How To STOP Women From Ruining Your Life (From A Woman’s Perspective)
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I love you Courtney and I want you to ruin me completely.
I keep getting adds for this. And the voice doesn’t match the video they use of you. They also stole your voice to make another add.
Seems like they used AI to make those adds. I don’t use socials so I figured i let you know here.
Love it.❤
Some of this advice applies to friends too. If you feel like you're being disrespected or not valued, it's best to walk away
You may keep your life. Just walk away.
@@pharmcat8484 Yes example leave.
The key point of this video I think is "Think long-term, focus on your self esteem!"
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I'd like to add that women will legit tell you their red flags more often than not. Pay attention and listen to her! It's also a great way to confirm and set your own boundaries.
Facts
Yep!
This is true. An ex of mine flat out told me that she hates being around people and after honeymoon period of the relationship she did, in fact, turn out to be antisocial. Also possessive and controlling.
@@marekknieshtschav6391 Yup! I knew someone just like that.
This is VERY true. Every relationship that went bad or did not work out I had, looking back in the first couple dates, my girl flat out told me her red flags, which 100% she then did with me. Everything from "I used to do drugs" to "I like to party" "I am "x""..they tell you. Don't ignore it or be blinded by wanting her.
The flaw of an abundance mindset is that the overwhelming majority of us will never have an abundance of options. We would be required to delude ourselves.
The real trick is to accept that you're better off alone than with someone who can't meet your standards. Once you do that, everyone has to compete with the peace you can achieve on your own
I actually see those two thoughts as completely compatible. If I am completely whole by myself, that's where a good chunk of that abundance comes from: within myself. Then, I'm only motivated to pursue people who enhance that wholeness! :)
well… out there, SMP | RMP-wise, there’s primarily potential detriment in abundance (gent’s perspective).
Married 20yrs here. The first thing I worked to find out when I thought my wife was the one was: credit score/spending habits, beliefs/values/political affiliation, and relationship with her family. That'll tell you A LOT. Once that all checked out I set boundaries early on. All has been good.
it also helps if you got those same qualities yourself! which is a blind spot for many! :)
@@simonschneider5913 Yes. Everything has to align. Be the person you want to be with. I picked my wife that way beliefs/values/political affiliation, relationship with family.
Its whatever, dating 20 years ago is a way different beast than it is nowadays
@@thelucariamonarchs4889 no. the participants' logic still is the same - but the economics and the social structures are breaking down...follow the money(-printing) - thats where you clearly see whats going on.
@@thelucariamonarchs4889 very true. However, you can still vett girls the same way I did once you've found one worth pursuing.
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
If you look up Shelly Renee White online, you will find all the information you need. Thank you.
Sorry dude but that is a terrible idea. It’s common knowledge that once you take a woman back or give her another opportunity she devalues you completely and now sees you with less respect than before. She knows you have no other options and in her mind you will cater to her and she is the dominant one in the relationship. Recipe for disaster. Remember this when it falls apart again. You never take a woman you broke up with back again. Women do not love men. They are too self centered for love. They love what men do and what men give them. It’s all opportunistic for them. That’s why they cheat and why they can move on from a relationship very quick. You should have known this.
Accountability is the #1 way to avoid ruining your life. People who are accountable fully realize their problems, faults and flaws. That also helps keeps out other people from ruining your life as well.
but there are quite few of them going around, male or female, these days - at least where i currenty am, in southern germany..
@@simonschneider5913
Lol wohne auch in Bayern hallo 😅? Die Welt ist klein! ?
True but if you’ve ever seen someone go through a divorce…yikes…all of that will be completely thrown out the window
Said, no woman ever!
@@chaosinfernoid9008 germany has shrunk intellectually in the last few decades, which is why we meet on international forums, i guess! :)
The woman you pick is more of a reflection of what you are, than what she is...be the person you want to date. Dont compromise on beliefs and standards just to get a girl. If a woman tells you the truth about herself, believe her !
"The person you choose to be with is the most important decision you will ever make in your life." Absorb those words guys, Courtney is spot on with that. I've been telling friends and family that for years.
Courtney all of us men in this chat room would like to thank you so much for helping us to be better men, you are more appreciated than you think.
She dosent care about you
The woman, the myth, the legend…Courtney!
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As a woman to become a legend she has to turn 30. She is not there yet.
My fiance broke up with me 2 years ago because i "wasnt rich enough". And I've started to move on thanks to your help.
It’s best to be careful when getting into relationships. Slow and steady, take the time to get to know the woman, build a connection and see where it goes. But also be vigilant and spot red flags. A woman can be beautiful in the outside but I’m not gonna let that blind me and ignore everything else. Thanks again Courtney, great advice.
Also, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
The first one was definitely me. I learned the hard way. I know better now. I got myself into a little bit of trouble, and it took me some time to get over it. She was beautiful but very bad attitude. I wanted to ignore it but it blew up in my face. Do not ignore the red flags from the beginning guys. Well said Mrs. Ryan.
“A woman can only ruin your life if you let her” is one of the best pieces of advice I’ve heard in a while. I see lots and lots of bitter, angry guys in the comment section of your videos (and other dating/relationship advice videos) and I have to wonder how many of them are angry because they can’t admit that to themselves. Thanks for what you do.
As men we have to come to terms that most of us, If we do what is being said here, will be alone. In other words if we see a red flag and we disqualify her as we should, we are going to be left with nothing to choose from. That's just the way it's going to be for us.most of us being about 85 to 90% of us
This comment is underrated
just got to pick your poison
Yeah, single men are raising in numbers every year
What you need to do is educate yourself about red flags and what makes a relationship healthy to create a vision of a relationship. Then you need to find a potential partner and present her your relationship vision to determine her level of interest in pursuing it with you. This demonstrates to her that you have yourself together. Most women want a man who will lead them to mutual relationship satisfaction. You can't lead without a vision and a plan.
Defining your red flags is to help you avoid a relationship that will end badly for you. Being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship that drains your spirit and bank account.
You will die someday anyway. So find what brings you happiness and satisfaction in life and pursue it. Don't wallow in self pity -- unless you enjoy it.
Better alone than in bad company.
Plus, this is why you need to focus on yourself. To be confident, resilient, smart, and in a few words, attractive and happy.
Also, you may not find your loved one, but you will face as many opportunities as you wish.
What resonated with me was the point about knowing when to walk away, and what I know by that is knowing what you are not willing to accept, and follow through on your criteria. There were several women in my life who outright offered sex and a relationship, and who I rejected. You cannot fix crazy, and I am not a therapist. So many men fall for these savior relationships because they like feeling of being needed, or they feel pity, or they are having a scarcity mindset that Courtney mentioned.
On the opposite, if it is one green flag after another, I don't necessarily have to drag things out.
Important things: 0:28 First Thing ÷ Don't Ignore Red Flags; 1:40 Second Thing ÷ Focus On Yourself; 4:16 Third Thing ÷ Actions Speak Louder Than Words; 5:49 Fourth Thing ÷ Stop Rushing Things; and 6:40 to summarize all the told here.
What you have told here, that can be applied not just for your current topic, but also for other life situations as well, and perhaps who men have to stop ruining other's men's lives as well.
Some women do like to see men as a leader, cause that's taking the initiative, and doing it that show that you are a gentleman.
Thank you Courtney so much ❤💙🤍.
How are men ruining other men's lives?
While some women like to see men as leaders, how many want to follow a man instead of being her own boss babe?
5th thing don't play the game.
@@Erick-di9gm Agree with that.
Def a well thought perspective. Like you said a woman only ruins your life if you let her. Also I’m doing better I got the job I went for!
Yay! Congrats! 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan thank you!!
Vetting is crucial. Marrying the wrong person can have expensive ramifications...
Amen!
It is one of the hardest things for me to get past, the idea that I don't deserve or have any right to be picky.
Set high standards for yourself and try your best to fulfill them. The more you have to offer, the more options you have and therefore the less you feel needy.
Both sexes deserve the right to be picky. That's why we have a demographic collapse with the fewest marriages since keeping marriage statistics.
That’s because you have a low self esteem. you can’t be asking high standards when your standards for yourself are also pretty low.
Wish I learned this stuff when I was younger. Your self-esteem is so important. At least I know better now. Work on it, friends!
I have never dated a woman until now. I am 22 years old so I don’t have any experience and many things are new for me about women, especially the girl I am dating. She is literally the female version of me, however I see her red flags (and they are the worst a woman can have I swear), I decided to ignore them. I have felt so bad, anxious, unloved, and I don’t know if I deserve a better treatment or if it’s just me. I have asked female friends and now with this video I feel so identified with many things. Conclusion: I deserve better
'Choose wisely' is certainly accurate 🙏
It feels difficult to date as a man largely because a lot of us don't have that many options, so it's easy to "justify" being with someone for the added experience or something else. I've been single for a long time precisely because I haven't found the right person for a variety of reasons, and I'd be lying if I said the pressure other men put on each other to get laid at any cost doesn't get to me sometimes. It's nice to feel like I'm not the only one that thinks it's better not to waste your time with someone who just isn't a good fit for you, although I've wondered if I am too picky at times as well.
I believe having a Victim’s mentality where someone keeps blaming external circumstances for poor dating results has permeated our society. Courtney! When you communicate that a man should not only take responsibility for his actions but also use patient discernment, YOU ARE RIGHT!!! Men should dictate a fresh and reasonable pace for the relationship and not invite the toxic into their lives 💯
That "Victim's mentality" is not just a mindset. It's statistically verifiable. Demographics are crashing. Half of couples meet now on the internet. Women get a minimum of 5x the messages as the best men. One third of men under 30 have no partner while the women have similar numbers of partners for the last few decades. Women are sharing the top percent of men. Women file for divorce if they get married at a rate of nearly 80%. If a man uses "patient discernment", she's already got at least 4 other guys on roster.
How are men having a victim mentality when they have no control over those external circumstances?
In reference to your last point of not rushing into things, I can confidently say that being patient and waiting is a sound option. As the old saying goes, "Good things come in their own good time!" Deep down, I want a good woman in my life, but I can honestly say that I am not ready to bring one into my life now. Down the road, I know I will be happy that I chose not to rush. Happy Sunday, Courtney, and as always, many thanks for all the positive work you do with your videos!
A big step is realizing that being happy is something you decide, not something that happens to you. Other people can only "ruin your life" if you rely on other people or outside events to "make" you happy. Once you decide to just be as happy as each given situation allows, there isn't a ton others can do to spoil that.
Amen!
Speak the truth!
I think it's easy to say that men should be using reason instead of emotion to assess whether a woman is a good fit, but the reality is, men are highly visual creatures. We tend to overlook negative qualities when we become blinded by beauty. This is why a lot of men fall victim to getting exploited for foodies and whatnot. There's a subconscious part of a man's mind where he may think that jumping through hoops will eventually win her over. Overriding our primal instincts and desires is way more difficult when we're actually placed in a scenario where lust clouds our judgement.
Every time I’ve ignored red flags I paid a very high price. Very high.
Same here. But no one believes that. I DID the same ignored Huge Red Flags not realizing its so easy to just walk away (at least early on).
Courtney's observation that "Who we choose to be with is a reflection of our emotional development" is GOLD--& equally true for women as well as men.
Been there, done all of this. This video should be Chapter 1 of any dating/relationship bible. Thank you Courtney. You have no idea how true all this is. Will save many good, kind, decent men many years of torment. Great healing and learning for me. Love your channel. Thank you for doing this.
The last point you made was the complete opposite of my experience in the past. A woman broke up with me after a 3 months long relationship because she said I wasn't showing enough romantic interest and wasn't prioritizing her and that she lost interest when she saw that I wasn't reciprocating at her level. She was expecting to move towards marriage within 2-3 months of dating, roughly.
So, I dunno what to think anymore. I always thought, as you say here, that a woman appreciates when the guy takes his time and doesn't jump all in and rush into a super serious relationship. But I've been told the complete opposite by other women in the past. They said that if I guy doesn't do that it's a sign he does appreciate them nor is he serious about dating.
Anyone--woman or man--who pushes for marriage in the first 2 to 3 MONTHS--is NUTS. One should RUN--not walk--RUN away from that person.
HEEELLLLOOOOO??? That had you dodge a bullet. Women wanting to marry quick is because they want the financial benefit of marriage. You apparently wasn't the type of sucker she wanted to lure in. This isn't normal, and will end badly for you. Take your time to get to know someone fully, before such a radical step.
"Stop rushing things" is a tough but good strategy to follow. It sure rang hollow when I was young and saw guys successfully swoop on women who wanted to take it slow with me. Two marriages later. I can assure you that most of my problems came from rushing things and ignoring red flags early on. When you're immersed in ruthless scarcity, it's hard to go slow, but it saves a ton of heartache in the long run.
PS: I outgrew some of the scarcity as I came to appreciate my unique worth and integrity in the world.
Don't focus more than 5-10% of their waking hours on anyone other than yourself and your job, let alone any woman. Myself I've been retired from relationships for 30 years, so I don't suffer from that crap.
At the same time I feel that men go through with dating out of fear.
They’ve seen soo much negative stuff that they devalue themselves even if they are focusing on themselves
Fear plays a huge role in this too
I see this a lot too.
That’s a weak mindset. If you have high standards for yourself and a good self esteem, nothing will stop you and you won’t put up with bs. So men need to value themselves first.
Yeah there's nothing any should be able to do that affects you, only you can feel embarrassed, only you can experience anger, people can't do these things to you, you have to make that choice. Solidify your mental frame and watch how many more people respect you admire you and trust you
Sure, I'll just fake being a Vulcan from Star Trek until I make it.
Your mental frame becomes solid when you can accomplish something worthwhile in the world, not before.
You are absolutely right, when a man is starved of attention any attention seems like good attention but I think its also important to note that what if the man cannot get attention from people he does find attractive and here I mean not not just physically but also intellectually? I think the real danger is for guys who struggle with dating, poor judgement because they cannot determine what will work.
This sh*t happened to me between 2015-2018. I was heartbroken and ruined until like 2023. Here's the story: After plowing through girls left and right from 2006-2015, I decided to stop messing around and date 1 girl. Ignored all the red flags she showed and was more desperate for a relationship than continuing the life I was good at because it was becoming boring just banging girls left and right. It gets boring after years, if you've been there you'll know. My mistake was ignoring the red flags and listening to words and not actions. I did something no man should ever do, settle. So fellas, on you read this, never ever settle, never ever ignore red flags and remember picking a girl for a relationship is much harder and will affect you more emotionally than casually dating. Even after years after the breakup, I have never felt the same since. So trust me, don't rush into the relationship and dont ignore red flags, like this girl says. Best of luck! Hope no one has to go through what I did cause that sh*t was brutal, wouldn't wish it on my enemies
I ordered a tongue scraper due to your influence. Thank you for being a good influence.
Your videos give me so much insight and also calm me a lot, thank you for your work here. It’s definitely not unappreciated.
in grade school we learned FACT vs OPINION and it's a FACT that we STILL have BILLIONS of people in the ENTIRE world and CERTAIN meaning a NON specific number of people did do and/or will ruin lives for REASONS that STILL VARY life VARIES ALL in ALL ESPECIALLY with BILLIONS of people why wouldn't it VARY SERIOUSLY
Great insights, Courtney! Your emphasis on self-awareness, recognizing red flags, and the importance of personal growth aligns perfectly with my coaching philosophy. The reminder that our choices in relationships reflect our own emotional development is crucial. Also, pointing out the significance of actions over words and the need to avoid rushing into relationships is spot-on.
I ignored a huge red flag 2 days after making it official with my ex. I met her parents, and afterwards her mother approached me and said "I know how angry she gets. If you ever need help calming her down, give me a call." At that point early in our relationship I never experienced any anger from her and thought it was weird that her mom brought that up. It wasn't until later on I realized what she meant lol.
Great advice. Knowing your self-worth is key.
Happy Sunday Courtney.
Stay warm and keep yourself warm my friend.
You too my friend!
Not too many women make videos on how to help men get back into the right mindset. Appreciate the support
Because there's getting to be a lot of desperation out there.
that is becasuse a man should NEVER listen to a woman about getting in the right mindset. what is wrong with you? a woman cannot adsivse men. we live different lives.
are you telling me, you do not know you should be working out and making money? learning confidence? this all new? stop it.
You are so comforting and wise Courtney.
Thanks for the awesome video! I always find your tips enjoyable and valuable. Your advice has been instrumental in getting me back into the dating scene in my late thirties. With your guidance, everything feels more manageable and promising.
🥹🤍 it’s my pleasure. I’m so glad I can help!
Thanks for being such a nice lady Court
Please make the video about what changes you have noticed about dating over time. You mentioned it in a recent video and said let you know if we’d like to see that and I’ve been looking forward to it ever since! We want to see it! Thanks, you rock!
My brother definitely needs to know about this for sure. And thanks Courtney for the info.
Real talk, I’ve had multiple women ruin my life at some point (I obviously let them), and although I’ve done plenty of healing and self reflection since then, the anxiety I have toward finding “the next partner” is insanely high.
The only analogy I have is touching the hot stove 4 times in a row, and now it’s up to me to either tell myself hot stoves don’t exist, or to somehow deal with the paranoia of “is this another hot stove or not?”
well this one date i went on, she was asking about children about getting married, about a serious relationship, all on the first date. because i could not give all yes she determined we are not compatible
Sister C out here spitting Facts and Knowledge for the People yet again. Thanks for all you do for this Wonderful World! #MuchLove
You’re so kind! Thanks for being here ❤️
Aside from the advertisement- you are spot on with the facts!!!! Thank you
#1 is me. Ignored compatibility red flags. Got married, had a kid, destroyed friendships, family relationships to make her happy and overworked myself. She became verbally and physically abusive. The divorce was nasty and expensive.
As a married woman of 9 years- I agree with Courtney! ❤😊
Hi Courtney, I'm Paul Jones. I watch your video's, and I learned a lot. I want to thank you for doing these video's. There are a lot of video's on you tube about how to have a successful dating experience. Its over whelming. I work on myself and do the best I can.
Did most of point #1 in 2023, here's to a changed perspective in choosing for actual compatibility in 2024
I must say that the birthday boy is extremely well pleased with the influential star power that you possess. You know how to make the world better. And you definitely know how to activate many others potentials because of the example that you show all the time. Never stop being you and thank you for being such an incredible blessing to everyone whose hearts are touched by all that you do.
I know right now to be honest with my self as i have a learning disabilities and Asperger's syndrome I don't think im ready for dating if im honest with my self Courtney im learning a lot for your videos 💗 keep sharing 😊
So basically, chose your woman wisely. So what about when she leaves your awesome, sane, respectful and beautiful relationship from one day to the next without giving any signals?
I'm an old married guy, and I hit the marriage lottery with the woman of my dreams. I so wish that young men would listen to this woman! She is wise beyond her years and her advice is rock solid. Well done Courtney!
Don't ignore red flags. My brother is in a toxic relationship and it's not good. His life is not on the right track.
1. Early on in their relationship she showed up late to an event and was clearly drunk driving.
2. My brother doesn't know about her finances.
3. She basically can't drive again because of her alcoholism.
4. She's rude and drunk all the time.
5. Now my brother has a DUI and can't drive.
He should have dumped her on number one. It's sad because me, my parents and friends all saw it on number one and he refused to listen to us! I'm kind of at a loss of words sometimes because I don't know my brother anymore, he's not the same person ever since he got in a relationship with this woman.
Thank you Courtney. Your calm wisdom is a sanctuary for us weary travellers
Sometimes we rush things and forget that we have brains, we ignore red flags and focus on beauty
while a good physical look is a plus we should check for other traits in a partner too
however, this might sound contradictory cause someone would argue that the more picky we become, less dates we get along the way
There's a lady that absolutely wow's my heart,wish i was brave enough to tell her she's just like the song, beautiful in my eyes
Thanks Ms Ryan. Painful but true - "... a woman can only ruin your life if you let her..."
Nice video, very wise advice, I really agree with what you say, we often don't realize that we ourselves are our own worst "enemies"
I apologize for my bad English, maybe something was lost in the translation but, what I meant, is that sometimes we sabotage ourselves, choosing the wrong people
Wow!!! Listening to this from a woman's point of view it's in deed so helpful. Plus not only about women.... You open my eyes to see my own flaws. Thank you Cortney ☺️😊
smh. sillly. women cannot advise men. courtney lives a different live than men.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp one thing I know, you have to see your woman point of view. Who else is going to tell you what women expect o want from a man. ?
@@mariodelatorre3211 what she expects is irrelevant. it's what she NEEDS and that is direction from a MAN.
women are like children and make poor decisions based on their feelings instead of facts.
The one thing that really stands out to you on all of the great information you said is what said in the beginning of this video. A women can and will ruin your life if you let her. That is so true and something I learned the hard way. You are in total control of something like that. If you let her do that to you than it is on you not her.
This was really insightful
Thank you for making such amazing content and keep growing ❤😊
Hey Courtney, you best video to date, also the one that would be most detrimental to wife's or girlfriends, and I'm sure passes many off.
Keep bringing it!
If they are even listening or watching.
Amazing message! While we have no control on how others treat us initially, we have the power to stop it from continuing. We also have the ability to ensure we don’t let them “ruin” us. That’s giving another person way too much power and taking on the victim mentality for yourself.
If someone hurts us, that’s a valid experience. But then it’s our responsibility to heal and move forward, learning from the past and not let someone else have the power to win.
Always love your comments 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan have u got advice on guys dating guys? I talk to a guy as friends that I wanna date, I just don't tell him, since we're both guys, I hide my feelings.
Courtney, youve made the big time. Congrats. Please don't abandon us when network tv comes knocking
Easy. When disrespect is apparent, regardless of how small... call it out politely. If it's not acknowledge and apologized for... walk.
Courtney, I can’t say THANK YOU enough for posting this video! I wish more men knew this! I am applauded by the kinds of men that are out there! They bend over backwards for you. They agree with everything you say. They lack proper communication skills. They have 0 confidence and are super needy and desperate. It’s really sad but thanks for making this video! I’m a woman by the way!
Yep. The standards one is a major fact. Lots of men feel like, no check that, KNOW that they aren't allowed to have standards in this world because when they do, the women a lot of the time, NOT ALL THE TIME, but a lot of times insert shaming language towards the man. "You're insecure. You're controlling. You're toxic. You're an idiot." Yeah I say f that. I have just as much of a right to standards as you do, and if you can't accept that, bye Felicia👋🏾
Thanks Courtney. Again you have blessed me with your wisdom.
Clear, concise and to the point. Great advice as always.
If there were a conference that featured Courtney, Sarah Dawn Moore, Sadia Khan, “Dadvocate” Lauren, and Emily King, I would 10/10 buy a low four figure ticket for it.
I wish I could have found you're videos when I was younger. In my 40s I fear it's too late to successfully apply your advice to achieve my family goals
Giving it thought about principals and standards.
A girl i liked never responded to me when i was having general conversation,
Red flag,, totally against my standards
Yep, like vampires, you have to invite them in. Never overlook anything. Never let anything go. Never forgive them for anything. Because every time you do, you give them permission to do something worse the next time. I know that because I overlooked things, forgave things, and let things go. There wasn't a red flag I didn't feel like I could deal with. I made the mistake of thinking I was dealing with an adult that would grow and mature, rather than a child, in constant need of discipline and boundaries. I also realized that I don't have the energy for constantly laying down boundaries and disciplining adult children. So now, if I find myself tempted, I just put another lock on the front door.
I am glad you said walk away when you see red flags. Identify red flags is not good enough.
Easy, just don't date. Been working great for me the last 5 years. No drama what so ever
I can't they are deathly obsessed about ruining my life Courtney!
Courtney I would really appreciate you doing a rundown on narcissism. I ended up in a several decade long relationship that I always thought I could make it work and finally gave up and when I look back and at where things are in the last few years after she's been gone it's very clear she was a narcissist And there's a lot of different thoughts on that subject online. Just would be very curious in what do you think about that
Wow! That's very Nice Courtney! Well done!!! 👍 That's exactly what I want to hear Don't let a Woman ruin your life. That's correct!
And that's exactly what I've been doing for years I don't let any Women ruin my life that's why I'm simply just Walking Away and Going on My own Way.
Thank God for Courtney Ryan 🙌🏾
There needs to be more talk about what makes women actually desirable to men (and I don't mean physically). Every single video on YT is about how to be appealing to women; but what's funny is, even once you get there, the women are still unappealing. It seems like your channel addresses this topic, so it's cool that this exists.
And as always thanks for the info.
This is exactly what i needed to hear
Courtney is 100% right actions do speak louder than words speaking from experience.
Great info, thank you. Cheers.
I've looked for compatibility in my dates now because of Courtney. I've stopped doing any thing more than a coffee first date because if they can't handle sitting and talking with me for 30-60mins. I know it won't work out.
A lot of the times, it's less about who you attract and way more about who you let in your life. You don't have to allow people in your circle that you don't want there, and to act as if you don't have that ability or power is just you playing victim which is popular in our society today.
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Public comment. So true about what you said ❤. Ms Courtney you are down to earth and a blessing to humanity. ❤..continue the great work ❤. Pure soul ❤