WHY NARCISSISTS THREATEN TO LEAVE YOU & WHAT TO DO | The Truth About Threats to Breakup

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  • čas přidán 30. 07. 2024
  • Does your narcissist constantly threaten to leave you or break up with you? Have you gone through several discards in a short amount of time with the narcissist? Here is why they do this and what to do.

Komentáře • 25

  • @Not_all_as_it_seems
    @Not_all_as_it_seems Před 9 měsíci +14

    My wife does this all the time. Yet i know my worth & point towards the door. It works every time yet....... the inner damage this threat causes is hard to cope/deal with. Be strong people & know your worth!

  • @MikeThaPhilosopher
    @MikeThaPhilosopher Před 10 měsíci +10

    Leave them when they do that.. FOR GOOD.. don’t tolerate that childish behavior

  • @ClaireQuinn566
    @ClaireQuinn566 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Hold the bloody door open for them and send them on their way.

  • @mothudimothudi2946
    @mothudimothudi2946 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Lol I been broken up with 3 times in the past week😂😂more than 20 this year. Just letting it go now

  • @Diaryofaqueen777
    @Diaryofaqueen777 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Been living this for 5 years! Every other week. We have a common argument or disagreement and “we’re done”. We are over! Like weird behavior. Then have the nerve to say he wants to marry me. I would be insane if I married this psycho! It’s all a control tactic! I got one foot out the door already. Brings nothing to the table but problems. I’m tired of it.

  • @Njjoy16
    @Njjoy16 Před 6 dny

    The first time he left, i lost 15 pounds. The second time he left, I felt like I needed a break from him. The third time - BYE!! Every time he left it killed my feelings more and more until I feel nothing and don't trust him.

  • @kelsummers806
    @kelsummers806 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I dont get texted back ...it goes on for days ...im seriously over it as im about to loose it on him . I dont get an apology either. I get broken up with once a month .

  • @zeppelinrules6965
    @zeppelinrules6965 Před rokem +1

    Great stuff!!

  • @justhansel08
    @justhansel08 Před 10 měsíci +3

    this is how exactly my boyfriend! and im so sick of it😭

  • @rhondanielson3753
    @rhondanielson3753 Před rokem +5

    I broke up with my boyfriend, and he threatened to move on , so I called him on it.Tierd had no apologies,and many times gaslighting . I am 61. I am to the point I am happier without it than putting up with childish behavior. I am far from perfect, but I do know what I do not want.

    • @mepeverett
      @mepeverett Před rokem +2

      How is it that you broke up with him, but he "threatened" to move on? Hes just doing the end result of what you initiated. You sure he's the narc?

    • @mothudimothudi2946
      @mothudimothudi2946 Před 10 měsíci

      Lol you must be kidding. You break up with him and you want him to beg you and not "move on". Sounds like a win for that man

    • @DoubleRainbows-fp6ih
      @DoubleRainbows-fp6ih Před 7 měsíci

      Childish -exactly.
      That's what kids do. Ridiculous.
      No looking inwards to THEIR behaviour
      & prior to the threat EXTREME passive aggression & blame shifting; together with Gaslighting You. = a COMPLETE mind- f......! 😢
      I choose to love myself ferociously ❤🎉❤ instead. I don't want breadcrumbs
      Whilst they ear the whole loaf & don't even care
      If you are hurting.
      No Empathy
      No accountability
      & huge Entitlement.
      P.S
      I should have known he was one when he spoke to taking ALL his Dads inheritance for his Dads house & not sharing it.
      Always the Victim.

  • @danydanie1098
    @danydanie1098 Před měsícem

    My boyfriend broke up maybe 5 times now. He doesn't apologize or even say sorry. If I say that I'm hurt he'll say "stop victimizing" . If we quarell and I just want to breath a moment, he'll say something like "do you want me to stop contacting you?"

  • @queenicedcoffee4217
    @queenicedcoffee4217 Před rokem +2

    My boyfriend threatens to leave cause im quiet and have a shy personality that he expects me to grow up and change over night or he's gone and sick of me and "my sh*t"

  • @TheresaB-wg4ku
    @TheresaB-wg4ku Před 2 měsíci

    My relationship now🤦I lost how many times hes said its done.

  • @mariecabaneshucamis
    @mariecabaneshucamis Před rokem

    he never said sorry i dont need sorry i hope to see him that he really meant it and made mistake and admit it. but i also never mean that i want him to bend on his kness or what cause everytime im teying to explain this is what i get. now i😢 realize he lacks wmpathy . but hes good in taking care of me when im really sick like fractured loss imobility

  • @ianarn
    @ianarn Před rokem +1

    Ha! Didn’t even make a year with my ex girlfriend lols. Two breakups in ten months😂 She thought that was us getting on well fort serious commitment 😂.
    Every other month threatening to leave the relationship or devaluing till you had to walk away then playing the victim and discarding you! Deeply envious of everything i had.

  • @Socal71
    @Socal71 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I’ve been broken up with 25 times in 2 years if not more !. Why is my heart so huge ?! Wish it was dark 😞 I would have left along time ago . I would just worry about her reason why we’re still living together.

  • @angiebrown6524
    @angiebrown6524 Před měsícem

    I have a dont care attitude

  • @MASKEDUPNOCASE
    @MASKEDUPNOCASE Před 11 měsíci +1

    What if she does this and we have kids

  • @BM-1822
    @BM-1822 Před rokem

    He threatened to take his life 2 different times. Videos with weapon and all. 😳🤯😥

  • @reiganlee4683
    @reiganlee4683 Před rokem +1

    I’m a fucking narcissist