I had a fiance at one point in time. Found out she got pregnant by another man, and tried to pretend like it was my baby. Situations like that make you look at the game totally different.
If that's the case,do they both get it or just the man she's cheating on you with? Fck them both, move on and improve your life in every aspect, GOD makes all things possible...
When a Spouse Cheats there should be no 50/50. I brought this up to a lawyer as a question and the lawyer said that cheating doesn’t count. I said then Vows don’t mean anything in the USA.
@@tredinabrown2249 Okay, talk to a lawyer that says what I was told and tell the lawyer that he, or she is incorrect. I don't control the USA. I go by what I'm told.
@@sr4triple7s27The whole system is corrupt. The people defending you could be simps or feminist who believe women should have anything. And if you do have a good lawyer that will fight for you he is fighting mountains of bias towards men.
Actually there is admittance/evidence of infidelity, it removes alimony off the table. Happened to a friend of mine who's a veteran; he still pays support for his kids and gets visitation of course but he has to worry about the strange men around them now.
And she had the audacity to call HIM petty, Insecure, Telling him, well you always working all the time... and finally walked off on him! Not wearing the wedding ring is a red flag
Yep! She felt like she "settled", and when a woman feels like she settled for a man who is beneath her, she will cheat; and she will blame HIM... ...for not being her "Prince Charming!"
I had the same thing happen to me. My girlfriend was messing around with another man; she said she did it because I was at work all the time. The man who works hard to provide, gets no respect while the clean up man gets everything for nothing.
Speaking of catching a cheater. Recently in my old hometown of Charlotte a woman just shot and killed a side chick she caught in her and hubby's home... y'all leave that cheating/side piece $hit to the birds...Be safe Fam!
Hopefully this is on Florida where they just got rid of that silly permanent alimony trap. I read that in some cases, the man had to take out life insurance on himself so that his ex can still collect after he's dead 👀 To such women you're worth more dead than alive if they suck the rest of your retirement savings out
She says she cheated because “he’s working too much” aka he’s being a Man and being responsible. Bro get your divorce and do you. We all know she will end up with nothing.
This is a common occasion. They complain when men don't pull enough income but the cheat because "he's working too much." Gtfoh this is a catch 22 woman you lose either way. Now are are some lousy ass dudes but he had it together
That’s a lie! There are plenty of good women out here. I feel bad because some women that I know can’t find a man that doesn’t just want sex. This generation is sad
If you don’t forgive her then you’ll never heal. You move on and forgive them. People are dead, in the ground or yearn, still have a hold a people living because they didn’t forgive them. There is nothing more pleasing to a woman than to occupy space in someone’s mind without paying rent. ( Real Talk ).
'Ladies, if you catch your man cheating with another woman, it's over. It's over. As a woman, you can't take a man back that laid down with another woman. He's tainted. He is not your man no more. He has been touched by somebody else.' The infidelity axe swings both ways. Infidelity should never be tolerated by anyone. You'll never be able to trust that person again.
Not the same. Men have been taking care of multiple women for generations. Thousands of years. The opposite is not true. No matter how much yall try this equality bs, it does not fit reality!
I can't wait until blk men leave all these women alone. But I'm happy that these women are burning these dudes to a crisp lol. Maybe yall will get the message eventually.
The thing that gets me is these women are throwing away GOOD men! If a man is faithful, respects you provides for you etc...etc.... Then why? An elder once told me some women will run through 10 good men to get to 1 bad one! Ladies- WAKE UP!
With my ex I found her doing a multitude of things: sending nudes to her kid's dad, talking about playing with her self over a FaceTime, and telling multiple men in her inbox that she was single and all that bullshit. And when I brought this all to her, she was like " should I have sent them? No. Why did I send them? I don't know." It's crazy
Lol dawg single moms with underage kids are risky. Only a tiny few single moms can truly make that work out, but you have to vet them for a long time to see how they move with their baby daddies. But glad you're cool
It sucks when the life you created prior and during the relationship gets ripped away from you because the person you were with was no good and they walk away with half if not most undeservingly.
What I learned from my last situation is that the life you created often only exists in your mind and they are just playing the part to get access to unearned resources. Almost like falling in luv with a mirage when you're emotionally dehydrated and reality inevitably wakes you up. If your heart and mind's in the right place, that experience should stabilize you from encountering bigger pitfalls
Maybe I’m getting old but I just don’t understand why people feel the need to put their business on the Internet for the entire world to see! I just don’t get it
It would hurt my feelings even if my boyfriend or husband even thought i was giving them a reason to even think am a cheater or a liar for that matter 🙌🏽💪🏾🙄
She for the streets. This guy don't realize this is a blessing in a lesson. 5 yrs. - blessing it could of been 10 or 20. He didn't mention children - blessing and if there are children he could get custody. He is blessed to have an opportunity to sit back work on self and wait for God. God wants better for you bro. 🙏🏾
Cheaters & liars will ruin good ppl. My advice is to move on & don't look back! Don't treat the next one according to the Ex one! Ppl are individuals & hold different morals & have different levels of respect for themselves, both men & women. Both sex will take this as a one size fits all to never trust again. 😢
Busted!!! When they get caught they always get upset because you actually got evidence that they did it. This is why you don't buy a expensive ring and give them the world. If you treat them like star they'll treat you like a fan.
You leave immediately and don't look back. The details will work themselves out. Be strong and remember life continues. It will get better or not, but that is life. Good luck.
Her entire body language and her long pauses to remember where she was …, her facial expressions… all were telltale signs of her deception! Then her defensiveness about “ her privacy “ She wasn’t genuine! That is REALLY hard!! Some women are SO LUCKY to get decent, honest , caring and hardworking men who treat them with respect and this is how they are repaid! But the men who suffer from these types of betrayal NEED to be strong and believe in God who will help you to find someone BETTER!
I know it's hard to walk away but you got to walk away. Even if you whoop both their assess,you gotta leave anyway. In all honesty, leave the 304 and that punk ass so-called friend before you do something to them clowns.
Cheaters are selfish, entitled, and stupid enough to think that they ca n get away with it. Anyone who knows you for any length of time WILL NOTICE your behavior and attitude change, and put the pieces together.
I know damn well she called him insecure when he found out that she cheated on him. Women love to use that excuse when men have boundaries and respect themselves. They’ll say things like who hurt you are why you soo insecure. Meaning why are in my business and can’t tell me what to do.
When it comes to your spouse, there are NO friends!
Specifically of the opposite sex. Personally that’s a boundary of mine I don’t do friends of the opposite sex
Frfr!!!🤦♀️
Your Spouse Is Supposed To Be Your Lover And Your Friend!!!
And sometimes, family
Especially if they are still single. They are collaborators
Well,she is not denying anything. She is more annoyed that he found out.
She was more annoyed he looked thru her phone , cellphone,s has contributed greatly to the ability to cheat.
Women have no accountability….0
She's Scandalous
I had a fiance at one point in time. Found out she got pregnant by another man, and tried to pretend like it was my baby. Situations like that make you look at the game totally different.
It's good you caught her during the fiance phase. That saved you tens of thousands of dollars in court and child support costs
Imagine you found out AFTER your name had gone on that baby's birth certificate? You dodged a bullet
Damn G she tried to pull a fast one on you. Im glad you caught it before you got stuck.
Bless you brother 👍🏿
How?
Proverbs 6:34 For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.
❤
Load that Slingshot.
Went deep
💯💯💯
If that's the case,do they both get it or just the man she's cheating on you with? Fck them both, move on and improve your life in every aspect, GOD makes all things possible...
When a Spouse Cheats there should be no 50/50. I brought this up to a lawyer as a question and the lawyer said that cheating doesn’t count. I said then Vows don’t mean anything in the USA.
The state doesn't want to be on the hook to pay for her and her kids, so that's why they no longer count cheating. Feminists love this
That's Incorrect!
@@tredinabrown2249 Okay, talk to a lawyer that says what I was told and tell the lawyer that he, or she is incorrect. I don't control the USA. I go by what I'm told.
@@sr4triple7s27The whole system is corrupt. The people defending you could be simps or feminist who believe women should have anything. And if you do have a good lawyer that will fight for you he is fighting mountains of bias towards men.
Actually there is admittance/evidence of infidelity, it removes alimony off the table. Happened to a friend of mine who's a veteran; he still pays support for his kids and gets visitation of course but he has to worry about the strange men around them now.
As a Woman the audacity of this chick asking why were you going through my phone. Leave her Bro. As a SIS Leave her and find true love.😢
And she had the audacity to call HIM petty,
Insecure,
Telling him, well you always working all the time... and finally walked off on him!
Not wearing the wedding ring is a red flag
@@theprodigy4202 All That Sis, 😘
Cause hes a sucker and she knows it
No leave her and get on a AIRPLANE and then find love! u skipped the most important step SIS.
There is no such thing
She should be fighting for your forgiveness . Not calling you insecure‼️‼️‼️
She tried to imply it was his fault. She is not sorry. She feels entitled to do what she did. She will never ask for forgiveness
She's must've practiced AIKIDO because SHE'S TRYING TO REDIRECT!!!!!
She will start her forgiveness campaign after the initial shock and defensiveness wears off from the results of being caught.
She doesn't want him... that's why she's not fighting for him😢poor guy
This woman has been cheating since they got together. I can guarantee she didn’t want to be with him.
Yep! She felt like she "settled", and when a woman feels like she settled for a man who is beneath her, she will cheat; and she will blame HIM...
...for not being her "Prince Charming!"
The next mans been in the picture since bro tied the knot, he was at the wedding.
She was using him from day one
When a woman say she feels sore bro it means she’s been gutted out divorce her asap
Yup
Meanwhile likely denied her own husband that week but for a nobody.... nvm
😂😂😂
Pookie Was Knocking Her Guts Back 😂
@@Chadd-Watts-Bih facts
I had the same thing happen to me. My girlfriend was messing around with another man; she said she did it because I was at work all the time. The man who works hard to provide, gets no respect while the clean up man gets everything for nothing.
Very true that’s why I’m against men leading with their wallet in order to impress women it does nothing in the end
N that's why when you find out this is what they doing while working hard you drop their asses like a bad habit.
The men who does the least and care the least will always get the most out of women
Sorry
Building together prevents infidelity?🤔
Both genders are unfaithful and create babies WTH?
She looks so sneaky and conniving. 😈
They always wanna know why you're going through their phones. That brother deserves better.
But quick to go through your phone though
Speaking of catching a cheater. Recently in my old hometown of Charlotte a woman just shot and killed a side chick she caught in her and hubby's home... y'all leave that cheating/side piece $hit to the birds...Be safe Fam!
Sadly in this degenerate culture it's glorified some much so people make parodies constantly to pike fun at it and it desensitized people
They get mad when they get caught and try to flip the script on you.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION!
Man I just hope you ain’t gotta pay alimony to her cause she’s wicked, sneaky, and slick to the core😑
You already know, thats probably the plan
Hopefully this is on Florida where they just got rid of that silly permanent alimony trap. I read that in some cases, the man had to take out life insurance on himself so that his ex can still collect after he's dead 👀 To such women you're worth more dead than alive if they suck the rest of your retirement savings out
Cheating doesn't count. He should still have to pay her alimony if she didn't work.
@@shayemoore Yuh want that man to pay alimony for a grown ass woman, Yall are fuckin horrible bruh 🤦🏽♂️
@@shayemoorethat’s not how it works dumba$$
She says she cheated because “he’s working too much” aka he’s being a Man and being responsible. Bro get your divorce and do you. We all know she will end up with nothing.
This is a common occasion. They complain when men don't pull enough income but the cheat because "he's working too much." Gtfoh this is a catch 22 woman you lose either way. Now are are some lousy ass dudes but he had it together
Five thousand on her ring, damn that's a down payment on a car. A car will not cheat on you 😩
Hahahahahaha u made me laugh cause its so true. A car will not cheat
Facts
No, but it could get re-po'ed.
@@hadenanderson563only if you don't hold your end of the bargain.
Whatever you do, don't forgive her, don't take her back. There are plenty of good women out here.
That’s a lie! There are plenty of good women out here. I feel bad because some women that I know can’t find a man that doesn’t just want sex. This generation is sad
@b1chronixx688same as good men
😂😂😂😂
If you don’t forgive her then you’ll never heal. You move on and forgive them. People are dead, in the ground or yearn, still have a hold a people living because they didn’t forgive them. There is nothing more pleasing to a woman than to occupy space in someone’s mind without paying rent. ( Real Talk ).
"@b1chronixx688
"Good women are needles in haystacks."
And we are NOT permitted to use magnets! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She expressed zero accountability, smdh.
She black of course
She's a black woman she's not going to hold no accountability to herself
She will reap what she sow.
Brother’s villain origin story has began😂😂😂😂
Prowler 😂
So sorry to hear. I’m praying for my dear brother. Be encouraged.
ECCLESIASTICUS I RATHER DWELL WITH A LION AND DRAGON,THAN TO KEEP HOUSE WITH A WICKED WOMAN.
Or wicked man works both ways…..
Damn not the family friend! Out of all the people in the world not the family friend.
THE DISEASES THAT ARE AROUND SHOULD MAKE YOU THINK TWICE. SO IMMORAL!
Facts
Being a single man is very peaceful.
I was thinking the same thing.
What makes this so Nasty is when they look you in the face and lie.
To be honest, lying is not the worst part for me. I expect a person to lie at that point.
Her body language gave it away..
Better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious woman.
BEING. SINGLE. IS. THE. BEST. THING. YOU. CAN. DO. YOU. FREE. WITH. OUT. MESS. 👍🏼👍🏼
💪🏿💪🏿💪🏾
agreed
'Ladies, if you catch your man cheating with another woman, it's over. It's over. As a woman, you can't take a man back that laid down with another woman. He's tainted. He is not your man no more. He has been touched by somebody else.' The infidelity axe swings both ways. Infidelity should never be tolerated by anyone. You'll never be able to trust that person again.
I never knew Uncle Phil had a parrot.
@@CW-rh4jz🦜
@CW-rh4jz She probably the main one be cheating 😂
She just had to put her two cents in smdh
Not the same. Men have been taking care of multiple women for generations. Thousands of years. The opposite is not true. No matter how much yall try this equality bs, it does not fit reality!
Cheaters do not deserve forgiveness or loyalty. You were gone most of the time is a TIRED excuse. "24 HR" spa my ass.🙄😮💨
Agreed, she had no come back so she said something stupid.
And these are the Women you have to choose from?, OMG!, we are doomed!
U don’t have to choose them brother..
@@6feet6figures , Hell, how is that any better?
@@Fitkid7672 ,Oh, trust and believe, I DON'T!
I can't wait until blk men leave all these women alone. But I'm happy that these women are burning these dudes to a crisp lol. Maybe yall will get the message eventually.
She said "thats your brother 😐" .. Fellas! STAY SINGLE! lol
😂I mean your cousin
@@kgzdelivery😂😂
The thing that gets me is these women are throwing away GOOD men! If a man is faithful, respects you provides for you etc...etc.... Then why? An elder once told me some women will run through 10 good men to get to 1 bad one! Ladies- WAKE UP!
I dated one American woman and she used the same phrase that's "insecure" like how!!!?
It’s a defense mechanism PEOPLE sometimes use when they can’t come up with something better to say. I am a woman both men andvwomen use this phrase.
As usual, "It's the Man's fault"!!!
EXACTLY RIGHT
With my ex I found her doing a multitude of things: sending nudes to her kid's dad, talking about playing with her self over a FaceTime, and telling multiple men in her inbox that she was single and all that bullshit. And when I brought this all to her, she was like " should I have sent them? No. Why did I send them? I don't know." It's crazy
To her kids dad? You already messed up dealing with a single mom bro
Lol dawg single moms with underage kids are risky. Only a tiny few single moms can truly make that work out, but you have to vet them for a long time to see how they move with their baby daddies. But glad you're cool
Say No to drugs. Say NO to taking single moms seriously! 🤨
All Passport aboard! Step right up fellas, your next flight leaves in approximately 1 minute. ✈ 🇧🇷 🇺🇬 🇨🇴 🇹🇭 🇿🇦 🇲🇾🇰🇪 🇵🇭
They NEVER get over baby daddies. Hence better to avoid 90% single mothers
It sucks when the life you created prior and during the relationship gets ripped away from you because the person you were with was no good and they walk away with half if not most undeservingly.
What I learned from my last situation is that the life you created often only exists in your mind and they are just playing the part to get access to unearned resources. Almost like falling in luv with a mirage when you're emotionally dehydrated and reality inevitably wakes you up. If your heart and mind's in the right place, that experience should stabilize you from encountering bigger pitfalls
She is a horrible person with no accountability
She sounds like she's not surprised or shocked about him confronting her.
she doesn't respect him. he seems weak like she said. he wanted to stay if she confessed...... simp behavior. he needed this moment to grow a pair.
ECCLESIASTIUS 25:19 ALL WICKEDNESS IS BUT LITTLE TO THE WICKEDNESS OF A WOMAN:LET THE PORTION OF A SINNER FALL UPON HER.
That's scary
I can tell he doesn’t have a lot of experience with women.
He will need the evidence when he goes to divorce court.
Yep.
That doesn't matter
Her real estate value is ZERO. She let someone invade the castle. divorce her n move on.
Maybe I’m getting old but I just don’t understand why people feel the need to put their business on the Internet for the entire world to see! I just don’t get it
Yea I see why she probably cheated in him
But here you are watching it
She think that the grass is greener on the other side. Start over and take your time and make yourself better.
I am starting over for 2 and half years . Putting in the work physically, burying myself in work, and eating healthier.
Some people just aren't meant for you. Some bad situations open our eyes.
It would hurt my feelings even if my boyfriend or husband even thought i was giving them a reason to even think am a cheater or a liar for that matter 🙌🏽💪🏾🙄
It's funny how cheaters always think going through their phone is somehow a violation to them! As if it's some kind of valid defense for their case.
EXACTLY RIGHT MY FRIEND!
Once I seen the message " I feel sore " Give me a divorce no more talk 😂
That's how it always happens "he always working too much,wow"💯
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION!
She for the streets. This guy don't realize this is a blessing in a lesson. 5 yrs. - blessing it could of been 10 or 20. He didn't mention children - blessing and if there are children he could get custody. He is blessed to have an opportunity to sit back work on self and wait for God. God wants better for you bro. 🙏🏾
In the of Ecclesiasticus
“I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman.”
That's cold blooded of her, I don't believe I could have handled this as this brother did
He was recording it for solicitors evidence.
the look on her face when he started to tell what she wrote on the sms...tells the whole story
Im not losing half, its OJ time.
✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
All imma say is I’m not moving back in with my momma cause she not in love.
LOL, Please dont do the OJ Bruhman!!! LOL
That chapters over now, he gets a fresh start
She belongs to the game sad but true.
Cheaters & liars will ruin good ppl. My advice is to move on & don't look back! Don't treat the next one according to the Ex one! Ppl are individuals & hold different morals & have different levels of respect for themselves, both men & women. Both sex will take this as a one size fits all to never trust again. 😢
EXACTLY!
I feel sore ☠️
He shouldn’t talk to her, she’s for the streets ..
Fellas, get your passport 🛫
All Passport aboard! Step right up fellas, your next flight leaves in approximately 1 minute. ✈ 🇧🇷 🇺🇬 🇨🇴 🇹🇭 🇿🇦 🇲🇾🇰🇪 🇵🇭
You do know some women overseas cheat too right?
Busted!!! When they get caught they always get upset because you actually got evidence that they did it. This is why you don't buy a expensive ring and give them the world. If you treat them like star they'll treat you like a fan.
EXACTLY RIGHT PREACH ON IT!
Thank you for sharing your story Phil. Always gives me hope that the future can be better.
You men better stop getting in these relationships and marriages! These women are showing you everyday who they are lol
Yep and sadly brothas are even facing this with the "race loyal" crowd too..
You leave immediately and don't look back. The details will work themselves out. Be strong and remember life continues. It will get better or not, but that is life. Good luck.
Man That Dude to Nice, that's why she disrespectful and cheating on you
You can tell he is a nice guy, and she just played him.
She looks sneaky
With them shorts on, she's definitely cheating!!
Get your passport 😢bro and trust me your whole life will change…take some time to travel and relax abroad
This is devastating seriously to know about
Lol. Devastating? There are millions more women out there.
@@Mike1122. yeah facts
Say it Brother Scott.
That's very painful to watch!
Leave her today.
This seems like a skit… but I’m sure it mirrors reality.
Sadly u may be right as idiots do.too many of these.for clout. These aren't funny at all
Great advice about working out Phil 👏 👏 👏. Exercise is also an AMAZING way to combat depression 💯!!!!
Gah damn at the part where she said i feel sore 😢. Yeah this guy about to become the villan of all villans
Its sad how women try to make it seem as if its your fault to justify their bad behaviors.
Cheating men are the same way. Cheaters a cheater.
Leave her alone and move on. no woman got going on where you allow yourself to go behind another man she's not worth it.
Her entire body language and her long pauses to remember where she was …, her facial expressions… all were telltale signs of her deception! Then her defensiveness about “ her privacy “ She wasn’t genuine! That is REALLY hard!! Some women are SO LUCKY to get decent, honest , caring and hardworking men who treat them with respect and this is how they are repaid! But the men who suffer from these types of betrayal NEED to be strong and believe in God who will help you to find someone BETTER!
Leave her immediately & forever!
Gaslighting tactics be so funny 😂😂😂
Well Damn, you gotta leave her after that message. When she said you the best she ever had and you had me sore 😮
That they say "insecure" even when the justification is them cheating? Fukk privacy when you're caught cheating.
She dun turned a good man ice 🧊 cold 🥶 now
she knew two minutes into the conversation she knew he knew she was cheating
I know it's hard to walk away but you got to walk away. Even if you whoop both their assess,you gotta leave anyway. In all honesty, leave the 304 and that punk ass so-called friend before you do something to them clowns.
I'm dealing with it now and caught her redhanded in the back of another guy's truck last Saturday night.
Cheaters are selfish, entitled, and stupid enough to think that they ca n get away with it. Anyone who knows you for any length of time WILL NOTICE your behavior and attitude change, and put the pieces together.
5:40-46 ... *"Sometimes, that is a villain's origin story."
-Phil ... *Perfectly said.*
I know damn well she called him insecure when he found out that she cheated on him. Women love to use that excuse when men have boundaries and respect themselves. They’ll say things like who hurt you are why you soo insecure. Meaning why are in my business and can’t tell me what to do.
Just understand, it goes BOTH ways.
Amazing testimony Phil 🙏🏽 It's helping me right now
I'm convinced once a woman feels like she has you she'll eventually cheat.
Now she gonna take half and if u got kids, hello child support and maybe even spousal support
Why are you going through my phone?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅
"Always working all the time" . Yes. To make life easy for the future.