I hope you know how we the OGs/ your big sisters are so proud of your growth. ❤❤❤ it has been such a pleasure to watch you experience different phases of your life, you're doing well Xoli.
I’m currently job hunting cos I hate where I work, the environment is so toxic and it drains the life out of me. Hearing you mention that God removes you from such places and places you in a space that he has created for you was comforting because I’ve had this fear of taking that leap of faith and pushing my channel so that I can do that full time.
It is how you deliver the advise, the message, the wisdom that makes us get it. It’s the uniqueness of the approach that makes think, that makes us make certain changes in our lives. I bumped into your channel in December 2023, when I was going through so much and it has been my saving grace ever since. Again, I’m eternally grateful ❤
Hey auntie❤ , I'd like to add something. Having a discerning spirit is very important it's not every time that when something doesn't give you peace thn it's not meant for you. The devil will definitely interfere with things ordained by God because he doesn't want us to thrive and when you have a discerning spirit you'll be able to pick up that this is from God and the noise is the devil trying to make you to let go of those blessings. In such situations you should pray for strength and wisdom to overcome this. If you're confused thn pray for strength, trust and believe that God will give you the strength to fight for whatever only if it has been ordained by God. When I say fight I'm referring to praying and faith
If a girl is in her twenties (20s) and is not a DARLING then angazi yazi😂😂 like what exactly are you doing….. Xoli is literally the big sister we all need YOU WILL FOREVER BE FAMOUS ❤❤
Hey Aunty, you're so right about your 20s being for yourself. I am 27 and struggling with that, it's so hard because I am the first born and as a first born I have been through so much and had to grow up so much more rapidly than even my elder cousin. So for a while I felt like I didn't have choices. I had to do what's is right so my brother has a different upbringing. Only for me to resent him a bit, because he doesn't see or understand the sacrifices. But that's the thing, I'm learning if you want to sacrifice do it, the other person has nothing to do with it.
Honestly being introduced to you during covid was the best thing my sister could have done for my mental health... Thank you for choosing to share your life with us. I hope and pray that God does for you what you do for our mental health❤❤❤
Thank God for Xoli😇 thank you for that decision you made for starting your own youtube channel❤and thank you for for being that big sister I wish I had❤
You are enough and you are loved Xoli ❤ I am super proud of your growth. Everything has its time and phase. I will continue loving you ❤🎉🎉🎊 and thank you for the upload ❤🥂🧃
Darling I have a question. I have been a Christian all my life am (31 years this year) and it seems like God just doesn't hear my prayers, dilo ha di kopane mahn, so how do I put God as a center of my life and how do I know that he is talking to me? . another question, how did you know you are making a right decision by leaving your 9-5 Job and taking a risk of starting your content creation career? I have started to resent my job because there is no growth here yet am afraid to leave because I don't have a plan.
I love wine Wednesday conversations, praying for everything is top tier😊😊😊❤and one thing I love about God is that he will reply, there will always be signs. Lots of love
Please remember that sometimes the people that will set you up are people ekhaya as in ( lana kwa darlings not in a bad way) but the truth is some are here to hear kuthi uzothini ke namhlanje and post for clout , it did hit where it was suppose to ,so nje thina we are here mama riding with you ❤.also weeee thank you for spoiling us like this aunty heee thank you ❤
Only the OGs know that we are lovers in this house we love love and we definitely going to get our uncle Darlin and we going to get married it's only a matter of God's timing.,, socialize Wena bbe❤❤❤
Not me feeling so down my mood was just off today, a lot it’s happening Auntie but we all know as darlin we trust god with everything ❤🫂 #Notification gang ☺️
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Thank you so much missXO for the lovely conversation I resonate so much with it. Love marriage and toxic work environment. ❤ the day I centered God in my life. Everything changed for the better and I found peace 😊.
Darling , your becoming is so beautiful to witness. I pray that God blesses you with everything that you desire. Continue staying true to yourself❤️❤️.
One thing ABOUT YOOOOOUUUU...ke Sana in all HONESTY you WILL BLOOOOCK ALL THE NEGATIVE ENERGIES LOVE IT YOU FOR BAAAABYYY❤❤❤❤ AND THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS BEING SO STRONG AND FOCUSED ...
I’ve made a choice to wait for God. After my breakup with the fiancé,I kneel down every time I meet a man to ask God if he’s the one, if not May he chases him far away from me… it’s been 4 years now and I trust the process 🙏
I hope you know how we the OGs/ your big sisters are so proud of your growth. ❤❤❤ it has been such a pleasure to watch you experience different phases of your life, you're doing well Xoli.
Thank you so much!! ❤️
Literally it's beautiful to watch when someone joins our club🤗❤️
Am praying for a bible studies for darlins 🙏🏾..Always gorgeous.God bless you for Darlins Auntie ❤️🌸
Thank you so much
Oh baby that will be nice 😭🤍
That would actually slap😭yes!
"YOU KNOW HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF, YOU ARE SELFISH WITH YOUR TIME" Thank you Mama Darlin' for this bar!!! I love you
mama,am i able to dm you on this platform?
I’m currently job hunting cos I hate where I work, the environment is so toxic and it drains the life out of me. Hearing you mention that God removes you from such places and places you in a space that he has created for you was comforting because I’ve had this fear of taking that leap of faith and pushing my channel so that I can do that full time.
Wine Wednesdays should honestly become a podcast. I could listen to your voice all day❤
Maybe one day! ❤️
It is how you deliver the advise, the message, the wisdom that makes us get it. It’s the uniqueness of the approach that makes think, that makes us make certain changes in our lives. I bumped into your channel in December 2023, when I was going through so much and it has been my saving grace ever since. Again, I’m eternally grateful ❤
Thank you for your kind words my love ❤
Hey auntie❤ , I'd like to add something. Having a discerning spirit is very important it's not every time that when something doesn't give you peace thn it's not meant for you. The devil will definitely interfere with things ordained by God because he doesn't want us to thrive and when you have a discerning spirit you'll be able to pick up that this is from God and the noise is the devil trying to make you to let go of those blessings. In such situations you should pray for strength and wisdom to overcome this. If you're confused thn pray for strength, trust and believe that God will give you the strength to fight for whatever only if it has been ordained by God. When I say fight I'm referring to praying and faith
If a girl is in her twenties (20s) and is not a DARLING then angazi yazi😂😂 like what exactly are you doing….. Xoli is literally the big sister we all need
YOU WILL FOREVER BE FAMOUS ❤❤
Honestly!!❤
Here to mark the reg Aunty!❤😂
Her name is Xoli Gcabashe❤❤❤❤I stand a queen❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hey Aunty, you're so right about your 20s being for yourself. I am 27 and struggling with that, it's so hard because I am the first born and as a first born I have been through so much and had to grow up so much more rapidly than even my elder cousin. So for a while I felt like I didn't have choices. I had to do what's is right so my brother has a different upbringing. Only for me to resent him a bit, because he doesn't see or understand the sacrifices. But that's the thing, I'm learning if you want to sacrifice do it, the other person has nothing to do with it.
Love this community so much ! I make sure I show up even when I'm late on this channel ❤ We love you mama so much don't ever give up on us.
How I like watching her while I’m studying 📑. Your voice is so soothing.
Honestly being introduced to you during covid was the best thing my sister could have done for my mental health... Thank you for choosing to share your life with us. I hope and pray that God does for you what you do for our mental health❤❤❤
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"...dead, gone, boom ghost buster..." 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I died 😂😂😂
Please, that was hilarious!! 😂😂😂
I got that and it was hilarious 😂😂😂
I needed to watch this.. it has validated what I'm going thru..❤
Thank God for Xoli😇 thank you for that decision you made for starting your own youtube channel❤and thank you for for being that big sister I wish I had❤
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THE FIRST ONE YESSSSSS🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Gonna have a great night for sure❤😂🎉🎉
I enjoyed watching this video ❤️😊 as for "this is my stranger's bag, I'll guard it with my life" 😂😂❤️ they can never make me hate you
Another important one. "Tell yourself... Focus and know the end goal"... Thank you Miss Xo❤
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Aunti Darling u give out such good advice. Today is even better, all of the answers nje.🙌🏽❤ thank you so much.☺️
You are so welcome 🤗
Love love these girl talks ❤ thanks Miss XO
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been watching you since first year I'm now a postgrad and you keep elevating puuurrrr.
I started at second year and I’m a postgrad now 🥹 she brings light when academics are dark 😂😂 after my tests I catch up always
You are enough and you are loved Xoli ❤ I am super proud of your growth. Everything has its time and phase. I will continue loving you ❤🎉🎉🎊 and thank you for the upload ❤🥂🧃
Thank you so much!!
am here to mark the register #PRESENT🙋♀🙋♀
The first advice??oh I needed to hear that! Thank you so much 😭👏❤
You're so welcome!
The XO effect!!!
Darling I have a question. I have been a Christian all my life am (31 years this year) and it seems like God just doesn't hear my prayers, dilo ha di kopane mahn, so how do I put God as a center of my life and how do I know that he is talking to me? . another question, how did you know you are making a right decision by leaving your 9-5 Job and taking a risk of starting your content creation career? I have started to resent my job because there is no growth here yet am afraid to leave because I don't have a plan.
Get well soon, thank you for creating content for us even though you're not well❤❤❤
Thank you so much! 😊
You are effortlessly funny please 🤣🤣😭😭
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We’re spoilt rotten 🥺🥺 love this for the darlins😩❤️
Uye ubamhle more and more ke sana Aunty Darling 💐🩷😍
Thank you love ❤
I love wine Wednesday conversations, praying for everything is top tier😊😊😊❤and one thing I love about God is that he will reply, there will always be signs. Lots of love
Please remember that sometimes the people that will set you up are people ekhaya as in ( lana kwa darlings not in a bad way) but the truth is some are here to hear kuthi uzothini ke namhlanje and post for clout , it did hit where it was suppose to ,so nje thina we are here mama riding with you ❤.also weeee thank you for spoiling us like this aunty heee thank you ❤
Favourite day of the week with my favourite person ❤
Sit downs with you makes perfect sense 👌❤
love the first advice you gave us ❤️
Glad it was helpful! ❤️
Wednesdays are for the darlings ❤🥳🥹
Love the wine Wednesday’s. Love the advice ❤
Beautiful ❤ zitshele vele ngoba abantu abanaqiniso
You definitely still a teenager mama🤭🤭❤️Thanks for your constant wise words.
DARLINS , GRAB YOURSELVES A GLASS OF WINE CAUSE ITS WINE WEDNESDAY WITH AUNTY DARLIN , YASSSSSSSSSSSSS ❤😮💨🍷
Gurl the new background dopest❤❤❤❤
Only the OGs know that we are lovers in this house we love love and we definitely going to get our uncle Darlin and we going to get married it's only a matter of God's timing.,, socialize Wena bbe❤❤❤
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Marking the register🫡❤
Miiiii Thatha...Miii bamba😂..oooh darling just yesterday I was thinking about the exact same topic on dating as a christian. Thank you❤🎉
❤❤❤❤❤ Darlins gather here, we are being spoiled rotten ❤❤❤❤❤
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we need longer videos darling 😮💨🥰
PREACH Aunty darling! Enkosi ntombi "Ndizozixelela!"
“This is my stranger’s bag” 😩 sent me 😂😂😂
Love it here. I learn so much whenever I’m here❤️
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Not me feeling so down my mood was just off today, a lot it’s happening Auntie but we all know as darlin we trust god with everything
❤🫂 #Notification gang ☺️
It's beautiful to watch you grow Xoli welcome to our Club❤️🤗
Having my glass of great wine influenced by Miss XO ❤
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Please keep on standing on business we love it here🤞🏻😍
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ this one was made for me, # I don't like judgemental Christians you never know someone's journey. You never ever know God's journey for someone's life , it's never been or will ever be their business. ❤
It's always good to listen and watch you giving us advice❤
I'm so glad!
Checking in❤❤
Thank you so much Aunty Darlin’ for always keeping it real and just being you ❤
Exactly that what you want ukungena esthenjini you dnt owe any friends approval for ukushada kwakho❤
Exactly
Wise words darlins bath lone ndlebe uzwile ke sana 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️
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Thanks for those words coz I feel so out of place for only studying at 30 & have nothing 2 show for these 3 decades
You got this! ❤️
Ngaze ngalate😆🥴😍🥰❣ohhh yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!❤Thanks aunty!
I needed to hear this🙏
Love you always gorgeous praying girl. May that throat get better soon❤️
Thank you so much!!
Right on darlins ❤
Notification gang❤
I love Miss XO please!!!❤️🧘🏾♂️
Oooh she’s back for real😍😍😍
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YOU DESERVE THEM ALL...GET WELL SOON QUEEN🥺🥺
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Thank you so much missXO for the lovely conversation I resonate so much with it. Love marriage and toxic work environment. ❤ the day I centered God in my life. Everything changed for the better and I found peace 😊.
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I am sooo happy nkos’yam 🙌🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I love you so much Auntie 🥰🥰
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We are definitely being blessed sanas with the vlogs 🥹😊 kunini ndihleka as for this is “my strangers bag” 😭😭😂😂😂
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Road to 170k darlins 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I am busy watching your videos back to back, coz I have been away.. ❤️ I now think you should also have a podcast ntonton.
Darling , your becoming is so beautiful to witness. I pray that God blesses you with everything that you desire. Continue staying true to yourself❤️❤️.
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Love this for you XO! Love love !
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One thing ABOUT YOOOOOUUUU...ke Sana in all HONESTY you WILL BLOOOOCK ALL THE NEGATIVE ENERGIES LOVE IT YOU FOR BAAAABYYY❤❤❤❤ AND THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS BEING SO STRONG AND FOCUSED ...
Its good 2 be here❤Its nice to be here
XO baby gal... i'm inspired darling
What a time to be alive😅 Not me having wine and I’m watching wine Wednesday,love love
love it here. 😊🫠
Please also include your mommy duties diaries in the vlogs( motivation)/ sit downs.
Mommy duties ?
I am just going to watch this again so I can drink wine ngoba naku liyashona solo kute I wine Wednesday 🥹
We're so spoilt and l've been MIA.
I can't wait to catch up on all the videos that I haven’t watched this weekend.
I’ve made a choice to wait for God. After my breakup with the fiancé,I kneel down every time I meet a man to ask God if he’s the one, if not May he chases him far away from me… it’s been 4 years now and I trust the process 🙏
Thank you for loving us Aunty darlin❤
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where do we send in our questions? - love this
I’ll have a questionnaire link on Instagram next week
My favourite person in the whole entire world 🥹 thank you for blessing us on such a lovely Wednesday night ❤️
You are so welcome! 🙏🏽
You look so gorgeous bestie😍😍😍😍
Thank you my love ❤️
Love you loads keep it up we here for you through and through 😌❤️❤️
Thank you so much!!
😢 the first question hut me really hard.
I made some of my biggest mistakes in my 20s
-what a beautiful way to end my day.❤
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Queen of consistency ❤
Abantu abenza lonto bayeke Aunty D banomona umntu uyohlala ethetha nalapho kungafuneki khona❤
We are spoiled in this house and we appreciate it ❤️🥹😌 the best of the best ❤️
Nkosyam I love this woman somuch❤
Drip check ngquuuuu❤️❤️
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The most consistent and reliable youtuber😊❤
Oh yes doll🥳♥️
❤ awwwww ,day made 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊