Living My Nightmare (Part 1)

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  • čas přidán 9. 01. 2022
  • Thanks for watching and letting me open up about what this last year has looked like for me.
    Stay tuned for part 2.
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    If you or someone you know is going through DV, mental health or any related topics please reach out to the numbers below.
    DV hotline (800) 978-3600
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    publichealth.lacounty.gov/dvco...
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Komentáře • 6K

  • @SLOANHOOKS
    @SLOANHOOKS Před 2 lety +17594

    we are here for you Shyla!

  • @sumz3530
    @sumz3530 Před 2 lety +2365

    Landon breaking your heart was the best thing that ever happened to you, you’re a completely different person and we love it

    • @Tartebio
      @Tartebio Před 2 lety +6

      “ on cam”

    • @Aprokoheadquaters
      @Aprokoheadquaters Před 2 lety +42

      @@Tartebio no dear cause she’s in her most vulnerable part of her life rn and y’all have seen the ugly already. There’s nothing more to hide this is the real her

    • @andreadea2448
      @andreadea2448 Před 2 lety +9

      @@Aprokoheadquaters girl don’t worry thats most likely landons fake account trying to hate on Shyla cuz he’s a bum and no one likes him

    • @aceplays123
      @aceplays123 Před 2 lety +2

      I think Landon did nothing I mean to me just by looking at him he dosnt look like he would do something that bad

    • @fatimamohamed7893
      @fatimamohamed7893 Před 2 lety +14

      @@aceplays123 do rapists have a certain look? do robbers have a certain look? no. and just like that narcissists like landon don't have a certain look, they can look like anything u sound so delusional.

  • @ladna313
    @ladna313 Před 2 lety +920

    The part where she said “it was almost a exact replica of what my mother had went through” i lost it 😭 because that’s exactly how my life feels at this moment. 😩

  • @Emerald-kh1pe
    @Emerald-kh1pe Před rokem +207

    When she said if it wasn’t for her daughter she wouldn’t be here it felt like she could’ve meant that both ways 🥺I’m so glad Shyla is healing and growing as a mother

  • @elenisophia
    @elenisophia Před 2 lety +3348

    You know you're healing when you can talk about your story with so much poise and clarity

  • @justinechamelle9535
    @justinechamelle9535 Před 2 lety +1595

    I’m sensing a bit of healing. The fact she posted even a snippet of Landon’s face in these videos and was talking about her journey with him, it’s healing

  • @tiana3945
    @tiana3945 Před 2 lety +1705

    The mcbroom brothers always gave me a weird narcissistic vibe smh I’m so happy for you, on to bigger and better things queen! 💗

  • @eleneb8171
    @eleneb8171 Před 2 lety +154

    Shyla you will be a self made billionaire one day! Mark my words. With this level of strength and determination you will go places with your baby girl your haters could never imagine. I will continue to be your number one fan keep going and do not look back❤️

  • @luciafajardo5234
    @luciafajardo5234 Před 2 lety +3594

    Bullying is never okay. I can remember seeing all the hate comments towards you. I can’t imagine what you felt. But I’m so glad you overcame it! You’re doing an incredible job as a mother and human being. God bless

    • @markzelinski4434
      @markzelinski4434 Před 2 lety +24

      If they want they can bully me! Bullying a woman?! Absolutely disgusting

    • @ilovetumblr99
      @ilovetumblr99 Před 2 lety +30

      I remember too. people were so mean. they micro analyzed everything she did/said

    • @sweetdisposition8085
      @sweetdisposition8085 Před 2 lety +13

      I always wondered why people shit on her?? She doesn’t deserve it

    • @Ashley-mp8sy
      @Ashley-mp8sy Před 2 lety +9

      @@markzelinski4434 to be fair she did lie about something extreme.. she wasnt getting hate for no reason

    • @markzelinski4434
      @markzelinski4434 Před 2 lety +18

      @@Ashley-mp8sy have you seen what this familiar does? Their liars! She was brainwashed! My sister went through the same thing! The McBroom family are liars and sick sick sick people! This poor woman

  • @Breanamk
    @Breanamk Před 2 lety +1879

    I just know Landon and his family is just watching this with hate IM PROUD OF YOU SHYLA !!! Literally drop your brand ASAP I’m ready to buy your merch

    • @lolal3822
      @lolal3822 Před 2 lety +51

      🙌🏽🙌🏽 I think its like comfy loungewear/ gym wear one that she put on her story yesterday !!

    • @Louieva578
      @Louieva578 Před 2 lety +14

      @@lolal3822 I'm hope so, it looked bomb

    • @iraisvargasperez
      @iraisvargasperez Před 2 lety +3

      Same 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @danahportlouis3776
      @danahportlouis3776 Před 2 lety +5

      @@lolal3822 right I like the color can’t wait

    • @jessewithtattoos
      @jessewithtattoos Před 2 lety +9

      quit bringing them both up on eachothers videos. we get it. shes a narcissist and so is he. both are immature and not putting their kid first

  • @mariahm16
    @mariahm16 Před 2 lety +255

    I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years we have a 3 year old daughter. I finally left when she stood up for me it was a wake up call.. watching this hits home and gives me hope as a single mother that I can do anything 🤍

  • @veronicaargueta7714
    @veronicaargueta7714 Před 2 lety +171

    I’ve never seen her smile this much. I’m sooo proud of her.

  • @anzeela3807
    @anzeela3807 Před 2 lety +473

    Unless you’ve been in a narcissistic relationship it’s so hard to explain all of this without sounding crazy. Their families will always enable them as well. Ugh this kills me.

    • @SymphonyTaylor
      @SymphonyTaylor Před 2 lety +3

      💯💯💯

    • @prettygang720
      @prettygang720 Před 2 lety +6

      Shyla has her issues too, idk y’all are just bypassing her violent actions

    • @angelitaarchunde7223
      @angelitaarchunde7223 Před 2 lety +10

      Yes explaining a conversation or an argument I should say with a narcissist makes ur head spin it doesn’t even make sense nor can u re explain what had happened . It’s confusing & makes no sense

    • @Jellybellyirish
      @Jellybellyirish Před 2 lety +7

      @@prettygang720 nah you can't call abuse retaliation violence. You're literally part of the problem with this bullshit. Also all your other comments on Shyla's channel are weird and biased. Landon?

    • @anamartinez7174
      @anamartinez7174 Před 2 lety +1

      @@prettygang720 when you’re really hurt you tend to say things or act crazy but you won’t really know how that feels until you go through it

  • @brendahenk8335
    @brendahenk8335 Před 2 lety +8283

    Shyla did what Catherine can never do!!!!! Seriously so proud of you.

    • @HopeShobha
      @HopeShobha Před 2 lety +241

      Agree!! It is only up from here!

    • @liaadv3893
      @liaadv3893 Před 2 lety +306

      The hate and association she gets from ace family is cancelled 100%

    • @randombyrosa99
      @randombyrosa99 Před 2 lety +422

      Stop comparing them weirdo

    • @oliviag3831
      @oliviag3831 Před 2 lety +123

      @@randombyrosa99 they are in similar situations so…

    • @desiree6617
      @desiree6617 Před 2 lety +555

      Just because shyla had a tough time with Landon doesn’t mean Catherine is going through the same thing with Austin. Landon & Austin are 2 different people. Is as if you’re saying if you’re related to a serial killer you’re one as well. Which isn’t the case. Landon may be abusive, that doesn’t mean Austin is.

  • @messillahdobrodoli9607
    @messillahdobrodoli9607 Před 2 lety +118

    I needed to hear this!
    I’m a mom of three boys, my oldest and middle son are on the autism spectrum.
    I was in an extremely physically and emotionally abusive relationship with their father for six years. One morning, I got up, saw him (for the hundredth time) drunk again on the living room floor. I told myself this is the last time my kids and I will ever have to deal with this. I packed up, went to my parent’s apartment, and now I’m here.
    I’m back at work, back at school getting my bachelor’s in psych, and going to figure it out.
    We’ve got this!

    • @ruthduran7395
      @ruthduran7395 Před rokem

      I went through the same thing 😭 my son is on the autism spectrum

  • @racheldawson418
    @racheldawson418 Před 2 lety +88

    "I am thankful for my struggles because without them I wouldn't of stumbled across my strength".... Shyla u are an inspiration, don't ever stop or change who u are, because u are AMAZING X

  • @Momofgirls
    @Momofgirls Před 2 lety +767

    When you said you fought so hard to not have a relationship or a guy like your dad and still got wrapped in the toxicity I felt that! Wow this speaks volumes so inspiring!

  • @saritacorrea6022
    @saritacorrea6022 Před 2 lety +1639

    seeing how easily he left her without a home without a car, without money, shows the type of person he truly is no matter what happens in a relationship she is the mother of your child she should have a good home a mansion like he does or at least a decent home because it’ll be ur daughters home too, a good person wouldn’t leave the mother of his child basically on the street. Or at least he could of offered to help her out while she got a job or something what an ass! He should be paying child support!

    • @biviann
      @biviann Před 2 lety +14

      💯💯

    • @patticakes763
      @patticakes763 Před 2 lety +8

      But she wasn’t married to him

    • @TheChoralist
      @TheChoralist Před 2 lety +33

      He literally posted the video of them fairly splitting up the assets they had together. They gave her a car and a bunch of shit she wasn't even entitled too. They're not married. The video is still up on CZcams go watch it. Cause you're mistaken big time she got everything she asked for

    • @yanethcramos2267
      @yanethcramos2267 Před 2 lety +45

      Exactly!!!!! But like said before he doesn’t pay for anything, it’s all his family’s money. Oh and throughout the relationship Shyla was bringing in the money working two jobs then making videos, who does that? A Queen 💖

    • @jayparrilla6733
      @jayparrilla6733 Před 2 lety +36

      @Tina Tijerina I honestly feal like karma is different how in the hell can you wish her the abuse she was getting stop supporting that abuser it dosen't matter what he said his family always is trying to cover up his mess he makes when they were together all he would do is leave her and the baby todo shenanigans and then treat her like shit and follow his brothers ways who also is a bad husband and a bad man to his wife just cause they said they did something they did it recently to cover up the statement about how they left her without anything and first of all she was paying the car and bills she had stuff but it was under there name even the ring he said he was going to give her that guy is not someone you should be defending I'm not saying she's a saint but dosen't mean your are going to come over here and be belittling shyla like that get something better todo and stop ✋ putting negative comments.

  • @godfirstfamily4880
    @godfirstfamily4880 Před 2 lety +138

    Wow I’m literally in tears, “How did I end up in a relationship with a man as an exact replica of my father when I tried so hard not to get here!” I felt that in my soul. I can relate 💜 Just recently divorced and this healing journey has been the toughest 2 years of my life. Thank you for using your voice. I can relate 💕

    • @MiSzCASSiEx3
      @MiSzCASSiEx3 Před 2 lety +4

      Most people repeat the same habits that happened with their parents because it’s what we know. Our subconscious attracts us to people that are like our parents.

    • @aliciatheecoach
      @aliciatheecoach Před 2 lety +1

      Yes I can relate to her I was 19 and I met exact same guy as my father tomorrow I will be 21 and we broke up three days later now am doing my CZcams channel and focusing on me

  • @xoVioleteyezxo
    @xoVioleteyezxo Před 2 lety +290

    I love how you’re not just disappearing and you’re standing strong. Best revenge against a narcissist that wants to control you. You are a smart woman Shyla, happy for you 💜

  • @arianaperez626
    @arianaperez626 Před 2 lety +1528

    I’ll never forget how awful the internet has been to Shyla, especially in the hardest moments of her life!! WE LOVE YOU!!!

    • @jayparrilla6733
      @jayparrilla6733 Před 2 lety +21

      @Tina Tijerina get a life stop ✋ hating got nothing better todo that spread negative thoughts and talk trash about other woman specially a mother who if you have negative thoughts you should look at your self and you situation and try to reflect .

    • @flow4458
      @flow4458 Před 2 lety +18

      @Tina Tijerina I'm with you that we don't know anything for sure.
      But dude, you can't say that she's treated him bad either then!
      Your comment is deprived of all logic on this earth, srsly, try to use your brain before typing.

    • @jayparrilla6733
      @jayparrilla6733 Před 2 lety +7

      A hope one day in CZcams and many other public places or platforms a safe place for people and that judging is not allowed 🚫 and not public insulting and maybe putting people down will make you think about the consequences of your desition

    • @user-uh2xn5mc2d
      @user-uh2xn5mc2d Před 2 lety +3

      @Tina Tijerina you need help miss girl.

    • @stephaniemagdaleno6881
      @stephaniemagdaleno6881 Před 2 lety +1

      @Tina Tijerina how do you know she’s psychotic? By the way you’re talking about someone you don’t know you really sound crazy yourself.

  • @MakeupbyaliBarba
    @MakeupbyaliBarba Před 2 lety +1141

    Getting out of an abusive/toxic relationship is extremely hard. I’m going through the process right now and I didn’t realize how isolated and how brainwashed I was into believing that the relationship I had with this person is how a relationship “should be”. Once those blinkers are off you realize and see what everyone has been telling you about for years.

    • @CamrynAlexis
      @CamrynAlexis Před 2 lety +7

      Sending prayers your way

    • @tiffanyleeson3723
      @tiffanyleeson3723 Před 2 lety +6

      Just know ur so strong and you can do this!❤️❤️

    • @maritzamorales3207
      @maritzamorales3207 Před 2 lety +1

      Do you have kids with him ? How are y'all dealing with it ?

    • @princessbubblegum4073
      @princessbubblegum4073 Před 2 lety +5

      I am in a relationship that I doubt if it’s really healthy for me.. how can you recognise the signs?

    • @carolinestacey7928
      @carolinestacey7928 Před 2 lety +3

      @@princessbubblegum4073 right there with you unfortunately

  • @lovelymaby3933
    @lovelymaby3933 Před 2 lety +60

    She was never my favorite to watch but this Shyla right here ! I’m here to stay! The fact that u make me feel like waking up early and chasing my dream I love a motivational woman ❤️

  • @shaniixee7213
    @shaniixee7213 Před 2 lety +175

    She definitely looks happier without all the bad… like she’s always been beautiful but she glowed being happy!! I love her and soul and I’m sooo proud keep living for you and her l😫😫💗

  • @evelynespinoza9386
    @evelynespinoza9386 Před 2 lety +658

    The fact that you were so respectful to Landon after it all. And still strive to give your daughter the best life and yourself. You are a superhuman 💖

    • @elizabethgasca9983
      @elizabethgasca9983 Před 2 lety

      💫💫💫

    • @cheyenneunderwood356
      @cheyenneunderwood356 Před 2 lety +6

      what respect did she give him? she literally posted all the shit that already was brought up. she definitely shit talked him and included videos that were overly dramatic

    • @lifeofnicole2358
      @lifeofnicole2358 Před 2 lety +25

      @@cheyenneunderwood356 must be a fan of Landon

    • @litzycabrera9716
      @litzycabrera9716 Před 2 lety +15

      @@cheyenneunderwood356 abuse supporter.. Ill pray for u honey 💯

    • @cheyenneunderwood356
      @cheyenneunderwood356 Před 2 lety

      @@lifeofnicole2358 no one said it wasn’t her story. I’m just saying that this person said “she didn’t slander him” but she did lolll. and also, i’m not saying I support whatever. there are two very different sides of the story and both seem believable with each piece of evidence given on both sides. if it did happen, that’s horrible. do I still watch landon/the ace family, of course. just like I watch her 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣because you never know what is the truth. there is 3 sides to a story. his side, her side, and the truth.

  • @annabellehayes
    @annabellehayes Před 2 lety +4360

    Loved this so much! Men think they have so much control over women and im so glad to see her doing better and her own thing!

  • @stephaniew.7201
    @stephaniew.7201 Před 2 lety +553

    Shyla… this was raw. This is the girl we’ve all
    known and love. The hardest conversations are the ones that are worth listening to. You are a beautiful soul and you’ll have a happy life. I’m so happy to hear ur side of this shitty story. You’re a Soulja girl. Keep ur baby close and find love in between. 💕 #ily

  • @kismarydiaz360
    @kismarydiaz360 Před 2 lety +39

    this story is almost exactly like the book “it ends with us” so heart breaking.love you shyla!! ❤️

  • @CuteBerry
    @CuteBerry Před 2 lety +906

    Don’t y’all just love seeing people thriving and bouncing back out of dark situations 😩🙏🏼 I’m here for it !

    • @brittney6845
      @brittney6845 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes 🙌🏽 🥺

    • @Virgobaby1982
      @Virgobaby1982 Před 2 lety +4

      I’m totally here for it

    • @slimtina
      @slimtina Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah I just wanna give her a hug 😂😂😂

    • @jenniwilliams3295
      @jenniwilliams3295 Před 2 lety +3

      LOVE IT. yes escaping hell and making your own (which she was doing before his loser a$$) She wins. They are all going down, its a matter of time and she will come out clean as a whistle.

  • @damaris2085
    @damaris2085 Před 2 lety +323

    “I tried so hard to runaway” and “ here I am like an exact replica” this touched my soul!!! Ive been in that EXACT same moment in life! Wow, Shyla, I cried hearing that. So real!!!

  • @paytonreid202
    @paytonreid202 Před 2 lety +14

    gosh I just love her so much… literally she is a goddess, & handles things SO well. praying for you shyla.

  • @Lifewithkellyann
    @Lifewithkellyann Před 2 lety +15

    I just adore Shyla so much. She is so real. So authentic. It’s honestly refreshing. Everyone is always trying to make everything look a certain way. Make everything seem “perfect”. Shyla just keeps its real. You’re going to do BIG things Shyla. Bigger than you ever dreamed. So happy for you!!! ❤️

  • @avivirk7278
    @avivirk7278 Před 2 lety +754

    "Tough times don't last, tough people do"
    You're a warrior Shyla created through trials and tribulations, my heart is with you beautiful!

  • @brinleesells4266
    @brinleesells4266 Před 2 lety +485

    That’s what happens when you’re genuinely a GOOD person. You will always come out on top. Stay strong.

  • @brianamartinez1006
    @brianamartinez1006 Před 2 lety +140

    I don’t usually comment but you are truly inspiring to single mothers, i am a single mother in a rough time rn & this gave me the pick me up that I needed. ✨

  • @amandaleighplans
    @amandaleighplans Před 2 lety +21

    You have such a lovely, down to earth personality. So much respect for prioritizing your daughter and taking care of yourself!

  • @courtneyfulton4243
    @courtneyfulton4243 Před 2 lety +261

    You described it perfectly! I didn't realize how bad my relationship was until I had my son. I remember the moment it clicked. I was sitting in the hospital bed, it was like 2am, I was breastfeeding, and I was staring at my sons father asleep on the couch. I knew in that moment that it was never going to work between us. I tried so hard because of the baby, but I knew staying was only going to make it worse for my son. Now 3 years later, my sons father has only seen him 3 or 4 times and is struggling with drug abuse. It makes me sad for my son. Sad because he deserves a father that will love him and be there in a way that I can't. 💙

    • @jessicaalberton
      @jessicaalberton Před 2 lety +3

      OMG 🥺

    • @genesisorozco9669
      @genesisorozco9669 Před 2 lety +5

      Well your son is going to grow up and appreciate you so much for being mom and dad ❤️

    • @Mm2k11
      @Mm2k11 Před 2 lety +4

      I’m slowly realizing this now as 5 years in with our child…

    • @mikhaelasantos1352
      @mikhaelasantos1352 Před 2 lety +3

      @@Mm2k11 girl I feel you mines 3. Hurts so bad tbh ...

    • @courtneyfulton4243
      @courtneyfulton4243 Před 2 lety

      @@genesisorozco9669 thank you 🙏

  • @rhiannafordie
    @rhiannafordie Před 2 lety +231

    The fact that people said she had a bad attitude and critize her but in real life she was a victim of a manipulator

  • @jasreetdhaliwal487
    @jasreetdhaliwal487 Před 2 lety +5

    I am so proud of you Shyla, you have come a long way. I have seen everything from day 1 and the progress of you inspires so many young women. Thank you so much!

  • @celinahernandez3349
    @celinahernandez3349 Před 2 lety +26

    We’re here for you babe don’t look back anymore learn from your mistakes and keep moving up you’ll get there! 💜

  • @nancyducat6654
    @nancyducat6654 Před 2 lety +545

    As a woman and a mother of 3 little ones going through the same situation, I couldn’t help but tear up and realize how strong we are as women❤️ so proud of you Shyla

  • @Kmurphyyyyyyy9
    @Kmurphyyyyyyy9 Před 2 lety +642

    She a whole different woman, WE LOVE YOU SHYLA. So inspiring 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @ilsepalos8425
    @ilsepalos8425 Před 2 lety +3

    I love how much you’re glowing & I can tell you’re genuinely happy. I can’t wait for your journey Shyla. You really inspire us women that are going through the same situation.

  • @maxeen5270
    @maxeen5270 Před 2 lety +16

    I am truly proud and excited for you! I cannot wait to see where this journey takes you and baby girl Soul. Your growth is inspiring! This self-love journey is going to be everything you've imagined 🙌🏼. Can't wait to join along ❤

  • @Dems967
    @Dems967 Před 2 lety +323

    “I was capable of going without something” -Shyla
    So powerful

  • @Merstuka
    @Merstuka Před 2 lety +545

    It’s so refreshing to finally see this personal and vulnerable side of you! I’m happy to see you growing and glowing 🤍

  • @maryanne4686
    @maryanne4686 Před 2 lety +2

    I just want to say thank you so much for this video!! Actually thank you from everyone for even posting at all. It feels so good to see a woman rebuild herself and actually thrive and get everything they deserve without the help of a man. Its so motivating and pushes me to keep on track with my own goals and dreams. So seriously THANK YOU SHYLA

  • @Miky9694
    @Miky9694 Před 2 lety +289

    The way she talks about everything, she looks that she find herself and peace after everything, so happy for her 🤍

  • @chanelsahr4602
    @chanelsahr4602 Před 2 lety +428

    I can see you falling in love with yourself and it looks good on you. Through pain we grow and learn to appreciate what truly matters. So proud of you, Shyla.

  • @TheLifeofKiara
    @TheLifeofKiara Před 2 lety +2341

    girl .. just want to say that you are strong. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @DesNicole711
      @DesNicole711 Před 2 lety +3

      And so are you Kiara! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @mauhmama
    @mauhmama Před 2 lety +2

    Truly YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION Shyla!!💕 the strength, the poise, the braveness and just the honesty is sooooo refreshing especially on CZcams!❤️👏🏼
    and I’m soooo sorry you had to endure people tormenting and bullying you at your lowest point , LOVE YOU SHYLA!!💕

  • @jennyyyS95
    @jennyyyS95 Před 2 lety +5

    I am so proud of you . You are a super hero to many women/girls who may be going through the same thing . You’re giving us strength and faith.
    I love you so much for this . Stay strong , you’re growing each day and it’s bringing you even closer to your purpose in life 🦋🤍✨

  • @lettymariscal7
    @lettymariscal7 Před 2 lety +376

    I’m rooting so hard for you, you’re inspiring so many single moms

  • @carlaperalta2378
    @carlaperalta2378 Před 2 lety +227

    It’s so sad … you could see all the love she had/has for him and it’s so sad that Landon let this incredible women go. We all are here for YOU SHYLA

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess Před 2 lety +1

      I would have left her too

    • @iidesiree6316
      @iidesiree6316 Před 2 lety +6

      @@jIguess why u replying to these comments? just dont watch her, obsessed asf😂

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess Před 2 lety +1

      @@iidesiree6316 I’m replying to prove my point and to show my intellectual abilities

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess Před 2 lety +1

      @jess eo yes, Male Power!

    • @jIguess
      @jIguess Před 2 lety

      @@Peachylorry who tf is Landon

  • @gem9561
    @gem9561 Před 2 lety +72

    I love this woman's honesty.

  • @lynnstrong2010
    @lynnstrong2010 Před 2 lety +3

    This realness. And openness is what CZcams needs. Thank you so much. Keep doing what you love. Keep raising your beautiful little girl. And never give up on your dreams.

  • @LifeAsTamigea
    @LifeAsTamigea Před 2 lety +576

    She can hide her feelings and tears well…cause I would’ve started crying before even speaking

  • @samanthabudrawich3086
    @samanthabudrawich3086 Před 2 lety +212

    Breaks my heart that she went through so much bs. It’s so hard to see the abuse when you’re In the relationship but she’s right…kids really open your eyes. I’m so proud she walked away. Such a strong beautiful soul. You deserve all the happiness Shyla…

  • @keelypritchard3268
    @keelypritchard3268 Před 2 lety +5

    You're amazing and inspirational! I went through a toxic relationship it's been a few years and I'm still healing from it.. Seeing this helps me stay strong and realise I'm worth more I need to make something of myself again! Thank you Shyla! 💕

  • @25Claudia85
    @25Claudia85 Před 2 lety +32

    The smile on your face when you're talking about your brand and how you're proud of yourself is everything :)

  • @destinymichelle8382
    @destinymichelle8382 Před 2 lety +184

    This video is so meaningful. When you said “I felt like I had no meaning to life until I had my daughter” I feel that so much

  • @yaelinherrera7806
    @yaelinherrera7806 Před 2 lety +369

    She gonna be the next Jordyn woods gonna step on everyone who wish to see her fail so proud of you 💕 this is so empowering

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink Před 2 lety +2

      Your 1st name is so pretty!! 😀👌🏽🌹

    • @DN-jg8dl
      @DN-jg8dl Před 2 lety +28

      Jordyn woods kissed her best friends sister’s man lmao, she deserved the hate

    • @jadanaziel8252
      @jadanaziel8252 Před 2 lety +4

      @@DN-jg8dl you also forget Tristen has a repeated act of cheating it wasn’t all Jordyn

    • @breannev749
      @breannev749 Před 2 lety +5

      @@DN-jg8dl he kissed her on her way out. Thats literally sexual assault. Nowhere does it ever say she kissed him back

    • @14mzdramaqueen
      @14mzdramaqueen Před 2 lety

      @@DN-jg8dl girl…. khole stole Tristan from his first baby mama when she was still pregnant and he’s been cheating on khole til this day plus he just had another baby on her dumbass lmfaoo.

  • @danahartley1551
    @danahartley1551 Před 2 lety +3

    I can’t explain how much I love you, we’re all here for you. This is your year you got this!!!

  • @janinechitjian9967
    @janinechitjian9967 Před 2 lety +1

    Shyla! You are helping so many moms right now. I was in your shoes with my daughters father this past year. The amount of pain and hardship we face. Having to start from scratch. It’s so scary and especially with a child. I understand how you feel. Thank you for this.

  • @reemsings
    @reemsings Před 2 lety +172

    you have no idea how reassuring it is to see you grow into the healthiest version of yourself. I have been following you for some time now and I am beyond proud of who you're becoming, and beyond happy Souline has someone like you to look up to. you have been and continue to be SO brave, a huge inspiration for a lot of women, including the woman your daughter is going to become. and I know exactly what I'm talking about because Souline is going to be like me someday, with a heart full of pride and appreciation for her mom who did everything to protect her peace and well-being. looking forward to seeing more and hearing more from you, thank you for sharing your truth. love from Morocco!

  • @zanjtibebe3539
    @zanjtibebe3539 Před 2 lety +159

    Shyla, I’m going through the exact same thing thing as you right now. I’m glad you are being so open and honest, you made me realize I’m not alone. I’m not the only one, you give me hope and this video was very needed for me. Healing is such a lonely process

  • @heatherc.5760
    @heatherc.5760 Před 2 lety +702

    This woman is inspiring n a great role model for girls n women. She has started healing cus she now can tell her truth without crying n it's growth, happiness, mentally healthy, she is an inspiration. God bless u shyla n u keep on keeping on.

  • @danyaleann3125
    @danyaleann3125 Před 2 lety +94

    😭 when you said “she’s literally all I have” my mom heart ached for you girl ! ❤️❤️ so glad you’re on the other side of this

  • @jessicamedrano5724
    @jessicamedrano5724 Před 2 lety +266

    I’m going through the same thing Shyla. And when you said “you wake up in the morning and turn to see your daughter sleeping.” I felt that so muchhhh!!! Living couch to couch with my son. Being a single mom. Trying to stay strong. I needed this video. Thank you shyla

    • @poojarathan4438
      @poojarathan4438 Před 2 lety +7

      Sending you all the best vibes mama! Hope this year brings you magic 🥰

    • @rooss9581
      @rooss9581 Před 2 lety +5

      You got this girl ! I wish you the best and hope good things come to you and your family ❤️

    • @andrealopez5792
      @andrealopez5792 Před 2 lety +2

      The Lord renews our strength Praying for you in Jesus name amen

    • @nekoleramey4922
      @nekoleramey4922 Před 2 lety

      Just keep moving forward mama! You got this 💞

  • @amesanchez40
    @amesanchez40 Před 2 lety +540

    She’s back and she’s better. Thank you for feeling confident to speaking about your life. It’s truly amazing how a mother gets strength for their kids.♥️

  • @09cluts
    @09cluts Před 2 lety +26

    Such a strong person and mother!!! Don’t stop grinding and keep reaching for the stars shyla!!!

  • @briannagarcia936
    @briannagarcia936 Před 2 lety +69

    This seriously gives me so much hope I’m a single mom as well and the constant struggle everyday to get up in the morning and not feel like you have done anything in your life but than realize wow you are doing it slowly but surely !!! The moment you realize it it’s the best feeling You can do anything you put your mind too and my daughter is my no 1 to me always and supporter.

    • @disneychick1975
      @disneychick1975 Před 2 lety

      Wait they broke up?

    • @ShockResistor
      @ShockResistor Před rokem

      My mom had barely worked and finally left my father when I was 13. We lived in a small bedroom for a year but we were at peace and ended up having our own place. You can do it too. Kids just want to be peaceful in a drama free love filled home.

  • @oliviaprewett6061
    @oliviaprewett6061 Před 2 lety +43

    So proud that you got yourself and you’re daughter out. That takes so much strength. So happy for you from someone who went through abuse for 21 years of my life. 🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @CC-fs4ew
    @CC-fs4ew Před 2 lety +46

    This video made me cry, it is so pure and although in the midst of healing Shyla I know God is and will always be by your side and will be your strength through the hardships. You’ve already made impact on so many. Brought light to subjects normally pushed under the rug. Lead by example and given strength and courage to those who are living that nightmare. Your good soul and heart shines Shyla please never dim your light for anyone. ♥️

  • @destinyrae211
    @destinyrae211 Před 2 lety +63

    Children often say to us, We are there Hero’s, when in reality, our children don’t know they are our hero’s, They saved our lives, my son has saved me and gave me a purpose. My son is my hero.

    • @mechemercy
      @mechemercy Před 2 lety +1

      Yes love this comment ❤️ so true!

  • @yonaguni33
    @yonaguni33 Před 2 lety +19

    She’s not making the focus what happened to her, but moving forward. I love that for her 🤍

  • @samanthaheath2598
    @samanthaheath2598 Před 2 lety +257

    I’m so ready for part 2!!! The documentary style is where it’s at. You did an amazing job with this video Shyla. I’m so proud of you & happy that you’re finally healing ❤️ So much love , I’ve missed your content ! I never thought you were too much 😌

  • @Juwlz
    @Juwlz Před 2 lety +386

    So many people support you. I became a widow when I was 28. He was my best friend, the person my entire world revolved around since age 14. I had a miscarriage a few months before a tragic accident took him from me. It was really hard and I am still trying to figure out who I am and what my life is but I'm hopeful

    • @TheCandyxoxo1
      @TheCandyxoxo1 Před 2 lety +26

      💖 thank you for sharing this. I’m praying for you🤍🦋✨

    • @FreshBoa27
      @FreshBoa27 Před 2 lety +12

      Sending you love and light in your life journey 🤍

    • @erincleaver6063
      @erincleaver6063 Před 2 lety +10

      Wow I’m so sorry for both of your losses, you’re so strong🤍🤍

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink Před 2 lety +3

      My condolences twice over!! I will pray for you Julia! 💔❤🌹

    • @anaidaazavedo7102
      @anaidaazavedo7102 Před 2 lety +4

      You’re gorgeous strong and so so worth it! Good luck❤️

  • @kim54321.
    @kim54321. Před 2 lety +4

    this video and the last are literally so inspiring. i went through a similar situation last year, i survived the abuse after 3 years of going through that in a 6 year relationship. my daughter and i are on our own and i know i did what was best for her and myself regardless of everything i had experienced. she’ll be 2 in June and i couldn’t be any more proud of how far we’ve come together.
    thank you shyla for sharing your story.
    you’re so brave and strong
    you did what you felt was best for yourself and Soul and that’s all a mother could do.
    immediately subscribed.
    i found this because of Fool Coverage.

  • @pinkkvelvet
    @pinkkvelvet Před 2 lety +1

    This video made me cry I’m am happy you are in a good place mentally and physically, there’s so many woman rooting for you and who have gone through similar situations. ♥️ I wish you and your daughter nothing but success and blessings. 🙏🏽

  • @sophief7678
    @sophief7678 Před 2 lety +337

    I didn’t even know who you were until a few hours ago I’ve spent all morning watching your videos and learning about you. I’m so proud of you. You’re such a strong, powerful momma. You’re daughter is so lucky to have you. You will always be her biggest role model! You’re doing so great and I wish you every happiness and success in your life x

  • @arianahernandez6350
    @arianahernandez6350 Před 2 lety +142

    She’s healing and I’m so proud of you Shyla 🤍 I just know your daughter will thank you for everything and applaud you when she’s older

  • @kaylacaldwell9548
    @kaylacaldwell9548 Před 2 lety +25

    Awe the joy in her face is everything🥰 God has a plan for you and your beautiful baby girl❣️

  • @destineep1234
    @destineep1234 Před 2 lety +3

    This is amazing. You are amazing. It is so very hard to talk about what we go through but doing it on the internet is so much harder. Keep grinding girl and remember anyone that has anything negative to say is only jealous.

  • @veryyvethh8601
    @veryyvethh8601 Před 2 lety +196

    She is so beautiful a family person she seems to have a kind soul. It's an honor to be part of her fan base

  • @KareBear449
    @KareBear449 Před 2 lety +189

    Emotional abuse is real!!!! So happy to hear someone acknowledge it and the affects it has on your mental health!!!
    You are worth it. We see you, we believe you, we are here!!!

  • @leeannaramos2885
    @leeannaramos2885 Před 2 lety +20

    What’s meant for you will come to you easy. So happy for Shyla!🤍

  • @shaymahal7592
    @shaymahal7592 Před 2 lety

    Felt this video on so many levels! Thank you for being so raw, authentic & vulnerable with us. You’re so strong and inspiring. Keep that beautiful soul of yours. Keep going gorgeous! ❤️

  • @Burty_YT
    @Burty_YT Před 2 lety +2123

    I don’t know you that much Shyla, however watching this video feels like it’s a documentary on Netflix. thank you for sharing your story, I went through a similar thing as you. I am a single mother of an 8 yr old and let me tell you it is TOUGH! But not impossible
    it made me cry when you said you didn’t know your strength til now. love you girl! thank you for sharing your story

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      @sexygirls6427 Před 2 lety +1

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    • @deepeep
      @deepeep Před 2 lety +15

      did u just copy this comment

    • @cloudpuffies
      @cloudpuffies Před 2 lety +5

      @Comedian Cloud Well, there are 10 people on the account so one of them could be

    • @madyben
      @madyben Před 2 lety

      God bless you my dear and your beautiful family! Where do I begin with the same ordeal pain that most of the women go through. I can only imagine what you went through, but here you are today much wiser and stronger 💪🏻 than EVER EXPECTED. I’m so proud of you 👏🏼 and commend you for all of your hard work ☝🏻🙌🏼🙏🏻💯❤️🥰

    • @Peachykirx
      @Peachykirx Před 2 lety +4

      Y’all do know this is a fake account lmao ?

  • @r.b.gfamily455
    @r.b.gfamily455 Před 2 lety +41

    I can’t emphasize enough how freaking inspiring you are to all of us but especially us morhers who watch you and follow you from the beginning! Sending you and souline endless blessings that will last you a lifetime 🤍✨

  • @jadezecca4064
    @jadezecca4064 Před rokem +1

    ok... I love this!! this really has inspired me! you have conquered so much and have come such a long way. keep doing you hun, you're doing AMAZINGG

  • @funwithhoneybun
    @funwithhoneybun Před 2 lety +3

    Oh Shyla you ARE a superhuman especially to your daughter💛 we are here for you girl! So happy, proud, and excited for you and your journey. It’s true, once I become a mother I seen life in a whole different lense especially the BS us moms used to deal with while fighting PPD. You got out, and you will find yourself! Here for you and your journey! xx 💛🥂

  • @ashleyprewett1790
    @ashleyprewett1790 Před 2 lety +244

    I really cannot wait to see this part 2 and this line of clothing you're gonna be dropping !!!! I'm so freaking beyond proud of you Shyla for everything that you've accomplished, all that you've survived and the strength you've gained from all of this ❤❤ There's not alot of women I've been able to look up to but you're definitely one i can say i look up to in so many ways because of how kick ass of a woman you are !!!! You have an amazing energy & the strength you carry with yourself is so motivating... Coming from an abusive household from all of my childhood and so so so many holidays, weekends & moments that were taken away from me as i was growing up because I myself and my brothers I had to be around it like it was just a normal thing. But it never was normal. It was never okay to see the things I've seen and been exposed to. And to see you get that and feel that you understand just gives me so much more strength.... Thank you for being real and so motivating to all Women including myself... Keep doing these amazing hustler moves you're doing !!! And thank you for everything you offer us just being the Woman you are. ❤🙏❤ We love and support you Shyla. 💘💘 Keep being amazing !!!!!!!!

  • @LaLa-zj5se
    @LaLa-zj5se Před 2 lety +31

    its an amazing thing to see someone flourish so much after being torn down for so many years. im genuinely happy for shyla and the growth she has shown

  • @321ljc
    @321ljc Před 2 lety +1

    you’re the realest! you’re so strong! you seem like you’re at peace with everything ❤️ so happy for you

  • @Polleypckt007
    @Polleypckt007 Před 2 lety +2

    Yes girl! So good to see you happy and doing better! We are here for you!

  • @ashleymoralespr8140
    @ashleymoralespr8140 Před 2 lety +83

    Once my daughters were born, I was changed, I can’t explain it, I was still me but my thought process completely changed, and I started seeing things that I didn’t see before, I started seeing things through my child’s eyes, what if this was them, what will happen to them, is this okay. & I finally realized it wasn’t okay and it was abuse and I left!!! You shyla are such an inspiration and amazing women. We love you.

  • @doridarling
    @doridarling Před 2 lety +290

    I swear I find the most inspiring stories when I’m up late and can’t sleep. I’m excited for pt. 2! 💖✨

  • @kylee2844
    @kylee2844 Před 2 lety +1

    Shyla the quality content you have been working on. This is new level

  • @lusiafono5447
    @lusiafono5447 Před 2 lety +37

    Big ups to your friends that had you stay over in her sons room remember those people when you get up. Love this for you honey🤍✨