This is the fundamental point Dave. Everything else is immaterial because THE WORLD IS A BETTER PLACE WITH YOU IN IT. Build on that. That's your foundation, your starting stone. Fuck everything and everyone else, you start at this point and work your way back up. Nothing else matters. Live life. Love xx
@@DOB4711 what difference would it make to you dob. You would be okay after an hour then life goes on . Stop giving this apathetic man the sympathy he craves .n
Dave I’ve been struggling with bad depression the last week because my daughters went back with their mom for the school year. I’m in recovery for alcoholism and I was wanting to drink. This video has made me decide to go to an AA meeting instead and not isolate by myself at home. Thank you for helping me. We love you, sir.
@@shatakii thank you. I will do that. I’ve tried to find online meetings on the AA home page but have had trouble finding. I will search in the rooms. Thank you ❤️
@@shatakii it's a total waste of time AA twelve steps no sense . You just sit and listen to other simps tell their sad story . Then declare your n alcoholic to justify your actions . Wean yourself off
There's something about putting miles on the ground that can really help... when Neil Peart lost his wife and daughter, he got on his motorcycle and rode 45,000 miles... you did well, you took a non violent approach, you did come home and you're okay... take care my distant friend.
Hey Dave. You have reached people from all over the world. I come to your channel for the content, your music AND to listen to you and your perspectives. One Hundred and Thirty Five THOUSAND people are here because of you! Take care, regards from Australia Buddy!
Judgmental people usually judge others to cover their own weaknesses, I've found. Bullies sicken me either way. Mental health is serious and needs addressing more. I wish certain words about it weren't censored so much by social media to make it easy to get banned for using them, when simply raising awareness :(
Dave I have lived with depression since 2001. I lost my fiancee in 1994. I nursed my mum through dementia and covid. I know what it is like, I don't have family and I live on my own. Last year I had a terrible time after losing mum and I didn't want to be here. What worries me, that seeing you like that, reminds me of me then. You take care of yourself, your vulnerable and at a very low point. You know about your mental health, it is all the little things, the straw that break to camels back. You and I, we carry on regardless not realising how much it takes out of us. You need support mate, its up to you how you do that, but you need it. Please take care and this will all pass, it always does and remember. Healing starts with you my friend.
Sorry I’m late with this Dave, a difficult post for you to make I’m sure - please take on board that you are so loved and appreciated by your family & friends & the world needs lovely people like you now more than ever - not for me to tell you what to do but if you need specialist help & support please seek it - sending best wishes & good health to you ✊🎸
Dave, six nickel strings connected you to thousands of people, but I hope you know that the connection is deeper than those six strings. We follow you because you're a good guy. Take it easy on yourself, and never be afraid to ask for help.
completely on board with you velotik! God bless and keep you Dave! I've been obsessed with and spent way to much on guitars for over 30 years. still cannot play an entire song. But watching you Dave always inspires me to keep trying. Your talent and your beautiful mind are a gift to all of us.
Thanks for speaking up about mental health, especially as a guy! So many kind people commenting here. They care. I care, even as a complete stranger. Like many others, I've been to some very dark places, and it's now a part of the "backpack" I'm carrying with me. I wish you all the best, Johannes.
For what it's worth: I am a guy in Kansas City who thinks of you the way people talk about Dave Gilmour. You're an absolutely unique artist (that 10 minute solo piece a few weeks back was the best thing I've heard all year) and a guy who I'd seriously enjoy being bros with. Sometimes I watch Dave Simpson long form videos with my buddies, kind of a virtual hangout with the dude we'd love to have in the circle. With the Red Giant album about to drop, I think you'll start getting the recognition you so richly deserve. As a guitar player, I'd take that over any domestic situation. Keep your head up.
Dave, your sister is an Angel. She accompanied you the first time you went to Anderton's, she accompanied you when you did Paris fashion week, she came and found you last Saturday. She's an Angel of the first degree. She's simply an Angel.
Dave, that was one of the bravest and most moving things I have ever seen. I have followed you for years and admired the incredible beauty in the work you produce. But I have also been in that headspace, in my case standing on the edge of a tube platform with a train coming in. I had broken. I didn't feel there was anything left. Something inside pulled me back and here I am forty years later thanking the Divine that I am still here with people that love me. Your message is powerful and I implore anyone watching this or even reading this to do what Dave says and talk to someone. Even though in the darkest, blackest moments you may not feel worthy enough to command someone's attention, if you reach out, you'll be surprised how many people are there to catch you. Bless you Dave for sharing this, bless you for having the courage to do this, there will be many who need to hear this, whose lives you will transform. God bless you brother and I wish you every bit of love along each step of the way.
Thank you Dave. PTSD is horrible. Over the years I've spent my life using and writing music to get lost in just to escape for a few minutes. Over the last 6 months music has left me and I'm trying to get it back so much. Thank you for continuing to raise awareness. Thank you so much.
As a lonely, bipolar, depressed person for 40 years I know things can easily become overwhelming in life. I shouldn't be alive considering some of things I did during very lengthy manic phases over the years. Dave, You and your channel have been there for me to learn from, enjoy great music, and get a wider perspective about music, life, and the world. I hope everything that is good comes your way and this incident will be just a distant memory soon. There are many people that love and care about you. Thanks for everything over the years. Cheers.
Glad you're still with us @elvyfoster7455. I know the feeling all too well. I have the other BPD haha but your story and outlook seem so similar to mine. It's all the same crazy miserable confusing shite it seems haha. Take care x
I found your channel last Friday or Saturday and watched for hours, learning and gaining inspiration. Glad you’re here helping people with your words and playing. Thanks mate❤
That was HUGELY POWERFUL Dave, you show tremendous strength by sharing your testimony. You are truly a gifted guitarist and an incredible human being. I pray that you continue to find inner peace and keep ROCKING ON BROTHER. CHEERS!!
Thank you for adding this Dave. My daughter has been ill with MH problems since COVID and it's impact has been affecting me recently. I hope things shift for you soon - your bravery in sharing this will help so many people. Take care ❤
love ya brother lost my girlfriend to depression 2 years an 6 months ago . i stopped playing guitar almost year n half wasnt myself i shut down was youre vids that got me back to my guitar an my head back to what i consider normal .love you brother .i know you know but this is for others to don't ever underestimate power of depression steals the ones you love .thank you dave
I've typed this to you in the past. 95% of people with depression are severely deficient in magnesium. Vitamin D3 and B complex vitamins are also a great help. I've met people who added these and their lives changed for the better.
If you ever think about that path, remember, apart from your family, the amount of people that come here to hear you play and I hope you acknowledge how happy your beautiful playing has made me and surely a lot of other people!
Thank you, Dave for sharing what happened. Please remember you are normal to struggle with what you've been through and we all have our struggles we deal with. Your sharing means a lot to this 63 year old dude that struggles in my way and that we all are in this life together. You have support out here thinking great thoughts for you and about you! Love you, Man!
You hit the nail on the head when you said it was a trauma response Dave. The mind is a complex thing and the struglles are very difficult for others to understand . Fear, fight and flight are the basic deep seated human instincts we are all programmed to respond with and you hit the flight part, indicating just how deep the pain was. I will always thank God that you came through this. You are the last of my guitar heroes and you are much loved by all of us. Take care my friend.
Anyone else needed this? Thank you Dave for being a real human with no mask. So many fake musicians and people out here on the tube and you’re one of the real ones. Keep kicking ass and taking care of yourself. Much respect, boss 🤘🏼
Dave, this is quite likely the most important video you’ve ever done. Thank you for this. Your music is magnificent but your well-being is even more important. I wish you all the best and I hope you can find someone to help with your continuing recovery.
Here I am at 4 o'clock in the morning in Germany, watching a person I barely know on CZcams (except from cicibass videos) and having the need to listen. Thank you for your honesty and being so open with your mental state. And your right, there can always be a moment when a person can suddenly snap. I never had this point but my mother had, so I know what you mean... I wish you all the best. You and your family.
Thank you for this. I’ve had the worst year of my life. It’s been bad. And it hasn’t let up at all. I’ve been trying to fight for months. My family has been the only thing keeping me going. Watching this has helped a lot. So thank you.
I have nothing but admiration for Dave. To be going through these things but also to be able to express them to the world in a video like this. Very moving video, it will absolutely help someone out there. I wasn't aware of how this kind of episode could happen to someone, so now I'm more educated to understand if it happened to me or someone I know. Also the Rob Scallon video recently about being bipolar, that was a very moving video and a big education for me. These guys are a gift to the world, sharing incredibly difficult things on video like this.
Thanks for sharing your story, massive fan of yours. Been dealing with depression since I was 12 (I'm 30) and can relate. Keep pushing, we all have blips and triggers.. the unknown is scary as far one foot forward but you're not alone.. we're all here for you, always wanting the best for you. I'm glad you have a great support circle.
Dave the probability that you were to exist is 10 to the power of 2,685, 000. This means that you are meant to be here. Please truly ponder that and you will realize that you are so very special. You have amazing talent, and you are a hero to many with similar problems. You should go on a holiday with the people that love you. Take your mind off these things for a while and spend some time away from the things that trigger bad emotions. I hope your heath restores to normal and better than ever. Sending love and hope from Florida USA
I have similar mental struggles - i had tears welling up whilst watching. I’ve never met you - live thousands of miles from you - but i relate to your situation. You’ve always been one of my favorite online guitar enthusiasts because of your wit, knowledge, and kindness. And your honesty and bravery stands above all. I’m sure you needed to post this video - and i needed to see it. So a heartfelt thanks from one guitar nerd to another.
@Snoozer-vine They don’t talk as openly about their personal lives as he does. He doesn’t seem as concerned about getting views. I don’t even think he combs his hair or cares about what he’s wearing before he hits record… a lot of these feel like personal diary entries.
Dave, I absolutely get this, I turned 50 this year & my mental health took a real dive, times got dark for me too & im still not 100%, I felt every word of this video. ❤
Dave i know i can't say anything to help you but know that the world is a far better place for having you in it.Your family and friends love you and i think i can speak for all your subscribers when i say we love you too.Keep on rocking my friend.
Dave. I bought a guitar because of you. And I also fully understand what it feels like to be "at your limit". I've been there too. Thank you for sharing this, it makes all of us stronger.
Dave, all I can say is I’m glad you’re still with us my friend. This world is a much brighter place with you in it. Your strength and courage to share your story is admirable. As horrible as that night was, you’re here to tell the story. That story will undoubtedly help somebody else who may be feeling similar. The key is to not blame or judge yourself for your feelings, but to celebrate your strength in living to fight another day. We’re all here for you, Dave. Your story is FAR from over, buddy. The best chapters have yet to be written. Nothing but love from across the pond, thank you for everything Dave.
I have been there man, during uni doing my degree in music my Mum was diagnosed with cancer, I got sick and had surgery done and the stress of everything got to me, I was working and had a nervous breakdown that brought me to my knees, I got sent home and then hermited for about 2 months and couldn't face going outside, I managed to pull through, I phoned the doctor and got a prescription for ssri's and therapy, to this day I thank myself everyday for getting the help I desperately needed so that I can carry on playing guitar, performing and my life has forever changed.
Dave, I've suffered with mental health problems for the greater part of my 70 odd years and it never occurred to me that my brain lies to me Thank you for helping me to understand that. I don't think anybody has ever helped me more with such a small gem of wisdom. It's true the world is a better place with you in it.
Thank you for sharing this Dave. I have suffered depression and PTSD since my traumatic childhood. I'm 56 years old now, I still suffer and I have had several experiences over the years like you described here. It is not nice for sure but these things can happen. Thanks for bringing awareness to mental health issues, sharing your experiences with it and thanks for sharing your awesome gift of music with us all. You are a tremendous guy and an awesome guitarist, don't forget that. Hang in there my brother, there are many of us out here who are in similar battles with mental health issues, we're with you my friend. I'm so glad that you were found and are back safely at home. In my experiences, I have survived too, and I'm certain you will survive like I did. All the best to you going forward.
I can’t pretend to know what you’re going through brother . I know you don’t know me and I don’t really know you but I know you’ve brought me a lot of joy watching you play the guitar . You are loved💚
Dave, I listened from start to finish. It's good that you brought it all up, and it's important that you spoke your truth. Your voice is your strength. You've stated it all so well. Peace and love to you as you move forward. I'm with you every step of the way. ❤
The amount of strength and compassion you have shines through. Thank you for having the courage to share your experiences with us, Dave. You are a treasure, and you are an inspiration. Thank you for being who you are and facing each day, no matter what it brings.
I struggle every day to keep the switch in my brain from flipping. Thank you for sharing, and just thank you Dave. I listened to every word. I'm looking forward to seeing future things from you Dave.
The fact that you are out here being open to people about this and your mental situation, just tells how good hearted you are, and proves that you are doing more good than you probably imagine. You are lucky you have a sister like that (and she's lucky to have you) :)
Thanks for sharing Dave. We all go through traumas in life that are hard to deal with. Your family, and all of us are here for you. You send your beautiful spirit and music to us often, we send our peace and love back to you! Thanks for all you do, after the darkness always comes the dawn.
Hi Dave. I'm really glad to see that you are ok. Since I discovered your channel you've become an inspiration to play and improve in guitar, I practice every day even if I am not that good at it, but I keep playing because of you. This Saturday I also went through a rough moment, drank too much and if it weren't for one of my friends I would've made something stupid. This video has helped me a lot, and I just wanted thank you, for sharing your story with us. This things can happen to anyone at anytime and I believe that we should be open when talking about it. I really hope that you get through this as soon as possible. You and your work mean a lot to everyone around the world (I myself am from a little town in Spain). Thank you Dave for everything.
DAVE - I've been a depressed alcoholic wreck these past 3 months. I'm going through big changes in my life and identity. Its been really tough for me. I don't know what's going on this summer - the whole world seems to be all over the place. We are gonna get through this!
Damn that hit hard Dave, but don't forget that we are all here rooting for you! I don't know what led you down this dark path but I hope you find peace and happiness in your life. Life can be so beautiful mate, and I wish the best for you!
I'm 66! I've been to the edge many times! Frustration of an artist I've never felt I belong anywhere! Life is a battle you must overcome and just keep moving ahead no matter what the outcome is! Because this is life for good or bad! Keep looking forward! 🎸😊 times short! Tomorrow you'll be old!
Dave, you make me a better guitar player, inspire me to be a more authentic person, and I appreciate you very much. You bring light. Thank you for being you.
Thankful that you are ok. You are a blessing to guitarists and music lovers around the world. Thanks for sharing your story. Just keep going. Praying for you. God bless.
Hi Dave. Keep talking to us so that we can hopefully keep you up .As all the other voices are saying to you .The world is a better place with you talking to all of us .Much love from all of us ❤❤❤
I’ve been living with a similar condition to you Dave for 43 years, it’s a price one pays for being awake it seems. I love your attitude, and your conviction “you’ve just got to keep going”. “Life is like a stream. Inevitably it flows underground into darkness but always emerges back into the light”. Much love Dave ❤
Try to be kind to yourself, Dave. Dissociation is scary as hell. Being honest about our struggles is the bravest act a person can do. Moment by moment is all I can do. Getting enough sleep, routine, meds, and therapy are what keep me here. My family dumped me, so it's my partner and my dog that make me want to stay. Thanks for sharing Dave.
I for one are so glad you're here dave, having seen you play several times you are an inspiration on stage,such a talented guitarist, I've stayed at donna nuck several times in my campervan often after seeing you play in Louth, i wished id have been there Saturday night,to sit beside you on that bench, wether sitting in silence taking in the beautiful scenery or to tell you that your gonna be alright, you have the strength within you to get better,to think happier thoughts & take each day for its merits. In the late 80s i had a mental breakdown & ended up walking away from the music industry,the band my friends the hangers-on ect & it was the love of my family that pulled me through,ill admit it wasn't easy if im brutally honest it was pain like no other like a gravity thing keeping you down,my weight was at 8 stone & nothing interested me,i didn't play guitar or sing again for several years it just didn't excite me anymore. I got myself a 9-5 job & started walking then running & eventually into training with a good PT guy from a local football team. Within 12 months i was ready to take the world on again. Positives breed positives & its one step at a time. You will succeed my friend,for sure you will but it starts with you & no one else. Make that mark in the sand & start walking with your head up . Cast those negative thoughts aside & when they try to enter again push them back with the positives. Your happiness is your responsibility nobody else's. Feel the love from your family and friends & dont hold back brother. I shed a tear for your plight but they were tears of joy yhat you're still with us in this world. Take care Dave ❤❤❤
Dave - so glad you made it through a terrible and horrifying time. You are a gift to so many of us. I am now an old man who, because of love of the guitar, came across your videos and your presence is a blessing to me. Thank you for sharing - stay strong, get better, do more videos and know you matter. You're a great human.
Dave it must have taken a lot of courage to record this video - well done. I've suffered with mental health throughout my life. I started playing guitar 4 years ago (I'm in my 60's) and you are the person who has kept me learning and pushing myself. Playing guitar really helps my mental state, so thankyou for being there for us!
intrusive thoughts, false memories, anxiety, ocd, depression, adhd, it's a difficult fight but those of us going through it, whatever it may be, keep fighting. you are loved and wanted. something I have to tell myself regardless of hearing it from my family and friends. we're here for you, Dave. ❤
That was a super powerful Video Dave. Well done. I’ve been there, on that precipice. I fought long and hard (& I know the battle is never over) but I learnt a valuable lesson. You said it yourself - You are not alone! These dark feeling that drag you away from those who love you - they hate the spotlight. What I discovered was the more I told people what they were doing to me, they more those feelings started to leave me alone. Today, I feel happier and stronger - better able to deal with the darkness. We must always Beware of Darkness, right? We’re all different, No one is perfect, No one is normal. But you are a hero for sharing this mate. You’re a good man, Respect to you Dave.
Hi Dave if you ever feel you can't cope please always share with family, friend's, anyone. Believe me your bringing us CZcamsrs a lot of pleasure with your amazing guitar playing and gigs. Lots of respect to you. Love to you and people in need.❤❤
Hi Dave, I have followed you for a long time. Thank you for sharing your gift with us, both as an inspiration for all of us aspiring musos and also as someone who is not afraid to be real and speak up about the things that others would never. You have given me and many others a good reminder to check in with the ones we love and also to speak up in times of need. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
Hang in there, Dave. It's always darkest before the dawn. A cliche maybe but in this mad world, seemingly extraordinary responses are understandable. I have suffered from depression for years and thankfully, with the support of my family & friends, i have learned to deal with it. Like you, i am a musician and playing my guitar gives me solace and i'm sure you feel the same. So keep on rockin'!
Dave, you're truly a living legend amongst us all - you're a constant beam of inspiration and are one of the all-time greats in many of our eyes. Please know how much you're loved all around the world. It's never easy, but that makes victory taste even sweeter. Rock on, Dave ❤
Love from our little clan.Thank you for being so generous in sharing this, brought me to tears (55 year old male). I've been there. Time to invest in your own wellness, Dave.
You are not alone Dave. I have spent most of my life in a state of despair and depression. Love of music is the ONLY thing that I have. It keeps me going. I have tried to seek solace with God but it only works some of the time.
Dave you been an inspiration to be open about any of this. Your videos have helped me and inspired on guitar playing….all the way through the pandemic and losing my mum and finding myself living on my own. The one thing was my playing guitars that’s got me through life in general. We’re all here for your Dave! As a spiritual believer I think the deer you saw was definitely some kind of guide…. Who knows…. Take care Dave one other thing I think people should say (instead of how you doing) to how you surviving?
"I don't have a good opinion of myself, I never have, it was stolen from me when I was at school". Dave that ressonated so strong with me, that's the kind of hurt that truly changes you forever, and doesn't matter how much other tell that you are kind, great or any other kind of compliments, you just cannot accept it, because deep down we chose to believe that it's not true. I wish you well my friend, you are kind and compassionate soul, the healing will come eventually being true to our nature. Big hug !
Wishing you peace, love, and strength Dave. Lost my brother from another mother 11 years ago to the "disease ". I think about him every day. Thanks for being public about this. 🙏
As a PTSD veteran, I get it. Do NOT let this beat you. I wrote a song about it. I'm still working on the music part. But I have the words. God I wish I had the music
@@dwallings I would love too. It is, I think, an amazing song. It has the potential to be great. I mean epic great. I didn't think I could right something like this. In my head it is bluesy/rock/Chris Stapleton esk.
So glad you're here. Keep getting help and keep talking with those you love and trust. You have many fans. You are one of the best guitarists I've ever listened to. Very versatile and creative with great touch and control. You are brilliant. Believe. Thanks for all your videos. ❤
Dave watching you for years just remember. Never go against the grain of your clock ⏰️ and drink black Coffee every morning if you can and take life 1 hour at a time. Every one suffers from burn out of life. You rock Brother!!! Us guitar nerds 🤓 need ya around!!! Master of solid state 💪🏻 stay strong! 💪🏻
Much love, hugs and respect Dave. I can clearly see you are a worthy courageous human being and an inspiration to so many people - not just guitar players. Please try to be strong Dave even on those bad days when the Black Dog comes calling. We all love you man.
Many people don’t hear what we mean when we say things like “I’m tired” or “I’m frustrated” or “I’m overwhelmed”… Whatever you needed at that time it was probably rest or recuperation. I often feel jealous of folks like you with this wonderful practice space for guitar; I think “man he’s got it made”. But life is more than enjoying your passions and hard things often get in the way. Hope you are feeling much more clarity soon.
Hi Dave. Just a quick note to say the world is a better place with you in it. PLEASE remember this!! ❤
This is absolutely true. I recognize a lot from Dave stories and I know there's always a point when it's getting right again
This is the fundamental point Dave. Everything else is immaterial because THE WORLD IS A BETTER PLACE WITH YOU IN IT. Build on that. That's your foundation, your starting stone. Fuck everything and everyone else, you start at this point and work your way back up. Nothing else matters. Live life. Love xx
@@peterstroughairart is it though ? If he's miserable for your entertainment . Get a job . Help society . Be stoic
@@DOB4711 that's silly. Fuck everyone else . ? Try thinking about others rather than your guitar for a while . Might help
@@DOB4711 what difference would it make to you dob. You would be okay after an hour then life goes on . Stop giving this apathetic man the sympathy he craves .n
Dave I’ve been struggling with bad depression the last week because my daughters went back with their mom for the school year. I’m in recovery for alcoholism and I was wanting to drink. This video has made me decide to go to an AA meeting instead and not isolate by myself at home. Thank you for helping me. We love you, sir.
15 years sober thanks to AA. Was in the same situation with kids. Trust me, it will get better.
Try.... In The Rooms, online meetings.
@@shatakii thank you. I will do that. I’ve tried to find online meetings on the AA home page but have had trouble finding. I will search in the rooms. Thank you ❤️
@@MrSpeed-lt8gr waste of time AA
@@shatakii it's a total waste of time AA twelve steps no sense . You just sit and listen to other simps tell their sad story . Then declare your n alcoholic to justify your actions . Wean yourself off
There's something about putting miles on the ground that can really help... when Neil Peart lost his wife and daughter, he got on his motorcycle and rode 45,000 miles... you did well, you took a non violent approach, you did come home and you're okay... take care my distant friend.
@@TheLambLive what a beautiful thought. Good stuff man
This is eloquent wisdom
Yes ...Neil rode forever...He's story was a sad one. I grew up a huge RUSH back in the 70's... So thankful that Dave is home and safe...
Hey Dave.
You have reached people from all over the world.
I come to your channel for the content, your music AND to listen to you and your perspectives.
One Hundred and Thirty Five THOUSAND people are here because of you!
Take care, regards from Australia Buddy!
Brother, we love you. There are absolutely NO judgements here.
Judgmental people usually judge others to cover their own weaknesses, I've found. Bullies sicken me either way. Mental health is serious and needs addressing more. I wish certain words about it weren't censored so much by social media to make it easy to get banned for using them, when simply raising awareness :(
Of all the musical joy you have given us, this is so encouraging, the wisdom, the nonjudgmental… thank you for the love you share! Thank you Dave
Dave I have lived with depression since 2001. I lost my fiancee in 1994. I nursed my mum through dementia and covid. I know what it is like, I don't have family and I live on my own. Last year I had a terrible time after losing mum and I didn't want to be here. What worries me, that seeing you like that, reminds me of me then. You take care of yourself, your vulnerable and at a very low point. You know about your mental health, it is all the little things, the straw that break to camels back. You and I, we carry on regardless not realising how much it takes out of us. You need support mate, its up to you how you do that, but you need it. Please take care and this will all pass, it always does and remember. Healing starts with you my friend.
@@leehaslam5871 Thank you for sharing
Sorry I’m late with this Dave, a difficult post for you to make I’m sure - please take on board that you are so loved and appreciated by your family & friends & the world needs lovely people like you now more than ever - not for me to tell you what to do but if you need specialist help & support please seek it - sending best wishes & good health to you ✊🎸
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Dave, six nickel strings connected you to thousands of people, but I hope you know that the connection is deeper than those six strings. We follow you because you're a good guy. Take it easy on yourself, and never be afraid to ask for help.
Lovely, intelligent and sincere comment friend. ❤
completely on board with you velotik! God bless and keep you Dave! I've been obsessed with and spent way to much on guitars for over 30 years. still cannot play an entire song. But watching you Dave always inspires me to keep trying. Your talent and your beautiful mind are a gift to all of us.
This is a massive turning point Dave. You've come through the worst and survived. You don't realise how resilient you are
Those officers are to be commended. Serving, protecting, showing empathy and understanding. A model for all.
Thanks for speaking up about mental health, especially as a guy! So many kind people commenting here. They care. I care, even as a complete stranger. Like many others, I've been to some very dark places, and it's now a part of the "backpack" I'm carrying with me. I wish you all the best, Johannes.
For what it's worth: I am a guy in Kansas City who thinks of you the way people talk about Dave Gilmour. You're an absolutely unique artist (that 10 minute solo piece a few weeks back was the best thing I've heard all year) and a guy who I'd seriously enjoy being bros with. Sometimes I watch Dave Simpson long form videos with my buddies, kind of a virtual hangout with the dude we'd love to have in the circle. With the Red Giant album about to drop, I think you'll start getting the recognition you so richly deserve. As a guitar player, I'd take that over any domestic situation. Keep your head up.
Dave, you wonderful human being. You are not alone in this. Sending love and hugs.
Dave, your sister is an Angel. She accompanied you the first time you went to Anderton's, she accompanied you when you did Paris fashion week, she came and found you last Saturday. She's an Angel of the first degree. She's simply an Angel.
Am I the only one who doesn’t know who his sister is?
Dave, that was one of the bravest and most moving things I have ever seen. I have followed you for years and admired the incredible beauty in the work you produce. But I have also been in that headspace, in my case standing on the edge of a tube platform with a train coming in. I had broken. I didn't feel there was anything left. Something inside pulled me back and here I am forty years later thanking the Divine that I am still here with people that love me. Your message is powerful and I implore anyone watching this or even reading this to do what Dave says and talk to someone. Even though in the darkest, blackest moments you may not feel worthy enough to command someone's attention, if you reach out, you'll be surprised how many people are there to catch you.
Bless you Dave for sharing this, bless you for having the courage to do this, there will be many who need to hear this, whose lives you will transform. God bless you brother and I wish you every bit of love along each step of the way.
Absolutely 💯
Thank you Dave. PTSD is horrible. Over the years I've spent my life using and writing music to get lost in just to escape for a few minutes. Over the last 6 months music has left me and I'm trying to get it back so much. Thank you for continuing to raise awareness. Thank you so much.
Please get help, you bring so much joy to so many people. We love you Dave.
Absolutely 💯
You are a dynamite guitarist and an inspirational, honest, and salt of the earth man. Keep doing what you do and thank you for your inspiration.
As a lonely, bipolar, depressed person for 40 years I know things can easily become overwhelming in life. I shouldn't be alive considering some of things I did during very lengthy manic phases over the years.
Dave,
You and your channel have been there for me to learn from, enjoy great music, and get a wider perspective about music, life, and the world.
I hope everything that is good comes your way and this incident will be just a distant memory soon.
There are many people that love and care about you.
Thanks for everything over the years. Cheers.
Absolutely 💯
Glad you're still with us @elvyfoster7455. I know the feeling all too well. I have the other BPD haha but your story and outlook seem so similar to mine. It's all the same crazy miserable confusing shite it seems haha. Take care x
I found your channel last Friday or Saturday and watched for hours, learning and gaining inspiration. Glad you’re here helping people with your words and playing. Thanks mate❤
Thank you Dave, I admire your courage and strength to speak about this.
That was HUGELY POWERFUL Dave, you show tremendous strength by sharing your testimony. You are truly a gifted guitarist and an incredible human being. I pray that you continue to find inner peace and keep ROCKING ON BROTHER. CHEERS!!
Thank you for having the courage to share your trauma! Darkness is real, evil is real! We NEED the light.
Dave, you need Jesus in your life!
God bless and take care🙏
Thank you for adding this Dave. My daughter has been ill with MH problems since COVID and it's impact has been affecting me recently.
I hope things shift for you soon - your bravery in sharing this will help so many people.
Take care ❤
love ya brother lost my girlfriend to depression 2 years an 6 months ago . i stopped playing guitar almost year n half wasnt myself i shut down was youre vids that got me back to my guitar an my head back to what i consider normal .love you brother .i know you know but this is for others to don't ever underestimate power of depression steals the ones you love .thank you dave
Hang in there brother
👍✌️
I've typed this to you in the past. 95% of people with depression are severely deficient in magnesium. Vitamin D3 and B complex vitamins are also a great help. I've met people who added these and their lives changed for the better.
You are absolutely 💯 correct increase magnesium enriched foods also magnesium oil spray holland&barrett 😋 nutrition!!
You are Gold!!
If you ever think about that path, remember, apart from your family, the amount of people that come here to hear you play and I hope you acknowledge how happy your beautiful playing has made me and surely a lot of other people!
Thank you, Dave for sharing what happened. Please remember you are normal to struggle with what you've been through and we all have our struggles we deal with. Your sharing means a lot to this 63 year old dude that struggles in my way and that we all are in this life together. You have support out here thinking great thoughts for you and about you! Love you, Man!
You hit the nail on the head when you said it was a trauma response Dave. The mind is a complex thing and the struglles are very difficult for others to understand . Fear, fight and flight are the basic deep seated human instincts we are all programmed to respond with and you hit the flight part, indicating just how deep the pain was. I will always thank God that you came through this. You are the last of my guitar heroes and you are much loved by all of us. Take care my friend.
Anyone else needed this? Thank you Dave for being a real human with no mask. So many fake musicians and people out here on the tube and you’re one of the real ones. Keep kicking ass and taking care of yourself. Much respect, boss 🤘🏼
Dave, this is quite likely the most important video you’ve ever done. Thank you for this. Your music is magnificent but your well-being is even more important. I wish you all the best and I hope you can find someone to help with your continuing recovery.
Here I am at 4 o'clock in the morning in Germany, watching a person I barely know on CZcams (except from cicibass videos) and having the need to listen. Thank you for your honesty and being so open with your mental state. And your right, there can always be a moment when a person can suddenly snap. I never had this point but my mother had, so I know what you mean...
I wish you all the best. You and your family.
Thank you for this. I’ve had the worst year of my life. It’s been bad. And it hasn’t let up at all. I’ve been trying to fight for months. My family has been the only thing keeping me going. Watching this has helped a lot. So thank you.
Much love brother, VERY glad you are still with us!!!!
This video is what courage actually looks like. Really brave, a wonderful example to the rest of us. Thankyou
I have nothing but admiration for Dave. To be going through these things but also to be able to express them to the world in a video like this. Very moving video, it will absolutely help someone out there. I wasn't aware of how this kind of episode could happen to someone, so now I'm more educated to understand if it happened to me or someone I know. Also the Rob Scallon video recently about being bipolar, that was a very moving video and a big education for me. These guys are a gift to the world, sharing incredibly difficult things on video like this.
Wonderful Example Absolutely 💯
Absolutely😮
Thanks for sharing your story, massive fan of yours. Been dealing with depression since I was 12 (I'm 30) and can relate. Keep pushing, we all have blips and triggers.. the unknown is scary as far one foot forward but you're not alone.. we're all here for you, always wanting the best for you. I'm glad you have a great support circle.
Dave the probability that you were to exist is 10 to the power of 2,685, 000. This means that you are meant to be here. Please truly ponder that and you will realize that you are so very special. You have amazing talent, and you are a hero to many with similar problems. You should go on a holiday with the people that love you. Take your mind off these things for a while and spend some time away from the things that trigger bad emotions. I hope your heath restores to normal and better than ever.
Sending love and hope from Florida USA
Good advice, all the best Dave
You are Gold !!! 🇺🇸 🌎 🇺🇸!!!
I have similar mental struggles - i had tears welling up whilst watching. I’ve never met you - live thousands of miles from you - but i relate to your situation. You’ve always been one of my favorite online guitar enthusiasts because of your wit, knowledge, and kindness. And your honesty and bravery stands above all. I’m sure you needed to post this video - and i needed to see it. So a heartfelt thanks from one guitar nerd to another.
The most authentic and real guitarist on CZcams.
Agree...We love you Dave
Yessss
This.
@Snoozer-vine They don’t talk as openly about their personal lives as he does. He doesn’t seem as concerned about getting views. I don’t even think he combs his hair or cares about what he’s wearing before he hits record… a lot of these feel like personal diary entries.
This is definitely a very helpful video to so many. None of us are alone although the world wants us to believe we are.
Dave, I absolutely get this, I turned 50 this year & my mental health took a real dive, times got dark for me too & im still not 100%, I felt every word of this video. ❤
Me too man, me too.
Dave i know i can't say anything to help you but know that the world is a far better place for having you in it.Your family and friends love you and i think i can speak for all your subscribers when i say we love you too.Keep on rocking my friend.
Dave. I bought a guitar because of you. And I also fully understand what it feels like to be "at your limit". I've been there too. Thank you for sharing this, it makes all of us stronger.
Dave, all I can say is I’m glad you’re still with us my friend. This world is a much brighter place with you in it. Your strength and courage to share your story is admirable. As horrible as that night was, you’re here to tell the story. That story will undoubtedly help somebody else who may be feeling similar. The key is to not blame or judge yourself for your feelings, but to celebrate your strength in living to fight another day. We’re all here for you, Dave. Your story is FAR from over, buddy. The best chapters have yet to be written. Nothing but love from across the pond, thank you for everything Dave.
You are a truly brave, talented and all round remarkable man. So many people needed to hear this, me included. Well done sir!
I have been there man, during uni doing my degree in music my Mum was diagnosed with cancer, I got sick and had surgery done and the stress of everything got to me, I was working and had a nervous breakdown that brought me to my knees, I got sent home and then hermited for about 2 months and couldn't face going outside, I managed to pull through, I phoned the doctor and got a prescription for ssri's and therapy, to this day I thank myself everyday for getting the help I desperately needed so that I can carry on playing guitar, performing and my life has forever changed.
Dave, I've suffered with mental health problems for the greater part of my 70 odd years and it never occurred to me that my brain lies to me Thank you for helping me to understand that. I don't think anybody has ever helped me more with such a small gem of wisdom. It's true the world is a better place with you in it.
The mind...my best friend and worst nightmare, I can relate so so much Dave. Sending positivity and love to you...and well done for sharing.
Thank you for sharing this Dave. I have suffered depression and PTSD since my traumatic childhood. I'm 56 years old now, I still suffer and I have had several experiences over the years like you described here. It is not nice for sure but these things can happen. Thanks for bringing awareness to mental health issues, sharing your experiences with it and thanks for sharing your awesome gift of music with us all. You are a tremendous guy and an awesome guitarist, don't forget that. Hang in there my brother, there are many of us out here who are in similar battles with mental health issues, we're with you my friend. I'm so glad that you were found and are back safely at home. In my experiences, I have survived too, and I'm certain you will survive like I did. All the best to you going forward.
I can’t pretend to know what you’re going through brother . I know you don’t know me and I don’t really know you but I know you’ve brought me a lot of joy watching you play the guitar . You are loved💚
A warm, wonderful hug going out to you, from Florida, USA..... We love you, brother!
Dave, I listened from start to finish. It's good that you brought it all up, and it's important that you spoke your truth. Your voice is your strength. You've stated it all so well. Peace and love to you as you move forward. I'm with you every step of the way. ❤
The amount of strength and compassion you have shines through. Thank you for having the courage to share your experiences with us, Dave. You are a treasure, and you are an inspiration. Thank you for being who you are and facing each day, no matter what it brings.
I struggle every day to keep the switch in my brain from flipping.
Thank you for sharing, and just thank you Dave. I listened to every word.
I'm looking forward to seeing future things from you Dave.
The fact that you are out here being open to people about this and your mental situation, just tells how good hearted you are, and proves that you are doing more good than you probably imagine. You are lucky you have a sister like that (and she's lucky to have you) :)
So glad you're still here🤎btw thank you for all the vast amount of guitar knowledge I could take from you
Thanks for sharing Dave. We all go through traumas in life that are hard to deal with. Your family, and all of us are here for you. You send your beautiful spirit and music to us often, we send our peace and love back to you! Thanks for all you do, after the darkness always comes the dawn.
Hi Dave.
I'm really glad to see that you are ok. Since I discovered your channel you've become an inspiration to play and improve in guitar, I practice every day even if I am not that good at it, but I keep playing because of you. This Saturday I also went through a rough moment, drank too much and if it weren't for one of my friends I would've made something stupid. This video has helped me a lot, and I just wanted thank you, for sharing your story with us. This things can happen to anyone at anytime and I believe that we should be open when talking about it. I really hope that you get through this as soon as possible. You and your work mean a lot to everyone around the world (I myself am from a little town in Spain).
Thank you Dave for everything.
Thank you for being here and sharing this. You are worth the world, and the world needs you here.
DAVE - I've been a depressed alcoholic wreck these past 3 months. I'm going through big changes in my life and identity. Its been really tough for me. I don't know what's going on this summer - the whole world seems to be all over the place. We are gonna get through this!
Damn that hit hard Dave, but don't forget that we are all here rooting for you! I don't know what led you down this dark path but I hope you find peace and happiness in your life. Life can be so beautiful mate, and I wish the best for you!
I'm 66! I've been to the edge many times! Frustration of an artist I've never felt I belong anywhere! Life is a battle you must overcome and just keep moving ahead no matter what the outcome is! Because this is life for good or bad! Keep looking forward! 🎸😊 times short! Tomorrow you'll be old!
Absolutely 💯
Dave, you make me a better guitar player, inspire me to be a more authentic person, and I appreciate you very much. You bring light. Thank you for being you.
Dave, there's always hope, and you are loved.
Thankful that you are ok. You are a blessing to guitarists and music lovers around the world. Thanks for sharing your story. Just keep going. Praying for you. God bless.
Hi Dave. Keep talking to us so that we can hopefully keep you up .As all the other voices are saying to you .The world is a better place with you talking to all of us .Much love from all of us ❤❤❤
I’ve been living with a similar condition to you Dave for 43 years, it’s a price one pays for being awake it seems. I love your attitude, and your conviction “you’ve just got to keep going”. “Life is like a stream. Inevitably it flows underground into darkness but always emerges back into the light”. Much love Dave ❤
Try to be kind to yourself, Dave. Dissociation is scary as hell. Being honest about our struggles is the bravest act a person can do. Moment by moment is all I can do. Getting enough sleep, routine, meds, and therapy are what keep me here. My family dumped me, so it's my partner and my dog that make me want to stay. Thanks for sharing Dave.
Stay strong & intelligent Anna!
& partner❤
& 🐕 ❤! 🇬🇧 🌎 ⚖️ 🎸
Thanks so much for sharing. You’ve helped a lot of people today. You’re a good and genuine person.
I for one are so glad you're here dave, having seen you play several times you are an inspiration on stage,such a talented guitarist, I've stayed at donna nuck several times in my campervan often after seeing you play in Louth, i wished id have been there Saturday night,to sit beside you on that bench, wether sitting in silence taking in the beautiful scenery or to tell you that your gonna be alright, you have the strength within you to get better,to think happier thoughts & take each day for its merits.
In the late 80s i had a mental breakdown & ended up walking away from the music industry,the band my friends the hangers-on ect & it was the love of my family that pulled me through,ill admit it wasn't easy if im brutally honest it was pain like no other like a gravity thing keeping you down,my weight was at 8 stone & nothing interested me,i didn't play guitar or sing again for several years it just didn't excite me anymore. I got myself a 9-5 job & started walking then running & eventually into training with a good PT guy from a local football team. Within 12 months i was ready to take the world on again.
Positives breed positives & its one step at a time.
You will succeed my friend,for sure you will but it starts with you & no one else. Make that mark in the sand & start walking with your head up . Cast those negative thoughts aside & when they try to enter again push them back with the positives.
Your happiness is your responsibility nobody else's. Feel the love from your family and friends & dont hold back brother.
I shed a tear for your plight but they were tears of joy yhat you're still with us in this world. Take care Dave ❤❤❤
Much love from NZ dave Keep smiling 🙂🙂🙂 we all need your talent ❤❤
Such a difficult story to hear but so important to share, thank you Dave! I hope with time and work things will get better for you and all.
Dave - so glad you made it through a terrible and horrifying time. You are a gift to so many of us. I am now an old man who, because of love of the guitar, came across your videos and your presence is a blessing to me. Thank you for sharing - stay strong, get better, do more videos and know you matter. You're a great human.
Good news is that you're still here. Give your sister a big hug. She seems like one of the good ones.
Dave it must have taken a lot of courage to record this video - well done. I've suffered with mental health throughout my life. I started playing guitar 4 years ago (I'm in my 60's) and you are the person who has kept me learning and pushing myself. Playing guitar really helps my mental state, so thankyou for being there for us!
I'm sorry you are going through this Dave I'm in therapy and I'm still there. Just doing the best I can.
intrusive thoughts, false memories, anxiety, ocd, depression, adhd, it's a difficult fight but those of us going through it, whatever it may be, keep fighting. you are loved and wanted. something I have to tell myself regardless of hearing it from my family and friends. we're here for you, Dave. ❤
You are incredible for sharing this. It’s extremely important. I’m glad you are getting help and I hope you soon have better days ahead. ❤❤❤
That was a super powerful Video Dave. Well done.
I’ve been there, on that precipice.
I fought long and hard (& I know the battle is never over) but I learnt a valuable lesson.
You said it yourself - You are not alone!
These dark feeling that drag you away from those who love you - they hate the spotlight. What I discovered was the more I told people what they were doing to me, they more those feelings started to leave me alone. Today, I feel happier and stronger - better able to deal with the darkness.
We must always Beware of Darkness, right?
We’re all different,
No one is perfect,
No one is normal.
But you are a hero for sharing this mate. You’re a good man, Respect to you Dave.
Hi Dave if you ever feel you can't cope please always share with family, friend's, anyone. Believe me your bringing us CZcamsrs a lot of pleasure with your amazing guitar playing and gigs. Lots of respect to you. Love to you and people in need.❤❤
Hi Dave, I have followed you for a long time. Thank you for sharing your gift with us, both as an inspiration for all of us aspiring musos and also as someone who is not afraid to be real and speak up about the things that others would never. You have given me and many others a good reminder to check in with the ones we love and also to speak up in times of need. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
Hang in there, Dave. It's always darkest before the dawn. A cliche maybe but in this mad world, seemingly extraordinary responses are understandable. I have suffered from depression for years and thankfully, with the support of my family & friends, i have learned to deal with it. Like you, i am a musician and playing my guitar gives me solace and i'm sure you feel the same. So keep on rockin'!
Dave, you're truly a living legend amongst us all - you're a constant beam of inspiration and are one of the all-time greats in many of our eyes. Please know how much you're loved all around the world. It's never easy, but that makes victory taste even sweeter. Rock on, Dave ❤
Love from our little clan.Thank you for being so generous in sharing this, brought me to tears (55 year old male). I've been there. Time to invest in your own wellness, Dave.
You are not alone Dave. I have spent most of my life in a state of despair and depression. Love of music is the ONLY thing that I have. It keeps me going. I have tried to seek solace with God but it only works some of the time.
Dave you been an inspiration to be open about any of this. Your videos have helped me and inspired on guitar playing….all the way through the pandemic and losing my mum and finding myself living on my own. The one thing was my playing guitars that’s got me through life in general. We’re all here for your Dave! As a spiritual believer I think the deer you saw was definitely some kind of guide…. Who knows…. Take care Dave one other thing I think people should say (instead of how you doing) to how you surviving?
Rise! Dave… the black dog isn’t strong enough to hold on forever. We are children of GOD and loved you give joy to so many 🙏❤️
"I don't have a good opinion of myself, I never have, it was stolen from me when I was at school". Dave that ressonated so strong with me, that's the kind of hurt that truly changes you forever, and doesn't matter how much other tell that you are kind, great or any other kind of compliments, you just cannot accept it, because deep down we chose to believe that it's not true. I wish you well my friend, you are kind and compassionate soul, the healing will come eventually being true to our nature. Big hug !
Wishing you peace, love, and strength Dave. Lost my brother from another mother 11 years ago to the "disease ". I think about him every day. Thanks for being public about this. 🙏
Deep respect for being brave enough to talk about such a difficult topic so openly and in an honest way.
Thank you, always a great watch.
As a PTSD veteran, I get it. Do NOT let this beat you. I wrote a song about it. I'm still working on the music part. But I have the words. God I wish I had the music
It’ll come to you.
@@thedavesimpson the music is in my head. It's the knowing how to play it seems to be the issue. Lol
Maybe you should collaborate with Dave, send him the lyrics. X
@@dwallings I would love too. It is, I think, an amazing song. It has the potential to be great. I mean epic great. I didn't think I could right something like this. In my head it is bluesy/rock/Chris Stapleton esk.
Dave. I urge you to listen to Neville Goddard’s lectures on here!
22:37 These are wise words. Thanks for talking about this, takes a lot of of bravery.
You have a loving family and that's a great step to getting better. Good luck Dave, and sorry you went through this.
So glad you're here. Keep getting help and keep talking with those you love and trust.
You have many fans. You are one of the best guitarists I've ever listened to. Very versatile and creative with great touch and control. You are brilliant. Believe. Thanks for all your videos. ❤
Dissociation in the context of PTSD is a brutal thing.
And scary as hell
stay strong
You are a kind soul, thank you for sharing this
Dave watching you for years just remember. Never go against the grain of your clock ⏰️ and drink black Coffee every morning if you can and take life 1 hour at a time. Every one suffers from burn out of life. You rock Brother!!! Us guitar nerds 🤓 need ya around!!! Master of solid state 💪🏻 stay strong! 💪🏻
Absolutely 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
You are right, he is the master of solid state
Much love, hugs and respect Dave. I can clearly see you are a worthy courageous human being and an inspiration to so many people - not just guitar players. Please try to be strong Dave even on those bad days when the Black Dog comes calling. We all love you man.
Everything is temporary but your music 🎶 is some of the most beautiful things I've ever heard and will always be with us ,stay blessed 🙏
Thanks Dave - You're an amazing human being for sharing what many of us hide❤ You're NOT alone!
Many people don’t hear what we mean when we say things like “I’m tired” or “I’m frustrated” or “I’m overwhelmed”…
Whatever you needed at that time it was probably rest or recuperation. I often feel jealous of folks like you with this wonderful practice space for guitar; I think “man he’s got it made”. But life is more than enjoying your passions and hard things often get in the way. Hope you are feeling much more clarity soon.