5 Types Of People You Should Stop Being Friends With
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- Are you dealing with toxic friends? Having bad and toxic friendships has always been a very common occurrence. Toxic relationships can be very damaging for your overall wellbeing so it’s very important to cut toxic relationships off as soon as possible. So, we made this video to help you identify whether your friendships are healthy or toxic.
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Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes and is based on personal opinions. This video is not a substitute for professional advice, but general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.
Writer: Xinyi
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References
Chan, A., 2020. The 10 Types Of Friends You Should Avoid. Heart Hackers Club. Available at: www.hearthackersclub.com/10-types-friends-avoid/
Masters, M., 2016. 7 Types Of People You Shouldn’T Be Friends With. Her Campus. Available at: www.hercampus.com/school/ufl/7-types-people-you-shouldn-t-be-friends
Morris, S., 2017. How To Recognize Gaslighting And Get Help. Healthline. Available at: www.healthline.com/health/gaslighting
Polish, J., 2020. 15 Kinds Of Friends It’s Time To Break Up With. Bustle. Available at: www.bustle.com/articles/40964-15-types-of-friends-you-should-get-rid-of-immediately
"1 loyal friend is worth 10 thousand relatives" - Alfred Pennyworth
*Mega incest incestifies*
I thought you said “Alfred Pennywise”…
@Burger Cat your comment translated into united kingdom's english is fury
True.. I got relatives who only know us when they need something and never really cared about our problems.
I’m watching Gotham rn and this video 😂🙌
"Some of the most poisonous people come disguised as friends." Don't let loneliness make you connect with toxic people. Even when we're thirsty, we shouldn't drink poison. Stay strong!
Thank you! I needed this.
Yea... gotta search for water... huff... puff... you`re really right... I can totally relate... huff... puff... I noticed toxic behaviors... quite quickly... in most people I tried to... befriend... huff... so yea drinking poison sucks... more...puff... than... being thirsty... cuz you are... still alive... puff... to drink water... huff.... oh boi I`m thirsty...
@@pkmntrainerred4247 the heck-
You just put 23 "..." and 1 "...."
so many dots o-o
To TEA For MIND . facts
@@pkmntrainerred4247 😂🤣
During these times, I feel more and more people just don't care about maintaining a possible good friendship. Feeling like you're the only one keeping it glued together is very draining on your mental health.
This exactly. I wonder when and why everything changed? Perhaps the shift to being online all the time? Just very sad that no one seems particularly interested anymore in creating - and most importantly, maintaining! - an authentic friendship...
Yes I can totally relate to this!
I feel the same as you, I have a few friends where I’m the only one who bother to keep in touch. I love them and we have great time together yet it’s draining that initiating contact only coming from myself. I feel like just not contacting them ever unless they change but it’s so hard also as we’ve been so close.
Maybe we should make a group of people who actually cares about their friends ;)
bro i don't even care if i'm mentally stable anymore
my life is worth nothin', i'm mostly just a people-pleaser.@@alexandrialeonora6542
@@imchlI used to have friends like that but having enough of that, i decided to leave them. Yet, one of them still had the audacity to say that they were the one who kicked me out of our friend group when i had left it by myself. In a nutshell, even after i stopped befriending them, they still try to find a way to bring me down. So i was disappointed for a while but i let it go knowing that, I didn't lost them, they lost me. And maybe all of us who had experienced toxic friends do need to have some sort of group made, to share our experiences and lessons together, the long term goal is to avoid toxic friends and find genuine ones out there😂
Keep in mind: when it comes to 3 and 4, it can get a bit tricky when it comes to people with neurodivergencies! For 3, people with ADHD, ASD, depression, anxiety and more can tend to flake (not always). It's usually nothing against the other person. There are a number of reasons. For instance people with ADHD have an issue with maintaining relationships, people with depression may lack the energy and people with anxiety may be too afraid you are mad at them for not talking to you for so long that they're afraid to reach out at all. Keep in mind anyone with neurodivergency has the potential to become exhausted from or at the thought of social interaction, irregardless of whether they want to interact or not.
For number 4: people with neurodivergencies tend to console and relate to others in a different way. 9 times out of 10 they are not trying to make it about themselves. They respond with a similar story to show that they were listening and can relate. It's a way of saying "hey, you're not alone in this. Ive been through something similar, so I know you're struggling".
Sometimes within the stories they may even talk about how they dealt with it. Again, this is not to belittle you. It may in fact be them trying to give you ideas. Also, if they do this for a happy occasion, they are usually not trying to 1 up you, but share in your joy.
If you feel bothered by any of these, it's important to communicate. During communication it is also important not to belittle them or their struggles. I won't lie and say there aren't jerks with neurodivergencies out there, but most of the time it's just how our brain works and there's not much we can do to help it. (Also keep in mind that just because someone doesn't seem like they're neurodivergent doesn't mean they aren't).
Ah! Well said! This is a side to the equation that deserves a serious look
This is why communication is everything in a friendship.
So many of these relationship problems and doubts arise when you cannot confirm what the other parties feelings are, including their feelings toward you.
The better you can understand their pov, the better you can gauge whether it is healthier to leave them or not
imo!
omg my anxiety was stopping me from writing this! 😅 thank you for sticking up for the ND’s, i feel seen!
Bravo! Thank you for pointing this out!
Facts and facts
Well said.
“ The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies.”
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An ennemie can't betray you because you aren't friends, you don't have a relationship... to have been betrayed is necessary a relationship with someone. And that hurts more when the love is intense.
My family members and fellow greenlandics did the worst things on me.
So i can attest on that.
Sometimes the "friend who never reaches out to you" is going through some mental health issues and isn't doing it to intentionally hurt you.......
Yeah but someone doing everything and them not doing anything is not an excuse
@@changedmyusernameagain7654 it is an excuse, you never know what someone is going through on the outside of your relationship, they could be taking a break and have just cut ties temporarily. Coming from experience. A break as in something serious and needs to release some pressure
@@changedmyusernameagain7654 true Cuz Even tho i can understand going through some difficult times . but at the same time tho . you gotta ask yourself . do you care enough about someone let them inside your heart ? To actually reach out to someone ?
To Marth Villagomez . I agree . But the real question is does the individual care enough about someone to reach out to them Or let them inside their heart ?
@@chrishawking1406 doesn't matter. It can be a reason but not an excuse. I understand why people project their feelings on others. That's understandable. However it is extremely selfish and while it's understandable, it's not an excuse
Being alone is more meaningful than stay with the wrong individuals. everyone arrives when they need or want something from you....
Recently I ended a 7 year friendship because I started to notice that this friend would talk nonstop about themselves and their problems and I would always try to give advice, but when I wanted to talk about me she was almost always like “idk what to say” or just tried to ignore it in some type of way. The last thing I couldn’t bear was her justification of people who leak your intimate photos (I was one of victims) just because she fell in love with one of those people. She knew how hard it was for me, how much I cried and how it triggers me to this day, but still chose him. And in the end she looks only happier now that I’m gone from her life and I don’t have any best friends anymore. For whatever reason it makes me feel guilty and lonely, even though I know she’s wrong in this situation. :(
Don't be sad, you deserve better, if you wish let's be friends 😺
Keep reminding yourself that you're better without her, and eventually you will have another best friend. Like the other person that left a comment here, I can be your friend too! :)
@@yurei1x577 yea, you're right and now I am you're friend too 😊
That’s a terrible friend that you have to stop paying attention to, don’t worry if she’s happier now just move on. There are a lot of people out there who are much much better and you’ll meet them some day and then realize how easy it is to forget the bad ones who were in your life.
I can totally relate to u
I also broke it with my 2 years BFF because she started becoming toxic
She also made me think that it's always my fault always made me feel lonely
She started becoming jealous of my other friends which she called 'possessiveness'
It happened recently ND I still feel sad I know I did the right thing
I'm still trying to let go of a toxic friend, he just keeps coming back. I've known him for years now and it's so hard to let go of something I felt was so special. But I know I will never be as special to him as he is to me, and I need to let it go
Listen to music it helps.It gives me motivation so I can move on.I listen to metal and more.
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sadly i can relate,we have known eachother for a year and a half
they used me only to vent and gaslighted me alot
they still messages me sometimes to this day,but it doesnt feel the same anymore
if you want to talk,i can give my discord,i know its really tough for you and its fine if you wanna talk about it with me
It can be hard letting go, but you can do this! 💞
Block them, I know it's hard and can feel kinda childish sometimes but really it helps A LOT it puts you in control and shows a boundary they have to respect
#6 the gossiper: If they spend time talking to you about their other “friends” then you better believe they’re talking about you to them. There’s an old southern saying “Bring a bone, carry a bone”.
Thanks for the insight and quote!
Yup! It was crucial to cut these friends out of my life ☝🏾 czcams.com/video/W5nlDlPzsT0/video.html
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@@obinamk6500, rather figure out how to manifest it myself
I’ve been friends with all these people… another one is that “friend” who’s around until life gets better for you & then they disappear or make you feel like a burden. Got a new job, was able to take care of myself a little better…they asked repeatedly “how much do you make?” Then right after I answered..every conversation is like pulling teeth, talking to a wall or far & few between. It hurts & it’s hard but in our minds, we know we have to let it go.
How disgusting when someone asks, "How much do you make?" or ... "How much did that cost?" (NONE of their business!!)
I once had a "friend" that constantly made me feel inferior and often gaslighted me into believing I was a narcissist. Only to find out a while later that they were not only the one who was the true narcissist, but was also a compulsive liar.
Sometimes being a loner is the best and only option to avoid having toxic friends.
But people will make fun of you
Yea, sometimes it feels like the only kinds of friends you end up with are the hella toxic ones
me
@@sweetpotatoes9882 eh i dont get made fun of, maybe you think that cuz youre the one making fun of them..
@@ranpan0801 ya same
1. The friend who only needs something
2. The friend who gas-lights you(manipulating you)
3. The friend who never reaches out to you
4. The friend who only talks about themselves
5. The friend who only talks down on you
Thank you 😊
Thank you
I honestly think not every "friend that never reaches out" is toxic.. Speaking from personal experience I also often don't reach out for longer periods of time.. I let my friends know though and also tell them that if something is the matter I am tjere for them
It's not possible for some people, including me, to just open up and talk about problems. Sometimes we need space to sort things out or to prevent hurting our friends unintentionally.
It's always about how you communicate. Even when, at the moment, you aren't able to express that you need time alone.. At least let your friends know when you feel better so that they know..
Also don't forget that the video stated that this type of toxic friends also makes you feel like they did you a favor.. Which people who isolate themselves to protect themselves or their friends or just to deal with their problems don't do.
But keep in mind that some of us are trying our best to reach out but aren't able to bc of different reasons and not because we are toxic or don't care about you. Trust me, we do appreciate you and your support greatly but sometimes we just need that space. Sometimes we are too overwhelmed to reach out.
"The friend who never reaches out" may just be an introvert or socially anxious. Speaking as an introvert I don't often reach out at all and tire socially quickly, and I do not like crowds.
Right, but if you see those intros hanging out many times with others and you are than sad, because you got no invitation...well yea. But you are right, introverts WANT to be invited and asked out. I do and I love it. :-) Which Mbti Type are you? Are you also at #typewithfj?
Either way, if you don't care about that other person you don't care about that other person. Dude(ette), the unexamined life is not worth living and if you have to make excuses, pretty sure you're not examining your own life. Sorry, not sorry.
@@marcwemtrust1480There are only four letters in Myers-briggs. I'm not saying that I think Myers-Briggs is worthwhile, just that your # thing is nothing to do with Myers-Briggs. Damn comma I think everybody needs to be themselves and not the typical person in the world wants them to be, but if you make excuses for being a bad friend, then you need to understand there is something wrong with you. I don't have any friends and I think it's because I'm not a good friend, but still. Jesus Christ.
E or I, N or S, F or T, J or P. Seriously. It's not rocket science.
It's okay, when I unfriended you it made a lot of sense for you and me
"I don't need friends, they disappoint me"
got the reference 👀
Yeah, friends really sucks...
fax tho
Cousins are wayyyy better
@@elclassico6388 not if their a Toxic one
Friendships evolve. Its ok to let go of someone even if they are not toxic because people grow into different versions of themselves and that version may no longer be fullfilling or may no longer contribute to the current relationship.
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You've got a point
@@oigbochiejohnson1425 Like voodoo?
I’ve had friends like these, who didn’t start out like this. Sometimes people can change, and not for the better. Or, you see them for what they are but didn’t notice at first.
I’ve been slowly growing with the changes and noticing more and more of it in my life time. The older I’ve gotten the easier it’s become to distinguish the good friend from the bad friends
A “friend” that is never truly honest, lies and thinks you don’t know reality. Also the “friend” that tries to one up you with literally everything/is in secret competition with you. Or the “friend” that still wants your opinion or you to do things yet gets easily triggered by you, things you say and do and blames you/ throws jabs/ starts unnecessary drama instead of managing their insecurities, toxic past, and triggers. So glad I’ve gone through my season of dropping bad, dead, draining, leaching, poisonous, leaves and have now made room for beautiful people inside and out
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The 5 is literally physically and psychologically my "friend"
Dead Leaves cut them off.
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So I've recently found this channel and little by little im listening to this and trying to take the most out of it because i haven't been my happy self lately. I've been trying to take pointers and hints from these video to try and better my surrounds because i have not only had toxic friends but also a hard time dealing with things. Idk where im going with this but all i wanna say is that these videos are slowly but surly helping.
I think number 4 is an overlooked toixc trait, like, if you start to notice that the conversation is not only about them but only about what they like and what interests them and then when you bring up something you its like they almost ignore you what your saying and only minerly validate your intrests till they end back up at there interslts and then only then they care about the conversation. Thank you for posting these videos, these really help me and lots of others put our relationships into perspective, thank you agian and keep posting👍💜
The animation is GORGEOUS and her song choices are always stellar.
Thank you!
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I have a friend who only reaches out to me when it's convenient like if it's for class/schoolwork, to vent about her relationship problems or anything pertaining to her. As long as it's last minute, she'll ask for my attention but any other time when I try there's always an excuse. I've been sick & tired of it for so long, but if I run into her, I already know I'll act like nothing's wrong. I'm so bad at confrontation, I don't know how to break it to her that I don't want to be strung along anymore...
I hate feeling bitter about it because I've slowly been cutting off so many friendships since graduating hs but I feel like my mental health has been so stumped lately. Thanks for this video though! If definitely helped a little bit :)
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She may be a narcissist
Perhaps if you can’t confront her, write her a letter instead. People that make you feel burdened to be around are not good friends. I’ve had my share and even have family members who do this to me. I’ve distanced myself from people and family like this.
I had a friend from kindergarden who would always force me to do things that I didn't like she would use my time as it doesn't matter one day I had an important lecture to attend and she called me bc there was an emergency in our squad but when I went there she told me that she justed wanted to talk with me,when I would be angry on her or start scolding she used to blackmail me and when we patched up She used me for notes and things that I bought new...then 1 day with the support of my cousin I started to yell at her that she was being to much toxic but then she fake cried and went to my mom my mom started scolding me but I was too much angry I told my mom how she treated me how she wasted my time and how she would boos me around and my mom supported me and that's how I got rid of that toxic friend....I swear I suffered for 7 continuous years of my childhood bc of that friend
Thank God you left that mf
Love your videos! I got rid of toxic friends throughout the years. They just didn't serve me anymore and now I have friends that appreciate me for me and make me so much happier than the toxic one's 😊
Staying away from gaslighters is a good call! i've known people like this and they can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted and mentally drained
Agree - take care of your mental health!
Here is my list of people who I don't befriend with:
1: The friend that never returns the favor
2: The friend that never takes responsibility for their own actions and blames other people for it
3: The friend that can't keep a secret
4: The friend that can't take a joke and takes things too seriously
5: The friend that makes irresponsible desisions
6: The friend that wants to start unnecessary drama
7: The friend that doesn't stand up for you
8: The friend that doesn't make the effort to check up on you
9: The friend that is never fully honest and makes up lies
10: The friend that is completely selfish and inconsiderate to society
Hi ! Your right on most but I do think that the number 8 is a little too much because sometimes people are just busy with their own live and it doesn't mean their are bad friends or that theire not willing to help you if you ask them. I am telling you this because I used to think something like that and I cut contact with some people that where overall good friends.
I agree on most of those except for number 1, 8, and 9 to a certain degree.
For 1, if you do favors for someone every once in a while and they don't ever reciprocate any of that kindness, than yeah not great. But if you do favors for them regularly than it could make them not like you because you are constantly making them feel indebted to you. Even if its from the goodness of ones heart, it's not always healthy for friendships and relationships. It is even a common strategy for manipulative people, as it makes it easier for them to get others to do what they want. Ofc, this is only at the extreme level of doing favors for someone.
For 8, I think that depends on you. I think for me, having all of my friends regularly check up on me to see if I'm okay and what I'm doing would, for one, be exhausting cuz I'm not someone who always wants or needs to openly talk with others. But two, it would also make me feel like they expect me to not be doing well at any moment and that I'm not allowed to just deal with certain issues on my own. They got their own lives and I've got mine. I like checkups or mini convos every once in a while from my closer friends and I do like meeting with them, but I don't expect check-ups like weekly or even monthly. What I would see as a bad friendship is if I ask them for help and they can't/won't make the time without good reason.
For 9, it's a bit tough. There have been times where a friend was being dishonest with me and it could even be for a period of weeks or months, but it was genuinely for my own good. In the end we were both glad that I didn't get involved when I was wanting to know what was wrong. I've done it too and gradually come to fix my issues on my own. Ofc you don't want to be with fake people, but I don't think its always a rule set in stone that lies = bad.
POV: When most of the statements mentioned are real with your past "friends" 👁️👄👁️
@@lalisaranawaywithjksbanana4846 IKR literally ALL of these points were the main characteristics of my college "friends" a few years back 😔
You’ll hate me lol
I'm so happy that at least I did one thing right - found a bunch of a friends who are always there for me, and who cares about me. I got really bad food poisoning last weekend, and two of my friends were having shifts at my place, and a third one, who was in another city, was constantly worried, and texted me 5 times per day. I love them so much
What if you don’t have friends
That means get friends
I feel for u bro :)
Now you know who not to make friends with.
Me
Then you don't need to worry
Not gonna lie, I feel like letting go of a friendship along with a relationship is one of the most hardest things to do, I remember my friend getting a job and me having to let go of him because he was so busy and I couldn’t see him anymore, it’s very hard to let go of something that feels so special to you, but in the end, it could wind up being a good thing even though it doesn’t feel like it, because in a way, u are letting go of all the sadness of missing them, and opening up the chance to make new friends, I’m still friends with him regardless but, i find it really helpful when you make more friends to hang out with when the other can’t. It made it easier to let go and move on, he’s still my bestie but he is just been very distant and I needed to move on and meet other people. Like someone once said, you can’t only have ONE best friend.
Letting go is difficult but not impossible. We fear to take that step but once we do it, there is no pain, no hurt
@@Cosmos12550 exactly, it’s very hard but not impossible, sometimes things may seem impossible but it can be done
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@@obinamk6500 cool
It's better to be friend with yourself...and that's okay too even if you got none
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Just don't lose yourself..That's what I learn
Yes fellow friendless loner
*Eminem flashbacks*
wise
It's very hard to be friends with someone who doesn't respect boundaries. People have tried to contact me at work or if I'm out and about when I explain my schedule numerous times. They get mad or upset when I don't answer, and I explain once again I'm actually busy. I'm not sure where this falls, but it's an exhausting process.
It's amazing how you don't get depressed when you no longer spend time with toxic people.
I'm so glad this channel exists, I'm dealing with a person who is a 4. They even try to make who had it worst into a competition and that's so weird. I told them how I feel earlier and I haven't checked to see how they responded because I bet it won't be pleasant. Unfortunately this person is currently my roommate so I have to look for a way to move out asap. Thanks for making videos on these subjects because sometimes it's hard to tell who's there for you and who isn't.
Its good that psych2go puts a disclaimer because some ppl don't when they talk about something
I feel like another thing to be said are people who aren’t honest with you.
Just feel betrayed/ taken advantaged of at the end, regardless of their reasons.
Also when reaching out to them, but they don’t seem as interested
Good stuff..
Definitely been there with people who don't reach out at all .or say they will and don't..
That's even worse,they basically lie and say they'll make time and don't..
I'd rather not be lied to than be told that they'll come through and they don't.
I have found to keep my guard up and observe people for a time ...and not place people in a pedestal..
I also have had a person who used everyone they could, I called it out and refused to let them use me and others in my presence..
I couldn't control what they did when I wasn't around..
But I made it clear I wasn't going to be used..
I walked away from a toxic friend 2 years ago and it ended very traumatically after I was honest with them about how they make me feel. I’m still struggling to this day to get over it, I sometimes feel alone and it makes me miss them and feel guilty for walking away, even though I know they weren’t healthy for me. The most toxic thing is someone having that emotional hold over you even after you walked away
Bad apples man.
Your videos are so good for the public! Explaining and talking about all these mental disorders etc really help people understand and notice when others arent feeling very well mentally
This is everyone I know. Time to do some cutting. Every point rang so true it was scary. No wonder I feel like I’m a burden when I reach out.
I’m always the one driving conversations or meetups. When I stop, they go silent (until they want to vent / have a problem). Now I see it’s not just happening to me.
Great video.
Ya I hope not everyone is like this
try online friends they're the best
Thanks for sharing and we're glad our content helped shed some light for your situation. Please take care and good luck
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The animation and the soundtrack is so so comfortable , you are my fav mantal health etc channel
Thank you so much for making this. I have always thought I had “friends” but this confirmed my thoughts and feelings. I don’t have much of a circle, more like tomoe in a sharingan. My daughter her mother and is all I need
i was friends with a lot of these types of person and since i've left them behind i feel way better. my mind is clearer and i'm happier.
It's better to mine deeper to find the most precious gem than get fake ones above
I spend more time reading the comments of these videos than it takes to even watch them. One of the reasons I like Psyche2go is because they get the discussion going on mental health topics, people really get engaged to express and discuss their differing opinions and feelings. Sometimes coming to even better or clearer solutions and conclusions than were even presented in the video.
You opened a worldwide discussion on mental health, this is something big and important.
omg, tysm this helped so much. this is why i love this channel. i never have seen myself so focused before. thanks so much once again!! :)
The third guy looks like someone who I know and was supposedly friends with. The description given was also very accurate in comparison to how he was. Seeing this gives me a little bit of confidence in the choice I made leaving him behind and moving on. It still kind of hurts to look at him sometimes but I made the right decision.
Yeah, following through to cut someone off is so difficult 😞 czcams.com/video/W5nlDlPzsT0/video.html
I know of a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you wanna manifest within two day
He was the one who helped me restore back ex 3 days ago without delay
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Well,thx for spreading awareness about such important things:]
I was confused before this but you helped me make it clear
Thank you😊
Thank you a lot for this!!!❤
Earlier Im wondering why Im not making friends despite all the efforts I did, and this video really helps, I also discovered that Im the last person on your list to one of my friends, Thanks again!!!
It's not all abt these. Sometimes 'toxic' friends arent toxic at all. Just growing out of your comfort zone. Time to meet new people. Or just be alone. Whatever suits you
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Valid!
The animation is so cute and good!
The first one was a slap in the face and the message I needed. Thank you.
From this video I realized that the last "best friend" I had was a combination of 1st and 4th types of toxic friends you discussed. One defining moment that made me cut off ties with that friend was when I fell sick this summer and was suffering. I would share my troubles and not only the topic was quickly changed but she would even downplay it as another case of me exaggerating issues. Not only that, but she would rarely give me some space for me to share things and she would mock me for sharing some interests that are way different from hers (eg KPop music). I had to put up with her remembering me only when she wanted me to do stuff for her, while seeing her visiting other friends more often than me when I moved to a place faraway from hers but the situation above was the last straw.
From this video I have also realized how wrong I was with some friends I used to have 4-5 years ago, when they would make most (no, All) proposals and I didn't. Because I wasn't going out so often I couldn't recommend places to visit and dine out and wasn't really confident and probably they felt that it was bad from my side.
From then on I try and I wanna try to make more recommendations.
I love these videos, they are so helpful and have helped me throughout my rough times:)))
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The third one really hit hard on me....
I always felt that I'm the one trying to save a friendship that the person couldn't care less about....
And I know if i don't send a text or say hi....then they'd do nothing-
@@nebulitestudios like you try so hard to fix a friendship the other person isn't willing to fix.And the thing is when I tried to end the friendship, they'd say *well, I never said the friendship was over but have it your way* and that'd just make me feel worse
Ive definetely had friends who i had to reach out to almost everytime just to see them. They were my only friends at the time and i was afraid of being alone. What i noticed these friends do that i dont think the video mentioned is that the few times they do reach out to you, it will be for small things as a way for them to not feel bad about not reaching you, and when you call them out on it, theyll just be like “but we did invite you here that one time”. I stopped reaching out to these friends and only hangout with them when they reached out. Ive seen them like 3 times in the last 4 years. I explained this to my therapist recently and her exact words were “they were never your friends. They just didnt know how to unfriend you without looking like the bad guys”.
Thank you for that video. :) Is so helpfully, but I have a friend who is best described by the first case and I haven't wanted to be her friend for a year now and I don't know how to no longer be her friend. The problem is that she comes through to me and whatever I say to her she doesn't listen to me, just to give her what she wants. :(
These always make me self-conscious about how I am with my friends; and if I follow these traits. Though looking back, I do not believe so. At least, I really hope not.
Thank you so much..I needed it 😭😭
seriously I love this channel I love how they upload psychological things daily.
I had this friend that fits in most these, if not all. It took me a while to realize and I honestly feel a little dumb for taking so long but eventually I had to cut him out of my life. It hurted like hell, cause we actually had some pretty good and meaningful moments together, but his habit of putting me down, calling me mean things and straight out humiliate me under the excuse that he was caring for me, pushing me to improve and teaching me to be better and stronger eventually did some serious damage to my mental health and self-esteem to the point I truly thought I was worthless. And while I can always improve myself in many aspect, like getting into better shape to feel healthier and be more organized, it shouldn't come at the cost of having someone putting me down all the time.
I will add two more types of fake friends.
6. The one that always causes useless drama
7. The one that cuts you off from your other friends
Number seven is extremely bad because when they cut you off from other friends, you feel like you have nobody else but them, so don't let it happen. It's better to be alone then in bad company.
im lowkey the type 7.I never had true friends in my life and once i got one i became possessive unconsciously. Whenever my friend tries to get close to their other friends or someone else tries to get close to them,i get jealous and hurt. It feel like im being replaced when i know im not. At first i thought it was "what if they start caring about me less" but it's "what if they start caring about someone else more" im currently taking a break from all that becuz it has drained all my energy, i dont wanna get hurt anymore and dont wanna hurt. So i want to improve for them and hopefully ill change
The animation and voice is so calming♡
Loved it Psych2Go❤
my friend is the third one,however he does help me with my homework,and sometimes brag about the stuff that i dont have for a little,after 3 monthes,he has really changed when i showed him this video,thanks for telling me,you helped me cut alot of people in my life
Thanks for sending this video. 👍😁it has been very beneficial.
To the person reading this: Even though I don't know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer 💚
I love this channel, it's so helpful in life
Thank you, you make me realize I need to sort myself out because I feel like one or two of them
spot on!, Had those things (friends) at a young age and many of them and woke up
one day to say that I want to form myself and not be succumbed to their personas.
I am a last year middle year schooler and finding toxic people is way easier than finding good ones...it hurts to be betrayed by people you once trusted a lot...I have a lot of toxic people too in my life and I am currently facing issues getting them out! This helped💙
Good luck!
You know they don't deserve you.
I'm currently dealing with the same situation.
I have found all types of them and unfriended them all
Being a sensitive person taught me how to love myself and started to change but sometimes its good to be alone without t0xic friends ✌🏻 😉
If you are going through something I hope you get through it
I wrote about your channel on my blog! Thank you for the wonderful videos
Needed this. Felt like i couldnt tell if i was the problem or the "friend". Now im sure about my decision
Sometimes leaving someone is hard, even if they are bad or toxic, idk why ;-;
If you find yourself questioning whether you're in a toxic relationship chances are that you are and the only solution I can think of is to cut them off
Toxic people weigh heavily on their victims mental health so if you know someone who is in a toxic relationship(be it an acquaintance ship,family relationship or friendship)please help them
*psych2go also has a video on that*
Lots of love
And
Peace
Especially if you want companionship and they are geared towards sex. It's just not okay.
thx dis helped, I just came home from school while my bffs are talking behind my back even though I can quite hear them. Like if u have nothin nice to say keep it to ur self not that hard. It’s pretty hurtful too. I have that one friend that’s like always looking at my answers and copies it like I worked hard on that. She also lies about the things she say. These friends suck, I wanna cut them off but I will feel like I have no more friends after that. Im always giving their always taking. Sure I borrow some stuff, but I dont get mad when they ask it back. If its really important I’ll just say “please wait I’m tryna speed up” like it’s so annoying. My friend always try’s being better than me, flexing her wins. And then when she gets a bad score she’s like “I got a 1/100 😢 pls help me” and I comfort her saying it’s okay, but deep down I know she ain’t sad.. it hurts.
A big one for me, is when your fake friends are jealous of anything you do. You can tell by the way they downplay anything you accomplish, or sometimes even try to sabotage you. I'm glad I eventually realized this and removed said people from my life. Jealousy is one of the top things that can destroy a friendship, relationship etc. I'd rather have no friends, than those who deep down secretly wish you would fail.
Sometimes, the "friend who always talks about themselves", doesn't do it because it wants to, he or she can be going through some mental health issues and accidentally ends up talking about their problems because they have no one to listen to them. However this is not always the case, some people is just like that because they, well, are like that. Good night people!
Being a alone is the best thing for you. You don't need friends, family, or even a lover in your life. Just be alone, people will switch up. It's human nature for them. Trust me, it's for the best 👌.
But im alone because of my social anxiety and It starts to feel lonely after sometime because I feel I'm wasting my teen years and see other people with Friends + I wanna be able to talk about stuff I like and hang out with people without feeling Anxiety
@@yo.hi.. how you now?
Another thing that I found a toxic trait is when they constantly manipulate you. I had a ‘friend’ who took away my other friends, then, she came to me and it was like she was my last hope. I was constantly pushed around and she changed me completely, even giving me trust issues. Then, she would say ‘I think we’re only friends because we like the same things’ which made me think that everything that she did I would have to do. Luckily, she is now out of my life and I have reconnected with my old friends (who were taken away). Yes, they can rarely brag. But everyone does and they care about me too. Please be careful who you trust and stay healthy and happy ❤
Remember, happiness is key. 😊
I can relate to number 5 on the list, in year two I had someone like that. I ended up leaving them and just copped on my own. It made me a happier person and I have learned from that mistake
A friend has many capabilities and one of the most important is listening to their friend's problems..
People who somehow shift the conversation and start talking only about their own problems don't actually care about the other person..
In other words they are not your friend
Simple and to the point. Well said!
The best friend that I know is someone who run away from you whenever they have a hard time, so they won't bother you. It's your responsibility to chase them and help them with everything you can.
And someone who come to you whenever they achieve something great in their life.
It's your responsibility to congratulate them for they tried to share their happiness with you.
And someone who tried to find any possible ways to agree with your arguments and If you're completely wrong then they will show you the truth. It's your responsibility to accept the truth.
I heard this saying somewhere.. I don't know if it from Jesus. Maybe.
"Anything that hurt you, it hurts others".
Or something similar, I don't remember.
I recently "broke up" with a friend type four (3:04) which was especially difficult because she was special ed and didnt realize the harm she was doing. She was really nice otherwise but i did what had to be done and I'm ultimately glad i didn't end up ghosting like some friends suggested.
i just believe that ghosting is never the answer and in the real world, it's almost impossible to find someone who is truly evil or bad.
Thank you for this because it makes me realize I'm unintentionally the one who will talk about myself I think... I don't know any more I'm just confused but this atleast tells me who to avoid
The real mvps post lists, not 'first'
1. 0:45 The friend who only contacts you when they need something.
2. 1:52 The friend that gaslights you.
3. 2:28 The friend that never reaches out to you.
4. 3:07 The friend that always talks about themselves.
5. 3:48 The friend who always talks down to you.
Love this channel🥰💓
Jeez, the 3rd one hits me the most. Lately I've been so emotionally exhausted because of meeting and "befriending" some people who didn't really talk back to me. And I know that some cases could be connected to the fact that I get attached to people too easily so we could have seen relationships differently or sth. But it just hurts to always be rejected, ending up alone after any kinds of effort...
So, basically, you need to always remember to balance the energy you give someone with the energy you recieve. If you recieve much less than you give then it's clearly toxic.
I love the music in the background! Keep doing that plz
Her voice is so sweet❤️
Yay, a new video! ^^
I love this artist's art style and character designs
Hey Psych2Go! I keep having dreams of me losing my sanity, refusing to look weak because of my size and attacking 1 of my classmates, especially a close friend. I've got rid of my other mental problems, thx to you (💙) but the dreams are still there every night before school day. I have good dreams at nights in weekends but at school days or sunday, they are peeking around the corner, the dreams, they sometimes make me fear myself. That if I snap, could I hurt someone very badly? I hope you could give some tips or make a video about this, unless you already have. Thank you for reading this and your channel has really helped me. The only problem left are these dreams.
Message to the viewers (and you Psych2Go but you are already a professional): Always remember to be yourself, no matter what others think. It's their problem, not yours so ignore them who aren't worth your time nor your attention. Have a good day🤗
“Or a ride” what about someone who has seizures and is unable to drive? If he constantly asks if he wants to get a ride to somewhere to do whatever would that make him toxic
no i dont think so, considering he is literally not able to drive
No, because they really need help
You can't be their constant driver. They can always take uber or lyft or catch a bus right?
@@maurimcalister5417 yes depending on the cost to get to places
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why do i feel like i inherit all of these toxic traits and should be the one cutting ties with my friends for their own good
yo self reflection is a beautiful thing. i am scared i do some of these things but i know i act out of good intention so maybe just having the awareness that there are other perspectives of what constitutes a bad friend can make you a better friend! don’t be so hard on yourself just always try to do better (i’m taking this advice myself)!
Number 3 is my ongoing issue.
Aiming to alter that perspective in the new year. 😌🙏🏻
The art is so good!