures and all the same memories without all the people. I wish you the best and sure you will look stunning!
Oh my god, James looks so funny without a beard! I love beardy James! :D xx
Blessings to you both! So glad you are doing what makes you happy! Post anything you like, I just miss your videos!
Good on you for just doing it. Be happy that in the end us all that matters. As for Wednesdays I think you should call it wild Wednesdays and you could do a bold or out if the box look or review something that is not in your usual go to brands or colors or even take us along with you to do something out on the world with you.
I said the exact same thing. Great minds think alike.
Why on earth would over 400 people thumbs down this video??? If its what they both want, then be supportive people! Tati and James, you have my support 120%!!
I pushed like button. Not bcause wedding is cancelled, but because you deserve to be happy! so do what you feel is right for 2 of you :-) We are here to support.
Elope and share the happiness with family and friends with a reception. You don't need to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding when you have a lifetime of love to share. Many blessings and can't wait for the tweet saying "we're married" !!!!!
Good for you guys! My husband and I eloped and it was awesome! You should get married for you and him...not everyone else in the world! I don't regret it one bit and you won't either!
Congratulations
You can see how much he loves you! The way he looks at you :') Happy for you Tati! Love your channel so much.
I think sometimes people get overwhelmed with the thought of a wedding and forget that a marriage comes afterwards. I'm happy for you two and we are blessed that you share your experiences with us!
I seriously thought you were going to announce that you had already eloped! Love to you and James!! xo
Me too!
Tati my husband and I did the same thing and it was the best decision we could have made . With the money we save we really got to enjoy our marriage these past 4 years !!! ( yesterday was our anniversary ) I also felt that I didn't need a big wedding ! We have done road trips from Boston to Cali , went to Brazil , Canada , vegas etc and wouldn't have been able to if we did. Big wedding ! Next year for our 5 year we are planning to renew our vows in MAUI. That has really always been my dream and now it's happening .congrats to u 2 and best wishes on your beautiful life together
The way he looks at her while she talks to the camera.... sooooo sweet!!! I totally understand the pressure you're having, I got married myself last year and it does not get better bc after the wedding everyone wants to know when you're going to have kids and we are just like "we're not even in our 30s, can we have a bit longer pls???" Take all the time you need and do what you feel is best for the two of you! All the best and lots of love
i eloped. best thing i ever did. so glad i didn't do big huge crazy wedding, imo weddings like that are never for the bride and groom they are for the friends and families. i wasn't having it. we went to maui and got married on the beach. best day of my life
I got married in a big wedding. It was so incredibly stressful that I had to start taking Ativan just to make it through. Then the temperature went from 45 degrees the day before the wedding to -55F. It was nearly a 100 degree drop in temperature overnight, and broke all records. (I got marred in Chicago the beginning of December). It ended up being a beautiful wedding, but it was mostly for my parents and their friends.
Thank you for this video. I couldn't agree with you more. You just said everything I was thinking. I also personally don't need a big wedding or even a small intimate one. Just marrying the person you love is the most important thing. For a very long time I thought there was something wrong with me because I didn't want a wedding. I'm glad I saw this. xo
Wellness Wednesday. Ways you take care of yourself mentally and physically in your everyday life
Hats off to you!
My husband and I had the choice between using our savings towards either a wedding or a house. We chose the house and instead had a very small (9 adults, 2 nieces), intimate courthouse wedding 7 years ago. And it was PERFECT.
Your wedding day comes and goes so fast no matter how much money you spend on it, and instead of being overwhelmed and stressed-out, it was a happy, calm and peaceful day that I truly got to spend with THE MOST IMPORTANT people in our lives and truly interact with all of them.
The wedding is ONE DAY, a marriage is FOREVER! 💏
Tati people aren't "liking" that your wedding is canceled-they're liking that you've made an excellent decision for you and James! Good for you! Best wishes!
Definitely just elope , no drama ,no stress just you and the man you love xx
Then just have a small party at a later date to celebrate with friends and family xx
I really despise these misleading titles
It's not misleading lol they cancelled there wedding.. ?
+BeautybyLibby they didn't cancel it. They're still getting married. They just not doing a big ceremony. The way they phrases the title made it to seem as if they weren't getting married at all
+safia bella The title isn't misleading, it is literally what happened. The wedding, aka the marriage ceremony was cancelled and they chose to elope instead.
+safia bella clearly you're wrong and clearly they cancelled it and are not getting married at all! This was almost a year ago now and they are still not married lol. Been dating over 5 years or more, cancelled their wedding and did not even elope like they said they were going to.
+Danielle Amsden chose to elope instead? It's almost a year since this video was posted and they still did not elope. They really did cancel everything otherwise they would already be married by now if that's what they really wanted to do like they say here in this video. They lied. Obviously James doesn't want to marry her and she was trying to save face.
As long as the two of you are happy (which you look it), that's all that matters! xo
Many people are so focused on the wedding day, the planning, and getting things just right that they forget about what truly is important. It's about the love you share and wanting to be together for the rest of your lives. Sometimes you have to do what is right for you and don't worry about everybody else's wants and needs. I know you two will have a great life together.
Tati, I love you but you never follow up on your videos. Did you guys get married or elopped??? what happened
laura mitchell they're eloping on the 11th !!!
Not eloping. Getting married on Maui WITH family :')
Too many people plan weddings and not marriages. Congrats to you both!
you are seriously such an inspirational person to say no to the pressures to have a big expensive wedding. this is the happiest you've seemed on wedding wednesday!
I love how you said you didn't want to wait anymore. But you still loved each other and waited two more years of engagement to have that destination dream wedding. Too overjoyed for you Tati!
Totally off topic of this video (and btw, always make the best decisions for your lives so good job!) but...... This shirt's color is SOOOOOOOOOOO amazingly beautiful on you. The dark hair, the blue eyes, the dark shirt, totally beautiful beautiful beautificous!
"Wacky Wednesday's" exploring new and different unconventional beauty trends, up-and-coming spa treatments, even just explaining what they are and if you try them how they work, do they work kind of thing. Also P.S. good cover story Agent J...entrepreneur
I would love this! Something fun and silly. and wouldn't it be hilarious if through that series she found something that seemed kind of wacky but worked? Great idea!
What a smart idea! I got married at the courthouse, with a few friends as witnesses and it was perfect. We lunched by the seaside afterwards with a bill that was less than $200. We honeymooned in Santa Barbara and that was fabulous too!
All that hoopla for one day, I personally don't think it's worth it. That money would be better spent on a home, schooling, etc.
WTG guys!🎉
Your love kills me omg. I'm so happy you guys have come to a decision that you're comfortable with involving the wedding. The way you interact with one another and the way James looks at you and touches you, I know that your love is so sincere and beautiful. Stay awesome
I also had a small wedding, like around 10-15 people. LOL.
I do have a suggestion, Tati! Why not make it "Women Wednesdays" and talk about empowering and encouraging women, and real stuff. You are a good speaker and you inspire others, like me. So I think it would be great if you do that, have a specific topic and let your viewers ask questions, etc. Or maybe even just Wake-up Wednesdays and do some empowering talks or something!
James should make his own videos and teach us how he does it. I would like to work from home
I can completely relate. Did the same thing. Ditched the big wedding and opted for a small private ceremony with loved ones. I'm glad my husband and I decided to do that.
I'm so glad that you are doing what's right for you and not bowing to pressure to have a big wedding if that's not what you want. It's too easy to get caught up in other people's expectations and to stop taking care of yourself.
my fiancé and I are eloping at the end of the year after being engaged since 2014!
Wow he has gotten skinnier :o but you guys look wonderful together both then and now
I did the same thing Tati! A very small, simple and private wedding. After all, love is all that matters! I'm very happy for you and James.
Tati, you do what makes you and James happy. I'm getting married this summer and we are planning a super simple wedding, invited our closest friends and family. No save the dates, went straight to invitations. No registry, we just want a "get together" . Whoever can come, comes. What's important is that YOU and JAMES enjoy and remember that day. I would elope too if I wasn't afraid my mom would kill me hahaha. This is so much stress even for something so simple. So I am proud of you for making that decision. Focus on you and your sweety.
Good for you! elope and use the money to buy a home, or go on a fabulous honeymoon!
I am so happy! The wedding was making you so stressed and the wedding should be about you two, not everyone else. Elope, currently i am thinking about it too, weddings are expensive and so stressful and I am not about all of that.
Also I dont understand why it is called eloping. You are still getting married so why the name? It makes it should like it is a bad thing when it is not at all.
The love between the two of you is so brilliantly obvious. I had a fairy tale destination wedding 20 years ago and although it was glorious, the best part is just being married to each other.......not the planning, stress, excitement or expense......but just being able to call yourselves husband and wife. So who cares if you want to just fast forward to the best part....do what makes you both happy. 20 years later, I still get a thrill when he introduces me as his "wife"!
Yes!! Do it!! We did and it was the BEST thing we ever could have done!! It's YOUR day. Congrats!!
I'm so very excited for you! Do what makes you two happy and MARRY THAT MAN! :-)
Wednesday's should be splurge or save! Comparison of high end and drug store products and which one we should get!!!!!! Please!!!
I have to say I never normally comment on videos of anyone but I always watch yours Tati and I am SO very overjoyed and happy to hear you say you JUST want to marry who you love! People forget that is the whole point in a wedding. Marrying your second half. A wedding sometimes can be to keep others happy and I want one eventually just right now what's important is to close the gap on my long distance relationship. For you it is to finally marry James! Proud of you!!!
THE ELBOW TRICK IS INFALLIBLE
Does anyone know if they actually eloped yet????
That's what I wanna know?
I want to know too! I love her and James.
Where did you hear this? I've never seen any of her friends or family hold distain towards him…
She's going to Maui and getting married
DINADIVA82 tomorrow they are gonna get merried ♡
When did they end up getting married? I don't remember her mentioning it in a video.
I know this is really late, but thanks Tati. I've been thinking about getting married myself, and it's nice to know I'm not alone in the whole "not wanting it to be a big ceremony" thing. Thank you.
Tati , it is so refreshing to hear that a marriage is more important than a wedding, its very rare these days. Much love for your future together. x