8 Signs You’re a Super Empath | The Narcissists Worst Nightmare

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  • Empathy is one of the most important human virtues. It’s what helps us relate and understand one another’s human traits and mental states. Every individual has a different level of empathy, and the amounts of empathy that they show throughout their lifetime.
    Empathy works on a spectrum. Currently, there are four different populations of empaths that have been discovered with empirical evidence supporting their existence:
    On the far end with no or severely impaired empathy, there are Dark Triad Individuals.
    Then, there are dark empaths. People who have some empathy, but still have dark traits that they use manipulatively.
    Next, are empaths or people with regular amounts of empathy.
    Then, with the highest amount of empathy are the Super Empaths.
    Super empaths are the strongest empaths and know how to use their empathy as a superpower that is used for the good of humanity. Their good nature and passionate identity can make an impact and uplift even the most gloomy individuals.
    Do you want to know if you have the highest amount of empathy like the super empaths? Then stick around! Because today’s video is about 8 Signs you’re a super empath!
    Be sure to stick around until the end. The last tip is the tip that, we think, separates super empaths from regular empaths!
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  • @PsychologyElement
    @PsychologyElement  Před 3 lety +54

    We've also done a video on the dark empath ---> czcams.com/video/tNXC1mo3j9k/video.html

    • @SolarSeeker45
      @SolarSeeker45 Před 3 lety +2

      There is no such thing as a dark empath. The so called dark empath is a mislabeling of covert narcissism, I assure you they have zero empathy although they're very good at faking it.

    • @orcokiwo6703
      @orcokiwo6703 Před 2 lety +6

      In just 45 minutes of watching these videos i have learnt more about myself than in my whole 46 years of existence. Thanks for all the work and effort you put in making all these material.

    • @MusiciansWithVision
      @MusiciansWithVision Před 2 lety

      MOST so-called EMPATHS, especially those who are arrogant enough to believe they are SUPER EMPATHS, are at best DARK EMPATHS; at worst, NARCISSISTS in SHEEP’S CLOTHING!
      #SatiricalStevenSays #TheGoverningAntibody

    • @ashleyedmonds1836
      @ashleyedmonds1836 Před 2 lety

      Dddddd

    • @janiferholley248
      @janiferholley248 Před 2 lety

      Yes it is great we have now this education of personalities. Learning more about narcicism and empath/super empath is drip by drip an aid for the healing world. I understand myself in words I did not have before. Thank you from a super empath.

  • @ChefOntheway
    @ChefOntheway Před 3 lety +573

    I feel like a super empath in a world full of narcissist and sociopaths...

    • @angelaatwood46
      @angelaatwood46 Před 3 lety +58

      I just want to meet someone on my wavelength.....and not be misunderstood.

    • @arkylicious
      @arkylicious Před 2 lety +17

      same :(

    • @nikkihellas5062
      @nikkihellas5062 Před 2 lety +25

      Don’t confuse empathy with low self-worth

    • @bumblebee803
      @bumblebee803 Před 2 lety +3

      @Alex - SAME!!!

    • @nerifterafrnam4682
      @nerifterafrnam4682 Před 2 lety +37

      ​@@nikkihellas5062 Dont let narcissists infect you with their own confusion.

  • @justyourlittlestar
    @justyourlittlestar Před 3 lety +337

    The 8 signs summarized:
    1. You have an intuitive nature
    2. You might have so much empathy that you may experience mirror-touch synthesia
    3. People tend to take advantage of you in relationships or work
    4. Super empaths have a core identity
    5. It sometimes feels like you’re acting
    6. You’re introverted
    7. You’re altruistic and always try to see the best in others
    8. You’re honest and frank

  • @680davidd
    @680davidd Před 2 lety +58

    Yes, I am a super empath. One of our main traits is we are human lie detectors. First we will give you the benefit of the doubt but, if you continue to do it, the strong bond will be severed because we know we can't trust you. We will forgive but, it is hard to regain our trust. Oh, and once we have experienced a narcissist, it doesn't take long for to spot another.

    • @jacksonyusuf
      @jacksonyusuf Před 10 měsíci

      That don’t sound narcissistic to you?

    • @aurorarene9909
      @aurorarene9909 Před 9 měsíci

      💯🔥🔥💯

    • @aurorarene9909
      @aurorarene9909 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@jacksonyusufJoe House said on his channel that many super empaths are actually covert narcissists themselves, but it's good these people can give the narcissist a taste of their own medicine

    • @jacksonyusuf
      @jacksonyusuf Před 9 měsíci

      @@aurorarene9909 they are both getting a taste of their own medicine

    • @ArtemisSilverBow
      @ArtemisSilverBow Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@@jacksonyusufIt's pretty healthy not to trust untrustworthy people. It's pretty healthy to wait for an untrustworthy person to rebuild they trust they destroyed. It is unhealthy to expect one to give blind trust to someone who has repeatedly wronged them. It's called boundaries.

  • @susangrande8142
    @susangrande8142 Před 3 lety +252

    Not all empaths are introverts. There are some of us that are extroverts, but, speaking for myself, I need my alone time after socializing to process, too.

    • @karoshi464
      @karoshi464 Před 3 lety +3

      I am extremly extroverted heyoka empath and also with a well balanced dominant character ....

    • @elonever.2.071
      @elonever.2.071 Před 3 lety +9

      I agree. I was an emotionally damaged empath most of my life causing me to be a 'lone wolf', reclusive person who took jobs where I worked alone most of the time. Now that I have healed myself I am quite extroverted, and stay that way for long periods of time if I am around healthy people. If I am around damaged people I feel my energy drain quickly and must retreat to recharge. Having said that I do prefer to live alone because even the nicest people have bad days and sometimes weeks and I just cannot deal with all that negativity with no where to recharge.

    • @susangrande8142
      @susangrande8142 Před 3 lety +3

      @@karoshi464 how can you be “well balanced” with a “dominant character?” And what does “dominant character” mean??

    • @muskansunar9179
      @muskansunar9179 Před 3 lety +7

      As an introverted empath. I feel it will be really awesome to hangout with extroverted empath☺

    • @carolc2574
      @carolc2574 Před 3 lety +6

      Susan, if I am not mistaken, the definition of introvert and extrover is based on exactly that: introverts can be very social or very shy, but what defines them as introverts is that after socializing they need some alone time to “recharge”. Meanwhile, extroverts “recharge” by being around people. If a party depletes you, you are an introvert. If a party leaves you energized and wanting more social contact, you are an extrovert. Myself, I am a very social (and talkative) introvert.

  • @arani4774
    @arani4774 Před 3 lety +195

    Very reserved,but l will defend the weak and speak out.

  • @sofiagoudaropoulou2392
    @sofiagoudaropoulou2392 Před 3 lety +234

    Being a super empaths,the strongest thing is that we have an honest,frank identity core!! specialists to detect lies!!too easy for them,we are not naive but also been awakened ,we act with awareness all the time!!acting without fear is outstanding weapon when facing crucial situations!!

    • @SpiritualLo
      @SpiritualLo Před 3 lety +10

      @K. Gábor I fully understand where u are coming from but your delivery is bad. It wont make anyone interested in knowing the Lord or Jesus. I degraded what they said but didnt offer the alternative information. U said calling urself an empath is an understatement..... And with so much aggression. But u didnt say what it should be called or what it really is in your opinion. You seem more confrontational. Just suggestions going forward. I know its urgent to warn the ppl but u should give more information that they can actually relate to or give a care about. With Love ✨

    • @SpiritualLo
      @SpiritualLo Před 3 lety +6

      @sofia goudaropoulou I love what u said. Its definitely true about me😌✨

    • @Rev.14
      @Rev.14 Před 3 lety +1

      @K. Gábor Mat.7:6

    • @SpiritualLo
      @SpiritualLo Před 3 lety +6

      @K. Gábor Having thick skin is a defense. Being confrontation is not. Thats something that others need to defend themselves against.

    • @SpiritualLo
      @SpiritualLo Před 3 lety +3

      @K. Gábor Nice ReWord in my opinion

  • @davidnellis6128
    @davidnellis6128 Před 3 lety +228

    I have been misunderstood most of my lifetime. I'm realizing that I am indeed a super empath. I remember everything you've ever said done and my intuitive nature is off the charts. It's a blessing and a curse

    • @reverentalexanderchezeley-6367
      @reverentalexanderchezeley-6367 Před 3 lety +5

      If ur misunderstood u could be a heyoka empath, were u breached birth? R u dyslexic? R u pre-cognitive or post-cognitive or touch-cognitive? Do u do things backwards? God bless u. Saint Anger.

    • @victoriavitoroulis3273
      @victoriavitoroulis3273 Před 3 lety +19

      Me too .. I can feel ppls energy so much , that it exhaust me that anybody who knows me , knows that when I disappear for hour .. I'm charging my battery .

    • @Tarot.Destiny
      @Tarot.Destiny Před 3 lety +3

      @@victoriavitoroulis3273 OMG me too.

    • @Chan71222
      @Chan71222 Před 2 lety +4

      I agree 💯 it's exhausting also!!! I can feel things as they are happening before I'm even told about it!!!

    • @680davidd
      @680davidd Před 2 lety

      The things you have said resonate with me!

  • @waltjohnson2766
    @waltjohnson2766 Před 3 lety +200

    It's rather late in life, so I'm a bit slow on the learning , however a Narcissistic lady changed my life forever. Months after being literally discarded by her, I realized what she really was, a Narcissistic Lady,.. During those months of isolation, I discovered that I was an empath... My prayers to God " seemed" to be unanswered, but they were ,,. . My learning began to manifest itself in positive ways.,,The deeper I delve into my self, the closer I seem to connect with God,,,,Pray for your enemies,,,, it's a great stepping stone towards inner peace... The world needs us my friend. God can be a Great Listener and Guide if we simply allow Him in...

    • @nissmone9598
      @nissmone9598 Před 3 lety +23

      I had a relationship with a narcissist too. I also became more closer to God. The hand of God was in my life and allowed me to get out of that trap i was in. Im gratefull

    • @ngreat4390
      @ngreat4390 Před 3 lety +4

      @calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck lol! Yet to those who believe he gives them the power to become the sons of God! If power has been given to you refuse to use it for overcoming wickedness by forgiveness then how can you blame the one who gave it to you?
      The problem that you may feel the power of God should be used for revenge but even the laws of man cannot allow you harm others so you feel trapped. The higher power should at least let you have your way but is asking you to forgive and you don't like it...but in the long run it'll be for your benefit

    • @kmarie2362
      @kmarie2362 Před 3 lety +11

      @calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck No need to troll here. This person has a belief system and is working hard to replace a natural response to being hurt, hatred and revenge, with peace and love. If their beliefs help them accomplish this than I applaud their beliefs. For some, religious beliefs can induce a narcissism that far outweighs any good their religious beliefs may have provided. For others, their worship is pure and their humility is true. I have personally practiced forgiveness for my enemies and sending of positivity their way. I can honestly say it has been extremely effective in healing the wounds they caused. I wish you well and hope that whatever has caused you to feel so much anger and hatred toward people who practice religion and spirituality will heal.

    • @babykittahsyoutubechannel6035
      @babykittahsyoutubechannel6035 Před 3 lety +10

      Congratulations! I'm there with you on that. I just learned in March 2021, that I am an Empath/ Super Empath maybe. But, I'm in the process of dealing with my ex boyfriend who is in fact a Narcissist. Dark Empath. Anyways.. I'm 42 & don't Sugar Coat Bullshit.

    • @johnlove2948
      @johnlove2948 Před 3 lety +2

      this is totally how I came to the realization that i was an empath, then after some research, discovered i am a psychic and possibly a Clair

  • @taylordottie5858
    @taylordottie5858 Před 2 lety +36

    My neighbor told me that I'm an empath recently. Now, after watching this video, I agree that I'm a super empath! I'm creative, introverted and all of my life I've been called "too sensitive". Being a super empath isn't easy but thank you for helping me to understand myself!

    • @jettyprice179
      @jettyprice179 Před 2 lety

      Too sensitive is also what I have heard all my life ! Actually it is a gift if you use it properly !

  • @Gabriel13950
    @Gabriel13950 Před 3 lety +33

    I've had this gift since I was a teenager. I'm now 41 at funerals I feel everyone's pain and it's overwhelming.

    • @tullies9947
      @tullies9947 Před 3 lety +6

      I don’t go to hospitals or funerals. Nursing homes....I smell death, pain, loneliness, despair.....

    • @humility1st
      @humility1st Před 2 lety

      When a childhood friend died I dreamt it as I am very much a super empath. He left a wife and small daughter who then moved away from his sister. My friend misses her niece (who looks like her) so much. Mandy it gets much stronger as we age. It is overwhelming. I left you a message on messenger I am so happy to have "seen" you. my gift has been since birth.

    • @chandac3839
      @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Omg, it is! That's why I hate going to funerals. I only go if I have to.

  • @Chan71222
    @Chan71222 Před 2 lety +22

    Wow I was on the phone yesterday making an appointment that lasted about 5 minutes... during that process from the very beginning when the woman answered the phone I KNEW by the tone in her voice that she was struggling with something. I felt it SO STRONG that it was hard for me not to tear up and have a sad voice while speaking with her.😢 Anyway it proceeded into me being able to make her laugh as I absolutely love to do for people!!! She was so much calmer when we ended the conversation 😂!!! God bless.. I found out not too long ago that my great grandma had this gift also. My father's side of the family. I'm truly grateful to have this gift because all I've ever wanted to do in life is help others.🤗🤗🤗

  • @angeldust7591
    @angeldust7591 Před 3 lety +47

    After those awakening moments its amazing how you can analyse behaviour, you can read narcs like a book!!!

  • @leahracquelGibson
    @leahracquelGibson Před 2 lety +14

    “People tend to take advantage of you in relationships and work.” Too familiar 🙃

    • @bumblebee803
      @bumblebee803 Před 2 lety

      Same. It drives me crazy, like I can't control myself. The patterns keep repeating.

  • @ceciliajerrytashie2469
    @ceciliajerrytashie2469 Před 2 lety +27

    All that you have said is true description of who I am , a super empathy. Often times I find myself among people with narcissistic personality disorder who tries to manipulate, project, gaslight and control me. But as soon as I perceived it I will quickly set healthy boundaries. setting healthy boundaries is my way of protecting my self from toxic people around me. I am soft at heart but I have a strong Identity. When something bad happens to someone I feel as if it me. I am always ready to help people in need. Thanks so much for this vital information. Keep it up!

  • @SoniaJbrt
    @SoniaJbrt Před 2 lety +8

    Wow! I ticked every box! My family thinks I'm naive, but lately they also began to realize I'm definitely not naive. Definitely a super empath, by God's grace. And I am thankful! Thank you for this wonderful video. Honest, true and so positive. Just, Wow!

  • @swatdee2008
    @swatdee2008 Před 2 lety +17

    Right spot on! That's scary, like she is talking about me. Sometimes I scared to go out to public just because of I overwhelmed with people energy. Especially with my last 3 narcissists relationship I have had. Thank you for this video and make me feel like there in nothing wrong with me while I thought it was me that I can't keep my relationship long enough like the others.

    • @donnaleveron6511
      @donnaleveron6511 Před 2 lety +3

      Sounds like you know when to walk away from what may become or is heading toward a toxic relationship. Good for you!

  • @susanmadison6466
    @susanmadison6466 Před 3 lety +17

    This is true. I was married to a narcissist for years, but I never allowed him to mistreat me.
    Maybe the difference between super empaths and regular empaths is that in addition to loving and caring for others, we always come first. There is a wisdom super empaths possess.

    • @mariaalexander7037
      @mariaalexander7037 Před 2 lety +1

      Well said Susan, we always come first hence the reason why you and I never allowed them to mistreat us. So after 45 years of that shit just four months ago knowing what narcissist meant I was able to overcome the evil man. I am enjoying my life now he is enjoying his karma by himself.

    • @mariafranjul-ruff6255
      @mariafranjul-ruff6255 Před rokem

      Wow! Exactly how I'm, I do care for people but I put myself first, and I hate when people want to manipulate me. Or once I know a person is toxic or a narcissist i will put them where they belong. God has opened my eyes to see these people as what they are.

    • @aurorarene9909
      @aurorarene9909 Před 9 měsíci

      ...and that my friend sums up the major difference and why we confuse a narcissist.

  • @soundrat
    @soundrat Před 2 lety +35

    Seeing this video, I realize I’m on a spectrum between regular and super empath but tends toward being a super empath. I found the vids explanations very eye-opening and over the years, I have learned one key thing is to learn to say no and have boundaries. There was one narcissist former-roommate and my boundaries to the person drove the narcissist nuts but it works as the person realizes that I make a very poor supply. Keeping the narcissists of the world out of your life is refreshing and the boundaries may lose some friends too but it was worth it.

  • @LindaMoore-jy9xg
    @LindaMoore-jy9xg Před 2 lety +9

    I always knew I had different 'abilities', just didn't know what to call it. Now I know. Intuitive to the point that the liars automatically expose themselves. I ended up in a relationship with a passive aggressive narcissist. His 'punishment', addiction to porn, his lies about finances, gaslighting, rage etc triggered my awareness or is it my awakeness.. I read him like a script and without fail, his secrets and lies, reveal itself. It did take me a few years to realise what I'm dealing with.. That thing we have, not thinking people can be nasty humans.
    I'm ok.. I know who I am💕 it's as if I can see through people. Feeling their energy can sometimes make me anxious to please and keep the peace.
    I'm a bit both, extroverted and introverted. I can be the life of a party but can also stay at home for months.
    My intuition for manipulation is off the charts and I'm more than just frank about it, especially after a glass of red. I will not be manipulated.
    My heart breaks easily for those who have less than me. I hand out more than I should but it's ok.
    I demand good manners and respect, or I will turn away from you.
    I am definitely still weak to the belief that people can often be cruel, users and abusers, but I'm learning.
    This video was an eye opener, thank you.

    • @chandac3839
      @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci

      "That thing we have not thinking people can be nasty" humans hit me in the gut of my stomach. Now I know I'm not alone 😢

  • @kenreyes8780
    @kenreyes8780 Před 3 lety +40

    I am in the category of super Empaths. It is such a blessing and also a curse

  • @selihter
    @selihter Před 2 lety +23

    I always look for the good in humanity and always being misunderstood by others for being too nice🤦‍♀️peace is my motto in life for every individual 💖

    • @elizabethhannah4704
      @elizabethhannah4704 Před rokem +1

      We are here to learn. I have learnt to be true to myself and my Core Being comes out to play. It's so good to use wit and humour to lighten up the every day.

    • @selihter
      @selihter Před rokem

      💝

    • @Daisy-oi2jy
      @Daisy-oi2jy Před rokem +1

      I love peace.
      Peace be with you.
      My favourite mantra.

    • @chandac3839
      @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci +2

      I've been told all my life that I'm too nice and naive. I would always think why my relationships never last 😢

    • @selihter
      @selihter Před 5 měsíci

      @@chandac3839 💝🙏💝

  • @AvePhoenix305
    @AvePhoenix305 Před 2 lety +8

    My Super Empath life always gets me in trouble!!! prefer to stay home, love my alone time and I do have a creative hobbie!! Didn't know about empath until the other day and now I understand why I end up with a Narcissist!! Had to call police to escort me and my stuff out of my own home that was under my name and star from 0 with my Son.

  • @mrperson9482
    @mrperson9482 Před 3 lety +18

    Wasnt expecting to cry at 4 am after realizing the lady was describing me and having a bit of a breakdown. But at least knowing helps me do better in the long run, just puts a lot of shit into perspective. Thank you for sharing this video,
    Sincerely,
    Someone who was moved by this video

    • @healthhollow7218
      @healthhollow7218 Před 2 lety

      Your comment proves you are a super empath. I feel the exact same way. It touched you to hear what she had to say about us! It’s eye opening and definitely helps me understand more about myself for sure 💗😊 Lots of love! Good luck to you friend and GOD BLESS! 🙏✝️

  • @dgates6165
    @dgates6165 Před 3 lety +21

    Clues?!?!
    You could put 100 people in a room with ONE serial killer... I'll find that killer before I have time to walk in and sit down.

    • @randomrecognizer3409
      @randomrecognizer3409 Před 3 lety

      Very cool!

    • @Rundark-
      @Rundark- Před 3 lety +2

      Because a monster always knows when they're in a room with another monster. There are two main types of monsters however, those who feed on who they prey upon, and those who feed on other monsters.

    • @chandac3839
      @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci

      This is just amazing! This late in my life, I'm learning things about myself and can spot danger a mile away

  • @srinidhi4318
    @srinidhi4318 Před 2 lety +6

    Long time suffering from a narcissistic parent ,made me super empath 😊

  • @andrewdurfee3896
    @andrewdurfee3896 Před 3 lety +19

    I would say that your level of empathy can change and vary throughout life. From my own reflections I remember times when I was more empathetic, but I have been a little bit more numb as I have turned to unhealthy outlets. I can gain it back, but I'll have to make changes in my life.

  • @jocelyneke6445
    @jocelyneke6445 Před 3 lety +12

    I think I'm a super empath.I always trust my intuition 100 per cent. Many times at work I feel not valued as much as I deserve. But many customers loved me. So knowing I'm a superempath explains alot.

  • @zeerovers3540
    @zeerovers3540 Před 2 lety +6

    Thanks so much for the clarification! I'm now completely convinced that I am a Super Empath!

  • @tanyagoodpasture761
    @tanyagoodpasture761 Před 3 lety +12

    Yup. Sounds like me. Except, I could talk to 20 people, easy. I like to bring them joy. Thank you for this video. Going through a lot of changes. Like boundaries, brutally honest...wow.

  • @elio3438
    @elio3438 Před 3 lety +5

    😢it literally hurts when you see other people hurt!!!!

  • @reneacabiness7994
    @reneacabiness7994 Před 3 lety +8

    Now I know what I am. I thought that I was just weird. A SUPER empathy!!! Wow! Thanks ❤️

    • @bumblebee803
      @bumblebee803 Před 2 lety +1

      It's crazy isn't it? It makes a lot of sense to me now. Not sure I like it.

  • @wintergoddess8210
    @wintergoddess8210 Před 3 lety +2

    We hate all types of injustice cuz in the world now there’s more and more people with careless hearts for others ..

    • @chandac3839
      @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci

      I absolutely hate injustice. When I was a child, I wanted to become a lawyer. I became a Section 8 Advisor. I truly liked helping families, but I also disliked when some of my clients were straight up dishonest manipulators. I'm retired now 😊

  • @rondadowd4019
    @rondadowd4019 Před 2 lety +6

    This is perfectly perfect. Many times people would describe empaths and I always felt it was too lightly described, or like something was missing. I’ve been watching these Super or Heyoka Empaths all afternoon. It’s amazing! I now know where I fit. I could always read energy & communicate with people who have crossed over. It took me years to realize & feel comfortable with the title Medium (mostly because of religion) However, these explanations of Super Empath, I solidly saw myself in every step. Except I’m an extrovert and enjoy feeling the good feelings of others at an event or the depression or sadness from others. However, I become an introvert after the event, I need time to relax alone & maybe watch TV to help distract me. The description of the interrupter made me laugh so much! I’m always more of a people pleaser and I never understood why I was so prone to interrupting. I’d just know things and other people (family, friends, co-workers) seemed not to get the point at all. I sometimes interrupted the person talking, teaching or whatever, to get my point across and everyone seemed to have an amazed look on their face or I was told to wait my turn. Ever since I was in Kindergarten. Then during my working years, I can walk into a new company and know how to organize or streamline all the miscommunications so everyone could understand. I was a successful Project Manager. Also I was raised around Narcissists growing up in family, friends & employment. I was always be amazed (before I knew about NPD) how I was able to successfully win the difficult person over and they would respect me. I wasn’t sure how I was doing it myself. However, each Narcissist i interacted with taught me how to handle the next one I came in contact with. I’d always either, scare them or win them over, then moved on. Anyways, I digress, these explanations helped me understand more about myself. Thank you!

  • @marthamoreno1539
    @marthamoreno1539 Před 3 lety +6

    now I understand why I can't watch horror movies or scary ones, if feel the pain in the characters. I cry and feel all the emotions of the drama movies. I am single and sometimes miss the warmth of a man, when I see loving couples, I can literally feel the embrace and it fills me and I think to myself, I can't wait to have that in my life again. Never thought about about this, just thought everyone experienced the same feelings and emotions.

    • @therip660
      @therip660 Před 2 lety +1

      I can do the movies but not the news. I feel horrible and useless seeing people suffering and being aware that I can't help.

  • @jackiemacias9273
    @jackiemacias9273 Před rokem +1

    This is 10 outta 10 information!!! i am glad found this channel❤ was feeling so guilty, empath and codependency for years, 4 narcisistic relationships.

  • @taistingtheair1368
    @taistingtheair1368 Před 3 lety +25

    A real strong empath is able to transfer their positive or even negative feelings to others around you or one they are focusing on.

  • @keithvowell9687
    @keithvowell9687 Před 3 lety +11

    This helped me SO MUCH to understand myself and that I was dating a Dark Empath (which is why I got lost in her for awhile)! It's also helping me understand this core identity and strength I've been experiencing since figuring out this crazy experience I recently had, and to understand I JUST graduated to Super Empath! The only thing that isn't resonating yet is being an Introvert because I've learned emotional shielding to resist or simply not take on others energy or emotions.

  • @CSFreya
    @CSFreya Před 3 lety +11

    I knew that I was an empath but didn’t know to what extend and since there would be videos describing how we could be easy to be taken advantaged of, I could never resonate with that as much and now watching this video completely explains why. I definitely have a core identity that is practically unshakable and have no hesitation to be pretty honest when I need to be.

  • @deborahparker1731
    @deborahparker1731 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I am 61 yrs old and have been told my whole life that I'm too sensitive, always making me feel like there's something wrong with me. To all you younger empaths, PLEASE know there's nothing wrong with you. This world is full of people who lack empathy, which is the reason for the condition our world is in now. I watched a video of a therapist who married another therapist, and she said they agreed that as long as their child had empathy that they didn't much care about what they achieved on an academic level. Empathy does not mean anything is wrong with you. Sending love and good vibes to all the empathy out there struggling in these dark times we are living in. (HUGS)

    • @chandac3839
      @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Well said. I used to think something is wrong with me. Would often think to myself, why do certain thoughts enter my mind. Example: I kept thinking my ex was not being truthful and was cheating but I had no proof. Fast forward 2 years later my inner voice screamed and I walked away. Another one, my ex friend had died from being trapped in a fire. I immediately started crying, physically hurting, stomach churning, and he just sat there like it wasn't nothing, he said people die every day. Well yea that's true but damn where's your feelings?

  • @stefanijastef6938
    @stefanijastef6938 Před 3 lety +4

    Im super empath... And narcist is always looking for that kind of a partner... Sad but true...

  • @jedicaron
    @jedicaron Před 3 lety +10

    Sign 9: You have enough narcissism to be attracted being called and believing yourself to be "super" anything, and thus click on videos like this.

    • @kmarie2362
      @kmarie2362 Před 3 lety +2

      I think we click on these videos because being a “super empath” can be such a burden that we want to know why we continue to do what we do. We aren’t gods, nor do we deem ourselves as special. It’s a lonely, difficult experience to feel so much. We are just trying to find community but often feel misunderstood. That said, I’m sorry if this made you feel hurt. Sometimes I feel an uneasiness when I come across these videos because they are made in a way that comes across as “self-important.” Truly, I would never want anyone to feel “less than” around me because I know I’m not any more important than you or anyone else. I’m just me.

    • @jedicaron
      @jedicaron Před 3 lety +1

      @@kmarie2362 I wasn't hurt. I was laughing at us. I think its funny. The super empath by nature has access to more narcissism than the other kinds. It's how we are made. And it can be a burden, for sure, to always know what other people don't even know they are thinking/feeling. To having your loved ones blast you for thinking you have "magical" powers even though they benefit regularly from your empathy and won't listen when you tell them is isn't magic at all. Our egos are mildly stroked by being able to identify ourselves as super, however our egos don't have much power over our lives, so it balances.

  • @elonever.2.071
    @elonever.2.071 Před 3 lety +9

    This is me with a few 'qualified' exceptions: I am no longer a fixer because most people with fixable problems in their lives dont want them to be fixed or are not ready for their situation to be fixed. And often they are codependent which opens a can of worms I dont want to deal with.
    Mirror touch: If I am really emotionally in love (I truly hate this word) with someone, I can sense their energy coming to me no matter where they are and if they are flirting and being touched by another person, I can feel the energy flow to me diminish a lot.
    Acting a role: I have felt this and I dont fully understand the mechanics of it. It happens when I am in a new setting where I dont know anybody and my radar is up searching for narcissistic activity to get a feeling of the general atmosphere. I think it is a default scan mode I have and use until I feel emotionally safe enough to start a conversation with someone there. There have been times when I entered a room of people, walked around in this scan mode and walked out after doing the scan. Did I unconsciously detect a threat? Not find anyone interesting enough to engage? I dont know. But I have learned to trust my gut, my intuition and my subconscious cues.
    Texting as a default means of communication: I actually hate texting. It is sterile, devoid of any life enhancing qualities. Yes I text, usually it goes something like, 'Up for company? or Want to get a cup of coffee? or have you had lunch yet? But to text just for the sake of texting as a method of communication is a big NOPE for me.
    Being altruistic: I have learned to cut waaaay back on that one...too many narcissists troll their environment using this ploy. There are many exceptions like the elderly, disabled, truly disoriented, mothers with children; but for the most part I have learned that their life is their journey, with specific lessons they need to learn on that journey and it is not my place to cheat them out of that experience. It is what builds character, confidence and virtue. I AM willing to help anyone willing to help themselves within reason. But the instant they stop helping themself and rely on me...they see a puff of dust and my butt trotting at full speed down the road.

    • @somedudewithnomustache2908
      @somedudewithnomustache2908 Před 3 lety

      I used to feel this way.. but I was drained badly

    • @sheiladamiani2959
      @sheiladamiani2959 Před 2 měsíci

      I applaud you for this. Sometimes I find it hard to explain, even to myself the way I feel, or acknowledge how I move in the world. These are my experiences. Thanks again!

    • @elonever.2.071
      @elonever.2.071 Před 2 měsíci

      @@sheiladamiani2959
      You are welcome. Most people live their life through the lens of their Ego and it is very hard to step back and see the big picture. It takes work and dedication but I believe everyone is capable of having their Ego stand down which limits the drama in their life and is the first step to true connection with other people.

  • @hdwarrior8830
    @hdwarrior8830 Před rokem +1

    I remember when I was dating my now husband in high school, he was what they called a nerd. My grandma couldn't understand why I was dating "such an ugly boy". She asked my mother what on earth I saw in him and my mom point blank told her, "His heart, she sees his heart". We just celebrated our 35 anniversary. Happily my grandmother, now 92, told me she was so glad I saw what she couldn't. I've always known who I am and what I stand for. I help anyone who needs it. It's how God made me.

  • @leylaleyla8953
    @leylaleyla8953 Před 2 lety +6

    I'm a super empath. And this video is right, we have a core identity and dont allow narcissists to manipulate and use us. We see who is who fast. Looks like super empath is also super observant and smart - we see what others don't see and therefore we can even predict things. Plus I turned myself to extrovert from introvert, now I speak too much and don't shut up 😂 Weird thing is also that I hate when everybody loves me and want to be my friends, maybe because we feel people's energy and therefore we are very picky and don't want many not perfect or even dark people around us. We have too much light in us, and not many people can keep up, but they want a piece of our light and internal happiness- I feel it, but can't share it with everyone - it's exhausting for us, therefore we put boundaries. We eventually learn to share it only with those who are really in need, and not with those who just try to use us and suck our energy.

    • @deec.2647
      @deec.2647 Před rokem +1

      Exactly!! A lot of people are energy suckers and their need for attention is a form of pulling other people's energy We super empaths are better able to deflect negative energy 👍

    • @claudeenclarke1583
      @claudeenclarke1583 Před rokem +1

      Omg you are so on point I feel so strange around slot of people so I keep my circle small just to not draw The neg.. energy I see and smell them from a mile it's so scary

  • @HardyBunster
    @HardyBunster Před 2 lety +3

    Wow, what a great video. For years I have wished I could live in ignorant bliss. When you feel it and everyone thinks your talking nonsense and then it all unfolds in front of you just as you said. I also ended up setting boundaries and started saying no. I lost a few friends but they were just taking advantage of me anyway. So it freed me up a lot.

    • @aurorarene9909
      @aurorarene9909 Před 9 měsíci

      A few family members thought I was crazy because I predicted my father would die very soon and he did three months later....he was not sick or anything...I've had these premonitions three other times with people I knew. The energy I get from people scares me and I think my energy intimidates people to the point they can't look me in the eye.

  • @viceprez955
    @viceprez955 Před 2 lety +1

    For those who are here, don't be ashamed of your gift.

  • @tomahgoings9075
    @tomahgoings9075 Před měsícem

    When I walk into a room, I send out energy that moves outwards with my heartbeat.

  • @pellestroika177
    @pellestroika177 Před 3 lety +18

    Empaths Uprising.... Look it up.
    Seriously....!!
    If you do not like it empaths refuge might be the place for you.

  • @Tarot.Destiny
    @Tarot.Destiny Před 3 lety +10

    I’m a super Empath. It took me a loonngggg time to find that out. Great video and I am now a new subscriber. 💚💜💚

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 Před 3 lety +1

      Janice L,You are beautiful 🌹🌹,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life !

    • @arkylicious
      @arkylicious Před 2 lety +1

      Same here😭 I’m glad you found your way💚💜

  • @raedarden9830
    @raedarden9830 Před 11 měsíci

    Will never accept my empathy for others as an excuse for my "shortcomings/problems". But, THIS has given me blessed understanding of WHY I feel and do WHAT I feel and do. Suddenly my world has a perfect explanation. Words cannot express my gratitude.

  • @frankjamesiii5362
    @frankjamesiii5362 Před 2 lety +1

    A real super empath wouldn't use their power to "destroy a narcissist" they would heal the narcissists broken soul and unleash the empath he truly is

  • @mushyp9530
    @mushyp9530 Před 3 lety +31

    Love the vid!! Quick question, what type of empath could hear a stranger story and feel all of their sadness from their head down to their feet? It's extremely exhausting. Especially if I can't help the person.

    • @EspritArkitekt
      @EspritArkitekt Před 3 lety +3

      It's called being overly emotional & not practical

    • @carolc2574
      @carolc2574 Před 3 lety +8

      If you have physical response to emotions that belong to others you might be a Highly Sensitive Person. Empathy means understanding other people’s emotions. When you FEEL other people’s emotions that is called absorbing, and it is a trait that Highly Sensitive People often possess

    • @chaplainchappymatlock4768
      @chaplainchappymatlock4768 Před rokem

      The most difficult part for me is to feel ,see, sence the narcicist torment and hateful anger , and not have the answer , now realizing boundaries must be set.

  • @terridillon3053
    @terridillon3053 Před 3 lety +11

    Just getting my sea legs but yes, I am a super empath.
    With time, (and wonderful people like you) I will hone these skills.

  • @jonnystash415
    @jonnystash415 Před 2 lety +1

    Im a gifted empath also. Thanks for these videos. They are helping me understand my potential

  • @phyllisgong7270
    @phyllisgong7270 Před 2 lety +2

    People usually described me as introvert, however, people knew me for a while described me as extrovert person. At work place, there were people coming to me and said "you love everyone, don't you?" And, I nodded my head..

  • @jasongriffith2871
    @jasongriffith2871 Před 3 lety +6

    This video brought actual tears to my eyes, thank you 🙏

  • @sideswiped6874
    @sideswiped6874 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm an Empath. at times I just stand and suck in the energy from everything I see and hear. I feel many people do not like that, I think they feel I am studying them. Narcissists that run their mouths openly and proudly to belittle others really drive me right up a wall. so I have come to drop those people because it's so hard for me to be around them.

    • @sideswiped6874
      @sideswiped6874 Před 2 lety

      @SuperPapajew yeah. like my wife's uncle by marriage. ALLwas running his mouth about others and how great he is. he will walk behind you as he belittles you with no shirt on as his belly hangs. he is ALLwas licking his fingers smack smack because they ALLways have food on them. I finely dropped him when he started to run my daughter down to my wife because he didn't like her Boyfriend. too bad I was not there that day. and thank God he lives a state away.
      LOL I can't stop the thoughts I have right-now that I just may be a bit narcissistic with what I have typed LOL naa.

  • @chandac3839
    @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci

    Omg, at 64 years, I finally understand why I keep attracting narcissists. Once I discover who they really are, their true intentions, I end the relationship to their shock. Gaslighing, love bombing, and placeholder are all new terms I've learned in the past 3 months. Never knew about empath. All I can say is better late than never. Thank you.

  • @theforgottensoldiers3445
    @theforgottensoldiers3445 Před 2 lety +2

    This explained me like crazy and gave me goose bumps at same time

  • @MikeKollin
    @MikeKollin Před 3 lety +4

    I have a V/K Synesthesia and a A/K Synethsia.
    Meaning My visual system is connected to my Feelings. I directly feel what I see instantly!
    My Auditory system is connected to my feelings as well as I also directly feel what I hear...
    I'm also a Highly Kinesthetic person meaning I feel everything around me...

    • @lightlove167
      @lightlove167 Před 2 lety +1

      I think I may have this. Is it like a knowing that provides images

    • @lightlove167
      @lightlove167 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MikeKollin thank you… I’m learning I get this knowing on what truth is when around someone. Like a bull shit detector. Lol.. 🙏 wish you the best

    • @MikeKollin
      @MikeKollin Před 2 lety

      @@lightlove167 Thank you! You too...

  • @levimorelos4985
    @levimorelos4985 Před 3 lety +4

    I think I am..
    So glad to know how to describe myself in one word!!

  • @ruthienelson3682
    @ruthienelson3682 Před 2 lety +2

    Yes I am a Super Empath. Thanks for enlightening me.

  • @biancaswart1101
    @biancaswart1101 Před 2 lety +1

    I often feel sorry for others and their suffering and wants everyone to be happy. I'll even put another's needs before my own even if they treat me wrong. I am very sensitive and have a high intuition. I am all this, but often to my own detriment. Others often take advantage of my kind heart.

  • @freedomgirlprincess3548
    @freedomgirlprincess3548 Před 3 lety +5

    Yes I am a super empath my intuition is always 100% 👌I resonate with this video.
    Thank you 😊

  • @divinet3771
    @divinet3771 Před 3 lety +5

    This video adds some clarity as to why I’m so different.

    • @bumblebee803
      @bumblebee803 Před 2 lety

      Same. I have mixed feelings about it.

  • @Salvino110
    @Salvino110 Před rokem

    One of a super empath's greatest challenge is to overcome the feeling of being alone, and constantly being misunderstood.

  • @r0w4n47
    @r0w4n47 Před 2 lety +1

    I don't want to be but it seems like I'm one. People sometimes judge me as different amongst themselves but I just shrugged it off and follow my intuitive persona that most people around can't seem to comprehend.

  • @kezzy616
    @kezzy616 Před 3 lety +3

    Yes exactly and it's been two years I'm still struggling to overcome narcissists abuse

  • @laurelmarshall6903
    @laurelmarshall6903 Před 3 lety +5

    I might be a Super Empath, this is a new concept for me.

  • @leylaleyla8953
    @leylaleyla8953 Před 2 lety +1

    And btw, the best way not to feel drained is STOP ACTING. That means being mostly direct, honest and not too nice, just being yourself and not hiding your power. Because WE HAVE A BIG POWER, WE ARE EXTREEMLY GIFTED and we should realize it. Don't worry we cannot harm anybody with our power, it's opposite we cure people, we are light, not darkness. We are made to cure society. So don't be afraid being yourself.
    We are in fact made to be leaders and guide these lost people. And most of them are very lost. We know what is right and what is wrong better than others, we cannot afford being modest. We need to train our confidence and not be afraid to overshine others, cause most people want and need leaders they can follow and learn from. Our kind modesty is our problem.
    While we try to be too nice to all people we notice they don't respect that and they don't respect us. Most of them don't. You know why?? BECAUSE THIS IS NOT WHAT MOST PEOPLE NEED!! Did you notice that most people respect assholes or bitches who kick their ass? THAT'S BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY WANT DEEP INSIDE - A GOOD KICK TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF THEMSELVES! Because most people know their own value, their imperfections and devils they know that they deserve a good and right kick in their ass, and not kindness and softness, which makes them even weaker or stagnate, while THEY WANT TO GROW AND DEVELOP TO BECOME BETTER, TO FIND THEIR POTENTIAL, THEY WANT SOMEONE TO SHOW THEM DIRECTIONS. Therefore do not afraid to direct and be direct, allow yourself be not too nice, say them the truth - you'll see how they'll respect and follow you. People respect and follow only what they need. Enjoy being yourself as this is how you can truly help people and yourself. This way you'll learn how to manage your power for good purposes you are made for and not just waste it with manipulators. Know your value.

  • @chandac3839
    @chandac3839 Před 5 měsíci

    The thing that gets me is I know there are people who are mean, cruel, and evil, yet I can't wrap my head around why, if that makes sense. Once I feel crossed, I remove myself from them. I'd rather be alone than be around craziness.

  • @elhebreo4975
    @elhebreo4975 Před 3 lety +33

    Anyone led by the Holy Spirit is a super empath

  • @michellenewberryphillipski466

    Its good to be a super empath but when you dont wanna feel bad energies its a curse sometimes lol I feel everyones energies sometimes they scare me the energies i feel lol😂 ♏️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @truthh8597
      @truthh8597 Před 2 lety

      Why would you choose this♏️ scorpio sign.. lol
      Most serial killers psychopaths sociopaths and chronic narcissists tend to be born scorpios by statistics lol just saying frankly
      Also the entire internet is full of pages with names like @scorpiosarebest.. @scorpioqueen.. @scorpiongod @sexyscorp self absorbed and delusional
      most such people I have met are of this sign.. not generalising but well such people do pretend to be nice before they do their nasty

  • @normanschmidt8389
    @normanschmidt8389 Před rokem

    I agree that #8 is the most basic thing that separates us. Fidelity to truth. Commitment to integrity.

  • @karenblueford8
    @karenblueford8 Před rokem

    That's me I am nice, and caring, for people but don't let people try use you.I set my boundaries. Some people take your kindness for weakness, but little do they know I am not the one to bully.

  • @maryellensauve1912
    @maryellensauve1912 Před 3 lety +6

    I'm 60 years old and it just took me to now to find out that I'm an empath always knew there was something different about with me good to know thanks for the video it's exactly like me as Super wow but I'm learning how to work it and control it it is a blessing and a curse like other people say because when I take on other people's energy I have no filter when I'm seeing someone get hurt thanks

    • @bumblebee803
      @bumblebee803 Před 2 lety +1

      Same. I'm 45 and just found out I'm a super empath. I'm exhausted and glad to finally put the puzzle together. In a way it means I can't ever be like "normal" people. I feel so segregated and alone. I wish I grew up in a loving healthy family.

  • @imbless1
    @imbless1 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm a regular empath but I have meet some super empaths

  • @tammy6452
    @tammy6452 Před 2 lety +1

    You doubt your own sanity more than once and you pray no one really sees how weird you really are.

  • @krystaljohn3793
    @krystaljohn3793 Před 3 lety +1

    Living a world not knowing why I was the way I was. This channel helps a lot.

  • @Gabriel13950
    @Gabriel13950 Před 3 lety +9

    I know I'm a super empath. I can touch someone and feel their pain. It's a gift and curse. I can read people's eyes also. I can tell them about their whole life by looking at my eyes.

  • @classycarsautomotiveportra8514

    All of us watching empath videos "Yes I'm totally KIND, CARING, AN EMPATH!!!"
    All of us watching narcissist/sociopath video "this is definitely my Ex/boss/parent!"
    I think we are all being played by the online psychiatrists. We all have traits of both sides, and it is wrong to create judgment on anyone ultimately. We all want to be loved, we all want to be valued, we all want to be respected. That's the root of it all, just many of us do it in the wrong ways. Let's stop vilifying everyone that has done us wrong, and putting labels on them. Take the good advice from these videos on being a better person, and use the knowledge to better defend yourself in this world.

    • @marryjane1684
      @marryjane1684 Před 3 lety +1

      Mmm this is something to think about !!!

    • @cygneaamari4440
      @cygneaamari4440 Před 3 lety

      I agree to this.. i think we can have the both sides.. just depend on our life situations at the moment but there are changes especially when we are always reflectingon ourselves( on the good side) or want to dominate and be superior fron others (on the bad side)...

  • @MichaelLloydMobile
    @MichaelLloydMobile Před 9 měsíci +1

    Not everyone has empathy.
    Some people are born without the capacity for empathy.

  • @mccarthyti
    @mccarthyti Před měsícem

    Empathetic people are the ones who have been mistreated but were able to have the introspection to see their pain in others. Narcissists break the opposite way. They only feel the pain inside themself, and they aren’t able to see past their feelings of pain and inadequacy

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 Před 3 lety +13

    I had a client tell me that I should work for the CIA because I can pull almost anything out of people and he was in awe of it. I didn't really know that I had that talent. I actually work with homeless veterans and veterans with backgrounds and I always tell them what I see in them and where I think they should possibly think about when it comes to a career path.

  • @jezruby2
    @jezruby2 Před 3 lety +9

    This is interesting.

  • @silviapinheiro4472
    @silviapinheiro4472 Před 8 měsíci

    I was an empath but I was abused mentally, emotionally by narcissistic, toxic, envy, jealous who tried to control, silence me, not see my values but I always shine because I put passion and hard work in everything I do. However the pain forced me to evolve and I began studying, researching, growing spiritually. I have become a super empath. I have several skills: strong intuition, can read people's energy, a lie detector e see things before happens through dreams, see , listen people's thoughts or attacks even being separated. God improved this skills to protect myself and help people. I was deeply hurt by close people. I have to be alone to rest and recover from people's energy and regulate myself. It is exaushting to feel people's energy, mainly the toxic ones.

  • @Saint_Jerome
    @Saint_Jerome Před rokem

    A real super empath isn't afraid to throw hands when it's necessary.

  • @jackwilmoresongs
    @jackwilmoresongs Před 3 lety +11

    The most real person is Jesus. To be healthy in all psychological ways, turn yourself over to Jesus. Be filled with Jesus. IMO the perfect Person is Christ and He is available in the Holy Spirit to saturate, fill, fill up, permeate the personality that turns her or himself over to His blending with their soul. ( I did watch the interesting video to the end ).

    • @jackwilmoresongs
      @jackwilmoresongs Před 3 lety +1

      @calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck Cheer up Canuck.

    • @ngreat4390
      @ngreat4390 Před 3 lety +1

      Absolutely positively so! Only the Holy Spirit makes someone a super empath and that's why the world cannot understand where that comes from. Narcissism is essentially satan and it takes God alone to rebuke him.
      Someone had tried to manipulate me for a while but what gave me courage was my hope in Christ that even though walking away looked like an error God would sort me out.
      The Holy Spirit recently rearranged the odds in my favor and put an end to their antics.

    • @wiselykim511
      @wiselykim511 Před 3 lety

      I know what you are saying about!! Because i have been there where i was realised. I was on the edge to killing myself with no hope i could feel to live. Then something changed my mind and left home where my narc mom neglected. And i gradually got my joy back and thought of people in pain emotionally and i knew what it was like nobody knows because it is not you can see .. and i got to have feelings towards them and i thought to myself that is why jesus said love your neighbor as yourself
      And i felt joy because i felt i wad learning life and years later i had epiphany it was amazing and graceful and thank god he was real!!!

    • @jackwilmoresongs
      @jackwilmoresongs Před 3 lety +1

      @@wiselykim511 As we initially receive Christ the Lord so we should continue to walk in Him. That is taking Him by faith as everything we need. Our needs should immediately point us back to Him, asking Him to be IN US what we need to live. - 'It is no longer I that live, but Christ that lives within me." Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @pineforest1442
    @pineforest1442 Před 2 lety +5

    Does being able to feel physical pain when someone talks about a time they were injured (for example, someone recounts the time they broke their arm and, even though it isn’t mine, I feel like my arm hurts too) does that count as mirror touch?

  • @simi6152
    @simi6152 Před 2 lety +2

    I was trying to figure out what kind of a personality I had. While listening to this I realized that I am a super empath!

  • @charlesrobbins2208
    @charlesrobbins2208 Před 7 měsíci

    One thing a super empath can do is to walk away from someone, even someone that they have grown to love, in a heartbeat when it is called for. When people ask why they are no longer together, the empath will say she or he is not the first person I love that I had to say goodbye to. Unless you want to go deep into that person's reasons it is best to just accept what you are told or you will be stuck in a deep conversation for 10-15 minutes as you are told the basic, yet heartbreaking, reasons why they leave persons behind. After the last offer of forgiveness has been squandered by the narcissist, they will find themselves alone (not for long admittedly) and without the ability to contact their former friend or lover no matter how hard they may cry or try to persuade the empath to let them back in.
    It is difficult to let others who mean a lot to you go, but if you don't, you are the one who ends up beaten up. We learn to make the hard decisions and to stick by them once they are put into self defense mode. Our love for people never goes away, we just decide to love some of them a little less than we otherwise would. Yes, it hurts, a lot. But what is a person to do when facing a demented individual who will not hesitate to try to destroy you, your mental health and finally your life? You take your heart back, put it in a good safe place, lick your wounds and carry on.
    Nothing about life is easy and often there is little for a person to look forward to when the road in front of them is filled with pitfalls placed there by another. Learn to be realistic and take the initiative in order to spare yourself the pain which will only grow if you allow that person to remain in a position to cause you that pain. Love is hard to find today. So love yourself first so you can then be able to share that love once again when you do find someone who will return that love in kind. Kind of a win-win worth waiting for, wouldn't you agree?

  • @thebloccologyreport2492
    @thebloccologyreport2492 Před 3 lety +9

    I use to be a dark empath im transforming into a super empath slowly but surely

    • @kenreyes8780
      @kenreyes8780 Před 3 lety +1

      That's a great thing keep up with it we need more people like us in the world 🙏🏻

    • @yeahthatsme921
      @yeahthatsme921 Před 3 lety

      what's that

  • @user-th9jn3uv2z
    @user-th9jn3uv2z Před 3 lety +14

    Im a super empath and Im pretty sure my dads a narcissist.

    • @angelaatwood46
      @angelaatwood46 Před 3 lety

      Sorry.....ick. stay away from him.

    • @bumblebee803
      @bumblebee803 Před 2 lety

      I think both smother and father are, oh and sibling, and cousins, Aunts, friends...etc.

  • @CatchingCharkraLight
    @CatchingCharkraLight Před rokem

    I have lived a lifetime of trauma, but through that I came out so much stronger. I now enhance the lives of less fortunate people addicted and struggling as I was and show them a better way without religion or 12 steps but with love and support and consistency of strength and compassion ♥️. It's the little things that we do, not the big things. Being consistency in their journey.

  • @arianashimul
    @arianashimul Před 3 lety +1

    I dont know if i'm a super empath or whatever...but i always find myself being connected to those who are in distress, suffering from some traumatic experiences in the past or present. I want to help them or cheer them up. Sometimes i value their happiness instead of mine, especially, if they are a dear one. Once i realize i am being taken advantage of i just withdraw myself for being too nice and then often being called a 'selfish' 🙂

  • @scorpiondynasty
    @scorpiondynasty Před 3 lety +5

    This mirror-touch synsethia is real. I can attest to it. I never heard the term or even knows it existed until watching this video. I have always considered myself a touchy person and for some reason I can help it. Currently I work as massage therapist because I enjoying healing through my hands. I always said it’s like I can feel what the person is feeling when I touch them. And they always react so positively to my touch stating that my hands are like magic to them. This is pretty dope to find out! Wow! All of this resonates with me so strongly!

    • @alenahawke475
      @alenahawke475 Před 2 lety

      I'm not a LMT, but people come to me for massage. I can feel on my body where I need to massage them. I may be massaging an area they really didn't know it hurt and they always tell me that they didn't know they were hurting there and how much better they feel. They ask me how did I know that is where they really needed to be massaged. I tell them that when I put my hands on them and start to massage I can feel where I need to massage and it's because I'm an empath.

    • @alenahawke475
      @alenahawke475 Před 2 lety

      massage. You noticed that only an empath can massage you? Others who have tried to massage me I have to let them know that I'm good and don't need a massage. When actually it's annoying me because they really aren't helping me. I don't want to hurt their feelings.

  • @ShanicornBeauty
    @ShanicornBeauty Před 3 lety +13

    Omg! Most of my close friends/partner would say they feel my physical touch across distances. So that's some kind of synthesia. I'm also an emotion shapeshifter. I can switch to dark empathy if necessary. Can easily out-maneuver any narc coz of this. So does this mean I'm a super empath?🥰 It also describes to a T an Infj, which I am.

    • @reverentalexanderchezeley-6367
      @reverentalexanderchezeley-6367 Před 3 lety +4

      Emotional shapeshifter r marks of a contagion empath and heyoka empath. Not the marks of a super empath. This vid sadly is misinformed bout that. Then again it's a psychology vid respectively and probably does deal wiv the spiritual. Study dark psychology for dark empath dear. Dark empaths can't be dark 4 to long cos the guilt eats em up. God bless. Saint Anger.

    • @ShanicornBeauty
      @ShanicornBeauty Před 3 lety +1

      @@reverentalexanderchezeley-6367 Thank you. I haven't heard about a contagion empath. You're right, I identify more traits with a Heyoka empath but it's hard to say for sure, no one knows these things. Regardless of all these labels, I'm just grateful for these gifts and use it for the good. 🥰

    • @reverentalexanderchezeley-6367
      @reverentalexanderchezeley-6367 Před 3 lety

      @@ShanicornBeauty do the heyoka test on u tube dear. God bless. Saint Anger.

    • @Chloe7270
      @Chloe7270 Před 3 lety +1

      The word is SYNESTHESIA. They pronounce and spell it incorrectly in this video. Just letting you know.

    • @ShanicornBeauty
      @ShanicornBeauty Před 3 lety

      @@Chloe7270 Thanks 🥰

  • @MichelleArbeauOfficial
    @MichelleArbeauOfficial Před 3 lety +1

    YEEEESSSSS!!! I ALWAYS feel this "mirror touch synthesia!" Although, I have had 3 NDE's so who knows how those played into the puzzle...but I can step into people. I know what they're about and can "feel" them easily.

  • @johnhatch220
    @johnhatch220 Před 2 lety +1

    the saying about 'a fine line between genius and insanity' is even more true of the line between a super and a dark the core difference being a strong moral and ethical foundation. early in life I had to be careful about crowds, and quickly learned to despise 4th of July gatherings (why so particularly those, imagine being bombarded by hundreds of intense emotional signals, and KNOWING that MANY of those were false/corrupt/manipulative, a common result was nausea which I have never been notably susceptible to from any physical source). and yes, seeing past peoples masks is more often a curse than a blessing (sometimes 'ignorance is bliss' ).