The Single Mom, the Truth, & the Timing | A Blessing Channel by ABC

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2021
  • The right heart produces the right words for the right time-whenever that may be.
    Telling your child about their father is different for every situation, mother's readiness and child's maturity.
    Not meaning to give rules here but simply a reference through how it was for me; with hopes it can help ready you for that dreaded moment.
    Praying how the Lord led me may lead you in this tricky terrain as well.
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Komentáře • 31

  • @jazzbaculi6700
    @jazzbaculi6700 Před 2 lety +11

    Nothing but respect for single moms!

  • @loisagneslumontod6903
    @loisagneslumontod6903 Před 2 lety +5

    Our pains and disappointments never go wasted when we are in the Lord. Truly, your story Bettinna has helped me a lot. I am on a similar path as yours, and I cannot escape these questions as well. But thank you for willingly and openly sharing your story with us. This will surely help me and prepare me for that time. Praise the Lord for using your life!

  • @mench4398
    @mench4398 Před 2 lety +7

    We're married, 7 yrs old ang anak nung iwanan kami ng asawa ko, at may kinasama syang ibang girl (un din ang time na makilala ko ang Panginoon). 14 yrs old na ang anak ko ngayun.. 7yrs na ako praying and waiting for God to restore ang marriage namin.. sometimes i feel na life seems unfair, sana hindi nalang ako ikinasal.. kase wala ako freedom, may mga times na nakakadama ako na gusto ko maghanap ng partner, pero lagi may conviction sa akin na sin un.. many times ko naramdaman ito sa loob ng 7yrs. but God remind me, na sa mundong ito napaka unfair ng lahat..
    God is Fair. HE is Just..
    Alam nya ang gingawa nya sa buhay ko.. i will just let Him to write my story 😇
    Thank you Betina,. Lagi ko inaabangan ang mga videos mo. And i feel so blessed everytime na napapanoon kita, how you overcome everything.
    Indeed God is Good sa buhay mo, at sa buhay nating lahat.

  • @sheilagoldelaine
    @sheilagoldelaine Před 2 lety +3

    I can still remember that testimony you've given last 2018 at CCF. Up to now, it still makes me cry. I thank God for your life, Bettina!

  • @sheel818
    @sheel818 Před 2 lety +3

    It’s different when an advice comes from a pastor or a minister or even a leader or elder in a church who has never been through what single moms have been through, it’s wonderful how you opened your heart and shared Godly wisdom and advices for single moms. God bless your ministry! You are truly a living testimony of a changed life in Christ.

  • @cons4181
    @cons4181 Před 2 lety

    I am also one of the many who have beeb blessed by your testimony. Until today i have in my heart the words about God is our true father He owns everything i have im just the child of the Owner who is God🙏

  • @switpoison5021
    @switpoison5021 Před 2 lety

    Yes, that is very true from my experience. God give me the wisdom to tell it on the right time for my son. Because he didnt know his father, its easier for me to tell the truth but it was also hard when it is the time...when he was a toddler he understand that a baby should have a mother and a father and he asked me that in a way of comparisson (me and my brothers and my mom and dad; and he and me and where is his dad) i just told him for now just understand that He is a gift from God for me and in his right age i will tell him everything. Then in gradeschool,classmates told him that they know who is his father and he answer them, for now not yet and i dont want to think about it, someday when i am ready to understand, my mom will tell me. Its very nice to know that God really knows out future.

  • @user-hv3fg7jf6t
    @user-hv3fg7jf6t Před 5 měsíci

    Watching it now. More videos please.

  • @wisslices5551
    @wisslices5551 Před 2 lety

    I am crying while watching this full video😭😭 bumalik yung pait na naramdaman ko noong panahong kailangan ko ama ng anak ko na wala na cya😭😭😭 i felt hurt for my kids not for me😭😭😭

  • @bashdeleon7579
    @bashdeleon7579 Před 2 lety

    So blessed with bettina's words of wisdom 🤗

  • @CoachRosyTalks
    @CoachRosyTalks Před 2 lety

    Thanks for sharing Betina! That really helps us as a parent. God bless your channel!😍

  • @marj8239
    @marj8239 Před 2 lety

    Woww grabe! I'm not a single mom and Im still a student at wala pa din akong experiences pagdating sa lovelife pero ramdam ko yung pain na naranasan ni miss Bettina. I can see how the Lord works in her life and how the Lord uses her to move other people's heart hindi lang sa mga single moms. Sobrang na bless ako at one thing na natutunan ko sa series nya is FORGIVENESS...nakakaiyak😭 Whooo Grabe talaga ang Panginoon❤️😭😭

  • @eunahcaleighsdiary5215

    Watching po Miss Betina ♥️ sobrang nakakarelate po ako kilala man po ng anak ko ang father nya, now that shes 7y.o nacucurious narin po bakit hindi nya ksma ang ttay nya. Saludo po ako s inyo Ms.Betina sa katatagan nyo po at sa pagpapalaki nyo po sa daughter nyo. Sobrang blessed nyo po that god send you a good husband now. 🙏
    Godbless you & your family po Ms. Betina. ♥️

  • @seal4112
    @seal4112 Před 2 lety

    God bless you po. Ang ganda ng editing! More power

  • @wilfredaconje6285
    @wilfredaconje6285 Před 2 lety

  • @oregonhealthandfitnessph6788

    God bless your family ❤️💐

  • @carlosmiguelescobar3219

    Salute po sa mga single moms. Nice edit btw :)

  • @ellenadollente7512
    @ellenadollente7512 Před 2 lety

    Needed this

  • @nobie9372
    @nobie9372 Před 2 lety

    thanks God for this video... Im a single mom of an 11 years old and until now Im waiting for my child to ask these kind of questions... Im scared and i dont know how to answer if she will ask me "does my father love me?", "does he want to see me?.. I hope and Im continuously praying for wisdom and guidance on how to answer these questions in the future.... 😇🙏

  • @nica6418
    @nica6418 Před 2 lety

    for the past 10 years "who is my daddy?" question is hunting me emotionally, mentally..the pain i'm feeling for my daughter every time she asks me😭😭

  • @bernadetteceazargarpida6502

    Nakakaiyak po ❤️🙏

  • @mitchsalazar5414
    @mitchsalazar5414 Před 2 lety

    Di ko alam ano nga ba tawag sakin ngkaanak sa pagkadalaga?But because of not accepted what happened in my life.My child napunta sa Tita ko..In short di ako nagpalaki sa kanya ..Pero kilala nmm ko ng anak ko..Lagi ko pinapanuod videos kasi until now minsan struggle prin sakin ung regrets,what if ako ang nksma ng anak ko,maybe masaya ako.Bakit hanggang ngayon kinakahiya ko prin ang ngwa ko?bakit hanggang di ko prin makwento na may anak nko.?Nahihiya ba ako dahil tingin ko pinamigay ko anak ko samantalang hindi nmn..Ngaun ang mskit lng nwala na anak ko dhil sa aksidente sa motor.Pero khit my mga struggle akong ganito still appreciate life..d2 parin ko survival sa husga ng tao.Because of grace of God,His love.

  • @grinder9537
    @grinder9537 Před 2 lety +1

    first here!

  • @momahemakcampervan3832

    Perhaps we never meet, but if you read this, then bless you

  • @nica6418
    @nica6418 Před 2 lety

    just a question: As a single mom, i still wanted , praying and hoping that my daughter will meet her father in person someday, as much as my daughter loved too.. would it be alright if i make a way to reach out on his father, even though the he never accepted her from the beginning..the father left us when i was pregnant.

  • @karensheacarreon3899
    @karensheacarreon3899 Před 2 lety

    🥺 eto fear ko in time. Married kami then iniwan. Should i tell the truth. Puro pain ung relationship how to tell the truth. Grabe di paman tinatanong shaking na ung question.

  • @estherrosejill4145
    @estherrosejill4145 Před 2 lety

    Wala po akong bad blood sa content niyo. Pero po yung napaka sincere ng sinasabi nyo tapos po biglang lulusutan ng ads, mejo nakaka alis po ng mood.

  • @lovicekonopasek5886
    @lovicekonopasek5886 Před 2 lety

    Proverbs 3:5-6

  • @fharinanones4320
    @fharinanones4320 Před 2 lety

    Did you let her meet her dad?