From Burnout to Soft Life: The Journey to Changing Lifestyle ✨

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  • čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
  • Hello friends, today I'm sharing my journey going from the depths of burnout and depression, to living a soft life. I open up about my personal battle with burnout from years spent in survival mode and share the pivotal moments that helped me realise a change in lifestyle was needed. Building a soft life didn't happen overnight, but hopefully sharing my experience can make your journey a little easier.
    Chapters
    00:00 Intro
    01:19 Burning out & realising I needed change
    06:21 My toxic work identity and redefining success
    10:01 Embracing a Soft Life
    15:39 Step 1
    17:20 Step 2
    19:57 Finding happiness & personal news
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Komentáře • 20

  • @AinChiara
    @AinChiara  Před 5 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much for being here! I hope that opening up about this can be helpful to anyone going through similar challenges and I am really excited to be sharing this journey to living soft 💕

  • @aidalenga7130
    @aidalenga7130 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much. I truly needed this. It felt like therapy ❤. Thankyou

  • @traceymacyogavlogs
    @traceymacyogavlogs Před 3 měsíci +1

    You've articulated your experience extremely well. I'm mid-burnout at the moment and off work as a result - I also have a chronic illness, so a lot of what you say resonates deeply. Great video 👌🏻

    • @AinChiara
      @AinChiara  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much Tracey! I'm sorry to hear about your burnout & chronic illness. Sending love your way 💕

  • @jyotsnamohanty2145
    @jyotsnamohanty2145 Před 2 měsíci

    This video seems like a blessing. ❤️🥺

  • @philippawood5047
    @philippawood5047 Před 5 měsíci +4

    You have such a calming presence, lovely to see how well you seem!

    • @AinChiara
      @AinChiara  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you Philippa, that's the most wonderful comment! 🙏🏻😊

  • @poppyknight6684
    @poppyknight6684 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Would definitely love a video on how you explored more of who you are and what you like

    • @AinChiara
      @AinChiara  Před 5 měsíci +1

      Of course, I'll think of interesting way to share it 😊🫶🏻

  • @BookishBabe
    @BookishBabe Před 5 měsíci +2

    This video is so relatable! Well done for making the decision to choose yourself and build a life that factors in your wellness!

    • @AinChiara
      @AinChiara  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you so much lovely! 💕🙏🏻

  • @myaccount9498
    @myaccount9498 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing this different style of video (to what I normally watch). I've been saying all week "put the oxygen mask on yourself first" as a reminder that I spend too much energy helping others instead of helping myself. I have chronic pain & get so easily exhausted. I definitely need to make changes to bring more calm, functionality & peace into my life.
    I'm sure I'll be watching this again to remind myself to make long overdue changes ❤

    • @AinChiara
      @AinChiara  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much, this means a lot. I know what you mean, it can be so hard to prioritise our wellbeing, but personally, every time I don't I regret it.
      Learning about the spoon theory helped me to rationalise and share with others my need to slow down as someone who struggles with chronic pain 🫶🏻

    • @SEO568
      @SEO568 Před 3 měsíci

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  • @acrobaticanna
    @acrobaticanna Před 3 měsíci +1

    Watching from Australia. This is my daughter's account!

    • @AinChiara
      @AinChiara  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you for watching 😊

  • @Esssssy
    @Esssssy Před 4 měsíci +1

    Love this so much. I would love to listen to your advice on how you emotionally regulate emotions of regret surrounding this new way of life. I recently approached the soft life, but there are always gloomy thoughts in the back of my mind that tell me I made a mistake, I should have stuck it out, I can't sustain this, etc. And it gets triggered when I'm around people with "normal" jobs or when I'm asked about my job. Do you face these feelings? If so, how do you manage them?

    • @Esssssy
      @Esssssy Před 4 měsíci +1

      How to get to a state of confidence and fully embrace this life without worry xx

    • @AinChiara
      @AinChiara  Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Esssssy thank you for sharing! I learnt a lot about this in therapy, but I'll try to share as much as possible in a video soon because it's been definitely something I struggled with too ♥️

    • @Esssssy
      @Esssssy Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@AinChiara you're so kind 💕