a burnout care vlog ~ tips, routines, and downtime ideas

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Komentáře • 353

  • @SunArts918
    @SunArts918 Před 4 měsíci +314

    I pushed myself at the latest stage of burn out, and it took me 2 years to recover, take care of yourself, guys

    • @LaurenMilla
      @LaurenMilla Před 4 měsíci +4

      I'm on month 7 of this healing now, the amount of times I repeat what you wrote to all my friends and co-workers...

    • @SunArts918
      @SunArts918 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​@@LaurenMillawe learn that the hard way! So telling people he just caring

    • @Chaostocalmclassroom
      @Chaostocalmclassroom Před 4 měsíci +7

      I’m 2 years into the healing process and I am only now starting to feel human again. Take care everyone!

    • @SunArts918
      @SunArts918 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Chaostocalmclassroom I feel you on this 100% ! So happy you are progressing in your healing journey

    • @OJPuppies
      @OJPuppies Před 3 měsíci +2

      I’m curious if this is what I’m going through still - like I get ill fast, it wipes me out, I fall behind with workload every other month as I can’t remain consistently on top of my work and though I have some family health factors that occurred over past 4 months now, I do tell myself it’s warranted but also I get frustrated I can’t remain consistent. Does that make sense

  • @arabella5871
    @arabella5871 Před 3 měsíci +35

    My husband was so burnt out with his job that he was literally picking at his legs/arms, sleeping all the time, and not getting any sort of exercise, not concerned with nutrition. This stuff is very real and can happen to anybody. He kept pushing and didn't realize when to let go of the job and find something easier. Eventually the job let HIM go and we only have my income now which has been stressful especially in this economy. He is having such a hard time finding a job even in his field. He does great on interviews and then radio silence. The combination of not having dual income and him struggling every day to find a job/getting our hopes up is awful. And yet, we have such a good bond that we still have so much fun together, we still get by and know that God has got us. This whole circumstance made me realize how much I value time together over money, and I know we could get through anything. I'm happy to see him recover from his depression and anxiety that the job was causing. His mental and physical health means more to me than killing himself for a job.

  • @lovemusicissa
    @lovemusicissa Před 3 měsíci +49

    I am 23 years old and have only been working at my first full time job for about 1 year, and after a long time filled with stress and anxiety for many different things - I am now working (only) 50% due to anxiety and stress. I’m having a call with my doctor this week to talk about moving up to work 75% and yesterday I had a big anxiety attack, the scariest I’ve ever had - and this video helped me remind me to reflect on where I am in my process and how that has been feeling lately. I came to the conclusion that I need to slow down and not move too fast! And that that is OK! Thank you K! ❤️

  • @mariasorensen245
    @mariasorensen245 Před 4 měsíci +36

    i used to hate laundry and it was my Bad Task but funny enough i found your channel while i was doing laundry and i started watching you everytime i did laundry so now i’m pavloved into not hating it !! laundry is a neutral task now :-)

  • @RememberSeptember
    @RememberSeptember Před 4 měsíci +66

    I've just come back after 7 months of full and partial sick leave for burnout, after seeing that tsunami wave coming towards me for a long time and finally crumbling under the stress. It was a process of going through denial, shame and guilt for not functioning while everyone else handled stress, wanting to hide, opening up a new way of thinking, ovethinking, lots of therapy, lots of tears, accepting, working on yourself and learning to set boundaries. It taught me so many things and even though I wish I never got to that dark place, we can only learn from it. I found your channel while I was home and trying to learn better routines. And I love that you loudly and proudly promote the importance of self care, cozy time and reset time. It takes away the feeling of guilt knowing that others cheer for it. Intentional rest and doing one thing at a time is key

  • @CrisOnTheInternet
    @CrisOnTheInternet Před 4 měsíci +72

    Therapy was key to me, anxiety in the past didn't let me enjoy my hobbies. I felt like I have to do something productive all the time, like house chores, organizing things, anything instead of unwind. I'm glad to say I'm recovered now.

    • @Quinn21Love
      @Quinn21Love Před 4 měsíci

      What tips were you given? I’m struggling with that now

    • @CrisOnTheInternet
      @CrisOnTheInternet Před 4 měsíci +8

      @@Quinn21Love setting time for everything, work and rest time. Also detaching my self worth from the things I do. Most of my anxiety was released once I spoke my worries out loud with the psychologist, I also had unprocessed griefs.

    • @retriwa5640
      @retriwa5640 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@Quinn21Lovei hope you'll get the notification but here's what's finally starting to work for me. sorry if some of these aren't accurate for your situation because this is what's been underneath for me, but, i think it's good to keep them in mind anyway!
      1. don't run away from your problems but don't beat yourself up if you don't manage to face them. this is the most important thing. don't beat yourself up any more than you already do. you're doing your best, that's the most important!!
      2. be mindful about what's blocking you, the issues that make you think you don't have time to have fun. be exact and think about what you need to do to solve them. notice the emotions the situation makes you feel and live through them before you let go. write it down if it's too much to let go on your own. notice how your body feels. if you can't process some emotions at the moment that's fine, just live through it, keep in mind that you can sort it through later. just don't ignore them.
      3. take some time to do a few things for yourself everyday! even if you don't have much time, little things, 30 minutes maybe, or sneak them into other stuff - get yourself some snacks or a lemonade, buy that thing you want, pet a cat. you can't just have output and output and output without regular energy input.
      4. don't ever compare yourself to other people. think of it as if you're playing on a different difficulty than they are, if you don't manage to live the same way they do, that's just because of the situation you're in. +you don't really know what's going on in their lives.
      5. find what productive means for you, because taking care of yourself should absolutely be productive. you need it to function. you're the most productive when you feel alright.
      6. do what needs to be done at the moment. sort your big priorities in your life but also the tasks you have at hand. don't force yourself to skip the things you actually need to do at the time. you'll have plenty of time to do the rest later. maybe your big priority in life is drawing but you feel like you should do more productive stuff instead? not as long as it's not your priority. if you have the time, you should spend it to lead the best time you can, and you know exactly what that is, no one else, not anyone who expects more from you.

  • @Shantelle6253
    @Shantelle6253 Před 4 měsíci +60

    Nostalgia is what gets me through long days of medically induced idleness. I said "Self, when was the last time you had entire months alone and nothing expected of you but basic chores?" And Self answered "When we were 10???" So now, everyday, I spend doing all the things I loved as a carefree 10 year old and I am never bored and very rarely lonely. Spot on with the books too. Little House, Anne of Green Gables, Nancy Drew ❤ I have a whole box of books from when I was a kid ❤

    • @kaortega1120
      @kaortega1120 Před 4 měsíci +2

      LOVED Nancy Drew !!! 💙

    • @Shantelle6253
      @Shantelle6253 Před 4 měsíci

      @@kaortega1120 I just ordered books 1-5 in the classic yellow spine, I'm blaming Kennedy for 100% of my cozy hobby budget expenditures. They keep me sane and I have ditched most of my streaming services to balance the budget and my available time. Who needs HBOmax when you've got a puzzle to piece together?

  • @veronicasvideodiaries
    @veronicasvideodiaries Před 3 měsíci +27

    Naps have always helped me. Luckily as a kid my mom always considered naps productive and I've always used them as a reset button. Today I dreamt that I finished an application for grad school. I woke up and was able to finish the application within a couple of hours(which was less time than my morning procrastination). I don't exactly know the science behind it, but it's almost like it's getting my mindset ready for a task I need to prioritize.

    • @OJPuppies
      @OJPuppies Před 3 měsíci +3

      I’ll add to this - I’ve had some of my best revealing and healing dreams during daytime naps - double points sleeping like a cat in a sunny spot on the sofa (obv SPF besties)

  • @princesschelsea1558
    @princesschelsea1558 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Something that my therapist and I worked on is the idea that “my hobbies will always be there when I’m ready for them” so there’s no pressure if I don’t touch them for a while. Another thing we talked about was if I genuinely wanted to do the hobby, I do it for 15 min and if I want to stop, I can stop. Turns out, getting started was so much pressure and I would talk myself out of everything before I started. Once I pushed through and actually did the hobby anyway, I found it easier to keep it going. I’m still in therapy, but I’ve made a lot of progress over the years getting rid of the idea that everything I do in a day must be productive.

  • @Jenaissante444
    @Jenaissante444 Před 4 měsíci +30

    just cleaned the house, showered, and settled down with a face mask and what do I see but my fave comfort youtber dropping a burnout vlog! Friday night made

  • @1HeathersJourney
    @1HeathersJourney Před 3 měsíci +11

    We get so caught up in productivity when we forget that being purposeful is productive it just doesn’t look the same and it certainly often doesn’t feel the same

  • @spinstercatlady
    @spinstercatlady Před 4 měsíci +37

    I'm super into connecting with nostalgic childhood pleasures too. Takes you back to a time when you felt safe and secure and everything was tinged with magic ❤❤❤

  • @haydennagy196
    @haydennagy196 Před 4 měsíci +57

    You always post at the perfect times! I’m literally just now taking a break from an assignment to clean my room and relax a little and this is exactly what I needed

    • @diliasoul
      @diliasoul Před 4 měsíci +1

      Same! dealing with the same thing currently super affirming!

  • @charliegonzalez9290
    @charliegonzalez9290 Před 4 měsíci +10

    I have experienced burnout and it can be hard to recover from and take a long time.
    Now I try to fill my cup every day by doing something for my body, mind, soul, and environment every day... even as little as 5 mins per category, really makes a difference!
    Also, Sunday mornings are my cartoons and cereal time. Sometimes I'll color too. It's important to nurture the child in all of us. Life is hard, make sure you take time to play too.
    Sending love!

  • @Tori.f.116
    @Tori.f.116 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Hooooly shiiiiit. “Overworking is a form of self-harm” just really hit me. Damn.

  • @TheBalancedOmTherapy
    @TheBalancedOmTherapy Před 4 měsíci +17

    100% I agree with this message and I am a therapist lol 😅 Love you and your channel keep healing others through your own healing you have such a beautiful way of being!! 👑💖🌻

  • @daguerreostrife
    @daguerreostrife Před 4 měsíci +6

    This is so true for me. I've been burnt out since 2021 (the pandemic, postpartum depression, and the work of being a mom who is forced to do everything), and I realized that going back to the things I liked as a kid has helped me SO much. Video games, art, collecting. Things I put away because it was childish, but everything that was so comforting!

  • @ceciliabest5205
    @ceciliabest5205 Před 4 měsíci +13

    animal crossing city folk is my fav!!! all of the nostalgia. i hope you love it too🩷

  • @byTaheryah
    @byTaheryah Před 4 měsíci +8

    I agree with you about indulging in nostalgic memories; it's so nice to reconnect with your younger self before college and adulthood and bills and kids whew! My favorite nostalgic things are 1. music from middle school and early high school (high school musical, cheetah girls, Jonas brothers, Disney movie soundtracks) 2. reading and watching stories that I fell in love with in those years (Jane Eyre movie adaptations, Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier movie adaptations; I'm a lover of mystery romance) and 3. eating things I used to eat often or eating things I wasn't allowed to (my mom NEVER bought us Gogurt, it's in my fridge now). Hope you're better rested now! 🌺

  • @elishajohnson5328
    @elishajohnson5328 Před měsícem +2

    I normally don't comment on videos, but I truly needed this! I lot of what you said in your video really resonated with me, and I'm really want to be more aware of when I need rest and not feeling guilty for it 😅. Thank you for making such great, reflective videos! You are literally my favorite "cozy" content creator!! 🤎

  • @spiiiicymayo
    @spiiiicymayo Před 4 měsíci +17

    Watching your channel has been teaching me about the value of downtime, rest, and recuperation and I also desperately needed this...thank you for your content! Loving the long vlogs

  • @aubreezily13
    @aubreezily13 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Just wanted to share a book recommendation to you, girl! It is called Tress of the Emerald Sea. It is such a good fantasy book that is written in the same way that the movie The Princess Bride is and has similar vibes to Legends and Lattes. I definitely think you would like it! 🙌🏼

    • @ikabikaboo
      @ikabikaboo Před 4 měsíci +2

      I agree with the suggestion of Tress and the Emerald Sea. It's a very cosy read. Some other options are any of Patricia Wrede's books, The House Witch by Delemhach, and the sci fi Dreamhealers series by MCA Hogarth (starts with Mindtouch). When I get down, I read Tamora Pierce, who is a mix of cosy and epic fantasy. I'd start with Alanna, but the Protector of the Small quartet is my favorite.

    • @jessicateixeira4550
      @jessicateixeira4550 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I’m reading this right now and loving it!

  • @BonnyBrookeMusic
    @BonnyBrookeMusic Před 4 měsíci +5

    Thank you for being so outspoken about rest. I never would have questioned our society's relationship with "productivity/making money" if I hadn't been laid off. I started full time work five years ago, after 17 years of continuous schooling and various jobs. I've never had this much of an opportunity (5 months) to mentally rest before, and have been so thankful, it has been a redeeming experience. I can never see life the same way again, or view work that way when I do start again soon.
    You rock~thank you for the inspiration

  • @valentinagovedarica3889
    @valentinagovedarica3889 Před 4 měsíci +5

    Dear Kennedy, and everyone here,
    it legit took me two days of watching this entire video multiple times XD in moments I could think about how vital this conversation is.
    The topic and how Ken handled it couldn't have come at a better time, I'm sorry you're going trough that Ken but very happy to see you working trough it.
    Videos like this from creators who are our safe watch and and in a way self care watch are so so important, to everyone but especially people who don't have time to even think about therapy, cant afford it, cant for any other reason implement it into their life.
    As said, stress leads to burnout and burnout leads to more serious things, and then there's many many of us who deal with serious things from the get go and on top get lovely burnout and stress, so watching an hour of candid advice and a visual push to take a sec by your self and sit with what you're feeling and thinking how you can deal with your situation no matter how alone you are is so important, thank you Kennedy. Even when we DO have time and ability for plethora of cozy activities and rest time, it is sometimes almost impossible to feel ok doing them, therefore they don't end up helping.
    The conversation especially at the end hit me so hard, the level of burnout and confusion and emptiness in my situation lately have been so draining and seemingly never-ending, and the conversation came as therapy as it is! And I'm so so grateful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and considerate intentions with us all, it helps in ways you probably hope for but don't see individually for everyone and the impact on people is so so so warm and helpful. Take care of your self guys

  • @noemij
    @noemij Před 4 měsíci +5

    Divine timing! It’s my first weekend off after working for several weeks without a day off. I’m one of the lucky ones with multiple jobs and crave time in nature. My mind wants to visit the mountains but my body wants to stay home. Your video was enough to remind me that I need to take care of myself first. Your videos are so cozy! I have been rewatching your videos on repeat because they bring me a lot of peace and joy. Thank you for creating this work and for embracing rest. A beautiful reminder to all. 🕊️

  • @xinyi_yap
    @xinyi_yap Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much for this video and the ideas!! I’ve lost my job and broke up, and having to work with the time crunch to find a job before I have to leave makes it hard to have meaningful rest. It’s getting to a point where I don’t feel motivated to get out of bed. Seeing you take care of yourself makes me want to take care of me, so thank you 💜💜 to all who are struggling, you are not alone. We will pull through together. You’ve survived 100% of the hardships you had encountered before, this will be no different!!

  • @jadaearles484
    @jadaearles484 Před 3 měsíci +6

    I've left a comment about this before but I just want to say your videos are so incredibly helpful right now as I'm losing my dad to cancer. I just feel so peaceful and happy when I watch your videos. You are the best Kennedy! ❤

    • @OJPuppies
      @OJPuppies Před 3 měsíci +1

      So saddened to read this comment and sending you the energy and space to navigate this journey ❤

    • @dreasmile
      @dreasmile Před 3 měsíci +1

      I’m wishing you an abundance of little good moments during this time ❤️ You can always reach out to us in the cozy community ❤️

  • @colinemauxion7414
    @colinemauxion7414 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I'm in the process of getting diagnosed with AuDHD (Autism spectrum disorder and Adhd combined) and your videos help me so much to wind down!
    My brain is constantly having a tug-of-war between the ADHD side who wants to be living fast and furious, doing so much things at once it's making me dizzy, working myself to a burnout and trying so many new things until I crash completely and have an autistic burnout where I have to just be with myself, do the things that nurture my soul and feel slow and cozy. It definitely is a pattern to go back and forth between those two.
    I've only been following you a few months so I'm not sure if you've ever pursued a diagnosis or anything to do with mental health but it sounds like you could be having a similar experience!

    • @raehawkins7655
      @raehawkins7655 Před 3 měsíci

      idl how comfortable Kennedy would be sharing, but i would love to see a video about her neurospicy experience (adhd tips, organization, etc.)

  • @kaitlin2221
    @kaitlin2221 Před 4 měsíci +10

    i love that you highlighted different types of self care. social time, getting out of the house, exercise, etc are all ways to take care of ourselves 🩷

  • @GardenistaGigi
    @GardenistaGigi Před 4 měsíci +5

    Well it seems like we’re going through the same cycle of burnout. This came at a perfect time! ❤

  • @elisasalazar5975
    @elisasalazar5975 Před 2 měsíci

    I stared buying my favorite nostalgic kids/preteen book series "The Amazing Days of Abby Hayes". Honestly they really do transport me to when i was younger and somewhat worry free. I have most of the books with 2 left to buy and read.
    It gets me happy and i worry less when I read them! So Kennedy is definitely spot on when she mentions nostalgia and finding it in various ways like books from your childhood 😊

  • @happyhauntslibrary
    @happyhauntslibrary Před 4 měsíci

    This video brought me back to life. Thank you, Cozy K. I really needed to hear and experience this video at this time. 💜

  • @user-is1ef2ck8l
    @user-is1ef2ck8l Před 4 měsíci +1

    I like that you’re talking about real self care which includes boundaries and change 😊

  • @NocturnalMissSo
    @NocturnalMissSo Před 4 měsíci +2

    I've started taking naps after I get off work. I already have insomnia so the naps help me catch up on sleep. Good video as always.

  • @TheEmpressgoth
    @TheEmpressgoth Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you you been a rough start to the year working on removing the situation. Have a wonderful week 😊

  • @RemedyFibers
    @RemedyFibers Před 4 měsíci

    I love this!! Especially the nostalgia part. I feel the same way about naps and would always say I hate naps but I’m opening myself up to the idea of physical rest as well as mental rest.

  • @FuelledByPocky29
    @FuelledByPocky29 Před 3 měsíci

    totally agree with going through nostalgia!! i decided to go back to my 3DS and play some old games and it gives me such JOY!

  • @majorfallacy
    @majorfallacy Před 4 měsíci

    Love your advice! Its such a struggle to balance when life demands so much but its just as important to rest and get in touch with yourself

  • @kelseahiggins1701
    @kelseahiggins1701 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for being that voice to fight the little voice telling me or anyone they’re not good enough💜 love your videos!!!!

  • @lornatw
    @lornatw Před 3 měsíci

    Resonated with so much of this and appreciate the calm form in which you face burnout and time after burnout ❤

  • @shuu992
    @shuu992 Před 4 měsíci

    loved every part of this specially the last part! been in burnout for over a year and hearing someone saying out loud that it could be as simple as 1 thing a day really helps to light something and I appreciate that so much! so happy I found your videos and I'm binge watching them hoping they never end

  • @MelodySeriesRox2
    @MelodySeriesRox2 Před 4 měsíci

    Love your content as always and your videos lately have been beyond just content. Your authenticity is a gift and we so appreciate you ❤

  • @hot_gurl_playz
    @hot_gurl_playz Před 3 měsíci +1

    A much needed “ realistic” week in the life 💙

  • @kristinamullen7433
    @kristinamullen7433 Před 6 dny

    I saw major burnout coming in the spring and I started taking one sick day per week. I had 50ish sick days stockpiled! On my sick day I would usually read, take a long bath, go for a walk, etc.

    • @CozyK
      @CozyK  Před 5 dny

      That’s so smart!! Glad you got that time in for yourself

  • @ResetKeisha
    @ResetKeisha Před 3 měsíci +1

    I'm burnt out thank God we are on spring break rn! Bc I was mentally wanting to quit after this year. I'm overwhelmed with school and working full time. I haven't been present in my home and I'm glad I'm getting a chance to have a minute to myself. I'm taking a 4 day holiday just me and friends from HS. I'm hoping this really mellows me out

  • @Wonderish
    @Wonderish Před 4 měsíci

    I’m so grateful for your channel. Your kindness, intentionality, the thought you put into what truly improves life and the energy you bring in your videos creates this warm place of total acceptance. Im currently deep in burnout and Happy Color while watching these long videos you’ve been posting is a cozy respite in the long week. 💛💛

  • @jessrudy418
    @jessrudy418 Před 3 měsíci

    your intro hit. i’m a teacher is burnout is SO real. i took a mental health day and had all those questions and feelings swirling in my brain that you described when you get to pause. thank you for this!!

  • @amandahoang13
    @amandahoang13 Před 3 měsíci

    your speech about stress and burnout has resonated so much with me. you described exactly what I was going through. definitely needed to hear this! thank you Kennedy! :)

  • @justjudylemon
    @justjudylemon Před 3 měsíci

    So much of what you’ve said in this video resonated 🫰🏽

  • @hannahchoate8771
    @hannahchoate8771 Před 3 měsíci

    I am so grateful that you made this video.

  • @Theartistbeee
    @Theartistbeee Před 3 měsíci

    How do Ken’s video always come at the exact perfect time I need them… I was just going through major fatigue and productivity struggles all amongst a quarter life crisis! This video is perfect!!! ❤❤

  • @potato_parts
    @potato_parts Před 4 měsíci

    oH mY gOODNESS THANK YOU for actually touching on all the stages of burnout and talking about some ways to handle the late stages. i reached the absolute outer limits of burnout, and im still trying to recover. i see so many “recovering from burnout” vlogs that are for the early stages, and no shade to that, those need recovery too, but dang, it’s super hard when you’re in late-stage-burnout and you’ve got years left to recover. it’s a lot to get back to a mindset that feels safe and allows room for relaxation and joy. it’s so meaningful that you included some words on those late stages and how long it takes to recover. thank you 💖

  • @plushieangela
    @plushieangela Před 4 měsíci

    I really needed this Kennedy. I've been crawling myself out of a depression slump and am teaching myself that little steps are progress

  • @Bobaqueen95
    @Bobaqueen95 Před 4 měsíci

    Really needed this!! Work/business has been so busy lately, which is a blessing but can also be a curse. Your videos always feel like home!

  • @lalore951
    @lalore951 Před 4 měsíci

    This video just made me feel so seen and had me tear up! Sometimes people just don’t understand that it takes everything for me to even wake up and get dressed and go into basic day to day mode… ❤ it also opened my eyes on some thing that I just never questioned as they have always been like that !
    Thanks for opening up about this and sharing tips❤❤❤

  • @katp6272
    @katp6272 Před 4 měsíci

    First of all, I love this video. What you're talking about, especially towards the end, is so real. I'm so glad I found your channel. You've inspired me to get back into my hobbies-for a long time I was in that state of I want to do this thing but I can't bring myself to do it. Now I'm prioritizing time for myself and the things I enjoy. Thank you for talking about this topic and thank you for the content you make! 💜✨️

  • @Yolie.
    @Yolie. Před 3 měsíci +2

    Taking care / working on ourselves is taking care of the world. 🌎✨🫶🏼

  • @moonlight_games1
    @moonlight_games1 Před 4 měsíci

    only in the first 10 mins of the video but resonating with so much that you're saying! I know every video must take a lot of effort so I'm glad you recognize that you need to balance sharing things you enjoy on camera for content but also saving space to ensure you can do these things completely for yourself

  • @retrocutiebean
    @retrocutiebean Před 4 měsíci

    I could not love this more Ken. I am in the midst of burn out as well and I got on youtube because I didnt know what else to do with my weekend. and this. THIS is exactly what I needed. perfect timing my darling

  • @Goshly.Kristie
    @Goshly.Kristie Před měsícem +1

    The Wii smack talk is EVERYTHING!

  • @BonnieCreoleSpirit
    @BonnieCreoleSpirit Před 3 měsíci

    So much truth and caring insights you provided, Kennedy. I’m beyond burned out and bouncing back will take big life changes. I hope everyone feels validated to put themselves and their well-being 1st. It really is the most loving thing we can do for the world. Such a wonderful video!!!!💕💕 Thank you, K!

  • @hannahbrown9570
    @hannahbrown9570 Před 3 měsíci

    absolutely loved this video! i’m also super nostalgic and regularly play on my ds and watch my comfort movies from childhood, so nice to see a video encouraging you to slow down and not feel the pressure of being productive all the time and to just enjoy what makes you happy 🫶🏻🤍

  • @eliseisreading3589
    @eliseisreading3589 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m currently managing burn out/realizing I know I need to take time off to recover from years of pushing. It’s been a theme coming up since starting therapy a month ago. Thank you so much for taking the time to create this video Kennedy, I hope you and this cozy community is taking time to take a step back if needed 💗

  • @raehawkins7655
    @raehawkins7655 Před 3 měsíci

    i feel like a lot of these tips are really helpful for depression too, i know it can feel like it takes so much energy but doing these little things can make you feel so much better

  • @Paula.Ablavi
    @Paula.Ablavi Před 4 měsíci

    WHEW GIRL you ate that uppp. Like you were truly in my head on so many levels. I was not ready. I've definitely been in denial that I'm starting to feel burnt out especially because I just came out of such a severe season of burnout because of my last job. Being stressed just starts to feel like a default when you grew up an overachiever. This really helped me understand why I've been feeling this way and I really appreciate it 💜

  • @Magicwithizz
    @Magicwithizz Před 2 měsíci

    I’m about 5 months into working full time after graduating uni, and I’m probably at stage 2 of burnout. I’m also autistic and adhd, and it gets a lot harder to manage that as of the last few weeks. I’ve been getting so overwhelmed and anxious and overstimulated at work. Halfway through the day I feel like crying or sleeping (I’ve been falling asleep during my lunch breaks) or fighting someone. Doesn’t help that my job right now is not very autism friendly. I work in a retail environment with bright lights, loud music, and constant chatter, all the time. All of those are pretty big triggers for sensory overload for me. On my days off I make content to try and strive for one day having a work from home job. I feel like I never let myself rest. I go into the day with all the intention to rest, and end up working instead. I’ve done this my whole life. I’ve always run on anxiety. Whether it was being scared of failure because of my parents or fear of failure because I literally can’t afford to fail in this economy, I feel driven by anxiety all the time. I hyper organize my life to give myself a sense of control and productivity. I decided to take a sick day tomorrow to try and recuperate. I have a very reasonable and understanding manager, so half the time the problem is me.

  • @tan261
    @tan261 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Cannot tell you how much I love these longer vlogs ❤ Also, yes to childhood hobbies! I recently went to my parents home to help them declutter & found so many of my fave childhood toys (inc tamagotchis!). The happiness I felt in that moment led to me bringing some back home & they are now proudly on display in the office. Thank you for making me feel less weird about it haha

  • @samsquatch...
    @samsquatch... Před 3 měsíci +2

    the shoutout to the caption friends 🥺💕

  • @sav_avocado
    @sav_avocado Před 4 měsíci

    You’re amazing 💗 love all your little advice

  • @TigerG16
    @TigerG16 Před 4 měsíci

    I was so excited to wake up and have sat am coffee with your video. Thx for posting!

  • @simplymondane
    @simplymondane Před 4 měsíci +1

    Honestly girl I love these long videos you’re such a comfort CZcamsr for me! Can’t wait to watch the whole thing

    • @simplymondane
      @simplymondane Před 4 měsíci

      Also plz continue to take care of yourself !

  • @happyturtle95
    @happyturtle95 Před 3 měsíci

    Your impromptu essay at the end is a work of art. Will listen over and over for rest inspiration. I also am trying to overcome my belief that I am only a worthy member of society when I am being productive. Rest is productive. 🙌🌸💞

  • @Nathiusca01
    @Nathiusca01 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this! You spoke every single word that I needed to hear cause I'm still trying to heal from a severe burnout from a little more than a year ago and it was building up through my WHOLE LIFE. You put into words what I couldn't figure out about not being able to do hobbies or rest even if I really wanted to and I feel like this video is going to be a really really huge step in my recovery. Please if you can, keep these coming, from you I've learned so much about softening, resting and taking care of myself 🥺 tysm❤

  • @voyance4elle
    @voyance4elle Před 4 měsíci

    The advice from that therapist is soooo good!!! :D We are all so set in our patterns and addictions to the screen ect. that sometimes they get in the way of enjoying life and the simple little hobbies...

  • @MadiMae_
    @MadiMae_ Před 4 měsíci

    i literally needed this 🤍

  • @IlariaMarita98
    @IlariaMarita98 Před 3 měsíci

    what a great video kennedy !! so many tips and things to think about 💕 thank you for making this !!

  • @naatttts1
    @naatttts1 Před 4 měsíci

    oh bestie kennedy, you are always so right on everything you say. i could very much relate to everything but specially to the not being able to balance things. im studying to become a psychologist because i want to dedicate my life to equino therapy (basically therapy for people through horses) and i do also ride horses and help my trainer at the barn on my free time. lately i havent been able to balance both of those things and i find myself not heading to the barn as much as i used to and would like to. ive also realised that im putting way to much of my energy on university because i really want to achieve that goal of equinotherapy and im not really realising that going to the barn is not only something that makes me disconnect of my stressors but ALSO a different way of leqrning and working towards that future goal.
    im officially going back to riding and being as much as i can at the barn and im so happy about it !!

  • @dianavazquez3566
    @dianavazquez3566 Před 3 měsíci

    My husband and I also get out our old wii when we want to reminisce. We actually still have our game cube games! It brings me so much joy to play them. Thank you so much for this video

  • @delighthailman8082
    @delighthailman8082 Před 4 měsíci

    This was a great video. I went through burnout a year ago at my teaching job. I switched to a new school and focused on healing: I dropped most of my social activities, paused on traveling, working out, and budgeting. I quit social media and put less effort into hair and clothes. I am finally now feeling like I'm coming out of burnout/survival mode, but still very much on the road to recovery. Rest and fun and time at home are so so important!!!

  • @caiahmorash4017
    @caiahmorash4017 Před 3 měsíci

    Cannot explain how important this video is!!! A topic that I feel can be overlooked or not spoken about enough and this is SO helpful 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 So personally relevant to me and it’s just so nice to see/ watch among a lot of other gloomy or unnecessary content online! Thank you so much for sharing, will be coming back to rewatch when the burnout be burning-ouuuut ♥️♥️♥️

  • @maergan.
    @maergan. Před 3 měsíci

    I love grabbing all the items from rooms that don't belong and making piles based on which room they belong in. Then I grab a box or laundry basket and one by one go deliver the piles to their rightful rooms! It's like a backwards scavenger hunt. You don't HAVE to put things ALL the way away, just put them in their rightful rooms (for now). Easy!

  • @christinaduehn9729
    @christinaduehn9729 Před 3 měsíci

    You’ve inspired me to get a nostalgic game I used to play on ps2 as a kid that’s been remastered on the switch!! It’s Ty the Tasmanian Tiger & the memories it unlocked to just play through it is absolutely wild!! Thank you for sharing about nostalgic tips & burnout care 🫶🏼

  • @lizm3999
    @lizm3999 Před 4 měsíci

    2020 was rough for me like everyone else but I rediscovered the Magic Treehouse/ Merlin Missions series with my two kids during lockdown and it was amazing. A little touch of childhood magic can be extremely healing and it was great to share them with my little ones.

  • @teerossaa
    @teerossaa Před 3 měsíci

    I came across this video today and I 'literally' needed to hear what you had to say. I'm recovering from burn out and in the process discovering a new version of myself while figuring out ways to take care of myself and loved ones. My mental and physical health has become so, so important to me now and I keep trying to advocate to my loved ones to place self care as a top priority. Thank you Kennedy for posting this and to everyone please take genuine care of yourself.

  • @vannisworld
    @vannisworld Před 4 měsíci +2

    This was so comforting to watch. I have been struggling pretty hard lately with burnout due to work stress and just life in general. It's nice to know I'm not alone with feeling overwhelmed and just needing to reset with some good ol' rnr. I think I'm going to read Harriet the spy tonight. Was my favorite book as a kid.. I still have my original copy (with tape along the spine because it fell apart from reading it about 50 times). ❤

  • @DigitalDeino
    @DigitalDeino Před 3 měsíci

    I loved the Wii growing up, and still do. My dad actually won a Wii at one of those impossible carnival games. I was so excited when he got it. I mostly just played Wii sports with my friends. Eventually, I started playing Kirby games and found a new love for video games. Kirby and the Wii got me into video games. I still have my Wii and still play it from time to time, truly a gem of a console.

  • @MissRagnarok
    @MissRagnarok Před 3 měsíci

    This video has come at the most perfect time. I'm suffering from intense burn out where I'm losing interest in everything and my job, which I love, makes me hate every day. I played a game (remake) that I finished in my late teens and it helped me so much. I'm now sad that I finished it and I've been trying to communicate why I feel 'sad'. My partner is the absolute best and he has put aside some 'game date nights' together to help while I work through my areas that I need too.

  • @RikkuBurnside
    @RikkuBurnside Před 3 měsíci

    I found your channel by chance and stayed for your lovely personality. I am really enjoying your content and the ideas to feel cozier ❤

  • @knothavana
    @knothavana Před 4 měsíci

    didn’t know i needed this today. thank you kennedy ❤️.

  • @maxinethao4954
    @maxinethao4954 Před 3 měsíci

    you were SPITTING in those last 20 mins!! I love your kind of videos where it's both comforting to watch and also genuinely informative with accessible steps to help improve our well-being! I was actually just mentally debating on how much I should rest tomorrow and hearing your words was like giving me permission :)
    also as a typically non-commenting viewer, right after I finished watching the vid and was about to comment, scrolling down to see everyone be so open about their experience with burnout made me so happy to see that we all felt like we were in a safe enough space to share freely

  • @user-qh8mp1hp3z
    @user-qh8mp1hp3z Před 4 měsíci

    you are my favorite youtuber i love all the things you post!

  • @artemis_lena
    @artemis_lena Před 3 měsíci

    Honestly this was super helpful Ken. Especially talking through how you perceive and manage your stress. As a former grad school girlie with a new corporate job I totally feel you with the law school stuff.

  • @chynnaholmes2378
    @chynnaholmes2378 Před 4 měsíci

    This video is exactly what I needed thank you 😭

  • @carleighpage
    @carleighpage Před 4 měsíci

    When you were talking about the thoughts and how to push pst it is actually something I’m reading about in a book about OCD/anxiety symptoms and that’s the same practice! When you get an obsession or an intrusive thought, they recommend trying to put off acting on it for 15 minutes while refocusing your attention on something else, and your likely hood of doing the compulsion goes down the longer you wait!

  • @Legostarwarslover98
    @Legostarwarslover98 Před 4 měsíci

    This video couldn’t have come out at a better time, thank you!!!!🙌✨🥹

  • @joybird144
    @joybird144 Před 3 měsíci

    I cannot thank you enough for this video Kennedy. I am in burnout, but the particular kind that comes with being autistic it’s like burn out but with an autistic brain I guess. This video is just been a reminder to really take care of myself until I can get out and hopefully I can but these activities are so reassuring that it’s not just me going through it and then there’s other people who know what to do, who can give advice on what to do so thank you so much for being a light and sharing what you know about burnout and like all your videos are so amazing and comforting so thank you for all you do. 🤎

  • @olivia_leigh1
    @olivia_leigh1 Před 4 měsíci +1

    this was my favorite video you ever made, thank you!!!! it was SO incredibly helpful. i was encouraged to order food delivery bc of what you said ◡̈ 💛

  • @cozystudygirl
    @cozystudygirl Před 4 měsíci +1

    so agree about the nostalgia! i logged into my old webkinz account online and it was like 30 minutes of pure joy💖

  • @TessaOswin
    @TessaOswin Před 3 měsíci +1

    Animal crossing city folk (or let’s go to the city as I knew it) was the first animal crossing game I played and I play it to 100s of hour, never got particularly far in the sense of filling the museum, town upgrades ect cos I was kid which didn’t google games. But I spend so long fishing and balloon popping, to the point that I have the city theme song playing in my ACNH house cos it such a fundamental part of animal crossing for me.

  • @dreasmile
    @dreasmile Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video, Ken, it was truly so helpful 🧡