HOW WOMEN SPOT MEN WHO WATCH ADULT CONTENT?

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  • čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
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    In this impactful episode of Impact Theory, Sadia Khan and Tom Bileyu explore the profound influence of pornography on men's relationship choices and self-esteem. Sadia explains how porn distorts the selection process, leading to dehumanized views of women and poor relationship outcomes. Tom shares his insights on overcoming societal influences and taking control of personal behavior. Discover how to align your values with your actions and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
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Komentáře • 353

  • @tres5533
    @tres5533 Před 2 měsíci +85

    clickbait. doesn't address topic

    • @johnq.public2621
      @johnq.public2621 Před měsícem +4

      Thanks!

    • @sgayle6689
      @sgayle6689 Před měsícem +1

      Yes. It does. How could you miss it? I heard it clearly.

    • @jobrakai9395
      @jobrakai9395 Před 25 dny

      @@sgayle6689Well when did she address it?

    • @HARwinsOUTagain
      @HARwinsOUTagain Před 25 dny +1

      @@jobrakai93958:03 is when they start to talk about it. Still a bit clickbatey since it doesn’t really address how women “know” of the pron prediction.

  • @nahfhey2766
    @nahfhey2766 Před 2 měsíci +115

    It isn't always your fault you are the way you are, but it's your responsibility to fix it.

    • @_munkykok_
      @_munkykok_ Před 2 měsíci +8

      You tell them, nhafhey! 👍

  • @vishalwarraich9031
    @vishalwarraich9031 Před 2 měsíci +39

    Terrible
    No real insight

  • @slylockfox85
    @slylockfox85 Před 2 měsíci +70

    The part about not reducing whymen to a private part if you have experience with them couldn't be more wrong. It's experience with them that causes you to realize that most don't offer anything outside of their private parts.

    • @thrilla72
      @thrilla72 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Oh sheeet

    • @jacobclayton2954
      @jacobclayton2954 Před 2 měsíci +21

      Eh. I thonks its a spectrum. Some are amazing. Some are not so amazing and some are right in the middle. Just like us men.

    • @RJT-hp8vk
      @RJT-hp8vk Před 2 měsíci

      @@jacobclayton2954

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG Před 2 měsíci +5

      Boom... she "womansplains" too much, at times. Sometimes, she's on point and other times, she's not. This is one of those times she's not.

    • @ravilution
      @ravilution Před 2 měsíci +5

      Is it possible you're doing something that doesn't attract a quality woman?

  • @slylockfox85
    @slylockfox85 Před 2 měsíci +41

    So blames corn industry (typical since YT is mostly men and she can't blame them or risk alienating them) but won't say anything about the whymen who make the corn, even though they are the ones complaining about the alleged ramifications of it.
    Then claims that life is too easy for men and has a more detrimental effect vs whymen. I disagree. We are literally witnessing what happens when life gets too easy for whymen. They believe that they don't need a man for anything other than physical needs and proceed to mate select accordingly.

    • @justtekina6709
      @justtekina6709 Před 2 měsíci

      i don't understand why anyone take her seriously she is exactly like that one femaloe cult leader that women worship i forgot her name but she had a thumbnail im sure you seen saying how to be rich

    • @GoldKingsMan
      @GoldKingsMan Před 2 měsíci +3

      Ya. Did she Botox her cheeks?

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG Před 2 měsíci +5

      Her argument is more about male utility than anything. Women depend on male utility. If they can't use us, then that is a problem that needs attention and fixing.

    • @danielcobbins8861
      @danielcobbins8861 Před 2 měsíci +15

      No mention about romance novels, which is porn for women. Fifty Shades of Gray, anyone?

    • @GoldKingsMan
      @GoldKingsMan Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@danielcobbins8861 Ya I remember news of women wetting themselves at the cinema watching that movie..

  • @pancakerepairman
    @pancakerepairman Před 2 měsíci +15

    what a weird theory. she starts out sounding like she knows what she's talking about then takes a sharp left turn in wtfsville. men (or women) can have a hyperspecific preference in looks without it coming from porn and most men aren't even in a position to be that picky regardless.

    • @therealthiccupstandingciti1674
      @therealthiccupstandingciti1674 Před měsícem

      I think it's a little out of a touch, but I think you could boil it down to "don't choose someone for their looks, choose for personality" basic timeless advice repackaged as.. this podcast xD

    • @Mu_the_Maori
      @Mu_the_Maori Před měsícem

      Wtfsville 😂 oh bruv nice one from Palmerston North City New Zealand

  • @Brad-t7e
    @Brad-t7e Před 2 měsíci +53

    Those women from those countries are looking for older men. You can't blame the men. You have said in the past choose the woman who chooses you.

  • @Dan1ell
    @Dan1ell Před 2 měsíci +23

    The title is a lie.

    • @sgayle6689
      @sgayle6689 Před měsícem

      I heard it clearly. How could you miss it ?

    • @jobrakai9395
      @jobrakai9395 Před 25 dny

      @@sgayle6689You sound like a bot

  • @ponokunishima1
    @ponokunishima1 Před 2 měsíci +62

    That’s one of the reasons why I deleted my Instagram account, so I wouldn’t get sucked in to following all those models I used to.

    • @Anthony-n3b3w
      @Anthony-n3b3w Před 3 dny +1

      Did it work?

    • @ponokunishima1
      @ponokunishima1 Před 3 dny

      @@Anthony-n3b3w Yes it did. The only Adult entertainment I watch, are fashion model week on CZcams and bikini model bios those kind. Once in a while I’ll watch some corn and let one go, but not excessively.

    • @ThrowAway-f6q
      @ThrowAway-f6q Před hodinou

      You get no gf you loose male

    • @ThrowAway-f6q
      @ThrowAway-f6q Před hodinou

      Nasty

    • @ponokunishima1
      @ponokunishima1 Před 56 minutami

      @@ThrowAway-f6q That’s not how you get a girlfriend. I had many just by approaching, not by social media. Did you?

  • @XiloRP
    @XiloRP Před 2 měsíci +40

    Someone tell this dude confidence is the consequence and not the cause of good self esteem, you can't just become confident without results first

    • @thijsjong
      @thijsjong Před měsícem +3

      What if you overestimate yourself all the time. And you are not learning from it. For example you are manic or hypomanic.
      There are other situations that can make you structurally overconfident.
      Some wwomen suck at spotting an overconfident man. They will stay with him while he ruins his and her life while he stays confident.
      J Peterson: women are always right.lol

    • @therealthiccupstandingciti1674
      @therealthiccupstandingciti1674 Před měsícem +2

      but he's right: it is possible to have good self-esteem and still experience anxiety, especially on a biological level.

    • @stevethompson8504
      @stevethompson8504 Před měsícem

      Nope confidence begins as an internal thing derived from knowing yourself irrespective of the world around you .the mistake that crushes it for most people comes as a result of allowing the surrounding world to convince you that theirs something wrong with you ,which then leads to betraying yourself .confidence is not an outwards show even though it leads to being yourself publicly and sometimes in odd ways .all of the shows and displays are just weak people hiding their insecurities ,the tell is in their fear of apologising or of being open about themselves contrary to what so many other weak people would have the masses believe .

    • @zippy_uk1046
      @zippy_uk1046 Před měsícem +1

      True masculinity is a results driven business

    • @joys8634
      @joys8634 Před měsícem

      If you have healthy testosterone and sleep amd diet very unlikely you will have anxiety in these types of situations. Men who jerk off definitely have anxiety though​@@therealthiccupstandingciti1674

  • @user-rt7xw7dj7u
    @user-rt7xw7dj7u Před 2 měsíci +10

    The topics are all over the place..

  • @cristinachaliandroi1369
    @cristinachaliandroi1369 Před 2 měsíci +30

    How men spot women who watch adult content😜(reality in reverse)

    • @cristinachaliandroi1369
      @cristinachaliandroi1369 Před 2 měsíci

      @@tommygunn2782 yeah but almost everything is presented through the men's view of how sex "should" be so .big conversation..

    • @cristinachaliandroi1369
      @cristinachaliandroi1369 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@tommygunn2782 I don't watch tv personally I love CZcams The problem is not tv or porn those are tools There is always an intention behind any usage of any tool and it's true we live in a man's based world Woman's perspective usually is more sensitive.

  • @1091Floyd21
    @1091Floyd21 Před 2 měsíci +24

    Does it address the title of the video at any point?

  • @danielm4949
    @danielm4949 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Sadia, you are correct about your description in regards to problem solving! I find when I challenge myself regularly and develop a routine to solve a variety of issues, my motivation/energy levels increase.

  • @polishpimp4233
    @polishpimp4233 Před 2 měsíci +20

    Sadia is so comically solipsistic in this video. Notice the 3:30 point onward where she laments the lack of tribes and what not. Sure it's a good point but no where is there much of any mention about how women have been spoiled by the ease of life also. I just want women for just ONCE to admit that yes porn is a problem but so is social media and dating apps. The unchecked ego of women is a HUGE problem in the west.

    • @TonyTheTGR
      @TonyTheTGR Před měsícem +1

      Tribing is a product we've destroyed on purpose so it can be packaged and resold as apps, conventions, followings, etc.

    • @LastCall534
      @LastCall534 Před měsícem

      💯

  • @samuelmorse784
    @samuelmorse784 Před měsícem +2

    This woman Sadia is comically beautiful. The clickbait title reeled me in but I stayed for one of the most beautiful women on the planet.

  • @sb-nl6ge
    @sb-nl6ge Před 2 měsíci +7

    SO she thinks the reason older men from all over the world are attracted to young attractive women is because of porn................

  • @jameslaughton7479
    @jameslaughton7479 Před 2 měsíci +16

    Not true what she says about desiring women of different cultures. It is the VALUES of the non-western women that are MOST attractive.

    • @trueindividual1417
      @trueindividual1417 Před 2 měsíci +5

      THANK YOU. We didn't start out being attracted to foreign women. Our minds were closed off to those possibilities because once upon a time we had no NEED to pursue outside America. The social value has gone to SHIT so obviously we have to look elsehwere. Supply & Demand. This ain't rocket science and it's gone over her head, yet she has previous videos elaborating on the issues with Modern American Women so right now this sounds a bit contradictive.

  • @VladislavBabbitt
    @VladislavBabbitt Před 2 měsíci +13

    Why is it always the man's fault?

    • @HHH-pk3to
      @HHH-pk3to Před měsícem

      Dude I've had conversations with women from young to old. They are just not with the accountability. In some parts they agree but not all of it when it's just facts.

    • @VladislavBabbitt
      @VladislavBabbitt Před měsícem

      @@HHH-pk3to You are right. This is the truth.

  • @gordongekko2781
    @gordongekko2781 Před 2 měsíci +29

    Q: How do women spot men who watch adult content?
    A: It's the men who aren't blind.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG Před 2 měsíci +20

      Women watch it more than we do, but they're insistent on demonizing men for it.

    • @abcdefzhij
      @abcdefzhij Před 2 měsíci +1

      Wrong lmao

    • @HOSTILEMGTOW
      @HOSTILEMGTOW Před měsícem

      ​​@@abcdefzhij
      Exactly. Women do not watch porn. If anything, they probably watch lesbian porn because it's super, super, super clear that they're completely repulsed by men at this point.
      There's only a small percentage of women who watch porn, and those are the women that actually like sex.
      But that percentage is microsized compared to men, trust me on this.

    • @spiritualsideup4428
      @spiritualsideup4428 Před měsícem

      @@KtotheG Not true. Unless the woman has a high masculine libido, it actually makes us puke. It is repulsive to women because that's our biological wiring. We're not visual, remember? So if you've encountered women who enjoy it, then consider them MEN as they've bid goodbye to their femininity, natural biology and insticts a LONG time ago. Run from those women

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@KtotheGexactly, and they love jamming those fingers while doing it

  • @gordongekko2781
    @gordongekko2781 Před 2 měsíci +17

    I cannot speak to other cultures, but in America it would be absurd to blame men for choosing the wrong partners since (social media + dating apps) have given women ALL of the options and left most men with none. Also, this will likely lead to the end of our society within a generation or two.

    • @cowboyofscience7611
      @cowboyofscience7611 Před 2 měsíci

      You still have choices.....

    • @bobrew461
      @bobrew461 Před 2 měsíci

      @@cowboyofscience7611
      the choice to go on a dating app, or to not!

  • @stevehartwell1861
    @stevehartwell1861 Před 2 měsíci +15

    100% projection here. Bushido.

  • @danieldefonce
    @danieldefonce Před 2 měsíci +5

    Clickbait title that was not even addressed. I agree with her, but that’s some bullsh*t marketing. Plz do better

  • @rebeccawhite9395
    @rebeccawhite9395 Před měsícem

    If someone is fat, it's the fault of the man who got her pregnant, injured her or is stressing her out. If it is a man, he has no excuse or causation except gluttony or poor food choices.

  • @Sigma4Life972
    @Sigma4Life972 Před měsícem +13

    Corn saved me from divorces, child support , alimony !
    Change my mind

  • @michaelanthony4750
    @michaelanthony4750 Před 2 měsíci +12

    clickbait

  • @zibtihaj3213
    @zibtihaj3213 Před 2 měsíci +13

    3:57 - there are a lot - combat training .... ju jitsu, boxing etc etc ... business ... the individual makes it happen

  • @wildbill562
    @wildbill562 Před 2 měsíci +14

    I've heard Sadia before on this topic, shaming older men for selecting younger women. This smells an awful lot like sour grapes. She is beautiful, but post-wall. She has a valid point about porn shaping our desires, but so does TV, movies, videos and social media. They always promote the most gorgeous people - male or female. Same could be said about women who read romance novels. That becomes their "dream man." Only problem is he doesn't exist. It's pure fiction. Men are smart enough to separate fantasy from reality. Many women are not.

    • @courtneyharris1006
      @courtneyharris1006 Před měsícem +1

      Sadia is the prime example of why you should ignore appeals to authority. She is biased and ignorant trying to play the "im different" game as a last ditch effort to attract a baller with her remaining good years.

  • @samfisher5302
    @samfisher5302 Před měsícem +3

    Is it the porn industry’s fault for women only pre-selecting tall men?

  • @westernstar9121
    @westernstar9121 Před měsícem

    8:56 I live in California and I have never had anything in common with none of the girls that were in any of my schools even after going to college, the reason women hate porn is because it shows how sex is supposed to be done right

  • @Kwm-519
    @Kwm-519 Před 2 měsíci +93

    Sadia has a terrible habit of not listening to other person and consistently interrupting them

    • @timothywilson3253
      @timothywilson3253 Před 2 měsíci +14

      I know, if she was my girlfriend , we'd get into a lot of arguments because of her constant interrupting, the first time she'd cut me off before I finished what I was trying to say , Id have to tell her to stop that in an very salty way, Dont interrupt me !

    • @pscnaxm
      @pscnaxm Před 2 měsíci +8

      THEY all do😂

    • @axpulsion1944
      @axpulsion1944 Před 2 měsíci +12

      She is a narcissist

    • @grumblydoore8551
      @grumblydoore8551 Před 2 měsíci +8

      It’s cause she really thinks she’s right.

    • @xuchilbara21392
      @xuchilbara21392 Před 2 měsíci

      She is the typical "I know better because I am a unique woman with the ability to see behind a human" podcast girl. What has she achieved professionally? Is she a licensed psychologist / sociologist or any other kind of human science? Or is she the type of woman, who thinks she is an expert at relationships, because a lot of men wanted to get laid with her when she was young? Being desired sexually doesn't turn you into an expert. What are her credentials? P. S "my credentials are my life experiences" - don't count

  • @TonyTheTGR
    @TonyTheTGR Před měsícem +1

    That first 45 seconds is everything.

  • @NetWit20
    @NetWit20 Před 26 dny

    I agree that any addiction can take the place of companionship, but unless one experiences the same addiction at one point and kicks it, it's hard for me to believe in their observation of who really has it.

  • @riccardomacedo2898
    @riccardomacedo2898 Před 2 měsíci +6

    He is right. I have high self esteem but I struggle with anxiety that affects my mood to be self confident on many occasions. That sucks! Nothing that a beer can't solve😂😂😂

    • @daisyflower8362
      @daisyflower8362 Před 2 měsíci +3

      It solves it? For how long before you need another beer?

    • @UTFapollomarine7409
      @UTFapollomarine7409 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Your good bro we all have struggles not the same but we all in this dude God bless 🙏

    • @riccardomacedo2898
      @riccardomacedo2898 Před 2 měsíci

      @@daisyflower8362 I was being sarcastic 😁but fortunately just one beer get me in the flow.. and it's good for me, because I do hate beer and alcohol in general. But you are right. Alcoholic drinks do no't solve anything. 😊

    • @riccardomacedo2898
      @riccardomacedo2898 Před 2 měsíci

      @@UTFapollomarine7409 thanks bro🙏💪

  • @judithbatke3169
    @judithbatke3169 Před 2 měsíci +13

    Dear Sadia Khan, you´re right about so many things. Please stop filling your face. There is an egg-shaped bulge on your cheek, that doesn´t belong there. Please know you´re beautiful inside and out und you don´t need to mess with your face. A beautiful woman may age, but she doesn´t loose her grace and wisdom. So please please just let nature do its thing.

  • @focusedallday5620
    @focusedallday5620 Před 16 dny

    Nothing wrong with porn, but the consumer. If porn is getting in the way of basic task like work, eating, hygiene, and relationships then yes you have a problem. Otherwise enjoy it and most importantly use it as a learning tool. Stay Focused!

  • @Bellafiredance
    @Bellafiredance Před měsícem

    I love how he put it the confidence is the byproduct of self-esteem I love this great point

  • @tsdjthesaddestdj2982
    @tsdjthesaddestdj2982 Před měsícem

    i wanted to subscribe, but too many ads prevented me from doing so :(

  • @Raritytuber
    @Raritytuber Před 2 měsíci +4

    Interesting therory about the male selection process. But what then about female hypergamy? Haven't males always been attracted to something beautiful to look at before porn though, and females on the other hand someone strong to protect and support them and their children?

  • @PALE_SCHOLAR
    @PALE_SCHOLAR Před 2 měsíci +2

    Someone said Sadia is a narcissist? DO YOU EVEN KNOW THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD YOU JUST USED??😂😂
    Don't go around using words you saw online carelessly.

  • @oldenoughtoknowbetter5824
    @oldenoughtoknowbetter5824 Před 2 měsíci +4

    misleading title but some good points brought up in here
    I think Porn can destroy because you go home to hundreds of videos of asian and latin women vids instead of going out in the world and finding one for yourself

    • @ibubezi7685
      @ibubezi7685 Před měsícem

      But when do you stop looking? We're told not to lower our standards, yet....

  • @blackblade1286
    @blackblade1286 Před měsícem

    Unfortunately, the topic doesn't get addressed (clickbait). I wouldn't fully disagree with her statements, but life is more complex than how she describes it, therefore Tom's reply is more thought through.
    Being attracted visually to a specific type of women doesn't mean you do not care about other the attributes of women. The visual part is one filter mechanism of many. Like women will have a type of guy they will be attracted to. Some like the blond-haired type, some the dark-haired type, some like the more southern style man, some like the more northern style man, etc. There will exist many different personal preferences and they are not set by watching *orn. They are probably a synthesis of different elements: unconsciously preferring (genetically) some visual traits of your mother (if you are a guy), from your father (if you are a woman), some experiences you had in life (maybe you were in love with a girl during your school time which defined certain preferences).
    I am extremely attracted to very long hair since I was a very small boy. There are stories from my childhood where it gets clear I have that preference. So, a woman will automatically trigger high interest in me if she has nice long hair. That doesn't mean I never dated a woman with average hair because I do not reduce a woman to her hair...still, if a woman has very nice hair, she ticks a box on my side of a certain level of attraction. So, saying such preferences stem from watching *orn is far too simplified. Life is more complex.
    Regarding obesity: I agree it is important to take responsibility and not simply play always the victim, as that is too easy. However, some are in a really difficult situation and just basically telling them: it's your fault, dig yourself out of this deep hole yourself is far too simple. Tom's example is a good one: having obese parents, growing up with being fed the wrong food, maybe have some health-related issues, ..., can have you end up very obese. How do you want to lose weight once you reach extremely high levels of obesity? It's a spiral, like being in quicksand, which will pull you down more and more, the more you try to get out. That is a very hard difficult path you must dig yourself out and it needs iron will. And as most of us know: our hormones will literally fu** our brain regularly to break our diet rules. It is not easy.
    It is always so easy to tell people they are weak, and they should improve if you are acting from a "safe" position. Swap the role and I am not sure if these people still had such a big mouth:
    1) A slim and fit person mocking a very obese person thar they lack discipline. How would that discipline look like if that fit person was 200kg heavier?
    2) Women mocking men for being so di**-driven. How would women behave if they had the testosterone levels of men?
    3) Men mocking women for their emotional craziness. How would men behave if they had the estrogen levels of women?
    4) Rich people mocking poor people for their poor educational choices or ending up with shitty paid jobs. How would that rich person behave if he/she had the same starting point as the poor one?
    I always say to myself be careful how you judge others because you might behave/end up in the same way/position as that other person depending on the circumstances.
    It's healthy to not play the victim card and take responsibility but let's be careful how we blame people.

  • @ironnerd2511
    @ironnerd2511 Před měsícem

    What has hijacked the selection process of men is having the experience of being a respectful, affectionate and considerate provider and protector for a woman to latter in the relationship being exploited, taken advantage of, cheated on and abandoned for no good reason whatsoever. Despite that men continued to long for a wholesome relationship with a woman, but realize they won't allow it because of their own nature. Consequently men come to the extreme conclusion that a woman is just a support system for a v@g¡na. From that point on they just try to obtain the only thing is possible to obtain from them with the minimum possible cost and effort, which is a sexual worker. So, feminist continues to be to blame for the relationship chaos we are expecting day to day.

  • @A_DANK_NUG
    @A_DANK_NUG Před 2 měsíci +35

    Her accent is half her platform

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG Před 2 měsíci

      What about her beauty? The English accent is too ubiquitous to be exotic.

    • @Formula-602
      @Formula-602 Před 2 měsíci

      @@KtotheG j

    • @blesstalks
      @blesstalks Před 2 měsíci

      Probably because you're unintellectual and can't understand her points.

  • @TonyTheTGR
    @TonyTheTGR Před měsícem

    To Tom: In my experience, as one of the Last Men On Earth who have formed and cultivated some form of tribes; in my experience the "fat person" starts off with an untreated or undiagnosed *physical injury,* often to the legs or lower back. This causes a feedback loop where they need to be sedentary and consume a lot of nutrition to maintain/manage that injury. This sedentary nature, combined with the additional problem of mobility begins a snowball where when they finally DO get active, they can only hold it a month or so before that injury is reactivated, and then they have to go back to rest/sedentary state and further consumption.
    It's a terrible wall to be up against when you don't have the physiological support that your body needs. I would say that's a failure of the medical system and old-school "tough your way through the pain" mentality of it and parents at times, before either the person or the food industry.

  • @belmordok3661
    @belmordok3661 Před 2 měsíci +11

    This woman needs to be reality checked by Myron.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 Před 2 měsíci +12

    What Does her face Look like with Zero make up????
    i wonder how much confidence and self esteem she would have total clean face all the way natural

    • @peterbaini8752
      @peterbaini8752 Před 2 měsíci +5

      So true! Make up should be banned!
      The only thing worse is filters

    • @Lisaaaaaaq
      @Lisaaaaaaq Před 2 měsíci +6

      Why do you care so much when all the women you are lusting over all wear makeup 😂

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Lisaaaaaaq because I get tired of hearing sub par XX try to tell me. What we should think of how we should think. When they are not a spring chicken..

    • @peterbaini8752
      @peterbaini8752 Před 2 měsíci +8

      @@Lisaaaaaaq that's what you think but nothing beats el natural. Women think blowfish lips look good but in reality the jokes on them 😆 🤣

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 Před měsícem

      But she's probably tight

  • @Kristy_not_Kristine
    @Kristy_not_Kristine Před měsícem

    It cut off! Where can i listen to the whole conversation?

  • @edb7742
    @edb7742 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Virtually no fat people 100 years ago? This dude has never bothered to look at photos from the 1920s.

    • @polishpimp4233
      @polishpimp4233 Před 2 měsíci

      the average man and is woman is definitely fatter today.

  • @MarinaM-o6p
    @MarinaM-o6p Před 2 měsíci +5

    DO A FORENSIC ON THE MAN’ s COMPUTER AND IT IS ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW …HIS CHARACTER IS THERE ON THE WEBSITES HE IS 👀……

    • @pera.j.andersson
      @pera.j.andersson Před měsícem

      And hers is in the books she read and the Instamodels she follows?

  • @GoldKingsMan
    @GoldKingsMan Před 2 měsíci +3

    She over thinking the physical attraction stuff. Reduced to a vaj..

  • @Pursuit4happiness
    @Pursuit4happiness Před 2 měsíci +3

    Idk what he saying has to do with title yep click bait

  • @user-jg9nj9xk8t
    @user-jg9nj9xk8t Před měsícem +3

    Who punched her in her cheeks?!? got damn!

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 Před měsícem +1

      The real question is who's clapping her cheeks

  • @eeezdee5251
    @eeezdee5251 Před 2 měsíci

    We all have choices, although the circumstances in which we have to make those choices may not be of our choosing.

  • @NealYee-lj2qc
    @NealYee-lj2qc Před měsícem

    Like is drawn to like. I didn't need to go to college to know this. I was taught this in 8th grade.

  • @Diego.Talks.
    @Diego.Talks. Před 2 měsíci +1

    Very intelligent woman and well spoken

    • @JohnSmithEx
      @JohnSmithEx Před 2 měsíci +3

      It doesn't matter how intelligent she is, when the title of the video is a clickbait. I clicked because I wanted to know how women spot men who watch adult content, and learned nothing about it. Isn't it great when persons with shady business morals lecture you about your ethics? Btw I love adult content, I am pretty sure that no woman can spot it, and in case she can, I don't care. I empower myself, without harming anyone else.

  • @srbaruchi
    @srbaruchi Před 2 měsíci +3

    Interesting comparison of porn and food. What holds true for both is that moderate, controlled (to use Tom's word) consumption of both is critical to staying physically and emotionally healthy. If the body and mind are healthy in most ways -- leading to a productive social life -- then periodic excesses of either food or porn should not be a problem. It's not the porn that is disabling young men. It's their reluctance (or inability) to actively pursue, experience, and appreciate real women.

  • @ChillOut1716
    @ChillOut1716 Před měsícem +1

    Both of these two people are so completely out of touch with reality it’s disgusting 🤮

  • @linaj63
    @linaj63 Před 2 měsíci

    Great interview. just an observation. if you suddenly pile on weight and you aren't really sure what's going on, please get a blood test. Certain foodstuffs, if you are intolerant or worse, can lead to weight gain..

  • @rebeccahutchings5536
    @rebeccahutchings5536 Před měsícem

    I think there's been a spell on the word fat and if people are fat we should be able to call them fat or ourselves fat without giving an emotional attachment to it. Whats a word called when you're supposed to develop 5hrough it to the solved problem?

  • @MrBooYa-yd5er
    @MrBooYa-yd5er Před 2 měsíci +3

    I’m so tired of this chick.

  • @hardToSignUpHere
    @hardToSignUpHere Před 2 měsíci +6

    I always thought *mansplaining* was a myth until I heard this guy... 😅😂

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG Před 2 měsíci +2

      She's womansplaining, though... so they're even.

    • @hardToSignUpHere
      @hardToSignUpHere Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@KtotheG nope, it's her area of expertise

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG Před 2 měsíci

      @@hardToSignUpHere How is it not his?

    • @hardToSignUpHere
      @hardToSignUpHere Před 2 měsíci

      @@KtotheG dude, do your own homework!

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG Před 2 měsíci

      @@hardToSignUpHere Why are you mad? I'm curious.

  • @adamz7282
    @adamz7282 Před měsícem

    Porn is not why men find hot women hot.. i don't think porn changed men's preferences so much.. because even if porn didn't exist men would still find hot women attractive

  • @salonez91
    @salonez91 Před 29 dny

    I disagree on the part where she speaks about how adult content effects men. This fixation of porn is stupid as we men are not picky at all even after all these years of porn industry influence on modern men, data tells us men are not picky about how some woman looks. It literally stayed the same how men view sex and how they act on it. Only thing that lacks is men being more educated about what women desire in bed. Thats it. Porn industry just filled a empty gap that can be filled with better education thats it. Its very simple. When i was younger i didnt know only less then 20% women can reach orgasm with only penis penetration. I didnt understand it, no woman i slept with talked about it. So it stayed a mistary for far too long. Thats the key. Porn is just like a bad hollywood movie: stupid, useless, but still somehow enjoyable if you are lonely and relationships are often lonely too.

  • @RollingThunder808
    @RollingThunder808 Před 2 měsíci +1

    It's the growth hormones in our food that is making us fat. I assume it affect the embryo creating GMO humans. Also the puberty age drops.

  • @themanifester1807
    @themanifester1807 Před měsícem

    What’s wrong with single men who watch adult content? Or even coupled men who watch it for inspiration, lol?

  • @EnigmaticMindLLC
    @EnigmaticMindLLC Před 2 měsíci

    1:39 they most likely have. The general public isn't given knowledge of most helpful technology/products until much later.

  • @notreallydavid
    @notreallydavid Před měsícem +1

    HOW WOMEN SPOT MEN WHO WATCH ADULT CONTENT?
    Not a q - so shouldn't have a '?'

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Toxic masculinity came from a study of incarcerated psychopaths. The term has been abused to be used as character assaignation. I t’s use has been the same as you”narcissist” which really Isnt speaking of communal, grandiose, vulnerable F60.81 or icd11 criteria.

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 Před měsícem

      Right, nowadays every womans ex was a " narcissist " which translated, means a man who didn't give in to her every demand, which of course made him selfish and not her

  • @LastCall534
    @LastCall534 Před měsícem

    Modern ideologies, combined with technology such as cell phones etc. and social media. Have destroyed the social interactive dynamic of the world we live in today and thus relationships. It's not a corn thing, although that can be problematic also.

  • @KatherineMerceClay
    @KatherineMerceClay Před 2 měsíci

    Calling a person fat does not help them.

  • @Harmony.faith1177
    @Harmony.faith1177 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I agree with Tom. Unfortunately, the environmental toxins and food is so inflammatory now that it affects the microbiome in the gut and is not only causing obesity but diabetes and chronic illnesses. I feel sorry for people who don’t understand this and deal with weight issues.

    • @chrishamilton4999
      @chrishamilton4999 Před 2 měsíci

      then, why are people living longer lives than ever before?

  • @marjanristeski7536
    @marjanristeski7536 Před měsícem +1

    i have said already that advices of this woman are simply worthless.no man is attracted by personality but we all look for a hot bodies. Internal beauty is one big lye for poor agley women

  • @TylerD288
    @TylerD288 Před měsícem

    Tom, I liked and agreed with everything you said about obesity, but you missed the existence of food deserts, which are an unfortunate reality for some folks. Otherwise, love the content.

  • @porcupinethree
    @porcupinethree Před 2 měsíci +1

    Many times is world u grew up in,,not all people can handle cities as some small towns not all resist digeneracy

  • @stevethompson8504
    @stevethompson8504 Před měsícem

    False .just because a man copes with being alone through passing indulgence in adult content does not mean that he cannot offer comitment or loyalty .we all have needs .the current hype about porn is ridiculous .im not saying that it is good but it serves a purpose but its not enough or real and offers no intimacy which are also needs. I knew before i even knew what i wanted to do for employment ,that i wanted a loving happy family of my own ,and its true that i was briefly married in my younger years and raised my two boys on my own afterwards. Worlds a superficial mess ,but you can blame anything you like instead of searching yourself and saying why are my choices skewed and search deeper. And i still want and search for depth and the same commitment that i always offer but the worlds a mess and many have decided that the passing indulgences are everything .

  • @yoelevan3478
    @yoelevan3478 Před 2 měsíci +1

    how many times have you cheated? 😮

  • @surronzak8154
    @surronzak8154 Před měsícem

    HOW WOMEN SPOT MEN WHO WATCH ADULT CONTENT?, They just open their eyes lmao

  • @toshioikene8200
    @toshioikene8200 Před měsícem

    Have you heard that song, My Type by Saweetie ? Are you sure men are the only ones with the problem? Just saying...

  • @MaitreyaBabaji
    @MaitreyaBabaji Před měsícem

    If you are in the dating pool -- already doing something wrong.

  • @thetruther954
    @thetruther954 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Not your typical lady’s man, you got here Sadia. I liked his note taking technique. “Ok, go on, I just made a bid. Let me write this all down so I can draw out the picture.” Level headed. I hope he does long-term just as well. Not mostly a one night stander. Seems like a very nice guy.

    • @markosimionovic9802
      @markosimionovic9802 Před 2 měsíci +1

      He is Tom Bilyeu, google him 😂

    • @thetruther954
      @thetruther954 Před 2 měsíci

      @@markosimionovic9802 Tom Bilyeu you say? Did I get something wrong? How is that going to help me?

    • @LaciRae
      @LaciRae Před 2 měsíci

      he’s my type.

    • @youngdylan5083
      @youngdylan5083 Před 2 měsíci

      @@LaciRaeCreep

    • @LaciRae
      @LaciRae Před 2 měsíci

      @@youngdylan5083 how so?

  • @Pursuit4happiness
    @Pursuit4happiness Před 2 měsíci

    Ppl with money can solve problems more a lot of ppl without it can’t even with knowledge

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 Před 2 měsíci +14

    I don’t think he thinks she is smart…he keeps correcting her.

    • @ClutchGene
      @ClutchGene Před 2 měsíci +9

      He likes to hear himself speak

    • @lapisletar369
      @lapisletar369 Před 2 měsíci +10

      So does she lol. All these relationship podcasters are grifters and differentiate by a small margin. Sell their BS to naive listeners. This one isn't much different from Pearl, aside of having better looks

    • @dr.akhilmuraleedharan
      @dr.akhilmuraleedharan Před 2 měsíci

      People like when they're listened to.😊

    • @Imagineunicorns_zm
      @Imagineunicorns_zm Před 2 měsíci

      ​​@@lapisletar369 You full of sh*t yourself. How do you say "naive listeners" when you constantly follow their content as well 😂
      You can't always agree with everyone, it's impossible. But you can't always disregard everyone's views, because at some point they might say something meaningful. Hell even the craziest people say meaningful stuff sometimes 😅

  • @jessestanley1690
    @jessestanley1690 Před měsícem

    This is a masculine woman.

  • @jmiller1977
    @jmiller1977 Před měsícem

    What does porn do ? How does it make a man weak

  • @BeiBe42780
    @BeiBe42780 Před 26 dny

    The woman i marry become my sister in resurrection:
    Matthew 22:30
    New International Version
    30 At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.

  • @angelofbliss
    @angelofbliss Před měsícem

    bro women have shifted the culture to what it is now, and they objectify everything and even intimate relationships must be transactional - that is the current culture. i dont think its fair to say men have poor selection when your stuck in a situaton of two choices -- pick anything or get nothing. not to mention all the chameleons in church communities -- so much so that now christians have a high divorce rate..... soo something is hapeing to the women and its not starting at 18 , its influencing them much sooner than that. do a female focus episode ?

  • @universalpanacea6182
    @universalpanacea6182 Před měsícem

    When we leave past lives out of equations, fragments are lost and answers go incomplete

  • @basedpatriotLT
    @basedpatriotLT Před 2 měsíci +1

    Fake title of the video. Thumbs down

  • @mosesruperto7128
    @mosesruperto7128 Před měsícem

    This woman is incredibly hot.

  • @lucidfrontier
    @lucidfrontier Před měsícem

    Hormones and DNA are often at fault for body types I am lean muscular with a very controlled diet but there areas of fat that I will never loose. I know this because I had to stop eating for a long period because I was going into surgery. The fat didn't go away but I lost muscle mass and the fats I did loose was in my face neck hands and feet. There is also psychological reasons for over eating that is often discounted as weak willed. I have too much. I will shutup now.

  • @user-wg3or1tu5y
    @user-wg3or1tu5y Před měsícem

    Why did you hijack to convo to talk about why fat ppl are fat?

  • @mikep11218
    @mikep11218 Před 2 měsíci

    Most men watch that.

  • @KatherineMerceClay
    @KatherineMerceClay Před 2 měsíci

    And it absolutely is the junk food industry.

  • @justinsutherland3606
    @justinsutherland3606 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Don't be too hard on her, she's got some worthwhile insights. Big Pharma, food and Feminism have got a lot to answer for, interesting people seem to be realising it at the same time, awareness of the BS is massively rising atm and that's v positive

    • @polishpimp4233
      @polishpimp4233 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I am tired of people just blaming porno for men's problems. I just with that women would admit that social media and dating apps are warping their minds too.

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay Před 2 měsíci

      Feminism is the reason why your mom isn't pregnant again with her 8th kid, living in a trailer.
      Enough with the anti- women sh*t. It's so boring.

  • @phalynwilliams4119
    @phalynwilliams4119 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Consuming p0rn is a sin. Stop watching it. Develop a stronger relationship with Jesus Christ ✝️ Please develop habits and relationships with people that are more spiritually, physically, emotionally and mentally fulfilling.

    • @corydaughtery
      @corydaughtery Před 2 měsíci +1

      Mind your business pal...

    • @pera.j.andersson
      @pera.j.andersson Před měsícem

      Consuming Jezus Xrist is a sin. Please stop over-indulging consumption of the sinful 8ible, with Songs of Songs, ethnic genocides and the chosen people using slavery.

  • @believer8793
    @believer8793 Před 2 měsíci

    This guy invites her on and talks her ear off.

  • @_munkykok_
    @_munkykok_ Před 2 měsíci +2

    Who even watches?

  • @daisyflower8362
    @daisyflower8362 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Alcohol DOES NOT give self esteem 😂 dafuq.

  • @danouchgarden1675
    @danouchgarden1675 Před 2 měsíci

    I was thinking the same thing today funy isn t it ?
    Easy life makes weak men