- Anyone who watches Harold and Maude, and isn't greatly affected by it, isn't watching it very closely, and you did bring up the music by Cat Stevens, which is extraordinary, and works so well with the movie, it's beyond words. I do believe I'm going to have to watch it again today, it is one of my go-to movies for me, and any of my friends that I have had watch it, because I will make people watch it, because it's that good.
I happened onto your video today while finding Cat Stevens' music on his channel. I love your eloquent tribute to this wonderful film. Thank you. I first saw Harold and Maude in 1971...and watched it again just a week ago on TCM in 2021. I'm so glad you found it as inspired as I do. Harold and Maud, the film, may seem dated to some - but the messages are timeless. I occupy this life for such a little time that it's easy to become goal-driven. Seeking this or that, it is easy to forget the potential for joy in every moment...or forget to look beyond the piffling trifles that upset me. Maude lived 100% according to very solid and worthy principles: Gratitude for this life, and the gifts we receive along the way. Respect for others. If you're an adult, don't whine. Responsibility for one's faults and mistakes. Encouraging and protecting the young. Honesty and truth. Maintaining a sense of humor - especially laughing at oneself first. Shining light and love, and more importantly, sharing it. There are more, but you get the drift. I'm 70, and understand Maud's decision to leave the Party when she knew her spirit needed to move on. I hope more young people see this movie and understand the heart of what Harold and Maud bring to us. Again, thank you for reminding me that the human search for meaning is part of what gives us the opportunity to live each day being the best version of ourselves possible.
Wonderful, personal take on this great, beautiful, heartfelt, sometimes hilarious, sometimes poignant, sometimes heartbreaking film! Genius touches every moment. For those lucky to have seen it the first time, without any knowledge of it -- it is a real roller-coaster ride of emotions -- from laughter to heartbreak to amazement...there's a reason why it became a cult film (in Minneapolis!) with people seeing it dozens of timed, and running for literally years and a total of almost 2,000 showings!!! It's about love, sadness, reality, dreams, hope, joy...it's about life, and resilience, about hope and joy. I'm jealous of those who haven't yet seen Harold and Maude, and get to see it for the first time! BUT so many of those people will join the ranks of us H&M oldtimers who watch (make that visit!) this film over and over, like visiting an old, beloved friend!
Thank you so much for this lovely talk about one of my all-time favorite movies. I came here today after a friend suggested the movie to me again when I confided in her the feelings I'm having as a 71 year old woman toward a 26 year old man, who is a friend, but who is bringing up in me such feelings as Harold~ old feelings of sorrow at lost love when I was just a teenage girl. I saw it in theater when it first came out~ I must have been around 20 at the time~ and hadn't seen it for many years. It touched me deeply then, but I cried more deeply today watching it again. I could relate to "Harold's" intense feelings toward Maude, and at the same time to Maude and her huge love for life. Thank you!
I’m saw it when it first came out. My brother was older and I tagged along. I miss those times. I miss the Emeryville flats “sculptures” where they sat and loved the beautiful areas they shot in Atherton. She was a septuagenarian until the last day scenes of the movie, shot on her 80th birthday. Back then we focused a lot on death due to high possibility of nuclear war. It was forever on our minds, with the Cold War looming over us. The Cat Stevens music was perfect. I think you’re right in that it was more about a friendship than a romance. Since she been through the Shoa, and survived a camp, she knew what to appreciate and what not to worry about. My father was in the war and dealt with SS in S. America afterwards. He was less free spirited because he was always on guard but he noticed things in nature and we celebrated them much like how she did. Thank you very much for the review. I’m always curious how others see it. I was happy to hear your thoughts on it and I liked what you had to say!
I remember my first time, 50 years ago. And it never left me. I think it should be shown in every school. Those are the values children should be brought up with. Thank you for the tear and the smile 🌻
That was the sweetest, most honest review of any movie I've ever seen and it being a review of my absolute favorite might have made me prejudiced but then again, the way you described how you "were introduced " to it rang a gong in my skull, as I remember clearly when I was introduced to Harold and Maude. It was purposeful and was something we shared and talked about and never forgot. My friend was a paramedic for the city if Pittsburgh who helped save lives day in and day out and she saved me by showing me Harold and Maude when I was going a little too far down a dangerous path. Since then, I've "introduced" it to so many people and made a Facebook fan page for it. Thank you so much for your wonderful review. I'll be sure to share it on my Harold and Maude Facebook fan page.
I’ve spent almost the whole last year hiding under the ashes of a relationship. Bring that perspective to this movie is something I would have never thought of, but I’m glad you did
I love your charity and appreciation for the intricacies and intimacy in this movie. My number one movie since I was 16. I really will “Have something to talking about it the locker room”, now. It wasn’t simple, but it’s in the body of my work, if you ever see my portrait drawings or my simple writings. I’m sure you have a great story also and I know you’re working on.. “Being There” and “Annie Hall”, round out my top three. You’re Awesome.
Thanks for sharing. I could stand to share also. I'm a generation ahead of you. GenX. This movie means so much to me too. I saw this in 1981. HBO I think. I grew up in a WASPy setting. Nowhere near as rich, or bored. But dysfunctional, abusive, and neglected. Harold's mom is dismissive, overbearing, and controlling. She even fills out the computer dating form for him. Further, she answers the questions as if she was the one looking for a date. Even in the same room, she's absent. His death wasn't enough for her to notice him. I identified with him, deeply. Maude did more than notice him, she was interested in what he had to say. I also loved the uncle. Being made during the end of Vietnam, it made the military silly. War is absurb, and so are the people who command them. He's down an arm, but still serves the war machine. He even found a way to still salute. Authority can be silly. I mean, Maude is anarchy. I guess when one is persecuted because of religion, and saw things inhumane, you could go a couple ways. You could live the rest of your life scared and traumatized. Or you could break out of your own self and your own society and become free. Although Harold came from a much different situation, he wasn't free either. She passed on her philosophy to him. He put away childish things as he flung his car off a cliff. Depression is a self-made prison. Without Maude, Harold would be doing life. As for her killing herself. That's still kind of a mystery to me. Perhaps she thought there was nowhere else to go but down? She was 80, and Harold was just starting life. She might have felt she would be a burden. That she was only there to put him on the right path, and not spend a life together. Most of the time suicide is a selfish act. In this case, perhaps it wasn't. When she threw his gift in the water, and told him why made me cry it was so beautiful. Cat Stevens takes a great movie, and makes it perfect. I'm one for dark humor as well. I think many of us who have seen some rough days enjoy the darkness. It takes troubles its powers away. We're also the bravest of people to laugh in the face what scares, or hurts us. Great video. Sorry for the book. PS Ruth managed to play the part so well, you can almost see her as young beautiful woman in her eyes.
Don’t apologize, I loved your comment. I love when people share their love of this film with me; everyone experiences it differently, but we’re all changed by it.
My two favorite scenes are the daisies -- this, but are treated like that, and the seagulls which are glorious birds. I love the soundtrack. Cat Stevens refreshes my soul. Hanging out in Maude's warmth would be a delight. Thank you for your review. I am glad that you had the serendipity of finding a friend that could introduce you to this film. Even transient friendships can have a lasting impact.
Just stumbled across your channel. Anything referencing Harold and Maude, I reflexively click on, because it's my all-time favorite film. First saw it in 1974 (the year I graduated from high school). It had flopped at the box office back in 1971 when it debuted. I wasn't even interested in seeing it, but it was on a double bill with another comedy film I did want to see (Peter Bogdanovich's film What's Up Doc). I was going to leave the theater after the main movie (Doc) was over, but 2 high school friends I was with convinced me to stay and watch the 2nd feature (H&M). I really didn't want to. I had heard of H&M, but didn't know much about it. I had somehow gotten the impression that it was one of those godawful Roger Corman B-movies, and that it was a horror movie, with the two characters going around robbing graves, or some such macabre nonsense. Not my kind of film. But my 2 friends prevailed upon me to stay seated and watch it. They hadn't seen it either, but their argument was purely practical: we paid to see both movies, so why not stay and watch it? So we did. Well, the film was nothing like what I expected. It hit me in a place I can't define. Doc was a funny enough comedy, but it's Harold and Maude that has stuck with me all these years. I became oddly obsessed with it, driving miles to various art house cinemas where it was playing (this was way before VHS and DVD and Netflix, of course!) just to catch a Saturday matinee or midnight showing, and highly recommending it to friends and acquaintances. I've lost count of how many times I've seen the film, both in cinemas, then later on VHS and DVD. Harold and Maude just never gets old. It's a magic film that way. Your review seems to be on the same "wavelength" as the film itself. I don't know how else to put it. But I sense that H&M resonates with you in much the same way it resonated with me. I don't think it's any exaggeration to say that H&M changed my life, or my view of life. I could ramble on about the film at length, but I'll spare you (and anyone else reading this) the boredom! (Ha) Thank you so much for such a perceptive (and personal) review. Really enjoyed it!
The last time I saw _Harold and Maude_ was in a packed 3,000-seat theater in San Francisco where several scenes in the film were shot. The only seat I can find was the second-to-last row in the back of the balcony. Bud Cort later came on stage for the Q&A.
Reading this comment and picturing myself living it really made my day. So glad your school acquaintances talked you into staying to watch the film. I would love to have been able to see Harold and Maude that way. I found the movie very late at night maybe three or four in the morning playing on Turner Classic Movies. I may have been twelve or thirteen and it greatly impacted my life. Not many people my age know this movie and I recommend it as often as possible.
Wow. Great video, I'm blown away., you nailed it. Since 1978 I must watched Harrold and Maude 100's of times. The music is great. So many people miss the Holocausts connection. I love when Harold gives her the medallion that says Harold loves Maude and she throws it into the bay saying she will always know where it is Ruth was from Quincy Mass USA where I grew up. There is a nice outdoor theater named after her there. She was great in Clint Eastwood's "Anyway Witch Way But Loose " films. @ She was on Broadway most of her life..
Ik I'm definitely the younger gen and my mother watched it with me at the age of 6.(2012) And I was thinking about this movie right now, I didn't knew the name and searched like 2 hours. I finally found it, I also watched the movie again today. Thank you for this video! I rly liked this.
Harold and Maude has been one of the most meaningful movies of my life. 46 now, saw it as a teenager in college in the 90s, and Maude became part of my role models for who I wanted to be when I grew up, and the movie became a touchstone between my best friend and me. To this day, in phrases that reference God, I say "Good Maude", or "for Maude's sake". Thanks for taking me back down this path.
I recently watched H&M for the first time in *many* years, and have been listening to the soundtrack on constant repeat. I’ve realized that it represents my happy place. And I needed to find that happy place again after these last few years! Glad to have stumbled across your video tonight. Very intrigued to see what your other videos are like, as my cohost/BFF and I are very into costumes!
You have the most soothing personality. What a wonderful in-depth look at one of my favourite movies of all time. I was introduced to it by my Dad at 10, he knew I was a "weird" kid as he was as well and I think that's why we both were drawn to this film, it's such a beautiful film that makes me laugh and cry but also feel just...happiness when most of the time I feel sad, you put it into words so eloquently in a way I couldn't!
What a lovely comment, and what a great thing to share with your dad. I hope you find more things to make you happy. Maude would tell you to go make some music or dance. Okay, she's Maude there's no telling what she might tell you to do.
My 12th grade drama teacher showed this to us (I saw it when I was 17 too) and I just loved it. I know it's somewhat strange, but it's like you say: it's the love of an amazing friendship. I related to Harold and looked up to Maude, seeing Harold as who I was and Maude as who I yearned to grow up into. It's nice to see that someone else appreciates this rare gem. Thank you!
harold and maude is one of my favorite movies, your take on it is amazing; i’ve learned a lot from you, your interpretation and the connection you’re able to make to your own life is wonderful. i’m sorry about your mourning of a former friendship, life is strange. one of the beauties of this movie is i’ve learned to embrace time, the lack of it, and try and enjoy life in its temporary peculiarities. i loved hearing what you had to say. i’ve also noticed you have several videos regarding buffy, which is my favorite show, so basically you’re the coolest person. i’m 16 now so i’m jealous that you were my age in the 90s LOL because that’s my ideal time to have been a teenager. and i kind of base my personality off of buffy, she’s just everything i want to be though she can be a little whiny sometimes... i digress. but spike AWOOGA am i right?
Indeed you are right. Thanks for the lovely comment. You made me laugh because in the 90s we all wanted to have been teens in the 60s/70s. The 90s seemed so boring. Maybe we all just want to have the teenagehood we see on tv and movies.
Still my favorite film i first watched in my psychology class and obsessed ever since!! If you haven't seen Six Feet Under i highly recommend it's a beautiful show with a similar theme about life and death. Buffy, Six feet under, and Harold and Maude are my favorites bc they all taught me so much they hold a special place inside me
Hey Sara, I saw your Video last night. It really touched me. ❤ And guess which Movie I am watching RIGHT NOW. 😅"Sunshine" just walked in. 😂Hilarious Scene! 😂🎉😅 Thanks for your Video, I found it really moving. Keep up the good work 🙏🏻✌️💚
it's my favorite movie and I was an industrial boi from about 1986 till now heh...well, I'm 47 now, so had to give up the boots and clothes...so I can relate
H&M was recommended by my high school English teacher, in 1984. An utterly unique film. It stands alone, without comparables. Intelligent and base at the same time. It doesn’t try to change the viewer. Just the opposite. It tells you to embrace your individuality. The first 2 or 3 times you watch it, just experience it. Don’t try to figure it out, because nothing is hidden. I hope it’s taught in film school. I wish everyone would watch it while they are young
i haven't seen it yet but it looks like it has potential. i wasn't sure if i should comment now after watching the video or wait until i watch the movie or maybe i could comment more than once. i hope your doing well. i wasn't a big fan of the crow but sting was probably my favorite wrestler was inspired by the crow character.
@@Sara_TheFatCultureCritic the guy I was probably into in the 90s in movies was probably Johnny depp. It’s debatable wither I wanted to be him or date him but Edward Scissorhands, Benny & Joon, What's Eating Gilbert Grape and Ed Wood are probably 4 of my favorites.
- Anyone who watches Harold and Maude, and isn't greatly affected by it, isn't watching it very closely, and you did bring up the music by Cat Stevens, which is extraordinary, and works so well with the movie, it's beyond words. I do believe I'm going to have to watch it again today, it is one of my go-to movies for me, and any of my friends that I have had watch it, because I will make people watch it, because it's that good.
" A young man obsessed with death meets an old lady who teaches him about the art of living " Best Description I've ever read - from a 1986 TV Guide
Your review is as deep and touching as the film... I was moved to tears and smiles. Thank you.
Thank you, that’s one of the nicest compliments I’ve ever received
I happened onto your video today while finding Cat Stevens' music on his channel.
I love your eloquent tribute to this wonderful film. Thank you.
I first saw Harold and Maude in 1971...and watched it again just a week ago on TCM in 2021.
I'm so glad you found it as inspired as I do.
Harold and Maud, the film, may seem dated to some - but the messages are timeless.
I occupy this life for such a little time that it's easy to become goal-driven. Seeking this or that, it is easy to forget the potential for joy in every moment...or forget to look beyond the piffling trifles that upset me.
Maude lived 100% according to very solid and worthy principles:
Gratitude for this life, and the gifts we receive along the way.
Respect for others.
If you're an adult, don't whine.
Responsibility for one's faults and mistakes.
Encouraging and protecting the young.
Honesty and truth.
Maintaining a sense of humor - especially laughing at oneself first.
Shining light and love, and more importantly, sharing it.
There are more, but you get the drift.
I'm 70, and understand Maud's decision to leave the Party when she knew her spirit needed to move on.
I hope more young people see this movie and understand the heart of what Harold and Maud bring to us.
Again, thank you for reminding me that the human search for meaning is part of what gives us the opportunity to live each day being the best version of ourselves possible.
Wonderful, personal take on this great, beautiful, heartfelt, sometimes hilarious, sometimes poignant, sometimes heartbreaking film! Genius touches every moment. For those lucky to have seen it the first time, without any knowledge of it -- it is a real roller-coaster ride of emotions -- from laughter to heartbreak to amazement...there's a reason why it became a cult film (in Minneapolis!) with people seeing it dozens of timed, and running for literally years and a total of almost 2,000 showings!!! It's about love, sadness, reality, dreams, hope, joy...it's about life, and resilience, about hope and joy. I'm jealous of those who haven't yet seen Harold and Maude, and get to see it for the first time! BUT so many of those people will join the ranks of us H&M oldtimers who watch (make that visit!) this film over and over, like visiting an old, beloved friend!
Thank you so much for this lovely talk about one of my all-time favorite movies. I came here today after a friend suggested the movie to me again when I confided in her the feelings I'm having as a 71 year old woman toward a 26 year old man, who is a friend, but who is bringing up in me such feelings as Harold~ old feelings of sorrow at lost love when I was just a teenage girl. I saw it in theater when it first came out~ I must have been around 20 at the time~ and hadn't seen it for many years. It touched me deeply then, but I cried more deeply today watching it again. I could relate to "Harold's" intense feelings toward Maude, and at the same time to Maude and her huge love for life. Thank you!
I find a good movie gives you a different experience at different times in your life. It’s one of the magical things about story.
I’m saw it when it first came out. My brother was older and I tagged along. I miss those times. I miss the Emeryville flats “sculptures” where they sat and loved the beautiful areas they shot in Atherton. She was a septuagenarian until the last day scenes of the movie, shot on her 80th birthday. Back then we focused a lot on death due to high possibility of nuclear war. It was forever on our minds, with the Cold War looming over us. The Cat Stevens music was perfect. I think you’re right in that it was more about a friendship than a romance. Since she been through the Shoa, and survived a camp, she knew what to appreciate and what not to worry about. My father was in the war and dealt with SS in S. America afterwards. He was less free spirited because he was always on guard but he noticed things in nature and we celebrated them much like how she did. Thank you very much for the review. I’m always curious how others see it. I was happy to hear your thoughts on it and I liked what you had to say!
Harold is so real for falling for Maude I would too. Love this film and love you talking about it!!! I’m crying again
I remember my first time, 50 years ago. And it never left me. I think it should be shown in every school. Those are the values children should be brought up with. Thank you for the tear and the smile 🌻
That was the sweetest, most honest review of any movie I've ever seen and it being a review of my absolute favorite might have made me prejudiced but then again, the way you described how you "were introduced " to it rang a gong in my skull, as I remember clearly when I was introduced to Harold and Maude. It was purposeful and was something we shared and talked about and never forgot. My friend was a paramedic for the city if Pittsburgh who helped save lives day in and day out and she saved me by showing me Harold and Maude when I was going a little too far down a dangerous path. Since then, I've "introduced" it to so many people and made a Facebook fan page for it. Thank you so much for your wonderful review. I'll be sure to share it on my Harold and Maude Facebook fan page.
I’ve spent almost the whole last year hiding under the ashes of a relationship. Bring that perspective to this movie is something I would have never thought of, but I’m glad you did
Totally 100% agree 🥰 this has been my comfort movie for months now and I keep coming back to it because it’s just so beautiful.
I love your charity and appreciation for the intricacies and intimacy in this movie. My number one movie since I was 16. I really will “Have something to talking about it the locker room”, now. It wasn’t simple, but it’s in the body of my work, if you ever see my portrait drawings or my simple writings. I’m sure you have a great story also and I know you’re working on..
“Being There” and “Annie Hall”, round out my top three. You’re Awesome.
Thanks for sharing. I could stand to share also. I'm a generation ahead of you. GenX. This movie means so much to me too. I saw this in 1981. HBO I think.
I grew up in a WASPy setting. Nowhere near as rich, or bored. But dysfunctional, abusive, and neglected. Harold's mom is dismissive, overbearing, and controlling. She even fills out the computer dating form for him. Further, she answers the questions as if she was the one looking for a date. Even in the same room, she's absent. His death wasn't enough for her to notice him. I identified with him, deeply.
Maude did more than notice him, she was interested in what he had to say.
I also loved the uncle. Being made during the end of Vietnam, it made the military silly. War is absurb, and so are the people who command them. He's down an arm, but still serves the war machine. He even found a way to still salute.
Authority can be silly. I mean, Maude is anarchy. I guess when one is persecuted because of religion, and saw things inhumane, you could go a couple ways. You could live the rest of your life scared and traumatized. Or you could break out of your own self and your own society and become free. Although Harold came from a much different situation, he wasn't free either. She passed on her philosophy to him. He put away childish things as he flung his car off a cliff. Depression is a self-made prison. Without Maude, Harold would be doing life.
As for her killing herself. That's still kind of a mystery to me. Perhaps she thought there was nowhere else to go but down? She was 80, and Harold was just starting life. She might have felt she would be a burden. That she was only there to put him on the right path, and not spend a life together. Most of the time suicide is a selfish act. In this case, perhaps it wasn't.
When she threw his gift in the water, and told him why made me cry it was so beautiful.
Cat Stevens takes a great movie, and makes it perfect.
I'm one for dark humor as well. I think many of us who have seen some rough days enjoy the darkness. It takes troubles its powers away. We're also the bravest of people to laugh in the face what scares, or hurts us.
Great video. Sorry for the book.
PS Ruth managed to play the part so well, you can almost see her as young beautiful woman in her eyes.
Don’t apologize, I loved your comment. I love when people share their love of this film with me; everyone experiences it differently, but we’re all changed by it.
🙏🙏🙂👍👍
My two favorite scenes are the daisies -- this, but are treated like that, and the seagulls which are glorious birds. I love the soundtrack. Cat Stevens refreshes my soul. Hanging out in Maude's warmth would be a delight.
Thank you for your review. I am glad that you had the serendipity of finding a friend that could introduce you to this film. Even transient friendships can have a lasting impact.
Just stumbled across your channel. Anything referencing Harold and Maude, I reflexively click on, because it's my all-time favorite film. First saw it in 1974 (the year I graduated from high school). It had flopped at the box office back in 1971 when it debuted. I wasn't even interested in seeing it, but it was on a double bill with another comedy film I did want to see (Peter Bogdanovich's film What's Up Doc). I was going to leave the theater after the main movie (Doc) was over, but 2 high school friends I was with convinced me to stay and watch the 2nd feature (H&M).
I really didn't want to. I had heard of H&M, but didn't know much about it. I had somehow gotten the impression that it was one of those godawful Roger Corman B-movies, and that it was a horror movie, with the two characters going around robbing graves, or some such macabre nonsense. Not my kind of film. But my 2 friends prevailed upon me to stay seated and watch it. They hadn't seen it either, but their argument was purely practical: we paid to see both movies, so why not stay and watch it? So we did.
Well, the film was nothing like what I expected. It hit me in a place I can't define. Doc was a funny enough comedy, but it's Harold and Maude that has stuck with me all these years. I became oddly obsessed with it, driving miles to various art house cinemas where it was playing (this was way before VHS and DVD and Netflix, of course!) just to catch a Saturday matinee or midnight showing, and highly recommending it to friends and acquaintances. I've lost count of how many times I've seen the film, both in cinemas, then later on VHS and DVD. Harold and Maude just never gets old. It's a magic film that way.
Your review seems to be on the same "wavelength" as the film itself. I don't know how else to put it. But I sense that H&M resonates with you in much the same way it resonated with me. I don't think it's any exaggeration to say that H&M changed my life, or my view of life. I could ramble on about the film at length, but I'll spare you (and anyone else reading this) the boredom! (Ha)
Thank you so much for such a perceptive (and personal) review. Really enjoyed it!
The last time I saw _Harold and Maude_ was in a packed 3,000-seat theater in San Francisco where several scenes in the film were shot. The only seat I can find was the second-to-last row in the back of the balcony. Bud Cort later came on stage for the Q&A.
@@RaymondHng How cool is that! Wish I could have been there. Sounds like fun.
Reading this comment and picturing myself living it really made my day.
So glad your school acquaintances talked you into staying to watch the film.
I would love to have been able to see Harold and Maude that way.
I found the movie very late at night maybe three or four in the morning playing on Turner Classic Movies. I may have been twelve or thirteen and it greatly impacted my life.
Not many people my age know this movie and I recommend it as often as possible.
Well said. Maude is the friend we long for.
Wow. Great video, I'm blown away., you nailed it. Since 1978 I must watched Harrold and Maude 100's of times. The music is great. So many people miss the Holocausts connection. I love when Harold gives her the medallion that says Harold loves Maude and she throws it into the bay saying she will always know where it is Ruth was from Quincy Mass USA where I grew up. There is a nice outdoor theater named after her there. She was great in Clint Eastwood's "Anyway Witch Way But Loose " films. @ She was on Broadway most of her life..
Ik I'm definitely the younger gen and my mother watched it with me at the age of 6.(2012) And I was thinking about this movie right now, I didn't knew the name and searched like 2 hours. I finally found it, I also watched the movie again today. Thank you for this video! I rly liked this.
Harold and Maude has been one of the most meaningful movies of my life. 46 now, saw it as a teenager in college in the 90s, and Maude became part of my role models for who I wanted to be when I grew up, and the movie became a touchstone between my best friend and me. To this day, in phrases that reference God, I say "Good Maude", or "for Maude's sake". Thanks for taking me back down this path.
I recently watched H&M for the first time in *many* years, and have been listening to the soundtrack on constant repeat. I’ve realized that it represents my happy place. And I needed to find that happy place again after these last few years!
Glad to have stumbled across your video tonight. Very intrigued to see what your other videos are like, as my cohost/BFF and I are very into costumes!
You have the most soothing personality. What a wonderful in-depth look at one of my favourite movies of all time. I was introduced to it by my Dad at 10, he knew I was a "weird" kid as he was as well and I think that's why we both were drawn to this film, it's such a beautiful film that makes me laugh and cry but also feel just...happiness when most of the time I feel sad, you put it into words so eloquently in a way I couldn't!
What a lovely comment, and what a great thing to share with your dad. I hope you find more things to make you happy. Maude would tell you to go make some music or dance. Okay, she's Maude there's no telling what she might tell you to do.
I've never seen Harold and Maude. Now I want to. 😊
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Beautifully put. Rewatching it tonight. Thank you!
A beautiful , heartfelt and soulful review. Thank you.
My 12th grade drama teacher showed this to us (I saw it when I was 17 too) and I just loved it. I know it's somewhat strange, but it's like you say: it's the love of an amazing friendship. I related to Harold and looked up to Maude, seeing Harold as who I was and Maude as who I yearned to grow up into. It's nice to see that someone else appreciates this rare gem. Thank you!
Oh yeah, I wanted to add: this film touched me so much that I have a silver ring of daisies I wear when I need reminding that life is worth living.
Love that. I’m thinking of getting a daisy tattoo for the film.
@@Sara_TheFatCultureCritic that would be gorgeous!!
harold and maude is one of my favorite movies, your take on it is amazing; i’ve learned a lot from you, your interpretation and the connection you’re able to make to your own life is wonderful. i’m sorry about your mourning of a former friendship, life is strange. one of the beauties of this movie is i’ve learned to embrace time, the lack of it, and try and enjoy life in its temporary peculiarities. i loved hearing what you had to say. i’ve also noticed you have several videos regarding buffy, which is my favorite show, so basically you’re the coolest person. i’m 16 now so i’m jealous that you were my age in the 90s LOL because that’s my ideal time to have been a teenager. and i kind of base my personality off of buffy, she’s just everything i want to be though she can be a little whiny sometimes... i digress. but spike AWOOGA am i right?
Indeed you are right. Thanks for the lovely comment. You made me laugh because in the 90s we all wanted to have been teens in the 60s/70s. The 90s seemed so boring. Maybe we all just want to have the teenagehood we see on tv and movies.
You put this so eloquently, I love this video
Still my favorite film i first watched in my psychology class and obsessed ever since!! If you haven't seen Six Feet Under i highly recommend it's a beautiful show with a similar theme about life and death. Buffy, Six feet under, and Harold and Maude are my favorites bc they all taught me so much they hold a special place inside me
Thank you for sharing this.
This was wonderful as is the movie. Thank you.
That was beautiful! Thank you for sharing that Sara
I'm happy you liked it, it was a joy to write about.
Hey Sara, I saw your Video last night. It really touched me. ❤ And guess which Movie I am watching RIGHT NOW. 😅"Sunshine" just walked in. 😂Hilarious Scene! 😂🎉😅
Thanks for your Video, I found it really moving.
Keep up the good work
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it's my favorite movie and I was an industrial boi from about 1986 till now heh...well, I'm 47 now, so had to give up the boots and clothes...so I can relate
Video made me tear up
Thank you
I thought this about King Harald of Norway and his wife Queen Maud.
love your video ! Congrats !!
"Manic pixie, octogenarian film" Perfect "pitch meeting" title! Brilliant! (I'm still in love with Vivian Pickles to this very day.)
See her in Elizabeth R as Mary Stuart (Queen of Scots); she was excellent in that also!
From this video alone, I can see we have a lot in common. 💚
H&M was recommended by my high school English teacher, in 1984. An utterly unique film. It stands alone, without comparables. Intelligent and base at the same time. It doesn’t try to change the viewer. Just the opposite. It tells you to embrace your individuality. The first 2 or 3 times you watch it, just experience it. Don’t try to figure it out, because nothing is hidden. I hope it’s taught in film school. I wish everyone would watch it while they are young
Great review, Thank you so much.......Beautifully done.
You always have such interesting recommendations! I have never seen Harold and Maude, but I will definitely check it out. Great video, as always!
It's connect with you it won't, I hope it does
Articulate.
A comfort watch. Yes.
A great film.
stunning review - thank you for this and your vulnerability
i love Harold and Maude. And i loved all the reasons you gave. beautiful! stay blessed
i haven't seen it yet but it looks like it has potential. i wasn't sure if i should comment now after watching the video or wait until i watch the movie or maybe i could comment more than once. i hope your doing well. i wasn't a big fan of the crow but sting was probably my favorite wrestler was inspired by the crow character.
See this is how I know you weren't a teenage goth girl in the 90s. ;)
@@Sara_TheFatCultureCritic the guy I was probably into in the 90s in movies was probably Johnny depp. It’s debatable wither I wanted to be him or date him but Edward Scissorhands, Benny & Joon, What's Eating Gilbert Grape and Ed Wood are probably 4 of my favorites.
@@Redrum420CF okay I had a massive crush on him too and Christian Slater. There were a lot of beautiful broken boy characters for us to crush on.
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