If Tom Cruise Comes Calling, Are You Joining Scientology? (with Maria Bamford) | Lovett or Leave it

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  • čas přidán 14. 08. 2023
  • Maria Bamford joins Lovett or Leave it to chat about cults, Tom Cruise, mental health, belonging and her new book, "Sure, I'll Join Your Cult."
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Komentáře • 175

  • @failureisanoption
    @failureisanoption Před 11 měsíci +138

    Maria Bamford is an amazing person. I'm glad y'all had her on, and I'm glad she made it out.

    • @elainsmith2032
      @elainsmith2032 Před 10 měsíci

      Is not making it out a thing with Lovett?

  • @imnadia84
    @imnadia84 Před 11 měsíci +97

    As a therapist who takes insurance, I continue to do so for principal, all my friends said it's easier to be self pay because no paperwork. I continue to take insurance because therapy needs to be available to everyone, not just those that can afford it. Sadly mental health continues to be out of reach for so many Americans.

    • @Eyecyou64
      @Eyecyou64 Před 11 měsíci

      Your friends sound like monsters

    • @geekdivaherself
      @geekdivaherself Před 11 měsíci +4

      Thank you very much!❤

    • @rossrobbins7707
      @rossrobbins7707 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Thank you for doing your part! I'm a peer support specialist, and every day I see how desperately people are hurting for connection, understanding, *healing*. One person helping another, one at a time, can change the world.

    • @thisisit333
      @thisisit333 Před 10 měsíci +6

      As someone who’s suffered from BiPolar2 for over 40 years, I so appreciate mental health professionals that do realize the inadequacy of our situation in the US because of ‘insurance.’
      During covid, I lost my job, thus my health insurance. I spent 3 years without therapy.
      I’m lucky I’m still alive.
      Thankfully my state offers a form of medicare that includes mental health. Although, it was difficult to access, because there are not enough therapists, or psychiatrists.

    • @dyan785
      @dyan785 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thank you for doing this

  • @Rollinwitit
    @Rollinwitit Před 11 měsíci +93

    Lovett did a perfect job of interviewing Maria. She is one of my favorite comedians.

    • @Neddoest
      @Neddoest Před 11 měsíci +5

      Always! She’s one of The Greats

    • @kmcq692
      @kmcq692 Před 10 měsíci +1

      He did! Smart man.

  • @dndndndndn419
    @dndndndndn419 Před 11 měsíci +56

    Maria’s humor is so woven into my brain that I find myself slipping into her mom’s voice in my head.

  • @VictoriaKnits
    @VictoriaKnits Před 11 měsíci +19

    “Peer counseling, horrible idea”. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sarahd.5244
    @sarahd.5244 Před 11 měsíci +71

    What bugs me is that some 12 step programs are mandated for people. They don't always work out, especially if you're not into the religious aspect, but you can be court-ordered to attend.
    Kaiser Permanente was wretched, I think I got like 10 sessions and then they would be like "oh you're cured right?" no that is not how mental health works!

    • @audreywellham2413
      @audreywellham2413 Před 11 měsíci +9

      🙏🏻💙. I agree. We should be so much better at this by now.

    • @Meganec3810
      @Meganec3810 Před 11 měsíci +8

      The easiest way to trigger me is to bring up KP mental health just soooo bad literally just I mean you need more help from dealing with them then the og disease anyways good luck on the journey!

    • @rdean150
      @rdean150 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Agreed. I think 12 step programs are beneficial. Both my parents have been in AA for decades and it has definitely helped them a lot. But it is undeniably *spiritual* , heavily focused on giving up control to god and trusting your life is part of some higher plan. Which is a shame, in my opinion, because it turns off many of us in the millennial and younger generations. And I definitely agree that it is problematic to make it court ordered, but at the same time it is far better than the alternative sentences that courts could dole out instead.

    • @user-vz7nm8cc2v
      @user-vz7nm8cc2v Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@rdean150 12-step work is spiritual, not religious... that is a difference WITH a distinction. In 12 Step work your higher power doesn't have to be God. Many Atheists make progress in 12-step work because it isn't religious. This is key.

    • @rdean150
      @rdean150 Před 11 měsíci

      @@user-vz7nm8cc2v Fair enough. Fixed.

  • @vanessawhitneypro
    @vanessawhitneypro Před 11 měsíci +36

    BRILLIANT Human Being... Love Maria Bamford!

  • @Dgarig665
    @Dgarig665 Před 11 měsíci +20

    1:15 Ex Jehovah's witness here. Worst cult ever.

    • @sissastern
      @sissastern Před 10 měsíci +5

      Same. But I'm glad they did acknowledge it's a cult!!!

  • @UnpurrfectRobyn
    @UnpurrfectRobyn Před 11 měsíci +21

    "If I wasn't okay and somebody noticed, LET ME KNOW!"
    I feel seen.

    • @marylhere
      @marylhere Před 10 měsíci +5

      That should be printed on a shirt or better yet a button…only someone who notices things will notice.

    • @thisisit333
      @thisisit333 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thankfully my sister has been aware of the signs, as I’ve had BiPolar2 for 40 years. She’s helped me enter the hospital before it was too late on 2 occasions.
      However, people at work just ignored the changes in my behavior.
      I’ve always been open and honest with people, yet too many people just don’t care.

  • @maryparkis6991
    @maryparkis6991 Před 11 měsíci +18

    Bamford is a treasure. An actual living jewel.

  • @janicebelfiore856
    @janicebelfiore856 Před 10 měsíci +17

    I love her! She is so open, warm, talented and real! A real person!

  • @missellehansen
    @missellehansen Před 11 měsíci +9

    Maria Bamford! Fucking love her.

  • @roscoemuttley
    @roscoemuttley Před 11 měsíci +17

    I love her. I am so happy she is still around.

  • @wrustle
    @wrustle Před 11 měsíci +14

    I love that you have Maria Bamford on the show.

  • @undeniablySomeGuy
    @undeniablySomeGuy Před 11 měsíci +13

    I don’t know How she manages to be incredibly hilarious but with so much heart

    • @dyan785
      @dyan785 Před 10 měsíci

      Well stated !

  • @julicoole
    @julicoole Před 11 měsíci +24

    This was great, maybe add Maria's name to the video title so more fans find it

    • @ROLtheWolf
      @ROLtheWolf Před 11 měsíci

      Right now, Jon's fishing for the larger pool of Tom Cruise fans, because of his superhero showman skilz!

  • @jonathanramirez6210
    @jonathanramirez6210 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Luenell one day, maria bamford the next? Wow I feel like John Lovett is finally making it in this world.

  • @titaniumteddybear
    @titaniumteddybear Před 11 měsíci +35

    Tom Cruise's most impressive feat as an actor was making that Scientology documentary where he simultaneously did exactly what the "Church" told him to and yet also made them look like complete idiots. I honestly believe that they've got proof he did something awful in the 80s and they've been blackmailing him ever since.

    • @morbidmanmusic
      @morbidmanmusic Před 11 měsíci +1

      So, you're in the church of stupid conspiracies!

    • @patreekotime4578
      @patreekotime4578 Před 10 měsíci

      Is being the poster-child for an insane cult that destroys families and sucks people dry not terrible enough?

  • @dbunnysport
    @dbunnysport Před 11 měsíci +19

    So much truth in a perfect hilarious package.
    I had no idea I had so much love for a lady I just heard of! New fan!!! ❤

  • @carolyntalbot947
    @carolyntalbot947 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Oh, Bamford is awesome! ❤

  • @m.a.b.4104
    @m.a.b.4104 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Anyone also hear after Maria guest hosting the latest What a weekday? She nailed it and I enjoyed it so much that I needed a second serving. Also her mental health advocacy is awesome and inspiring.

  • @AuthorCertifiedGoof
    @AuthorCertifiedGoof Před 10 měsíci +4

    I love Maria Bamford! Can’t wait to read her memoir!

  • @NoCreamedCorn
    @NoCreamedCorn Před 11 měsíci +10

    Maria is a GD National treasure!!

  • @chericercone2362
    @chericercone2362 Před 11 měsíci +14

    Maria is so wonderful. I've missed her over the last few years. She's still got it!!!

  • @tanyapobuda
    @tanyapobuda Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love Maria Bamford so much. She's brilliant.

  • @jonathanpatch5281
    @jonathanpatch5281 Před 11 měsíci +7

    1. She says, "...end up having a weird conversation..." like it's a bad thing.
    2. Of course the conversation is weird. Maria Bamford is in it.
    3. ...especially if the other person recognized her. If I sat next to her on a plane I'd really feel the pressure to bring my conversational A game vis-a-vis wit, insight and randomness.
    4. I think her tele-therapist has stumbled onto a new therapeutic tool: the "at least I don't have a baby" technique.
    5. Context is everything. Even an innocuous phrase like, "There's a tree in the courtyard," can pack quite a wallop if set up properly.
    Vintage Maria.

  • @gustavoaguado5449
    @gustavoaguado5449 Před 9 měsíci +1

    "If you're loved, you got no more ambition". Maria, you're so precious. That's a quote I'll keep with me :)

  • @jennyoconnor2798
    @jennyoconnor2798 Před 11 měsíci +9

    More Maria. This was fantastic!

  • @themorales6
    @themorales6 Před 11 měsíci +7

    What a great conversation. She’s effortlessly funny!

  • @rossrobbins7707
    @rossrobbins7707 Před 10 měsíci +2

    "If you're loved, you've got no more ambition!" 😂

  • @CariadChavez
    @CariadChavez Před 11 měsíci +8

    "Today's presenting sponsor is BetterHealth. BetterHealth: Of course you're stressed Christine, you just had a baby!"

  • @Thunder-Chief
    @Thunder-Chief Před 11 měsíci +12

    This interview had me in *stitches*! Maria Bamford has a new fan! Thanks, Jon!

  • @MrBogus213
    @MrBogus213 Před 11 měsíci +8

    She's just effortlessly funny

  • @hallohallo1332
    @hallohallo1332 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Absolutely loved this one,

  • @sweetpeanmolly
    @sweetpeanmolly Před 10 měsíci +3

    I as well as others believe that she’s up there ranked amongst the best! Perhaps equivalent of Robin Williams. She is a true gift to humanity, and I hope she knows that. I know she’s sensitive because I’m sensitive to and it’s very difficult. But Maria, if you do Readis, please know that you are a comedic genius! There is nobody like you! I couldn’t sleep last night and you had me laughing so hard that I work my husband up! Thank you 🙏

  • @cuppiesaur
    @cuppiesaur Před 10 měsíci +1

    "If you're loved..." OMG LEFT ME DEAD ♥

  • @geir-arneroos845
    @geir-arneroos845 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I am still unclear why she wrote that book! Thank you, that was amazing!

  • @bobbyk1023
    @bobbyk1023 Před 11 měsíci +8

    I didn’t know I needed this show, but I’m glad I found it, and I definitely need it.

    • @geekdivaherself
      @geekdivaherself Před 11 měsíci

      Me, too! I found it recently myself. Enjoy the back catalogue here and on the Crooked Media Channel, which they were on before they set up an independent Channel!

  • @jamberstone1
    @jamberstone1 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Omg i lovooooove this woman -screaming!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @WM-gr4qi
    @WM-gr4qi Před 11 měsíci +2

    4:30 Tom Cruise at half-smile.
    4:34 Tom Cruise smile is gone.
    4:42 Tom Cruise just staring now.

  • @jooliagoolia9959
    @jooliagoolia9959 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Maria Bamford is a treasure amongst all treasures 🤩

  • @blueandgreenslacks
    @blueandgreenslacks Před 9 měsíci +1

    Don’t know who the heck you are but thanks for platforming the greatest female comedian ever. 😂❤

  • @something64
    @something64 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I love all of her work! I am so happy to see her

  • @aprilhoffman3090
    @aprilhoffman3090 Před 8 měsíci

    "Maria Bamford, f*ckin' best!" Precisely. So thankful for Maria's truths and humor.

  • @amygraves8102
    @amygraves8102 Před 10 měsíci +1

    This was the most entertaining Lovett or Leave it in a long time. I'm laughing out lout at work making it very obvious I'm not working.

  • @whoroborous
    @whoroborous Před 11 měsíci +6

    Ooooh forgot I had her book pre-ordered! YESSS I adore Maria Bamford. She always cheers me up! ADDITIONALLY Has anyone noticed that Ron DeSantis looks just like the dude from The Animals? (specifically in 'The House of the Rising Sun' music video) Is it just me? 🙃

  • @gregjarnigan3515
    @gregjarnigan3515 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I hope Maria lives forever.

  • @kmanyrivers
    @kmanyrivers Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the shout out to us in person, out of network therapists that are here for ya! I found your series from your parent's house after your breakdown and have loved your work but more than that..your message of honest transparency of living with mental illness. Thank you for talking about all of this.

  • @debrakron9049
    @debrakron9049 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Everybody is good for something, even if only as a example!

  • @cedarandsound
    @cedarandsound Před 11 měsíci +3

    Maria is my spirit animal on some days.

  • @viletacozy7331
    @viletacozy7331 Před 11 měsíci +3

    She is the best. The very best.

  • @itsjeninMass
    @itsjeninMass Před 11 měsíci +3

    Maria is so underrated! 🤣🤣

  • @plunderpunk2
    @plunderpunk2 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Duluth in the house

  • @Morningdovecamp
    @Morningdovecamp Před 10 měsíci +2

    Awesome interview! Totally love Maria!!!!

  • @beatnickblanket
    @beatnickblanket Před 11 měsíci +6

    WTF isnt the name Maria Bamford in bold in the video title??!?!!

    • @morbidmanmusic
      @morbidmanmusic Před 11 měsíci

      Could you not read it?
      🤡🖖

    • @beatnickblanket
      @beatnickblanket Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@morbidmanmusic yeah they added that after my comment.

  • @amytripp5476
    @amytripp5476 Před 8 měsíci

    I just finished her memoir and I LOVED IT. Maria's voice is such a gift

  • @luvspaiste
    @luvspaiste Před 11 měsíci +2

    You can’t beat The Bammer

  • @meeceevee
    @meeceevee Před 11 měsíci +1

    The tree in the courtyard. 😂😂😂 The best!

  • @Tortilla.Reform
    @Tortilla.Reform Před 11 měsíci +17

    Anyone who thinks Tom Cruise is a chill guy should watch the times he berated News interviewers hahah (also he’s in a human trafficking cult, and best friends with the leader)

    • @geekdivaherself
      @geekdivaherself Před 11 měsíci

      His cult Scientology calls people suppressive people if they think they are getting in the way of their grand cause by looking at a Scientologist funny. Now more and more people are coming on CZcams and forming a multi-channel rebellion called #SPtv! I'm a never-in, but what these people have been through is _fascinatingly horrific._ #SAVEBOBFERRIS #WHEREISKENDREW

    • @dudestep
      @dudestep Před 10 měsíci +1

      He’s my favorite action star but yeah, he’s basically American Psycho.

  • @elainsmith2032
    @elainsmith2032 Před 10 měsíci +2

    A hole in my bucket dear liza

  • @thisisit333
    @thisisit333 Před 10 měsíci +1

    We used to joke our dad (sober for 30 yrs before his death) was addicted to 12 Step programs.
    That was an addiction we were okay with. ❤

  • @catherinereynolds9644
    @catherinereynolds9644 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Adorable☮️💜✨

  • @eacomedy
    @eacomedy Před 9 měsíci

    Proud of Lovett for making Ms. Bamford laugh with the Jon Voigt line 🎉

  • @ccsullivan9164
    @ccsullivan9164 Před 10 měsíci

    I am so glad that Maria talked about Overheaters Anonymous. It is a problem too long ignored.

  • @KarlaKoebernick
    @KarlaKoebernick Před 11 měsíci +2

    Seriously wtf is better than Maria B?

  • @Rugelacharugula
    @Rugelacharugula Před 11 měsíci +3

    I wanna watch DVD commentaries w/ these people. Just random movies. Like RiffTrax-style.
    I also love the Burbank airport.

  • @ClaLu
    @ClaLu Před 10 měsíci +1

    "There's a hole in his bucket" 😂 ...We laugh so we don't cry😢 he's captured by a very dangerous #CoerciveOrganization

  • @DoctorRevers
    @DoctorRevers Před 5 měsíci

    She’s the best.

  • @pollyfoofoo8703
    @pollyfoofoo8703 Před 6 měsíci

    Gosh i just adore her. Have done for years.

  • @1ACL
    @1ACL Před 10 měsíci

    Hysterical!!!

  • @savannahweymouth7370
    @savannahweymouth7370 Před 7 měsíci

    I loved her book! Her performance in the audiobook had me laughing every other sentence

  • @EatBugsSeeGod
    @EatBugsSeeGod Před 11 měsíci +3

    MARIA BAMBFORD

  • @filtrotp40
    @filtrotp40 Před 3 měsíci

    I love this woman. Weakness is the brand.

  • @dyan785
    @dyan785 Před 10 měsíci

    7 Cups of Tea is a good resource

  • @jaredleemease
    @jaredleemease Před 11 měsíci

    Oh my goodness, thank you! 🤣

  • @dragonladyfink4685
    @dragonladyfink4685 Před 11 měsíci +1

    PUGS ARE AWESOME! I'm cuddling 2 rn.

  • @lisbethbird8268
    @lisbethbird8268 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The anonymous support groups membership remind s me of Fight Club.

  • @bill8985
    @bill8985 Před 9 měsíci

    I have to say, this is the funniest woman on Earth.

  • @tinatieden3598
    @tinatieden3598 Před 11 měsíci +1

    "Okay, okay. No jokes, no jokes."

  • @simonjenkin
    @simonjenkin Před 11 měsíci +1

    hahahaha i rewatched the original mission impossible a couple of months ago and had the *exact* same reaction, to the point my letterboxd review was simply: "there's a moment where jon voight hits tom cruise in the back and it renders him almost unconscious and somehow that is the least believable part of the entire film"

  • @catpursel4644
    @catpursel4644 Před 10 měsíci

    Damn, she's so brilliant. Loved her the 1st time I saw her!

  • @bobbyesamdahl
    @bobbyesamdahl Před 11 měsíci +2

    Wow so funny, cuz it's so true.
    Maria will be great at making people feel better...just listen to her! LOL
    The best thing is I don't know if she is for real...or just like me

  • @pluribus_unum
    @pluribus_unum Před 11 měsíci +8

    2:24 -
    Jon: "...his skin is as dewy as..."
    Maria: "shortcake"
    She said shortcake, not short king.

    • @daltonlunn1653
      @daltonlunn1653 Před 11 měsíci

      Idk if that was a mishearing or a "yes, and"

  • @artoo45
    @artoo45 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Cruise will blast into orbit or hang on the outside of an airplane, but is terrified to speak to his Suppressive Person™, biological teenage daughter. Scientology: Always worse than you think.

  • @unnim
    @unnim Před 10 měsíci +3

    Man she is really smart. She can make jokes on the fly. Damn cute too.

  • @erock9374
    @erock9374 Před 5 měsíci

    Maria is a fucking legend, she has accomplished so much… wherever she is, peace and love funny lady 😊

  • @erm204
    @erm204 Před 11 měsíci

    Fantastic shirt she’s wearing

  • @RM-yw6xe
    @RM-yw6xe Před 10 měsíci

    I would most definitely *pretend* to. I would troll the ever living frak outa them for as long as they're hopeful.

  • @roisincure
    @roisincure Před 9 měsíci

    OMG I love Maria so much but I work like a maniac, can’t stop (although I’m the boss and I only do cool stuff) - but I’m paranoid I’m not loved now!!! What about my little dog? He’s obsessed with me! Never mind…love you Maria!! ❤❤❤

  • @erinmohrcomedy
    @erinmohrcomedy Před 11 měsíci +1

    Umm…I’m on Kaiser and they cover my weekly therapy visits and have been for years. Does that mean that kaiser believes I’m more mentally screwed up than Maria Bamford?!?😂

  • @chriswest6988
    @chriswest6988 Před 11 měsíci

    Misheard "overeaters anonymous, that's kind of the Grimace one," could totally picture Grimace at a sad 12 step meeting.

  • @MRICCI8
    @MRICCI8 Před 7 měsíci

  • @tonisodano5472
    @tonisodano5472 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Love Lovett leave

  • @surferjon18
    @surferjon18 Před 7 měsíci

    Why did I get an ad for Charlie Kirk TP USA? I am a bi man watching Jon Lovett. How did they think THIS is the setting for them

  • @JDMimeTHEFIRST
    @JDMimeTHEFIRST Před 11 měsíci +2

    It’s no longer, but I’d hang out with Sheila from Wild Wild Country. She stuck it to the gun nuts and she got things done. But yeah, she worked for a guy who took these people’s money to buy Rolls Royces and drugs. I do believe that Sheila actually wanted a community but she was messed up from her parents “giving her” to the cult leader. Yet, she still got shit done. I don’t agree with everything she did, but she was badass

    • @JDMimeTHEFIRST
      @JDMimeTHEFIRST Před 11 měsíci +1

      Love Maria Bamford “it’s like an open mic”
      But not as sad and depressing 😅

  • @jooliagoolia9959
    @jooliagoolia9959 Před 10 měsíci

    Our mental health insurance is soooo bad at paying, no counselor or therapist will keep seeing us... And we have good insurance supposedly....
    I could write a book about the kooky counselors I've met!
    Th u each said I was in the top 3 of their clients with stuff (not knowing the others had said that) and yet they all pretty much said... Just forget it all and what's going on today... And that was in the first session....
    🤔

  • @mightyone3737
    @mightyone3737 Před 11 měsíci +2

    If you think treading water forever is impressive, when I was in highschool I could literally sit on the water and float up to my mid torso, it was hilarious. Everyone had to tread water, I could literally sit there like a damn witch, and nobody could burn me alive! I'm a dude if it wasn't clear.

  • @naoise555
    @naoise555 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I think it's pretty messed up that the Suicide Hotline hold music is "Jump" by VanHalen.

  • @AlamoCityCello
    @AlamoCityCello Před 10 měsíci

    Maria, I once knew a girl named Maria.

  • @crystalwalker4403
    @crystalwalker4403 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I don’t think you want to join Scientology because that is a very expensive cult to join. Moving up in the levels depends on how much money you give them, and how compliant you are to their orders. I know someone that paid $33,000 for a rehab in Vegas that was based on L Ron Hubbard books, and they had them do some weird stuff.