Victoria SHOCKED When Child Gets Bitten by 'Pure Evil' Dog | Full Episode | It's Me or the Dog
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- Michael and Lisa Sanders both have years of experience in owning and handling dogs. So when a friend asked them to take in a rescue dog named Jake, they both jumped at the opportunity. But it wasn't long before they discovered that Jake has a very dark side -- so dark, in fact, that Michael now describes Jake as "pure evil."
US Season 4 Episode 3
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literally broke my heart that little girl was excited someone was "on her side finally" oh my god 😭
I bet her uncle also bullies her, as well as the dog. He's a little man that has to pick on littler things than himself in order to feel big. It's pathetic.
I’m on her side too 😢
incredibly heartbreaking, you can see how much stress she’s under. she tries to mediate her parent’s petty argument at 2:07 you can tell she’s really trying to put on a brave face and hold things together… no child should have that kind of pressure, especially not put on them by ADULTS. In the future, looking back as adult, I hope she can understand how unfairly she was treated.
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I know, right?!? My heart broke when she said that :( @@Doll676
They're not only bad dog owners, they are bad parents as well... Seeing the mom's reaction to her child getting bitten and then telling her husband "she went to pick him up" as if she didn't instruct her to do so was baffling to say the least.
Yo, that made we want to fight them; they both blamed their daughter for living in the house
I'm surprised CPS didn't step in after these videos were posted!
They need Super Nanny now
@@crystalgaming12 Not for the daughter, but for the parents!!!
That mom is truly something else lol...its like she's not all there
I’ve never seen Victoria get so mad at multiple grown adults. But they deserve all the scolding they got from her!
They were legit afraid of her lol. That’s why they tried to hide the second dog
Victoria is basically the only adult in the room in this episode
True Victoria is the best trainer
They kind of needed it 😂😂
@@darthveatay apart from the dad and daughter the mum behaves like a child and it makes me want to do 👱🏻♀️🤜🏻👩🏼
You can tell that Lisa's brother is used to doing whatever he wants without correction. The brother needs to be re-trained as well.
Probably bullied his sister growing up also. Why she's so quiet and submissive, not confident in what to do
He needs the shock collar instead of the dog
Can’t retrain someone like that. 🙄 He is a lost cause.
absolutely.
@@user-rs8wq9kq7k👍.😂
The daughter is the most mature person in this family.
True that
True
Butt she did do wrong but again smarter than the mom
That is usually the case. The children are looking in on it seeing it as a whole , she has her dad in her room already this poor little girl.
You should be able to pick up a small dog without getting injured & needing antibiotics
the fact that they were LAUGHING about jake peeing every time peter comes in when that is so obviously a sign of how excruciatingly afraid the dog was makes we want to scream. honestly victoria was so restrained.
Thats so sad. I couldn't handle being married to someone who was mean to animals.
oh that was funny😂😂 for real
Such a beautiful dog ❤. I had one like that who was literally shredding my hands. It took years but with patience he became such a darling who was loved by everyone. ❤❤❤❤😢
Ikr it's terrible
my dog used to pee everytime I got close to her and not once was I mean to her. so it's more a sign of submission than fear
He’s allowing his brother to tease and bully the dog, and then punishing the dog for reacting it. That’s pretty awful when you think about it.
That brother was an odiot
*her brother
All three adults are awful.
people do this inrl to other people. i know first hand how this is. and yes they will act as if you are "overreacting" to being harassed by others.
@@fruitpunch-mouth Oh, you've met my brother? 🙃
It was well explained that this behaviour is not just being bossy or a grumpy personality, it is a reaction to bullying and mistreatment.
I totally agree with that
Who cares he dangerous
@@janetlewis8848because he didn’t have responsible owners, wasn’t trained and was terrorized by her Brother, so of course he’s going to react like that. You obviously care about humans, so why on earth should you treat animals differently??That does not make any sense, nor is it fair on them overall.
@@janetlewis8848 I hope you never own animals, jfc
@@janetlewis8848Please never own animals, nor reproduce because I don't trust you with kids either.
Her brother is a complete scumbag! Bullying and tormenting a small dog just because he can. Anyone tries that with my dogs (german shepherds) they're banned from my house. At least Michael was trying to do right by the dog. That woman and her brother should be rehomed
Tell us what you really think! 😅
I don’t know what the woman’s deal is, she seems to be a bit clueless. But the brother is just an arsehole, I am so glad Victoria put him in his place.
They'd literally being thrown out of my house is someone mistreated my dog.
He absolutely does it to the little girl too. I feel it in my bones.
He may be a scumbag but he's hot
Seeing victoria scold a grown man like he's a child is my favourite part of IMOTD I think I'm in love
I love and respect Victoria.Great woman! Love from Germany
That's because the husband is weak for allowing it, and you are a cheerleader for week men as well. There's a way to teach and correct without being disrespectful and condescending. He immediately should have corrected her when she put her fist in his face.
@@brownprincess7189 what an incredibly lame take to imply that a man is weak because he did not 'correct' a woman, as if women are dogs meant to be corrected, and as if a man is pathetic because he chose to accept instead of becoming defensive.. Men aren't immune to a little criticism. He is a grown adult, so he can handle advice like an adult. I hope you grow out of this internalised misogyny.
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@@brownprincess7189and you’re weak for being so trapped in stereotypes
I’m guessing that Peter is Lisa’s older brother? He probably tormented her when they were kids and that’s why Lisa doesn’t think it’s a big deal. It’s just normal to her
Probably why she just automatically shuts down so easily.
He torments everyone when he knows he can get away with it...
Absolutely gross being
@@helentaylor7132yeah and the nervous laughter. I actually feel really bad for Lisa
@@morganablackwater2017I’m just glad he looked at least somewhat ashamed when Victoria sent him away 😬
Exactly so!
Poor Lisa has been conditioned from an early age to put up with rubbish behavior towards her and those that she loves.
Even the trainer was rubbish to her and I'm so mad that she could see the nervousness and reactive behavior from the dog but not from Lisa.
“Ok I have not mistreated this dog-“ UH EXCUSE ME? YOU PUT A FREAKING SHOCK COLLAR ON THE POOR THING
Yeah and he's so small. If he gets shocks at the wrong time, it could be deadly. It's bad for big dogs and even worse for small dogs.
I'm sure shock collars have their uses, I just can't think of what it would be.
I think shock collars can be useful in certain situations. My aunt an uncle have a shock collar for their dog because he doesn't have a good recall and will occasionally just refuse to listen because he is a mix of two large and notoriously stubborn breeds (he is trained, and is normally a very good boy, he just really likes eating tea towels, and other fabrics which is obviously dangerous). The collar was tested on my uncle because they wanted to make sure it wasn't actually painful, and is only ever used as a last resort. I don't really agree with using it on small dogs though. It's one thing with a 100lbs+ dog that's just big goofy and stubborn, and entirely another with a 10lbs dog that has severe behavioral issues that it will just make worse.
Good use in shock collars and fences are used primarily in larger animals. +100lbs and mostly with +200lbs. Electrical fences are much better for saftey and used for horses, cattle, and zoo animals. A shock collar isn't very great and it's never the animals' fault. Never. If handling large preditors, it is better to use fences, sleep darts, and simular things. If a dog needs a shock collar to listen, that is most likely due to phsycology regarding training vs. instincts. Always remember that all animals have instincts and they don't know how to act unless taught. My friend rescued a wolfdog and yet he is trained. He is outdoors on a long 200ft leash and sleeps in a den he made out of straw yet he knows how to behave even with instincts and a forest for a home. Moral of the story, shock collars aren't because the animal is misbehaving on purpose, they just need grace and training. It is more humane to use an actual fricking tazer than some shock collars becuase of the voltage. Vibration and noise collars are much safer for a houshold dog in training and even bigger animals. Stay safe and be respectful of animals because they deserve to be treated according to their intelect.
Shock collars are a tool to be used in appropriate situations. They should also be used correctly. That collar is not appropriate for this dog. The owners are completely clueless.
I inherited an older dog when a friend died. This dog was a terror so I got a dog trainer for a couple of weeks. I followed his instructions and this dog won a competition for the best-behaved dog for two years running in a local competition. I promise you this is true. Dog training works.
You mean people training works...dogs know how to be dogs...its the people being clueless thats the problem..and this family has no respect for the dog either...I'm glad your situation worked out well.
@@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army I couldn't agree more, I was taught what to do and I did it. It was easy. I am just wondering if those dog's owners had to pay like I did. I paid.
@@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army absolutely. Unless you want the dog trained for a specific discipline, there's no reason for dog owners to not know how to train their dog.
you don't need to promise me it's true, i've seen "problem dogs" turn around and become the best dogs ever. same with cats for that matter and other rescue animals i've worked with. people need to understand that "dog training" isn't just about training the dog, it's also training the humans.
You are a great dog owner & I'm so glad your dog got a loving home
Ok, that made me so mad to hear that the brother comes over just to terrorize the dog and they laughed about him having accidents on himself because of it! What in the world!!
That part was insane.
I don’t get it. They just don’t think of the dog as having feelings.
He needs to grow the hell up !!!!!
Half of dog owners should never be owners ..they have no clue how to treat them ..and the poor dog gets all the blame and has a miserable life ..makes me so mad and im sure a lot of others too that really care about theyre pets 😢😡😡
Seeing how upset Peter was when he was told he can’t be mean to the dog is insane.
he needs to grow up
You can tell he likes taking his passive aggressiveness out on the dog.
He gets off on terrorizing something that can't fight back.
@@_dadas he shouldn’t be taking it out on the dog because dogs don’t ask for someone being mean to them
I literally have a cousin like this who bullied my grandma’s dog
"Would you come in if this was a rottweiler? No you wouldn't. Because it would have your throat!" You tell em victoria ! 🗣️
If this were a big dog behaving this way then it would have already been put down. & It's always little yappy dogs like this who behave like this.
@@WarmongerYT agreed. But, it’s because of poor owners like this who instills stress on little dogs that are more vulnerable, so they are more likely to react.
That womans brother is a proper muppet
No, _don't insult_ the Muppets like that.
Seems to run in the family to be honest.
"Most Usless Pathetic Person Ever Trained" for anyone who was wondering.
Did the Muppets dirty
These owners are so frustrating and have absolutely no respect towards Victoria as a dog trainer, that was asked to come and help with THEIR dog. Seeing, how that got to Victoria, was hearbreaking, but I admire her resilience and commitment to work even in challenging situations, so she can make the most of that time, that she is there.
Honestly, I felt if they were up front about the situation she wouldn't have been mad and still may have helped them.
@@AccidentallyOnPurpose Exactly, it's all about honesty. If they would tell, that "it is what it is, but we will try to isolate the dogs one from each other and sorry for such inconvenience" - there would be no issue to work things out. But the fact, that they straight up lied to her, being afraid of getting scolded, like some children, and not adults, and even mentioning "we thought to hide him for the week" - is just such disrespectful behavior
This episode reminded me of the Super Nanny. Parents call her for help because their children are completely out of control without a clue that they themselves are the root of the problem.
Respect for Micheal.He took the criticism Victoria gave him and improved.
he also made a effort to hold everyone to it as well. you can tell too that he was pissed when the brother started teasing the dog after the training too
He’s a baby.
Yes, I didn’t think much of him at the start, but he really listened to V and stepped up.
he defentley devers more respet
The father really rubbed me the wrong way at first, but he proved to have the most dedication to actually improving the dog's behavior, and he surprised me in a good way with how he ended up processing the criticism he recived.
I swear, so many people are just completely devoid of empathy.
So many of these owners I see could solve their issues with a simple "How would I feel if I were the dog?"
And I highly doubt these parents have ever asked themselves "How would I feel if I were our daughter?" either...
The good news is that empathy can legitimately be taught.
The bad news is these kinds of people seem to always gravitate towards misinformation.
True.
It's because people see dogs as property, not family members. I treat animals as equals, and even neevous/shy/aggressive/feral and wild animals respond well.
@@anonymoose116 except animals are not equals & they actually want & need u to be dominant, as any dog trainer will tell u.
@WarmongerYT LMAO my dude, I've been training wild and feral horses for over 25 years. I've trained my own dogs since I was a kid as well.
You don't have any idea what you're talking about, and your statement is nonsense.
This has got to be one of the most infuriating families on this show. Everyone did this poor dog wrong and none of the them want to help. They were more incompetent and apathetic IMO, not so much malicious, except the uncle, what a horrible man!
YES! the uncle is awful! he made the dog so afraid of him!
Any concern for their CHILD? Who cares about the rat?
@@melt2947 i mean what happened to the kid was bad but the dog is obvi afraid and prob stressed from those awful parents and uncle both kid and dog needs to get out of there
@melt2947 the rat?
This has to be one of the most frustrating families on the show! Jessica is the only one with common sense
Neither Jessica is
Yikes.. I'm never seen Mrs Victoria cuss anyone out.. or once until today
Can't blame the little girl ,but she probably is the one who would learn the quickest ...
@@cherylschumaker1366 she's the smartest one in the family.
jessica dont need a mum like lasia
3:41 She gave her PERMISSION, let alone agreed that she WANTED her daughter to pick up the dog, and then puts all the blame on the daughter for the dog biting her. This is disgustingly immature. Your CHILD relies on YOU for guidance, safety, and reassurance. What an utter lack of accountability and care. I'd expect that from a bratty teenager to their younger sibling, not a middle-aged mother to her daughter.
Welcome to why our society is crumbling... and this was filmed over a decade ago now. It's no longer a couple families like this in the village, instead this selfish narcissism is normalized and downright expected.
Wow, in the beginning I didn't actually think the husband would listen at all and at the end he was actually the good one. Glad to see!
Coz it gave him a chance to show off.
I was surprised too but he STILL uses the dog as a way to bully his wife.
Before it was jealousy that she could calm the dog with treats.
Now the trainer has told him to used treats 🤷🏻♀️
So he snaps at his wife that she has the wrong treat pouch, making her nervous and forgetful of the next steps in the training, so that he can push past and yet again tell her how she has done it wrong.
He's a 💩 !!
@@mde6006 I don't care if he shows off or not.. if it's less stressful for the dog it is good.. it's not about marriage counseling here.
I rescued a maltese that was stressed and scared of everyone. Had no idea how to fix it. I researched the best way to train a stressed maltese. My dog is now a happy little fluff ball that loves people and other small dogs. She is still nervous around big dogs and small children but I am aware of this and am working around my dog’s boundaries.
I once adopted a rescue horse that I swear had PTSD. Best thing I did for him was give him a year on a big pasture with other horses, and didn't ask anything of him. He turned into a giant lamb. He started off as a truly dangerous horse, fearful and full of false aggression.
Sometimes it just takes time, consistency, and patience.
I seriously don't know how to train my Maltese mix to be better around children when I can't instruct them on what to do - especially to be calmer around my dog. Every time we are outside and kids start running and screaming around my dog, she goes bonkers (there is so many kids in this neighborhood...). She's very good with loud unexpected noises, vehicles etc. but kids are a huge problem and I am not able to redirect her attention in that moment. 🙃
Wonderful ! Commend yourself ! The dog has picked up your energy !
@@anonymoose116Amazing outcome, animals learn good (or bad) behaviours from other animals, best therapy.
@@heatherwolmarans8287 I learned early in life that a horse has to be a horse first. He had been on a pasture by himself for over a decade when I got him.
They get their sense of safety from numbers. I turned him out so he could remember how to be a horse.
This was a bit of a hard watch, but very important. I learned a lot from this episode. We love our dogs, and I feel that I will be a better dog parent for watching this.
Same here! You wouldn't tease a Rottweiler as the same you shouldn't tease a small dog. All dogs big or small need their respect. And it good to keep this in mind.
Glad you both learned something. Also you should never touch a dog's nose, they're extremely sensitive and it's like us being poked in the eye. If you think I'm overreacting ask your vet or Google it.
@daniellewatson8352 thanks for the tip! That is actually really useful:)
"Yes, I sleep in a princess room. It's pink. It has a chandelier." I'M DYING
LMFAOO
I hated this family excluding Jessica and even hated peter the most and jake should be rehomed to another family
Exactly what i was thinking! Poor dog
same! I think Victoria should have took the dog.
@@Eclipse_5555 exactly
Rehome the dog !
The dad actually came around and the dog jumped up to lie down and lean on the dad. I'll bet that man and the daughter will be Jake's safe space until Mom gets the training down. If they keep it up, I think it will be okay. But Uncle Peter should never be able to return to that house. Family events will have to be somewhere else. If my brother did that to my dog, I would forcibly relieve him of his teeth!
Love the line "You wouldn't do that to a Rottweiler...!" and well done to Victoria for trying to control her face at the family's behaviour towards their dog.
It broke my heart when Victoria left, and Jessica gave her one last hug. She was so excited that someone was “finally on her side” and now she’ll never see her again. Started crying..
It was infuriating how the uncle treated poor Jake but the way the 'owners' reacted was even worse!
Peter is a bully and a narcissist!
Imagine how he treats orher people if he bullies a little dog this way without remorse.
He would never be allowed in my home to break the peace ever again.Relative or not.
right!
YEP! I can't imagine how he treats his wife and kids when there's no cameras.
People who are mean to animals have a serious lack of empathy.
Absolutely! I'd tell him he's not welcome in my house!
He probably treats other humans the same way.
You are absolutely right!
I like the fact that Michael is atleast trying to change unlike Lisa and her Brother
How does the mom think it’s funny her child got bitten
I think she had a rough childhood and her seemingly inappropriate reactions are her ways of coping. I think her weird reactions are involuntary.
I bet my head on her being a victim of her brother bullying and its her copy mechanism.
For some if you pretend its just joke and play it eases the pain
Possibly feeling good that something is obsessed over her and wanting to aggressively let no one else around her????
@@melrobertson2743 I'm not sure that she feels good about any of it, but I'm certain the dog was protecting her
She looked shocked and full of care when her daughter got bitten.
Her laughter is clearly a nervous laugh and coping mechanism.
Could be nervous laughter - I have the same problem.
Poor Jessica so unfair for her so important for the parents to listen to her understand how she feels ❤
you can really tell how unheard and anxious she feels, not standing up for herself or the dog in fear of "causing" more conflict :( she even stands with her arms crossed like she's trying to make herself look smaller. Hopefully she'll find someone out there like Victoria, whose actually willing to ask her and consider how she feels.
@@portpebble5097Feel so sorry for this kid..her parents are a disgrace
As a dog groomer. I feel very bad for whoever has to groom him.
If the Jake has a good and patient groomer, he may not mind at all.
Yeah... This dog is so traumatized he wets himself... In his own house ... can't see him at groomers at all
From one groomer to another. Yip. It must be hard winning him over. But I have had extremely vicious dogs, and with lots of kindness and patience they can be won over. As always it gentle patience that does the trick.
Ok that's going be bad I guess you better have some treats
Obviously not that poor, since he allows the groomer to dye his hair. A groomer won't do that with a dangerous dog.
Over 10 years ago, our vet ( now retired), told all his dog owners Not to ever use shock collar’s- explaining that they will cause major eye damage to the poor pup, causing blood vessels to break in the back of their eyes… I Never would even consider doing that, and have actually told people I’ve met about this, if I found out that they had been using one. It’s nothing but a torture device and should be banned.
Agreed. If you're at the point of using a shock collar, you shouldn't have a dog.
How is that even legal..im so confused
In many countries including my country they are illegal
I think it’s clear Peter is the one who needs a shock collar.
You can tell just how much Jake dislikes Michael. When he bit Jessica, he just bit and let go, he didn't pursue. And very obviously, it's not okay that he bit her at all, it was wrong. But when he bit Michael, he bit and HELD. That means he WANTED to inflict harm on him. He only let go when Michael got up and pulled away
The dog is a terrified nervous wreck. He’s terrified.
Peter is bullying a dog? His sister is clueless. My first instinct is to protect my daughter, and if this doesn’t work, that dog would need to be rehomed. Jessica deserves better.
Dogs should be able to allow people to play with them. Victoria is reacting a little too much. It's definitely not the owner's brother's fault. I am sorry, but it's not. The owners are because they didn't train the dog properly.
@@Anita-tm1co That wasn't playing. That was bullying. Why should that dog be forced to play with a bully? I'm sure, once he was more relaxed and secure, he played with the people who treat him normally, but not bullies. I don't want anything to do with anyone who bullies me, would you? Why would you expect a dog to?
Yes, the owner's didn't train the dog properly, that's on them. They also allowed someone te bully their dog, that's also on them, as much as it is on the bully himself. Someone who treated my dog like that, and didn't stop after me telling them to stop it, would never be welcomed back into my house!
@@Anita-tm1co you can tell a lot about a person by the way that they treat animals.
Let's face it. Peter is bullying Jessica, too, and I bet the mum laughs at that just as much.
@@AnimalDreams86Agree
That dog looks like he was teased from day one. Sometimes people or children do this to a dog because they enjoy seeing the dog look fierce.
If Jessica, had been bitten by another dog, I bet the parents would have insisted the dog be put down for being aggressive. My dog bit once, but only because of an intruder and I praised him to the hilt, but if he went to bite for no reason, I would make sure he knew it was a bad response. But good parenting, means they know the difference. Victoria, you are a star and a Brit, kudos to you lovely. ❤❤👍👍
Exactly!!!!
Exactly, our Dane snapped and nipped my teenage son once but I totally took the blame on that. When she was a puppy I desensitized her to allow me to do whatever to her (nothing negative, mostly things like touching her paws so I can trim her nails, open her mouth and grab whatever she has gotten, look into her ears, eyes, things the vet may do to her during a visit, etc.) What I forgot to take into consideration is that I trained her to allow ME to do those things so when she snatched a lego one day my teenager went to open her mouth and take it back like he'd seen me do a thousand times and she nipped his arm and drew blood.
That was a full wake-up call to start working with her with others as well, but I made it clear to my teenager that if she grabs something to let me know and I will go take it away, and if she swallows it before I get to her, I'd prefer to pay the vet bill to remove it surgically than having to bring him to the ER because a 110 lbs dog mauled him.
She's 3 now and doesn't put everything in her mouth anymore, but since then he has gotten me a few times to remove some random object from her mouth (she likes to hide things in those huge jowls of hers and pretend she has nothing in her mouth 😂).
Grew up with dogs my entire life. 2 dogs we owned either bit me or another kid and they were put down.
I was pleasantly surprised with the dad making such a turnaround and taking to the training more than the rest of the family. I think usually the person who’s most attached to the dog is the person who takes to the training the strongest but it’s nice to see someone take accountability and work hard to correct their past mistakes, even if those around them dont work as hard. Really nice to see honestly
"Victoria's taking the dog..." may be the best thing for poor Jake!
yes but i would have took jake away and bring him back to my cuntry and give him a proper life
It’ll be interesting when Jake starts favoring the dad in this story. It’s bound to happen if he’s the only one putting in the effort. You kind of saw it in that last scene.
No in the last scene you saw him again using the dog to belittle his wife
Yes, I noticed that too.
The way you treat a dog is also the way children should be treated. They both respond to kindness and reward.
And training and discipline should be similar too. Early on, clear expectations, and consistent.
What a wonderful mother. 'OH, she tried picking him up.' And then not caring straight away or attending to the poor little girl. That made me instantly angry and very upset for the child. A bite is a bite end of!!
Not to mention that the mother instructed the child to pick the dog up!
@@BrittCastsFireballs exactly.
And even when they were treating the bite, she was in tears and they didn't comfort her at all.
The title is wrong that dog is not "pure evil " it's pure stress
That’s why it’s in quote marks. It means someone said it not that it’s true.
I know it is minor compared to everything else, but why would you dye the dog's tail the color of urine?
It’s bizarre
I like Victoria. She gets angry at all the same things.
That's because those dog owners are doing the same things wrong...
@@jenniferburchill3658it makes me wonder if they intentionally choose families that have never watched the show
I was more angry at the humans.
Well, probably yes. I'm guessing they do help even people who have watched the show, but only record people who haven't watched the show for episodes.@@lindakim3051
The instant disgust on Victoria's face when Peter came in is hilarious.😂😂
Poor Jessica. Missing two years of her life because of Jake
That is damn ridiculous not left in their daughter have their own room because of the dog such a horrible excuse ❤
Dad should’ve slept on the couch
It's pathetic on both of them. Such immature adults to let their marital issues affect their daughter.
@@lindakim3051um absolutely not. I would NOT tolerate a dog attacking me & prevention me in my own bed that I pay for , in the home I pay for & feeding & sheltering a dog that attacks & pees on my bed. Absolutely not
@@WarmongerYT so you think what the uncle did was okay? what the parents didn't do?
I am equally flabbergasted by that 2nd dog staying over.
That was so disrespectful and the 2nd dog shouldn't have been there in the first place and it was making Jakes behaviour more worse and the 2nd dog should have been at the kennels
Whose dog was it? If it’s mom’s family, who raised Peter to be what he is, I can easily see them saying, “Look after our problem dog for free, while we spend 3 weeks in Africa.” Anyone who can afford a trip like that can afford a pet sitter or kennel. Why impose on their stressed daughter when she’s going to have a film crew in her house for days?
Hat's off to dad on this one! Humility is a beautiful thing. Seriously! In fact, it's my most cherished quality in another human being. Dad saw the error in his ways and actually worked toward change. It was HIS efforts that brought a wonderful change in Jake. Love this guy!
These people never took their dogs fear seriously. To be so terrified it urinated and to laugh in it's face is just beyond. The dad was misguided but apparently was the only one with a head on his shoulders
I don't blame the dog. I blame the humans who have conditioned him
It's always the humans. In saying this many of them are doing the best they can with what they know. You can't fix 😔it until you know you are doing something wrong
My grandma had my uncle and aunts cat and her four kittens over. The cats were in the downstairs bathroom. My cousin and brother were constantly teasing the momma cat. She was so stressed the first I went in the bathroom that it took her 10 minutes to completely calm down. I stayed in there for a while petting her and her kittens. I left for about an hour and went back in. She was stressed when I opened the door. But once she realized that it was me she calmed down and even started purring. She would look at me and meow.
I was furious with my brother and cousin for causing her so much stress. I spent ad much time in the bathroom with her as I could to keep my brother and cousin from teasing her.
A lot of animal lovers appreciate you for this.❤
The brother's reaction to being told he can't tease and bully the dog anymore tells me he needs to not be around animals PERIOD!
Imagine what peter does when there not looking 😢 because he didnt seem bad enough to make the dog poop
Victoria is so kind when she said, "this family can't get it." I found myself saying, "No Victoria, Lisa & her brother (Peter), don't WANTTO GET IT!" I think orthey wanted to be the ones to make Victoria look like a fool & a failure! Peter did exactly what Victoria told him not to do. Lisa didn't have the courtesy to tell the show they were going to have another dog there. She knew exactly what she was doing! I see why Michael puts himself in charge. Lisa sits back & does nothing. Jessica & Jake are more together than Lisa & Peter. I thought Michael was too harsh @ the beginning but once he saw there was hope for he & Jake, he tried to reel the situation in. Michael may have been a bit embarrassed the way his family behaved, (not including Jessica.) Jake protected himself the only way he knew how. The little dog didn't get a moments peace. Bless Victoria for standing up for Jake. I think the adults were getting off terrorizing Jake as if it were entertainment for them. Then the dog is blamed for trying to protect himself! (Sorry for my long comment. These folks were so disrespectful to Victoria & their own dog.)
My hubby bought into the Cesar Milan dominance and it failed. Im learning so much from these videos thank you for making them available on CZcams.
Dogs naturally do need a leader and you absolutely have to be the dominant one in your home otherwise they won't respect you and they'll decide they're the leader.
@@WarmongerYT…you aren’t aware of the debunked research, are you?
My dog is huge (Rottie x Lab) and very, very fearful (was raised in lockdown 😢) so he needs me to be "in charge" and tell him exactly what to do when he feels afraid. But training and lots of activities and love and guidance have worked well. We're still a work in progress, sometimes a mix of different methods works for your particular dog.
Good on Victoria for putting this family straight!! Love to see that.
“Aw, I’m sorry” the man says while laughing and smiling
But even the 'aw, I'm sorry,' it was sarcastic. Just dont understand how anyone can be so discompassionate
I cannot wrap my head around that woman who owns the little dog.
You have to be a certain kind of person to be as clueless as her. Thank God for Michael! ☮️🇬🇧
“Jolly good! I would have bitten you too” I love her😂😂😂😂
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Are you telling me that it never occurred to these people to get a crate and train the dog to go in a crate to sleep at night or any other time?
Love when Victoria gives touch talk to all owners big wake up call ❤
Tiny dogs have a bad reputation because they can get away with things that large dogs can’t.
Not only that, but also because people don't respect their boundaries, just like Peter in this episode. He tortures the poor little thing because he knows Jake won't seriously injure him. He'd never treat a bigger dog like that.
In my experience, I have met many more vicious tiny dogs than medium or large ones.
It's because the owners allow it!
Yes and part of that is the owners never taught them how to behave. And they would have if the dog was bigger and a bigger threat.
I had a little cairn terrier who loved the whole world, this poor dog is traumatized
Its so nice that not just the dog gets better, the whole familiy's relationship gets better❤
Did it?
Idk about Lisa and Peter..
"Would you have done that to a Rottweiler?" 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
When the kid is the most mature of them all ... that spells trouble. That Lisa person...holy hell.
@margodphd You obviously don't know what a bullied wife looks like!
Trying to train a dog when there's another untrained one nearby feels impossible. I had to work with conditions like that for a few weeks. Barely got anywhere except getting one to anxiously sit for food.
Basically, my cousins had these big australian shepherds in cages almost all day. Three of them, they would bark incessantly and jump at the bars begging to be touched, for stimulation, for freedom. I was told I couldn't let them out, they had to be trained *first*. I had to try to train them to sit for food and stop barking, while surrounded by the others barking the entire time, and unable to touch them. The reason I couldn't take them outside for walks was because they weren't trained for walks. Just .... trapped. I worry about them, I don't know what happened to them after I left.
@@videlvasq That's nightmarish. Those dogs probably have bloody dog C-PTSD or something.
Michael made the most progress and definitely worked hard to understand jake and fix their relationship. he was also trying to help lisa follow the training when she wasn’t listening. it almost feels like lisa doesn’t want jake to like anybody but her. it just felt like she wasn’t even trying. michael did all the work he could and i think he’s the reason for the growth.
I truly feel ffor the Daughter that's it PERIOD! No way ANY Animal's keeping me from being in bed with my Wife & she's laying thete without a care? Both would be kicked out IMMEDIATELY!
With the way they let that dog get treated... I bet they let the uncle bully her relentlessly, too
Victoria is like the Gordon Ramsey of the dog world
Or the Jon Taffer😂👍🏻
@@wynonahaze7764 yeah lol
Except she's actually intelligent
@@VeiravissGordon’s intelligent too
How do you say your iq is my shoe size without actually saying it
36:27 I love Victoria! She is a woman with empathy and a good heart. Greetings from Germany
Except when it came to a quite obviously nervous and bullied wife!!
No empathy, understanding or insight there. 😢
@@mde6006
Are you referring to Victoria or Lisa?
Shock collars are absolutely the worst thing. Put one on yourself and see what it is like.
E- collars (not shock collars) are amazing tools when used correctly and the owners are trained properly on how to use it. Also, I have put them on myself before I put them on my dog. It is a static shock. It does not hurt the dog.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but do not spread misinformation
@@katiemcdermott300I agree. I have seen one used very well to train a large dog from chasing deer. It worked very well very quickly
The brother in law didn’t forget not to rattle the post slit. I believe, he got heard in his „men hood“ because Victoria told him off and the rattling on the post slit was pay back! Because, you can’t tell me that, as a grown up, he didn’t remember from now till next week or a few days later!
Well, there are some but those are not fit to be parents ( I mean the brother in law)✌🏻
I mean rattling a post slit doesn't mean it's okay for a dog to bite you.
@@WarmongerYT the intent of the rattler is key here!! The easiest way to change the outcome is to change your behavior! For example, if you want to change the situation with someone when language is not available is to redirect, bring the view point on something else…
@@WarmongerYTIf you know what’s going to happen when you do and if you know it’s upsetting, you don’t do it. It’s a basic kindergarten lesson. Don’t repeat things you KNOW upset others just because it doesn’t personally bother you.
I would absolutely cower under Victoria's tone if she talked to me like that. I really can't believe that this couple (mostly Lisa) took so long to understand the severity of their actions...
Lisa is a pushover
@@lindakim3051 Lisa is a bullied woman who has been pushed over so many times she dare not stand up.
Have a heart.
to not feel like your parents are on your side sounds genuinely harmful for a kid
It is. It teaches kids that their parents are untrustworthy and can’t be relied upon for comfort. It makes an emotional closed off child, or a child who overstates with strangers because they have so much on their mind, but aren’t able to put towards their parents because, well, “they don’t care” in the child’s eyes.
Those letterboxes are very stressful to dogs. Get an outdoor letter box and a solid wood door.
They also let cold air in
Never had a door letterbox, so this is my first time knowing anything about them other than it seems like the perfect way to let the dog shred the mail.
That sort of letter box is pretty much universal in the U.K. Most mail does not get shredded
The poor kids in these damn families. Her excitement for someone to agree is so sad. CUZ SHES THE RATIONAL ONE
So for the husband , there is more inspiring of all these.
He hangs in and says easy to tell he took thist to heart.
Good life and Pets for all🥰
By the end of it,the dad seemed to be a better owner of the dog than the mom
If the grandma can afford to go to Africa, she can damn well afford to put HER dog in a kennel while she is gone. ESP. If she knows they are doing training with their own dog! 🐕
I didnt expect dad to actually listen to Victoria but he did! And at the end of the day he was the most successful one. Im so happy for the dog 🎉
Are you serious your daughter just got bitten by the dog and you both don't seem concern
The way she was bitten by the dog. I felt so bad for her😢. And the way she was crying. I was like OMG!!!😮😢😔
sometimes people laugh out of embarrassment
True, but that doesn’t make it less annoying lol. I feel kinda bad for Lisa; she’s so meek
That woman does not deserve Jake, she is using that dog for her own emotional ego. The husband got the message.
People should be required to have to take a small course and get certified in basic care, training, etc, before owning a dog. Even just a simple basics class would make a huge difference. It's honestly NOT that hard to learn dog body language and psychology. The issues it can prevent are numerous. And that brother is a COMPLETE TOOL.
Not just a dog. How about children?
All pets and children. People fumble with cats and a LOT with small mammals
Honestly I have never seen her so pissed off. She’s PISSED! And I can’t blame her.
it's not the dog being aggressive but the couple. they're fighting over being right or wrong, constantly teasing each other, disguised insults, mocking and making fun of the other one - that's aggression. poor dog, poor girl. But in the last scene the dog is choosing to sit between Jessica and her father, remarkable!
I wish I could persuade people like Victoria. She's a national treasure. Thank you for everything you do, girl. ❤
"She doesn't get bit EVERY day.." are you freaking kidding me????
I love when Victoria humbles the people because that’s when they finally realize they’re the problem and not so much the dog!