That 1st question was such a trigger, BIG hug to anony. Kids should never fight/beg/try to build or fix a relationship/ with their parents. Heal, forgive and let go for your mental health.
I am celebrating my first month sober so i started calling it Winning Wednesdays where i try have "honest" conversations with myself. Will definitely use your vlogs to remind myself ❤❤ thank you boo
i pray to god that i receive this information and may us the young people do not let social media dedicate our lifestyle lets prioritise god first and everything else will follow🙏🏽 Thank you Auntie darling for being the big sis in our life❤️🥹
The impact you have had in my life simply because of sharing your new journey with God is something that you’ll never understand, but it is something that I will be eternally grateful for. May God bless you ❤
I don’t believe any best friend of 10 years would just leave a friendship without there being a reason. We sometimes don’t take accountability for our actions and just blame the other person for leaving. Introspection is so important for one’s growth. It’s important to ask ourselves “what could I have done wrong that a person who has been my best friend for so long would just cut me off?”, “what could have been going on in her life for her to make that kind of decision?”, “have I been a supportive friend” The answers to those questions usually provide answers on how to move on and heal. Another way would also be to ask the person if you feel like they can provide you with clarity. If you didn’t do anything wrong then that’s okay too. But always introspect first. I enjoyed this wine Wednesday. I love your sit downs. 🎉🎉🤍
You're absolutely stunning🥰🥰Your story about losing your friend of 10 years and your reflections on your mom are deeply relatable. It's touching how you share your experiences. Your responses to the questions were just perfect❤Jesus Christ Wednesday is far 😂
sometimes people cut you off because you did them wrong, you might be used to doing something to someone without knowing that what you doing is offends your friend because she never said that she doesn't like it. this person wont even talk to you about it, she will just cut you off. im that type of person that hold everything in and will cut you off over a simple thing. the whole time you think i cut you off for something simple kanti its from something you did 5 years ago that never set well with me. sometimes we think people cut us off and we don't understand why but most of the time, you caused this person so much hurt. not everyone is confrontational, others would rather remove themselves from people and situations than talking about it. as for me, when i cut a person off best believe that its a build up of things its never just one thing.
I write my mom letters as a way of me opening up. It helps because I'm able to pour my heart out and it gives her time to digest what I'm telling her and react in a more calm manner
With the issue of Friendship…I’ll speak from experience, sometimes it’s not you cutting off people(intentionally) sometimes the friend might have went through a life changing experience and it altered who they are …they might not know how to connect with you anymore or don’t see a “common ground “ for the both of you. But I hope she at least tells you what going on. Sometimes it’s really not you being a bad person. Life experiences change us and you sometimes struggle to move from that ❤
It was VERY hard for me to start reading the Bible but I found out that confiding in God about it and asking him to help you to enjoy reading your Bible. Hope this helps.
Aunty🥺 I've literally watched this 3 times😭 I've been saved since high school and watching your relationship with God has been so refreshing. Thank you so much for this♥️
Ohhh Sana! My hill to die on.📍 Aunty you definitely fed me some spell. Cause haibo! Why am I so obsessed ngawe??Nah Sis you really stole my heart.😭 However we missed wine Wednesdays 🥂🥂and I'm happy we back 😊❤❤❤ Thank you Gorgeous Gorgeous Sis.
Motivated for sure because woow what a way to end my Wednesday looved it Fooooor Suuure ❤❤❤❤ shuuuu 😢😢😢 and emotions in me are mixed trust and believe damn Xoli ❤❤😢
Aunty Darling. You're doing it again. Look what God did. God this God that girlie all the way. He is forever gracious. The lessons he teaches through you. Man he is everything. Thank you for listening to your spirit and being true to you. You are leading all 161K whether we know it or not. Love this for you ❤
Hi aunty darlin❤ today I just wanna take this moment and appreciate you...I'm soo greatful to have you in my life ever since I've started watching your channel and deciding to start accepting God in my life I see life in a different perspective now...May God keep on blessing you with everything great in life...and I wanna say thank you so much for being your true self it also made me believe in myself and love myself to the fullest ❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's my first time watching wine Wednesday and damn....Xoli you are truly a blessing to the Darlings, this season was a reminder that we should let God be the center of our lives njhe ❤❤I really enjoyed this.
OMG. So like I barely have the time to watch vlogs especially because a lot of people become boring and add very little value. I'd always watch yours when I crave vlogs and TODAY! Sana I am gonna be here every week to watch. Also, praying for a man has blessed me with the best relationship ever. God bless your journey my love.
Thank you so much for a beautiful Vlog. Am 36 years and I feel like am learning a lot from you, in fact I feel like ur the older sister in terms of the maturity level🙈😁❤️Thank you so much Xoli❤
I'm happy to be here shem❤Mam is giving us segments of content...love it here keh sana, my fav recent segment is perfectly imperfect. You talk sense.God sent.❤❤❤❤
I’m late😩but it’s great catching up on your videos , Welcome back Aunty ❤️ We love the JesusThisJesusThat content please never stop speaking about God!!
"God will cause confusion in a place you're not supposed to be." I heard you aunty❤❤
That 1st question was such a trigger, BIG hug to anony. Kids should never fight/beg/try to build or fix a relationship/ with their parents. Heal, forgive and let go for your mental health.
I am celebrating my first month sober so i started calling it Winning Wednesdays where i try have "honest" conversations with myself. Will definitely use your vlogs to remind myself ❤❤ thank you boo
You got this! ❤️❤️
This is beautiful ❤❤❤❤
I'm loving this ❤🎉
Yesss wena🎉
I have never watched wine Wednesday segments , I used to skip them but today I found myself here and I don’t regret it
i pray to god that i receive this information and may us the young people do not let social media dedicate our lifestyle lets prioritise god first and everything else will follow🙏🏽 Thank you Auntie darling for being the big sis in our life❤️🥹
Christ brings contentment and peace. I pray for aunties to seek Him. Love you all, love how you answered all questions with humility and honesty 🤗❤️
😂😂😂As for ngifuna lelitje la Davide for my enemies 😂😂 kept me laughing like a mad person 🤣 my aunty's jokes are the stress reliever ke sana❤❤
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The first question got me so emotional because I relate 🥹
Xoli UOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL and your personality?! AND you are God fearing???? Ultimate package!!
Thank you love ❤❤❤
Dear God... kindly keep this woman for us ❤
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JesusThisJesusThat girlies 😍❤️
Exactly !! ❤
PERIOD😊
The impact you have had in my life simply because of sharing your new journey with God is something that you’ll never understand, but it is something that I will be eternally grateful for. May God bless you ❤
Oh bandla 🥺❤️❤️😭
Whenever I see that wine, I see Kamo leslie😂😂😂
Wine Wednesday is back!! 🎉🎉🎉 Love it here
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I don’t believe any best friend of 10 years would just leave a friendship without there being a reason. We sometimes don’t take accountability for our actions and just blame the other person for leaving. Introspection is so important for one’s growth. It’s important to ask ourselves “what could I have done wrong that a person who has been my best friend for so long would just cut me off?”, “what could have been going on in her life for her to make that kind of decision?”, “have I been a supportive friend” The answers to those questions usually provide answers on how to move on and heal. Another way would also be to ask the person if you feel like they can provide you with clarity. If you didn’t do anything wrong then that’s okay too. But always introspect first.
I enjoyed this wine Wednesday. I love your sit downs. 🎉🎉🤍
Thank you mama and i definitely understood your point !
How you speak about your mom😍❤️Oh sis I relate moms are everything and more🥰😭❤️
Wow when u said "we think we losing things kanty we getting peace ✌😌 " yho I heard it loud and clear
Might I add how GORGEOUS you are?😭🔥❤️
Thank you love ❤
The background??? Insane 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yoh girl your makeup is fire,and that curly hair suits you
Thank you doll ❤
I visited Paul Clever wine estate in CPT in 2022. I really loved it and bought that exact wine! Cheers Xoli ❤️❤️❤️
I'm so inspired by you .i feel so blessed to even listen to you talking about God .thank you Xoli ❤️
Oh this is so kind 🥺❤️
You're absolutely stunning🥰🥰Your story about losing your friend of 10 years and your reflections on your mom are deeply relatable. It's touching how you share your experiences. Your responses to the questions were just perfect❤Jesus Christ Wednesday is far 😂
Thank you so much!!
sometimes people cut you off because you did them wrong, you might be used to doing something to someone without knowing that what you doing is offends your friend because she never said that she doesn't like it. this person wont even talk to you about it, she will just cut you off. im that type of person that hold everything in and will cut you off over a simple thing. the whole time you think i cut you off for something simple kanti its from something you did 5 years ago that never set well with me. sometimes we think people cut us off and we don't understand why but most of the time, you caused this person so much hurt. not everyone is confrontational, others would rather remove themselves from people and situations than talking about it. as for me, when i cut a person off best believe that its a build up of things its never just one thing.
I write my mom letters as a way of me opening up. It helps because I'm able to pour my heart out and it gives her time to digest what I'm telling her and react in a more calm manner
This is so much better !
Wine wednesdays are finally back 🎉🥳🥳💃🏽💃🏽❤️❤️❤️🌸
Yes they are love ❤
Next wine Wednesday, makeup tutorial of this exact look please, stunning!
lol okay mama ❤
🥂 so much wisdom🥰u r blessed Darling❤️
With the issue of Friendship…I’ll speak from experience, sometimes it’s not you cutting off people(intentionally) sometimes the friend might have went through a life changing experience and it altered who they are …they might not know how to connect with you anymore or don’t see a “common ground “ for the both of you. But I hope she at least tells you what going on. Sometimes it’s really not you being a bad person. Life experiences change us and you sometimes struggle to move from that ❤
Exactly ! ❤
Having my fav wine and doing a sit down, ahhhhh we truly back as Darlins😍…. Lemme get a glass also and watch🤍
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It was VERY hard for me to start reading the Bible but I found out that confiding in God about it and asking him to help you to enjoy reading your Bible. Hope this helps.
Clink, clink B... bazalwane! 😂 Wine Wednesday is baaaack!!!
lol definitely using ha from now on ❤
@monde_ntsundwane you are gorgeous ❤
Click click B... Bazalwane! Wine Wednesday is back kk.... ♥️♥️♥️We are your people Xoli
This is a good one 😅
😂😂 clink clink
God must be proud because each question you encourage praying about the situation. Love it here ❤🎉
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Aunty🥺
I've literally watched this 3 times😭
I've been saved since high school and watching your relationship with God has been so refreshing.
Thank you so much for this♥️
Wow, thank you
Ooooph enjoyed this so much.
So glad WWXO is back ♥️♥️♥️
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Absolutely excited to watch this segment again ❤️❤️
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You know what it is I'm soo glad Wine haa is back!!!!❤❤❤
OMG!! I've misseddddddd Wine 🍷 Wednesday 💃💃😭😭😭👌👌💯💯
Hope you enjoyed it!
I definitely see us reaching 200k subscribers this year😊❤
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I appreciate you so much Ntombi. Your advice is so real. I’m so excited for the next one 🎉
You are so welcome
this is so powerful
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The Vlog we've all been waiting for ❤and missing 🎉🎉
Ohhh Sana! My hill to die on.📍 Aunty you definitely fed me some spell. Cause haibo! Why am I so obsessed ngawe??Nah Sis you really stole my heart.😭 However we missed wine Wednesdays 🥂🥂and I'm happy we back 😊❤❤❤ Thank you Gorgeous Gorgeous Sis.
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She's is our own Drug store ❤
It was beautiful listening to you talk about your mum❤
Motivated for sure because woow what a way to end my Wednesday looved it Fooooor Suuure ❤❤❤❤ shuuuu 😢😢😢 and emotions in me are mixed trust and believe damn Xoli ❤❤😢
❤❤❤❤❤❤You see that prayer God answer it so quickly and sometimes you feel like maybe you were not ready to face the reality. 😢
Exactly ❤
Looked very Gorgeous on this Vlog!❤❤❤🔥the last question yoh! Letting go of a relationship that no longer serves you is hard!😢
Continue being authentic Xoli. I love this ❤
Is Wine Wednesday really back??? Just saw that! Missed them sana, Aunty darling you will always be famous mama❤️🥺
Yes we are ❤️❤️❤️
Wine Wednesday clocking in.❤❤❤
Aunty Darling. You're doing it again. Look what God did. God this God that girlie all the way. He is forever gracious. The lessons he teaches through you. Man he is everything. Thank you for listening to your spirit and being true to you. You are leading all 161K whether we know it or not. Love this for you ❤
Thank you so much 😊
You look 🔥🔥🔥Xoli please do a makeup tutorial on this look 🥰😍
Thank you! Will do love ! ❤️
Ohh preach Aunty darling 🥺❤️we love the God this ,God that talks 🤌🏿.
WW is back and we are here for it ❤ You look so beautiful Aunty Xoli
Thank you so much 🤗
Missed you. Missed you so much🥺🩷
You're the best!
The video quality is insane🔥🔥🔥🔥😍 I love it here
Hi aunty darlin❤ today I just wanna take this moment and appreciate you...I'm soo greatful to have you in my life ever since I've started watching your channel and deciding to start accepting God in my life I see life in a different perspective now...May God keep on blessing you with everything great in life...and I wanna say thank you so much for being your true self it also made me believe in myself and love myself to the fullest ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is so beautiful !
Thank you so much for your kind words mama ❤
I hope the Lord blesses you abundantly with all your hearts desires ❤
I literally ran when I saw you uploaded!❤️❤️❤️
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Yass we back I love this segment so much❤❤
Me too❤
The power you just said right now! the art of letting go...🤗🤗
Thank you Darling❤❤ these are very much needed conversations... so helpful
You are so welcome 🤗
😍😍🔥🔥🔥you’re gorrrrjas’❤️❤️thanks aunty!!!!!
Thank you love ❤
It's my first time watching wine Wednesday and damn....Xoli you are truly a blessing to the Darlings, this season was a reminder that we should let God be the center of our lives njhe ❤❤I really enjoyed this.
Thanks for watching love
OMG. So like I barely have the time to watch vlogs especially because a lot of people become boring and add very little value. I'd always watch yours when I crave vlogs and TODAY! Sana I am gonna be here every week to watch. Also, praying for a man has blessed me with the best relationship ever. God bless your journey my love.
2:06 AMEN AMEN😭😭🥺
Where you are supposed to be there will be peace!!!
Done it's Chiy... Thank you for this ❤
Wow the wisdom you have ❤
Thank you so much for a beautiful Vlog. Am 36 years and I feel like am learning a lot from you, in fact I feel like ur the older sister in terms of the maturity level🙈😁❤️Thank you so much Xoli❤
I mean't 36 years old🙈🤣
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This look is giving Aliyah😍
I tap into that anointing...indeed it's gonna be a good year
Mother of the Nation🤞🏼♥️🥺
❤❤❤❤❤❤ love the talking vlogs, we learn so much from you Aunty more than you could ever imagine and im truly grateful for you ❤❤
Thank you so much 😊
I'm happy to be here shem❤Mam is giving us segments of content...love it here keh sana, my fav recent segment is perfectly imperfect. You talk sense.God sent.❤❤❤❤
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Your mum sounds amazing!
The best!🤗❤️
Love these wine Wednesday segments!! Glad they're back, my heart is so full ❤❤
Thanks for the vlog Xoli , it was worth listening to it. Answers were so honest love you girlie ❤❤
My pleasure 😊
Not me saying cling cling with a brutal😂😂😂❤
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Wine Wednesday is back 🥺❤️❤️
Can't believe Wine Wednesday is back🎉🎉🎉🎉
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I needed this😢😢,
Your makeup? ATE😍
Thank you! 🤗
Yessssss! Wine wednesdays is baaaccckkk 🤗🥳🥂
Yesss doll❤
“Dubula madzedze phez’ kombede…” 😭😭😭😭 whuuuuuu Xoli why are you this person???? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Okay sorry 😭😭😭
I am mad this dropped when i qas offline 😊 um gladddd wine Wednesday's are backkkk
Thoroughly enjoyed this ❤❤
So glad!
Oh my word , whatchu mean WINE WEDNESDAY'S ARE BACK ? YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS . I missed these so much , thank aunty darlin ❤
You are so welcome my darlin ❤️❤️❤️
“Im just a child of God” 😂😂😂😂
I love you Xoli❤
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Finally Madam blessed us ❤🎉
Finally it’s back😩💗
The truth is bitter kodwa It is the truth... I love you‼️‼️
Loved this episode ❤❤❤
Thank you for this ...i needed it....taking notes🥰
I enjoyed this video i can't for another one♥♥
Just when I poured out my wine in the sink, you had to drop Wine Wednesday, now I want wine!😭
WW is back and it's in the best channel ever!!
Thank you love ❤
I’m late😩but it’s great catching up on your videos , Welcome back Aunty ❤️
We love the JesusThisJesusThat content please never stop speaking about God!!
Oh My Day immediately just got better. Xoli thank you for always giving us you especially when you know we miss you 😭❤️
THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS COMING BACK MY LOVE
I enjoyed this…you really speak sense
I need the stone for my enemies😅😅😅love you so much❤
Beautiful one, can’t wait for the next one. ❤
Thank you! 😊